Chastity Thread

>>1097783
damn that cage is nice. what model? i wanna try it. also is your foreskin supposed to swell like that? i mean my swells too but i take the cage off. i feel it's dangerous

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>>1097934

>>1097903
I have that with an urethal tube, kinda small so hurts to have on.

>>1097841
bump!

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>>1098072

>>1098081
Got more?

>>1097783
What brand is this cage?

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>>1098154

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>>1098163

Does chastity really:
1. Warp your mind/make you a cuck
2. Shrink your penis
3. Make you a premature ejaculator?

>>1098357
> 1.
Prolonged indulgence of your submissive side — e.g., by partaking in long term chastity and orgasm denial — may strengthen the drive to act on existing desires and fantasies. It doesn't make you submissive or turn you into a cuckold; it can make you more susceptible to your submissive side.

> 2.

No. The penis is not a muscle.

> 3.

No, not physiologically. Although you probably will come sooner after being kept on edge for hours — i.e., you are very horny, so you will climax sooner.

>>1098357
>>1098389
In my experience, the penis is usually smaller after being kept in chastity for prolonged periods of time (like months at a time). However, it eventually will return to it's normal size.

moree

>>1098357
>1. Warp your mind/make you a cuck
It will make you more horny which will probably make you more inclined to act on fantasies or be open to more submissive things, but its not like it really breaks you.

>2. Shrink your penis
No this is just a myth.

>3. Make you a premature ejaculator?
If you are in your cage for a decent stint, chances are you will bust a nut much faster then you ever did before. But think of it more as the anticipation of getting the cage removed is the foreplay so by the time you are erect you have gotten 1/2 way there already.

Doesn't this damage your cock when you get hard in one of those things? This can't be healthy.

>>1098357
It doesn't make you a cuck (I actually find that the idea pretty awful and depressing) but it does warp your mind. From the instant I'm locked, I feel controlled, horny, helpless, sexy and desperate to please her. It's very psychological.

I don't think it shrinks your dick but the constant discouragement of boners does cause me to leave constantly relaxed some pelvic muscles used in conjunction with erectIons. I haven't ever done long term though.

fucking after being teased in the cage for awhile feels amazing... you come out feeling very sensitive. You can nut too fast if you're not careful.

>>1098163
>>1097903
Sorry haven't been around lately. You can't buy this cage from any retailer. It was custom made for the OP of the picture by someone from their local dungeon. They've apparently been locked for around 150 weeks now. Here's another pic of them!

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>>1097783
What cage would you guys recommend for a grower? I'm 5cm flaccid and 19cm hard. I read that you're supposed to wear as small a cage as you can, but small cages still leave the most of my cock erect.

>>1098936
have you looked at the Holy Trainer?

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I'm considering upgrading from the CB-6K to a HolyTrainer v2. I'd guess someone here has done so before me
I currently use the standard length tube, with the smallest spacer and the 1 3/4" (~44mm) ring.
With that configuration, and a flaccid dick it varies between filling it up almost completely, and leaving a not insubstantial gap (maybe around half an inch). Pic related.
Because of the better ergonomics of the HTv2, and that I don't always fill the CB6k completely, I'm considering going down to the smaller tube, and 40mm ring. Any thoughts and advise would be greatly appreciated.

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>>1097903
>>1098163
looks like a jailbird by mature metal.

here's me in one of the new cages I got myself for the holiday.

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>>1098937
I tried v1, wasn't much better than cb6000s

Anyone here got any tips for hair removal. I'v shaved myself down there a few times but I feel like i'm doing it wrong somehow or maybe there is a better/quicker way of doing it. Especially the hard to reach places i'm scared of cutting myself.

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Are there any of these that aren't ridiculously big? Or that don't point down? The way I wear clothes, my penis points up to my navel, not down. That way it takes up like no space, but forcing down is really uncomfortable and any cage just adds so much bulk. For reference, this is the smallest one I could find and yet it's comically oversized even when hard

What do

Some time ago someone posted a research proposal for chastity confinement, anyone still has that post?

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>>1099022
>>1099142

For those who got a Holy Trainer cage, how big is the loop for where your balls go trough? I think I have a big sack and it's hard fitting them in the string test their website provides.

It will fitt, I was afraid aswell when I got it, but it did fit just fine.

>>1099193
it's for bitches like you that these things were invented. it's hilarious that they couldn't make them small enough

>>1098354
more?

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>>1099299
>it's for bitches like you that these things were invented.
if that were true then it would fit properly, and point the right direction. Also I'm not a bitch

pic related is how I normally position everything, and I can't think of anything outside of a standard chastity belt that would work with that. the problem there is pretty obvious, my nuts wouldn't really have a place to go.

>it's hilarious that they couldn't make them small enough
I mean they could, they just don't. and it's not hilarious, it's frustrating.

>>1099193
Dude, just buy a cheap chinese steel one on aliexpress or dhgate. There are plenty that are actual stainless and get absurdly small, like 25mm long

>>1099009
her snapchat is everydaysadism

infrequent snaps though

>>1099335
Your flaccid dick points upward? What the fuck? If you mean while erect the chastity thing should prevent that to some degree. Either way it wouldn't matter.

There are a ton of options for tiny little clitties just on Amazon if you bother to look.

>>1099391
I think he means when he's wearing underwear, he positions his cock upwards at a slight angle rather than letting it dangle over his balls.

>>1099401
letting it dangle? if I don't wear underwear it just kind of points forward. think of it like a short piece of rope, it doesn't have the length to really dangle or anything

>>1099391
again, getting a chastity thing meant for a chick wouldn't work. I don't have a clitoris, I have a penis

>>1097783
I can not understand how this is a thing.

>>1098357
Yes, worn 24/7 it will make your boners weak.

>>1099191
I shave in the shower with good results.

>>1099193
I'm not aware of any devices like what you're asking for. You can find decent quality devices of practically any length on amazon or dhgate.

>>1099280
I do one at a time through the ring of my HT on the smaller sized ring, once everything is through it fits fine.

>>1099665
I'm in a chastity belt for weeks at a time and have never had any lasting effect on my erections.

>>1099193
>>1099505
I'm in the same boat as you.
For the bulk thing. A HT2 is practically invisible through my clothes but the small version is still a bad fit.
I've been eyeballing.
https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B01JHUR8Q2

Unfortunately I don't think any plastic cages are going to work for us, they just don't make them short enough.

>>1099505
A shot of you standing while flaccid might help. At the very least it wouldn't hurt.

Bump for more

Guys give me a brief rundown of what its like being locked, its something I've been thinking about. What do your partners think? Whats a good one to start with?

shameless moar

>>1100055
It really depends on the girl. My current gf/keyholder isn't much for the active aggressive domming and primarily just likes the idea that she gets to make sure I don't cum without her making me do it.

I don't get as much humiliation/bondage stuff as I'd like but I do my best to make it about her and if she wants to only use it as a way to get eaten out on the daily and occassionaly toy with me for fun, that's her prerogative as my domme.

My advice would be not to reveal your kinks all at once, and if she is a vanilla person, phrasing it as a way for her to make your orgasms only about her might make her more comfortable with the idea.

