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So what exactly is sad about this?

>>11060946
OP is lonely

>>11060946
>You will never know that feel of warmness and safety and fullness
>You will never have qt girl that loves you

I can't see good is that blood?

>>11060961
I have a qt3.14 girlfriend that´s madly in love with me. Great sex yada yada yada

But the feeling of emptiness still overcomes my persona

The void is still there

>>11060943
>seeing people being happy is sad
go talk to a therapist

>>11060993
you can't english good neither junior

Any source on the remix for that? I know the sample is from I feel like dying but source pls

>>11061059
https://soundcloud.com/oliverxfrancis/tunchi

>>11061034
what do you mean? they broke up m8
and she is a youtub-whore
fucking is good but if your gf is uploading every moments while being with you that's no good

>>11061002
i feel anon, i finally found someone im happy with that really loves me but still feel like im missing so much

>>11061034
Not OP but I don't like seeing happy couples either, because I know I won't be able to have that at least once in my life. Yes, I'm aware it's jealousy, but there is nothing I can do about it.

>>11061126
dont worry anon most of them break up very painfully

>>11061162
It's not like I want them to break up either tho. It's not hate, just makes me feel sad.

>>11061126
Why are you so certain? I felt the way you do two years ago. Four months ago I met my woman and now I feel like there's an 80% chance I'm going to marry her.

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Suicide fuel thread?

>>11061162
>>11061126
this is very true

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>>11061162
this anon gets it.

>>11060943
>>11060961
>>11061126
yes you're jealous of couples because you wonder what it's like but it's not amazing.

I'm straight up telling you right now and take it with a grain of salt; find a way make yourself happy before anybody else. NEVER depend entirely on a woman/mate for happiness.

I did that with a girl I was madly in love with and hearing "I don't love you anymore" is something nobody should ever hear.

TL;DR: your happiness first > girls

>>11061196
YAMEROOOOO!!

just remember that 90% of women are basic as hell and boring too. you wanna spend all your free time listening to some bitch drone about her nails or her boring ass classes or whatever drama shes got going on with her friends?

god life sucks

>>11061017
Blatantly ripped the Super Mario Galaxy theme

>>11061193
Don't marry her, literrally 0 reason to marry as a male. you're throwing your nuts into her purse and when she decides you're not enough any more she's going to destroy your life, your wallet, and most importantly your will to carry on.

>>11061219
Look it's just more of life. Ups and downs. In a relationship the ups and downs are even bigger and worth more than when you're alone. Same with all family. I wouldn't even say be happy on your own just be comfortable with ups and downs and the idea of them being bigger than you could experience alone. It's whether you want that or not. If you do, go for it.

>>11061273
My thinking is why live alone if i can help it.
I'm not even thinking it will be all roses. I'm comfortable with that. I'm >>11061286

Buying cute Asian girlfriend

make offer

does anyone have the webm of the guy riding his motorcycle being chased by the cops and then just gives up?

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>>11061286
>I wouldn't even say be happy on your own
I don't mean it in a "I'm better off being alone for the rest of my life" type of way.

I mean it as in try to prioritize your own happiness first before you focus on others and not just girls but friends/bros too. I used to think "I hate being alone, once I get a gf, I'll be happy, she's the key to all this!" then I actually did get a gf, she broke up with me and I thought it was all over for me.

>>11060943
Fuck she looks kinda like this girl that I'm in love with that rejected me earlier this week.

I was so close to this but I fucked it up. Oh well.

Sorry for blog. I'm fucking sad.

>>11061126
couples like the ones in the OP do break up most of the time. one gets too attached while the other calms down. sometimes though it's the one that gets attached who breaks it off. weird.

>>11060943
source on the song? I know it's I feel like dying, but whose remix?

>>11060946
On /r9k/, there were some disgruntlement about the fact she's with an Asian guy.

honeymoon phase of a relationship wears off after a year of dating then at best you tolerate them/sorta like them.

>>11061196
>tfw dated a half-asian girl who acted like this

Good times.

>>11061219
>>11061286
>>11061339

The jealousy felt towards couples in thread is a very complex emotion. You're absolutely right in that you need to be secure in your own identity and make yourself happy before investing any amount of energy into a relationship.

But the jealous felt towards these couples isn't just a desire for emotional or sexual satisfaction in another person, it's about being as happy and as well adjusted as the people appear. On some intrinsic level we understand the relationship is a by product of reaching that status, and that status is what we really want. The relationship is just a symbol that serves as an abstraction for a lot of what we consider 'success'

if she rejected you i bet you have never been close. happy to help.

>in a relationship right now
>more anxious than ever before

I think if you're a worrier than being in a relationship is kind of shitty. If you're with a person that doesn't treat you right and isn't what you want, you probably won't leave because she'll make you feel like there's no one better out there, and that it's still better than being alone. And if you're with someone that you think is perfect, the anxiety of knowing she could wake up any day and just say she's not in love with you is a killer.

Luckily, I think I'm also a bit of sociopath, because I'm past every relationship completely once a few months have passed. But maybe that's normal, I don't know. I mean I was single and went to my ex's wedding and was genuinely happy for her. But, man, it sucks to be in a relationship with someone you like without being certain of their intentions. And if you're a true asshole, you might stop loving them as soon as you ARE certain of their intentions.

But I agree with the anon that talked about being good on your own. Most of us have lives so empty that as soon as a person enters it they become our new thing, like a nice new MMO or something. And that's a very bad way of looking at it. As much as I despise normies (and I truly do), their idea of dating where you see the other person a few hours every week and gradually taking it to the next level is a lot healthier than online dating when you're talking to the girl 24/7, sleeping with her over Skype, bla bla bla. Because when you're that pathetic and it ends, you feel like your life's been ripped away from you. And in a way it has, because you've just spent months redoing a schedule and forming your habits around this person.

Romance is mostly about validation and making your shitty life feel more meaningful.

>>11061271
bait or genuine mistake?

>>11060943
Need sauce on the song.

>be me
>lover boi in long distance relationship
>haven't fucked a hole in 8 months
>gf solid 7/10 and a 'keeper'
>to cheat or not to cheat

>>11061575
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=N0v4hcxTNfc

>>11061017
song?

>>11061193
This thread was making me really sad after a really bad day and I just want to say thanks. Thanks.

Anyone can be replaced. Some people are "dead" to you right now,

>>11061059
>>11061401
>>11061575

found it
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=N0v4hcxTNfc

>>11060943

just pay the extra $40 and go the gfe.

no problems.

sadness is weakness. whenever you feel sad, just do some push ups or squats or just press your palms together as hard as you can. sadness can be replaced with exhaustion. try it.

>>11060943
Now I'm in no mood to fap

>>11061793
sadness can be replaced with anger too, just go to a feminist blog in tumbrl and you will forget your sadness

>>11061401
oliver tunechi

>>11060961
You know what is sadder? When you had it. You have someone that loved you and did everything for you. And you lose her cuz you were stupid and didn't listen.

>>11061816
yea, but you wanna replace a negative feeling for a mindless activity that takes your mind off of shit.

>>11060966
omg, she seems so suffering :(

>>11060966
fake, she was s'possed to drip before he turned his head ( looking at shirt first )

>>11061102
Different anon here, as someone who doesn't understand what you're going through, would you care to elaborate? I write this in the hopes that I can better my own relationships by hearing certain testimonies.

communication is everything. tell people what you want and what you don't want and tell them to do the same. tone and perception is key. tough love only works if they feel loved.

>>11061827
No, you wanna work through what you're feeling. Why does it make you feel sad?

>>11061126
I don't like seeing happy couples because I used to have something I thought was special. Seeing these people so happy makes me sick in the thought that they will most likely break up in a spectacular fashion and look back with sweet melancholy on the feelings that was that now previous relationship. It strikes chords of nostalgia that I never want to be struck again. Yes, life goes on, but that pain in your chest will never cease to tear and gnaw at your being.

In other words: "Feels bad, man."

>>11061119
i remember this part of the documentary. Really sad

>>11061878
by getting angry? that doesn't work. Most people make mistakes when they're too emotional. ;)

>>11060966
Track title please

maybe don't treat people like cats or dogs. if you feed it to stay it's a bribe. if you tie it up you know it would run away.

