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I masturbate secretly even though my boyfriend is right here

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My boyfriend is on his computer a lot, and ignores me when I'm horny or even just want to give him head. So while he's busy doing whatever, I secretly masturbate (in bed) behind him a lot. am I a bad person?
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Nope. Also this is now a anime gif thread
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You're not. Next question.
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>>11248387
>inb4 this gets somehow twisted into cucking and she needs nigger dick
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>>11248401
>implying 'she' is a girl
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>>11248387
HE'S a bad person for ignoring you.
He's a malfunctioning man.
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All I have
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>>11248420
incorrect, everyone has a different sex drive. its not right or wrong, as long as they are content and honest with each other
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OP, is your boyfriend getting bored with your feminine penis?
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>>11248416
Show title?
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>>11248455
no, he just has a very very low sex drive compared to me. I want his dick all the time, and he's always busy playing games or whatever... I want to have a threesome but I know he wouldn't be interested
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>>11248387
Sit next to him and shlick. Open up and be chill about it. Compare tastes.
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>>11248477
I have tried EVERYTHING with this man. Trust me.
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>>11248472
why do you want to have a threesome? how is your relationship other than sex?
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>>11248489
sounds like hes lost his will to live or isnt into you anymore, fuck other people, be safe, dont get stds
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>>11248387

wow...

how has this thread gone this long without tits and a timestamp?
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>>11248511
It's always been a big fantasy, getting fucked by two guys at once. Our relationship is great minus the sex, you wouldn't be able to tell there was anything wrong.
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>>11248528
Have you tried talking to him about it. Maybe coming up with a compromise?
Perhaps setting aside a day specifically for fucking might help?
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>>11248528
well, i can say from experience threesomes are a bad idea when you're in a serious relationship, especially if your partner isn't into it. if that's what you want to do, then it's probably best you go your own way.
it sounds to me like he's a bit too content with you and his life. complacency is one the biggest killers of relationships. he needs to realize his complacency is going to eventually cost him his relationship.
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>>11248528
also, this threesome shit isn't heading in this direction is it? >>11248401
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>>11248387
You might just be unattractive and he keeps you around out of convenience.
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>>11248528
MMF threesomes fail. Good luck with that.
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>>11248524
i'm getting the impression it's more like "penis and a timestamp"
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>>11248472
maybe he's tired of your dick. it happens sometimes
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>>11248387
Ok so my first piece of advice is to openly discuss it with him. You're both mature adults. Don't try to pressure him, but you should have a frank discussion about your relationship and what you would like from it. If he's still unresponsive you need to think about your options and decide where to go from there.

My second piece of advice is to covertly record yourself masturbating behind his back and post it in this thread. For like. Research purposes.
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>>11248646
>My second piece of advice is to covertly record yourself masturbating behind his back and post it in this thread. For like. Research purposes.
this is sound advice from a wise anon
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>>11248472
Sara what are you doing?
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>>11248387
Are you guys colleagues at work, or spend most of the day together?
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>>11248817
No, we just live together. We both work, but have plenty of free time together
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>>11248387
L O N D O N
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>>11248387
Just tell Tim. He's a good guy, he'll understand
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>>11248577
>men can't have tits
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>>11248899
back to tumblr you faggot nigger bitch.
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>>11248646
Thanks for the advice.