Take it slow and if you talk to her without going full cuck about it, she'll probably play along and maybe even enjoy it if you make it worth her and offer her more fun than work.

>>1100055
Also, as far as a device goes, I was way too thick for any of the popular plastic ones, so I ended up going through a bunch of trial and error with cheap chinese stainless cages before I found one that had a wide enough Internal diameter without also being way too long.

Ebay, AliExpress and Dhgate all have a decent selection of stainless steel chinese/german/pakistani stainless cages for relatively cheap. The measurments arent always perfect, but for the most part are at least close.

>>1100246
https://m.aliexpress.com/s/item/32693132357.html#autostay That should work, it's a grand total of an inch and a 3/4' and probably wide/light enough to stay on if you get a fitting ring

>>1100253
nice, thanks. I got an ebay gift card for xmas, would y'all recommend getting stuff from there or should I look elsewhere?

>>1100256
Ebay is where I got the one I've been wearing almost constantly for nearly a year and a half now. There are definitely good vendors on Ebay, it's just a bit harder to find exactly what you're looking for sometimes.

Skip eBay until you know exactly what you want. You'll pay far less at aliexpress, as in $5, to experiment.

>>1100253
I bought that cage like 6 weeks ago and it hasn't even left the country. Found a nearly identical cage on Amazon for only 3 dollars more and it arrived 2 days later.

>>1100246
>>1100244
>>1100243
cute
id lock you

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>>1100381
well, just ordered pic related, should be here in 5-7 days

>>1100386
th-thanks

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>>1099664

>I can not understand how this is a thing.

Obv any kink isn't going to appeal to everyone, but I'm sure if you think about it you can see why this would appeal to submissive types.

>Your penis is locked away
>you can't touch it
>you can't orgasm no matter how much you need to
>you can't even get hard
>your need for sexual release builds and builds and builds
>thoughts of sex cloud your mind constantly; you are always horny
>your gf/wife/dominatrix delights in teasing you until you're frantic with need
>but she refuses to unlock you. your release never comes
>you're so desperate that just the smell of her makes your heart race
>but you have to lick her clit while you remain denied

A lot of men would hate it, but it's easy to see why it's such a big turn-on to others.

>>1100401
>Your penis is locked away
>you can't touch it
>you can't orgasm no matter how much you need to
what. you can still orgasm with a cage on, it's just more dependent on prostate stuff. I can't finish unless I'm being penetrated, but if I am it'll happen whether or not I'm wearing any chastity related item

>thoughts of sex cloud your mind
idk for me this is also false, that's never an issue in or out of chastity

>gf/wife/etc
or boyfriend

>frantic with need
again, I've never felt that. the appeal is more about him having absolute control over any and all aspect of my self, and chastity is just another expression of his dominance

>smell
yeah can confirm, but I get turned on by how he smells anyway.

idk, I guess different people get different things out of it. For that anon, it sounds like he enjoys being overwhelmed by sexy thoughts but being unable to do anything about it. The appeal is primarily centred around sexual gratification being denied or granted.

For me, it's more about handing over control of something so personal to someone I care about, and the emotional bond/intimacy that is being expressed through the device. It's a means to an end, as opposed to the goal itself. The appeal is primarily it being a way to express my submission to and my love for him

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>>1100414

yeah, there's the emotional bond/vulnerability aspect to the game, too. but I'm assuming that's probably not going to resonate as much as the physical side with someone who can't even into the idea of this shit in the first place.

>>1100392
Just so you know i'v read some guys have problems with cages like those that don't have the cross bars. You can get hard and your dick presses through the gap and it cuts off circulation to the glans.

>>1100426
I'll just put a piece of index card in it then, to prevent that from happening

>>1100428
have fun trying to pee then. i'm not saying it will be an issue just to be aware of it. don't put that key in an unaccessable spot until you know it works for you.

>>1099014
holy fucking shit moar!

I'm learning that chastity cages are meant to say "hey! stop that!" when I get an erection.
And you know what? The cage is kinda right.

Masturbating killed my sex life in my first and best relationship. Once the sex life was fucked up, my lack of testosterone (from fapping) made me all kinds of moody and many issues came up.

Women are fucking dreadful but having that sensation when I dont fap for a long time and then blow my load, but with someone I """"love"""" sounds fucking great. A chastity cage probably would have saved my first relationship. The thing is I really don't think many girls get it, but I don't understand what's not to get.

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>>1100467
I'm locked up by myself these days.
I made it one night but man I got so fucking horny, took it off, and blew my load.
It was great, but I want to keep it on for months at a time.
Going to try going to work tomorrow. The excruciating pain of a boner at work kills me, but its all mind games. I just have to focus on fucking pleasant shit.

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Me, before and after being locked.

>>1100504
Wow, that sure takes the 'grower, not a shower' classification to a whole new level. How's the wear comfort?

>>1098928
10/10 would tease endlessly

>>1100517
Quite comfy actually. Beginning erections die quickly of course.

>>1098928
Wauw, so hot! Perfection!

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I know this isn't exactly a /soc/ thread, but this is what the gf has had me locked in for the better part of a year and a half (with a couple breaks here and there)

>>1100536
Super hot!

>>1100536

any pics of her tormenting you in the cage?

>>1100588
I have some older ones on my laptop if you'd want, but nothing recent

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>>1100537
Thanks!

>>1100588
Alright, I'll dump a few from when we still had our snapchat up and we camwhored a bit on /soc/ I guess.

Heres 1/?

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>>1100597
We took this one last june one day when our roommates and neighbors weren't home. Didn't really do a lot of outdoor play for fairly obvious reasons, but it was still pretty fun.

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>>1100598
3/?

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>>1100600
4/?

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>>1100601
5/?

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>>1100602
And a couple from the snapchat I guess

6/?

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>>1100603
7/?

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>>1100604
And I think that's all I'm posting for now. We haven't taken any pictures for a while, but after she gets out of work I'll see if she's interested if people have requests or something

>>1100605
somehow this is actually gayer when it's with a chick than with a guy

literal cuckoldry

>>1100607
I mean, if you say so. We didn't ever get any other people involved, nor did we want to, but if it makes you feel better about yourself to call me a cuck, go for it my man.

>>1100609
it's just so unnatural for the man to take the place of the woman and the woman to take the place of the man

>>1100610
We also have coventional sex when we feel like it and for the most part have a pretty normal life outside of when we play around with kinky stuff every once in a while, we just don't take pictures of that because there's already plenty of that kind of stuff out there.

I guess part of the appeal is that it feels wrong even though logically I recognize it is a bit of an abberation from standard biological roles.

Feel free to mentally charicature everyone who enjoys something other than what you like as a freak if that's how you feel. I'm not here to try and stop you.

>>1100610

You know what's also unnatural?

Wearing glasses.

Like igaf what other people do

>>1100470
It's a huge fantasy of mine to see a cutie like you struggling with a boner in public and "help out"
I want to pull you into a public bathroom stall and milk your hot little prostate while your throbbing cock strains against your cage.

>>1100604
I'd like to see this.

>>1100635
We had a video but it got lost somehow

>>1100610
You only live once. Open the fuck up and have fun. I'm not saying get out and catch aids but experience something new from time to time. Most of the people bashing others for perversion have the same desires they are attempting to keep under control.