My girlfriend of 2 years broke up with me yesterday, a month after my father passed. I'm pushed over the edge and don't feel anything anymore..

>>11061193
I said that after 5 months dating my ex. 4 months later she broke up with me.

Don't take your current status for granted, anon. I did, and now I suffer a lot for this.

>>11060943
who is that couple and now I feel the need to listen to some classical music now.

>>11061119
Sauce

>>11061678
You realize a girl can't go 8 months without fucking, right?

to understand love you can just think about what you hate and how hard it is to keep that anger when you have something else top do. losing a family member or loved one is sad to you cause you're selfish. let them go in peace and move on

your girl loves you... for now. enjoy it fag. If your sad it means your love was real - butters

>>11061933
Free To Play, the documentary by Valve about the First International Dota 2 tournament. It's really good, even if you're not into the game.

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If you want feels, this one will really fuck your shit.

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Here's another just in case that last one didn't do it.

>>11061739
Killer Bee - Fantasy

>>11061126
>Yes, I'm aware it's jealousy, but there is nothing I can do about it.
go to therapy

you can be with and stay with any girl you want if you realize sex is meaningless. op doesn't see red flags

>>11061958
EVERY FUCKING TIME FUCCCCK

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>>11061342

>>11061975
what is this and why should I feel sad about it?

>>11061342
the sad thing is he didn't die before he exploited a dead woman so he could show people was young once. faggot old bastard probably beat her. imagine if his wife was telling their store. she'd be remarried and it would have fun silly music.

>>11061958
No No No this made me fucking bawl like a girl lad

>>11061238
This

>>11061958
The Up music is a nice touch, and Alzheimer's is fucking shit to go through, I've had family members pass from cancer and Alzheimer's and going through cancer with a loved one is actually much more preferable than having them go through alzheimer's

>>11061919
Father was in the hospital, loaded down with classes, girlfriend was unhappy, and I developed an alcohol problem.

Realized she was selfish because she never really loved me like I loved her. Kept adding emotional burdens to our relationship when I was already having a tough enough time.

Go to a coffee shop and just relax. Hit the gym. Buy some books.

We're all gonna make it.

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My ex wife just asked me if I wanted to know if she was with someone and if when that relationship got to a stage where she introduced them to the kids, would I want to know.

I said no.

I'm over this hurting so much guys. It's been over a year and I'm still crying almost every night. I just want the pain to go away.

>>11061975
Fuck dude, one of the saddest things I've ever seen is this really old lady eating on her own at tgi Friday's, while everyone else (myself included) was spending time with their families she was all by herself, and she looked like she was having trouble eating, and I remember her ordering dessert and eating it so slowly.
I don't even know what I'm saying, I just think that I don't think anybody deserves to grow old and have nobody to talk to them and take care of them, and I regret being too much of a pussy to do anything about it.

>>11062081
Tough love first step is to stop coming to 4chan. At the very least avoid sad threads

>>11062081
Shit dude, I hope I don't come off as a dick but you gotta seek a therapist. I mean I'm still not over my first love (4 years ago) but crying every night seems fucked up

>>11061958
You can tell just from the way he talks about her how much he truly cared for and loved her with all of his heart. I hope somebody misses me this much when I'm gone.

>>11062120
not if you die young

>>11062081
anybody can be replaced.

>>11062090
not if they never tried to make an effort to be friendly.

>>11062090
some people deserve to be alone. bitter angry people are not fun to be around, no matter how old they are. old people should know better than to be so selfish.

There's a saying that goes, "You either love women, or you understand them. Never both."

Your happiness comes from yourself not from others. Case in point, after several relationships, the moment I stopped yearning for one was when the women came knocking on my door instead. I'm still not in a relationship and they're still knocking. People are drawn to happiness like mindless drones. So find happiness for yourself first.

>>11062135
But yea, the sad thing is she seemed really nice and was very polite to the waiter at least
>>11062144
Jesus dude, I mean I know where you're coming from, but I can't help disagreeing. From your post I get the feeling that you're a bitter angry person yourself, so are you saying you deserve to grow old and alone?

>>11061219
SAUCEEEEEE

>>11061958
fuck

>>11061958
What is this actually from?

>be me, meet cute 8/10 girl online
>she has a boyfriend who is much older than her, also he is a shitskin

Her boyfriend verbally abuses her almost every day out of jealousy and checks all her social media. She said she is getting sick of it and talks every week about breaking up.

>She never goes to events so I invited her to one in September
>she said she will think about it, but is scared hee boyfriend will notice.

Is there any chance this girl will wake up and break up with her shitskin boyfriend? She doesn't realize she is throwing her life away by staying with someone who can't even talk nice to her when she talks with a male.

>>11062265
She's probably pretty scared to confront him. You may need to get the cops involved if things go sour.

>>11062269
I actually had some words with the guy and managed to grab some of his personal information, like where he lives etc. But i can't do anything about him without her consent.

Also it's more verbal. He degenerates her infront of anybody and talks down on her every time. Telling her she is a whore, he is going to kill her. And whenever this happens she will come to me with her feels and tells me she wants to break up. But then the next day she says they talked it all out and its good. Then she goes on like nothing ever happened.

>>11062273
Verbal abuse and assault
Assault is the threat of violence and is a felony, so if she testifies it's a solid case.
However, you can only help her save herself.

>>11061342
fucking thai commercials get me every time

>>11061109
this is Kazakh #1 sexy volleyball player. She is nice girl

>>11062283
Thanks man, i try to. It's hard.

It also hits me in the feels somstimes. Seeing that guy having such a beautiful girlfriend but still threating her like shit hurts. Makes me think about what makes me this bad that i'm alone.

I have a gf, she is 5 years older than me, but I don't think that I want to be with her all my life. It's just a pain in the ass.

She has some kind of disease, in which she has rash on her face and can't eat anything containing milk proteins and gluten.
She has no friends, is very insecure and stresses about everything. Oh and she a perfectionist.

Maybe next year when I have my degree, I break up with her.

>>11061435
I think this post is very well put. Now get off 4chan and go do something!

>>11062301
break up with her already you fucking asshole. It wont do you or her any good if you are with her just because you are waiting for ''something'' better.

>>11061219
this guy gets it

>>11062346
Welcome to 2017 man, people can't even think normal anymore

>>11062038
its from a really good movie called sling blade, can't believe you haven't heard of it

>>11061126
>>11060961

Man the fuck up you little bitch.

All I see here are a bunch of little pussies wallowing in their own self pity.
If you want something, go fucking get it.
If you really want a girlfriend that bad, change your lifestyle, start exercising, improve your hygiene, show people that you care enough about your body and outward appearance that you put a little work into it.

So sick of seeing you fucks sitting here pretending you're just unlucky. A girl isn't just going to randomly stop by.

However, if you went to the gym for a few hours a day, 3 times a week and cared about your looks for a month, you could easily be fucking tinder whores daily in 3 months, more if you let yourself get fat.

You'll be over women after a few weeks when you realize how fucking stupid 99% of them are. Most can't even follow a conversation let alone add anything interesting to it.

tl;dr? Man.The.Fuck.Up.

>>11062189
i'm not that anon, but apparently you've never met some of the absolute fuckers that some old people are.

it's no wonder some of them are alone. they treat others like fucking shit and are surprised when no one wants to see them.

>>11062080

This anon is right >>11061919

GF left me about a year ago now, about a month after my father had his accident and became a vegetable.

I thought i wasnt going to feel good ever again.

Go to a park, take a nap on the grass under some trees. Make a habbit of creating a voice in your head that is compassionate to you

>>11061958
This really hit me hard. My cat passed away a few weeks ago. I didn't start noticing anything was seriously wrong until the day before, but she was already 16 yeas old so I knew in the back of my mind she only had a few years left. On the last night I stayed up the whole time and just laid on the ground next to her, she was mostly gone by that point but her tail still made a tiny movement any time I called her name or pet her. The next morning I took her to the vet so she could be euthanized. In her last moments I was holding her head up and we were looking eachother in the eye, then I felt her start to go limp and she was gone before I knew it. Even just typing about it is making me cry again.

