Homemade

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>>11056883
moar OP

op where you go? We need more of that ass

>>11056869
Niggas watching Boondocks in the background lol

Me and ex

I've had the chance to have sex 2 times now, and every time for the life of me I can't get hard. The girl I'm with currently is very nice and understands me, I've come to the conclusion that I am just so nervous and anxious as there is no problem when I'm alone. This seems to be a common issue when I google it and just something I have to grow on. Now I'm sure there is people here that has been in the same situation, and I'm wondering if you guys have any tips for my next time?

>>11065633
You're probably gay

>>11065633
hmm i say even if you cant get it up go for it anyway? maybe it will get rid of some of the nerves for the 2nd time? take a shot or 2 to calm the nerves but dont drink to much or you might get whiskey dick lol just throwing out some ideas m8

>>11065633
relax, get into it, don't try to jump right into sex. have lots of foreplay first. just enjoy the moment and your dick will do the rest.

>>11065651
Yeah that makes sense. I've never drank alcohol when I'm about to have sex, so that probably wont happen in the near future. Thank youu

>>11065652
I thought about that last time, we might have just not spent enough time with the foreplay. It probably only lasted 5 minutes or so before I said what was going on and we stopped. Will take this to consideration

>>11065633

Have you tried having her give you a blowjob as foreplay? That usually does it for me if I'm having trouble.

Or try blindfolding her and/or tying her up, so you can take your time without getting stressed out.

>>11065664
A little hardcore for the first time don't you think?

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Yeah the tying part isn't such a good idea now that I think about it.

But the BJ still stands as an option, or you could ask her if she wants you to give her head.

>>11065633
don't use a condom. I had the same issue and thought something was wrong with me. turns out condoms were suffocating my huge benis :DDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDd

>>11065633
Honestly if it is bothering you go to your doctor and just tell them you are nervous and they have a sample bottle with a couple of pills, don't be afraid to try it cause speaking from experience it did lift that nervous weight off my shoulders

>>11065783
Hey man if your having problems with finding the right condoms try this site out, stay safe!

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>>11065650
Shouldn't you be eating fruit loops and asking your mom for milk by now?

>>11065633
It might sound clishe but just relax it happed to me few more times and you will start relaxing

>>11065633
stop watching porn, after 2 weeks of no fap your dick will jump at the opportunity.

>>11065633

Go with the flow, let the flame glow

There is no need to stress, she there to feel good and the fact she in your hand mean she trust you on that end, so no need to worry about that. Also get a condom the right size, one too small will reduce the blood flow to your tools. A protip: since you might a gamer, you might find all those times you button smashed the controller quite useful when playing with her ''button'', but don't be too rough either, just gauge yourself with her moans of pleasure and it will come naturally.

Also cuddle n foreplay, kiss her all over but don't go for the prize just yet, tease her, let your hands wanders and her mind go wild with anticipation as you slowly but steadily reach her nether region and then, without hesitation yet with a certain gentleness you gotta grab her right by the pussy.

>>11065633
Yeah man happens to me heaps

Im 32 now and fit as fuck but when i care and really want to fuk a girl i get mad nervs

Trick ive used is to go down on them and beat it until ur hard

Once u slide it in it gets better

Just nervs unless u cant get hard normally

The mind is a powerful thing

>>11065633 don't masterbate

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get the fuck out of here

OP is this girl asian

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Hot

>>11065633
1) Don't go the blowjob route. Eat and finger that pussy.... As a V(assuming at least close to) you better be hard after making her squeal with your tongue. You don't want to get over stimulated from the blowie i,e, <5 minutes.

2) Switch positions a lot during sex, every 4 minutes if your a 5 minute guy. It doesn't seem to slow the females down as much as males(duration). Doggie / her on top for maximum time. They can't "clench" your twig as tight in these positions.

3) Focus on her, not your nut.

4) Think about sports, family, whatever if you're about to blow your load in short duration.

5) Hire a pro for the first round and tell no one... not even your best bud. Get the stress out of the way.

>>11065633
Nerves happen, if you can get it up when you jack it you can do it with some girl/man/tree you like.

Start with some actual kissing and touching, and proper foreplay. I couldn't get it up the first couple of times as a teen until I had a bit of a handjob from my partner and had gone down on them.

Also if you are mostly having issues just after you've put a condom on you might want to find a condom that is actually the right size.

I'm not some behemoth, but it turns out that my modest extra girth was enough to make the condoms I had picked up for my first couple of times goddamn dick stranglers. The main factor for condoms is girth (their circumference.) To get an approximate size you could check out some website like:
https://www.condom-sizes.org/
>>11065813
Or the one this anon mentioned.

TLDR: Take it slow, foreplay, get a condom that actually fits and know how to put it on correctly, definitely have some lube on hand if your partner is going for penetrative sex.

Good luck, have fun, and stay safe anon.

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more

>>11068001
tell her i love her

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Please don't post in this thread, board, or website again.

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these are great

Ex girlfriend trying to win me back didn't work lol... but I forced her to swallow my com anyways

>>11065633
I've had the same issue in the past. Its a combination of things. Mostly nerves but also inexperience. Youve got to get the angle right when you're ramming you dick in and it can be hard to figure out the first time, particularly when your dick is numbed by the condom. I remember fiddling around for ages trying to get it in and getting embarrased and losing wood. I think I also have a slight latex allergy and its hard for me to stay hard longterm with a condom. Maybe ask the chick if she's willing to go on the pill, the increased sensation will keep you hard in the very least. Also get her to go on top, the angle will be easier for her to guide you in if thats the issue. Hope this helps.

>>11065633
Try to get your hands on some pills bro. I always take a kamagra pill when it's my first time with a girl. Then I don't have to worry about it getting hard. even a little bit of excitement will get you very hard and then it will stay hard. that really helps especially when you need to put on a condom and she's staring at your dick lol.

If no pills: simply take it slow with her, the more comfortable and at ease you become around her, the easier the erections will come. After the first time fucking, something changes in your brain and it will become much easier to get hard and stay hard. just enjoy her body, and the erections will come naturally.

>>11065633
Fucking man up, sex is not that much of a big deal you fucking coward.

>>11068118
heather?

>>11065633
Had the same issue. Try taking Horny Goat Weed tablets (srs)

>>11065652
shit advise. if youre both naked, as soon as its hard put it in and once thats covered the problem is gone.
having a condom ready unpacked helps too

>>11056869
Me and my wife have those same sheets..

>>11065633

I've had this problem too anon, I fixed it by stopping to try fucking fat/ugly/old cunts and getting in to bed with only good looking girls.

Seriously nothing ruins a boner like obesity or tattoos on a girl god damn

>>11067967
she's hot thank you for sharing with us