MFF threesomes with you and your partner?

>>9751790

I've done this twice. Married for 9 years. The first was after 3 years.

It's mixed bag. It's actually not as great as it's cracked up to be, but can be a good time. I'd encourage you not to do a 'random girl; this can cause jealousy and issues. I'd suggest you and the mrs make a social acquaintance of a female you're interested in and encourage the two of them to become reasonably friendly before doing this.

I speak from some experience. AMA.

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I've done it twice, and both times it had irreversible consequences. Given a chance to do it all over again, I would and then some. Granted, it was with girlfriends and not a wife. Dunno, OP. I say give it a shot and see what happens.

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>>9751824
>>9751826

Thanks guys. I've spoken to a couple of friends about their opinion and both have said it's an awful idea. Especially as she gets really paranoid sometimes and has a serious problem with her figure even though she's fucking gorgeous.

Might just avoid it, love her too much to lose her, but it's shit like this I fap over, and I know she does too

>>9751826

What consequences do you mean?

Curious about this topic. A girl that wants to tie me down says she wants a MFF so she can force herself to see me in a different light.

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>>9751883
Well in the first instance, I was in a weird scenario where my gf at the time had a crush on my ex, with whom I was still friends, and suggested it. The day of, everything was fine and we all had a good time. We even hung out afterwards, ordered pizza and watched movies like a few friends. But gf got really jealous and didn't want me to talk to my ex anymore. It caused a rift between us and was a contributing factor to why we broke up.

The second time, I had told my gf about my previous experience and how I had enjoyed it but I doubted I'd ever get to do it again. She said she'd be willing if I agreed not to talk to whomever we chose after the threesome. I agreed and told her to pick someone she'd be okay seeing me fuck in front of her. She chose her best friend. After it happened, she kept us completely separated. Juggling her bf and her best friend was too hard for her and she broke it off.

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>>9751890
This girl sounds crazy. Like she's actively looking for something to hold against you. Proceed with caution, anon.

>>9751876
My only advice to you (if you are not the jealous type) is to have zero contact with the female. Let your wife setup everything. When me and my wife had a MFF, I never talked to the girl afterward and never wanted to. My wife was completely content with it knowing the fact that I had no contact with her outside the threesome.

The real benefit beside marking it off your bucket list would be the sex afterwards with your wife. We fucked probably 10 or 12 times in the following 3 days after. Was fucking great.

>>9751890
Sounds like she's testing you bro. Don't fall for it.

>>9751946
I have a fetish for one guy fucking multiple women consecutively. I was about to start fapping furiously when I saw this, but was sad when he didn't pull out and stuck it in the other one's ass. Does the act of one dude fucking multiple women one after the other have a name?

>>9751790
My GF does the Same except for the pic swapping and Stuff but i dont know she gets really aroused when it Comes to talking about me doing another woman in front of her i think she might be a cuckquean any thoughts on my and OP's story

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>>9751790
>My wife over the past half a year
Stopped reading right there....
Either you're a faggot and it will never happen (who the fuck leaves the wife hinting at a 3some with another girl for more than a day without making it happen ?)
Or you're a liar, and it will never happen.
Have a classic on the house.

>>9751972
normally any "harem" video will have that. (you'll need to wade through the pseudo-sultan-harem in terrible egyptian make-up, but a few will get you that.) Reverse gangbang also yield some pretty good shit.
Would post onw but it's black on white and i don't want to start a war in such a young thread.

>>9752399
chill out you fucking dork

>>9751790
I have an open relationship arrangement with my wife-to-be. It started off after I jokingly said I would like her in a threesome, she took it a bit serious and we talked it out and set it the way we wanted it. Ever since (some two years now) no sex was had on any side (we agreed to talk about everything), just some fooling around on mine and kissing on her.
One thing she did ask me was not to do anyting with other people when she's around and I respect that, she is not sure she could bear seeing me with another. I don't mind seeing her with another girl though. Se once kissed this sexy-ass babe straight up manly and was awesome :)
She doesn't want to be in a threesome and has zero problem with me doing it. I talked to some good friends about all this and we agreed on this:
If you are going to have a threesome, do it with someone as a one-night-stand kind of thing, so that afterwards you can all go separate ways and not have to talk about it.
I suggest you and your wife try something like this. Find other people for threesomes, keep your wife for love making/fucking.

