Convince me to cheat my girlfriend

>>9169667
Stay loyal, dick. This whole side chick crap is fucking retarded.

it was before, it has been 5 years you're in your relationship, seriously. If you cheat on her you'll ruin that

>>9169667
Don't cheat, faggot.

Been in your position, decided to try it once with another girl, we did, gf doesn't know, sex wasn't great, would have just rather ed have stayed loyal. I wouldn't do it.

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Don't cheat on her, nigger.

>>9169667
If you value you her as person, do not cheat.

Basically every vagina is going to clamp your penis the same way. It is not worth risking 5 years of a relationship.

Don't cheat nigger

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>>9169667
use better grammar. holy shit. when i was reading that it felt like i was having a stroke.

cheat if you want to cheat, she's probably doing it to you. its not like you can ever know. i've been fucking a girl for a year and a half who has a boyfriend. he lives in the next state over, admittedly, but the dude doesn't even know i exist.

do you, dude.

>>9169667
Don't be stupid. The temptation to fuck other women will always be there but it will always ruin your relationship, and you might not get another one like you have with her for a long time. Don't do it. Be a man and accept that she fucked another guy in the distant past. It doesn't mean anything. It's only in your mind.

>>9169667
I am amazed 4chan is giving morally sound advice

>>9169779
Since this is a porn board everybody in this thread already blew their loads and actually thinks.

>>9169779
>being this new
you don't understand how 4chins work

The White Knights are everywhere...so listen to me you fucking pussy: You have one single life. Period. You're thinking about cheating, so I assume you're not a hundred percent satisfied. You both don't have any experience, which is fine for a women in the feminized western world, and a death sentence for a man. What if you split up in 2, 3, 5 years? Then you have no experience and no girlfriend. And let me tell you: As soon as a guy with enough balls strolls along and let your girlfriends clit tingle, she will cheat. And of course, let the shitstorm of brainwashed pussywhipped neckbeards talk you out of it. And I bet half of them had one or two girlfriends themselves, but having a nagging little voice of reason that their gf isn't respecting them or is getting wet thinking about a real man.

I'm saying: If you want to cheat, do it. Stop being a faggot about it. It's natural. It's normal. It's life. I'd fuck your girlfriend in a heartbeat and all I'd say if you come and try to guilt me into anything is: "Sorry bro, bitch chose me." Yeah its amoral, but so is life. Get your heads out your asses you fucking cowards. If you're a little bitch now, you'll be one in 20 years, with 3 kids down and a pending divorce because your soon to be ex-wife fucked someone higher up in the social structure.

Peace out.

>>9169667
Just dont, one time fuck aint worth that shit.

>>9169735
I remember adding her on snapchat, holy fucking shit is she boring

>>9169842
Real shit right here.

>>9169667
Don't do it. If you do you'll realise you fucked up afterwards.

>>9169842
t. 13 year old

>>9169667
My friend.. you will to be asking yoursalf one day.. she'll never cheating me.. why did cheating her? you will throw shuriken in air and pray for to land on.
maybe kill..
but then.. who was phone?

>>9169842
Let me know what it's gonna be like to die alone.

>>9169842
Follow this, OP. Truth.

>>9169667
sauce?

>>9169842
So true, much wisdom in those words

I'm in a similar situation, my girlfirend of 6 months is going away to study (5-6hours car drive). Although I'm the only guy that came in her every hole, she had sex with a condom with her previous boyfriend and a guy in a one night stand (that way fucking disgusting to me, almost broke up because of that). I was a virgin when I met her and she's my only partner. She says she understands my worries when we talk about similar stuff but I probably couldn't have a one night stand like she did, I'm not that kind of person. And idk if she'd take me back. She's 18 and I'm a year older.
Both have always been loyal and I can't imagine cheating on her and neither can she. The pussy gets a little loose after little pounding. She's a tall girl but could it be because she fucked at 15 already? She's hot, loves me more than anyone but I really feel like at 18 you expect women where I live to still be mostly virgins (although she is hot and popular and gets hit on) so probably everyone thinks we're super happy and it's the first teenage love, but I have immense frustrations because of that one night stand guy. What do? I'm just going with the flow for now. We don't have the same goals in the future and we're not soulmates, our relationship is based mostly on physical attraction, similar interests but we are pretty different. We also argue a lot. Deep talks are rare, but we're being 100% honest (well i'm being 99% otherwise i'd just lash out at her for being loose before she met me like a beta faggot) so that helps. Can't imagine being with another woman and it's pretty rare that I connect with someone. She's super nice and tries so hard for me.
What do?

>>9169952
bunnybutt

>>9169667
Unless you chained her to the stove or she's exceptionally ugly, she has already cheated on you a few times. Makes of that what you will.

>>9169965
edit: I thinkof one night stands as one of the sicknesses of today's decadent world, where true love was replaced by hedonism and individualism. She says she was unstable at the time and feels really bad. Her mother tho, stayed virgin till 30something when she met her father.
One more thing, if she comes back after 6 years of studying, if we argue and break up, i basically threw away half of my remaining not bald life and good luck finding a non whore at 25

>>9169965
Just trust that there is someone better for you out there. She probably will cheat on you.

>>9169667
Do it, it's her fault for not giving you what you need, i'm sure you have the typical "couple life" with a boring routine set up already, living like if you was a 50yo marriage, i'm totally sure that your GF have fucked a lot of men before you, i'm sure you know that and you feel like "hey, i want to try more things before i get kids" she enjoyed her sexual life and you simply not, that's all, it's just that simple, some ppl here will make you feel guilty because they are a fucking cucks that fucks only 1 time a year (being generous), just don't tell her what you have done. Just make a difference between sex and love. (sorry for my english)

>>9169971
Where does this insecurity come from?

>>9169667
Op ignore the betas, you are a man and she loves you. Keep fucking her and keep her close. If you are attractive and confident she will want to be with you. And even if she cheats, (which is kinda impossible depending on you) she will lose her mind over the mistake while you will drown in other pussy.

But that most likely wont happen and you will be together

>>9169779
I thinking the same fucking thing, though i landed in reddit or some shit

>>9169923
wat

>>9169667
Don't cheat you idiotic faggot

>>9169965
Okay. I'm gonna be real with you man.

Marriage is the ultimate end goal of all stable relationships. If you've been with them for a while and they don't seem like the right stuff for the long term that's a problem that deserves some thinking.

Honestly, it sounds like to me you have some deep seated issues about your own insecurity with the fact that she's had sex with other people. And the problem is fundamentally not with her, it's with you in that regard. So I suggest you do some soul searching on that particular subject. Next, I will tell you that distance is the ultimate test of any relationship, if it doesn't stand up to you being separated then it probably wasn't going to last period.

Ultimately you are in control of your own life so think this shit over and make a decision yourself. It seems like this girl really cares about you and you're half way in the water trying to figure out whether to dive in or walk back to shore. I can't provide any easy answers, just insight.

>>9169667
Don't cheat on your girlfriend you fucking idiot.
Talk your problems out with her and see if you can come to an arrangement.
Unless you don't love her, in that case, you shouldn't be together.

The amount of insecurity in this thread is fucking hilarious. I can't remember once in my life where I was sitting around wondering if I was being "too beta". Once you actually move out of your parents' house and have to pay your own bills you'll have actual important things to think about. Grow the fuck up you fucking pathetic losers.

>>9169991
So you know every single girl on the planet???

>>9169667
Holy shit i'm in the exact same situation. I'm 26, 5 years relationship, first gf ever. She's fat and i'm now in shape (was fat at the time). I just came back from vacation with my mom and i met a girl there, can't stop talking to her, can't stop thinking about her.. We've met twice now that we're back and i know that the next time we mee something is going to happen.
So here's my advice to you: if you feel like you will waste your life by staying with the same girl, then go for it. But at least, be a man about it and don't play with your gf's feels. Tell her the truth and leave her, don't just cheat and have her find out in 2 years and be devastated.