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>>1098790
Also I found I started making sexual associations with hardware. I've always enjoyed cramming my junk into random objects but in the context of chastity the sight of faucets, padlocks and other industrial design objects make me tingle.

>>1100610
>>1100687
I agree with this anon. What's life without enjoying your kinks? For all you know, their relationship is even better with chastity play in their life.

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This is me in my urethral Chastity device.

>>1100762
I'm not saying it's bad, it just seems wrong to me personally. I'm a tranny so what I think doesn't matter, but it just seems off. At least I recognize that I have a disorder

>>1100778
what a waste of a nice cock

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mkre of metal urethral cage. God I need a new keyholder lol

>>1100781
>>1100778

How long is the catheter?

I have a similar cage and the catheter is about 8". I'm always aware of its presence but it kind of hurts a bit when I bend over. I've worn it for two days and there was always a trace of blood, and when I took it out there was some clotting (went away with the first wizz).

I love the fact that I don't have to squat when I pee and for that alone I would rather wear it at work over not having it in, but I do a lot of bending and squatting and really don't want to be thinking about it all of the time.

Thoughts?

>>1100800

4 inches about the length of my cock, mine doesn't really hurt after 5 minutes hardly notice it to be honest. I've never had blood or anything.

>>1100779
I don't think this whole thing is a disorder though. I just prefer being submissive, and I enjoy her telling me to eat her out, lick her feet, etc. It's not like our relationship is any different outside of the kink, we both love each other and it's not like she's fucking anyone else, she just enjoys the 'power' and I enjoy pleasing her.

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>>1098928
Gonna need a lot more pics of this one!

>>1100779
I don't think disorder is the right idea though. Aside from us mutually enjoying her being in control of both of our sexualities and myself getting off on being pushed beyond my comfort zone, we're a pretty normal relationship in nearly every other way.

>>1100815
>>1100822
that's good I guess, it just seems odd. like I can look at super violent rape satanic abuse dismemberment vomit porn without getting as weirded out as I do by men submitting to women

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>>1100381
>Found a nearly identical cage on Amazon for only 3 dollars more

Care to share the Amazon link?

>>1100825
I mean, if super violent rape and satanic rutualistic child abuse doesn't phase you, but my girlfriend bossing me around a bit because it gets our rocks off does, you might wish to re-evaluate your priorities.

Not everything is going to be for everyone and there are plenty of fetishes I think are a bit abnormal, but I really don't see the major objection behind a power dynamic where the man is submissive rather than the woman.

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>>1100597
You guys are cute, thanks for sharing!

Err, actually, is this pic y'all too?

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Me and my mistress :)

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Kik me: Pinky_Trap

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Does anybody know who's the lady here and in >>1098936 and if there's any more pics of her? She has the cutest smile ever.

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Does anyone know the name of this device?

>>1100959
Yup, a whole bunch of our pictures started showing up on reddt and tumblr by people claiming to be us which is one of the reasons we stopped in the first place

>>1101134
Any way I can get in contact with you to get more of your pics? They're super hot.

>>1101618
We have a kik that we don't really use, but we might be open to requests sometimes if she's in the mood.

kik: ArtfullyHidden

>>1101628
Not the guy you replied to, but you do have a lot of legitimate interest and it would suck if you only posted to a private only type of thing.

>>1101645
>>1101645
The big issue is we both have jobs where public exposure could cost our careers (even though we aren't doing anything wrong it still looks bad).

We had a snapchat that we posted to regularly with a couple hundred followers, until somebody tried to dox us and literally attempted to blackmail us into requests. Thankfully they had bad information so I told them to fuck off and we stopped taking pictures for a few months.

I know posting shit on here isn't exactly private, but I'm less worried about it for some reason I can't really justify.

Feel free to add us and if there is interest/requests on there we might honor them depending on how she feels, it would just be appreciated if it didn't spread to the point where people are trying to dox us for no good reason like the couple pics already passed around tumblr and shit already have.

>>1101645
Also, we used to post on /soc/ a lot until all the robots yelled as us for triggering them by enjoying ourselves.

>>1101650
yea fuck /soc/, Im not sure if Ive seen your pictures before now or not. Ive probably missed alot of good stuff.
Do you also have a black cage or was that someone else?

>>1101660
I've had a couple, but the only shots I've posted have been with the metal mix between a rip off cb2k and jailbird I have now, as it's been the only one I can wear a few days at a time.

It takes a good week or so of it being on for her to even want to do anything fun unfortunately, but I still have some older pictures from forever ago on
/soc/ and a couple that we liked from the snapchat.

>>1101648
>until somebody tried to dox us and literally attempted to blackmail us into requests.
Call me edgy, but people like this deserve death. Trying to ruin someones life for your own personal amusement is just subhuman.

>>1101662
I was wondering if http://is.4chan.org/hc/1482851682489.jpg
was you, thats why I was asking. Ill go check soc later to see if I cant find the thread

>>1101665
I don't know if I'd go that far, but yeah it was hella uncalled for. We didn't even have a shit load of people or like ask for donations or anything. There was like 250 people following us and at most, so not even fake e-celeb tier and we already had to deal with that bullshit.

>>1101667
Nope not us.

All of these are and theres one more with her grabbing me by the balls with the key on her wrist on her hairband that got captioned by some tumblr person, but that is def not us.
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>>1097783
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>>1100536

They seem like they are having a lot of fun though!

>>1101671
Didn't mean to link OP in there. They are definitely not us.

>>1101671
god damn, jelly/10
Is this her doing or did you talk her into it? Is she really into or or just going along with it?

>>1101662
what was the soc thread? I cant find it.

>>1101677
She is kind of into it. She mostly just likes knowing I'm not jerking off behind her back, but for anything other than eating her out or a quick tease she needs to be in the right mood, which has required a bit of coaxing sometimes.

It was actually one of the really nice things about camwhoring was she liked the attention so she was more willing to do more femdommy things, not just denying me and laughing and saying no when I asked to get out.

>>1101681
The last one we posted in was the first week of June of this year I think?

>>1101691
its probably long gone

Inb4 tits

I cage my husband. We have frequent sessions but the issue I have is with his cage. The O ring (we have a cb, forget which model) is too small. He has giant nuts (not his scrotal sack, his actual nuts). Put the two together and it takes forever for him to get into the thing and taking him out can be problematic, too. Can anyone recommend a model that accommodates guys with big balls?

>>1100504
what is this one called?

>>1101737
My cb, the cage for the dick has busted open twice, once even after a proper fix via roughing up the surface. This last time, I gouged the fuck out of the surface and used a different clue,
THEN the ring actually snapped on the left side where the pin goes though.

all times, yes it did dig into/clamp the skin, and yes I was wearing it.

>>1101648
I just noticed this post, yea thats pretty fucked up. I dont use kik at all but I might make one to add you.
stay safe, and 4chan isnt the place where you "trust" people, some oldfags are still around.
Hide identifying makes and decorations around the house, keep the windows out of pictures, make sure gps tagging is turned off, dont show any body markings (scars, tattoos, moles, etc), no jewelry.