>>9752399
sourceeeeee

>>9751876
OK so she might be into the idea because subconciously she'll think that she's "not good enough" and that another (in her eyes hotter) woman could please you more than she could, and she just wants to make you happy in that way.
Personally I think it's a bad idea.

I've had a threesome with a guy, was in a lesbian relationship, and while I was bi, my ex was almost entirely gay, like 99% homo.
I'd never had sex with a guy before. I'd very occassionally mention that, but I think it got to her, and she's super insecure anyway. She would sometimes ask who I found attractive, and it was an honest relationship for the most part so I'd tell her. She'd also mention occasionally that she'd like to see me fucked in front of her

So after a druggy night of MDMA there was a friend crashing in our bed with us (that I'd mentioned ages ago I thought he was kinda hot). I genuinely had a really weird feeling that entire night we were gonna have a threesome, not entirely sure why, but it just felt very sexually charged even if nothing that sexual was said. They entirely initiated it, and I'm gonna be honest it was one of the hottest experiences I've had with sex, but the aftermath was just awful.
It just really didn't work and if you have tension in the relationship already, it's just gonna make things worse and bring more distance between you two. She was a shitty person to me anyway so I'm glad I'm out of that relationship but christ if you think she was insecure before she's gonna be 10x that after.

>>9751790
Are you sure she's turned on by it instead of just going along with what you're interested in because she fears rejection?
You said she doesn't like her figure, yet is sexy. I'd bet she has an eating disorder. I'd also bet that you don't know her nearly well enough.

>>9751876
OP some more advice:
Go with it only if she really, really wants it. Be a bystander at first, maybe for the foreplay, maybe even for the whole first time. Don't do anything she doesn't want, or if you even see that she wouldn't want (if you're long enough together you will catch the details). If you get to plow the other girl, be extra carefull with how you do it. Trust me, you can go from the "hot as the fucking sun" reactions of your girl to the "cold as fucking siberia" in just a split second.

I just had my first ffm a week ago, with a mutualy known girl. Had a few meetings, and my fiancee tld me she wants to fuck her. So all stars alligned, met at our place, had some drinks, smoked some weed and it started.
Beware of buyers remorse though. The next morning may become awkward as fuck. My girl felt like shit, i watched out extra carefully to what i told her and was afraid it would break our relationship. They met up the day after to talk it out, and it must have worked out great, cause i received a nice photo of them cuddling with happy faces.
Was it worth it? Hell yes! Is it possible to go FUBAR if not controlling what you do? Also yes. So if both of you want it, then try. Just trust yourself and you'll be good

>>9752399
source

>>9751790
Girlfriend and I do it all the time, no problem.

If you would have a problem with her having sex with somebody else without you in the room, don't do it. If she would have a problem with you having sex with somebody else without you in the room, don't do it. Threesomes can cause those little insecurities to grow faster than you'd like.

The only reason it's tougher as a married couple is that you have some legal entanglements that can encourage some bad behavior on her part.

Women almost ALWAYS have some jealous freak-out after, either because they are genuinely jealous, or because women are emotionally like children who experience 50 emotional states every day and tend to follow any that their subconscious finds interesting or unresolved, or because she wants to see your reaction and thinks a fit of jealousy will force you to prove something to her.

You guys need to both be excited about it, and although most advice you'll hear goes on and on about "boundaries" and "ground rules," if that's the way you're gonna play this then just don't. If one of you isn't emotionally able to handle a threesome without "don't touch her there, don't do this with her" kind of bullshit then save yourself the stress and just watch some fantasy porn together. The only reasonable boundaries should be safe sex and consent to what happens to your OWN body so that no one is forced.

If you're both ready to go for it, you've talked about it and don't see any lurking jealousy, do it. Have fun. If she comes back with "I didn't think I'd feel this way" drama, you can be reasonably reassuring to her, but don't let that shit stretch too far or she's just asking to punish you for a decision you made together.

I think of it like going to a totally new restaurant. If the two of you decided to try Vietnamese food together, and she ends up thinking her dish is too spicy and she's disappointed because you loved it so now you don't have as much in common, that's her problem. You can agree that you'll try something else next time or even stop eating out, but if she keeps whining about that time you had Vietnamese food, it's a little mental. You didn't force her to try it.