OP if you really love your girlfriend than cheating will feel like shit. If you don't love your girlfriend, why not just break up with her?

>>9169667
She's a Woman, so worthless, fuck somebody else and lie her in her face. Women are worthless Sex Toys and deserved to be fucked and ignored ;P

Short version: Don't.

Long version: do you feel the need to? If you don't, don't cheat. If you do, something is not working: talk to her about how you feel instead of lying. Lies only make things more complicated between people, no matter if they are friends, lovers, sex partners or any combination of these.

LOL to the guys saying do it she will cheat on you in second are the true beta males.
Bitter and butt hurt cheated on by ex's as they were not man enough to keep a woman loyal.
I have ex's hurt when they left but did not cheat. Girl wanted me over her bf i didnt let her near told her if she wanted me had to do the right thing to her bf before being with me bros before hoe's stop being boys start being men.

Now in a 5 year long relationship she could go out on own with male friends not bothered in the slightest if you got 5 years chances are you have control and loyalty still look for the warning signs but not worth cheating.

>>9169797
This

>>9169842
That's some idiotic advice. Be a decent human being and control your urges for fucks sake.

>>9169667

Have you ever considered an open relationship?
Or an open marriage?

>>9169667
variety is the spice of life but don't cheat, if you want different pussy break up with her first, she'll be hurt regardless, might as well be upfront about it

>>9169667
damn you missed satan trips by 1
(its a sign)

nah seriously, don't cheat
>sex will likely not be worth the risk and gradually rising guilt
>if the sex you're getting at the moment is that terrible, just break it off

I cheated on my last girlfriend by fingering some random chick at a party,
yeah its not sex but I felt awful after, and Im generally pretty emotionless.

there's no reason you both can't learn more about sex together, if anything that'd strengthen your relationship

>>9170019
this real right here. my gf was only 1 and half hours away. still didn't last. unless you are pounding her 2, 3 times a week (at this college/university stage, obviously it's different if you two are not in college or living together) and going on dates or whatever, it most likely won't last. maybe it will for a year, but either you or her will get tired of the distance and get with someone else. it's just natural. my advice is either slide into a fwb deal or just split. save the heartache bro

You're in a good relationship. A lot of people don't have that. Why fuck it up?

You'll only regret it if she finds out and ends your otherwise good relationship

>>9169667
Are you retarded op?
you just said your in a relationship happily for 5 years and now your getting jelous about some bullshit 'iv only had 1 partner' crap.
I get that your keen to try new things but do you know how hard it is to find a good relationship that lasts 5 years? And being single is not the sexcapade you think it is. And emotionless sex is also not as great.

Your gf probably knows what you like way better then any other chick will ever. So the sex ud get will likely blow and then ul fuck up a perfectly good relationship or keep something secret and end up fucking it up years down the line.

You sir, are a tool.

>>9169667
you obviously have trouble expressing yourself and making sense, AND you're considering cheating on her. you're an asshole, and she deserve better than you.

>>9169692
Sauce?

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>>9169667Why don't you faggots just talk out your problems with your gfs? If you're old enough to be getting romantically involved with someone, you're old enough to make grown up decisions and to do the right thing.

Don't ruin a relationship because you're not completely satisfied. Talk to your gf about what you're missing and if she loves you she'll understand. Don't go out and fuck up a good thing man.

>>9169842
Lol at this retarded advice. The amount of guys crying themselves to sleep at night because they lost a decent girl and can't get over her, just go to any anon forum and hear guys honestly regret fucking up the only good relationship they ever had because they believed this kind of red-pill shit advice.

OP you sound like a bit of a dick who's already decide to cheat on a girl who's never cheated on you, so best of luck with that and you only have yourself to blame if it backfires

>>9169938
Everyone dies alone. Even if you have "Loved ones" around you, you are alone, for they are not going with you

Dude, 5 years down the drain for some pussy?

If you feel she can't satisfy you sexually, talk to her about it and maybe you can come to an agreement to fuck other people.

Though if it's that big of a deal and you can't talk to her about it, maybe you should just break it off and be single for a while to see how you like it

>>9169667
>mfw I will never get my dicked sucked.

>>9169667
You're a piece of shit for even coming here to try and get us to convince you to do something you clearly want to do.

>>9169724
BE A MAN

YOU MUST BE SWIFT AS A COURSING RIVER

>>9169842
>shit was so cash
>pic related it's me and my bitch

>>9169842
>Peace out.
dropped opinion there

>>9169965
>Although I'm the only guy that came in her every hole, she had sex with a condom with her previous boyfriend and a guy in a one night stand (that way fucking disgusting to me, almost broke up because of that).
Holy shit you're a faggot

>>9169779
I was just thinking this

>>9169797
has a good point

>>9169667
kys

>>9169991
probably.
>>9169999
quads don't lie
>>9170019
yeah i know the problem is in me, i told her that already, i'm pretty insecure about that shit because of my personal issues in the past. i mostly try to just man up and say it doesn't matter but you probably know how you'd wait for a girl if she was the only one and you were her only one and you loved her and how you'd wait for someone to whom you're just another one. anyways thanks, needed some calming words there.
>>9170265
the thing is, I can go study abroad the next year for a year, then come back for a year and go study back there again for a year so it would be 1 year on 1 year off and so on... but that's pretty unlikely.
>>9170411
yeah that came out wrong

>>9169824
You probably have 4 chins you fat fuck

>>9169667
Okay, listen here. Getting cheated on is literally the most painful thing a person can do to someone they love. I've been cheated on, and cheated as well. It doesn't work out. Movies and porn aren't reality, you don't just go home to the woman you love and feel great about it all. Guilt is real and not something you can just throw aside, the relationship will never be the same whether or not she knows.

So here's the bottom line. You're on 4chan. In a sub that is dedicated to porn and gore videos. Most of the people here are here to watch people get pulverized for entertainment yet even they are telling you this is the stupidest thing for anyone to do. What does that tell you?

Have fun ruining your own and her life. And have fun knowing that after she learns what you did that she will never trust you again, mostly when you tell her you love her.

Anyway, gunna go get drunk because writing this made me think about old shit. Bye.

>>9170508
Godspeed anon

>>9170208
degeneracy

>>9169691
Agreed done same thing feel like shit she dsnt know sex was shitty

Cheating sex feels amazing but you will always, always feel like shit afterwards.

The one time I did it, I drove home immediately and cried myself to sleep.

If you value your gf at all, don't fucking do it faggot.

>>9169842
Hmm... Really makes you think...

>>9169842
>I assume you're not a hundred percent satisfied
Who is? The fact is you're going to have to make a some kind of compromise in your life at some point. The choice is whether you value freedom and variety of women over companionship and family.

Honestly though, you're rationalising your own selfishness by placing the blame on women and that's pretty pathetic. At least be honest with yourself about what you want and why.
>As soon as a guy with enough balls strolls along and let your girlfriends clit tingle, she will cheat.
Oh please.

>>9169842
>As soon as a guy with enough balls strolls along and let your girlfriends clit tingle, she will cheat.
This is what cucks actually believe

>>9170399
BE A MAN

WITH THE FORCE OF A GREAT TYPHOON

>>9169691
Agreed. It's not worth it. You end out feeling guilty and it can have a serious emotional impact on your relationship.

>>9169998
this, Op. Ignore the white knights. All women are sluts once the chance is given. She is not worth it.
Been in the same position. Dump her asap, trust me. It's not gonna end well.
Find a worthy one that hasn't given herself to other dudes. One who values u like she values herself.