>>1101737
I have the same problem. I also have thick cords.

You need to get a new cage that's custom with an adjusted A-ring. I need a 2.25" A-ring when the max size is 2" from every other device.

It's expensive, but much better.

Anyone recommend a good plastic cage for a novice?

>>1101837
Smooth and hot, more please

>>1101835
A lot of people recommend getting one of the cb6k/cb6ks clones. Personally I never got a plastic cage to work well be because they were all too thin internally, but they are cheap and come with different ring sizes and spacer sizes.

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>>1101839
Even wear it to school :)

>>1101845
Nice! How long have you been locked for? I'm thinking of taking the plunge...

>>1101842
Thanks! Did you jump straight into the more customised ones I take it?

>>1101849
Nope, I bought a knock-off cb6k for like $20, and because it was too thin ID even though the length was okay, and it cracked. Eventually bought a Holy Trainer which had the same internal diameter problem and eventually got thrown because I couldn't wear it for more than just during the day. Eventually found a cheap stainless steel one with the right measurements on Ebay after some trial and error.

Custom is the next step when I have a bit more money to spend. A lot of people seem to do just fine with the plastic variety, but they unfortunately for my wallet, didn't fit well for me and are much harder to keep clean for long term use.

>>1101848
3 days was the longest period. Only 19 and still live with parents so need to hide it very wel :)

>>1101853
Damn I'd imagine you'd have to be very very careful with that! Is that the holy trainer you have? How's it feeling? The underwear addition is good as well!

>>1101855
Yeah it's the holy trainer, and yes it's hard being a sissy and still live at home.

>>1101852
Yeah I can imagine the trial and error part to be a right nuisance if you can't find one quickly!

>>1101857
I guess being a sissy and being at home is tough, how on earth do you keep everything hidden? Unless someone suspects something? Hot pics btw

>>1101859
Yeah. It's a shame because if I had just gotten a good measurement somehow and gotten a custom one right from the getgo I probably would have spent about the same amount of money with better results.

I just couldn't justify the risk of my current keyholder not being interested/being turned off because this was her first relationship with any kind of kink aspect.

>>1101861
Have some pics in clothing of you would want them :). It's pretty hard, i'm trying to move out asap but have another 2 years of school to go

>>1101863
Yes please for the pics! Tough situation, especially having school as well. Better to stay put perhaps?

>>1101862
Thats fair enough some of them are very expensive! I'm in a weird position with my gf in that she is extremely submissive and I love to diminate her, but I also like the chastity idea! Perhaps even for both of us. Weird!

>>1101866
Kik is CuriousSissyTeen

>>1101868
That would be the case, literally two days after I delete Kik XD

>>1100536
What kind of cage is this??

>>1101890
It's a cheap stainless steel one that I found on Ebay. Was made in Pakistan instead of china like a lot of the knock offs, but it works really well and hasn't given me any rust issues

>>1101945
Great, thanks. I'm going to try to find it myself, unless you can scrounge up the link to the page.

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>>1098976
I would definately recommend making the switch.
I wore a CB6000s, and recently got a HK2.
The solid ring of the HK took a little getting used to - you can't disassemle it like the CB series, so balls through, followed by flacid cock took some mastering, but now im used to it, I love it.

It's really comfortable and feels a lot more discrete - so much so I wear it most of the time at work. The length of the cage shouldn't be an issue, you'll just be stuffed in. There's no spacer, so ring size is key.

Because of the shape, there is no chance my balls can slip through if I try and escape, so I still feel secure in a slightly larger ring.

Hope this helps.

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>>1100829
https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B01JWH64TM/ref=oh_aui_detailpage_o01_s00?ie=UTF8&th=1

its price has gone up a bit since I bought it, but its better than the money i'm still waiting to get back over a month and a half later from the other site. Pic related.

>>1102113
kek loose some weight fatass

>>1102115
kay

bumping for my question >>1101088

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>>1102142
+ a pic

>>1102115
I'm confused, he doesn't even look that fat my man? From that pic I'd guess he's probably skinny fat or like "dadbod" if anything.

I could see maybe telling him to lift or something, but that seems a bit uncalled for.

>>1102163
How does he not look fat? there's folds of skin where his thighs meet his torso. he looks like a cookie that's been in the oven and has ballooned in size, with the same puffiness that's an indicator of being fat that you can see one someone's face

it's disgusting

>>1102167
It just looks like his thighs are slightly bent which is causing a crease and you're overreacting.

If he was really fat you'd see a lot of fat on his pubic mound trying to overtake the ring on his cage dude.

I agree most definitely not a 10/10 aesthetic but certainly not even close to the worst chastity selfie I've seen posted before

He just looks like a dude wearing it rather than effeminate 'sissy'/trans person intentionally going for a waifish figure.

>>1102170
even at my heaviest (127lbs) my thighs have never looked like that at any angle. there's a difference between waifish and just not being a fat slob

>>1102176
Your heaviest was 127 lbs? How tall are you?

>>1102177
5'8", not everyone eats everything in sight lol

>>1102176
yeah, 127 lbs is not heavy at all. You're just super skinny. I weigh 185 and my thighs looks like that when i bend them, and im not fat at all. you just are used to your skinny frail legs.

>>1102178
Are you very inactive? That just seems unhealthy. I'm like 165 at 5'11 and not exactly fat.

>>1102178
>not everyone eats everything in sight lol
At 5'8'' 127 that must make you blind.

>>1102179
>127 lbs is not heavy at all.
yeah that's the point, being heavy is gross

>>1102180
nope, I do yoga daily and go for walks after lunch. sometimes I go /out/ but not often

>>1102182
No, 127 lbs at 5'8 is light. I'm 5'8 and I weigh 185 and I'm in great shape. Chances are you just have a skinny body type.

>>1102182
Nobody here is saying it's a good idea to eat yourself to obesity, I just think your idea of fat is a bit skewed by your protien starved catatonic self.

>>1102178
>manlet thinks he can talk down to anyone

>>1102178
(short) Beanpole spotted

Story time for me:


I made a bet with my gf 2 weeks ago that she wouldn't dare send me a nude of her at work.
if she did i would do whatever she say.
2h later i receive a picture of her showing pussy and tits in her office.
mindblow.jpg
usually she is the quiet type so i didn't expect this
she text me "i'll tell you what i want later"

Fast forward two weeks completly forgot about the bet
she come to me with a chastity cage and tell me that she want me to wear it for the week that at the end of the week she'll fuck my ass woth a strap on and that if i cum i'll wear it for another week

right now i'm quite afraid cause it's half the week my balls are ready to explode and i already played with my ass in the past and i quite enjoyed it

>>1100829
Anybody have experience with cages like the one in this pic? Are they comfortable to wear? Good for long term?

>>1102433
Just like all closed plastic designs they are very unsanitary long term unless removed daily for cleaning. Where there is dark and warm and wet, there is mold.

They look pretty neat though, so if one is cool with the idea of removing it every day for thorough cleaning and drying before putting it back on I'm sure it's not a bad choice.

