1) Your country 2) Is it normal to be a 20+ old virgin there

>>70588933
It's normal for me
I don't give a fuck what anyone else thinks

>dkn ingen fv

Canada
No, people will think you're a weirdo(you are tho)

>>70588933
Murka
I honestly don't think so. He my special needs friend got laid by the time he was 18 but if we're going by 4chan standards then yes.

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America
No

>>70589039
Las Vegas is a short (relative) flight away my brother. Go get you some.

>>70589010
>>70589023
>>70589039
Maybe this is why Sverigetråden seems so normie? Because 4chan is only for virgins and in order to be a virgin loser in your countries you must be an autist but in Sweden it's just enough to be a 5/10 white male.

>>70589102
>white male

>It's another cuckpost

[Bored pepe]

>>70589159
It's not a cuck post. Girls in Sweden don't really like Swedish men, it's a known fact.

>>70589227
>his thread is a thinly veiled cuckthread

roligt

1- le long country
2- nope, 20+ virgins get mocked

>>70588933
>Most girls prefer to have casual sex/fuckbuddies instead of commited relationships before they become old. Only the most attractive men are able to have these and I know plenty of Chads with 5 or more sidechicks. The result being a massive amount of lonely men.
that's realy sad, fuck...
I wouldn't like the situation you have there.
I've lost my virginity on my 27, so I consider being 20+ virgin is absolutely ok though.

>>70588933
I honestly don't know almost all my friends are christians and I don't talk to normies but when I was in school as far as I know just about all my friends were

>>70589227
[Doubly bored pepe]

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>>70588933
finland
yes if you're IT guy like me

>>70588933
1 holland
2 not really, it'd be seen as incredibly pathetic by most people around that age, women are generally passive when it comes to sex/romance. Only the extremely impotent are virgins by age 20

1. Straya
2. No, even the biggest losers among us get pushed into losing their virginity at a young age.

I guess I slipped through the cracks.

>>70589274
How can you disagree? Everywhere I go I see Swedish girls with foreigners and lonely Swedish men. A typical friday night most Swedish men are inside playing computer games while the girls are out dancing and getting fucked by immigrants.

>>70589714
It's not even subtle anymore

Did you really make this thread just to turn it into a cuck thread? What is with some peoples obsession on 4chan?

>>70589469
I'm an IT guy too. There was this super qt chick in class.

>>70588933
no but nobody bothers me because of it, everyone can see I'm ugly and weak so everyone knows I never had a chance

>>70589867
that the rest 79 guys in class with try to desperately bang

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>>70588933
Brazil
Obviously, no

is it normal anywhere?

>>70588933
I used to live with very religious guy, he was like 24yo and had a fiance that he didn't live with, I'm betting the first time he slept with her is on her wedding night, must have been a real shock to the girl cause this guy has the hairiest body I've ever seen, whole back covered in hair it was really disgusting, poor girl

its not so uncommon here

>>70588933
usa
no

Being perma virgin is the same as people that refuse to change their diet and walk for 30 minutes a day to lose weight.

>>70593109
what does that mean

>>70593472
he means they refuse to put in the most basic effort to get what they want

>>70593522
bit of a blanket statement imo

>>70588933
Ireland

>>70588983
What this guy said, I'm a virgin and couldn't give less of a fuck

>>70593587
But it's true though

If the people who have so much difficulty getting laid talked to one girl for every 5 pepe pictures they posted they'd have gotten laid at least a dozen times by now most likely.

>>70588933
>cunt
>no

Most girls and guys these days get laid at 16 here

M-my day will come eventually right

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I would say yes despite the normie peer pressure but I think there is a point were the number decreases significantly, probably around 25 it suddenly becomes weird.

No but it's a lot more common than people are willing to admit.

>>70593522
>get what they want
Funny how you normalfags will put sex on a pedestal.

>>70593655
this is the sort of reply i expected

you say that like its easy for everyone to converse with strangers or have opportunities to meet them as it is for you. and probably assume that everyone whos like that spends all day inside.