I'll think about it, lmao
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Post this on /b/.
They'll help you out
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>>11248387
Only if you tell us.
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you are wrong for stay with him
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>>11248575
>implying it's not MMM
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>>11248456
Please sauce???
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i'm just going to throw a name out there because this sounds like someone i know from /soc/. MICHELLE
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>>11248387
le proof?
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>>11248387
I was in the same situation with my ex gf.
Honestly, this kinda turns me on. I would gladly fuck your brains out right about now. You could try being blunt- if you come over to him one day half naked and tell him your panties are soiled and you want his cock inside of you badly right now with eye-contact and if he doesn't destroy your pussy there and then just move on.
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>>11249004
LOL as if I haven't tried that already
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He's young then because older guys know not to give up pussy when the opportunity is handed to them. Not saying you should brake up I mean he might be a good guy just saying he's young maybe you should give him time
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>>11248417
right?
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He masturbates too so don't worry
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>>11248573
Hygiene? How large is OP's gravitational field?
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>>11249004
>soiled
dear god in heaven how i hope you mean soaked
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>>11248575
I've had two MMF threesomes with two different gfs and the same close friend, worked fine for me. No weirdness afterwards, just a good sexual experience. I'm like 10% gay though, so I dunno, I'm one of those guys that's into those "pics that wanna make you suck cock" stuff. Anyway, trust and obviously consent is all you need for a good threesome of any kind, I would think.
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>>11248387
It's either his sex drive or it's that he's just not into you. Do you love him? If so, tell him what you're thinking. If he loves you he'll try and meet you half way.
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>>11249188
125lbs
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>>11248387
i do that while my wife is either asleep or in the bathroom
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>>11248387
If he ignores you then you shouldn't feel bad about ignoring him.
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I'm in the same boat as you OP. My boyfriend is not sexual at all but gets slightly upset when I buy sex toys or want to masturbate neat him. He's excellent in all other areas but has the sex drive of a fucking lamp.
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>>11249505
Yep same here. For a while I tried to troubleshoot and help him but now I realize that's the way he is so I have my strategies and we just both try and make an effort but not force anything
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>>11249505
>>11249541
Either of you interesting in sexting? Snapchat?
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>>11248585
i see what u did there
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>>11248387
No
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>>11248454
>>11248387
Used to have the same issue with my girlfriend.
i'd get pissed at her cause she wouldnt do stuff with me when i felt horny.
we talked about it, found a solution. Now if she's playing games or watching something and isn't in the mood right now (happens to everyone) i just sit at my computer and take care of myself. start jerking off and sometimes she'll come join me cause now she's in the mood for it. She does the same too. I think it's great to not feel like your partner owes it to you, but does it cause he's truly getting excited by you doing it.
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>>11248387
Go back to /b/
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>>11249207
cuck
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>>11248387
yes. your wasting your time. if your boyfriend cant meet your sexual needs and he only asks for head he is a beta. this is factual. fuck him, not him fuck you. come the fuck on OP
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Nope, you're great, not cheating or shit like that, good on you
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Maybe just maybe he's into that femdom stuff where you lock him against his will in a sex dungeon where you and ten guys take turns. He probably grinding his teeth right now looking at you saying in his head "come on bitch what are you waiting for"
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>>11248387

You're not. My girlfriend is asexual but says I can ask for head or handjobs whenever I want. I choose to jerk off when she's not paying attention.

She gives good head, but no desire, yknow?
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>>11248454
what does sex have to do with cars
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>>11249616
boy do I have some news for you... cuck
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>>11249881
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>>11248387

How did you and your bf meet each other? How did you start dating?
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>>11249505
gf masturbating close to me without me knowing is literally my fetish
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>>11248387
well, desu he could just have a low testosterone count. have him see a doctor about it. My boss was having that same issue. but after he got his shots his drive went way up. mother fucker leaves for 45 minutes mid shift to go bang his wife now. hope that helps.
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>>11249541
I try to ease him into things but he gets legitimately angry at me for trying sometimes. He has a troubled sexual past but I would hope he could put enough trust into me to do anything sexual. That's why I buy toys, though, because my sex drive is through the roof!
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>>11250085
Change his diet thats what worked for me. Also just because youre in the mood isnt incentive for him to be in the mood lol that works when someones new sure but otherwise you gotta establish some sex words
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>>11251255
>another faggot role playing/fantasy thread
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>>11249863
This worries me, not be able to differ from autism and 4chan average iq
>>11249863
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>>11248387
u can b my gf an not masturbate all the tim, cuz we b smashin insted
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>>11251394
BOOOOOOOOOOOOOOI
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>>11248387
(You)
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>>11249881
Holy shit that looks fun, I wanna try
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>>11249166
Break not brake retard
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>>11248387
naw
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>>11251387
pretty sure that was a joke man
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>>11249226
Do you live in British Columbia OP? I'll come and help with that lol
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You are not a bad person Op
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>>11248952
MMIV *
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>>11248528
>confirmed whore
just break it off and get your holes full of dicks without breaking his heart in the process you slut
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>>11249176
faggot
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>>11248549