>>1100610
>so unnatural
he posted
on the internet
from his house
while wearing clothes

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Alright fellas. I got my first stainless steel cage. Pic related and it was pretty hard to stay soft enough to put it on, but I did it however I only have one question left. I am uncut and have a lot of skin. Is it best to pull it back when putting the cage on? Or should I try to force as much as I can forward? Currently, I just put the cage on to see how it'd feel and it feels fine but I'm worried about the foreskin getting damaged if it's crammed into the front.

Any thoughts?

>>1102573
I would say you are fine either way. I do both but I find its more of a turn on with the skin back.

>>1102573
what cage is this? link?

>>1102637
Sure, friendo.

https://www.aliexpress.com/store/product/Newest-Stealth-Lock-Male-Stainless-Steel-Chastity-Device-Cock-Cage-Virginity-Penis-Lock-Cock-Ring-Chastity/1266409_32772148033.html?spm=2114.12010608.0.0.16HQx2

I picked this one because it doesn't use a typical lock so no risk of rattling around, it's a pretty good length for me, has a more curvy ring since I have a lot of skin, and would avoid the penis from going through the front like I saw a lot of designs doing. I got the 45mm ring too.

So far, it feels great, can barely tell I have it on and the packaging was discreet and I can vouch for the seller.

>>1100392
Please report on how you like it when it shows up.

I've been thinking of getting something like that and my dick sits a lot like yours does in the cb

>>1101742
Our cage is fine. It's stainless steel,. The ring is the problem. :/

>>1101763
Where do you recommend I get a custom one made? Money is not really a problem. Anything to make it easier to command his cock on demand. I prefer not to wait.

>>1102870
Custom ones all take some time, but Mature Metal and Malechastitynow both have rush build time options if money really is no object.

>>1102573
I usually prefer to have the skin forward. Mostly because the head of my penis sticks out a bit from between the bars on the end sometimes gets pinched and having the skin there stops most of that.

>>1102415
Sounds fake

>>1102841
I just got one of these and am very disappointed as the head of the penis will fit through the top two bars. Get one where the bars are closer together or as a bar running the opposite way also.

>>1102415
Continue, pls don't be fake

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>>1102841
>>1103182
mine came today, I thought the gap looked a touch too big so I bent the bars together with a pair of pliars and wrapped some electrical tape around them for good measure. Also had to wrap a bit of e-tape around the metal circle part because my nuts would slip through but now they don't.

it fits under clothes way better than the gigantic cb600s, it still feels a little roomy but I can just wrap e-tape to make it fit better. Overall worth the twenty bucks, I was surprised how quickly it arrived. If I didn't have the ebay gift card I totally would go for the one that doesn't require tinkering

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>>1103248
thigh gap view

>>1102113
>>1102573
>>1103248
>>1103249
Cages like dont shrink your penis? They arevery small.

Is a 48mm Holy Trainer knockoff too small if I'm 7cm flaccid (on average, I can get smaller if I exercise or squish my dick)?

They also have standard versions (58mm) but they're twice as expensive.

>>1103251
I mean I have a very small penis to begin with, like in the two pics I just posted I was halfway hard

>>1103252
My dick is pretty much the same length flacid and the standard holy trainer was a better fit than the small holy trainer, but my fit issue was the internal diameter was too thin to allow natural retraction during movement and sliding back into place to occur.

>>1103165
I have a lot of skin so it's easier for me to keep it forward but I'm worried about it because I slept with it overnight and part of my head was pushed through the tiny hole at the tip. It didn't hurt but that can't be healthy. But I'm afraid if I pull the skin forward then when I go to pee, it'll be pinched shut and fill up like a balloon?

>>1103248
Good effort mate! I will have to do the same with bending the bars together.. hope they don't snap or break the welds. Fingers crossed.. other than that it's much more comfortable and discreet than my cb6000

This guy here
>>1100536

Welcome to the lifestyle man! Congratulations! All you need now is a good keyholder and the rest will be history
>>1103248

>>1103353
thanks! When you bend it, what I did was put it in very hot water and bent it slowly so as to not cause too much stress. That might help. I can definitely say it's much more comfy than the cb, plus I can lie down and have my laptop in my lap. neet lyfe

>>1103368
cheers! Somehow I think finding a bf is going to be the tricky part here though :c

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>>1103389
reee forgot pic

also, does anyone have any tips dealing with pubic hair? I haven't done anything with it bc I'm afraid I'd fuck it up plus I hate touching my penis so yeah

>>1103391
Shave, wax, or if you have money, lazer hair removal works well

>>1103406
>shave
with that much hair? won't I get razor burn?

>wax
I don't think there are any places that do that near me

>laser hair removal
kek that probably would cost more than my car and my laptop together

>>1103414
So, you trim it short with some beard trimmers or small scissors and the shave with the grain.

The first shave is a bit of a drag, but with some patience it will be pretty easy, just make sure you use a good moisturizer afterwards so you don't get lots of ingrown hairs/pimples.

Womens razors tend to be easier on skin for close shaves but if you're not about buying women's razors a good 4-5 blade mens razor will work well also.

>>1103248
It's too bad it has those issues, guess I'll look at some other models.
Looks like the concept is exceptional though. Much better fit thank my knockoff HT2.

>>1103433
Also put some roll on deodorant on the newly shaved area. It helps it not itch so much.

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>>1102573 this anon here.
Alright. I've got it on again with the foreskin but I can't keep the cage close to the body as you can see, it's pretty far away from my stomach. Any way to alleviate this?

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I'm about to order my 3rd chastity cage: HTv2(small :p ) clear 45mm

do any of you guys have sites you prefer to order from?

I've always ordered from
>www.keptforher.com
i love their customer service and they gave me a couple of spare master locks and a bunch of extra airport chastity locks when I ordered my 2nd device from them.I'm not trying to shill or anything here, I just had a great experience with them. Ordering my first device from them went well, but they really seem to indulge returning customers.

i intend on ordering my HTv2 from them, but i can't quite seem to get the car to work, maybe my firefox on this comp is fucked.

devices i've owned:
-cb6000s-clear with KSD-3 punishment anti-pullout device
-birdlocked mini 45mm, clear
-(intend on ordering)HolyTrainer V 2 (small tube version) 45mm cock ring, clear

>i wanted to get a pink HTv2 but my gf didn't want to sissify me that much so i got another clear(sigh, boring ive already had 2 clear devices). She it still attracted to some of my manliness regardless of how comfortable she is pegging me while im locked in chastity, our sex only including (oral on her pussy til cum and her feet on my cock til cum) and while we have awesome bed restraints setup, it's usually me tied 80/20 of the time : ) and she will randomly paint my toenails(the guys at the gym shower have already seen my cage and have given me weird looks, you have no idea when my toenails are nailed orange and im wearing a chastity cage with pink tape wrapped around its padlock

Regardless, just wondering if you guys have any preferring vendors. I just mostly wana hear if anyone got any cool deals for ordering a lot of chastity devices from a particular vendor...

>this is the very pic that made me order my first device

>a decently in shape couple
>her wrapped around him showing her control
>him caged
>her barefoot and toering with an anklet that dangled his chastity key
>her making the "cuckold horns" finger gesture for the pic

>>1103477
Tight fitting supportive underwear, or tie a shoestring around the ring at a 10 and 2 position and loop it arond your waist to hold it tighter.