>>70588933
1. Britain
2. Nah, but I am one

>>70593472

It means it's relatively easy for anyone with average and even below average looks to lose their virginity, by simply having enough self confidence and self awareness to do simple things such as, dress in clean simple clothes, shower, comb hair, brush teeth, and use deodorant. Have two hobbies with one of those hobbies taking you outside of your home preferably doing something active, it can be as simple as running or riding a bike or yoga.

If you know you're not the most handsome man, but the goal is to build confidence and experience with women, and simply lose your virginity take baby steps. Stop trying to approach the most attractive women you see during the day, approach the other girls the average looking ones that aren't ugly but they don't have men constantly hitting on them. Realize that women are just as unsure and nervous about approaching men than what most guys are.

I promise you, anyone can lose their virginity doing those simple things.

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these threads makes me always feel a little bit better about myself
25 here

Yes, most of my med-school were virgins when we started out, and people don't date that much. I know 10/10 girls who lost their virginity at 22. It gets a bit weird at 25, though.

>>70593888
>dress in clean simple clothes, shower, comb hair, brush teeth, and use deodorant.
Do all of this daily and I'm still a virgin

>>70593781
>Funny how you normalfags will put sex on a pedestal.

Abnormalfags seem to put it on a pedestal too if they keep making threads

>>70593951
this

it's such normie bollocks advice

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>jus b ur self brah

>>70594040
Well unlike them, I don't think sex is all that important and if I wanted to be sexually satisfied I'd throw up some fap material and get to work.

>>70588933
Flag, ya big dummy
It sort of is, a lot of kids start fooling around in highschool/ really get into it in college. The exceptions, of course, are religious weirdos and autistic weirdos (like me). However, at 24 I finally got laid and we've been dating for like 8 months now. It's not all its cracked up to be - fun but just another thing to put effort into

>>70593951
>>70594047
>>70594089
Gave up even before trying :^)
LOW ENERGY, SAD! :^)

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>>70594169
>just try brah, works every time for me ;)

>>70594169
I'm not going to beat myself over being a virgin Timo

there is nothing wrong with being a virgin but we live in extremely sexed up era where having sex before your sixteens is expected

i lost mine at 24 and i was thinking the girl was going to make fun of me but she was glad of being someone first actually.

>Sweden
>No

Your circle of friends are just losers, the vast majority of 20 year olds are not virgins.

Don't get me wrong, I'm a virgin, but I'm not normal either.

>>70593951

and you ignore the rest of the advice...

Just like I said in the first post about people not wanting to change their diet and walk for 30 minutes, there's ALWAYS excuses with you lot.

>>70594169
Your insults mean nothing despite what you seem to believe.

>>70593888
this is honestly like satire to me at this point

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>>70594089
yea bro, it totally works for me

>>70593888
>by simply having enough self confidence
>simply
>having enough self confidence
>simply

You don't understand, anon. You don't get it at all, and you never will.

>>70594326
>Change their diet
I'm relatively underweight

>Walk for 30 minutes
I go downtown nearly once every 2 days

>>70588933
having numerous fuck buddies is 80% to do with your personality imho. so long as a guy can make a girl laugh persistantly, there's literally no reason she'd say no to fucking them if she's single.

>Brazil
>nope nope nope

I'm 23 y/o, and I managed to kiss a girl for the first time last year, it was a french qt3,14. In total, I kissed 4 girls, but I don't really care about sex, I just did it to prove to myself I could get a girl, and I improved my self-esteem.

I don't really mind being a virgin, I think it feels way worse when you feel like you're not capable of being with a girl. Obviously I don't tell people about that.

>>70588933
Norm here is that you must marry before.

>>70594369
You realized he wasn't born that way. He worked to have that body and it didn't happen over night.

>>70594445
This is bullshit. I can make women choke to death from laughing and they still won't fuck me.

>>70588933
Get back to /r9k/ please, you'll be happier there... or more miserable if that's what you want.

