Bathhouses: stories, advice etc

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>>10952306
Ep number?

Don't. When experimenting like that, it's best to do so with someone you know and trust, in a safe and comfortable environment. It would be a bad time otherwise. Also, always remember that people lack their full judgement when aroused: make plans when unaroused, and you'll likely make better choices.

>>10952590
Listen to this guy

>>10952590
Don't listen to this if you're trying to keep it secret set it up a few towns away get as horn as you can get and rip the bandaid off (speaking from experience)

>>10952306

Great chance to have sex in a way that you don't like or want with a dude that you don't find attractive.

And then you get to enjoy the fear if you accidentily contracted AIDS for the next 4 months, which is a living nightmare.

I really don't get faggots, and I'm one myself.

>>10952306
first time i went to one with some guy on craigslist, was stupid nervous. met couple dudes who were super chill, older, patient, we chat for a couple hours, no creepy vibes
Ended up going back to their rooms with them and blowing 3 guys till the sun came up
would do again for sure

>>10952590
Great advice, don't let your hornyness fuck your life up.

>>10952699
Absolute fucking retard.

>>10952590
yeah but how to meet guys i can trust and on the downlow?

>>10954396
Pretty simple; go grab a drink with them. Somewhere that maybe you don't normally go, but still public. And if anyone you don't want knowing asks, make up something like "Oh, I'm meeting an old HS friend in town." or "A coworker and I are grabbing a drink in our downtime."

OP here. Thanks for the advice. Basically, my biggest fear is STDs, either from CL or bathhouses. Heard bad stories of guys taking condom out midway through intercourse, so always been afraid of that happening to me. i guess no way to be sure.

Hey OP, I was also bicurious and this is what I did.

Search Craigslist or a local site like squirt for "cruising" spots nearby or in a nearby city. These are places where gay men go for anonymous hook ups. Read the reviews, feel it out, drive by the spot a few times so you can get a feel for the environment and the crowd. If you want to meet someone specifically, sign up on one of the sites and say you're looking for (describe mate here) and are available at (this time/date).

Personally, I didn't want the anxiety of meeting up with someone that I previously spoke with, so I just went to the spots a few times and walked around casually. They are mostly parks and nature trails so it's not weird to be walking around. I saw a few people my first few times but I didn't do anything because I was too nervous or the people didn't seem like a fit for me.

Anyway, one day there is a guy there and he stops when he sees me sitting on a bench and starts jerking off behind the bushes. I watch him and get hard, so I start jerking off too. He comes over, we jerk each other for a bit and then I lay down on the bench with my legs up and finger myself. He licks my asshole and then starts sucking me off. I cum in his mouth, he spits it into his hand and starts jerking off with it. He cums all over the sidewalk and we both leave. Never said 5 words to each other.

It was a fun, new experience, but at that point I realized that I wasn't gay or bisexual and that the experience as a whole was pretty lame. Much prefer smashing pussy. Still, I'm happy that I did it.

For several weeks I was nervous as fuck that I might have got some sort of STD. Be careful and use protection. Or just jerk off with each other. Getting a nasty disease is NOT worth your nut dude.

My story:

> 26 enjoy solo ass play
> Have a girlfriend of a few months
> On way home from work feel very horny
> Start playing with my ass with dildos and decide to do it
> Put a post on CL about sucking and getting fucked
> Guy replies, who is 46 lives <2 miles away, nice cock picture
> Agree to meet him and drive to his house
> Can't find the door
> Walk around the neighbourhood, emailing him to wait outside
> After 20 mins finally find him, looks like Hodor from GoT
> He leads me upstairs of a flat with thread bare carpet, flat smells like an indian
> Introduce ourselves, I ask him if he can put straight porn on
> Make small talk (still standing) about him being gay
> I say if he wants us to get started
> He says yes and reaches for my penis
> I pull back ,I have a gf and it feels strange
> I put my hands down his joggers and start stroking his cock, I feel it get hard in my hand
> He pulls his trousers down and tells me to get on my knees
> I obey and open my mouth, he gently slips his cock in, only about 5 inches, quite thick though
> Suck his cock and tease it more into my mouth, gagging trying to get it all the way in
> I tell him to sit on his bed
> He sits and I keep sucking, I play with his balls in one hand and stroke his cock with my other
> He keeps inhaling this little bottle thing
> I keep blowing and he mutters "Fucking hell this is good"
> He asks if he can suck me "No" I say through my full mouth
> He starts to finger my as and asks if he can fuck me
> I say yes
> He hands me a condom and I put it on him
> He gets up and lubes his cock up
> He slowly pushes himself in and I remember gasping over the feeling
> He starts fucking me, and I moan like a little girl
> He flips me over onto my back, legs on his shoulders
> Fucks me again, until he starts to cum
> He cums into a condom in my ass
> He pulls out and goes to the bathroom, out of breath
> I redress and he says "I'll sleep well tonight"
> I thank him he says to be careful about people I meet

i went to one in seattle shortly after i moved there. i didn't participate in any hijinks though. mostly just wanted to see what it was like. if i got the right kind of vibes, or saw the types i was attracted to i might come back some other time. everyone left me alone for the most part, it was like they could sense i wasn't there for sex. i guess i wasn't exuding enough desperation. i found it to be a very creepy atmosphere full of old weirdos. plus, this song was racing through my head the whole time
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6szE_qmzavQ

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>>10952306
>>10955524

Almost never comment: I tried with CL the first couple times. First 2 were bottoms.. didn't help cause I wanted to bottom. Next one wanted me to suck his dick only, met a couple on the 4th try, they were cool enough, but still weird, finally confessed my urges to a good friend who is gay, we fuck around now semi regularly and we are totally relaxed. He's never told anyone and he's never tried to use me for sex (He, His boyfriend, and I all play around) would recommend friend.

