Dump

hope you make it out okay, anon. sorry I don't have any smut.

My girl left me 2 days ago, I feel you

It only lasted a little over a year but it was definitely my peak. It is literally the best and nicest person iv met so far

>>10912384
thx

>>10912191
sorry dud

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>>10912191
Did you fuck her? Was worth?

>>10912491
i did, and honesty i rather fuck her than anyone iv seen on this website, so i guess it was worth it if thats important to you

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>>10912512
Sorry anon. Even though right now it seems like the end of the world, it is not. You will find happiness again. You do you and right people will cone along.

^^^ last number is how many dicks shes had in that month

>>10912545
thanks man

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Be strong brother. Relationships come and go on our lives, all that's left is knowledge to do not fuck up in the next one (or avoid certains patterns crazy bitches tend to show)
heres a random webm 4 u
gl

>>10912559
that's like the most dicks

>>10912635
Yeah, I hope somebody shows up that could match her. I haven't met anyone could yet

>>10912658
Well, don't expect it to get better any time soon if that's the case, if you're anything like me, you'll still be in pain 6+ months down the line. Shit is going to suck major balls, but the light at the end will show up about then. Do yourself a favor and take up a hobby or something to occupy your mind and time and so you can better yourself. Hang out with friends and shit, do stuff you didn't while in a relationship, lower your standards for a bit and just have some relationships that are fun and aren't as serious, fuck random bitches, and all that shit. It's better to accept that you will never be the same emotionally than try to fight it, she'll always be a part of you and you with her, but just accept it and look forward to moving on. Don't try to make contact with her, and don't respond if she does with you, it slows the healing process. My breakup was over a 5 year relationship that lasted from the first week of college until we couldn't find work in the same city, and after a year of being apart we ended it. That shit made me an alcoholic and fucked up my physical heart for life, so don't make the same mistake I did, use a hobby as a creative outlet for the sadness instead of turning to substances. Anyways man,no need to sugarcoat it, good luck with the next few months, they're going to be rough, and you'll come out a different person, just make sure it's a better you and not a worse you.

>>10913109
Damn, I'm going through the same shit and reading this gave me hope. Thanks man.

>>10912367
Hey I have been out of a similar situation for around 4 months now, just try and ease out of it and slowly try to put everything into a mental compartment and say "she made me happy but she's not the only one who can make me happy" you'll find someone who makes you just as happy, maybe happier. All I know is from personal experience, you're never gonna forget her completely but you're gonna lose all emotion for them over time. Hope this rambling helped and I know you'll find what you're looking for

my girl dumped me a few days ago to get back with her nigger ex. You're not alone going through this, ive been suffering since. Fuck you Paula you were a thot and i shoulda never got with you. A jew thot nonetheless

Why do people who have/had a gf even come to 4chan? Fuck off right back to you're normie website pls (reddit/9gag)

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>>10913319
>he doesn't live a double life
>normie by day, autist by night

>>10912191
This girl went to my highschool i think her name is aubrey or claire she has a twin sister i could never tell them apart

>>10913300
fuck niggers

>>10912384
She also has gone by princessnami

My GF left me as well, for a new guy, two days ago. Three days before my birthday, a week before our planned vacation together. Worst of all, I shared my circle of friends with her so I'm completely arone now. Fuck this gay earth.

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>>10913278
>All I know is from personal experience, you're never gonna forget her completely but you're gonna lose all emotion for them over time.

Couldn't have worded it better.
You'll still get those moments where you nostalgia over times with them though.

Hell, I've had a new GF for 2 and a half years since I broke up with my last (hottest girl i've ever dated by a gigantic margin. fucking people on the street getting out of their car to try to get her number etc) but I still get those moments of "I wish i could tell her about X thing" that I was experiencing that day and shit.

>>10913343
This guy gets it

>>10912491
name?

>>10912191
sauce

>>10913109
I came here to jerk off and now I have to comment because this man has given great wisdom. I'm currently at month 5 of the breakup and I will say that it still hurts, the panic attacks have decreased in frequency but still happen and feel that they are getting harder to get over. This anon said the exact thing my boss told me right after the breakup happened and that was "Work on yourself" and I've been trying to keep myself busy with going to the gym every night, rock climbing on the weekends, going to see new movies alone just so I get out of the house and am going to go check out schools this month. Plans were made to move to a different country with her but those all got thrown out with the breakup and I've decided to finish what I started. Shit will suck but work on yourself and keep busy.

Like some anons said it doesn't get easy, but you'll make it. Time will heal you in the mean time do things you enjoy, pick up a hobby, do some art, go places you've wanted to go. Just be careful with substances man. It's been a shit year for me and I really began smoking weed like crazy. I finally kinda burned myself out on it but you won't realize how sad you are until you decide to face it. Seriously don't repress it. Give youself some time to be emotional and to feel but also remind youself that Noone will make you happy if you aren't doing that to youself first. You'll be okay man, time goes on and you'll find someone again.

>>10912191
Going through the same shit brother, but my ex is leading me on like there's actually going to be a relationship still. Fuck new bitches, make new friends, and do cool shit. You'll find someone down the line that'll make you forget you even had those feelings. It hurts like a motherfucker, but you've gotta truck on, or you're going to be stuck in a rut killing yourself over something that's not going to change. Life will move on, she will move on, and you have to move on. Who knows, maybe at some point in the future you guys will get back together. But right now you need to focus on healing your heart and being yourself again.

I know the situation. My last (and only) relationship lasted 5 years, and we were each other's first everything. We broke up roughly two years ago.
All I can say is that it's difficult, and some days will definitely be harder than others. But life will change. Find something to invest yourself in, be it a pet, writing, video games, working out, anything you like.
You can make it through this. I honestly would say the best thing to do is to go and be social. Hang out with your friends and just focus on standing on your own two feet.

>sad normies ITT
I hope she's fucking someone else right now fag.

>>10913666
go fap to interracial cuck porn and let the real men talk sweetie

>>10913666
Sick bait my dude

my gf and both have mental health issues that are exacerbated by being together and it's tearing us apart. i think i'm learning that what's perceived as true love isn't enough. this random thread on a porn board helps the pain in my head, thanks anons.

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>>10913528
>my ex is leading me on like there's actually going to be a relationship still

this can fuck you up really bad. had a girl doing to me the same thing for over a half year period. sucked all my hopes, dreams and will to live right out of me, leaving me so empty inside.

bros left studying. no one there to punch me on the shoulder and talk the bro talk:"forget the bitch", "let's hit the gym", "fuck random bitches", etc.

so there I was alone with the ex, and every time she wanted me back, I happily went. every time she didn't, broke my heart, leaving behind even bigger void. the pain was physical. I ended up losing the count of the times she dumped me.

last time we hooked up was at my place at new year's eve, a week or two before my b-day.

in the end I got so angry at her, I decided to stop the relationship for good. promised myself to not let her hurt me anymore. put her on a bus and cut all my ties to her. I regret that it didn't happen sooner.

saw her with a classmate in the summer. they were around and decided to come over and say hi. we hugged, chatted. felt no jealousy, and no love towards her. kept my promise.

developed trust issues, SAD. SAD fucked up my health further when I was in bed all the time, ate mostly on the weekends and drank water when my head started to really hurt.