If you're crafty you could make some sort of waistbelt kind of deal out of nylon/leather which I'm in the process of doing

>>1103478
what the fuck is that man-boob thing hanging in the upper left hand corner? Why doesn't he have one on the other side?

>>1103482
Looks like an elbow to me mate.

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>>1103482

along with her cage having a firm grip on his cock, her fingers gripping his balls, her sexy legs wrapped around him...she also has him in a head lock....

>set is like from 2010, i think there like 4 total. i have them all but they're spread out among all my chastity pics : /

>>1103433
>shave with the grain.
>The first shave is a bit of a drag, but with some patience it will be pretty easy, just make sure you use a good moisturizer afterwards so you don't get lots of ingrown hairs/pimples.
totally fucked this up the last time I shaved.

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>>1103478

>girls with longer middle toes

SECOND TOE

>the alpha female
The longer your second toe, the more leadership qualities you have. You are dynamic and resourceful.

>the white cuckold hubby
A smaller second toe doesn’t means you value harmony and won’t try to bulldoze your way through situations.

>>1103414
>>1103492
That hair growth pattern looks off to me. Are you hrt or something?
shaving is a pain in the ass, it will grow right back almost immediately.
the first few times you shave it will be red and bumpy until the skin learns to deal with it.

To avoid the fast growback problem, get an epilator. This is going to suck at first, even more so if you are a pussy. Plug the hairs out first. An epilator wouldn't even pull my hairs out due to the size of the roots. It would just pull them until they slipped from the tweezers and then pull them again and again until the hair broke.

>>1098163
>>1099142
Can confirm that's a mature metal jailbird. I have the same setup with the screw lock, but custom fitted to my size.

Does anyone have experience with a shock collar and metal chastity?

I have a maturemetal jailbreak, and a shock collar that I used in the past with a cb6k.

>>1103639
No but you have my interest.
How does it go together, pictures?

With the cb6k, I would place around the bottom, aiming up towards the scrotum/balls with the cb6k already on.
I'm worried about the stainless steel and how it would conduct though on the jailbird.

I know this isn't really chastity related but I figured if anyone would be able to help me it would be you sissies.

I desperately want a vibrating buttplug, that when turned on, will have my knees buckling. And preferably under $60, but I know that's asking a lot.
I guess technically it doesn't have to be a buttplug but I want something I can shove up there and leave in without risking an embarrassing trip to the hospital. Plus the feeling of having something constantly invading my hole is never a bad thing.

>>1103667
Stainless steel is a good conductor, but not to the point where it would be seriously unsafe I don't think. I don't think it would make much of a difference because electricity tends to follow the path of least resistance, and the liquid in your body is a much better path to ground than the belt.

I could be wrong though, be careful but I don't think it would be necessarily more dangerous than it was before.

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>>1103494
wtf are you going on about? toe proportions are inherited, like eye color. it's not some mystical doorway into someone's personality.

>>1103504
>That hair growth pattern looks off to me. Are you hrt or something?
what's wrong with it? No hrt for me

as for epilator, ouchies. I tried one of those on my leg and almost threw up bc of how it felt. no way am I letting one of those near me again

>>1103720
I'm forever looking for a video of a mmf threesome with the boyfriend/husband in a rig like this or in chastity wearing a cock extender while the other dude is just really hung.

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You haven't seen this stuff before.

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Master doesn't like it when I diddle my clit.

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He still keeps me locked up, even after the treatment.

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There isn't much to lock though. Master had the entire shaft of my clit removed.

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Genetic, DNA altering treatment. I just have my testicles and a skin tube - all the way to my prostate.

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So now Master can choose if he wants to fuck me in the front or in the back. I'm just a fucktool so I love it either way.

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From time to time Master milks my sissy cum to inseminate his sows. He breeds cock-less sissys that never has been free range.

>>1103840

Do you have more and maybe videos?

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>>1103835
>>1103837
>>1103838
>>1103840

>>1103840
I've got to be honest, I'm genuinely confused at what I was looking at in the set you posted. I'm assuming your some sort of trans-person? I'm glad you have a relationship that gets your rocks off, but I genuinely don't understand what I'm looking atm

>>1103852
Not in a quality worth sharing unfortunately - But I can always produce more ;)
I just got to figure out how to best hold a camera for dick-pics (or non-dick-picks as the case may be.)

Let me know what you'd like, and I'll see what's doable. Any hints on camera angles, lightning, props etc, appreciated. -What makes a really hot set?

>>1103857
A girl needs to be a bit mysterious, doesn't she? You may be right, 'some sort of trans-person' label might be applicable. But you wouldn't notice in the real world.

>>1103872
You do you girl, I'm just confused. Was there a portion of a surgery done allowing a penetrable orifice but intentionally leaving the testicles intact?

>>1103872
""""""""""girl""""""""""

how is a surgery like that even permitted? It's so unethical to do something like that, consenting or not. You're the kind of person that gives transpeople with a legitimate disorder a bad name, pursuing useless cosmetic surgery purely for your own sexual gratification

what the fuck is wrong with you

>>1103872
Can you orgasm?

>>1103885
I don't want to wreck the storyline, but this is the way I was born -or maybe it's Maybelline.

Technically it's plain old gender nonconformity but without gender dysphoria. I don't suffer from it (rather the opposite) so there is nothing to fix. My junk just looks a bit different.

>>1103888
Your concern for the LBTQ community shows that your heart is in the right place. I believe you to be a good person, but you really assume to much.

>>1103888
What makes their disorder "legitimate" while his is not? Shouldn't he be allowed to do what he wants if it isn't hurting anyone?

>>1103913
Yes I can. A bit longer than normal male orgasm, and a very short recuperation period. -So I got the long tend of the stick there. ;)

The testes are working as they should, so there's a normal amount of sperm produced. Ejaculation doesn't work as it should, obviously. Marvellous lubricant though.

>>1103919
Neat! I'm glad you found somebody that helps you live the way you'd like

>>1103921
he's hurting himself by undergoing a surgery like that, unless it's a congenital condition then it's not ok.

Mutilation of a functioning part of your body is harmful whether or not it feels good. I cut sometimes but my therapist is helping me stop, because even though it feels good it it's ultimately harmful

It's not a matter of having a legitimate disorder, it's a matter of behaviour like that muddying the waters. GID is a result of a mismatch between a person's body and their brain in terms of sexual dimorphism, while whatever it is you would call what that anon does is clearly self-harmful. The impact of grouping the two together is a negative for a GID patient because the treatment for the two is different.

With GID, treatment focuses on how to have the brain and body coexist as they are without tforcing one to match the other.

When you have someone who doesn't have that disorder, mutilates themselves for pleasure, and has a doctor who unethically condones that behaviour, it hurts that patient in the long run as well as making it seem like all transgender patients are like that. In the eyes of the public, if not the medical community, it delegitimizes GID. It stops being viewed as a neurological condition that requires management, but instead gets lumped in with what is a psychological disorder that revolves around the need to unethically mutilate yourself to satisfy some sexual urge. The treatment for that SHOULD be psychiactric and therapuetic in nature, but people will then assume that's the correct course of treatment for all transpeople.