A little reassurance is a good thing for both of you afterward, but if she keeps acting "emotionally damaged" by it you are going to have to make a clean break.

>>9752962
Kind of this. For my wife and I, it's just about honesty. If she honestly didn't like giving BJ's, but was up for something else, we'd compromise just fine, and she'd probably go beyond to make it up to me and even give a selfless BJ now and then for variety. Likewise, if she wanted to have a partner swap (which we have never done) in the same or separate rooms, and I didn't feel comfortable with that, we wouldn't do it. If it was something she genuinely wanted to try, we'd figure out a way to make it work with the right person or in fantasy. It's just sex, and if it starts to get complex we can (and should) go back to basics and screw each other's brains out in ways we know we enjoy.

But the honesty part - that can't be replaced. If one or the other of us were sneaking around to have sex with someone else, that would be a deal breaker. It's selfish and deceitful, and sex should be a chance to be giving to and open with your partner, being selfless and unguarded, and having them do the same for you.

>>9751876
Don't do it, women never know what they want and it's up for you to take charge, always, leaving them in charge breed insecurity and doubt because again, they don't know what the fuck they want aside from being submissive. She could have repressed lesbian interests and nothing else. It's a whole can of worms you're going to open for what? To nut? Unless you guys started off FWB or something, fucking pass on it.

>>9752550
>cause i received a nice photo of them cuddling with happy faces.

I'd worry about what you didn't see, cuck. Don't marry a whore.

>>9753147
>>Implying everything has to end with getting cucked
She's my whore, and she knows that well.

How do I get my gf to suggest the idea of MFF? I've try to be subtle and hint she get a girlfriend (told her go hang out with new girl she met at work). She didn't really get the hint. One time she did ask me what she would do if she got a lesbian/bi friend but that was when we were only going out for like 2 months. I told her yeah, but she'd have to find the girl. Then she was like eh what if you like fucking her more than me?
This was years ago now. We pretty much just have vanilla sex now. A few dabbles in light fetish play, but still nothing major.

I know for a fact she would probably not admit it, but she would probably get jealous. Also she has a history of body image problems. She likes to be thin, but has gained weight and as a result doesn't like fucking without her shirt on. It's not too much extra weight from when we started, and I love how her ass is still thicc.

Anyways I feel like if I bring it up blatantly I'm the bad guy wanting to fuck other women. But if she brings it up it's more of a 'oh anon lets do this thing together'

OP, stop being a little bitch and man up and do it. If she thinks it's hot and wants it, and you don't give it to her, that could also kill the relationship. Count your lucky godamn stars she doesn't want an MMF threesome and go find a hottie to bang.

My wife and I recently had group sex (a few months ago) and things have only changed for the better. We're more honest with each other on who we find hot and talk about our desires more openly, and we try to make them happen for each other. I don't know, maybe we're just not the jealous type but no jealousy so far. If she gets off on MFF threesomes, she won't get jealous.

>>9752399
"for more than a day without making it happen?"
WHAT A FUCKING BETA GAY! YOU'RE A FUCKING JOKE! PMPL WHAT A FUCKING IDIOT

>>9751890
Don't stick your dick in crazy anon

>>9751932
>She chose her best friend
What a goofball

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>>9751950
>My only advice to you (if you are not the jealous type) is to have zero contact with the female. Let your wife setup everything.
This. Also, make sure she picks someone outside of your usual social circles. Someone you who doesn't go to the same restaurants and stores that you do.

Get her to pick the chick and veto anyone that's not obviously less hot than your gf because you're "just not into girls like her"

>>9752399
You forgot to say
>beta cuck numale faggot
Please make a complete shitpost next time.

>>9751932
>chose her best friend
There was an attempt.

>>9754259
>make sure she picks someone outside of your usual social circles.
Preferably her friend who lives on the other side of the country.

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>>9752513

She does have an eating disorder.

I've not once brought it up before she started taking about it. It's definitely her fantasy more than mine. We've been on a couple of those threesome setup websites but never contacted anyone.

Think this one is just going to be one of those fantasies for the wank bank. Shame really.

>>9753139

Fucking wisdom

My wife and I have been together for 4 years now, and we've swung with a lot of people. It works for us because our relationship was basically founded on sex, and we miraculously ended up being soul mates who were just really sexually open with each other. Jealousy never really entered the equation because we were always on the same page with stuff like that. Plus she's openly bi and has been for years, so we can talk with each other about the girls we think are hot.

