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Just broke up with my girlfriend and feel suicidal, need your very best webm's to fap the shit out of this cock... (not sure if i can even get erect at this point)
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>>10295661
My fiancee broke it off two weeks ago, dumped me and gave me five days notice to move out of our house; but still says she loves me, cares about me and wants to be friends (bc I'm her best friend) - could be worse anon.
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>>10295700
Thats messed up bro, you need to cut contact with her. Shes emotionally manipulative
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source on OP god dammit
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>>10295661
I know this feel to a degree. Happened to me not too long back now.

You'll be a happy fapper once this all settles down, don't worry.
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>>10295661

Sounds like we got another joker, doing it for the lulz, on our hands.
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>>10295700

tell that bitch that she may still love you but you dont
Then cut every contact with her

She'll be begging soon
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>>10295700
Cut contact. What she wants is you around still into her until she moves on completely. You're her safe harbor in case she changes her mind.

It's win-win for her.If the single life sucks, there you are again. If it doesn't, bye bye.

She'll string you on "as friends" and , like a shepherd, will chase you down when you stray. She'll say things like "I'm not sure I did the right thing" or "I'm so confused" while she bangs every Chad in sight until she's got her next sure thing and is totally over you

then she will never answer the phone again when you call. And you'll be left fucked over, heartbroken and bitter.

Get, the fuck, out.
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>>10295700
>Loves you
>Made you move out of the house you were both getting

Something doesn't add up
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>>10295700
My fiancée also broke it off a month ago. We had a stupid argument and I said some pretty hurtful things. When I tried to reconcile with her, she said hurtful things to me. I told to myself that I had to try to win her back. Last Sunday, she told me she was enjoying the company of a German photographer. Fuck. This. Shit.
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>>10295705
That's rich - she said she felt I manipulated her by, "being sweet, kind and cooking such nice meals for her." It's almost as if I wanted to treat her right...
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>>10295725
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>>10295725
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>>10295717

Thanks all for the support. I'm doing the best I can. I cut down my drinking, weed consumption. Moved across town and am trying to fit my life into a 15'x15' room. Feels bad, I have to now decide what parts of my livelihood I can retain.

>>10295661

My advice: immerse yourself in work, weather the storm.
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are you upset because you know she's probably out getting fucked way better than you ever could?
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>>10295700
Look, you may not want to believe it, and she may not even be consciously aware of it...but she's acting in keeping with some pretty basic genetic programming. Women want security, but they also want an alpha. They want love and tenderness and respect and adoration, but they also want to feel submissive and a man who gives her all she wants and is her "best friend" just isn't that for her.

Likewise, you may have some genetic programming that tells you that you want to fuck every fertile female you meet, AND you want a faithful partner... but obviously society doesn't expect a woman to stick around while you bone random sluts.

Do NOT be her "pal." There's a different relationship between a buddy and a long term sexual/marital partner. If you're lucky, you may get settled into a good balance of the two. But when she is your MATE, SHE needs to seek and find friendship in you, and realize it's a different friendship than her gay friend, white knight friend, or girlfriend, who she can call on without investment in a more intimate relationship. It's easier for those kinds of "friends" to be seen as such wonderful people, because you don't have to merge your life with theirs over things like bills, bathroom habits, and sleeping arrangements - and you can easily have multiple "great friends" without feeling tied to only one.

You probably won't listen to any of this, but pack your stuff, take off, and never look back. You don't have to hate her, but being "friends" with your ex is difficult, if not almost universally unhealthy. She's making a choice. It isn't your job to make it consequence free and guiltless. Be a man, and find someone who will give you respect enough to treat you like one. It isn't her, even if she changes her mind later.
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thank you guys for the support.
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>>10295718
Can't even stress how true this is. Despite what others might have you believe, all women are the same on this basic level. Everything they do is for their own self interest.

I say this not as an angry virgin, but as someone who has had a number of long term relationships and lived a few horror stories.
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>>10295661
kill yourself, just please take someone else who deserves it with you.
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OP cut all ties so you won't come into contact with her ever agian. it fucks up the healing process if she's still around
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>>10295725
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>>10295754
>>10295726

I wish there was some kind of manual for all men out there on female psychology because the same thing happens time and time again. When you're dumped thats the end of it, block all contact and begin the moving on process however difficult that may be, but never allow yourself to be strung along, it wont end well, it never ends well.

It could be a person to person thing but from first hand experience and others that I know of too have found that some females act in complete selfishness during break ups, even when they're the ones ending the relationship, they will seek comfort from you, understanding and love whilst holding off from giving you what you want or need.
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>>10295764
Who's the chick?
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>>10295918

Care to share some stories?