Let me tell you. Starving your body of essentials is a great way to get heath problems like arrhythmia, muscles atrophy, etc.

I guess what I'm trying to say is don't make my mistakes.

I went trough the same thing 4 months ago, and I don't know if it will make you feel better but I bet I she thinks about you too. You'll be fine anon. Fapping and talking to other girls will make things easier.

>>10913666
satan pls

>>10912191
I'm pretty sure I know this girl, do you have source?

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>>10914131
do not do something like this to yourself, this is a really bad time for you and only you

I caught my wife with my father after only a year of being married still can't get over it

>>10913528
>but my ex is leading me on like there's actually going to be a relationship still.
I hate this. I'm my ex's 'just in case' guy right now. As soon as she finds someone better, she'll be completely done with me. It's been months now. In that time I managed to secure a new fuck-buddy, which I'm sure my ex has also done, several times over. But she's keeping me on standby, just in case she can't find another guy who's 'boyfriend material'.

>>10912191
Im in the same situation OP :(

7 Year relationship ended a couple of weeks ago. Havent told a soul. My dad was just asking me why I didnt go out of town with her, and I acted like I knew that she was out of town...

>>10914864
tidecallernami

>>10914864

No you don't. Fucking autists.

>One desperate idiot in every thread

>>10915029
Pl tell me it is bait.

>>10915176
Literally not bait they took my apt my 3 year old and my trust

>>10912191
Took me a while to tell my mom too after first gf broke up with me, you'll be okay tho anon

>>10913468
Natalie Moore

>>10913425
didnt know rocco did porn

>>10915029

My dad once asked me seriously if my step mother had ever tried to have sex with me. I thought that was the height of fucked up. Sorry brosef.

>>10915192
damn, feels are real anon, i dunno if i'd have had the self control to not do an OJ Simpson

>>10913504
When I told my boss he said: "Whatever, you shouldn't be tied down anyways"

>>10913425
guna need salsa on that.....

My ex and I recently split up probably a month and a half ago. We had our issues and I had fucked up too many times we needed to split, but immediately after I felt such loss, my heart hurt so bad that I tried to get her back... Bad idea

I thought I had pushed her away for good, but she texted me yesterday saying she forgives me and understand why I did it. She said I could never push her away and she doesn't want a life where I'm not in it. She told me to focus on myself so one day I can be there for her.

What do u guys think this means?

>>10914131
Dude im already making some of those mistakes. My friends at work are so worried that I dont eat anything. I put a good face on when Im at work, but I think they still know something is up

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We've all been through tough times, just remember that no matter how heart broken you feel now you'll survive. Shit sucks, but just remember to keep your head up and not let your life grind to a total halt. Hope you keeo your spirits up, heres something to help

>>10915357
If you dated her that must mean you really liked her. If you both give each other the chance to work it out in the future it might be good to be friends.

I know that I will still be friends with my ex. She is the nicest person iv met, I want to know her for the rest of my life. But we both know that that will take time, so we try to talk to each other as little as we can.

But I have no friends so I still had to ask her if I put the hot dogs in the water before it boils or if i wait until it boiled to put them in last night. To be honest, I should probably know that.

Stay strong, if you still like her and theirs no hard feelings, I would say try to be friends with her

>>10915357
That she can fuck Tyrone while you work your ass off.

>>10912367

Don't think that way because it's not true. It wasn't your peak. You haven't even begun to peak. Trust me.

>>10915342
They kept telling me it was my fault this all happened on Christmas eve i resorted to hurting myself to cape I haven't really told anyone I can't really wrap my head around it but I have been string and have stopped hurting my self for there mistake I live in as someone who has been shatterd by the two people I trusted the most. Just remember there is always something to fight for stay strong life goes on

>>10915401
I love her man

I wanna get back with her

Guess I just have to play it patient

>>10915479
I know your feel man. Iv been doing my best not to talk or to tell my ex how im feeling. She thinks what went down was her fault because it involved her, but it isn't, she didn't do anything on purpose.

We still talk but its hard on both of us. I was snaping one of my friends a paragraph about how my life is going and I sent to her by accident. I literally had to talk her out of suicide, thats really hard to do. Especially with her.

>>10915514
So what happened, don't u want to be with her? That must be a terrible feeling..

I've decided that I wouldn't wanna live life without this woman as my partner

>>10915085
LOL, he said he knows her and not that she was in his grade
>don't call people autistic when you act like one

>>10912191
Mine left me last saturday. I'm feeling everything from denial to acceptance and it confuses the shit out of me.

>>10915537
Of course I want to be with her, but right now I don't. We both need to be fully over each other before we can get back together. If we aren't it just won't work out.

The other thing that got me through ending it was that I believe 100% that we will get back together. I know thats not true tho, I know that their is a pretty good chance that we won't. But it makes me happy so I just stuck with it. I thought that we would both just date around and then just get back together once we saw that we were right for each other. I know that she will always be right for me, but Im worried that Im not for her

>>10912592

same boat here OP, its been about two months and im feeling way better than I did a month ago, so just chill and do your own shit for awhile and you'll straighten right the fuck up

Sharing my thoughts helps me cope. Even if it is on a pornographic image board.

My girlfriend broke up with me last weekend, on the day of our third month together. It was so abrupt I had trouble comprehending what she was saying. When I asked why she said she felt like our relationship had turned into an obligation for her. I'm still having trouble understanding what she meant by that. Feeling obligations for your partner is part of the relationship, isn't it?

Last night I couldn't sleep, so I went for an hour long walk in the rain at 3:30 AM. Wandered around aimlessly until I visited my mother's grave and cried for a good 15 minutes. Went home and finally fell asleep only to wake up in an extremely foul mood. I was mad at her but also longed for her with every fiber of my body. I felt like a fucking mess.

On my way home from work I started seeing things from a different perspective. I thought of my friends, who have had multiple relationships and have now been with the same girlfriends for years. They must have felt the same way I do now, but they've since moved on. The same will eventually be true for me. It simply wasn't meant to be.

Looking back, I think I've known it all along. I think I never really saw her as "the one", but I was hoping our relationship would've lasted a little longer, that it would not end as abruptly as it did. Right now I'm having some mixed feelings. Part of me still wants her back. Part of me feels that getting back with her would only hurt even more in the long run.