If you're gonna try doing a MFF, ask your lady how she feels about you fucking another woman in front of her. If she's excited about it then mazeltov, but if any of her feelings are anything other than "that turns me on", don't do it. One night of good fap material isn't worth all the bullshit that comes with jealousy and insecurity.

>>9757221
I tried to post a pic from the last time we fucked our last girlfriend but it's telling me the upload failed. Goddammit.

>>9753551
This, totally

Although there can still be some latent jealousy issues if she's just using it as an excuse to experiment with girls and can't handle seeing you fuck another woman. Not to sound cliched, but communication is key.

>>9753139
>>9753063
Putting all women in the category of capricious insecure children is fucking stupid. Men and women are a lot more similar than most people think. Just because the only women who had low enough self-esteem to interact with you ended up being airheads doesn't mean all women are airheads.

>>9752550
I think this is good advice, but the reaction of the girl you end up fucking is pretty strongly affected by how the two of you act after the fact. If you can just brush it off nonchalantly and offer some drinks and a movie afterwards, it'll go a lot further than stumbling over your words and asking if she wants to leave, or some beta shit like that.

>>9753118
100% this

Don't do it. If you do then at some point down the road she's going to use this threesome as some form of imaginary permission you gave her to cheat on you with some other guy.

>>9751794
sauce i love dava foxx

>>9753242
That sounds like a pretty precarious situation if you brought it up right now, since she seems to be having some self-image issues. If I were you, I'd start cooking the meals (healthy shit, it's easy to find stuff that's tasty and good for you) and start setting a good example by hitting the gym, because no offense, but you could probably use some gym time yourself. After a while, you'll both be pretty hot and confident, and then bringing up topics like that will be less intimidating and more exciting. I know this isn't /fit, but seriously, your life becomes immeasurably better after you get in shape.

>>9757352
wrong. or projection.

>>9752399
anyone have any info on the name of the latina looking girl? I swear I know her

My girlfriend actually suggested that we do a MFF, but I don't really know how to go about this shit without messing things up, either...
She suggested using Tinder because she wants it to be someone that she doesn't know, but doesn't care if it's someone that I know.
What do you think about that?

>>9751798
whats this from? sauce?

>>9757394
Tinder could be good, but you have to be careful about running into people you know since it's such a popular app to use. You also need to be sure to say explicitly that you are a couple, put it in all your pictures, make your profile name a combination of both of your names so it's obvious.
There's also an app called Feeld you could use (it used to be called 3nder before Tinder sued them over it) which focuses on 3somes and sexually adventurous people. You'll definitely have more success with Feeld if you live in a well-populated area, it's cool but not super popular yet.

>>9757394
>>9757415
It'd also be a good idea to talk about it and entertain the fantasy for a while before acting on it, it would increase the intrigue and excitement while also ensuring that you're both on the same page.

>>9757130
Don't worry OP, the seed has been planted already. It took a long time from the idea to realization for us.
The good thing is that she's interested, not that it's only your fantasy.
The bad thing is that she's a woman and there are a milion obstacles between the idea and realization. And a clusteruck after that if you don't tread lightly.
Seems like your woman is insecure. Thats fine, give her more atention. Reasure her that she's pretty. She's afraid that you would rather want the other pussy instead of her? Joke that you're also afraid that she'd rather have that pussy instead of you.
Make her confident, and not with some anon-alpha bullshit you can read on 4chan. From what you write i can assume that she's not a fucktoy bimbo that wouldn't mind you plowing others.
And thats the beauty of it. Cause once it happens, you will know that she loves you so much and trusts you that she will let you fuck another girl. She will understand that she is yours for more than just fucking. She will be jealous, but that special kind of jealous.
But beware the dark side - are you willing to do a MMF? Unless you both agree that it's MFF or bust, you will never have the power to deny MMF without cripling your relationship.

>>9752399
Even if he wasn't (rightly) apprehensive about it, good luck finding a unicorn in one fucking day you shitlicker.

>>9757462
Shit, MMF can even be a fuckton of fun. Me and my lady have recently done MMMF with her first DP and it was awesome.

>>9751824
It's not as good as you think it will be. I've had a mff threesome and I didn't even fuck the other girl. Girlfriend was paranoid and jealous for a while but eventually went back to normal.