What is it exactly that makes women like this? I wonder sometimes if guys do the same thing, but I often find females are the ones doing the vast majority of dumping in a relationship and when it is the man doing the dumping there isn't any manipulation or stringing along.
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>>10295661
Hang in there OP you wouldn't have sauce on your pic by any chance?
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>>10296006
Men don't have friends that try and live their life through you, girls do. That's part of the reason of the reason why drama starts, their friends encourage it, because they're too afraid to start it themselves
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>>10296006
>then-gf goes on a night out
>at home on my PS3 quite happy with the peace
>facebook message from a guy she used to see
>screencap of them dirty talking, below the screencap he's said "lol"
>not even angry, just annoyed
>call her, she's drunk as fuck
>bursts into tears on the phone
>turns it around on me, saying it's my fault
>hang up, go back to FF9
>few hours later she comes home, even more fucked up
>start arguing with her, she gets physical, scratches at me and attempts to kick me in the balls
>she barricades herself in the kitchen, i get bored and go to bed
>just as I'm drifting off, hear male voices in the hallway
>stand up, torch shines right in my face
>two policemen walk in

Long story short, she called the police and told them I had attempted to rape her on her friend's advice (whom she had called in the kitchen). I was put into a cell overnight, interviewed in the morning and let go because her story had changed three times, there were no marks on her and she was clearly still drunk when they'd spoken to her. Moved out of the flat and went back to my parent's house.

Shit fucked me up so bad I had to go onto antidepressants and swore women off for a year.

And yeah, unsurprisingly a few weeks after she was begging me to forgive her and give her another chance.
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>>10296002
Aria Alexander
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>>10296006
>be me, the anons whose fiancee just broke up with him and forced him to move out.
>ten years ago go to meet an ex bc she was trying to get back with me
>she admits she's slept with ten other guy's in the one month we've been broken up.
>I go to leave in my car.
>she jams a black Smith&Wesson knife into my calf
>spend the next hour sewing up my own leg bc I live in rural us and the last thing I want is Billy-Bob the sheriff's son involved.
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>>10295700

She doesn't love you. You are a modular application to her, something to summon on a whim and discard when done. Never "be friends" with a woman, let alone one who does this manipulative baby bullshit.

Cut her out and move on. You're not at fault.

>>10295726

"Women would rather be with men who beat them to death than bore them to death."-The Boondocks

She's literally saying "You are a good person and treat me well, so I don't want you." It's good she was so forthright; it means you can excise her from your life and move on, instead of getting strung along and paying child support or something in the future. Do you know how garbage a person must be to think like her? Wish her well. Hopefully she'll get what she wants, which apparently is a distant, cold, abusive fucktard. And even if she gets him, she'll still bitch about it.
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>>10295661
Sorry to hear that. Get some metal and play it loud as you can, it helps a little:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nr2Ucum7uoI
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>>10295661
BTW watching porn at this stage of breaking-up didn't help me. I always felt like I was watching my ex fucking with someone else and it just turned the knife in my heart.
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>>10295661
haha get cucked women dont like us anyways you were lucky enough to be a normie and have one in the first place
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>>10296147
either hurry up and kill yourself or fuck off back to /reddit9k/.
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>>10295661

''Suicidal''

Calm your fucking tits anon, give it a year and you'll be with another and better girl, thinking back at how cringe worthy you were about the whole situation right now.
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>ctrl+f "cuck"
>only one result
>not in response to these posts >>10295700 >>10295726
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>>10296045

God damn man, that situation sucks, but honestly better to find out shes crazy before you guys get married. She may have honestly tried to kill you.
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>>10295990

Women mentally "check out" of the relationship months or years before they actually say "I'm leaving you". They stick around while they wait for the next branch to swing to. Monkeys don't let go of one branch before they take hold of another. Women are the same in that they don't leave a man until they're confident that they can get, or have already gotten, another man whom they want more.

Loyalty is foreign to them because loyalty is suicide, evolutionarily speaking. This is why women willingly give themselves to invading armies once it becomes clear that their native men have been defeated.

Men are the romantic idealists who pretend to be the cool, calculating realists. Women are the cool, calculating realists who pretend to be the romantic idealists. Of all the romantic poetry and shit like that, it's overwhelmingly men who wrote it. Men almost deify women, we love them so much...or our own mistaken ideas of them...that we find ways of loving even their imperfections until they become their perfections.

But they're not special. They're not more kind and loving just for having an extra hole and different chromosomes. Any illusion of that being the case has been eroded over the decades.

The kind of woman that inspires a love in a man that drives him to take on the monumental task of marrying her and creating lives with her, and supporting those lives, is not merely born; she must be made, honed and instructed by her family, which is embedded in a larger culture of the same values, which fosters her growth in becoming that woman. That woman must be engineered, the same way the man who makes a good husband and father must be engineered.