Last Monday I sat on a bench on a hill, where we shared our first kiss. I felt sad that we would probably never kiss again. Now a little bit of that sadness has made way for something resembling happiness. Happy that my first kiss was with her, in that beautiful spot. I'm glad I got to experience intimacy, being loved and waking up next to someone I love. I miss those feelings, but they have helped me grow as a person.

I miss her, but maybe that's a good thing.

>>10915911
gay

>>10915954
At least I got dubs.

>>10913319
Married to a lady who loves anal and threesomes, robot. And i come here daily. How does that make you REEE?

>>10915579
Damn dude are u me?

I'm holding on to the same hope. I wanna work on myself for awhile and when we're ready we can be with each other

>>10913352
the best part is hes fugly so atleast she downgraded. it still hurts tho

>>10915911
thanks for sharing

>>10912191
As if your Mom gives a fuck.

>>10913109
Damn anon. My girl left me back in Jan. and I think you're right - it's not something that I can really get used to. It's tough but I'm trying to better myself and not shut off completely.

>>10912191
I miss her so much

>>10918103
Hang in there op. You may miss her now but one day you will find something more desireable.

lmao i used to play league with this girl

>>10918137
Thats what I would usually tell myself, but honesty this time I might not. I don't know why but she feels different from every other person Iv met.

Nobody has made me feel the same way she does. Nobody is as good at makeup as she but still looks just as good with it off. Nobody shares the same opinions as me. Nobody likes it the same way she does. Nobody is as pretty as her, to me at lest. Nobody dresses the same way she does. And nobody loves me the same way she did.

And if somebody does share one of this things, they diffidently don't share all of them. I hit the jackpot, and now its gone

>>10915558
It's alright haha, I legit do, had no idea she did this kind of thing, but got some serious fap material now

>>10917803
Sauce?

To each and every lost soul in this thread: You are not, nor will you ever be alone in your pain. But don't let it beat you. Stand up, keep strong, and keep moving forward.

>>10917800
Sauce?

>>10918191
Oxytocin is a bitch man. I once felt that way about a chick I wouldn't look twice at today.

More experience with women will put things in perspective.

>third month together
You're swimming in love chemicals. Suffice it to say that every new woman seems like a 10/10 when you're first swept up in a romance.

>>10912191
So you post porn. You are fucked.

>>10912191
you should've learned how to fuck her more passionately, you would've stayed together then

>>10920851
I was with her for over a year, not three months. I think that was someone else

>>10920931
I just did it so people would open it, honesty I can't even beat it to red heads anymore

>>10912191
>>10912309
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>>10914131
>>10915029

During the last year, in my personal life, The Red Pill helped a lot, until I found out about the Married Red Pill, which helps even more. I learned about it from an older guy friend going through a divorce at work. I never thought I'd have a reason to go to reddit, so I didn't stay long. I'll give you the realities and take away the BS so you don't have to go.

Bascially, fuck society's feminized bullshit. Learn what it takes to be a man. Women aren't attracted to boys. What people suggest will help (taking up hobbies, play vidja, etc. whatever you have fun doing), and you should do many things so you're not just a single-faceted person.
But, the most important thing is to sit and meditate. Sit silently and think about your life for a long time. Not just once either. Find out what you're really passionate about. Find your purpose in life. You may not believe in fate or any sort of spirituality, so make decide your fate then.
Don't make your goal in life, "I want to spend the rest of my life with her as a partner."
So what? What are you going to do in life with her as your partner? Sit around and be a stagnant individual, devoid of any passion, that she becomes repulsed by?
No. Learn your passion. Women want to look in your eyes and see a fire for something other than them. They want to see your will to live burn in your spirit and electrify the air around you.

So, what is your will to live? Figure out what you want to do in this world. The mark you want to make, and the legacy you want to leave behind. Who cares if no one even knows about your legacy? Your legacy is your own. It's for you to know, and you don't need to be famous for it. The right woman will come to YOU because your passion in life will literally ATTRACT her to you.

If you want to talk, I'm sure we could figure out something to share info without straight up posting it here.

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>>10920961
Your thread on this board is...refreshing. Bo need to apologize to him.

>>10921328
This is straight wisdom. I heard a similar thing from an old guy I met a few weeks back, and it's changed my life. I haven't even tried attracting anyone, and already people (women included) are beginning to flock to me.
The best part is, I don't really care. It's nice to have people, but inner satisfaction, being happy with yourself, is much nicer

>>10921328
>reddit
GTFO no excuses
Support for all others

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>>10921328
I like this anon. Dont go private on us. This is helpful to a lot of people other than OP.
Say some more, pl.

>>10912191
I feel you.
I got fucked over a month ago, she started dating someone behind my back for a few weeks before leaving me.

4 years in the trash.

>>10921330
source?

>throwing your time and money in the bin

you might as well become an alcoholic, at least you won't die a cuck

>>10921328
I agree for the most part.

I went thru a divorce and did the same. Sit down and think. It was the best decision of my life. Don't go out and try to fill the void with partying and girls, that's a sure fire way to fuck up your life.

I gave myself time as should you all. Fuck what others think. If you want to go out and buy a PS4 and just work and play then do it! Who cares what whores think?

After a year I decided I do want to be in a relationship and have a family. But this time with someone who appreciates me.

Found a great young filipina who does, 3 years strong. Don't regret it at all.

>>10917427
she looks like the comfy fuck

>>10921328
the red pill is never the answer. fucking faggots.

i'd rather be with someone i love and respect as an equal a give them all the love in the world than think they are inferior to me. fuck red pill.

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>>10921569
Just some thread on /gif/

Sorry, anon.

>>10922085
I think the red pill is not about hating women. Its about seeing the reality of how much men overvalue women, especially the fakeness.
The red pill is in reference to Neo choosing the red pill because he wanted to see beyond the fakeness and the facade. He wanted to see the reality.

>>10913319
Actually, I come here to troll /adv/ with brutally honest advice those spergs won't listen to and admire butch chicks and twinks doing things that make my dick hard.

And my wife introduced me to 4chan so yeah... take that and such. To be honest, if I'm looking at porn, I'm not bugging her. Damn libido.

I feel for all of my anon's out there.... I just recently experienced the first true pain of my life. I'd been with this girl for sometime now; everything had been great up until this past week. To sum it all up, she felt that she should prioritize her schooling/studies and individual time. She'd said that she'd been feeling this pressure on her mind and didn't know how to break the news for two weeks. Though apparently she wishes to continue communication as dreaded "friends" (This is a long distance relationship, though she visited often.) I never want to experience this feel ever again, this rage, this depression, this despair!