>>9751826
sauce?

>>9751790
Just watch a bunch of mff porn together and talk about it. If you both still want it after a while, then it'll happen. Worrying about it is the first step to making sure it never happens.

>>9757367
You sure you quoted the right person?
>>9757323
That's why i told you that it's important how you do it. Buyers remorse is real and can be the point of no return if you fuck it up.

just get a fucking kasidie or sls or sdc or quiver account and do some window shopping, see where that goes

>>9757495
cuck alert

>>9757537
Aw fuck, you're right. I meant to quote >>9753487
My bad

>>9757542
If I hadn't been actively participating, I guess you'd be right

i cant help you but im gonna tell my only threesome story because its awesome

>me, my best friend, and a creepy weirdo he's friends with go out to show
>meet two feisty girls
>drink heavily with them
>they're digging my best friend and I
>girls hate creepy weirdo, make fun of him all night
>agree to all go home to my best friends house to have a foursome
>best friend lives with his freshly 18 sister
>my best friend and the 2 girls go up to his room
>weirdo tries to come
>we laugh and lock him out
>we started fucking separately
>best friend wasn't clear on what a 4some was
>he wouldn't switch girls
>both girls tried to switch
>he freaks out and throws a fit, kicks us out of his room and passes out
>one girl goes home, other girl stays with me
>girl goes and talks to his sister for a bit
>girl comes out and leads me back to his sisters room
>sister says "we're gonna fuck you"
>fuck girl and friends sister
>aw yea
>was tite
>we still friends
>he doesn't know

>>9757537
I agree, it is definitely something to be handled with care. It gets a lot easier with experience though, both because you get better at it and because you and your partner are sharing these experiences together, thereby mitigating the jealousy and anxiety

>>9757557
fuck you

>>9751790
well i think it would come down to how inclusive the sex is. you would have to probably make sure your attention is at least 60% on your wife so that she does not feel like you are doing this for your own pleasure only (unless that is the sort of thing that makes her wet, being an overly assertive guy in bed) it is really hard to determine exactly what you should do without knowing who your wife is sexually and if she is mature enough to seperate the act of sex from the thought of love (and lust).

>>9757557
niceeeeeeee

>>9751946
i was thinking the same thing. it would make sense that some women are just looking for a reason to leave the relationship. potentially to start a lesbian relationship instead (seeing as op wife has thoughts of other women)

>>9757557
This thread is now a threesome stories thread.
>be me right after college
>just started living with my gf in a big cheap house off campus
>gf lives with her best friend, both smoking hot
>imagine Stefania Ferrario and 90's Angelina Jolie, that's them respectively
>be open about sexual topics, but never suggest anything with the two of them
>respectful as fuck
>apparently I'm the only boyfriend who hasn't suggested a threesome, they're super impressed
>THEY approach ME to suggest a threesome
>yesplease.jpg
>get seesaw'd with the lights on
>gf goes to the toilet, me and best friend still going at it
>best friend has her face in the mattress and I'm nomming on that pussy, she's got the cutest little asshole
>gf comes back with strapon, best friend gets spitroasted
>best gf high-five ever
>now married to gf, best friend is still best friend, no awkwardness at all
>threesome is still on the table

There's a great website morethantwo, looks at multiple partner relationships and polyamory. Gives a lot of great in sight into anything that might come up in your relationship before after or during and help to keep everyone happy.

Hope you have find some one, chances are good, just get out there and start talking to people, or join a dating app. Rather take a little long finding the person, than stress out rushing it. I all ways suggest being honest with the person, makes things way simpler regarding expectations.

And if its a once of thing, look out for your partner. they come first.