That culture no longer exists, so women have reverted to their true form; opportunistic, promiscuous animals. They're opportunistic animals because our society and culture no longer give them a reason not to be.

"Female virtue is nothing but a convenient masculine invention."-Ninon de Lenclos
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>>10295700
Women don't want to "remain friends". That's womantalk for "I want MY options open."

Cut her out of your life. You'll be better off.
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>>10296222
Nice trips
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>>10296171

This

Some slut took my virginity and I just hung around with for for four years thinking I was in a relationship. When we broke up, I just wallowed around like a pussy and had pity sex with her once a week for a year until I finally got my shit together. Met a cuter and younger chick that is 100 % about me. Now I look back and think about how much of a cringe faggot I was.
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>>10296140

Don't think about how easy it is for girls to get fucked. Don't think about how she's got at least 10 guys on call to give her a good on-demand fucking at any time. Don't think about how all your experiences together amount to nothing now because she...just fucking felt like it lol.

Don't think about how the only time she thinks about you is to compare you unfavorably to whatever hung stud she's getting fucked by at the moment, and to reflect on how happy she is now that she's getting the real fucking she's been starving for ever since she met you. Don't think about how they touch places inside her that she didn't even know she had. Don't think about how she says yes to anything they want, but had rules for you.

Don't think about how she'll only contact you for some free emotional support, in between getting fucked senseless.

Don't think about any of that.
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>>10295700
who's name was on the house? shoulda kicked her out
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>>10295726
Stop feeling sorry for yourself or trying to analyze it or seek pity.

She's shit. Garbage. Not with your time. Move on.
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>>10295661
Like someone else advised, work on yourself. The worst part of a breakup is usually how little you care about yourself or beat up yourself after.

Focus on becoming better. Go to the gym more, set goals, learn skills. Just become a badass at other things.
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>>10295726
There'll be a girl out there who will treat you right.
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>date this girl for three years
>be in college
>she has decided that she is tired of just one dick (mine)
>she starts going to these parties without me, but with friends, one of her friends is my sister
>I ask if she can bring me with and introduce me around
>she tells me that the guys that own the place won't let any more guys come over
>beta male that I was at the time, I accept that excuse
>she would get drunk and sleep there
>of course she was banging at least one of the guys that I know of
>this goes on for about two months before I finally accidentally see a text on her phone about it
>her female friends, who I considered to also be my friends, were joking about it with her the entire two months, including my sister
>none of them ever told me
>three years just gone down the drain
>feel humiliated because she was fucking him more than me

beat the fuck out of my sister though, made it look like a mugging.
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>>10295990
Movies and culture says women are the romantic ones, but not that I've ever found. Guys will be hurt by a breakup for years, but every woman I've ever known gets over a breakup in a month, tops.
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>>10296294
Your sister deserved it. To bad you didnt beat your ex and her friend
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>>10295710
This pls
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>>10296006
Trying not to be super sexist here, but women, in general, are just hyper emotional.

If they aren't getting enough attention they feel neglected or ugly or whatever, but if they start getting attention from other men they feel beautiful and worthwhile.

Almost every woman I've ever talked to (even the happily married ones) say love changes. You will be super in love in the beginning and then it kind of fades. Bullshit. I fell more in love as time went on, but women feel the rush and excitement of a relationship more than we do. All the romantic stuff of being sweet and sitting together to watch movies and talking about our days isn't what most of them want. Every single one wants the excitement of the man trying to win her and discovering each others interests and all that.

A man wants a home to come to and a woman is a part of that. A woman wants a man that seems better than all the rest. That's what our genders are at their core (and sometimes for men it is also fucking everything in sight).

I mean, at least 50% of people are retarded (just look at whatever political opinion you have - about 50% of people hate you for it). With women, more than that amount would be terrible in a relationship. Most of the time you go into a relationship with one, you're going to come out a loser. That's just the odds.
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>>10296258
Damn bro. Sounds like you have some deep seated issues.
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>have date
>it's going well
>She's super into me
>at the end of the night I'm dropping her off and she says she would invite me in but she doesn't want her roommates to see her with me because they aren't very progressive
>ask what that means
>"well they're old fashioned and don't really believe in open relationships"
>wut
>"yeah I'm in a long distance open relationship with my boyfriend back home and they know him but don't know it's an open relationship so I don't want them to freak out and tell him"
>oh....
>"actually he doesn't even really know we're in an open relationship yet"
>"but I mean we never specifically said our relationship is exclusive so it's not like I'm breaking a promise or anything, it's open in my eyes"
>drop her off and never text her again

Years later

>I had a good friends GF crying in my car one evening
>she was convinced he had cheated on her but it was later proven bullshit that another cunt made up because she was jealous
>she says she can't believe this would happen
>looong pause
>we lock eyes and she says "I just need to fuck one of his friends"
>then she just stared at me.
>I told her to get out of the car

>years later, still only fucked once in my life

How the fuck do women even exist?
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>>10296358

>Trying not to be super sexist here

Nature is sexist. Stop pussy-footing about calling spades spades.
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>>10296294
Claims to be beta then admits that he beats up his sister and makes it look like someone else because he can't handle his own gf.