>>11061936

Yeh, she been fucked over by guys before, she says she wants something serious

>>11061958
Well this entire thread fucked me up. It's ironic, a number of us are broken craving something real and intimate, or something we had and lost, and we fap our fucking sorrows away knowing full well that that really isn't what we looked for in the first place. "I don't relate to the love letters and the handmade stuff I made you anymore, you were every girls dream romance but when I got it I realized I didn't want that". Life is fucking tragic.

>>11061851
>>11061102
>>11061002
Get professional help faggots.

>>11062265
Do the right thing but don't fucking date her after all that.

>>11061919
Hey mate. I know what you feel. I loved the most beautiful girl once. She seemed she love me, but she wanted to broke up. We've been together for an year. I was jolted, because I loved her more than my life, and sometimes I think I still love her... I'm alone for 6 years now. I feel empty, I still wanna cry, no friends, no people to talk with, depression, social anxiety... my family think I'm a fucking failure. Yeah, I know I'm typing bullshit, I just wanted to share this with someone.

i came to /gif/ to fap
but now i'm having a mental breakdown

>>11062618
Same here, pal. I even don't want to fap anymore. I'm just going to stay here and look where this thread is going. I like this feels train trip.

>>11060943
the fact that they both decided is was a good idea to record this for any reason, it beyond my level of autism.

>>11061568
>>11061271
Has to be bait...

>>11061435
>it's about being as happy and as well adjusted as the people appear. On some intrinsic level we understand the relationship is a by product of reaching that status, and that status is what we really want. The relationship is just a symbol that serves as an abstraction for a lot of what we consider 'success'
this is really good. Why are you wasting time posting on 4chan? You should be wasting time posting in a Facebook group

>>11062653
>>11062618
same

>>11062614
You can talk to me, tell me more about it. I'll be glad to talk with you im curious on how that affected you philosophically

>>11061342
this is the fucking dead island trailer music lol

>>11061678
please don't

>>11061352
"in love with" more like infatuated with

also what did you do, confess your feelings to her?

>>11060943
Sauce for op is a youtube channel named Rachel and Jun they have alot of cat videos and vlogs of japan

Recently, my ex decided to cheat on me with my best friend. I will forever see my so called 'friend' as fucking scum. In fact, I will forever see them that way. Fuck... Every time I see my ex's face I just drink until I barely understand how to use my own body. My father found me in this broken state of a corps but he only gave shit that I'm being dramatic and that I'm becoming an alcoholic. I thought I actually found someone that would help me break free. I trusted her with my soul but she threw my love away like I was a over-used sex doll. I can't trust anyone, even the friends I've known throughout high school. Where is rope when I need it.

>>11062747
that's not them bro, unless this is a really old video

>>11061219
This. This all the way.
Its also easier to find love when you're happy with yourself

>>11060966
So this is sad just because her nose is bleeding?, I can make my nose bleed without feel pain

>>11062775
definitely not them. very funny tho

>>11062687
Well, we split up, but not forever. In few months after break up we met each other accidentally in a bus. We of course didn't talk, no matter how much we wanted to. How much I wanted to. Damn pride. We've just started our highschool, so we were still kids after all. In my country highschool always last about 3-4 years. I've seen her every damn day after that- for 3 years. Everyday I must have looked at her smiling, talking to her friends... Her new boyfriends, and I couldn't do anything, no matter what, because I didn't existed anymore. I was meeting her on the bus stop, she didn't even look at me. Again I had to watch she hugs her friends... It felt like a torture. I know how silly it must be to read that shit, but it's my story, and feelings were real. During the shool I was on 1 date with girl from my class... It didn't work, she said she want to be alone. And now here I am. I think it was a punishment for some reason, maybe I'm bad person, I don't know. Anyway I don't feel anything now and and I'm happy of it. If not, this shit would hurt much more. I know I will find the gf in future, but I don't want a gf, I want true love I felt before. I don't want a person to have sex with, I just want to see love in woman's eyes, see her smiling, touch her face and know she loves me. I want love not puss puss. So yeah, that's my story. Sounds stupid af.

>>11061887
what is it called?

>>11061823
Yeah i had a gf for almost 5 years and she left me because i couldn't make her happy and now i crossed her with a new boyfriend when she told me she wasn't meeting anyone.. feels bad

I've been sad and bullied all my life. Never felt like I'm part of something, have always lived in kind of a distance to everyone and everything. Made some bad choices and ended up beeing even more insecure about me, which just made the distance even greater.

I even got ball cancer. Got cured, tho. Lived in shared flat, and than this girl moved in. Best human I've ever met. Cute, intelligent, thoughtfull, and she got (almost) all of my kinks. And since you start beeing attracted to people nearby, we came together.

Best time of my life now.

BUT I got pretty paranoid. I always fear to lose her. To other guys, to car accidents, to diseases, to what fucking ever. Having her is actually too good to be true. I love her so much it almost hurts. Best thing of all is that she loves me even more.

Man but I can't enjoy it. Losing her would end up in my suicide, I can't stop thinking about it. I'm so fucked up. Fuck me.

>>11061940
Man that's too easy..

>>11062758

There is a hundred things I'd like to tell you now to go on and be brave and all that shit. But it all sums up to one little statement that can make you understand everything and help you deal with all the shit you're being served. And it's this:

Life is not fair.

Think about it and what this means to you. If you can't deal with that fact, then end it. But if you're willing to experience the 'miracle' of life itself, than stand up again and get the best out of it. It's you and your choice only. Best luck

>>11062832
dude, you gotta stop falling into the what-ifs. you're gonna miss the best parts of everything if that's all you can focus on.

man up and love that girl with all you have.

>>11062865
But thinking about the what-ifs is making me be prepared, and being prepared is a good thing, right?
I've got responsibility to be assumed for this little gem that just got put into my hand. I need to take care of her, that's my first priority. She's actually all I got, so I'm getting paranoid losing her.

I try to justify this by making up for it with preparation. I got all kinds of meds stored, food, water, I know how to handle emergency situations, I'm working out to be fit enough to handle anything that could hurt her. I can't help it. Guess that's my way to deal with how fucked up I am. Also she notice that I take care. That's one of the things that make her stay with me, which is my second priority.

>>11062081
Nibba just go out and meet people.

>>11061119
they get back together at the end of the documentary :^)

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Pretty sure this one's been thrown around before

>>11062690
fuck i was trying to think of what it was

>>11062366
what the hell is the point then

mindless sex with random whores you meet up with means nothing.

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>>11062081
Was with my ex for 11yrs. A month or so after our second kid was born she decided she hadn't lived life and didn't want to be tied down with a family. A year latter she came crawling saying she fucked up and wanted a family now. Hardest thing I've ever done was telling her no. So I've been raising the kids for 7yrs or so now. Thing a pretty good between us now, she can get the kids whenever and we've both moved on.

Just keep your head up and your body busy with work, hobby, friends etc. It'll get better and you'll be fine.

>>11063012
You can take any of those random whores and turn them into your girlfriend with minimal effort at that point. The entire exercise is to make you idiots realize that women won't make you happy, the exact opposite most of the time actually. Especially when they start wanting you to give up the things you actually enjoy.

Live your life. If you decide that you want to raise a child, then comes the time to search for an ideal partner, but random relationships are mostly pointless.
You're looking for happiness in the wrong place if you need a relationship to be happy.

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>>11062042
wat

>>11061537
If you're working about the relationship, stop. You should be comfortable with the idea that she can walk and you'll still be you.

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This one always fucks me up

>>11063059
>You're looking for happiness in the wrong place if you need a relationship to be happy

what the fuck. human life is all made by relations of all kind. even if you don't have any friends (and while being unhappy because of that) people come here for social interaction to be happy.

relationships of whatever kind, are essential part of being happy (if they work out). so seeking happyyness in a relationship with a girl is the most natural thing ever. Keep on trying to explain your sad situation with distorted reality all you want but DO NOT fucking push it onto others, faggot.

>>11063119
3 beautiful words that the most of us will never hear...

>>11062917
There is nothing you can do to prepare for a relationship.

You can get your life down, your finances, your skills. But more often than not, you will never get a relationship to a T. You have to wing it man. I realized in all my life of being cheated on, there's nothing you can do. I know it's that hopeless fleeting feeling of knowing something is going on, and being unable to do anything about it. But that's the beauty. That's the let go.

