Child Raising Philosophy

Shut the fuck up

>>1831971
I am not meming, I am genuinely concerned.

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>Are single-mothers the most dangerous thing to a young male
yes

>>1831968

It depends.

Single moms with kids become more aggressive. It's a behavior that's adapted from code made when solitary predators had to fuck, leave each other, and find a safe place to shit out the baby.

Lonliness in women produces aggression and anger in women. Especially when they have the memorty of "that bastard" who caressed them and told them that the world was thiers.

Fucking humans.

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I was raised without father, never feel any problem with it. There are definitely more dangerous things for children that should be considered for sure like truly dysfunctional families for example. I am sure that shit father and shit mother is much worse for child than just a good single mother.

>>1832971

while single dads are probably a lot more competent and geniunely loving than single moms. They faught a system rigged against them and won.

If women had to fight harder to keep their kids, they would probably value them more. When the state simply gives the kid to the mom as a default, the mom loses the sense of "skin in the game".

But I grew up in bad places with bad people.

But talking about danger, the worst is when the parent ignores the child and ignores teacing them relevant skills at life.

I had to 'till 25 to switch to a diet that didn't make me feel retarded and fat (keto). I had to wait 'till 28 to drive a car. I had to wait 'till 31 to actually seduce a girl.

The most important thing about a parent is what skills they teach. My father just somked pot and watched TV, expecting me to generate behaviors and actions ex nihilo.

It relies on the environment. Notice that black boys of single mothers tend to grow up as delinquents during their youth, and white boys of lower class of single mothers tend to become meth heads and trashy people during their youth, while white and asian boys tend of upper-middle class of single mothers tend to become betas and neets?
Don't think I'm accusing this as a racial thing, but simply how groups of people tend to get their attitudes change by how they tend to try to stick with others of the same group. Don't mind the perceived /pol/ jargon I'm using either, for it's perhaps the most concise and honest manner I can use in this circumstance.

>>1831968
Abusive caretakers are the most dangerous thing. After not having any caretakers at all, of course.

>>1831968
This isn't definitely not going to be woman hating /pol/ thread

>>1831968
It's better to have two parents regardless of gender because if one is completely cray the child can rely on the other. I don't think single MOTHERS are a problem, single parents in general are.

>>1832985
>expecting me to generate behaviors and actions ex nihilo.

one way or the other this describes most generations from 85 on

>>1833076
What happened in the 80's that made parents so shit?

>>1831968
>Are single-mothers the most dangerous thing to a young male

No, ideology is

>>1833098

good question... maybe it was the 60's?

i remember groving up in the 90's was confusing as fuck, no guidelines, no focus, no point to anything, no real authority, i cant remember a time when i wasnt nihilist, even before i knew the word, i genuinely believed, in hope, that there would be some nuclear war by the time im 30 so wed all be done with the crap

>>1831968

Single mothers are fine, but most "single" mothers are serial monogamists who move from relationship to relationship, and this instability can be detrimental.

Single mothers who are actually single, or who remarry only once, are no worse than single fathers. But ofc nothing beats an intact family.

>>1833098

Self-help books. People are basically idiots, they love any kind of magic "instant fix" scam, and the dumb and wrong ideas these books often (always?) contain percolate out into society. The 80's was the "self-help decade", the economy was skyrocketing and it seemed like anyone could make millions, self-help books and VHS tapes proliferated like never before or since.

>>1833293
This. But the 90's had some rad aesthetics and great cartoons, wouldn't trade it desu

Actually theyre worse for females, men are more apt for independence and will usually try to take on the role of a father or just ignore the mother entirely as if they are never there. The dangerous thing about this is they feel as if their mother is useless or they have equal/more authority to them and can get into criminal activity feeling as if they know what theyre doing.

>>1831968
I was raised mostly be my mother, seeing my dad every second weekend. She failed to each me a single life skill. I am being serious. Literally everything I know about being an adult came from my dad and stepmom. Furthermore, she lied through her teeth to me about my dad's character, fucking up that relationship completely. And she stole from me. And was completely irresponsible with money. which tied into the stealing. And so on.

She was basically a middle-aged child. No sense of responsibility and a lot of aggression, coupled with a belief that she was always right, no ability to discipline, and tried to buy affection from me and my sister with money she did not have.

Not sure if it's a single mother thing or just her being a shit parent though. Needless to say, I don't talk to her anymore.

>>1833345

i loved the cartoons, loved the movies, the early computer games, but now when i think back they realy did more harm than good

maybe being raised on the simpsons and heroes of might and magic wast realy the best possible option

maybe if someone actualy took some time to teach me discipline and focus my life could have been different

but somehow my parents didnt know what to do about the fact i spend my whole free time passively staring at a screen or playing strategy games for hours every day

and then we got internet and i found free porn

>>1833383
Same, still, I am happy it was that rather than that competitive suburban culture that essentially surrendered the family unit to external pressures other white people seemed to get into. I think the perspective it ultimately gave me has benefited me; as well as giving me a pretty good conception of what parenthood is and how to help educate and encourage people. Besides we're so shaped by our upbringing in ways we can't fathom to think of anything else is to consider a different person

>>1832983
>nothing wrong with you
>posting in /his/

>unsuccessful virgins blaming other people for their failures while having visions of grandeur

& Humanities was a mistake.