>>10914864
Shes from forest grove oregon i went to highschool with her ill post her yearbook picture in a bit

>>10922598
Pretty much this. Taking the red pill is using the head on top of your neck instead of the one in your pants. Taking the red pill also means to never, ever put pussy on a pedestal again and to understand that what passes for "love" very often is kinda bullshit as two people use each other to better their own positions in life.

>>10923789
Well i couldnt find my year book but her name is Aubrey she has a twin

>>10923841
its cool that you know her

sorry bud, girl ive been talking too for the last two months told me shes been talking to two other guys

>>10912191
4 years. It sucked. It gets easier. She became a cunt after the break up so that helped. But it fucking hurt. To see that she didn't even have the guts to break up with me in person. Over a damn text... I finally see she wasn't worth it.

>>10924067
She was so nice about it, she made it last longer because she knew that I wasn't ready. She suffered just to make it easier on me. And even know she still checks on me from time to time to make sure Im not gonna kill myself or something. I try my best to lie to her so that she doesn't feel as bad but its hard. I want to tell her how much I miss her and how much I love her but I know its a bad idea.

She is such a nice person, which is why this is so much harder. Not a lot of people are as nice as her, at lest nobody iv met.

i miss her so much

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This is kinda niche advice, but I would recommend reading CLANNAD. It's a visual novel, on Steam. It helped me get through some tough times. It makes you cry but it also gives you courage.

>>10924116
iv watched it, its really fucking good. I think id would fuck me up more

jesus christ. man up you fucking babies. itt hurt feels.

>>10924140
nobody asked for your opinion

>>10924153

you kidding? thats your internet insult? brutal. welcome to your early 20s new fag.

>>10917427
Who dis?

>>10924224
tidecallernami

>>10924564
Thanks famalan

>>10924084
I had a crazy hot gf who was like this. Ignore her, block her out entirely it is the only way you will get over her.

I went on vacation and fucked some russian chick. Made me forget about her super quickly

>>10921328
Hey dunno if you're still here, how do i go about finding my passion in life?

>>10924636
I'm not the same person, but personally, I think passion comes from finding something you like to study and practice at a deep level.

It could be drawing, playing an instrument, learning another language, writing, programming, sports, and so on.

I'm not religious, but I think of focused study and practice as holy activities. It may be the most noble thing a human can do.

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Shortly after the birth of our second child I found out my wife was cheating on me. For the second time (that I knew of). When confronted she gave me the whole "haven't lived life enough" "Not ready to settle down yet" nonsense. This, at 27yro , an 8yr marriage, 11yr relationship and 2 kids only 13 months apart.

So I said fine. Fuck you, get out of my house, I'll raise the kids. Always wanted a family anyways since I didn't really have one growing up.

A year or so later she came crying back. Saying she fucked up, wants our family now, still loves me, all that bullshit. I was addicted to meth for years and still a recovering alcoholic but the hardest thing I've ever done was telling her "no".

Now, 7yrs later, been remarried for 3 and happier than I've ever been. My ex and I are on great terms, and the kids stay with her whenever they want but are with me most the time.

Moral of this blog post is that. Life will always get better, so long as you strive to make it better and do not give up on your own convictions.

>>10925414
Gove is a timeline on meth addiction please. Thanks.

>>10917803
This girl looks exactly like the girl I just broke up with but hotter. 4.5 yr relationship

>>10922085
>think they are inferior to me
this is what fucking nu-anons actually believe

red pill is truth pill, fuckshit, not (((alt-right))) pill
back 2 pol is literally some tumblr meme that newfags believed was real

>>10925414
My ex gf from 7 years ago contacted me last Saturday. TL;DR She's not happy in her marriage, "not where she saw herself blah blah". She misses me and she's also cheating on her husband with a married 24 year old (she's 34). Her and her husband have a 1 1/2 year old boy. She talked about making her way back to our state. I'm pathetically hoping to see her. I haven't been with anyone since her and I still love her but she's always been a cheater.

I need to comment about the "redpill" shit for a second.

The best you can glean from all the "redpill" advice is to know your own worth and that nobody is entitled to your time, work, gifts, etc. but yourself.

I have a friend tha is naturally a beta. Redpill doesn't work for him. It makes him a deuche. He doesn't understand subtlety because it doesn't speak to his nature (which is so submissive and unconditionally giving) -so he acts like an ass when he tries to apply it.

A lot of the psychological aspects of the "redpill" can work for you to have a GENUINE relationship if you stay true to YOURSELF.

Using the "tricks" to get the girl is not just for your own happiness but hers when you know how to keep her (which is what a lot of anons here have trouble with)

Just to set an example: the "shit test".

Knowing when your girl is being childish and whinny (which is normal and doesn't mean she's inferior) you can be serious, cut her crap, and place yourself in a position where your worth is demonstrated instead of trying to please her. Knowing this stuff helps in even the most loving relationships.

If you're going to try to act like one of those cartoony jacked-up "alpha" males then forget it. But if you use it as a tool to further both your own and her happiness then it's great.

she broke up with you or was it mutual?

>>10926526
I didn't want it to end obviously, but we both knew it had to happen.

So it was mutual

>>10926523
I agree that it doesn't work for everybody, I would definitely not work with me at all. Its just not who I am and even when I was a child it wasn't.

My first post here ever, after 6 years of lurking
Typical beta here
My wife left me after 8 years of relationship. We had our ups and downs, but i thought it was getting better. I've started going to the gym, earning much more, playing football once a weak, gathering our long-forgotten friends/she continued here education... I though, that that is cool, that we were finally progressing as a family.
Well, she didnt think that way. "You are not as comfy as you used to be!","You became too manly and less understanding!" and finally "I've got a new romance on work".
Never been so angry in my life and was close too beat the shit out of her after that. Kicked here out of the house and get divorced ASAP for everyone safety.

And you know what? After it all settled down, i've realized, that i feel much-much better. Never had that much resources for being happy by myself. The reciepe is simple, it is very much described in posts above - just find, what YOU love to do and do it. Talk to frineds. Talk to a girl, but don't try to put her in your ex place.Plan someting big and work hard to achieve it.