As much as it sucks to throw away everything in the relationship in the case of infidelity, it also sucks even worse staying with the person thinking anything is going to be different still. It's a cut-your-losses type deal. That's why you gotta keep living like nothing is happening, until you see a clear sign. And you will. It always pops up. If you stop caring, she'll get sloppy and leave a nice trail of evidence for herself if she isn't honest. Otherwise, you've a good girl.

>>11063119

aint this the dude that pranks people in the most awkward, awesome way? always wondered if this scene made him show real emotion of if it's just acting

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youtube^
This just kills me everytime, such good acting, such a great movie, such a beautiful story.

Anyone have the video or link of that clip where the guy tears up and he's saying "say it again, again, again" as the girls like " I love you"

>>11062812
Free to Play, a documentary about dota 2 pros

>>11062581
Why not?

>>11061342
Bit confused, she tried to kill herself or?

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why sadness? this is beautiful

>>11061219
that video made me feel, but not sad

I've been on the biggest upturn of my life in a decade.

Haven't thought more about killing myself in 5 years.

Mine isn't a cry for attention anymore, its a cry for help.


If I don't hear back from this MS program this week, I'm leaving the country for at least a month

May never come back

This is what i live for, to see the white race cucked by the glorious nippon, we bait you in with our anime, then you will stay for the ''asian women liek white men'' meme and boom. the only males lift to support spiritually and financially white women are asians.

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>>11061352
I know it's 4chan and I'm supposed to call you a fag and summer cancer, etc, but I actually want to respond like a human being instead...

A lot of virgin faggots with no girlfriends here will be eager to tell you what you did wrong with this chick. Always time for that later. For right now, just know you'll get past it if you decide to, and at the right time the right girl will come along and make you forget all about this one. Be patient, be strong.

>>11063279
Either brows 4cha or be a human, you cant be both summer faggot

>>11061352
not knowning what you look like, she probably rejected you because youre ugly, girls are just as shallow as men, they are just better at hiding it.

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>>11063279

>>11063313
are they better at hiding are are we just oblivious?

>>11061420
Been with my girl for almost 3 years, but due to her immaturity, ditsy nature, and a mountain of baggage and issues, i can barely tolerate her now, constantly starts fights over bullshit, asks a million questions a day, always wants to be doing something but expects me to pay for everything while she spends all her goverenment money on weed, but i still love her, although. i dont think ill ever be able to pop the question. too much baggage and drama, mainly because her dad is a ice addict who tried to run me down with his car, among many other issues

>>11063339
Im going to say both, depends on the person of course, some men, like myself and idiots, but some are just straight shooters. if i dont find a girl attractive, ill say so, and i expect the same, would be less hurt if they told me that straight up then leading me on for weeks or months.

There's some pretty girl I see walking her dog down my street everyday who seems like she's suffering from crippling depression. Like every step she takes seems to require every ounce of energy in her. Very sad. I don't even know her and feel emotional seeing her like that.

>>11061427
Do you miss her anon? Why did it end?

>>11063443
Start saying hi to that girl. Maybe she will feel better when you keep doing that. Start a convo and learn to know her. A few weeks later fuck her.

>>11063461
I honestly felt like just walking up to her and giving her a hug and I'm not even into that faggy shit I work construction ffs.

>>11063535
Good way to scare the fuck out of someone to, or get an assault charge. She might have a lot of problems you dont know about because youve never even said hello, she might have been raped then moved town, then you go up and hug her, you creeper, if you want to make a connection just say hello, fuckin hell people are weird

>>11062081
that futurama episode is one of the only times I cried watching a series or movie.. fuck

>>11063593
I obviously wasn't gunna hug her you turbo autismo

>>11061958
GOD DAMN IT EVERY TIME

>>11063535
just say hello, dont hug her.
Even if you work construction you could be a faggot tho.

>>11063633
"walking up to her and giving her a hug"

I work construction to try validate my man card even tho im just a bitch deep down.

>>11061219
Fuck, you made me reply. One month ago my gf broke up with me with the same exact words "I don't love you anymore". Fuck.

>>11063699
Wish mine would just get that over with, I honestly wish she would just turn around and tell me that, but she lives off me like a leech, so why would she. Just wasting time atm, would rather just get dumped so I have a reason to hang myself without looking like the pussy i actually am.

>>11063711
Why dont you just get away from her instead and live on? I mean everything can happen in a lifetime.

>>11061352
Google the red pill
fucking lift
have some plates
> more sex then ever

>>11063716
"Pussy I actually am"
She lives with me and my mother, im 22, been together for 3 years, first relationship, spends 200 a week on pot, then relies on me to provide food and entertainment, cant save a cent.

>>11063719
Where the fuck can i download the redpill?

>>11062038
You should feel sad because he's a fucking retard eating by himself, you heartless asshole!

>>11063727
Yeah, so you break up with her. Keep living with your mother for some months search for an own appartment and search another gf.
Man if she can spend 200 a week on pot that means you already got a good salary. Fucking live man,

>>11062081
Stop being a pussy

>>11063730
The faggot meant the forum on Reddit

https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/

>>11063741
All government money dude, $100 a week**.
I cant leave, i dont have the balls to kick her out, back into the abusive home she came from, along with being the girl who saved my life, we have just grown apart, just going through the motions, have been so close to giving up so many times, just can never do it,

>>11063763
Damn man linking a reddit forum on a chan.
Fag

>>11063770
That sucks man but you can just tell her to fuck off. I mean its bad for her and you will feel bad for a few weeks. But when things dont work together they just dont. you can't do anything about that, it just means it' s time to quit.

And hanging yourself would be the worst option by the way. By hanging yourself your family and especially she will think its all because of them.

>>11063727
Maybe you're the problem? She sounds cool.. you don't sound like you love her. You may be ruining her life.. why call her a leech? The mere fact that you posting this info on 4chan is an ugly sign. Go smoke with her and be happy dude. The grass is greener on the other side. Restore your connection with her

>>11063795
>she sounds cool
only because she smokes weed? You are fucking stupid. That is not how relations work fag

>>11063785

My family is well managed with suicide, my siblings and I have all tried, many of our relatives are gone, no one likes each other, we basically only associate because its the socially accepted normal. Ide have like 4-5 people care max. A rope would be cleanest and easiest way. She says she would "die" figure of speech, if i was to die, but then doesnt even attempt to buy a present for my 22nd, then expects me to spend hundreds of dollars for her, while im in dept without a job. cant help but feel shes cheating, doesnt ever want sex anymore, yet blames me, then goes for random walks to her abusive fathers house, i just always give her one more chance, shes definately on the last one for good now tho, 1 spark from going ham

>>11063806
I like that someone else could see that, im not a child anymore, everyone has to grow up and deal with life eventually, get a job, get a house, start living independently, gives me the shits that we both live off the dole and my mother, she just wants to go clubbing and get drunk and high all the time, then its my fault because I either cant afford it or i cant energize myself enough to endure 5 hours of smoke, mouth breathers and ear drum rupturing music

>>11063839
Man life will be better if you keep on living, just break up with her kick her back to her abusive fathers house and fuck it. She treats you like shit you can do that back to her. Also the fact she doesnt want to have sex means she is probably cheating. So... time to break up, go on with your life and become happy once again.

>>11063795
You are somewhat right tho, I am to blame for a lot of it. I let the love in our relationship fade into a dull cooperative union, but we all need to grow up eventually, life isnt a fairy tale.

>>11063050
Didn't know this was a victory thread
MAGA

Sorry about turning this thread into a bitch fest about my relationship issues, talking about this the way I have, maybe its time to get help.

>>11061339
suase , please

>>11063931
Don't worry atleast it helps you a bit. I tried to bitch about my issue but i didn't get much replies lol

>>11061339
maria ozawa

>>11061017
Where can I find more?

>>11061352
>Beta fagglet detected
Dude you never had a chance in the state you are in and she is probably sucking on her 100th cock right now. Get into shape and get some confidence you fucking faggot nigger tier piece of shit.

>>11061342
Does this mean she's a mute because she got mute blood?