>>10952306

don't do it man. Homosexuality is a public health crisis. You're risking some unpleasant STD's, colon tearing, and death (if you happen to catch HIV). A few minutes of confused lust isn't worth destroying your health.

Far better to let your fetish fall by the wayside and forget about it than to fall into a self-destructive bad habit like homosexuality.

>>10952306

http://josephsciambra.com/surviving-gaybarely/

>>10958250
go back to the 80's and kys

>>10958261

You can get mad all you want. I have a clean conscience. Nothing makes you condemn homosexuality more than to learn what that life entails outside of the pornography.

Never went to a bath house, but I've been to an adult theater a few times. Never did anything but oral, but it is exciting and a huge turn on. It is risky and scary wondering if you caught anything. I got tested after awhile since the last time I went and I'm clean. I won't be going back, the risk outweighs the reward.

>>10952306
Enjoy your AIDs

Seriously though, don't do anything like this. I'd advise you not have "experimental" casual sex at all, but if you are dead set then at least be smart about it. Do what >>10952590 , though I will add emphasis that you need to MAKE SURE whoever it is is clean. The chance of catching something (heh) is not worth it, particularly when you haven't even confirmed that you will enjoy casual sex with men (not that you probably will or won't, but speaking from experience another man's cock is almost definitely not like you expected it to be).

But if you are stupid enough to not only have casual sex with a stranger but to do so in a fucking bathhouse, enjoy your AIDs.

>>10958258
well that was sobering. that guy must've been using beach sand for lube though for ass to have gotten as busted as it did

>>10958769
Life is always a risk.

go to a clean one, one that offers condoms and lube. don't get pressured and only do what you want, take your time etc

you'll be fine

i've gone to the bathhouse as my first time when i was in switzerland (work related) and i've gone back a few times after that. it's perfecly fine if you're just into casual, anon sex, just don't be dumb.

i don't know what they're like in the states, but the one i went to was completely normal. they had a regular sauna area, a dark area, a bar, a few rooms where you could get some privacy and a few gloryholes.

listen here is what you do. go in there to look around, don't go in with the "i'm getting fucked and i don't care who it's with" because you'll have a bad time. look around, maybe jerk off and don't have a problem with telling dudes no i'm not interested. honestly you could just go in with your underwear on, which is a sign that you're not there to do anything - apparently, this was the situation in the one i visited. and if you do end up hooking up, use lots of lube, always use condoms, put the condom on yourself, check between if it's still on, tell the dude to finish on your face or something. lie that it's your fetish, so there's no chance on getting it in you. the truth is the dudes around you most likely won't be clean. and it's not just about hiv, there's other stuff too.

>first time
>scared shitless
>seriously, because i enema'd
>went to sauna first, porn was playing on the tv
>older dude approached me and i told him no and went to look around
>in one of the rooms there was a dude getting fucked
>the doors were open so i was looking, got hard and horny as hell
>figured i would go to the gloryhole, because thats what i wanted to do anyway
>sucked off one dude, he came pretty quickly
>got even harder and sucked off another dude
>jerked off while i was doing it
>came, felt shame, left
>went again the next day

Some times in the month i love to fap to the thought of beeing manhandled. Or Generally of beeing Sub to a man. Like a Gloryhole used as toy. Damn Id love to have to those stories again, im already craving to imagine my own. If anyone wants to hit me up on SC :
justsomebifag
22 Yrs old anon which sometimes feels a bit sub, Happy to make other ppl happy.

i haven't beek fucked yet but i've sucked plenty a cock on grindr, i just ask for a recent pic.

but a bathouse with total randos? nty

>>10962523
I ll contribute my story

With a friend in France
He tells Story about a friend of his sucking his dick and liking it.
We start disscussing sucking dick and how it must feel like.
He convinces me to try it
He completely takes over and basically made me his fucktoy and tried to throat me (which worked well) while he only gave me head about 2 times. (while i did about 10-20)
Took me on a bed while i was on my back throating me and making me sucking his dick in the shower. Cummed in my mouth without telling, back then (about 15) i didn't realize how much i'd turn me on in the future that he used me as his meat to cum in without permission. Sadly he didn't took me Anal (cause istoped him :/ )
I Really need to Throat another Guy

>>10962216
Did you swallow like a good girl?

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>>10952590
This is terrible advice.

If you jerk off before deciding whether or not you wanna go suck dick and get fucked it'll never happen. Always make the decision when you're two hours into brainwashing yourself with gifs that make you wanna take dick and edging.

>>10952306
I used to live in San Jose and they have a great chill bath house called Watergarden. It's worth checking out. I've played a few times there, all safe. But yea, anon sex is risky so best used a condom if you are going to fuck and down swallow.

Bathhouse sex can be really hot tho. Got to blow two older bears and then one fingered my ass and sucked me off. 10 outta 10