well, I can say from experience that threesomes are awesome and if you're communicating well then you can enjoy them and no one will get hurt.
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>>11248401
yeah probably
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>>11248387
I am doing it right now
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>>11248387
Masturbation doesn't make you a bad person. Some need it more than others, but for a young adult male not to want regular sex is pathological.

Assuming this premise is real, and you're not having sex at least 1-2x/week you've got basically three possibilities:

1. Your BF is gay. Some guys are and won't admit it to themselves. . .move on.

2. Your BF is fucking someone else, or perhaps even more than one other person. You're not going to fix that either, move on.

3. Your BF is clinically depressed, addicted to drugs, or has some other serious physical or psychological problem with sex. Was he sexually abused in the past? Some medications can reduce sex drive, etc. Porn addiction, where individuals prefer to masturbate to porn rather than have actual sex happens too.

This could potentially be fixable, but you have to figure out what's going on, and then HE has to want to fix it too.

You have to have a conversation here. Find your partner and tell him that you're not having enough sex, need to have more, and see what his response is. BTW, if you are having sex 1-2x/week, but that's not enough for you, you may simply have mismatched sex drives. That happens. So there you have to work something out.
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I had an ex where we did it basically three times a day and was not enough for her. Even though I just wanted to have a break and play some vidya.

It happens when the girl is hypersexual but there is a point where you need a break. Could be what OP is, she gets tons of sex but not enough for her.
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>>11252464
hey retard, no one gets laid on the internet, chill it.
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>>11248387
Try put your pussy in his face
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>>11248387
You have a boyfriend? You fag
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>>11249141
>ugly fat chick/dude/weird combination of both confirmed
You should probably just kill yourself if your own boyfriend won't touch you
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>>11248524
Because tits or GTFO comes from chicks announcing that they are femanons thus seeking attention. This person is still anon unless I've missed them saying otherwise.
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>>11249004
soiled my nigga?
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>>11248387
you are probably a shitty lay.
Next time just lay on the bed and tell him "you can do whatever you want to me I dont care I just need to be fucked"

Then just man up and take whatever fetishes /fantasies he is into.

Prolly gonna get buttfucked amd ass to mouth and throat fucked etc etc

Should be fun
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Should I tell Darryl to pay more attention to you?
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>>11251387
^this
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>>11249616
is she on birth control?

GF was on nuva ring and her sex drive was decent, nothing to write home about, and she'd take care of me whenever I required.

She had to come off the nuva for other medical reasons while they did some testing and it was like night and day difference. Her sex drive became almost insatiable.