>>11062411
That shit is always tough man, it'll get easier over time

>>11061196
He had delicious thighs

>>11062265
Nothing I say is gonna stop you from being you.

>>11064101
Maybe not but I am curious to know what your thoughts are on it. You may change my mind.

>>11062673

Lol

>>11063341
God, get away while you can. Do you have kids with her? If don't run as fast as you can! You can help her not having to destroy your life

>>11061678
Don't cheat! If you want to do it maybe you don't like her that much.

>>11063458
>Do you miss her anon?
A lot more these past few months, for some reason.

>Why did it end?
She moved. Lives with the Asian part of her family. So, culturally, it would've been impossible for her to keep a relationship with me. She never told them about me or her other friends (apparently her family gave her shit the last time the found out).

Still: girlfriend, friend, family, foe, acquaintance, and whatever other words you use to describe people in your life, she's definitely one of the most memorable people in my life.

>>11064120
OK. I went through what you went through. Most of us has when we were virgins. I was always friend zoned. She sees you as a friend because u maybe her only friend. I say this because her boyfriend seems very controlling. She's using you bro. Whenever she has a fight or gets abused she runs to you. Just know your position can be replaced with anyone. She's only relying on you because u r there to listen and u show interest. Like you said, they figure it out and everything's back to normal.

I know at this point you feel like she's the only girl for you, but this is because I'm guessing she's the only one giving you time. What could be perceived as interest, but it's not. She's just using you.

If she does end up breaking up with her boyfriend. She might get with you, but it'll most likely be short term. Ur the rebound.

Advice. Forget the girl. Forget all girls at this stage. I know every faggot says go and man up, work on ur body. Etc... There is truth to this. I was like you, until I got to uni. Got my degrees, worked out at gym, worked on my fashion (I was a dag). Before I knew it, girls were showing interest and my confidence was growing. I played the field through my 20s. Now, in a long term 5+ years with my better half.

Good luck bro. All is not lost. I was you once.

>>11061958
WTF MAN NOW I'M FUCKING CRYING AT MY WORK

>>11061706
Thank you kind sirs.
>>11061782

>>11064200
oh damn that was some other advice as i expected. Thanks man, it does make sense. She seems to be the only one to understand me, and shares the same intrests. It's crazy because it looks like we would be just right for eachother.

anyway thanks man, you kinda opened my eyes.
I still want to try tho. But you will probably be right at the end of the road. It's hard as fuck forgetting about someone when you start to develop feelings for them.

I appreciate your advice and surely keep it in mind.

>>11062301
You know you're an asshole right? Leave her

>>11064148
agreed get the fuck out seriously

>>11064257
LOL, no matter what peeps say u will always be you. Dw. The young me would prob do the same thing. =)

>>11062264
It was a documentary about loneliness done by BBC or channel 4.. i forget which.

>>11064302
Yeah its true lmao But i got it saved and will surely keep it in mind, in the end you are right and i will think about this very moment and hate myself because i didn't fully follow your advice.

>>11064315
You have to go through the experience.

>>11062510
Life truly is fucking tragic.. They say embrace what you have now, because before you know it, it'll be gone, but it almost makes you question if its worth building these kinds of realtionships if its only going to end like this...

>>11064333
Yeah probably. Already been dumped before but I have never experienced something so complicated like this.

>>11062917
Dude, you are paranoid. There are some medications to help you! Come on... you got an ball cancer cured, you can get over this. Find profissional help

>>11062081
luck of the fry and game of tones was way better

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>>11061271

>>11061739
> people who ask for song
> don't know about Shazam app?

>>11061196
hoarders nest of a house

>>11063050
>runs off with two kids
>rides cock carousel for a year while cuck husband raises
>gets the kids whenever she wants now

>>11063279
Get a room gaylords

>>11063279
preach elsewhere gaylord

>>11064528
Learn to use 4chan faggot.

This seems as good a place as any to vent.
A year ago I moved from England to The Netherlands, leaving all my friends and family behind for a fantastic job. The only interactions with people I have are with work colleagues, as attempts to meet people just result in feeling isolated as I can't speak dutch well enough. I try filling my free time with hobbies, but there's always that feeling of "if i don't have anybody to share what I do with, what's the point", it's been digging away at me and i'm not sure how much more of it I can take.
I just miss having friends so much.

>>11062411
I had the exact same experience when my dog died about 5 years ago. The feeling of her going limp in my arms as I held her at the vet's office is something I will never forget.

Remember all the good times Anon.

>>11064557
What were ur hobbies?

>>11064581
I neglect my dog. Not sure where he is, prob hunting for food.

>>11062366
Thanks for the advice anon, but working out isn't going to make me stop being 5'6"

>>11061933
Search the dota 2 mayor championship it's a cocumental about the players and the tournament

>>11064557
Where do you live in the netherlands? and what kind of hobbies?
I am dutch myself but got no problem with talking english whenever a person is from another country.

>>11064604
Get smart and rich then...
Get funny. Girls love humour.
Theres always a way.

>>11061109
dude behind her needs some sleep

>>11064623
I read regularly, and i'm trying to make money. These aren't guarantees, though. It's depressing and alienating having to become a superman in every other aspect of my life while seeing my friends get laid regularly because they were born attractive.

>>11064642
Yeah, I get it man. Confidence is the key. If you haven't got it, fake it until you start believing ur confident.

I am alone in life and keep thinking about ending it all. I just don't see any future for myself.

The thought keeps returning daily.

>>11064658
Confidence isn't the key, genes are. I'll never know what it's like to have casual sex, and that's something that'll never change even if I do end up finding someone and getting married. It's a side of life that's unavailable to me.

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It's a weird thing.

I'm sure some of you can relate, as in that people around automatically assume you are in a relationship already. I carry myself confident and I love myself and I have things I want to do. Buts its weird, because I never had a good experience when it came to women. When I decided to swear off relationships my life became much better. Didn't have to bother with the issues that came with "love".

But I know where my path leads, one of isolation and being alone forever; something I accepted. I wonder if I'm going to be ok when I'm an old man, or if I'm going to even be alive. I don't want to write an essay on the factors included into making the decision of being alone because its quite long. But regardless; I feel that not everyone will find love or companionship. Some of us are destine to wander the wasteland in this world, while the few are able to find solace in a loved one.

Hell some of are just loners and its in our nature to be as such. Some of us even myself wake up and ask yourself "why can't I experience that?" and try to change and fail while others refuse and sink into depression.

Its hard, but we're all gonna make it if you stay strong. That's what I believe.

>>11061219
>I did that with a girl I was madly in love with and hearing "I don't love you anymore" is something nobody should ever hear.

I literally had the exact same experience, we went out for 4 years. 4 years of my adolescence was spent with a woman I love and to hear those words come from her mouth that day was one of the most hurtful things i've ever heard.

I was practically comatose from it for a year, and you carry that scar forever. You can't just erase 4 years like that.

>>11062120
Selfish prick.

>>11061975
he's not really eating by himself, there's another dude sitting across the table talking to him. But yeah, they cut that out on the webm for effect.

The dissolution of marriage was a mistake. Somehow people convinced us that single moms and lonely men were better.

>>11060943
When my wife left me, I tried to kill myself, counted wrong the amount of weight the rope could bear, it snapped, and I got a terrible scar in my neck.

Two days after it, I discovered that she was cheating on me for more than 6 months before she left me. So, from feeling terrible believing it was all my fault, it all turn into anger. Now I am a rage machine, which is amazing to loose weight, and give focus on things, but on other hand my life now is just work and plot revenge.

>>11061119
I take pride in being one of the few people that don't smoke at my job. Smoking is an addiction and addiction is for the weak. My gf just broke up with me and i've recently picked up smoking and I have cravings for it. I'm fucking weak.

>>11064846
There's a difference between being alone and being lonely.

Gotta be happy with yourself so you won't be lonely, but I feel bad for people who aren't actually loners

>>11064875
I am not a loner, from nature. As a kid i loved to be around people and still do. But it seems like i just cant connect anymore. Cant find anything to talk about. And now i am sitting here on my pc feeling sorry for myself and hating myself becausse i cant have a normal conversation with anybody.