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>>70594619
of course I do. I realize that extremely hard work and dedication

>>70594669
/r9k/ is full of underage children that put too much value into being in a relationship(Without trying to get one).

>>70593728
This

>>70594642
i guess you aren't even slightly above average in looks then.

>>70594874
No, I'm not. It comes down to >be attractive, after all.

>>70588933
>work whole day for pennies
>come home and open up /int/ to unwind
>see this thread
>get reminded that you're a genetic waste
Thanks /int/ you got me down again, I'm gonna get drunk

>>70594926
well i did say 80% personality, 20% looks

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>>70594926
>>70594376
>>70594329
>>70594267
WRONG

>>70588933
1. Hong Kong
2. Yes, there are many all-boys and all-girls schools which means a lot people get into their first relationship in university.

>>70594376

Self confidence comes from working on yourself and believing that you're capable. and showing yourself that you're capable. Even some of the most attractive people can lack self confidence.

>>70595025
The fact that you're wasting your time trying to annoy virgins on 4chan tells me that you have some social problems of your own.

>>70588933
>sexual liberalism and feminism is the reason im virgin
cmon lad, dont say that

>>70595146
Yeah, no shit sherlock. But that doesn't mean it's a "simple" thing to get.

I've been getting closer, I'm approaching my goal of having passable enough self confidence to be able to take a stroll around town without dealing with crippling anxiety for the rest of the day, but it's taken four years.

That's not simple. Don't pretend you understand the mental state of people when you've never been there yourself.

1. flag
2. no, but 21 is the limit

>>70594040
Canada poster is smart

>>70595309

Crippling anxiety is different than just being a NEET that refuses to apply themselves. You never said anything about that, that's more of a medical (mental health) problem but even then there's treatment, and as you've already said, way to work on fixing it through practice.

>>70588933
USA USA USA
yes

dont feel bad, swedenanon, my dad said even in the 1960s swedish women wanted to sleep w non swedes. dont know why.

>>70588933
Everyone I know (I guess) aren't virgins, I never really tried to get sex with a girl in my entire life and I've only waited... I'm still waiting for a girl but I think I have to do the big step. I don't know how it works in your country but here money are important in a relationship mostly in one night relation.

>>70595491
Why do you think the majority of neets are neets, anon? What do you think neet life does to a mind?

US
It's somewhat common

>tfw you want to enjoy 4chan but you keep running into so many weirdos here.

ITS WEIRD, OKAY!???

>>70595725
stay on facebook then

>>70595702
>somewhat common
where do you live, anon?

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>>70595762
I can't faceb0ok. Its literal shi*.

France

Not unheard of. I lost mine at 20, most of my normie friends around 16 to 18. After 20, people might find it a little weird, but I don't think they'd judge you too harshly for it.

Honestly, I'm glad I waited until I was in a serious, stable relationship. It's pretty depressing to hear my friends talk about their fuckbuddies they don't really care about and hundreds of exes.

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>>70588933

Being a virgin over 20 is not normal anywhere. You must be extremely ugly and autistic

>>70595976
>it's the autistic greek from /pol/ obsessed with /r9k/

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>>70594326
>tfw never been fat or underweight
>tfw never been a total shut in
>tfw friendly and polite
>tfw average height and ok looking
>tfw smart
>tfw still KHV

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>>70596043

>>>/r9k/
>>>/r/eddit

>>70595769
Kansas. I know multiple people including myself who are khv and 20+. Not a majority but it's certainly not uncommon.

>>70596156
Not an argument, fuck off Stavros.

>wizard in one month
I'll never give up the power once I'll get a hold of it
Have fun with your tfw no gf while I become a cool lightning/fire elementalist

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>>70596370
>>wizard in one month
Nice

>>70594445
i can confirm this
my best friend is an average guy and has 6 fuckbuddies since he became a leftist

>>70595701

Not from anxiety, I don't think most NEET cases have anything to do with anxiety or even depression. There are people out there with major depression and anxiety, that still manage to live "normal" lives minus their mental health issues.