So if she's on a form of birth control you might see if she is up to try a different kind. They all have diifferent effects on hormones/sex drive.
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>>11248387
You're not a bad person for that, you're a bad person for posting a non-animated image for the OP.
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>>11248489
Just make sure he knows your masturbating next to him. That will rouse him from his video game induced stupor.
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>>11248964
It's a distorted image of Hestia by Luckknight
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>>11248387
Not a bad person, it's just like that with some people. I'd say instead of going out and fucking someone else (usually where this problem leads) You could do something to a lesser degree, like posting tits and a timestamp on an anonymous forum.
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Last one from me
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>>11253201
True, its not selfish for you to feel like that, you need to do whatever makes you feel best. Sometimes a person needs to feel validated, and I know that may people on a forum like this would be happy to help you feel validated and beautiful.
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>>11248420
Or a person shouldnt be obligated to spend every waking moment wanting to do something with you. Being in a relationship especially one where you live together shouldnt mean you have to give up friends and hobbies just because your boyfriend or girlfriend is a clingy cunt.
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>>11249166
I'm pretty sure it's the other way around. When I was a teenager(16~17) I would fuck my then girlfriend EVERY SINGLE DAY after school. And in the weekends she would also come to my house and we would fuck a lot of times as well. We were always trying to find hidden places in public so we could fuck everywhere. I think it was like this because we were kinda discovering sex, so we HAD to do it all the time, everywhere. Now I'm almost 26 and if my now girlfriend and I spend a whole week together, we fuck around 3 days per week. Some days we fuck multiple times, but as you get older you sometimes are tired from work, and you know that it's not going anywhere. If you don't fuck right now you can fuck later, I guess.
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>>11252632
Yeah she was. She changed it for other reasons, and now i realise it might have been what changed her sex drive lol
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break up with him and start fucking your ex
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>>11249864
>Sitting at computer, feeling horny, she doesnt wanna have sex right now, in a middle of a game.
>i start jerking off
>she sees me jerking off and gets aroused
>come join me and rides me till we both come.
Wow i'm so being cucked right now.
and in case you wanna go full retard ''She's having sex with someone else and only doesnt feel in the mood FOR YOU sometimes'' We live together retard, both students so we are always at home together or somewhere else together.
Please don't project next time lol
Not because you have cuck fantasies that you have to see them everywhere
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>>11249207
lololol that's more than 10% dude
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>>11253468
>she doesnt wanna have sex right now
rofl
Cuck.
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>>11253508
>is such a Cuck that he feels like calling everything that would make him insecure ''a cuck''
Go on, keep projecting.
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>>11253508

Spotted the virgin
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>>11248442
sauce?
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>>11248528
Then just fucking raep him, throw yourself at him, men are dumb they don't know a woman wants to fuck unless shes literally grabbing his cock.
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>>11248417
>mplying bois dont need nigger dick
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>>11248528
get another man
i did
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>>11253681
saltyicecream
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Not at all, If you really want to make him horny, touch his cock, if he's hard just keep going.
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>>11248387
Why secretly?
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>>11248387
how does masturbation make you a bad person? You're not cheating.
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>>11249894
HAHAHAH I LOVE THIS
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>>11248425
Sauce please
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>>11248387
Hi Lizzie. Don't worry, you're doing great.
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>>11248468
Looks like it's a VN.
Search for osuki na jun ni meshiagare.
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>>11248387
No, your boyfriend is just retarded.
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>>11248387
Depends, are you less than 5/10 who no one wants but he somehow ended up with you, or actually above 5/10 then he's probably gay, or you're not a good person.

Why not just ask and figure out what the problem is?
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>>11248387
Nope! My wife does the same to me. I too secretly fap while she's gaming behind me. And I've jacked off while she was asleep next to me.
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>>11248387
Just ask.
If he still ignores you, then do your thing, but complaining about something someone doesn't do because they don't know to do it is stupid.
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>>11248575
Well, it depends on the focus. If one guy is the focus, it can work great. If one girl is the focus, it doesn't work so hot.
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>>11253117
>>11253129
>>11253133
any sauce on these?
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>>11253657

Pretty much anyone who spews "cuck" all the time is a virgin neckbeard who spends at tleast 70% of his waking moment on the internet looking up how the white race is dying and Hitler was actually saving the world.
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>>11248419
HOLY SHIT TEARJU SENSEI FROM TOLOVERU DARKNESS.
YOU ARE LEGEND ANON! please tell me there are more moving ones like this from toloveru!
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>>11248966
You're right :(
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>>11248387
Nah I've done it a few times myself. It's weird because he's always horny but if he's too far into his gamw, usually overwatch, there's no way I'm going to get some out of him. It's either that or start an argument on why he's not paying enough attention to me...and I'd rather not. And on the plus side I get done quicker.
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>>11255840
1st and 3rd are Itadaki! Seieki!
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>>11248387
You are a girl right ?
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>>11256632
no, gay
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Fuck, nvm, I'm obviously not OP, my plan didn't go as planned, I left my fukkin nametag
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>>11251255
Unfortunately he just has no interest. No sex words, everything sexual to him seems to have been maimed by how he was treated in the past. I try not to force it anymore except once in awhile when he seems to be in the mood, but it doesn't work. We used to be somewhat sexual, via webcam but now I haven't had anything even close to that in 4 years
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>>11248387
ok allison
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>>11256634
have you tried ordering him around? sounds like you're a sub, maybe if you start domming him he'll get aroused?
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>>11248387
Yes kys
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>>11248387