>>11060966
she just seems to have accepted her bloody nose and will live with it until the end of time. Never washing it.

>>11064954
Have you thought about getting a pet? I remember I was like that one time.

An pet companion actually helped me reconnect to people

>>11064867

Don't be an idiot. Revenge?

Just try to make the most of your life now. Move on.

>>11064962
I still live at my parents (which is normal in the netherlands when you are my age)
And they would never allow a pet.

>>11064969
Well when I was a teen and felt that way, I retreated to video games and found a hobby like playing the guitar. In fact, escapism was the thing that help null the pain, as I slowly accepted that I may or may not connect with people. (I sure didn't)

You have to reinvent yourself. This will require making sacrifices. That's what you gotta do if you want solace in this life.

>>11064987
I do play games, i try to numb my pain but it won't stop since my situation at home isnt perfect either.

Its hard to accept the fact i can't connect with anyone. I recently found someone i could talk to for a while but after some conversations (online) something in my mind keeps telling me i need to quit talking because i sound stupid, or because i feel like i am a pain in the ass for that person. After that the conversations keep dying and i keep wanting to talk to them but always end up deleting my message and just stare at the screen. I know i sound like a fucking faggot but this is how it is honestly.

Any tips on reinventing yourself?

>>11061126
this post is ripe for meme

>>11065012
Well when I decided to reinvent myself its a long process. Hell I'm still doing it, but I'm a much different person than I was a few years ago. I realize isolation can be a gift because it helps show you who you really are without the input of others around you. It's like going cold turkey from human interaction. Not that you should avoid ALL interaction but just keep everyone at a arms length.

You gotta look at the world for what it is. Its a dark, cruel and nasty place, and like Rocky said it's not about how hard you hit back its about how hard you can get hit and keep moving forward. Everyday man, I think about the times when I was younger and I try to recapture those nostalgic feelings of happiness, but as soon as I accepted that those times are never coming back. I had to make new memories. But I could only do that if I work on myself and discover what makes me happy. So I set a vison for myself and decided this is "who I AM going to be"

Another thing that helped me tremendously was looking up the work of Charles Bukowski. The guy had a hard life, but there are so many things he said that had a impact on me it even stopped from committing suicide. I had a second wind.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9CQIl0P4piQ

My best advice is, to stop involving people in YOUR life. You only have one life and if you spend it in the pursuit of gaining approval or the affection of others you will fail.

>>11065065
Thanks man, i appreciate it.
It's hard to think about "who I am going to be" to be really honest. In my eyes the future is just dark and lonely. I work in IT and my study is IT so i won't meet many on my path to the future. I don't really seek others approval at this point in my life purely because i already knew that won't make me happy. I will try to look at some Charles Bukowski video's later today.

All i really want is just to have people around me, have a caring girlfriend and don't feel alone.
How did you make new memories while you weren't social? How does one make new memories without someone to make memories with?

Thanks anyway man.

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>>11065065

“I've never been lonely. I've been in a room -- I've felt suicidal. I've been depressed. I've felt awful -- awful beyond all -- but I never felt that one other person could enter that room and cure what was bothering me...or that any number of people could enter that room. In other words, loneliness is something I've never been bothered with because I've always had this terrible itch for solitude. It's being at a party, or at a stadium full of people cheering for something, that I might feel loneliness. I'll quote Ibsen, "The strongest men are the most alone." I've never thought, "Well, some beautiful blonde will come in here and give me a fuck-job, rub my balls, and I'll feel good." No, that won't help. You know the typical crowd, "Wow, it's Friday night, what are you going to do? Just sit there?" Well, yeah. Because there's nothing out there. It's stupidity. Stupid people mingling with stupid people. Let them stupidify themselves. I've never been bothered with the need to rush out into the night. I hid in bars, because I didn't want to hide in factories. That's all. Sorry for all the millions, but I've never been lonely. I like myself. I'm the best form of entertainment I have. Let's drink more wine!” - Charles Bukowski

>>11062081
Embrace that pain bro. Use it. Allow it to drive you and not destroy you. Accept that it fucking hurts, know that it's always gonna be there. Anticipate the triggers and the following emotion, accept all that shit too. Fuck that bitch, fuck her friends, fuck her dog, fuck her new fucktoy too. On the other side of the pain is greatness my friend. Use it.

>>11061219
this is very comforting anon. thank you............

>>11065112
>How did you make new memories while you weren't social? How does one make new memories without someone to make memories with?

Easy.
You gotta create your own world. You're your own superhero, you're the main character. Like a dragon hording all the gold, that's how I view my memories and experiences. Every good thing that happens to me is another facet added on to help reinvent myself and I don't let anyone take that away from me. Anyone who tries to will be "destroyed" (figuratively speaking). You don't need people to have a good time and make new memories and we have it so much easier than the people of the past because we have the internet. There's so much shit to discover and learn about, I'm sometimes disappointed in myself for even trying to pursue relationships.

The people you meet in your life are just side characters with supporting roles. This includes your parents. Don't let someone try and take the starring role.

That part belongs solely to YOU.

>>11062581
Bro, you gettn played. If a bitch is chilln with you and says she wants to leave her current relationship but "can't", she's lying. You the sidedick bro.

If a bitch is really done, she's done, they don't stick around in shitty situations. Unless they have serious shit to lose or are in serious fear of losing kids/etc. But then they just gold diggers and fear the loss of material...same rules apply, drop da bitch.

>>11062716
not op, but i know what hes talking about. after being infatuated with someone for a long time it feels like love. it was like that for me, and when i told her how i felt it was instant rejection. but then i did what >>11061219
said. i focused on myself, learned to be happy without her. years go by she says she has a crush on me. so we fuck for a couple weeks behind her boyfriends back. i wanted more than a friends with benefits relationship. and when i told her how i felt again, and i was rejected a second time... by the same woman. oh well, at least i got to sleep with my childhood crush.

TL;DR: dont fall in love with a thot

>>11061196
This legitimately makes my heart hurt. Cute tomboyish are simply the best, they are top tier bros, and wonderful lovers.

>>11065150
Thanks man appreciate you.
Now i wish this wasnt anonymous so we could just private message lol.
I will try to become my own hero in my own world. But it will be hard. Lets see. Maybe it makes me not want to end my life after all.

Honestly been struggling between hanging myself or hanging on in the world. Thank you anyway.

>>11061219
This is stupid. So yes, things fell apart with someone else, but that doesn't mean that you won't find someone who isn't a whore.
If you find woman who places your happiness before hers, you fucking put her first, and don't EVER lose that.
Don't become a MGTOW fucktard, find that woman (Or dude, whatever tickles your todger) that actually does anything they can for your happiness, and you do the same.
My wife had a friend that always publicly emasculated her husband, guess how much sympathy she got when hubby started fucking his secretary.

Tl;dr: The right woman is someone who puts your happiness above hers, just as you have to put her happiness first as her man, then both of you will be happy

>>11063279
Fuck these virgins who can't be open with their feelings.

This is like the only platform we get to speak honestly.

But yeah man time heals all wounds if that doesn't work they're always alcohol and prostitutes.

>>11062937
thanks for the spoiler, faggot.

>>11063172

Not sure if that's what anon meant, but b/c that's not a great context to start a relationship, it will almost definitely end up being a rebound.

I mean, a rebound can be fine, but all involved need to be aware that's what it is, and that it carries an expiration date. And people often try to delude themselves anyway. That's a surefire way to end up in tears.

>>11061342
it's an insurance commercial in that country.
fuck capitalism

>>11061909
SUICIDEWAVE x SIDEWALKS AND SKELETONS - Dead Star

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>>11065191
>But it will be hard.

It will be. It will be extremely difficult and there will be times you feel like saying "fuck it".

But just remember this quote, "Anything worth having is NEVER easily attained".

But having a peace of mind, and being happy I feel is worth it. Even if I have to sacrifice "finding love" or "friendships". Because let me tell you, the second you become your own hero, people will be drawn to you because they are attracted to something they will never have and by that point you don't even need them.

But yeah get on that Bukowski, his stuff is phenomenal and just remember you aren't alone. I felt suicidal as well and I can still feel it clawing at me because I'm surrounded by mediocrity but I realizing its clawing because its dying.