And on the other side of the coin, you'll have people holding up plastic surgery as the holy grail of GID treatment, when it's really not. You can't force the brain to match the body in the case of transpeople, and shit like this will draw support to both sides of a false dichotomy in terms of treatment trans people while actually drawing attention away from finding a proper treatment for sufferers of GID.

>>1101686
Who did you Snapchat too?

>>1103969
We had a couple hundred followers that we put out a daily story for and would snap people requests if they were nice about it and we had time.

>>1101945
Searched "Steel chastity cage" on Ebay and looked through every single page. No luck finding it. SOS.

>>1103948
Apparently he was born that way so our conversation probably doesn't relate to him any more.

Your dichotomy between neural disorders and psychological disorders is not supported by science.

You don't genuinely seem concerned about sexual mutilators but more about the effect they may have on transgender people. The irony is that it is exactly this type of reaction against people doing what they want even if it is considered weird that has been holding transgender people back.

I don't believe that there are strong psychological parallels between sexual submission and cutting (which is seems to be related to excessive grooming behavior)

I'm glad you are getting help but the problem with your cutting isn't the physical aspect but rather that it is a reaction to emotions you do not have adequate coping mechanisms for.

>>1103840
how did you do it and is it worth doing?

>>1104012
I don't think you understand what I meant in that post. Of course I don't care about sexual mutilators more than myself. I want them to get treatment, but I personally care more about my own issues.

That reaction hasn't been holding back transpeople, it's the attitude of condoning things that some might consider weird even when those things are actually harmful and should be adressed.

I've never said submission and cutting are correlated, that's bull. Cutting is merely a coping method, used to deal with underlying psychological issues or even everyday stress. That's different from a sexual mutilator who's goal is expressly hurting themselves in that way, as opposed to engaging in self harm as a coping method.

Basically what I'm getting at
>sexual mutilation is harmful to the patient
>treatment should focus on overcoming it, change based
>not to feed into the patient's delusions
>cutting is an ineffective coping method
>treatment should focus on underlying issues while also trying to reduce SH, change based
>GID is a developmental disorder resulting in opposing brain/body
>treatment should focus on management, acceptance based
>equating sexual mutilators to GID patients hurts both sides
>like equating eating disorder patients to diabetic patients
>ED treatment is overcoming and change based
>Diabetes focuses on management and is acceptance based

and yes I'm aware what the issues with cutting are, I was just trying to draw a parallel to illustrate a point. It's a harmful behaviour that should be treated instead of encouraged, much like sexual mutilation.

>>1103948

You are applying an inconsistent standard for having a disorder.

Also, mental disorders are not things. A disorder is a state of being in a contex that leads to issues, like not feeling comfortable in your body. You dont "have" a disorder. Its part of your life.

You have no right to tell someone else what and how and whether they have a "legitimate" disorder, nor do you seem to have patient care as a high priority.

>>1104045
what the fuck are you smoking and where can I get some

>mental disorders don't exist
>you don't care about patients bc you won't let them mutilate themselves
>you don't "have" cancer it's a part of your life
>you have no right to tell someone anything they don't like
5/10 minor rustling and got me to reply

>>1103723
http://img.tfd.com/mk/E/X2604-E-44.png
Its nothing major and might just be the camera angle. Also I'm an autist so don't think everyone is going to notice. It just seems really confined. Like it doesn't go up to your stomach or out onto your thighs.
oh btw, electric tape is known to the state of cuckifornia to "cause cancer and birth defects". I wouldn't put it on my junk.

>>1104024
I don't think you understand what I meant in that post. Of course I don't care about sexual mutilators more than myself. I want them to get treatment, but I personally care more about my own issues.

>I don't mind this opinion except that you use it to justify telling others what they can and can't do with their bodies

That reaction hasn't been holding back transpeople

>Exactly what people say in trap threads is that traps simply have a mental health disorder and need treatment rather than acceptance

It's the attitude of condoning things that some might consider weird even when those things are actually harmful and should be adressed.

>I think that this attitude crosses a moral boundary when you apply it to people you perceive as hurting no one but themselves. This attitude was used to justify "curing" homosexuals

I've never said submission and cutting are correlated, that's bull. Cutting is merely a coping method, used to deal with underlying psychological issues or even everyday stress. That's different from a sexual mutilator who's goal is expressly hurting themselves in that way, as opposed to engaging in self harm as a coping method.

>We agree here

Basically what I'm getting at
>sexual mutilation is harmful to the patient

Source needed

>treatment should focus on overcoming it, change based

Evidence this can be successful needed

>not to feed into the patient's delusions

This is exactly what the right wing says about transpose

>cutting is an ineffective coping method
>treatment should focus on underlying issues while also trying to reduce SH, change based

Sure

>GID is a developmental disorder resulting in opposing brain/body

Sure but the mechanism are not well understood. Just because heritability is considered to be roughly 60% doesn't mean that it can't be a heritable reaction to a social conditioning

Cont.

>>1104024

>treatment should focus on management, acceptance based

Sure

>equating sexual mutilators to GID patients hurts both sides

It is at very least a valuable mental experiment and offers some guidance when the research is poor or non-existent

>like equating eating disorder patients to diabetic patients
>ED treatment is overcoming and change based
>Diabetes focuses on management and is acceptance based

If self mutilation as a result of sexual fetishism was well researched things might be this clear.

and yes I'm aware what the issues with cutting are, I was just trying to draw a parallel to illustrate a point. It's a harmful behaviour that should be treated instead of encouraged, much like sexual mutilation.

>We already agreed that self mutilation as a result of fetishism is deferent than other forms and needs unique treatment

Alright fellas. I'm just starting off but I think I want to try to go for a week to see how I fare and to make my self locking more interesting, I set up an emlalock

https://www.emlalock.com/?page=friend&id=ca7ga3z0puadw73zkeac First time doing this so I think I did this right I don't know when it'll end but it's a maximum of a week to see if I can do it.

>>1103921
>>1103948
>>1104024
>>1104334
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>>1104045
SHUT THE FUCK UP

>>1104449
this

>>1104619
Valid as shit

>>1099010
Beautiful shot! Nice legs, love the heels too!

>>1103919
Fuck the haters, it's really great that you are comfortable with yourself and found someone who will share it with you!

>>1103835
Can I suck your balls until something drips out your hole?

>>1099193
love that tiny cock. would be perfect if shaved

>>1104172
huh, didn't know that. yeah, it's definitely just an upside down triangle. I've only been with one guy and he was a lot more masculine than me so I didn't really think much of the shape of his pubic hair. I was kind of distracted by the rest of the area :3

also ty for the electrical tape tip. I took it off and replaced it with hypoallergenic medical tape.

>>1105007
I was going to after the advice earlier in the thread but chickened out. I'm afraid it'll hurt or I'll get razor burn or something

Guys, I've a question. The girlfriend and do the oul bit of bondage. We got collars, gags, cuffs etc. We use the toys on each other and switch roles. I've had her fingers inside me a few times also.
Now I really want to try out chastity, but I don't know how to bring it up.
We're both 20 and still live with our parents, so it'd only be a bedroom thing (nothing too serious).

How did you bring up chastity play with your SO?