>>9169667
Having a monogamous relationship this day and she seems impractical, idiotic, self defacing and otherwise futile. Plus there is no reason to other than belief systems. Do what you want. If you would like to take the high road, treat her like a modern adult and tell her you have the urge to fuck other women and gain other experiences. Maybe then you can explore why you feel this way with her instead of feeling like a cretin

>>9170208
lmao open relationships are for cuck faggots. fucking inferior ppl gtfo

>>9170579
exaclty, and you never forget

>>9169679
Word, if it's been working out for 5 years dont throw it out for a retarded reason like that, go have kids with her and make your existence worth something.

>>9169667
It's not cheating if she never finds out. Ignore all the moralfags. You only live once. The fact is that humans really weren't intended to be monogamous for life.

I'm in a similar situation, although my current girlfriend of 5 years was my 9th sexual partner. Not bad, but still after 5 years... you get a little bored no matter how good your relationship is. We will probably get married and have kids and all that shit, which is cool with me. But sometimes I just want to fuck some other girl simply for the experience. I don't want to date anyone else or have some emotional affair. I just want to blow my load in another vagina/face/ass for a change.

I have never done it yet, but as basic logistics (living in a smallish town, makes tinder and other apps impossible). I do occasionally travel for business though, and I always try to go out to a bar or something at night. I've had chats with other women before, and actually the last time met a MILF (late 40s, divorced, mother of 2, but thin and toned, plump, nice bottom, and flirty as hell). I would've done a one-night-stand, but she wanted my number for another date later.

Anyway, if you're going to do it: rubber up. You do NOT want to have to explain an STD. Second, keep the sex as anonymous as possible. Don't give your last name or where you really live. Make shit up -- don't be extravagant. Just change a few minor details to throw off the 'chase' if she ever looks for you. Do not share numbers, facebook or emails or whatever, if you can do so without araising suspicions. Do not even stay the night if that's possible.

>>9169718
OP is obviously not an English speaker. I'm guessing French or Spanish or something. The internet is open to the whole world, buddy. Get used to it.

Don't do it.

I've cheated on most of my girlfriends, and it kills me inside. Now, I just stopped talking to other women because I know I can't control myself. It sucks, but if that's what it takes to be faithful to my gf, fine. Cheating is for fucking cowards.

>>9169667
>frenchfag detected
Kill yourself cheating scum!

>>9169965
>18-19 year old couple.
>so insecure with the idea of other people having sex that he's not involved with that he thinks some girl having a one-night stand long before she ever knew him is grounds for a break-up
>argues a lot
>admits they have nothing in common, except his controlling insecurity which she appeases anon so he'll chill out
>thinks they'll still be dating in 6 years
>let alone in 6 months
seriuously LOL

grow up, you pathetic manlet.

>>9169842
INTERNET TOUGH GUY

>>9170659
>open relationships are for cucks.
>yet he's the one fucking all the different girls.
>meanwhile you're 5 years till Wizard status and long for the touch of a woman.

>>9169667
if you plan to cheat, just fucking kill yourself my man

Damn man, what kind of question is this? A relationship is literally communication in one form or another. So what makes this any different? Talk about sex often with your partners anons, but especially you OP. Nonetheless if you're already asking this then it's clear what you want to do. If you want to throw away five years for pussy, just fucking do it so she can move on in her life and be with someone who's serious about being with her. I've fucked a lot of random people in my life but no pussy ever compares to the one that loves you.

So either man up go single and enjoy emotionless fucking as a free man, or actually fix a situation so it suits the both of you.

Cunt.

>>9169667
and learn some fucking engrish or stay in your country's forums, faggot undermensch

>>9169965
Throw it away so someone that deserves a girlfriend who tries hard can be with her. Since you clearly have the emotional wisdom of a fucking toddler you insecure fuck. "oooh nooo she had a life before I emotionally chained her down how unfair."

Seriously, do it. Go cheat and let her date a man not three boys in a trenchcoat.

>>9169842
t. 40 year old virgin

>>9170518
for blue balls sake source pls

Christ, the thirsty betas are out in force today.

>>9170710
OP isn't German.

>>9169842
Yeah sure, its so nice if you do not control yourself and let your urges take over.

I'm saying: If you want to beat up, do it. Stop being a faggot about it. It's natural. It's normal. It's life. I'd beat up your girlfriend in a heartbeat and all I'd say if you come and try to guilt me into anything is: "Sorry bro, the bitch made me angry."

You cannot control other people. You can only control yourself. Its up to you to be happy.

If you are happy with her. Do not make something stupid. Otherwise just leave her.
But cheating will make it just complicated.

>>9169667

You'll regret being locked in a cell. You don't need to cheat, just tell her you don't feel the same as in the beginning. Love fades away with time, y'know.

If you're attracted to more girls than her, you shouldn't lock yourself so much time.

>>9170008
Nah on /r/relationships it would be straight up "cheat on her shes worthless also sue her" subreddit is retarded af

you have other options: pick one or more people to have sex with you two (MMF/FFM, other pair, swinger club, ...) or talk about an open relationship where everybody can do anything (requires talking about it).
Do not cheat, dummy!

>>9170643
BE A MAN

WITH THE STRENGTH OF A RAGING FIRE

>>9169667

You've going out with her 5 fucking years? Just try to open the relationship, talk with her sincerely about it. No need to get all dramatic.

>>9169965
Just because you were a loser before meetimg her and never had sex, then rationalizing this into "despising" one night stands doesnt mean it's true AND that she should abide to this retarded logic.
You cant think less of someoen just because they had a sexual life before you, do you want your soulmate to never have experience anything before you? And then just give themselves to you since you are SO amazing?
How shallow of a person are you?

>>9169965
You're an insecure, controlling, sexually repressed and (sigh, you made me day this) sexist loser.
Leave her so she can have a healthy relationship with soemone that wants to be with her for better reasons

>>9169842
Holy edge.

>>9169667
If you wana fuck up your relationship of 5 years and feel like a guilty prick then go for it.

>>9169667
fucking retard

>>9169923
I love you.

>>9170850
And I always thought relationships is full of women bitching about men.

>>9169667
bro, the real question you should ask yourself is whether you want to be in a long term relationship or not. It has benefits and drawbacks. The reason most young people don't last in long term relationships is that the benefits (companionship, love, steadiness) don't outweigh the drawbacks (restrictions on sex).

If you want to fuck around, there's nothing wrong with that, but you should grow a sack and tell your girlfriend. She will either propose opening up the relationship (i.e. you and her will both fuck people on the side), or want to break up.

I think most guys should go through a phase of fucking different girls, not because the experience is good or anything, but because you won't really be tempted in the future. You tend to imagine a fantasy land of pure, constant sex, and it's really more like a wasteland of landwhales, money-grubbers, and std / pregnancy scares.

>>9170505
Kek

But yeah OP dont cheat. Not worth throwing out 5 years for something you'll feel bad and regret later.

>>9169667
sauce?

>>9170869
i had pretty straightforward chances to have sex before but never did. I guess it's my toxic mentality : ^)
yes i'd like that and "having a sexual life" is just being promiscuos and i'm not looking for a lifelong partner to be like that. Also it's not something I try to think about, it's mostly subconscious.
How was your first girlfriend?
>>9170878
Yeah I know but she still loves me, I'm afraid it's mostly because of my looks but she still does. A lot. Also
>2016
>calling insecure people sexist
>on 4chan

Have you thought about swinging? She might be open to it. I never thought my wife would be but after showing her a few episodes of Playboy Swing she was game.