>>9757593
>>9757557
>Working at a restaurant
>Service industry, fml
>Meet current girlfriend working here
>We hit it off, fuck, make it official
>We have a mutual female friend who works with us
>Kinda unstable, weird past, but fun to hang out with
>Have a coworkers party at our place
>Hanging out on the patio, everybody leaves except the three of us
>Girlfriend is the perfect wingman, laying it on thick
>"So anonette, have you ever been with a girl?"
>"Well, not really..."
>"OMG really? EVERYBODY experiments with gay stuff!"
>"I don't know, I mean, I guess it seems like fun..."
>"Just try it. If you don't like it, there's always Anon here that you can switch to"
>well played, girlfriend
>One thing leads to another, clothes come off, suddenly there's two 1st chair skin floutists
>start fucking
>anonette moans like spongebob
>pokerface, stay hard
>next morning
>cat has pissed all over anonette's work clothes, she smells like a litter box her entire shift
Still feel a little bad about that, no regrets though

>last year
>wife and I having mixed results on swinger websites
>get contacted by single female member
>she's a Spanish exchange student from the local university
>down to clown
>wife and I do a simultaneous "Hell Yeah!"
>meet her at a karaoke bar
>she's impressed by our mad karaoke skills, apparently
>comes home with us
>we play strip jenga, she presses her tits on the window, truth or dare, etc.
>soon everyone has had a turn stripping, no more clothes
>blood running hot, 3-way makeout session
>everyone getting bold, we all recieve double oral
>end up fucking
>she's moaning in Spanish
>follame papi, dame tu polla, etc.
>hot as fuck but somehow last super long, came after like 45 minutes of pounding
>thank god for generic cialis
>or not
>20 minutes later, she wants to fuck us again
>"Seriously? I can barely walk"
>I'm still hard from cialis, wind up fucking them for another half-hour or so
>including foreplay and oral, we've been going at it for like 4 hours
>we've never been more sore
>we're both okay with that

>>9757551
Bro how was the mmf? My gf wants both an mmf and mff. But I wanna hear how it turned out for you.

This isn't exactly a threesome story, but I think it's relevant
>be me
>hanging out with gf, plus bro and bro's gf
>getting late, kinda drunk
>we all get comfy on our bed, start watching youtube
>youtube turns into pornhub
>lots of lesbian stuff
>gf and bro's gf start making out
>me and bro trade looks
>silent agreement
>start encouraging gf's, peeling off clothes
>gf's really going at it
>start licking each other's pussies
>damn, that was fast
>soon we're all naked, start fucking our girls
>gf's are really into each other
>find a way for them to both be getting fucked while one sucks the other's pussy
>shit is baffling
>me and bro are trading looks and gestures, silently agree to swap
>bring it up to the ladies
>oh shit this might have been a bad idea
>they're up for it
>most meaningful fistbump ever
>trade partners
>Now I'm fucking my bro's girl who I've secretly had a crush on for years
>too much for me
>go soft
>can't get hard again
>be cool, just eat that pussy
>it's like cunt thanksgiving, forgotten about limp dick, now have double-date fuck buddies

>>9757747
Pretty rad, it was at a swinger party so it was in front of a bunch of people which we're both kinda into. We had a lot of experience before we did that though, so it was a pretty easy thing. Sex is just sex for us, desu. If they guys had been down for it, I might have sucked a little dick myself. As it happened, the three of us were the tops and my lady was the bottom, and she got fantastically railed. It was almost like tentacle-hentai in terms of pure penetrative destruction.

>>9757766
Did my "to be honest" just get turned into "desu"? What the fuck, 4chan.

>>9752379

I can tell you from my experience this "amazing" gift can turn wrong. In my case, she seemed so turned on by talking about sex with other girls. She wanted to know every detail about every girl I'd been with. She could cum practically from just talking about it. She was also a virgin, bi, and had never quite resolved the hookups she didn't quite make with girls before me.

I really think she was using me to explore her sexuality. It got stressful when I traveled for work, I'd get 20 texts asking me if I'd fucked a girl yet. After a couple years, she kept pressuring me to have sex with other girls; like I wouldn't even have gotten to my hotel yet, and she'd be irritated like I was intentionally refusing to do something to piss her off. But she started insisting they be onetime stands, not FWB or arrangements. Not even polite interactions outside of fucking. She also changed her mind about threesomes (we had canceled every time we tried, often for legit reasons). And she wanted pictures of the action, from women I met in bars, while not ever speaking to them again when I was finished. She just didn't get that women didn't do that very often (as she apparently had never done).

Eventually her schizophrenia blew wide open, and she started vanishing and telling the authorities that I was a clone imposter, because she was talking to god or something. She ended up on the streets, legal issues, institutions, and finally suicide.

Just be wary about girls that say they want you to fuck other girls. Seriously.