I believe in you anon. We may be on different sides of the planet but we all share the same sky.

Good luck dude.

>>11065254
You are inspirational as fuck anon, i am going to screenshot this thread purely so i can look back at it later in my journey.

>>11061219
This 100%.
Was not so eager about being in love even though I had alot of chances in highschool, got one in College that I got to know alot first before being my Girlfriend.
A few days from our anniversary she decided to break up with me for almost no reason and hooked up with another guy days after.
Since then I never really wanted another relationship and focused to get happiness from myself.

>>11060943
I'm sad too braj, had my heart smashed for years. Summer started and i thought i had a job and a promising love interest but both flaked out. Been trying to get a lady friend via Tinder, to no avail of course. Im transferring to another college and all ive mainly smoked weed all summer. I had a girlfriend in high school and i loved her dearly, but that was so long ago. A miss it, but I don't miss her. She's happier, and I wanted her that way because I knew then I wouldn't be happy for some time.

Its getting better. OP, surround yourself with people who care that you exist, friends that know your life story. Love isnt just about sex and relationships, its also about friends and family. You can't love anyone if you stay inside all day. Get dressed and shower everyday, shave regularily. Sadness and depression can be overcome by meaningful routines. Be strong, be considerate, be carefull, but be you.

Good Luck OP, me and every other loveless and lighthearted person feels this way often. I love you enough to tell you this. We are truly in this together, undernearth the same sky, separated only amongst the otherworlds.

>>11064780
>When I decided to swear off relationships my life became much better. Didn't have to bother with the issues that came with "love".

I used to think this as well. And I still think that being alone is so simple and easy. Though I've always wanted to love someone and to be loved but never wanted to be in a relationship, which I've come to realize is extremely naive to think.
I have dismissed the possibility of a romantic relationship for years because of my inferiority complex caused by bullying. And I even genuinely felt that I could be alone for a long time and just wait till I get my shit together.

I went like 6 years without trying to pursue anyone and then about half a year ago I met a person completely by chance and it fucked me up real good. I didn't feel incomplete before because I didn't know what it felt like to feel complete until then. A taste of their lips, taste of what could made me realize how much of a broken mess I still am. I've come to realize I've insane trust issues and self-image problems. Just fuckin bailed after two months.

All my problems are inside my head and I feel like a little bitch for it.

>>11065200
How the fuck does a human being should coop with what you are saying when he is searching 24/7 and he is already for say 20 years old yet that woman haven't been found.
The system takes away humanity by not allowing some people get into fulfilling relationship after minimum 20-30 years or never.
Many people was not born with accessability to the right job the right community and so on.
The system makes it even harder for these people.
The system have responsibility to create a free subsystem that would make mating easy for everyone.
If a person has a low chance of finding a mate, and the type of person that would be a match has a probablity of being 1 in every million people, it is too extreme to unrealistic.
Happy a cooperative couples are infinitly times better to the world than bunch of lonely suicidal people or tons some couples who are together temporarly in an egoistic manner.

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>>11062081
you need some help from the MGTOWs, seriously. they will fix your life. just don't go too far and become a jaded cuck.

>>11064846
>truth

>>11062653
This

>>11065254
you are inspirational as fuck.. thx

Yo

>>11065270
different anon here, just wanted to chime in and say good luck bro :) so glad to see someone helped here instead of shit on for being a normalfag or some other bullshit.

I've been a real autistic loner for a long time. can't really do friendships so well, want them but I'm content without.

I've never felt as lonely as when I'm surrounded by people but disconnected by social anxiety and an IQ gap, which I have never found out precisely, but am sure must be about 40 points.

being alone doesn't mean lonliness for me, it's being separated that makes me lonely. when I'm alone, i feel fine. the world is mine.

Life did not have a meaning untill we came along and invented the concept of meaning. Just choose.

that other anon's advice is amazing. introspecting and self-improvement is what is raising me out of depression. having arseholes in my life is what is dragging me back down.
GET ALONE. GET BETTER. THEN GET FRIENDS.

>>11065254
Nice one

also thanks for killing my boner tonight anons, too much fapping is not good for me, so this was needed. thanks.

>>11065581
>>11065254

(Same anon that started this conversation here)

I love you guys honestly.
I've had this thread open for hours now, and i never expected to get any usefull advice on 4chan at all. I guess we all still have a heart lol.

Thank you man. I honestly feel better after the last couple of hours. Been struggling with my own mind the whole day but you guys honestly did talk some sense into my mind.

>>11062558
LOL this. if you guys seriously feel sad all the time and can't pick out what in your life you are sad about you have a chemical imbalance in your fucking head. Go to the doctor holy shit.

>>11062832
wow! congrats :) but dude, do something, tell her your worries, don't blame anyone or try to explain them, just express your feelings. but dude, don't depend on anyone or anything else for your happiness or life, would she want you to die? if you love is so strong, you will not lose her :) of that I'm sure, you guys sound fantastic together!

>>11065643
"different anon" here, I'd love to stay in touch with anyone else actively trying to better themselves or thier situations like ours... but don't want to open myself up to the trolls so look out for the thread, I'll make an "anon with a heart" thread in /trash/ every so often. bookmark trash to remind yourself :) we'll talk life and self-improvement and support and philosophy and feels. A thread like this would never survive in /b/ or anywhere public. I'm surprised it's doing so well here. Meet you there in the future maybe :)

>>11065736
Alright man will do ty alot
and i thought the same man hahah

>>11060943
Anyong?

>>11065236
really? pick your fights degenerate

God this threads AIDS.

Can we just post suicide fuel

>>11066065
>Thinking 4chan only needs to be keks and giggles
Fuck off faggot.

>>11066065
I miss being 16.

>>11065254
Anon, thank you

Hits my feels
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=V1zFeHJzS5E

>>11066475
just watched this whole thing, poor guy why do people have to treat eachother that way

>>11061119
he´s really hot

>>11062832
read soren kierkegrard

>>11063119
sauce or at least context for this scene?

>>11060961
Those feelings go quickly, and you may even be left with deceit, and betrayal.

>>11062081
It will be okay friend

>>11066475
god fucking damn it... I remember watching this shit a while back and it hit me like a truck.

>>11065417
>MGTOWS
>don't go too far and become a jaded cuck

That's impossible for those Marxist fucks.

>>11064337
I agree, life is unfortunately about growth and decay... Impermanence is a bitch but it's something we all have to live with... I know there are people out there that feel the same way about commitment. I hope we find it.

>>11063730

Avoid that reddit-tier shit, man.

It's primarily a bunch of Incels and people who can only get bar-whores circlejerking about how much superior they are to women and all the 100% real pussy they get.

>>11064315

I really wouldn't take life advice from somebody who talks like that, anonymous. Just do whatever you feel is right.

>>11065581
>>11065270
>>11065254

Here's the thing, though.

You don't have to be alone to find yourself. The key aspect here is self-improvement and finding a way to be motivated and in sense, love yourself.

You don't have to be alone to find any of those. What's more, while some people may find solitude makes it easier, you have to keep in mind the medium through which this advice is being given.

People will see that, and their main takeaway will be the tenuous "believe in yourself," but the only tangible advice they will remember is "seclude yourself", and that alone is going to do nothing but make yourself work.

Love yourself, and respect yourself, and find a way that works for you to do so. Some people may find solitude and self-inspection work best, others can find the good parts of themselves reflected in others.

It's all fine and dandy to say that you are the main character of your movie, but there are very few good movies which have only a single character. Even Siddhartha in his isolation only found the middle road after witnessing the turmoils of others.

If solitude works for you, then be by yourself, but do not assume that to be what works best.

Because there will be somebody who completes you. Not a crutch to lean on, or something to fill a hole (or vice versa), but somebody who can help you discover things about yourself you never knew were there.

Do not discount the power of friendship, and of love. These are the fires that burn in the heart of humanity and forge empires, alliances, inspire poetry and music and epics. Consider that if you find your "friends" are holding you back, wonder just how much of your friends they really are. You could declare them all vapid and fake friends and say "I'm better off alone", but what you're missing is an actual connection. Do you even know what your friends' dreams are? What their fears are? Their hopes for the future, their fondest memory?