Typical beta behaviour.
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>>10296440
You are a real nigga, I would buy you a beer if I ever met you in person.

On an unrelated note, anyone think that raising a puppy is a good way to get your mind off women troubles?
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>>10296440
seriously wtf is wrong with women
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My gf of almost 3 years dumped me last month. Told me that she's "changed" since we first starting dating. I know the only reason why she said that and broke up with me is so she can go get drunk and high with her new "friends" she just made. I loved her more than anything and treated her so well. I hope that once her friends leave her she realizes she fucked up.
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>>10296517
She will. Then prepare to hear from her again. The second you hear from her, you can safely assume she's been ghosted.
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GF just broke up with me, but she still calls me for help with her homework that she'll probably fail otherwise. Do I just leave her to die or keep letting her use me?
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>>10296440

You have a strong resolve, man. Too many bitches and whores out there. You made the right choices in those situations.
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Cuck.
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>>10296517
And hopefully you will keep her away and not be a damn cuck.
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>>10295661
You all need to realize the next girl is always better. Either cut contact or turn it into a fwb situation.
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>>10296532
She doesn't care about you. Cut contact.
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>>10296203

Yep.
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>>10296532
Tell her to fuck off and do her own work
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>>10296475
lost
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>>10296660
Always #1
Never #2
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>>10296440
you are really honorable and a real bro
protip: if you want to fuck just fuck a hooker my man
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>>10296440
"Not the hero we deserved, but certainly the hero we needed."
>Gorden Freeman, Smallville
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>>10295661
Don't feel bad...Someone else is fucking her for you....She's probably giving him some good pussy.
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>>10295661
Believe me you will feel even worse after fapping. Store up all that manly testosterone and do some lifting. Fap like a week from now.
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>>10295700
What's with them saying they love you but saying they're not in love and believing they can truly be friends after breaking your heart? Sorry something similar happened to me.
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>>10296909
I'm sorry, but SAUCE plz
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>>10296946
I hope you like traps.
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>>10296042
This. This everyone, this is so fucking true.

Me and my ex were doing okayish, then her best friend gets into a mega drama with her bf. They meet up to talk about things, guess what, my ex comes home that evening and suddenly there's all kinds of shit wrong between us.

It didn't last long afterward, and her best friend is still together with the bf in a relationship that's arguably a lot worse than mine ever was.

Not bitter though, I didn't love her anymore, we weren't going to last anyhow.
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>>10296140
seconding this.
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>>10295990
the red pill is the closest to a manual
check it out but dont listen to the psuedo science shit
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>>10295661
how i usually think is that if it doesnt work out than youll find someone better in the futeure but if you need help dont be afraid to talk to someone
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>>10295700
Can always always be worse anon
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>>10295767
I don't think he is upset that he can't ever get fucked as good
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>>10296440
Bitches, man.

But you did the right thing, anon. Cheers. May you get some good passionate and reciprocal sex in the near future.
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What if you as a guy did the breaking off, say around the start of December? asking for a friend...
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>>10296045
And she never showed signs of being a crazy manipulative bitch before?
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>>10296294
>beat the fuck out of my sister though, made it look like a mugging.
So you took it out on your own flesh and blood rather than the bitch who cucked you?
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>>10297018
can vouch. Also look up sandman on YT and listen to the Black Phillip Show (or just anything Patrice O'Neal said about women).

Just don't tell any normies you've been redpilled, lest ye get excommunicated for misogyny.
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>>10295700
How in the fuck did she MAKE you move out?
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>>10295661
I couldn't get hard after my gf left me a few years ago, it was honestly the only time I seriously lost weight. use the sadness my child, exercise or if that isn't an issue, find another hobby.
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>>10296909
sauce??
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>>10296444
What I mean is I'm not a misogynist. I don't think women are garbage. I do think they are nuts.
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>>10296517
Get your knob polished for your efforts or cut ties.
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>>10296203

Eve told Adam to eat from the apple(what a bitch). Eve is a piece of bone from Adam.

