Reposting since it was deleted for free, and I need input now.
>been dating a Chinese girl for about three months
>knocked her up
>do the right thing and ask her to marry me
>she says yes
We are meeting with her "very traditional" parents tonight to tell them,and I
>have no money
>am not Chinese
Am I as fucked as the stereotypes say I am?
Any Chinese anons able to help me out with what to expect?
Meeting is in 4 hours.
>>67117057
Thank you, you have been most helpful.
Me sho sary, me fuki yo dogtha
Me yo nu sunni
Makey goodie dadi to ya dogtha
>>67116994
Do her parents know already? I would really consider abortion. Have her fly over to the USA if necessary. Do you love her? Where will you live? Is a future between you two at all realistic?
Why didn't you use protection you fucking retard?
>>67117352
>Do her parents know already?
No
>I would really consider abortion.
Not really an option, we talked about it but abortion doesnt sit well with either of us.
>Have her fly over to the USA if necessary.
We are both in the states, as are her parents
>Do you love her?
I don't even know.
>Where will you live?
My family owns a farm, I guess we would go there after school if I can't get a better job elsewhere.
>Is a future between you two at all realistic?
It kinda has to be at this point.
>>67117827
>we talked about it but abortion doesnt sit well with either of us.
Enjoy your shitty life you dumb cunt
Should have wrapped your willy
>>67117227
this is why I chose virginity
>>67117594
I did, nothing is 100%
>>67117827
>We are both in the states, as are her parents
Come again? They're just Americans then? Then what's the big deal?
>I don't even know.
Bad idea to just go on with it then. Your life is ruined.
>>67117827
>abortion doesnt sit well with either of us.
but fucking up your lives is better?
are you even 18 yet
>>67117882
Why doesn't she take the pill?
Why didn't you get a Plan B right after?
you sound absolutely stupid and I am hoping that her parents will force her to cut contact with you.
>>67117946
>Then what's the big deal?
1st gen chinks are insane
>>67117946
>what's the big deal?
Because they are Chinese? They came over here 17 years ago, it's not like they were born and raised here.
>Bad idea to just go on with it then.
As compared to what other options? Running out on her and sending a check every month? Disappearing and letting my kid grow up with out a dad?>>67117962
>Why doesn't she take the pill?
>Why didn't you get a Plan B right after?
Because we are fucking retards, is that what you want to hear?
>>67118328
Just abort it. It's not fun, but it's the best option. If you marry her, you will probably go through a nasty divorce and you'll still end up sending a monthly check.
You tell her straight up: "I don't want to have a kid, I you want to keep it then that's your choice alone, but I don't want any involvement".
>>67118328
>Because we are fucking retards
I already know that, just want to hear why you didn't.
How old are you?
I bet the parents will threaten to kill you, force her daughter to cut contact but still get your child support bux.
Congrats, you mongoloid.
>no car, no house, no job
>shooting yer shit up a chink snatch
>mfw
>>67118595
There's no reason why you have to give the dude a hard time.
Buy some traditional mongolian robes and make them scared and play this
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=u1sFQxJgq_A
>>67118695
There is, he can serve as an example to the other autists here
>>67118696
How is the second season of that?
>>67118790
i dunno i dropped it cuz it was getting kinda shit, the only thing it got going on is the costumes and setting
>>67118595
>How old are you?
I'm 21 she's 20
>no car, no house, no job
I have a car and a job and an apartment. I'm just a college student with no savings.
here op i got the anwser to your problems
enjoy supporting a wife a baby and freeloading "traditional" chinese grandparents on no money. I mean, it is what it is, maybe american chinese are different and won't see you as a worthless meal ticket. I suppose it's their fault for raising a loose daughter though
>>67118892
>I drive a 1997 civic and live in a rented apartment while working as a delivery guy and finishing my furry sciences degree
i am sure they will welcome you with open arms
>>67119001
Nothing wrong with driving a 97 civic desu
>>67119001
>95 f150
>rented apartment
>work as a farmhand
>studying animal science
It's not like my life is a train wreck you stupid kraut. Up until I got hit with this everything was going well and I was on track towards making 6 figures a year.
>>67119382
>95 f150
>>67119563
What's wrong with my truck? It runs like it just came out of the factory and isn't even rusting.
>>67119775
I just wanted a (You), I drive a shitty '96 Ford Ranger
Op you are going to be fine it's not that big of a deal.
Study hard and work hard life finds a way.
>>67119382
Good then. Tell them you're on the track to earn 6 figures a year when you're done studying, and that you'll "Study hard and work hard" as said by >>67120199
Make sure you look like you're strong willed and dependable.
>>67116994
>Giving birth to an hapa
You know what you have to do
Thanks for the advice everyone. I'm going to her place to tap for a bit before we head to her parents.
If this thread is still up when I get back, I'll post what happens.
>>67120992
>come to get advice on what to do about your pregnant gf
>get told to abort the kid and forget it
Make another thread when you get back
>>67120992
If this thread dies by then, I would still like to hear from you. Can you make a new one tomorrow?
Good luck
>>67118892
is she one of those fundie christian ones who don't believe in abortion?
also, i hope you have a good major or else you are fucked by debt.
>>67121098
>is she one of those fundie christian ones who don't believe in abortion?
It's not just fundies m8