Sry for my english

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Man, I feel you.
I'm still not over my First X girlfriend.
My previous X we ended mutual and still in good terms, she has killers tits, man I miss them, well if she didn't move abroad then I could probably have a go at them right now as we still fwb.
This oddly enough helps a lot going through the feelings I have over my first X girlfriend. Had a 10-year long relationship, it had its up and downs like any relationship, but suddenly she just flipped 180, turned into religious new age shit started smoking pot like a chimney and becoming all hippie like. And suddenly told me one day that I weren't her soulmate and left, much to the surprise to me and her own family, she pretty much cut contact with everyone, her own family, me, her old friends. And now just hanging out with new age faggets who think they know everything about the universe/post mortem, And thats what really grinds my gears.
I wouldn't have these feelings if she dumped me the normal way, or we ended it with a bang. But ending the relationship like this with a complete personality change within a very short period. Noone can prepare yo shit for that. Having your girl brainwashed by some religious group. nothing is worse than that if you ask me.

heard later (it's been 5 years since it happened) that she is in an abusive relationship with some junkie that has no respect for women.
To believe such a strong independent latina woman that she was to stoop to such submissive and low lvl is really sad. (She used to be very strong willed and typical latina spirit, and that was what I really liked about her)

But the past is the past. nothing ye can do about it but to move on.

Be open to new relationships as well, but be careful not to be abused. Find someone that you can share a hobby with, this really helps a lot.

Or just start dwelling deep into a hobby.
I decided after the breakup with my previous girlfriend to start with motorsports, Started practicing Drifting and almost got enough money for a GT86.

>>10926754
Thanks, and your English is good.

>>10921569
The girl is Kimber Day

IT will

good luck

>>10912191
It sucks major donkey balls when you put your trust in someone and they shit on it. Don't mope (yeah it hard as fucking wurtzite boron nitride not to) and seriously get back out there and grudge fuck every thing you can. It feels better quicker and who knows you might end up finding the actual one for you during said grudge fucking rampage. I did and we just crossed 22 years together..... might even get married one day. And since this will probably be read by the one in question... just kidding, I would never do something so stupid as to fuck up such a good thing.

GRUDGE FUCK!!!!!!!!!

>>10918191
I know how ir feels like, it happened to me 1 or 2 months ago, you'll get better if you don't remember she, chill with friends or family members

>>10912191

Sorry to hear it dude. I had that happen to me, and it always hurts a lot. The first day, it's the worst thing in the world. Then after time, it's the second. Then the third. Then eventually, it will cease to hurry at all. Such is the process of growth.

Godspeed homie, just hang in there.

>>10926419
Not much to tell but after college I got a warehouse job unloading truck by hand (waiting for career job to open up). Everyone I worked with did meth and roommate who also worked there had a sweet hook up so we had a literal endless free supply of it and any other drug you could name due to selling on the side. After 3-4yrs it dawned on me that I'd never have my career if I was constantly strung out. So, I quit that job moved a couple towns over and started fresh and clean. Don't get me wrong, It was hard but really not that bad compared to kicking alcoholism and being a single dad. Btw AA works, you just need to find the right group for you. I know damn well I'd be either ded or in jail if it weren't for them.

>>10926520
> Once a cheater always a cheater.
And that ain't no meme. There is a 100% chance they'll do it again.

>>10926523
Solid advice Anon.

>>10926754
Excelent first post sir. We need more like you contributing on our glorious 4th channel.

>>10913300
>Dating someone who's been with a mudblood
What the fuck is wrong with you?

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>>10913109
>>10913504
>>10915029
>>10921328
>>10925414
>>>>reddit

>>10915911
>>10915954
>>10915967
It is pretty gay. Congratulations on the get, though.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wQTbkEeCTeM

>>10922064
>Found a great young filipina
Where/how?

>>10917800
https://yourporn.sexy/post/573c5a8a12eed.html

>>10927163
need sauce!!

>>10912512

> i rather fuck her than anyone iv seen on this website

LoOoL fucking weeaakk nigga

>>10913352
good advice

>>10912545
Is there any more of her ?

>>10927633
Thats the only one i have. Sorry.

>>10913351
That's Clair, Aubrey has a longer face

>>10923841
thats Clair bro

>>10927554
better than anyone you'v fucked

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heres my stash and feel free to add shit
https://photos.google.com/share/AF1QipNvIIdv_wFilTAFbLvwK53CqN9uBv3xRPSJj2M6MyAfKpRVIYUiWSip9NzRT28CoA?key=ZFFXQ19xUWRmMV9iXzktLVBQN1RjZ01WY1lHbnl3

>>10928178
did you get any of those snaps your self?

>>10929841
jokes on you, i live alone.

>>10912191
Name?

>>10927163
Source?

>>10926752
idrc but damn you got me shell don

>>10927496
Fuckin legend right here

>>10912191
>>10912545
true

>>10912191
Dont worry anon, someone else will come to your life, and you gonna be fine again.

>>10913425
Hate to be that guy, but could I possibly have sauce? Turned to google and got nothing

>people posting porn while giving emotional support

4chan is a good place sometimes.

>>10926752
fuck you

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Got dumped probably around the same time as OP.
Here is my contribution, picked randomly from the stash I used to sext her for 2 years. Dem feels.

>>10926752
kek

>>10930336
Sauce on girl

>>10922085
nice try schlomo

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>>10930343
Sorry I don't have any sauce but this one is pretty popular I'm sure someone can help you out.
>another one

>>10924636
try to remember what you used to spend all your time doing, or reading, or thinking about

in alot of cases it's about re-discovery, not discovery. it's as good a place to start as any, either way.

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>>10913109
this guy knows

>>10926752
Darn it

>>10912191
yeah went through the same 4 years ago
and to be honest time didnt heal shit

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>>10930394
Do you mean you never healed or you found another way ? Asking for a friend.

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dumping a few ones to help brothers

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>>10930336
>>10930362
>>10930372
>>10930398
>>10930432

>>10930398
Different guy, but I've been with a girl for 2 years and I'm still not done feeling about my breakup 5 years ago. It gets better, but it definitely takes a long time to go away.

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>>10930446

>>10913425
>>10930133
Same,been trying to find sauce for a while

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>>10930450
Dayum son. I got heartbroken 3 years ago after a 1,5ish relationship. When I found the gf who dumped me last month it completely fixed it for me. Too bad I'm still not strong enough to go out and look for a job...

>>10930336
seconding sauce on this

>>10930700
sauce?

Its OP

does anyone want to know what actually happened? Or would it be a waste of time?

>>10930700
need sauce for this.

>>10912191
Its been a month and i still get bummed out thinking about it. Took all these pics and videos, and cant even watch em without getting all sad n shit. Tried to drown out feels with rebound pussy, but still miss her A LOT.

Have a date with a serious contender tonight, so there's hope OP

>>10930700
>>10930869
i just want sauce

>>10915077
Here i am bitching about 2, 7 must be devastating :*(

>>10915381
Thank you for the required daily posting of this sacred video. Always cheers me up.

>>10915911
I went through a similar thing when I was younger, I was infatuated with my gf but she broke up with me after 4 months to get with one of my friends who I introduced to her. Shit hurts man especially when you haven't had the chance to fully develop the relationship so you know what you want.