>>9752399
>I have never been in a relationship I cared about

>>9757793
Jesus christ, sounds like you should just be wary of girls who are whacked out of their fucking gourd. The line between healthy sexual exploration and insane projection is pretty stark and hard to miss. Sorry you had to go through all that bullshit, anon.

>>9751890
She wants to end things and this is a good way to do it, "see you in a different light" means get over you. If you don't want to be with her anyway long term then go out with a bang.

>>9754259
sauce?

>>9757813

Well, in fairness, for the first few years she seemed relatively normal... she liked pointing out girls that she thought were attractive. And the sex was absolutely amazing and got better.

It wasn't until her mid 20's that she started to get really weird. The sex slowed down and often wasn't very good, except for right after I'd fucked someone else.

I mean thanks, and I don't want to drone about it. It sucked and all that. But mostly, I think she had some repressed issues from her Christian upbringing and fairly strong attraction to other girls. She probably could have worked through them, if it hadn't been for the schizophrenia but the cuckqueen stuff was indicative of some really deep seated issues.

Of course, more of my long term partners have committed suicide than I've broken up with and I'm an emotionally unavailable dude that just has messy overlapping affairs with women 10-15 years younger than me.... so hey, I won't take my words gospel either honestly.

>>9752399
You will never find happiness

>>9751790
My wife and I have had 3 FFM threesomes.

First time was with one of my best friends who is 5'10", blonde, 160 pounds, 38DD's and drop dead fucking gorgeous, and it was fucking awesome. That was the best sex we have ever had in our lives up until that time. I'm usually a 4" and 30 seconds of solid dynamite kinda guy, but that night, we three fucked each other for 6 hours.

My wife did get pretty damned jealous after that, and she became obsessed with fucking my brains out every night for the next couple of months, even giving me anal when I didn't ask for it. (and we never have anal). I think she was afraid of losing me.

Second time we did it was in a drunken stupor with an absolute ham beast. It was NOT pleasant. And there were HUGE fucking regrets by both me and her. That should have never fucking happened all. And my wife was FUCKING PISSED the next day. She even made me go to the doctor to get checked for STD's.

Third time it happened was again, like the first time, a fucking great time. She was a good friend of the wife, cute figure, funny, great tits, and we found out she was a squirter like my wife is. The three of us went to a concert together, had a few drinks, got feeling good, not drunk, just good, and found a parking lot for all three of us to fuck. We were in the wife's Honda CR-V, and it was a little cramped, but I put the back seats down and we all went to town. Both my wife and she came buckets, and her car smelled like raunchy sex for a week. It was fucking glorious. And best of all, there was no jealousy afterwards. It just happened, it was with her friend, and it was a very pleasant experience.

The key here is, have the wife pick the woman. Make sure it's a friend, but not a best friend. And you sit back and let them go at each other. Only when they invite you to join in do you make a move. Make this all about your wife getting passionately fucked by another woman. You are nothing more than a living, breathing dildo

>>9757871
that's the coldest most fucked up insult i've ever seen on 4chan

>>9758122
>>You are just a living, breathing dildo
This guy gets it. You don't command or take what you want. It may be your night, but you surely aint the star of it.

Very recent. Like, last weekend. Still seeing how this unfolds.

>Be in 10+yr stable relationship
>I'm her first male s/o, she'd only been in relationships with other women before me >:)
>Get her to talk about her times with women, tell her it sounds super hot
>Bring up 3some idea, is not shot down (!)
>Over the years a few potentials came around but nothing ever happened. Started to think it would never. I'm 30 now *womp womp*
>FF to a week and a half ago she made a plan with a mutual friend to surprise me with a threesome
>Mutual friend is a badass, tattooed, sexually liberated party girl type with a ton of peircings and gauged ears (Phukkin diggin it)
>They strap me to the bed (GF bought restraints lol!)
>Double blowjob like a BOSS
>Chick puts a condom on me and starts riding me
>Did I mention the other chick is 19? (Uhnf teen pussy is the best pussy)
>My girl rides my face, cleaned herself up first too :)
>Other chick rides me for long time, seems like they were supposed to trade off sooner but she didn't wanna stop
>Chick tires out, taps out with my woman
>She tires out too, switches to blowjob
>Zanny is kickin my ass anyway
>Bust
>Chick stays and smokes out with us for a bit, then I drop her off at her place
>Go home and fuck the everyloving SHIT out of my woman

So far everyone seems to be totally cool. We've all hung out and I'm pretty sure I'll get some more action sooner than later >:)

>TFW you shouldn't have taken zanny but didn't know you were gonna get a surprise 3some

>>9751790
Yall are overthinking this shit.
In no particular order:
Set ground rules (safety word, do's and don'ts)
Get your wife to choose the girl (for the first time)
Keep an open mind/be respectful
Don't blow your load instantly (more important than you think)

If you fuck up?
well, you laid ground rules, she chose the girl... as long as you didnt do something stupid, it's her prob, bob.