TL;DR : women are arrogant and should bow to his man
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>>10296475
Not only women problems but it helps you later on in life, like realizing stuff about yourself and helps you with if you want to have kids later on. At least for me it did.
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>>10296358
men>women it's simple
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Source??
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>>10297338

dumbass "redpiller"
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>>10297242

>they are nuts

They are, but it (usually) gets better once they're into their 30s.
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>>10296222
Source
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>>10297123
like he said he is a beta and his ex always had the upper hand against him and he did what she wanted. His sister was probably weak and he felt strong enough to attack. Like in abusive families were the father abuses the mother who lets it out on the kids and the kids on the weakest kid and the weakest kid is fucked and has to look for even weaker kids in the neighbourhood to let go of the anger
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>>10296997
sauce?
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>>10296440
I know the first story. Is this just pasta?
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>>10295661
DO NOT FAP WHILE THINKING ABOUT HER OR BEING SPECIFICALLY SAD/RUMINATING ABOUT IT.

Trust me I went through two years of hell.

Learn minfulness meditation, save yourself!!
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sauce on OP plz
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>>10296286
Very true!!
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this is the best threat i have ever seen
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>>10296294
VERY SIMILAR SITUATION BROTHER!! If the thread survives ill post my story. Can you get screenshots of that convo?
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>>10295661
hang in there, brother, you'll come around
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>>10296953
Sure, I'm on 4chan. Who though?
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>>10296532
LEAVE HER TO DIE
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>>10296045
>>10297120
this. don't tell me you never once saw her psycho ways coming
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>>10295661
my gf of 3 years broke up w me just last week, I know tfw anon. Keep up hope, it'll be okay
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>>10296532
Was it mutual? Are you still good friends? If so bail her out once in a while but not all the time. If it was a bad break up and she hurt your feel then tell her to do her own work. That's my opinion.
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Anon post your cock and I'll pump your ego up a bit
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>>10297123
It sounds like the betrayal from his own flesh and blood cut the deepest as it was the most unexpected and most brutal to recover from. His ex, he may never see again. His sister will be at family reunions, funerals, weddings, etc. That bond in mutual struggle and expereience shared he believed existed is forever fractured and beyond violated with no recovery.

I can understand how you feel but, some people will go beyond the ends of the earth to seek out and punish those whom have commited betrayal to thy own flesh and blood.
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>>10296058
the fuck...
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>>10297120
She was a woman, what do you think?
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>>10295661
thanks for the thread anon i needed it
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>>10297905
Sauce?
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>>10297614
lol it's his sister looking for evidence so her bro is arrested
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>>10295700
Late to the party, but as others have said, cut her out of your life. When she eventually gets engaged to Chad, put ricin in his coffee. If you're lucky, by the time she finds another Chad, she'll no longer be fertile.
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>>10296249
Anon I feel the same thing happened to me
I spent more time wanting to dump her than wanting her to be mine
Only stuck around because I knew that I would emotionally just add another scar on her if I just cut her out and I told her that I would always be her friend buy I'm starting to think I should just easily create more and more distance between us
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>>10297905
Soya Suicide
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>>10295661
Jesus Christ, tell me there is sauce
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>>10296909
Yo who is thissss?!
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>>10295661

read. learn. don't go immediately wanking yourself into a sexually frustrated brainhole because EVERYONE fantasizes about times they fucked their ex right after they break up, don't anyone even try to deny it. It was impossible for me to fap for a little while because doing so was like rubbing a fresh scab too soon and reopening a wound.so instead, i picked up either a book or my guitar, keyboard, carving tools, etc. bettering yourself in any way is good but broadening your knowledge is its own reward on top of being very meditative
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>>10296258

3/10 tried a little too hard
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I split up with my gf three days ago. Standard shit that girls always say. They think they have it all worked out but every single one has come crawling back at some point. I wonder if this one's going to be any different?
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>enter the thread
>RED PILL spilling all over the place
>abandon thread

You guys are sad and pathetic. I mean, even more sad and pathetic than the guys who come here to fap (like me)
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>>10296970
if a relationship can't survive an evening of the gf with her friend it was doomed anyway
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Y'all going on about how bitches ain't shit and how they're crazy and act all emotional and say dumb shit and do awful things but won't mention that men are fucking terrible too. We all know we have stories about men doing stupid crazy shit too so stop acting like this is a woman hating thread when it's supposed more helping op through a break up/fap material. Fuck, most of you bastards didn't post shit with it. At least post a fuckin meme or something. But that matters less. You'll be all good op, sometimes girls just leave, it happens and the fact that you're trying to get over it is good, even if it's with porn, it's a start and that what you need right now, just to start. Step by step you'll start to feel better and eventually even forget her. You'll be good.
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>>10295661
Why are you suicidal? I don't want to play alpha on 4chan but you really need to change. Losing a great woman (let's just assume she wasn't complete shit) feels shitty and you should allow yourself to feel sad but you should also ask yourself why a breakup makes you feel all desperate. Find out why you are needy, change yourself and discover your self esteem. If you are desperate women will make use that. You don't want to be played and used by women, do you?
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Glad I stumbled across this thread. My gf broke up with me a month ago so here is a little story