My next relationship lasted for a year and a half because I realised as time progressed that I didn't want to be with this one forever. It was still painful as hell because I loved her but we weren't right for each other.

My current gf is definitely the one for me, we both know it. You need to keep searching, be more casual. But don't press yourself to be in a relationship for fear of being alone again.

Hope shit works out for the whole thread.

>>10913666
I miss cunts like you. Every fuckstick on the website is an emotionally feeble pisspot these days. What happened to the old times when all anyone would have said is "tits or gtfo" or someshit? This website isnt for therapy and cunts need have a long hard look at themselves if they are looking for help here.

>>10915911
It was three months you fucking loser what the fuck is wrong with you

>>10930718
>>10930874
>>10930922
Her name is cadey mercury

>>10921328
It would be great if this was actually how people saw / used TRP. Instead it's just a bunch of thirsty mother fuckers wasting their life to become 'the perfect mate'. How can you say TRP isn't about picking up girls when literally every TRP forum is 90% focused on how to approach and treat girls like a true alpha male. TRP is what exaggerates gender roles, not modern society.

>>10929898
Huh?

>>10924631
Was her name Karina? or Kay? Blonde hair?

>>10930869
Go ahead OP. I am listening.

>>10913109
I need to chime in here since this isn't 100% how things will go.

I got dumped hard last December, after a 8 year relationship. Since this is fucking /gif/ I'll keep this short and snappy.
First month I felt horrible, but focussed on meeting up with friends to talk about it, a lot. Take the first month to experience how much support you'll receive from others (who've also been through this).
Second month I felt meh, I focussed on redecorating my home, never have a 'zero day'. Always do/fix/buy something, every day. You'll feel productive as fuck. Going to your job doesn't count, do shit after you finish your workday.
Third month I started excercising and getting fimiliar again with approaching girls, just for talks though, very lightweight stuff. Start getting used to being out there again, on the hunting fields. In third month I felt 80-90% of my old self.
Fourth month I started to really date, currently have 3 FWB's in rotation, one of the girls is really awesome. I might go serious with her sometime. They all know I'm not exclusive with them, be honest. Have fun, enjoy the freedom.
By the end of month 4 I felt much better than I ever did during the late stages of my relationship. There's positive sides to a breakup too, you'll see them eventually.

>>10913319
I've been here since 2005, literally oldfag as fuck. I've also been in a 7 year relationship and am currently trying to handle multiple fuckbuddies.

>>10926752
fu

>>10913504

>months of panic attacks because a girl dumped you

HAHAAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA

>>10912191
Most relationships and for a reason, OP. Try not let it get to you. Also from here on out, why even bother with them? Avoid that heartache entirely. Just have casual sex, much less stressful if you don't give a shit about commitment.

>>10930343
https://porndoe.com/video/650533/stunning-busty-czech-babe-lucy-li-delights-in-hot-sensual-sex for vid. no sauce on grill

Richfag here, and I think i fucked up quite hard in terms of this threads theme. I'll try story mode it because so much happened within 7 years. 1/2

>18, first day of university, forget about chicks because I never had one in highschool so i focused on studying.
>same day, met the girl of my dreams.
>friends, best friends, fuck buddies, soulmates. within a span of 1 month. shit kicked off hard.
>Go thru uni together. Excel. Discover eachother.
>3 years later, we graduate.
>within that 3 years I find out shes had a shit past. Divorced parents, shitty home, holding whats left of her non english speaking mothers debts.
>I help.
>I clear all debts, I pay for all necessities, I fix the home, i essentially become the man of their house helping where ever i can.
>she wants to study more, goes into nursing.
>I pay her entire tuition. I teach her how to drive.
>I work 2 jobs and open up a business and study part time to make all of this work because she was worth it. (so i thought)
>5 years in, I pay for a holiday for her since I was working and she wanted to see her dad in russia.
>She "sleeps and spoons a guy" she met on the trip. dont know what to believe anymore.
>I find this out accidentally. On the same trip she teases me behind my back with her friends.
>I call her out. She thinks shes human garbage and regrets it all. says she was just joking and that nothing happened with that dude over seas. yet they still message and she keeps looking him up.
>feeling betrayed i try to make things work.
>I forgave her because I think every man forgives once to prove they are divine when so utterly destroyed.
>the next day I surprise her with a present I had been working my ass off for, for her.
>she always wanted a boob job, so $10k gone trying to prove I am serious with her and that I want things to work. (really dumb now that I think about it)
>she gets it all done, they look amazing.
>she graduates, im thrilled.
>needs a car for new job. I buy her one.

cont..

>>10931542
2/2

>at this point her entire family and friends love me.
>She attains all she ever needs in life now.
>My goal was to bring her to my level so we can then tackle the world together head on.
>I get a new job, amazing opportunity, more money, new experiences.
>Suddenly she wants me to do things for myself and that I stayed in my previous job too long. even though its what got us through everything in the past.
>I tell her im moving forward. Things are changing and I'm feeling happier because of it.
>She says im too late and not good enough.
>Doesnt want to be friends because she feels like shes going "backwards"
>doesnt know how to feel about me, decides breaking my heart will push me to be better...
>everything turns black and white for me at this point.
>We block one another and cut contact. Her mother keeps messaging me to see how I am..
>realize i've been built up just to be broken.


and this all happened 3 months ago roughly. I dreamed she had a car accident and 2 weeks after the break up she did. Shes been cutting out all of her long time friends one by one and says she is going to study her GAMSAT so she can be a doctor.

I believe in compromise and fixing a lightbulb than buying a new house. But ive come to realize you cannot change people. And those you help who are in worse off positions will eventually think they are better than you and step on your neck to get ahead.

7 year relationship gone. I'm left confused and I feel like im just drifting. I fucked up and feel like i failed at human connection by trying to be the best I can be for some one else. I guess it was just the wrong person. Now i dont know what to feel or do and im hoping time fixes this like all the other anons said.

I hope no one else has done anything as stupid as me. But i hope my story makes other anons feel better that they didnt do this shit for another soul.

>>10931587
It's hard to relate, richfag, but we are all human and make mistakes. Next time, don't reveal your wealth/power level to the woman. She has to want you for your body and mind. It is a steeper climb that way but absolutely worth it.

So u post it on 4chan /gif/... Kill yourself

>>10931615
thanks anon. I definitely wont next time. its hard to hide it sometimes though, its why i moved away into the county. but you're so right.

>>10926752
fu

>>10931587
This could have happened to anyone.
You're right, you can't change people.
It might be too soon to see now, but you had almost 7 years of good times--that's more than a lot of people get.
If you focus on you for a little while, you'll recover and eventually be able to move on. The pain doesn't go away, but it gets easier to handle with time and treating yourself right.
Don't be afraid to go to counseling if you need to.