>>9169667
Yea op, and once you start fucking escorts you won't be able to stop and you'll slowly fall out of love with your GF

>>9169923
lol, under rated post

>>9170723
>>9170695
i wonder what you were like when you were that age with the first girl you loved and or lost your virginity with. i mean, do you come to this page expecting anything more?

>>9170518
Damn she looks like a baby who's lost their pacifier when his dick falls out of her mouth

>>9169700
This faggot gets it.

>>9171024
Honestly, I don't recall ever having that "hurrrrr she can never have had sex before being with me!!" attitude. My first was a fairly slutty girl, who I know had blown/fucked two others of my friends. That's how I got with her. Didn't care. I dated/deflowered one virgin and she was clingy as fuck, so I've tended to specifically avoid virgins. Once past age 16-18 or so, it's really not an expectation you should have.

>>9169923
Fuck, my sides hahaha

>>9170023
sauceon that please

>>9170508
You can get rid of guilt easily, just make-believe
>she probably would cheat on you as well
>it's technically not cheating if you break up with her for a week and then get back
>It's not a big deal

>>9169718
>use better grammar. holy shit. when i was reading that it felt like i was having a stroke.
The trick is to read it in a funny accent that fits the grammar.

>>9169842
>you're not a hundred percent satisfied
And? You're an idiot if you take actions to try to achieve 100% satisfaction, because you'll never get there. Any dumbass can go an fuck several bitches, even in a pussy western world filled with SJWs, and it's not like that's a very fulfilling experience anyway - pussy pretty much always feels the same.
>yeah it's amoral, but so is life
Again, so? Just because the world operates one way doesn't mean it's the right way, or even the only way. You're just a short sighted cuckservative who can't follow logic when it's more than one line long, and you think that excuses your shit behavior

>>9169667
>technically

>>9170340

Horseshit. I'm going to run my car off a cliff with at least a couple friends/family members in it with me.

>>9169667
I'm give years with my now fiance man, I'm recently discovering that I'm bisexual, and I could go fuck some guys ass with no words exchanged right now. But I won't do it man. There isn't a thing in the world that lasts a single moment worth throwing love away for

>>9169867
How was she boring?

.. and what's her snapchat.

>>9169667
you're a fucking nigger if you cheat on her
>hurr durr i committed to one woman but now i wanna cheat!
dont fucking date in the first place if you're just going to go on some Chinese image board and get approval from anonymous people to cheat

yes i am mad about this
get fucked

>>9169667
bottom line, dipshit, is that if you care in any personal regard for this chick, if you cheat on her you will regret it for the rest of your life.

>>9169667
what a fucking nigger. he wants to ruin a good relationship because he's butthurt about her ex boyfriends what a faggot. I hope you either die or she moves on. You clearly don't deserve her

>>9169667
>met a girl on tinder

>pretty cool, doesn't live too far from me

>talk for a few months, nudes, dirty phone calls, but can't get the time and place to fuck

>tells me she "needs time for herself" but wants to keep talking

>yeah whatever i get it

>talking to her one day

>"Anon im going to a hotel tonight!"

>oh who with?

>"just people"

>calls me next day telling me she feels dirty because she met this guy behind my back and fucked him (her first time too lol)

>begs me not to hang up while she walks to clinic to get checked

>nah fuck that bitch

>stopped talking to her the same day.

>bitch told me how she wanted to kill herself too kek

5 years in a relationship is nothing to what I had, and you're asking random autistic faggots to encourage you to mess that up. if you're not happy just tell her you want to leave you retard

only reason i'd talk to her again is if i could guilt her into getting hatefucked.

>>9169713
Woah, Australian porn

>>9169965

Okay, let me get this straight.

You have a girl that you aren't that into, but feel it's very important that you 'came in her every hole.' You don't really like her that much (but are conscious others think that you do.) Even though you aren't going to be spending that long with her, she are overwhelmed with rage because she's had sexual experiences before you, because it's an immoral ''sicknesses of today's decadent world, where true love was replaced by hedonism and individualism' '' - even though you just described yourself as having a casual, non-loving, not intended to last, relationship with a girl who's 'holes' you've made a point if 'cuming in' even though her 'pussy gets a little loose.'
you need to go to a therapist. your parents didn't love you enough, and now 'have' the personal pathology known as 'narcissistic personality disorder.' you're anger over the girl's other partners has nothing to do with your 'morality' (notice you saw fit to engage in a clearly quite casual relationship) but that she's had a life outside of you. you can't define her and so you worry that she can't echo you completely. you can't dismiss the other men for what they are, as nothing to do with you, because to your mind everything is to with you. it's a constant reminder of your lack of actual control.

you should leave this 'nice girl' asap as you're only be bad for her.


and no i'm not a 'feminist,' before you think that. igaf if you are sexist or not

just break up with her and fuck others you insecure shitfuck

>>9169667

She just blew two guys previously and that's making you squirm just because you totally failed otherwise??

I get if she had been fucked but who gives a fuck about a blowjob.

>>9171666

Pretty accurate

>>9170317

1284559 no moms

>>9169779
THIS

>>9170340
Make sure not to cut yourself on that edge my man.

>>9170340
Tell that to my wives and slaves who will accompany me on my boat to the afterlife.

>>9170340

That's not being alone - you aren't going anywhere when you die. You are with them, then suddenly you stop.

So no you aren't dying alone. When a movie ends it doesnt mean you didnt watch it when it stops and you sit there.

>>9169842
people are operating under the assumption that OP's gonna get caught cheating.

Haven't you motherfuckers ever heard of "side-pussy?"

Learn to tap strange on the side like a man. Do not listen to the White Knights.

Do your dirt on your lonely. Tap some strange on the side and leave it at that. Have frivolous sex. It's got nothing to do with her, and doesn't mean you love her any less.

Just don't get caught. Don't cop onto some sense of guilt that you think you should have because punk ass dudes on this board say you should. Men need many women, it's just nature.

>>9169923
kek'd

>>9171764

Never has a more virginal post been posted.

>>9169679
i second that.

>>9171666
Its alarming how common this double standard thinking seems to be among men. It's a sense of nearly sociopathic infallibility and entitlement that stems from a combination of a uniquely masculine kind of arrogance and an underdeveloped sense of empathy.

Not trying to start a gender debate here btw, women can be awful for different reasons but the degree to which some men are full of themselves boggles the mind. How do they rationalise their own unwarranted sense of self-importance?

>>9171794

Men are arrogant, women are sluts; both are as bad at each as the other is.

Honestly chicks are whores, what is so special about sex? They only think sex is special with the person they're with and then when they move on to number 10 they think that it's still going to be special with that guy. If sex was supposed to mean anything they wouldn't open their legs to anyone who asked. Now, having to be convinced to cheat means you just shouldn't do it, why stoop down. If there's some fault with her you don't like, then leave the bitch and find someone else. There is literally no reason to keep a girl around if you have a problem with her, fuck all the bullshit about just dealing with things and compromise. If the shit keeps you up all night, why are you still torturing yourself. Dude, she can't fucking change what she did, and only 2 is honestly really good, BUT cheating isn't going to make you feel even, the only way to get over the fact she fucked 2 other dudes is to fuck them yourself and realize it's not a big deal. Fucking a couple of snatches isn't going to make you feel any better about those other dicks she took. If you do decide you can't live with it then good fucking luck in finding a female virgin.

On second thought that's really all the real advice you need, if you're older than 13 in today's times, I sincerely wish you the greatest of luck in finding a chick virgin. Be alone or deal with it OP

>>9169667
Don't do it you faggot. Ignorance is bliss.

up

>>9169923
I cant even deal with how fuckin funny that was.
Top notch

>>9171666
There's no such thing as a "nice girl". They're all whores with no personality. Women just mimic who ever they get their dick from, and any chick will tell you this exact thing happens with their friends. In their defense, any woman who does have her own personality is usually seen as a complete bitch so I guess they're stuck, but don't give anyone "nice girl" shit. A nice girl is only that way because she's got no one right now to tell her what her opinions are

>>9171821

Not when it comes to faggotry though, bliss is experience.