>start dating this girl for 6 months (my actual first gf)
>fast forward last month valentines and my birthday
>she texts me middle of the night that she has a crush on someone else
>im like wtf, I knew she was acting weirdly past couple of weeks but this was the worst news for me
>I ask who and she tells me that one older guy thats a regular at her job. she works at a bar
>still shocked I ask if she cheated on me, nope but she says it feels cheating and cant be with me anymore because of mixed feelings
>we broke up on the phone, me trying to get contact of her and meet her
>we meet 2 days later she tells me the same shit "no feelings, I still love you. give me time"
>I give her space and week later I see a fb picture of her and this guy who she had a crush on
>I storm to the bar and talk to her like "wtf I thought you needed some space and not to move on?"
>she tells me that the feelings got stronger and she actually cheated on me just before we broke up
>I'm even more shocked now, she removes me from fb contacts
>I'm becoming paranoid of her every move. I ask our mutual friends what she writes on fb trying to get every little detail
>cant text her because I would seem desperate
>skip 2 weeks I meet her "randomly" near her home. actually I might have become quite a stalker
>I ask her if we can become friends again (on fb) and I told her that I'm not mad anymore
>she just mumbles "yeah" and goes away
>send fb friend request
>accepted
>what now... skip few days I ask her if she wants to get couple of beers
>"maybe, I'm quite exhausted after last night"
>still stalking her online status on fb, keeps being online and talking in our shared whatsapp groups with others
>ask again, I'm outside just holla if you want
>"I'm falling a sleep here, not today"
>I give up and I go home
>she keeps appearing online and talking to others for the next 4 hours
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>>10296909
isnt she from married with children?
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>>10298366
wow this became longer than I thought

In conclusion I became addicted of her and I still cant comprehend the fact that she cheated on me, but I still want to be her friend, talk to her, and meet her every day like we used to

What am I seeing wrong here?
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>>10296222
for the mother of god, I need sauce to this anons, please help.
I feel sorry for you OP, but remember if she cheated, then she's nothing to care about anymore.
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>>10298366
>no feelings, I still love you. give me time
when women say stuff like this, get the fuck away. Always. Nice to hear that even women from other cultures say that shit
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>>10296203

Damn, I came here to fap not to get hit with a depressing as fuck truth-bomb.
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>>10296045
Holy shit that sucks, hope you'll find someone better!
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>>10298373
My dude, realtalk. I was in that same situation only I actually lived with my girl. I moved out and for months I was obsessed with trying to be with her again, and the only way I got over it even a little was by cutting her out of my life completely. No facebook, no details, no nothing. You're feeding your own misery and misery is one of those emotions that takes over your life, save yourself and kill your thoughts of her.
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>>10298373
pretty much all of it man, you shoulda got mad and left it at that. then never talk to her again because she is a stupid bitch, or your a stupid itch. even in both situations she betrayed your trust and disrespected you. and your just laying back and taking it. she doesnt want a friend.
>im really tired after last night? really? sounds like a woman to me. being vague. > what where you doing? i would assume shes trying to get a rise out of you. shes tired of sex is my first thought but she could lie to see if your gonna blow up preemptively. to me it seems like manipulation
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>>10298373
What you do wrong is you believed her when she said she needed time. I have seen many men go crazy because they waited for girls to sort out their feelings but all girls who say shit like that or already emotionally far away from their bf and have NO INTENTION to get back.
They might feel shitty and don't want to openly admit it to themselves and especially not the former bf so they just ignore the bf as good as they can and hope bf understands the sign and doesn't become a stalker.
You should stop caring for her. Not to seem cool but to get away from her and be able to be happy again. This woman proved to be shit stop talking yourself into believing she was the only one for you
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>>10296203
Great faux The Onion piece, bro
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I had a girlfriend who broke up with me and moved back in with her dad who sexually abused her as a teen. They ended up fighting a week later and she got a sock to the face.