>>10931587
man she was playing that long con like a boss. take that as a learning experience and never trust someone at first glance. shit will always hit the fan and you will find that ohh moment sooner than later but in your case it was way later.

>>10926752
jesus D:

So I broke up with my girl of a year two weeks ago. I know it's nowhere near as long as some of you other guys.....but fuck, she was the first person I've ever loved.

After nearly a decade of dealing with depression I finally started feeling good, I met a nice girl, I had the motivation to see her and do things with her and just....I don't know what to do now.

Yeah it's only a year and I'm young and dumb but....any of you Anon's got any advice?

Since we're community bonding i'll throw my 2c in here.

I've changed my life to join the army, i've lost a hundred pounds and i'm getting ready for ASVAB and Medical testing soon. My brother took my out to a strip club with his best friend, I drank so much jack and coke to cope with how akward I was. His friend is worried that i'm more comfortable with hard liqour and guns than I am with my repressed sexuality (27 year old virgin, never been in a relationship).

Well he's right. I'm more comfortable in a fight than I am talking to girls.

I'm at peace with where I'm at and what i'm doing with my life, I guess my advice is to find a way to do so with your situation so you can improve it in every way.

>>10931712

desu I dont know what to think anymore. The life style i had for the last 7 years has been completely turned upside down. I broke down at work and lost the opportunity/job in my confusion and grief. They said i needed time to heal and understood but I dont want to go back there I feel like such a dickhead for even breaking down.

Ever since then i've been on my farm. Occasionally i go out with friends and try to listen to their experiences. But I havent found any will to go on. But in turn, I also realize I cannot go backwards either so I am stuck in this space between two spaces. I never used to be like this and its totally thrown me out of whack. I really hope this hurt ends soon, i've never been this uncertain about everything in my entire life.

>>10931746
Remember the person you were before things got serious with that girl. Remember the you who was opening that book of happiness, but don't read the first word of the first page. Just get that feeling in and that glow you felt when you noticed you were getting happier. Now the hard part; when remembering that version of you, do not envision your ex at all. Just picture YOUR feelings you were having that made happiness appear.

If youre having trouble remembering how to feel better about circumstances in the past, know that whatever happened to you now, was because of fate. This road youre walking on now is yours and always has been your road. The bumps and cracks you faced were meant to happen for a reason. This was just one bad section that needed to be passed to get to your next destination.

Live a day at a time. Learn to say no to those arguments in your head and the "what if" scenarios you think of during this time. Just stop yourself and focus on what you can see in your current line of sight.

hope this helps anon.

>>10931809
It's 4:30 in the morning, I've got work in a couple of hours but... I think I can face the day even on three hours of sleep.

Thanks, Anon.

>>10926752
Bazinga

>>10931826
Same here dude. My sleeping pattern is all out of whack since my break up. Who knows, tomorrow your tired self will find something great.

May the force be with you anon.

>>10931853
Btw I totally screencapped your advice and made it my desktop.

Each day I'm gonna hop on and see that shit. GOOD SHIT I TELL YA.

>>10929920
holly michaels

>>10931853
Its OP

Mine too, we used to stay on call the whole night because we didn't live together. Id always call her at 9:00 every night and we would talk and go to bed together.

Now im on my own. Its much harder to sleep. Sometimes Ill get high right before I go to bed so that I don't think about it.
She bought me a big bear that was suppose to represent her. I sleep with it every night now, I know that sounds childish but its the only thing iv got.
I go to bed at 3-3:30am now because I need to super tired to fall asleep now. I get out of bed at 12, I would stay in longer but my bird wants out of his cage.
To be honest I could get out of bed at 9 but I don't want to leave my bear.
I feel like im fucking 9

>>10931441
I don't think I can. Its not as bad as some on here so it doesn't really matter anyways.

>>10913528
Had this same thing, I stopped talking to her entirely but she called me on another phone and we started talking again. Then she ended it again a week later.

I don't get it man. I really don't. You go from wanting to spend your life with someone and giving them your soul to being told to leave them alone and act like they died. I'm trying to move on but it's agonizing since every day when something occurs my first reflex was to talk to her about it. We fucking talked all the time, and now that reflex is still there and every time I have to tell myself no, that she doesn't give a shit.

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>>10912191
anyone know who this is?

>>10932692
Everybody has a different story. You dont want to share, i can respect that. Thanks for starting the thread. Your breakup probably ended up saving an anon's life.

>>10932692
It does matter. Don't think that just because some people had it worse, it's any less hard on you. That's the mindset that many people with depression have (including me at one point), and the best way to recover isn't by trying to see how other people dealt with similar or worse situations, but rather find ways to help yourself. Everyone's different in the ways they deal with things and what they need to do to come back.

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>>10932816

>>10932761
Thanks, that actually makes me feel I little better.

Today wasn't the best, I was at work and near the end of my shift she texted cute emojis that she meant to send to her new boyfriend.
And what makes it worse is how sorry she was, its easy to deal with I can just lie to her and say its fine. But I know that she knows its not. She feels so bad for what happens even though it wasn't her fault. If anything she did the right thing and was honest with me.

>Be married for two years now
>Only have sex once every two months, wont even do shit like suck me off or even touch me
>Try to talk to her about this
>Responses range from "I dunno, just not feeling it" to "you should try harder to look better for me everyday"
>Decide fuck it and go full try hard for 4 weeks and look my best every day for that month
>She barely even seems to notice let alone change any behavior
>Im now just at the point of totally resenting her

I love her with all my heart but her constant rejection of my sexual advances has had a major impact on my confidence and it makes me feel ugly desu.

Anyone been in a similar situation and know how to deal with it, i want us to have a healthy active sex life but she guilt trips me every time i bring it up.

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>>10932824

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>>10932834

>>10932826
Really? You believe that?

If you were flirting with another girl right now, would you be careless enough to send them to her "by mistake"?

>>10927163
Holly Michaels in passion

>>10932829
Yep, i had same thing with my college gf/wife of 10 years. Of course, she was having an affair when anything i did wasnt enough for her. You need to tread with caution, my naive friend.

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>>10932867

>>10932856
She doesn't leave the house outside of going to work once or twice a week, even from that she heads straight home. She definitely wouldn't have an opportunity (let alone the drive) to cheat.

If there was "someone else" or something that in some weird way would make more sense, but its simply that she just doesnt want anything to do with me sexually.

>>10932883
To add to this whenever she does go out with friends/shopping or whatever she always wants me to come and i usually do, she really does enjoy my company and always wants to maximize the time we spend together. Im fine with this of course but it makes her complete rejection of me sexually all the more baffling, spending a cute day out with your wife and having fun only to come home to her saying "im tired goodnight" is such a kick in the nuts.