>>9169965
You are one gigantic douchebag. What she did before you s her business. She should cheat on you now, because you are a huge wannabe man, and she needs a real man in her life.

Just accept that most women will have more sexual partners than most men, simply because it is easier to get dick than pussy, no matter what "number" they give you for their past sexual experiences.

xd

>>9169842
This

>>9171361
dont know which vid but i know its Stoya. Its a popular one so itll likely be one of the first ones you find

>>9171817
When was the last time you got any pussy? Never? 10 years ago? Your posts sounds like a 13 year old virgin writing about their childhood fear of cooties.

>>9170019
This. Cheated on my ex basically because i could. I still loved her and had been together for over a year when it started. Yeah fucking around behind her back was fun and all, but after that i knew that the relationship was not going to last.

Do it if you really want to, but if you see this as a long term relationship don't. Instead talk to her about it and find something new and exiting to do in the sac

>>9171849
I've been married for 7 years and had a couple other long term relationships, the relationship I'm in now is about 3 years going and haven't cheated on her yet. The marriage ended simply because it wasn't meant to be, we're still very good friends and play vidya online and shit together. No bullshit with custody or anything. What makes you so angry?

>>9171832

I agree that he is a huge failure, that said someone's past actions are not just their own business, it concerns anyone who is going 'into business' with them in the present. However if it is an issue for OP he only has himself to blame for moving ahead with it when she told him.

>>9170508
I feel you, man. Being cheated on sucks; have a drink for me.

>>9170340
That's more of a copout for people who are afraid of getting hurt.
Plus, all the dying alone crap is pseudo-philosophical bullshit anyways. Of course everyone dies alone. Its not like the world stops when your eyes shut for the last time. And what? Is it supposed to be calming for someone else to die with you? To suffer with you? Sure moral support is good but isn't it remarkably selfish to wish that you could have someone to pull down with you?
And on top of all of this, you're focusing on the wrong gd thing. This whole life thing isnt about the end, its about the journey. If you keep focusing on a bitter end, its going to ruin the journey. We've all gotta die sometime but you ought to try actually living first.

>>9169923

My sides are officially in orbit.

Lmao at all these fags with relationship issues, i'm happily in a long term relationship for about 2 years now (known her for 3.5), but sex isn't fucking everything lads.

We were both each other's first with a bit of dating back in highschool for each of us (since we met through highschool, were friends for 1.5 years), she is innocent and at first didn't wanna fuck and wait till marriage (6 months in) but i changed her mind and she was hella tight up to a point where she cried, so i knew that I was her first.

There's no point in being a relationship if you are not compatible which other, so if you are unhappy, go out, fucking find someone else.
Because the only thing at the end of a relationship is marriage, so if you wanna fuck other girls or you are unsatisfied, have some fucking decency and break up with her first before going out there and experimenting with shit.

Point is you can only do 1 of 2 things,
(1) if you wanna fuck multiple girls; be single.
(2) or If you are there because you generally care about someone and want to be with them; be in a relationship.

&If you wanna do both, then you need to redefine (2), because if you are wandering to some other girl then you don't truly care about that person.

But what do I know hey, I'm just a stranger on the webs.
Peace out faggots.

>>9169713

Requesting sauce!

>>9170329
this girl looks just like a girl i went to uni with. Skinny af but had tits so big that she needed a reduction surgery to prevent back problems. wish i was single when i was close with her...

>>9169667
Fuck you

>>9169718
what state you in

>>9170668
>It's not cheating if she never finds out

Are you mentally retarded? Go look up the definition of cheating you fucking idiot.

Honestly with everything in life treat it like a loss benefit relationship. If the gain is worth the loss do it. However I don't feel guilt and don't date so take it with a grain of salt.

>>9170800
If I had any, I'd share it with the world. Found it on a thread a few weeks ago and immediately saved it.

>>9169667

OHHHH BOY HERE WE GO OP
>Be me, live in FL
>start talking to a girl
>im 16
>shes 14 lives in NY [told me she was 16]
>just got out of a cheating relationship
>guy cheated on her multiple times
>become kinda skype fuck buddies
>find out she was flirting with the friend that introduced us
>we werent serious so we both dropped her
>immature highschool me
>fast foward two years and move to NJ
>thought alot about it
>get back in contact with her
>still has only been with her last ex and regretted it
>she is single and has been for two years and is "18" but really 15
>decide to try dating
>drive up to her place grab dinner see a movie she blows me i finger her go home
>months later we meet up when she got her license so we get dinner and fuck instantly fall in love it was my first time
>have a stable loving relationship for two years
>extremely similar intrests
>cant even think of other women
>during this time i was sexually assaulted by a classmate in highschool
>crazy girl wanted my babys
>told my girlfriends she tried to hold me down and strip me but i managed to break free and broke down apologising for letting her near me
>had no idea she was going to try that shes literally crazy
>some fat girl stalked me for a while and tried to tell my gf "he will leave your for me"
>that happened in the first year
>second year was perfect
>never been happier in my life
>buddy found out about the stalker girl took advantage of the situation and tried to get with her
>manipulated my gf acting like i was cheating
>she never confronted me

Cont

>>9172196
>this all happened around oct of last year
>its my birthday
>first day i notice a change
>i see her
>have sex, tight as fuck as it should be
>sucks dick like a dry garden hose, no practice
>humor her because i love her
>she seems so depressed
>buddy wont talk to me after that day
>few weeks later we get into a fight over everything that went wrong DEC now
>she lashes out using every excuse and made up some shit for filler.
>i was abused as a child so i forget stressful situations easily as a coping mechanism
>still caught her in some lies
>point out the lies
>ask her why the sex died
>ask her why she wont talk anymore
>ask her whats wrong
>her parents are going through a divorce
>she wont respond for hours
>claims its because of family issues
>i ask "are you cheating on me"
>she gets offended and screams at me over the phone for assuming that
>i apologise
>we fight for months over everything
>one day she tells me about how she has a petplay fetish
>"we dont need to do it if you dont want to"
>"no im all for exploring your fantasy's, plus if i dont youll find someone else"
>"i would never do that, you dont have to i can practice it alone"
>she takes so long to respond i start to become extremely depressed
>one day i go over her house after valentines day
>first time i saw her in months
>i came over by surprise
>we cuddled and she cried
>said she was scared of me

cont

>>9169718
Ah, this is a more typical 4chan response. Everyone responding to this before was actually being reasonable, forward thinking and intelligent. Thanks for reestablishing the internet status quo, faggot

>>9172207
>>9172207
>i comforted her and apologised
>eventually she started sucking me off
>best bj of my entire life
>i start fingering her and its a loose hole
>i button up and say i cant do this
>go home convinced she cheated
>she told me she had been using a toy to get off shows me the toy so i belived her
>four weeks later she dumps me over text
>no explanation
>ill post the text above
>i already know what i want
>we eventually agree on a break but not permanent
>find out shes cheating with some dyslexic kid down the street who is a "model" but in reality hes just some idiot who took modeling photos
>literally a 5/10 at best ginger beard long faced faggot
>6' with no muscle literally stays at home all day
>girlfriend met him on fetlife
>she was "learning about pet play"
>guy offered to "train her"
>the met up did "training"
>started dating in DEC
>she destroyed our relationship to explore fantasys she was too nervous to talk about with me because she was manipulated into believing i wouldn't accept her by my best friend
>the literall only time in my entire life that i was happy was when i was with her
>i belong in a mental hospital now and literally cant run away from thoughts of suicide
>we are on and off at this point i dont know what i want to do yet
>she ruined her mental stability for bad sex with an ugly guy with a 5" dick
>no trust
>no love
>phisical pain to think about her
>see her three times a month or more to help her with her photography
>cry every time
>i hate my life
>i want to die

This is what happens when you cheat, dont do it to her. she does not direrve the pain i have felt. its not worth, the guilt, the tears, the self harm, the devaluing and the hatred of your own self.