I couldn't even enjoy the instant karma I was so effed up and heartbroken at the time. Glad I can lol about it now.
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>>10296203
sounds pretty true to me
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>>10296258
Sauce?? Or name?
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>>10297178
If a woman calls the cops, the cops will drag the man out. That's how it works in adult American life anon. Weakness is power.
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>>10298366
texts you about having a crush on an older guy..break up over the phone..
bitch cheated on you before breaking up..

why the fuck are you acting like a pussy over this? She already proved she is not worth your time. It's gonna hurt because she was your first gf but seriously... have some self respect and stop stalking this bitch. She has nothing to offer you. Fuck one of her friends if you can. Move the fuck on. She's a liar and a cheater. Why would you even want her back? .. And stop checking her status and all that nonsense. you can stop giving a fuck about anything she does and instead care about someone else soon who won't fuck you over.
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>>10296266
I thought it was pretty good.
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>>10298145
good info
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>>10297620
Source me daddy

>>10295661
>>10295700
Keep your heads up bros :( broke up with my gf of like 8 years 6 months ago. I still am not really over her and it kills me. Can't even get a new girl to look at me feel like the only girl who do are ham beasts. Fucking 30 min from killing myself everyday.
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>>10298151
I thought it was pretty good.
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>>10297620
>>10298493
>Source me daddy
Danika Red aka redliight17
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>>10298493
>Fucking 30 min from killing myself everyday.
Don't do it man.
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>>10295661
We've all been there. Don't romanticize it. Hit the gym. Enjoy your freedom.
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>>10298411
>>10298430
>>10298444
>>10298446
>>10298482
Thanks guys. I have actually heard all of this from my closes friends who comforted me after the breakup but I felt like I needed another slap on the face and facts from internet strangers.

Truth is that she may have made me a bit of a sex addict (hence Im asking advice here) and Im secretly hoping that when she becomes bored of being a single and cant find a hook up, I'm there to ease her mind and body... I'm so fucking lost, I know
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>>10295751
what a epic load.
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>>10296222
>op's ex once he moves out
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>>10296909
Holy shit.
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>>10295726
Tell her this truth, you want to be with her totally, not as friends. If she doesn't want that then you need to move on and that means cutting contact for the same length of time as you were together. This is a rule Ive used and told to other guys.
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It's threads like these that make me feel good about the community on 4chan. Look at all the bitter sweet and caring replies from everyone. Awwww, you guys.
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>>10295661
>Go into a thread asking for 10/10 porn
>aw yis time for a fap
>bunch of people talking about cheating and how depressed they were
>161 replies and 16 images omitted
I need to start reading the thread summary before getting excited.
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>>10298592
Tell me the name of this scene/pornstar or I'll fucking kill myself and you'll have my death on your hands
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>>10295718
This and everything similar that has been posted. I'm sure you're aware you should not stay in contact already. Move on, take every opportunity you can to go out and socialize, take up opportunities, meet people, connect with people. Pretty soon you'll be onto someone else who might be less selfish. And again, you don't HAVE to move on to someone else. Stay single, enjoy being single and not having to worry constantly about another persons feelings or whereabouts. Sleep alone peacefully or with some random chick knowing you don't have any expectations to call anyone back or the fear of a crazy girlfriend killing all your plans and sapping your energy. Just be glad you got out of this trap with a selfish hoe now rather then live and invest more of your life only to be dissapoitnwd years later.

And I'm not biased.... I'm actually in a relationship, happily. But I've seen a lot and more so thought very deeply enough to know where/what that girl is trying to get and to know the future still has so much more to offer.
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I dated a girl for a bit over a year. First girlfriend. It was really fantastic. Then things got awkward between us, we both made mistakes, she made other friends. She stopped talking to me, started hiding things and avoiding me. I tried talking to her about it but she just got mad and broke up with me. We had been very intimate before, but never got below the belt.


A few weeks later she starts getting close to one of her friends that she started hanging out with instead of me, and then starts going out with him. I get indication that they hit it off really well, and have reason to think that after a year of trying to figure out intimacy between us, they banged pretty quickly.


We both said we wanted to be friends afterwards, and for a few months we talked semi-regularly, even had lunch a few times. But it hurt knowing how good of a time she was having with the new guy. She was nice, but she should have known that dumping me for someone else would make being friends very difficult. I think she was just being nice so that she didn't feel so bad about dumping me.


I started getting stalkerish and clingy. She got mad. We tried talking and figuring out a way to remain friends, but that failed too. I got rid of all of my ways to contact her a week or so ago.


I used to be a really fun person. Sure I was kind of depressed, but I found ways to enjoy the world. Now I know what a shit I am, that I'm going to die alone, and maybe pretty soon.