You're probably not communicating clearly, just tell him straight up that you want to fuck, if he still isn't interested then he's the one with the problem.
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>>11248387
Time for BBC, my little starved girl
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i wish my gf was horny or just wanted to give me head. so i too masturbate secretly
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>>11249541
>Troubleshoot

Either you work in IT or boyfriend is a Robot.
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Get an open relationship and start fucking around?
Helped me alot. Had two girlfriends at one time and had one extra fuck buddy. Best decision I've made.
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>>11249550
lmao back to your sex ads off craigslist
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>>11255864
agreed except the part about Adolf
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Not exactly a terrible thing, my wife does it openly. Sometimes I'm just not in the mood.
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>>11249779
you definitely were not paying attention when you read op post
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>>11248387
I'll help you ;)
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>>11249847
you don't even see it coming
you have my sympathy
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>more than obvious bait
>185 replies
kys /gif/
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lose some weight and then come back to us
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>>11252563
This anon gets it.

Tits or GTFO exists because of girls announcing that they're girls when it makes no difference, just to get people to pay attention to them because they have nothing valuable to contribute. The point of tits or GTFO is to both improve the overall quality of the site's content by cutting down on vapid bullshit, and to cut out the middle man. "You have nothing of substance to contribute, so you announce that you're female to get the attention that you can't earn donated. The only reason we'd give you attention is because you have tits. Show us the tits, or you get no attention and might as well leave."

Tits or GTFO doesn't apply if being female is relevant. If being a femanon legitimately gives the poster an alternate perspective or some unique insight that allows them to meaningfully contribute, then tits or GTFO isn't needed. They're already contributing. Tits are still appreciated, of course.

In this case, OP didn't actually claim to be female. Other posters assumed she was and she hasn't said otherwise, though she also hasn't refuted the assertions that she's a gayfag.
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>>11249207
MMF "Had sex with another man." 100% faggot
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>>11248387
>I secretly masturbate

Br very vocal nothing gets a guy off more than the moans of a lass
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>>11248387
>still hasnt posted nudes for us
gtfo you b8ing bitch
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>>11257500
hmm, my sentiments exactly, they're trying to extend the sexual privilege they have in real life to the digital realm.
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>>11248489
Have you tried shoving your tits in his face? Or really anything to be as blatant as possible?
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>>11248399
Sauce?
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>>11256753
lol
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>>11248387
>reading this post

before I got sick I used to bust my ass trying to get a gf and then there are people like this

it's just not fucking fair
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>>11248387
are you guys an asian couple?
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>>11248387
Could i have sex with you? please.
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>>11259449
btw youre a bad person for not giving head while hes on the pc
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>>11248387
GF did this a lot and I never cared. It's annoying giving girlfriends attention unless we want something from you. Literally never fucked her unless I was horny and never fucked her when she was horny. Life is great
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>>11248387
Geez i have the same problem its kinda annoying because my bf always makes me feel bad for not giving him a bj or sex because he wouldn't want to when i felt like it and already masturbated and im not feeling it anymore.
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>>11253202
Sauce?
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>>11260758
Triple H I think
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>>11260531
cuck.com
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>>11252535
Right, like you were a nigga with a golden cock
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>>11252632
So almost insatiable....
Dude, you have to tell me what medicine she took.
I need that in my life!
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>>11248387
We need proof of femininity
aka, TITS OR GTFO
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>>11252464
Best advice in this thread actually
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>>11256489
>He's not paying enough attention to me
How much is enough?
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>>11255710
Tbh I dont consider myself 5/10 or under and my boyfriend is the same. Once he's done with his part of it. He'll leave me to masturbate alone. Its kinda depressing.
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>>11252464
Is it normal to masturbate every night to porn? Because my partner does that and struggles to cum unless its with his own hand. Its stressing me out because I feel like I'm constantly doing something wrong.
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>>11261732