If you dont love her, dump her.

>>9169667
Stay loyal and work on your English instead, that was hard as fuck to read.

>>9172222
wont let me post the screenshot but oh well, check em.

>>9171395
>it's technically not cheating if you break up with her for a week and then get back
>It's not a big deal

when has this ever worked out for anyone lol? Alls it does is create resentment and make the other person even more pissed that you give so little shit about them that you went and fucked someone within a week of breaking up.

>>9171664
>going to a hotel by herself
Anon, she literally couldn't put up a bigger red flag...

>>9172257
When you look at someone through rose-coloured glasses, all the red flags just look like flags.

I cheated on my girl with the hottest girl i knew. The sex was underwelming at best. 2/10 would not bang

>>9169718
i have been in a relationship with a girl that lives in the next state as mine for about 2 years...about a year and a half ago she started to behave different, so i've been cheating on her for about a year with the wife of a truck driver

Girlfriend cheated on me after 3.5 years together, but with a girl at her laboratory. Twice. Told me months later, and I tried to work things out with her, but eventually realized I can't get over the cheating, and broke up with her. Left me broken for two months, but I'm getting over it and moving on with my life. Don't cheat people, it's stupid. It's literally the most painful relationship decision you can make both for yourself, and especially so for your partner or significant other. Don't be a douche. Don't be a fag.

>>9169667
>Convince me to cheat my girlfriend
If your gonna take advice from a bunch of faggots complaining and ranting on cheating or not cheating, you don't deserve this girl desu

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5 FUCKING YEARS AND YOU WANT TO PUT EVERYTHING IN RISK JUST BECAUSE SHE HAD 2 PARTNERS BEFORE SHE EVEN MET YOU? FUCK YOU OP, YOU'RE AN ASSHOLE

>>9172365
Funny thing is, he just assumes he can get some new pussy if he wills it. Bullshit, and total asshole OP.

>>9169692
Sauce?

>>9171785
>Zounds! Degenerates everywhere! I bet this boastful chap is innocent of a woman's touch, for his commandments can only be the creations of a polluted mind not yet corrected by the Holy joys of matrimonial life!

>>9172222
jesus you should've put a leash on her before she met the ginger faggot

>>9171764
>It's got nothing to do with her
omg you gotta be kidding me

>>9171937
>18 year old on 4chan's /gif/ (basically a porn board) giving conservative dogmatic advice based on his own very limited experiences.
Shit wow, it's like I'm on /adv/ and not /gif/.

>>9172047
There are no repercussions if she never finds out. If it' And she won't ever find out if you are careful and have the right attitude (DO NOT shit where you eat, hit it and quit it, rubber up, don't get greedy or careless, don't trade contact info)

>>9172222
Jump off a bridge, you lame emo dramaqueen faggot. That's what you get for dealing with crazy. You're crazy yourself though, so it's only compounded.

>>9170203
Please do you have more of them? They deleted everything from youporn

>>9172222
Dude get over it, stop being a fucking wuss, besides you fucked yourself over by being an insecure bitch about the whole thing anyway.

>>9172332
That's the thing, a lot of 'hot girls' often just lay there. YMMV, but I've had similar experiences with a couple rather hot out of my league girls, too.

They're used to being fawned over so don't know that sometimes they have to not be the totally passive center of attention for once and try moving their hips too. Or, they're just too locked into their Personal Image™ to let go. Best sex I've ever had was with a butterface (not even that bad, but face was like 6/10, body a 10/10). Funnily enough, she was the older sister of a girl everyone on campus knew, due to her physical attributes. This girl was pretty much the same except for the face.

>>9169667

Can't believe blue eyes won worlds yet remained untouched by the banlist...

>>9169679
For real OP. I cheated on my best friend, the love of my life, multiple times. Took advantage of the fact that she trusted me. And even though she never found out, the guilt I felt once I realized that I wanted to marry her ate me alive, and ruined my relationship. If you think she's the one, don't cheat. The small duration of pleasure you receive by fucking someone else doesn't compare to the shame and regret you'll feel after you cum

>>9170505
fucking kek

>>9169667
dont cheat dude, just break up with her if you want other girls

>>9171666
This is a porn board, that's why i mentioned the sex related stuff, i wouldnt have otherwise, so please dont base your assuptions on my writing attitude, i wrote the exact same shit without tasteless banter on another normal board and people could easily relate, though you guys put more thought to that , nothing else. Also I didn't want a casual relationship with her but thats how it came out after a few months. I tried really hard to make it special and i actually succeeded to a point where i can say i still love her no matter what she did before and well try to make it through her leave so shes not just some girl to me, im not in a paradox you pointed out. I still believe true love can overcome some things, but its not turning out to be that and shes leaving thats why all these thoughts.
As far as the conclusion goes, youre pretty accurate for an armchair psychologist, but my family loves me very much and only when i started thinking more of the subject i came to conclusions. Iused to not care at all about thesexual partners but that was back in mid teens when all i wanted to do is touch a girl

>>9169667
Can't believe how many cucks post here these days.

Do it. If you manage to pull it off smoothly, she'll never find out. You need to experience other women, otherwise, how would you know she is "the one" if that "one" is the only thing you know? It's not only about the sex, is about the vibe you get from other women. Also, after you do it, your current gf will be suddenly nuts for you, like she could sense there was another pussy on you and she needs to claim her spot.

>>9169923
oh my god can't stop laughing

>>9169667

>technically I'm the only sexual partner she has had
>that's what she told me

Dude, that girl was a slut before being with you

>>9170636
It's what they fervently pray for every single day.

>>9169667
>>9170981
This is how I felt. I turned down sex with my high school girlfriends. I thought it was irresponsible for me to have sex before I met someone I loved. And even then. we dated for half a year in college before we had sex. Then it came out that she'd had sex with four short term boyfriends and a one night stand with a guy "who kept pressuring" her on a trip. I was devastated honestly. I felt jealous that she was able to have so much experience with no consequences, but I was just "stuck" with her. The sexual curiosity I have will always be there even if I did cheat. I had the same thoughts as you have, but don't give into them. It's not worth it, OP. Keep tapping her, ffs.

>>9169667
if you want to cheat on her make sure that you
1: do not regret it afterwards ,if you do you're fucked even if she never finds out
2: make sure she'll never ever meet the other girl
3: do not make it into a habit

when I've cheated I have thought "by doing this i have a counter attack of she in some future gets busted doing something likewise
..I like to have a hidden ace of needed

>>9172840
and you still tapping that? how do you feel now? Isn't the difference in your views a little too large? What if it comes up in a conversation with friends?

>>9169667
*convince* me to cheat my girlfriend?!
wtf dude.
you need someone to convince you to do shitty things, you need to grow up. dont know/care how old you are. All I'm sayin is to check if you are an immature piece of shit that needs someone to convince him about doing shitty things to others, so that then can blame them. And by blame I dont mean you will come back with another post, blaming us for ruining your relationship. I mean to yourself. Thoughts like "oh shit they influenced me to do that", whoever is "they" and whatever the is "that" are for children.
so grow up, put your shit together and then think about having a relationship let alone cheating

>>9169923

dan was boobies

>>9169667
>>9169679
second, cheating sex is over rated

>>9173006
Yes, I am. It took about a year, but I came to the same conclusion as other people here did. It's not fair of me to judge her so much for what she did before me. No matter what it seems, people's lives don't revolve around interacting with or meeting you. It's inconsequential now, and you had best believe I've got my girlfriend ass-up and face-down on a daily basis. As for my views, they're still there; I couldn't have sex with he if I didn't love her. It worries me that love and sex are more disconnected for her than they are for me, but I trust her.