>>9751790
I had a 3some with my gf and her best friend. At the time me and her were only seeing eachother casually, we were all on a night out and got drunk and ended up doing it on our friends couch in their sitting room. The two of them had slept together before so I thought it would be a great idea. It was fun but not as great as it was made out to be in porn. Also now it's a cause of contention between the two of us. I can tell that at the back of her mind she is worried I have feelings for her friend. The friend also like to bring it up every so often just to start an argument. She'd make some innuendo about my head between her legs or something and gf would get very upset.

I would only recommend a 3some if all parties know exactly what their in for and there are ground rules set out first. Otherwise there's no way of stopping feelings getting involved.

This is a new marriage, and you say your wife has an eating disorder? Sure sounds like she might be sabotaging the relationship. Perhaps things are getting too intimate, or she's chasing some kind of catharsis/stimulation/drama?

Threesomes can work on rare occasions, generally between people who are already either so fucked up and chaotic that adding another person to the mix barely even registers, or with those rare few people who somehow don't get jealous, communicate well and have no cultural baggage.

If this was some girlfriend and you'll be going off to college in a year anyway I'd say go for it, but if you are serious about this marriage and the mental health of your wife then perhaps don't indulge this particular impulse. Enforce some boundaries.

Jumping in the bandwagon late but w/e

I'm in an 8 year relationship with my gf, and we spent the first 6 talking it out and having fantasies about that. She had some jealousy problems that were sort out before the first time.

We've had three FFM's, the first one was good but odd. She dealt with the girl and I barelly talked to her. It was a straight up one night stand, and felt a lot like losing my v-card (for good and for bad)

The second one was about a month ago and it sucked. We got "tricked" by a landwhale on tinder. My dick was dead for the whole time.

But the third time my friends... that changed everything. The girl was a perfect match for us. We went on a date with her the day before, and on the next one during "netflix and chill" it just happened naturally. I'm not really sure but we spent like 3+ hours making out and feeling each other up. I avoided cumming at all costs because I didn't want to stop for anything, and I'm glad I did. The girl was absurdly hot (way better than we expected), fun, goofy and cuddly, just like we are. The three of us are kinda "in love" but she lives on another town, so we're looking forward for her next visit.

So first, you have to know VERY WELL your wife/gf for it to work out. By the time we did it the first time, I had already sorted out all the do's and dont's without needing her to spell anything. Gladly most of them went straight out of the window as soon as we started, because my gf loved it. Make absolute sure that you know what might be the consequences afterwards and be prepared to deal with them. Most are very predictable.

For the first try, choose a girl that is clearly not on your mate's league. It's a bit frustrating for us guys, but it's wonderful for women self confidence and will make it way easier for her to relax seeing that the other girl is clearly as hot as her. In our case, the girl was short, slightly chubby, worn braces, overall a 6/10, while my gf is 8/10.

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>>9759418
Set up all the rules beforehand, and make sure to respect whatever limitations your gf imposes. If she want you to just watch, do so. The more respectful you are, the more safe she'll feel, and bigger is the chance that she'll stretch the rules a ton when it actually happens. My gf didn't want my dick near the other girls pussy before, but when we finally did it, I made her cum and took it out mid orgasm, then came on the other girl while she also came. The three of us came toghether, and it was so powerful to my gf that she reminds it frequently, coming to say to me "cum in her" in our last threesome. If she doesn't, don't make much of it, at the very least she's giving you fap fuel for the next few months.

Let your gf/wife take the lead of absolutly everything. If something goes wrong, she won't be able to blame you for it. It sounds submissive, but it's well worth it.

And try to make as clear as possible that liking another person is not a risk. Affection is not a zero sum game. Right now both me and my gf have come to terms that we both liked the other girl, but that didn't subtract anything from what we feel for each other.