>>11067168
Comedy Central, "Nathan For You" s03e05

-you are welcome

http://www.cc.com/video-clips/cbxlnb/nathan-for-you-the--i-love-you--exercise

Can we post stories here? Got a sad fucking story to share

>>11067977
go for it

>>11067952
holy shit

>>11067977
K here we go (Probably pretty common tho)

Be me in 9th grade, pretty average looking dude, tho Ive played sports for awhile so Im a bit more athletic but im not ripped or anything, Im on the football team my freshman year. Ive lucked out and gotten some hot girls to go out with me, but havent had a girlfriend in awhile. I start talking to an old friend of mine (cute girl) I try to set something up, but she mentions a friend who i vaguely remember and tells me that before I can date her I have to patch some shit up with her friend. I talk to her friend and she's really nice to me and seems to be coming on to me a little bit. We immediately strike up a friendship and the next day I see her at school and holy fucking shit. 11/10 hands down the most beautiful girl ive ever seen. long chocolate brown hair, soft sun kissed skin, big almond shaped rich brown eyes, perfect facial structure, got a fat ass, thin waist and the most beautiful compllexion ive ever seen. I probably shit my pants when I saw her, anyways we start to hang out sometimes at school during the week and Im an absolute nervous wreck around her, can barely look her in the eyes, I stutter and am extremely anxious. One night after practice we go to a dance with some friends and the moment she leaves to go home I choke out a "will you go out with me" (I know not very impressionable) she says i dont know and leaves. the next day at school I follow up with her and she smiles and says yes, I feel like im on crack and I run away to class since i was gonna be late as happy as can be. We only date for a few weeks but I couldnt be happier. Ive got the most exquisite and amazing girl at me side telling me she loves me, her lips are as soft as heavens clouds and her touch like nothing ive ever felt before. Unfortunately, I become a nervous wreck even more and even though shes my girlfriend I lack confidence around her, and get paranoid about losing her. One day after practice...

>>11068054 cont..
... as the season is wrapping up I get a text while im at home with her telling me she wants to break up. Its like someone broke both my legs at the same time. Partly because I lost her but also because she couldnt tell me to my face. I become so unstable in the next few days im texting her and calling her and shit I lose all dignity in myself, also unfortunately driving her just away from me. It finally sinks in that shes gone. She hooked up with another boy after that, but after a few weeks they were done too. Within the next year we text, things get a little better, once in awhile Ill say hi at school and shes pretty friendly to me. She doesn't take any initiative in trying to talk to me but I dont care because she actually replies. We talk rarely and life goes on. My family life breaks down, parents fight constantly, I got another girlfriend who I said I loved but I didnt, I just used her because I was lonely and she sucked my dick. My heart still belongs with that girl, and I know Ill never be able to hold her again. I break up with that chick because she ends up driving me crazy and I want a break, I then realize I had nobody and nowhere to go, so I spend my days working, going to school, and pursuing a career in e-sports because its what I love and I know once I tell my parents they are either going to smash the computer I built and/or disown me as their child. as of now in the story im in the 10th/11th grade and Im trying to rekindle something with the love of my life. I try to be more confident, alpha and more charismatic. We talk, but eventually she starts dating some cockbag whos been an enemy of mine for awhile. Once they dating she tells me that out of respect for her boyfriend we cant talk anymore. I take it, and then just say bye because what can I do. That was one of the worst pains Ive ever felt. Everyday at school, I walk the campus by myself and I see her with her boyfriend, a skinny liitle cunt, making out, smiling...

>>11068094
I can identify a lil with that story.
The only thing i'm gonna say is this:
Life may or may not be about finding true love of your life but it certainly not about begging it from some one.
Keep it up bud, we all have been through some rough shit

>>11068094 cont. pt 3.
... and laughing together. It kills me, but I rip my eyes from her perfect face and turn my music louder. My grades are shit at school, I zone out in class and think of what I'll become in the future. My parents stalk my grades, but I shred my report card and edit the page where my grades are. my parents think I have good enough grades to go into college and they are shoving the military down my throat. If they knew what my grades were theyd send me to military school. Each day in class and at home all thats on my mind are the nights I had a few years back with my girl under my arm and the stars above. (I have a motorcycle and added a gold visor to my helmet, looks sick af and hides my face which I love) When I ride my bike to school, I park it in the parking lot next to the exit, and I get out early so I sit on my bike changing my music, engine rumbling between my legs and I look up from under my visor and I see her, a jolt of emotion shoots through my body, and then I see her full blown making out with her boyfriend, and immediately anger. I try to keep composed because I dont want to be a tool, so I just pretend to not notice and look at my phone. once they walk by I redline my bike and haul ass out of the school because its an outlet. As I fly down the street well above the speed limit I cant think of anything else but that shit, It kills me. I only feel safe, i only feel proud and cool when im on my bike with my visor pulled down. I keep it down in the morning when Im going to school even though it fogs up really bad to where I can barely see because I dont want my face to be seen. Thats where im comfortable, with my visor pulled down and with an engine screaming under my legs. It used to be with her resting her head on my shoulder or her lips on mine, but thats changed. Its hurting me so bad, knowing I just got a taste of bliss and I wont have that ever again..

>>11068137 cont. pt 4 (wow didnt think I was gonna be typing this much)
...Knowing some other shitstain is doing only god knows what to her. Some nights after work (I get off late) Ill drive over to her neighborhodd and drive around blasting my music, reliving some nostalgia (but mainly hoping to see her on her walks). Im 100% certain she thinks im a wierdo who cant be trusted but in reality I would do anything in my power to keep her safe and happy. It hurts knowing what she thinks of me and that I cant change any of that. I miss her more than anything. She made my happy, Im just a ugly ass average dude in love with a 10/10 chick who'll never love me back and it fucking sucks. She honestly was all I had back then besides Rocket League, and now all I have is some stupid ass video game and the computers I like to build. Sorry for the rant haha

>>11068153 just a few things to add
Its beeen a few years since the beginning of this, and my feelings havent changed a single bit. All I know is Im gonna be getting kicked out anytime soon, and ill be disowned by my parents unless I join the army. Dont have any friends or anywhere to go, just some guitars and my computer. Honestly all I really have now. Thanks for listening and sorry I sound like a cuck but hey, love fucks you up real bad.

>>11067952
I love my sister so much I'm going to broadcast her death to the world

>>11062081
Take the blackpill, but if you feel a pull toward /pol/ or /r9k/ avoid the second one, as other anons mentioned, the MGTOW path leads somewhere bad but the road itself is quite good.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Wq3o3UeKPpM

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=K_zxHLKxiG0

Biblically speaking, it would appear you are off the hook (provided that matters to you).

I am currently in a long distance and I really care for this girl a lot but, I can't seem to fully get over a girl I was with 4 years ago. We were only together a year but I deeply loved her and wanted to be with her for so long and ever since she ended up leaving me, I just haven't been able to look at relationships the same, I do care for this girl I am with a lot but, I don't know if me not being fully over my ex is normal or if I am wrong for dating while in this state.

>>11068240
women, amirite?

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>>11066475
God damn.

this https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MOY-jJeOeBk

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In honor of this thread surviving another day and me finding my way back to it, I think it's time to drop another feels bomb. Only watch if you're ready to be broken.

>>11062758
Why not shoot them? I'd shoot 'em.

>>11060966
Does anyone know the name of the track?

>>11067948
>Do you even know what your friends' dreams are? What their fears are? Their hopes for the future, their fondest memory?

Those are honestly good questions, good to think about and talk about. It will create a connection since you will be talking about them for real, not about sheeps and cows. Thanks man.

>>11068169
Dont worry we've all been there,
your feelings will change once you get out of that school or as she goes. You will barely see her anymore and you won't have that constant reminder. You should just try to get your mind off her, don't wait untill she kisses her boyfriend goodbye, don't go to her neighbourhood because you want to see her on a walk. If you really want to have contact with her you should send her a text and ask if she wants to hang out and catch up.

It's hard but once she is out of your lfie you will meet other girls. Even though it does not seem like it right now. Talk to girls in your class etc

>>11061342
I don't get it. Why is he dead in end of it?

>>11067952
Jeez, some people are dumb