Why don't you just fucking talk to him about this/what's bothering you?
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>>11261762
I would if he wasn't so closed in. I guess I'm sticking to my anime boys for now.
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>>11261732
What an asshole. I'd please you as much as you want.
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>>11261768
>Closed in
>Be in a relationship

Pick one.
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>>11261757
It is not, although I imagine 70% of /gif/ does so.
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>>11261757
you're not doing something wrong, your partner almost certainly literally has an addiction
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>>11261784
Well he doesn't share anything about what kind of sexual stuff he likes. I'm guessing I should just move on from him.
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Your bf is a loser. Time to fuck niggers and then tell him about it.
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>>11261818
Eh you should probably at LEAST give an ultimatum (although maybe don't make it clear it's an ultimatum.)
"I don't want to go on like this, please work with me here."
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>>11261799
>>11261804
It's good to hear that its not my fault. I've tried talking to him to cut down on it to see if it helps but he's stubborn as fuck. It's ruining our sex life. Even when we're together he'd rather watch porn than me on cam. Bit of a confidence killer.
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>>11261818

>Closed in/no communication between each other
>Be in a HEALTHY relationship
Pick one.

FTFY
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>>11261845
I communicate as much as I can. I tell him everything but he is so secretive and never returns the favour. I guess you're right its not healthy.
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>>11261840
>I've tried talking to him to cut down on it to see if it helps but he's stubborn as fuck.
Like I said, quite likely literally addicted. Talking a gambling addict into cutting down isn't going to do jack shit either. I know it's a bit of a cliche but first step is admitting there's a problem, if you can't get to there then trying to skip ahead is just an exercise in futility.
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>>11261864
One partner putting in all the effort ALSO not particularly healthy.
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This is fake lol
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>>11261871
Thank you so much for the advice. I'll definitely work on it with him. It's just not fair on my part.
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>>11261876
Thats true. He always asks for nudes, I deliver and then if I ask for one, he'll literally never send one. He did at the start of our relationship, then began to stop.
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>>11261845
Not to break up your lovely conversation, but im gonna need a source on this
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>>11261845
>>11261864
>>11261840
>>11261880

I agree with this anon. If y'all ain't communicating about whatever is on your mind and it's bothering you, it ain't a healthy relationship. Just gonna be a toxic environment of resentment, ill feelings/thoughts about each other, etc. Keeping it bottled up is just gonna fester until there's a huge argument.

A relationship is a two-way street, everyone has to put in effort.
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>>11261896
Amateur couple that uploads on pornhub: that_txguy
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>>11261915
Of all the years I've lurked this site. I never thought I'd get sound relationship advice on this board. Thanks
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>>11248387
Jake's girl???
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>read thread
>think this is literally about me
>realize gf hates anime
>realize she's not even my gf
It's fine.
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>>11261915

That a wrap folk,

The thread is completed.
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>>11261840
Oh shit oh shit.
I think I may be addicted to jacking off.
I jack off every day, at least four times, and I have a partner.
Yet I am constantly on high sex drive, I get aroused too easily.
Even though, come to think of it, sometimes I masturbate even when I'm not horny.
I'm depressed and jacking off to me is like a drug I guess, it makes me feel better
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>>11248387
Why don't you just tell him you're horny? He can't read your mind, and you don't show any physical signs of being horny (no boners).
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>>11261915
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>>11262059
Do you find it difficult to cum when you're with your partner? Or can she make you finish easily?
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>>11262152
Pretty easily, even though she mostly relies just on handjobs, but I can cum easily
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>>11262171
Jealous! Good job on both of you.
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>>11248549
I fucked my wife's best friend with my wife. No one was jealous and the communication actually made our relationship stronger. There is no catch all relationship advice.
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>>11261757
Lol, I do that and I don't even have a penis