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>>9169667
>>9169718
>>9169842
google.com: open relationships. if you fuckwits wanna cheat at least find a girl who'se okay with it, or better yet, dont get in a fucking relationship if you wanna fuck other girls. and if you're already in one, break up.

Honestly, I'd suggest being honest. It'll get you a lot farther if you tell her how you feel. My boyfriend of 2 years told me he felt this way so now I just let him fuck other girls every once in awhile. So does my best friend with her bf.

If she doesn't enjoy the open relationship stuff, then she'll either spice things up or end the relationship and you can get what you want anyways.

Lying will just make you feel guilty and gross. I wouldn't recommend cheating or sneaking around when you could simply end the relationship or develop an open one. A lot of women are into them if talked to about it. Much less messy.

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>>9169667
This shit is not about scores. If you're in a good relationship that is not "open," then don't justify her past experiences to betray her trust and ruin a good relationship.

I feel sorry for the poor girl that has to put up with you.

>>9169679
This.

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>>9169923

>>9169672
sauce

>>9169667

I wouldn't think about cheating until you have a proper grasp of written English. After you're 100% on that, then start considering it.

Let some dude fuck you in the ass if you wanna cheat... then, you'll be equal. Oh wait, let two dudes anal-fuck you. Yep, two guys fuck her good, so two guys should fuck you good. Only seems fair, right? Fuck off, mate. Don't cheat. It's not worth it. But, she could do much better than you, so yeah, let her go find a real man.

>>9169912
sauce?

>>9169667
only faggots dont cheat on their girlfriends or their wives. You better go get your dick wet before that little fucker shrivels up and falls away. trust me, Im a doctor.

>>9174352
so glad autists have trouble breeding

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>>9169667
Bad idea. The real choice was already made with who you are on the inside and truly you should be ashamed. I speak from experiences. When your heart is clouded you tend to judge others (not just your girlfriend) for their past. It's not a choice but who you are on the inside. Do you want or feel like the person who takes advantage of your partner for the past? Think about if the shoe was on the other foot. Hope my advice helps.

>>9169667
Dude, if you're going to cheat. Don't.

Cheating is ditching a bitch but not having the balls to actually leave. OTOH if you're just "this isn't going to work, because I'm an insecure pussy" then go lay every piece of tail you like trying to find some perfect flower that makes you feel good about yourself and don't stress over the fact that you're not cancelling the lease before you've got a new apartment lined up.

>>9169679
very much this, why would you throw away something good just for a quick fuck that's probably only going to happen once or twice

If you've already been cheated on then its not really a good idea to cheat back and hide it. It's kind of pointless to keep racking up the guilt. If you don't want to cheat then break up with her unless you're a damn cuck who doesnt care about being cheated on or have an open relationship. People who cheat once will keep doing it behind your back, especially since you know about it already. Also sorry if i fucked up my grammar but its 2 am and hopefully i got the message across.

If you want to break up, do it and move along... life is too short to stall in a relationship you don't actually want to be in.

If you just wanna have sex with someone else, do it, pay for it, whatever... and move past it... but keep it secret. No need to mess up your relationship.

If you find you're constantly doing that though, consider moving on.

>>9169667
why are all of u faggots trying to be a knight in shining armor? OP obviously wants to cheat so just let him. Stop being a such little bitches about it.

>>9169667
if your cosidering an escort you just want strange for its own sake, and you are your own man free of making choices which will practicaly emotionally destroy your significant other. Now may here will make the argument that thi sisi your emotional insecurity causing you to act within your nature yet also blame you for the emotional insecurity of the females in your life. this is a double standard.

if you must have so nookie on the side. no fb, and certainly no telling her. Your guilt is simmply an expression of a moral conundrum. ideological morality v.s empirica facts.

Women like sex as mcuh as men, but their first priority is saving face. they dont want to be the woman that came second to a guy they chose. They know it's just sex, but it's THEIR sex your sharing with someone else. Many men would feel the same. however there has never been any historical or biological basis for the insanity that is monogamy outside of property rights and childrearing.

As the feminists have been repeating for ever, its your body, your choice..none of anyone elses business.

>>9170193
"decent human being" on 4chan? yeah gore and all kinds of fucked up porn are ok but DEAR GOD if someone wants to cheat on THEIR gf.

>>9169965
dump her now, you will thank me later. long distance relationships are fun for the 4 of you if thats what u want lol

>>9169667
>I and my girlfriend have 25 years
hang yourself, spic

>>9169667
is Spanish your first language?

You want advice? Go back to school and learn hot to fucking write. I don't know if it's a girl or a guy the way you keep writing he and she. You 25 years old or has your relationship lasted 20 disgraceful years. Either you were writing this blindfolded our your a complete retard OP.

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>>9169691
>>9169683
>>9169679
>>9169705
>>9169724
>>9170945

These are nice anons

>>9169718
>>9172333
But these are right anons. If you're going to do it, then do it. Don't be an indecisive faggot.

>>9169842
Especially this anon. If you're going to cheat, then do it. You clearly want to or you wouldn't be making this thread. Don't be an indecisive faggot. Act like a man for once in your life; make a decision, follow through and deal with the results.

>>9169923
top kek

>>9170505
Kek

>>9169965
What a complete and utter faggot you are.

>>9174775
Low quality bait

>>9169672
underrated post. also, sauce

>>9174795

disgusting fat foot/ 10

>>9169667
Don't cheat, that's what cowards do. If you aren't happy, tell her and break up. Maybe you should be in a poly amorous relationship if you want to sleep around.

>>9170054
seriously, who has time to cheat when you are trying to adult.

>>9170857

MYSTERIOUS AS

THE DARK SIDE OF

THE MOOOOOOOOOOOON!!!!!!

>>9174434
gingerpuss
a.k.a puddems

>>9169667
Look, have you seen or listen to the many failed relationships stories from the real world? i.e. I personally have listen and confirmed too many stories of girls that get bored and feel pushed to fuck (or at least get in love) with another guy because their boyfriends had lost their libido (for the sake of some explanation), they got fucked very few times a month or less. So, start to be honest with your sexual routine if you truly want to be psychoanalized by anons in a 4chan board.

>>9169679
4 chan has come a long way there's a lot of actually good people on here I'm very happy to see the anons having humanity

>>9175295
Anons are humans, no matter how special they want to be. Inside that humanity there are bright sides and stupid sides. The difference is the frecuency, smart dudes that only spent a fraction of their time being assholes on 4chan is not the same as white knights spending half their time writing. On the long run will we ever know who may be more productive or wise?

I can't be happy because of 4chan, neither unhappy.

>>9169842
A bit too edgily-worded, but what he wanted to convey is right tbqh.

There are no rules, only consequences.

If you're not having fun, then go for it.

>>9169667
>also technically I'm the only sexual partner
that woman talk, though

No honey, it's not unfair when I do it, I do it because you're such a great guy.

Dude, You are the master of your life. And right now your one and only tenant is making you think you're roomates. And is making you share utility expenses, because you get to have sex with her.

1, you a fucking creep for exchanging shit like time and love for sex. If your girl doesn't want to fuck you and you need to convince her, you be raping man. Ask the feminists, blue.

2. You a 25-year-old young man, that is prime real estate and the market is going up, my man. Each year a new generation of increasingly dirtier and needier young freshman is coming into town. They want the D. And unlike your girl, they want the D because they want the D, not because they want your relationship. It's actually consensual sex.

