What's the difference between "aggressive" and "assertive" when guys tell you they want you to be in control?
There's a couple bottoms i've hooked up with that ask me to be in more control. 1 of them i haven't talked to in a while, but he's hot af and he's become a real cumslut. he wants be to be in more control, but we've only texted since we started talking again and he is the one that would be hosting. How the fuck am i supposed to approach getting over there and fucking his brains out?
If not to answer my specific issue, maybe some hints on how to be assertive and in control without being aggressive and off putting.
Gonna dump some stuff i like until then
>>1513977
so fucking hot. I feel like I never see american (bud light) guys with uncut cocks.
>>1513974
Control him. For instance, wrap one of your arms around his neck so he can't move.
>>1513979
oh fuck he is hot
>>1513974
its hard to articulate if you arent naturally dominant, i do all this naturally, but i guess you can act/force it too:
-hold them in place more firmly
-call them a slut/bitch while fucking them
-pull their hair a little
-spank them while fucking them
-bite their neck a little
also tell them to shut the fuck up if they tell you to go slower/easier etc.
>>1514032
how do i be controlling while texting though?
>>1517322
be assertive, tell him you are horny and to come over, dont use words like please or emoji's
tell him to stop being a cocktease if he is teasing/denying you, just treat him like a fleshlight/inanimate object
fleshlights shouldnt talk back to you or tease
>>1517326
This
>>1513974
he's holding a crack pipe in his right hand? lol wtf?
>>1519870
crackpipes are glass
that is obviously for marijuana