Although granted I've been single for a very long time, I'm not sure how functional that is if you're in a committed relationship
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>>11262336
Tbh I do it quite frequently. Not every night but still. And it becomes quite a pain for my partner to make me cum.
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>>11261915
>came to jerk
>went away with good advice
stay classy /gif/
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>>11248387
yes if you don't cum with him you shouldnt cum at all
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>>11248387
masturbate onto his pillows
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>>11258372
Ane Jiru Shirakawa San Shimai ni Omakase
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>>11253657
>>11253508
Pretty sure it was a new guy joking, but okay.
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>>11248387
Teach him a lesson.

Take off your pants and fart on his pillow.

Pink eye will teach him a lesson.
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>>11248387
The amount of faggots here who think this is real and didnt even ask for tits+stamp just goes to show how many newfags and normies are on this site these days.
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>>11248472
Who do you imagine your three some with?
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>>11256659

You may just have to deal with this. Does your sex drive ever dwindle or is it constant? How old are you? My current gf and I used to fuck like rabbits but it's calmed down a bit recently. At first I didn't like it at all but now I'm used to it. How long has his been going on?
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>>11248387
I've made a lot of chicks like you cum. Amd yes. You are a bad person.
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>>11259434

>it's just not fucking fair

Go get your fedora you fucking Nice Guyâ„¢
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>>11248387
You're a poor communicator and just hide from him and expect him to just know how you feel. Show some first moves, shove your boobs in his face, make some sexy sounds, sjeesh.
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>>11249881
excellent form
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Ur prob ugly
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>>11248387
Yeah, you're a bad person and also stupid. Try actually using your big girl words and talk to him, you child.
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>>11262621
if he doesnt get the message from this

try again
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>>11248387

talk. don't expect him to read your mind and conversely don't expect that you're reading his mind. ask him if he thinks that he has a problem with porn and if it's affecting your sex life (eg him having a hard time to come). if it is, then take the appropriate steps for him to get help. it may also not be porn that's causing the problems. depression, work, and lack of energy could be contributing. just commiunicate.

tl;dr: don't give up so easily on a relationship just because you're not getting what you want between the sheets. a healthy sex life is a product of healthy communication
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>>11266329
also don't do the whole "shove my tits in your face because you're too dumb to see that i'm horny" thing. it'll come off as you just grasping for his attention
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>>11248387
Stop being secret about it. Do it nearby and blatantly. Not for his benefit. It's still about your needs. But exposure to it will make him more likely to make him decide he does want to join. Like how sometime you don't know you're hungry til you eat a little something, or smell it.
And if he doesn't, oh well.
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You guys like the baits.
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>>11256753
She's fast
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>>11261757
You've done nothing wrong.

Get him to quit the porn for a while. He's deadened himself.

Will both help by having him build up (thus lowered threshold you'll have to reach) and help reset his sex drive.

Have him go for a week with nothing, porn or sex, then at end of that week, only sex with you.
Make sure to talk to make sure it's not just a technique issue.
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>>11261888
Could it be you're just being used?
Cause that sounds like being used to me.
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>>11261983
I mean, just because It's not about you doesn't mean you should treat a lady such.
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>>11248387
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>>11262059
Yeah. You're addicted.

I suggest a nofap/noporn, going out and socializing, and getting a hobby.
Try to spend as little time alone and idle as possible.

Also watch your habits and look for triggers, physical and emotional. If you suddenly feel an urge, stop, and think about what you're experiencing emotionally right now and if what you're doing will actually fix it or is just acting as a symptom relief crutch, if even effective at that.
Avoid triggers when possible, and work on addressing the underlying issues. It's very likely your sex drive isn't actually as high as you think it is, you've been subconsciously using masturbation to medicate for an unrelated issue.
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>>11262171
Constant masturbation with the goal of climax trains your body to repeat that.