>>10926752
Re

>>10932883
I thought the exact same thing about her up until I noticed new bras. I used to buy her lingerie all through the 10 years but i hadn't bought these new ones for her. AND we weren't having sex so obviously she hadnt bought them to seduce me. Just look for the signs. Be careful. Good luck!

>>10932900
That is interesting indeed. Confusing for sure.
Are you a good status symbol to have on her arm? Girls always compete with their friends and want to show off to them.
Does she actually like to spend quality time with you? Time that she doesnt post on fbook or instagram about or talk to anyone? Just you and her?

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>>10927253
Kill
Your
Self

>>10932920
I appreciate the advice but

>>10932940
again this is what makes it so weird, she loves just going dates just the two of us and she doesnt really use facebook/twitter or anything. Shes genuinely excited to do stuff even as minor as drive down to target late at night and pick up some things. I help her confidence with her friends when she goes out with them which is another reason she wants me there but i wouldnt say im a good status symbol outside of the obvious "this is my husband". She also wants me to constantly (and i mean constantly not just once or twice) to be physically affectionate to her, doing things like cuddling in bed and things like that a lot.

So all these things coming together you would think she would be into me, but its like someone just flipped that switch off inside her head and nothing i can do turns it back on, when we are in bed holding each other she wont even make out with me because of the risk of me getting excited and she wants to avoid that at all costs.

I remember talking to my friends they guessed based on how active/close our relationship is they said "god you guys must fuck all the time" and i had to hide my shame knowing the truth.

>>10918191
I really know how you feel man, whether you will find anyone better is an open question. I think it really depends on you as it is the same with me. We have been broKen up since March and much of my life has gotten better recently through some actual effort. Take the advice everyone else has given and really throw yourself hard into productive uses for your time. I am still working on making all of my time work for me but the little I have been able to do has already created a world of difference. She still appears in my dreams right now and that is a little bit of hell. I just have to hope that the harder I work on my body and mind, the more likely there will be a payoff far better than I can imagine. Chin up to all of you and work on your form.

>>10932846
I was just texting her so I was at the top of the list, I do the same thing all the time. And I know she really doesn't want me to see that stuff. Part of what makes it really hard is how much she still cares about how I feel.

>>10933074
I don't really have much to do but I like making stuff. But recently I can't think of anything to make. I was thinking I might start doing archery but I what to save my money so I don't think I will.

My girl just left me this tuesday, after telling me she loved me on the same day. Turns out she simply wasn´t attracted to me anymore >feelsbadman

>>10933145
You can do Archery, but if it makes more sense to save money right now then put it off til later. IMO delaying gratification is much better than giving up.

>>10932984
There could be something physiologically wrong with her. She should see a doctor. Seems like a person who would not admit there could be something wrong with her so seeing a doctor might be difficult. Am i right?

>>10933288
I agree

>>10926752
fucker

>>10930336
>>10930343
>>10930541

>>10931522

cheers m8s

Lucy Li

>>10912191
Pussy. Life's tough. You're done fucking for now. Go to work

>>10931517
Source on this or more pl0x

>>10933410
what?

>>10913480
chaturbate model named tidecallernami

>>10931587
that's some harsh shit /b/ro. don't blame yourself though, this bitch clearly has no idea what the fuck she's doing nor who she is and therefor is not worth your time anymore. forgetting it all will never be able to happen but learning from this experience whilst moving forward is the only thing you can do.
lastly, don't think that because one piece of shit led you on like that means that all others will. you have to learn to trust again in order to have a relationship in the future.

>>10926752
fuck you

>>10930458
Talented girl, who's that?

>>10927253
not to make this about me, but sauce please?

>>10926752
fuckin shit myself mate

>>10932686
I was sure like 20 people were gonna call me a child

>>10918191
>Nobody shares the same opinions as me. Nobody likes it the same way she does.
and she still broke up with you.... obviously things were not as you say they were

>>10923841

>Well i couldnt find my year book

What a fucking surprise.

>>10921522

source pls

You fucks are great, I'm going through a breakup too. Came here to jerk off but was inspired to try again instead.

>>10926752
FAK U

>>10934728

on xvid

/video1382899/marry_-_marrys_snowballs

>>10934703
It was mutual, I actually called the shots. I decided when we broke up but we both knew it had to happen.
And to be honest Im still important to her, more then I should be. Trust me things were good, it just went down hill, it was neither of our fault but I still think I could have done something.

>>10912191
My girlfriend broke up with me like 2 years ago and I'm still mega-depressed about it. eh.

>>10918191
Alex

>>10932686

Good thread, im going through it dude. Its been one month, after a 12 years relationship.

shit hurts like a fucking motherfucker, and ive been trying to figure out why.

i mean, why?

Ive come to the early conclusion, still to be verified by research and data, that what i/you/we itt are experiencing, is a facet of the ASD that so many of us autist ubermensch share on this board.

Its attachment 'disorder'- thats why youre hanging with that dog. Aint gonna mock, I know what you got going on.

Anyway I put ;disorder' in quotes because of course thats the neurotypical normy perspective on it.

But its not a disorder- its just how guys like us are wired. We are wired for loyalty to one mate, like many, many higher mammals, and bond deeply. After we have bonded, we are loyal, and it burns from the DNA up to have our attachment taken away.

I'm quite into the theory that ASD traits are remnants of neanderthal hunting traits- perhaps neanderthalis bonded and mated for life like crows, while cro-mangon mated for short term child rearing.

KTF brothers.

>>10926461
nice opinion buddy

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>>10930362
this webm is better with this song

>>10935253
also anyone know what song this is?

>>10926752
Oh lord

>>10927096
Feels weird to be posting this on a christian image board, but damn, I just think it's so crazy how you always see people saying that alcohol, tobacco, and caffeine are way harder to kick than harder stuff

>>10926752
fuck you

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>>10935376
In the case of alcohol and tobacco it's true. Pic related. Because a drug is legal doesn't mean it's less dangerous or addictive.

>>10926752
Shit

After 5 years and less than a month after the breakup, i get waves of depressed moments and inspired/excited to regain myself/life back with possibilities. Ive been seeing someone and talking alot about how I feel. Dealing with depression for years and usually bottling up everything that cause self sabotaging decisions hasnt helped me in the past. This time, ive tried to surround myself with people I can talk to so I can process it, its the only way forward.

>>10921328
>r
You sir, know your shit. Currently in the process of living your advice. Its exactly what i need to hear after a 5 yr breakup

>>10915911

This. I've been through a few tough break-ups now and they always feel like the end of the world when they're happening, and I always need several months before I can be myself again, but just remember that time heals all wounds. Just wait it out, I know it sounds stupid, but just keep going about your life and soon enough it'll be a distant memory.