3. she 25, she is already feeling: shit or get off the pot. Put her on the lease. She can't trade her puss for room and board for much longer, she needs them papers, dog. And she needs them at a primal level.

You know the feeling you have when you lonely as fuck and it;s spring and everyone is fucking? Well, that's what she feels, every time she sees a lonely spinster or a couple.

DO NOT CHEAT YOU WILL FUCKING REGRET IT

>>9175323
autism: the post

>>9169713
She looks like my girlfriend, nice!

>>9169667
"Landwhales"

>>9170335
You are a gentleman and a scholar, best advice so far!

>>9169965
>5-6hours car drive
buddy :(

>Although I'm the only guy that came in her every hole
She cheats regularly on you without a condom and now wants to have her ass cover in case she gets knocked up. And pretious fragile male ego actually turns her cover up into a brag. (Guys are just that easy)

>she had sex with a condom with her previous boyfriend

told you so, I assure you, there was no condom, ever especially with an ex, like lol

>Both have always been loyal and I can't imagine cheating on her and neither can she

she can't imagine it but did, guys seriously your ego is literally making excuses for your women, at least let her come up with the bullshit, don't do her job for her.

>The pussy gets a little loose after little pounding

yes, brothers, yes it does. But not by LDR pounding.

>but I have immense frustrations because of that one night stand guy

no, that is your gut yelling at you stop being her cuck!

>We don't have the same goals in the future and we're not soulmate

yes, buddy, that's the spirit, just watch out for the babies and maybe get a regular STD check up.

>but we're being 100% honest

WOW, no person on earth is capable of that, ebcause it would require an amount of self hate that would have probably pushed them to suicide a long time ago. Suicide is more likely than complete honesty, because it has less consequences.

> Can't imagine being with another woman and it's pretty rare that I connect with someone

BUDDY :((, but you just said no soulmate bulllshit. and that's its just a physical thing.

>She's super nice and tries so hard for me.
guilt does that, guilt also makes her lash out in meaningless arguments.

>What do?

Hire a P.I., find the 100% truth, you claim you want. Get crushed, grow up, rule the world.

>>9169824
nigga you're new, I remember how 4chan used to always give bad negative advice. Now there's just a bunch of reddit fags like you on here

Pornography is an Addiction and this masterbatory act is going to ruin both you and your Girls happiness.

>>9169842
Thank you for making me believe in 4chan again..

>>9171024
even if it is true, who cares? People are giving him good advice now and he should learn to appreciate it or he will just do the same mistakes everyone did and be that implying faggot who gives advice a few years later. Just shortening up the process.

>>9171794
>How do they rationalise their own unwarranted sense of self-importance?

You make it 'warrant' by being manly and doing shit not because of what other think, but what you think with your arrogant self-entitled thoughts. Women tend to bend to the opposite of this and worry about the seemingness and appearance of their thoughts rather than the inside.

>>9169923
11/10 cant breathe

>>9170143
My premise is based on people do shity things, if there's smoke, something is making that damn smoke, maybe not fire but worth looking into it

your premise is people are good, do not look at the smoke, fire is very rare, so forget the smoke entirely.

You are advocating that because you where's an asshole and basically cunt blocked her, that is the rule of the game?

(ok, betas look away, you know why she did that bro? because that's how shit works, women in relationships can solicit strange and get the D without it getting out because we cool like that. It's don't be an asshole before bros Between being a side dick and being an asshole that rats on a woman that just put herself out there is a huge difference, don't kid yourself bro, only the latter is boyscout material, and you ain't it)

ALSO, A chick in a relationship that wanted some strange is really your best argument for fidelity?

>>9170508
>Most of the people here are here to watch people get pulverized for entertainment yet even they are telling you this is the stupidest thing for anyone to do. What does that tell you?
that entertainment doesn't define a person?

>gunna go get drunk because writing this made me think about old shit. Bye.

sorry anon, but being loved is on the other, not on ourselfs

>>9171666
>your parents didn't love you enough

said the judgemental bitch on the internet(I don;t care about your sex parts, you sound like a bitch)

Cheating is for sub-human degenerates.

If you want to fuck other girls that's perfectly fine, but tell her first.

You'd expect her to be 100% faithful, you should also be faithful to her.

Especially if you care about the person.

>>9169667
> an escort

M8 are you fucking retarded. I don't really have an opinion about cheating but why the fuck would you pay for it.

>>9175338
I try. But seriously. If you negotiate sex, you are raping dog. Can you imagine having a dude begging you for sex? and you just having it because that's what you do? How pathetic would that be?

Better find a actual whore and have a spoken contract with clear boundaries.

>>9172222
Nigger, women don't feel shit like you do, they do whatever the fuck they want and once they see how much you hurt and stick around they know they can just continue to fuck you mentally until you an hero. LEAVE HER. btw checked.

>>9174795
>I'm here to tell what's right and what's wrong

>>9169667
cheating is nothing more than a social construct derived from an evolutionary imperative. who even cares these days?

Go on a holiday and bone some chicks there under a different name

Gf and I have been together since high school, 7 years. We were each other's first for everything. Earlier this year she broke up with me for a little over a month. During that time she fucked some dude. We got back together. And I'm mostly over it but every now and again I think about it. We were each other's one and only. Now that's ruined.

>>9170505
kekt and rekt

>>9169667
Don't.

>>9170856
sauce?

>>9169667
don't be a fag, stay faithful

>>9169679
what this guy said

>>9169667
Yeah go ahead and cheat. You should get cornholed by some big fuckin nigger named Little Pete

>>9170317
>>9172382
Metal Gear Rising

>>9175768
see >>9169842
Don't be a pushover. No matter how harsh he said it, hes right. She'll do it again, doesn't respect you and never will, especially after you showed her she can do it again without any repercussions.

Change your life, or you'll be a pussy forever.

>>9169679

These are wise singles. Listen to them OP

>>9175768
Oh yeah, and read "No more Mr. Nice Guy" by Robert A. Glover. Shows you HOW not to be a pushover anymore. Then visualize your goals in life and work towards it without a girlfriend, the pussy will come automatically when you work on yourself. Pinky promise.

Might save your life, mate.

>>9169923
took me ages to reply to this, my mouse hand was shaking too badly from laughing and I couldnt hit the reply button

What if you already have done it but no one will find out?

Is the relationship doomed? And how do you live with the guilt, just not think about it?

>>9169713
sauce sauce sauce

>>9175768
do the same if you want to be with her. Dump her asap if you think you can handle being a man.

>>9170856
omfg sauce

Just leave her, she deserves better

>>9169667
Don't, I date mine 3 years now. About year ago i cheated tho she prob wont find out but guilt is here all time. Also I think I got herpes from that whore itching cock smegma. Vaginal was with condom and I couldn't event keep it hard (always keep thinking of wtf why and so on) so she sucked me for a while and I send her home.

>>9170518
holy fuck

>>9169923
oh my god my sides

Don't be an idiot.

>>9169797
Can confirm

>>9169842
t. "ex beta" who's scared of real men stealing his girl and thinks girls who don't respond to negging are frigid bitches

>>9169982
>hedonism is individualism

I'm Socrates and I disagree

>>9169667
what a beta... jelly of his own gf sexual experiences. She's still with you so you gogtta be doing something better than them

>>9169667
Stay loyal, I doubt you will be this lucky a second time.

Also she has been fucked by other guys, if you think she hasn't you are just being retarded.

>>9169700
>every vagina is going to clamp your penis the same way

Spoken like a true virgin m8.

>>9169923
I fucking love this.

>>9175768
Leave her. Seriously. IMO she destroyed something unique and special you two shared.