It's more of a lack of mastering your personality type and being lazy. I'm not a social man at all but I've never had problems talking to people and being congenial enough to have friends (or a girl friend) and be invited out. Even as an awkward, scrawny teenager that rarely talked.

>>70597097
I think they are. People who for one reason or another does not function at all with others, sometimes it's fear of rejection, sometimes it's deeply rooted anxiety, sometimes paranoia, and so on.

I think the lazy fuck who just wants to sit on his ass because he's a sociopathic asshole who feels zero guilt being a leech is a tiny, tiny minority.

DO NOT REPLY TO KEKBREVARTRÅDAR

>>70596118

Okay...it's about applying yourself remember when I said

>Realize that women are just as unsure and nervous about approaching men than what most guys are.

Sometimes you have to make the first move. Have you ever actually asked anyone out or made it known that you were interested in dating them?

Also internet dating is a thing, typing is easier than talking, when you actually meet it's about pacing yourself, be patient.

Hot, passionate, sex or relationships you see in movies or novels are rare, most people aren't living those lives.

>>70589000
>stk ei töttö-öttöä

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>JUST B CONFIDENT BRO
>JUST ASK HER OUT MAN

fucking normies, when will u learn

>>70597349
>>70597454
>>70597529
>>70597599

Stop being a sperg. Here's your (you).

>>70597631
t. normie

No, but I don't want it anyway. Bigger losers (never employed, ugly, dumb, highschool dropouts) got laid with chicks far better then them simply by focusing all their energy on it, guess I am low test or some shit.

>>70597377
I hear that it's apparently possible to successfully meet girls in your day to day life; you don't have to explicitly be at a bar to do it. I do go out occasionally, but I usually find it exhausting.

How do I meet girls as a uni student who just transferred last semester and is involved in organizations and stuff? It seems that doing so violates 20 different social boundaries and runs the risk of being branded a creeper or weirdo.

>>70599132

Patience is the key, being honest and clear about your intentions, and not being afraid to ask for clarity if you think a relationship could be more.

Don't try to hit on every woman you meet. I think the creeper or weirdo bit comes in to play when multiple people can confirm it, and even before the internet words spread fast. Gently asking one girl out and gracefully accepting her saying no doesn't turn you into a creeper, especially when you're been known to be professionally amicable.

>>70588933
Flag
No its not. Even if you are the biggest loser you normally get pushed into it by your friends (if you have them) at age 19 max like that aussie said
That being said, it is more common than before

>>70600016
That all sounds good, but I've been struggling to build adequate rapport, and I'm not sure how much I actually need to make it seem less weird. I guess that's where the patience part comes in though. I've spent the past year building my self esteem up, but breaking high school and /r9k/ conditioning is proving difficult.

Also, is it really that weird to start talking to girls in your classes and club meetings provided that you don't know them that well? I've thought about just biting the bullet.

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>>70588933
>Sort of yes these days, I'm an average guy and so are all my friends and most of us are virgins who can't get laid and those who do get laid do it with Asian girls
Are you me?

>>70602665
>Also, is it really that weird to start talking to girls in your classes and club meetings provided that you don't know them that well?

Nope not at all, remember that not every person you meet will be receptive to chatting, don't let it discourage you though, there are millions of other women out there that want to talk.

>I guess that's where the patience part comes in though

Exactly, also if you feel like you've been talking to a person for a person long enough to, and just as you said, building adequate rapport, don't be afraid to invite them out to do something, even f it's something like going to play, watching a film, playing ultimate frisbee, or making a supply run to walmart or target, anything really.

> I've spent the past year building my self esteem up, but breaking high school and /r9k/ conditioning is proving difficult.

I'm sincerely congratulating you on the work and effort, that's all it takes, is getting up and doing it instead of complaining and arguing against the advice. It starts to become second nature the more you do it.

>>70604248
>talking to a person for a person long enough to

Talking to a person for a long enough time.