I think I turned gay

>>5239073
You could have been lying to yourself then. Or you could be lying to yourself now. Or you could just be misremembering. Sorry, no one really understands how this all works.

Do you like to suck cock?

>>5239097
I don't think I'd be lying to myself now. I'd rather not be gay to be honest.
>>5239099
Yes. I think so. I haven't so far in my life.

You're probably bi and will swing back again in the future and leave your boyfriend at the time.

>>5239206
Is this bait? If not, my life is ruined

>>5239255
Why is your life ruined?

>>5239277
I will never be able to be in a long term relationship

>>5239282
Uh, no? Bi people don't live in a constant state of flux and dissatisfaction. You'll figure out who you want to be with.

>>5239306
Don't lie to him. Yes, bi people live in a constant state of dissatisfaction. It's better that you know the truth now.

iktf. For most of my childhood I remember having crushes on girls, and sometimes guys, although I was pretty heavily in denial. I was like that through most of my teenage years until I finally came out as bi. I dated a few girls in my early 20s, but then I had my first LTR with another guy at 23 and I suddenly felt no attraction to women anymore. It wasn't even like being with my boyfriend killed my attraction to other people. I still found other guys hot. But I would try to look at straight porn and I couldn't hard at all. Vaginas started looking weird to me and all I felt was apathy. I still think women are kind of cute, but idk if I could do another relationship without dicks. I just like it dating guys a lot more.

>>5239073

You're caught in a circle of self-deception.

You'll fit in pretty well here.

>>5239073
well, 5 years ago when you were 13-14, you were a wandering hormone bomb, anything remotly sexual would have turned you on.

>>5239364
I'm afraid that something like this might happen to me someday. 23 now, my attraction to women has been consistently very strong throughout my life, but I go through periods where my attraction to men is greater or lesser, and right now I'm in a period where it's at its strongest ever. I'm afraid that one day I'll find men more interesting than women. I'm ok with being bi, but I really don't want to be gay. I know part of that is that we live in a homophobic society, but part of it is that I love the way my sexual experiences with women have made me feel, and I don't want to lose the ability to feel that. Even if I one day found greater sexual pleasure from men, I know the flavor wouldn't be identical.

did you always have a very weak relationship with both of your parents?

in the recent years did your relationship with one or both parents change?

accompanying your change in sexual preference did you see the world in a different way too?

ask yourself

>>5239364
this is how I feel now! I am only interested in girls as friends.

>>5239504
I think in my case I was always strongly attracted to men and I just had to expose myself to that to figure it out. I think sexual orientation can shift for a variety of reasons, but it isn't always so pronounced.

Is there any particular reason you feel like it would be a great loss to shift away from women? I mean you say the 'flavor' isn't identical, but that doesn't mean it would be better or worse, right? Just different. Personally I find dating guys a lot easier. But I try not to base my self image too much around who I'm fucking. Which isn't to say that you do. Maybe think about why you're so desperate to hang onto this particular version of yourself. Is it so important to you because its who you've been for so long?

I had a lesbian friend who went through the same thing. She came out as a teenager, dated nothing but women for years and then met a guy she really clicked with at 28. But it was hard for her to accept her bisexuality because she had never dated guys and had no idea how to handle being attracted to men or being in a relationship with one. She still had all these life experiences surrounding being gay and it felt like a piece of her was dying and being taken over. She's learned to accept it now, but I guess what I'm saying is you're not the only one.

>>5239603
You know, actually, I do base my identity on who I want to fuck. I'm an artist, and all of my content is both highly sexual and intimately tied to who I am as a person if my orientation shifted, it would be a rethinking not just of who I take to bed, but who I am as a person, at least in large part.

But let's be honest, any reason I could give is seconday to the main one, which is, who actually wants to be gay? Even in modern western countries, it's still weird and different, it's still not business as usual.

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>>5239073
who ish thish shemen demon

I had the same thing. I was attracted to guys basically my whole life. My only experience with a girl before my late teens was playing doctor when I was about 10.
Then at 16 I started questioning, 18 I knew I liked girls, and at 20 I knew I didn't like boys anymore.

>>5239206
>>5239255
Bait or delusion

>>5240394
>press google button
>gives you the name of the actor
holy shit sean get with the times