>>1105223
>hey so you know how most guys like to fuck? well I like the complete opposite :^)

>>1105224
It's not that, I love to fuck. We've done tease and denial before. I'd tie her up and go down on her till she's about to cum and stop. We'd spend the day in the room with each other doing stuff like this with each other.
The chastity belt just seems like another toy to spice it up a little.

>>1105226
seems like y'all have a healthy sexual relationship, just bring it up like anything else y'all've tried

>hey remember that time we did denial stuff?
>I really liked it and thought that maybe we could try out something else like that
>it's like a chastity belt but for guys
>and if you like that, maybe we can get a belt for you too!

>>1105230
I suppose there's only one real way of bringing it up.
Cheers though. I just think the belt would be a little too much if you get me?
Anyway, I'll mention it when I see her

>>1105223
Wear it 24/7 or don't wear it all.

>>1105236
>engage in this extremely niche kink in exactly the way I do or don't do it AT ALL

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>>1105118

>>1105236
Massive Kek.
I won't be wearing anything 24/7. When a sexual fantasy leaves the bedroom, you know it's getting weird.

>>1105411
but it keeps my dick warm in the winter

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>>1105349
> dogfart

Aside from the weird racial angle (at least they seem to throw in the reverse of the black-bull-white-cuckold theme from time to time) the name just puts me off right away…

Pic unrelated.

>>1105411
You say that now... But pretty soon you'll be wearing stockings and silk panties and shaving your legs like the rest of us.

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Hey friends, I'm on day 4 of being locked up and trying to deal with swelling. I have a lot of skin so is this an okay amount of swelling? Otherwise I'll have to pull the foreskin up which means hygiene goes out the window.

>>1105636
That looks so itchy.
I cant stand having hair on my balls anymore.
wait, what do you mean swelling? If its swelling then something is wrong.

>>1105776
Just where the foreskin is bunching up. I ended up taking it off temporarily to make sure it was still okay. However, I noticed another thing I'm worried about upon removal:

The tip of my head lines up perfectly in the cage but since I am not using the urethral tube, the tip is getting forced into the hole at the tip. Better picture of the hole can be found here. >>1102573 This makes peeing very painful and it makes me question the health risks. I'm curious if there's any way to alleviate this somehow? Luckily, upon removal of the cage, the shaping almost immediately regressed.

My gf and I want to try out chastity stuff, what's a good first time device? Google has too many different answers.

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>>1105788
I'd recommend this Holy Trainer knockoff http://a.co/drEKGqX. It's cheap, well made, discreet, and includes a few different size rings.

If you're flaccid length is 3" +/- .25" you should fit in the small size, any longer than 3.5" you'll probably need the larger size.

The only thing I noticed about the knockoff is there is a parting mark on the inside of the bottom of the ring which was a little rough out of the box. Apart from that it's just as comfortable as my real HT.

>>1105779
is >>1105636
you flaccid? or like half chub? If you're urethra is blocked or partly blocked when flaccid you probably need a longer/bigger cage.

>>1105794
That's pretty turned on actually. Even when flaccid, it always touches the top but the swelling only happens when I'm aroused. Is that still fine? I thought that was ideal?

My wife had me wear one to prevent masturbation while I was on a long term assignment. The first few nights were tough, as the cage was very tight when I would get hard at night. I wore mine for a month before my trip home and was able to get some pussy. After awhile, I liked feeling the cage around my dick. I liked feeling the weight of the steel pulling on my dick and the best part? Seeing my balls get tighter and more blue while I waited to get home. After 3 weeks or so, my dick leaked so much when she would tease me. It was a tough thing to go through, but I learned to love every second of it. Spent lots of time in the cage over the year I was away from home. Actually, I miss it...

>>1105779
It shouldn't hurt when you pee.. why do you ignore all natural warning signs anon? Does it make your balls ache too? That means the ring is too small..
The only time mine hurts when I pee is when its not on right and is pinching the urethra and the pressure of the stream causes the pain.
you need to find something else.

>>1105803
>Seeing my balls get tighter and more blue while I waited to get home.
balls shouldn't actually turn blue, if they are blue then you have a circulation problem.
They also don't get bigger like that, the body will automatically discharge cum after a while.

>>1105779
It sounds to me like you need a bigger ring and a wider internal diameter cage.

>>1103840
oi dickless, send a vid, i dont believe you

>>1105952
Nah because when I had the foreskin pulled over, it didn't hurt at all and everything was comfy except the hygiene was terrible and very hard to clean.

>>1105956
I think the ring is fine as circulation is not being cut off. As for the internal cage, maybe. It only hurt because the meatus was getting pushed through the urethral tubing hole. If I pulled the cage forward, there wouldn't be any pain.

>>1105792
Thanks for the advice! Hopefully I get a response but, what if I'm under that? The small one won't be too big?

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>>1105349

>>1105953
my balls turn blue only when I get hard, is that OK ? Or should I get a bigger cage ?

>>1106423
Or use a bigger ring ?
I'm using an HTV2 knockoff.

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This is me. I've been locked up now for 3 weeks. First time ive gone this long. No blue balls, but my little cock tries to get hard every 5 seconds. Basicly drip cum all day. Cant wait to be milked.

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I love be locked in chastity. Its the best thing to ever happen to me

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I'm happily married. Yes i have been cucked. She sleeps around mostly because i beg her to. She makes me wear a plug if she is on a date.

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So here i am with this giant plug shoved up my ass.

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Cant wait for her to fuck my faggot ass, using his cum for lube

>>1106423
you balls are in your scrotum
Your scrotum is part of your skin and is a separate entity than your balls.
Does it sound normal for your skin to turn blue when you are turned on?
Remember that being turned on is an increase of bloodflow tot he area, and increased bloodflow = red decreased bloodflow = blue.
You probably need a bigger ring. Do you balls also ache when youre hard?

"blue balls" is a meme. The condition of sperm breaking down can cause an acid that causes the balls to ache which is what the term refers to, but that would be days after a failed release. If the balls ache when you are turned on then something is very wrong.

My guess is that when you become erect, its adding even more pressure around the ring and stopping bloodflow to some parts.

>>1106498
What a pathetic fag.
Your dick doesnt even fill that little cage
Id fuck you

>>1106766
thanks

>>1106779
I would love to be fucked by you. As long as my wife gets to watch. If you happen to be in Sacramento, Ca.

>>1106958
I'd make your wife serve me too
Show my more of your ass

>>1106958
nice

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so I tried trimming my pubic hair, and switched from electrical tape to medical tape

d-does it look ok? is this a good length to start shaving or should I trim it more?

>>1107126
Trim in more. Or know that it will be a bitchin of shave. It'll itch no matter what at first, but if you are consistent it will go away.

>>1105596
Been wearing her cage off and on for years, and pretty much 24/7 for several months, and neither of us want me to go fem.

Enjoy your lifestyle, but don't assume others will go your way.

>>1107126
>all that tape
how do you piss, dude?

>>1107585
take off the front part? it's either that or risk getting cut on a bit of sheared metal, whcih I'm not too keen on

>>1105796
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>>1105796
>the swelling only happens when Im aroused

Anon thats called an erection