If anything if I was in your case I'd be worried about premature.
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>>11254524
no that's manyakis
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>>11256659
Have you thought consulting a sexologist? I don't know if money is a problem, but maybe that would help with his sex drive and/or the sexual side of your relationship.
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>>11249894

Fuck that was good
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>>11249881
/fit/ in a nutshell
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>>11253349
it must suck not being wanted
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>>11248387
Isnt it easier if you just tell him "lets fuck"?
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>>11248674

kek
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>>11255840
2nd one is from Shomin Sample, it's not hentai.
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>>11248387
No, he shouldn't ignore you like that
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>>11266733
Manyakis the fridge.
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>>11262826
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>>11248674
Underrated / 10
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>>11248387
Liz? Liz W?
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>>11251711
Pretty much this. Go fulfill your purpose, which is to be a fucktoy for a bunch of dudes whose interest in you stops there. Don't fuck some decent guy over for your whore "needs."
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>>11252496
Hypersexual women, unfortunately, almost always are bipolar or, even worse, borderline personality disorder. Enjoy them for what they are, but for fuck's sake, don't trust them, let them move in, marry them, or otherwise give them any opportunity to fuck you over. They will. There are very few generalizations in life that are as near-certain in practice as that one.
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>>11252464
The mismatched sex drive advice is spot on. The vast majority of the time, it's men - we want sex daily, she wants it every couple of weeks, but is okay with once a week or so. So what happens? Men fuck around. Why remain "faithful" to someone who literally controls one of your needs by starving you all week and then taking you out to dinner on Friday, or maybe every other Friday, and expecting you to be appreciative?

I've seen so many relationships fail, many with a lot of money, kids, and history at stake, because some woman just can't get it through her head that she needs to figure out how to actually display some interest in sex a couple of times a week. When she doesn't, the tension builds for both of them and he gets understandably resentful and less likely to do a damn thing for her happiness either. Same would be true if the mismatch is her sex drive, except there are always orbiting temptations and the average non-land-whale chick can get offers within about 60 seconds of stepping into a bar and displaying interest.

If you've talked with him about this, and the two of you haven't fixed it, split up and go find someone who matches your sex drive now. If you haven't discussed it, then I don't know what the fuck you're waiting for.
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>>11249944
My nigga
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>>11248926
Don't think. Do.
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>>11277745
Women want sex just as much as men, if not, its because the sex is boring/not satisfying for her, OR the man just doesn't turn her on enough.
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>>11248489
What have you done already for being EVERYTHING? Then we can suggest different stuff
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>>11248387
How do you have sex? Only him doing stuff to you? By that I mean, are you always passive? Doing nothing at all??

If your boyfriend is the only one doing the "moving"... of course he will be like that.
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>>11277989
ALSO... it doesn't mean you're a bad person. But if it keeps like that... sooner it will be over.
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>>11248387
Everyone is a bad person. Get over it.
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>>11253155
Source
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>>11266499
for you
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>>11248387
lmao, nah thats fuckin dope.
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>>11248577
I think you are right my dude
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>>11274658
nope get to focus on more important things. if i want to feel wanted ill go to a titty bar cause ive worked long and hard enough to waste money like that.
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>>11277944
One of the girls I dated for a few weeks quite a few years ago had no sex drive at all.
She compared sex to a massage, it's nice, but she's totally fine without it for months.
Also... she has never experienced an orgasm. In the 3 times we had sex in that time (which is very few to what I was used to at that time) she didn't orgasm once. She wouldn't even let me finish her off, or eat her out or whatever.
She was a real nice gal, but her sex life was sadly very poor. A shame because she had great boobs, a nice body in general... and she was really nice.
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>>11281183
I dated a girl like that, she got mad when I started masturbating to furry porn.

Told her tough shit, she doesn't put out so I'm going to jack it to what I really want. It's not my fault she's a stuck up prude and also not a chubby dragoness.
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>>11266754
We are financially in a bit of a rut, but even if I did ask him to go he probably wouldn't. He knows he has problems and wants to fix them, but he's too stubborn to ask someone for help, even if it's a professional.
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