Thanks for the porn /gif/.
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>>10298800
You're welcome.
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>>10298703
Veronica Avluv, dunno the scene
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>>10295716
Lulz....and I just came to fap
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>>10298849
looks like hillary "clit"ion
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>>10296203
>This is why women willingly give themselves to invading armies once it becomes clear that their native men have been defeated.
>I have never studied biology or history
Women who express loyalty are kept around more, the trait is passed on. Women who whore around are beaten and their children ostracized, their genes do not pass on. Look at the account of the Furor Teutonicus. Women are loyal to a fault when their men are strong. The problem isn't they lack loyalty, the problem is they lack someone worthy of it,
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>>10297497
even if it is pasta, i find that most of my friends come across that one trash girl that fit that situation, so i guess its common (didnt happ to me though)
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>>10298886
Back in the day...amirite
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>>10298366
I actually know how you feel, my ex did that to me, I stalked her Facebook and everything else I knew she had, I found other through one of my distance friends that my best friend at the time was trying to hit on her and fuck so I tried getting him away from her so I asked if she wanted to hang out and she said she'd think about it and later on I found out that she invited him over to her house and they agreed to never tell anyone but that shit got back to me because I knew people he was friends with and from that I found out she only dated me cause she felt sorry for me and I completely lost it man cause I actually loved her and put my heart into everything about her, but apparently she didn't want that getting back to me cause apparently after I confronted her about it she stopped talking to him, but to this day I haven't talked to her and hope to god I never do
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At least you didn't marry her, OP. Not saying it's gonna hurt any less, but I just divorced my cheating whore of an ex wife, spent thousands to make sure I wouldn't have to pay her a cent in alimony, and am left picking up the pieces. Life sucks....relationships hurt.....and all women are whores....but at least you didn't marry her.
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>>10297123

>your own flesh and blood betrayed you and laughed at it
>not being more pissed at that than some whore
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>>10297486
http://spankbang.com/jbyq/video/creampie+in+airport+parking+lot

google is a wonderful thing, littlle anon
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>>10295661
I love you anon.
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>>10295661
There's a girl that saw you a while back when you were with your then gf. She really liked you but saw you were in a relationship. You what girl it was, you noticed her because deep down we can feel who is attracted to us. That could be the relationship that ignites your will to live. Talk to her. One chapter ended time to write the next anon.
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>>10295661
If you come to 4chan looking for, and taking advice, just do the world a favor and find a hole to die in.
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>>10299682
sauce
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>>10298408
https://www.eporner.com/hd-porn/Xvb4u6tyWct/Cfnm-Amateurs-Fingered/
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>>10296203

Congratulations. You typed up a post that I actually saved to my hard drive.

A tip o' the hat to you, sir.
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>>10295661
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>>10295726

That's complete B.S. and she knows it. She's trying to convince you that the break-up was your fault, when she knows full well it was 100% hers. It's merely to justify her guilty conscience.

I'm sure you haven't fallen for it. You're much better than that, anon.
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>>10296532

Help her with her homework when she asks, but only on the condition that she make passionate love to you when the homework is done.

Gotta make it worth your time and all.
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Threads like this serve as great reminders as to why I remain single.
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>>10296203
>posted on a porn thread

Goddamn I love you guys
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>>10298517
You need a distraction. Go chase some other broad, or go buy a motorcycle. Fucking do anything that isn't her.
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>be me at 15 years old
>have huge crush on this girl since freshman year
>stuck in "friendzone" even though we've discussed the fact that we like each other
>finally get the nerve to ask her to a dance
>she says no
>WTFface.png
another year goes by
>haven't talked in about a year
>see her while walking out of a diner with my family and just kinda hit it off
>start dating
>one month goes by and valentine's day comes
>finally lose my virginity
>fuckyeah.gif
>about a week later she breaks up with me "because im an atheist" (she was the daughter of a preacher)
Over the course of the relationship i found out that she has fucked countless guys and started doing heroin and i still cared so much about her when nobody else really did. Bitch still leaves me for no real reason.
Flash to one year later
>at a party with friends getting fucked up
>she's there
>fucking why? i thought i was over her?
>both drunk i end up sleeping next to her and wake up making out with her.
>left feeling ashamed and sad
Why do girls make it impossible for a guy to get over any sort of feelings. Please just let me stay angry at you forever and harbor that hatred so I don't have to feel the pain of being rejected by you again.
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>>10296440
cheers
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>>10300059
Faggot. Kill your feelings like a man.
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>>10300169
well now i just drown it in alcohol like a fucking adult
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>>10295700
women these days, amirite?
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>>10298951
Hi hello. This. I see where a lot of you lonely/heartbroken/angry men have a point. I do. I understand it but you guys need to understand a few things.

Think with cunt for just a moment. Imagine you're a women. You've been told since you can remember that you'll marry a prince charming and have children and live happily ever after. Fast forward a few decades and you haven't found your Prince. Sure you've found men who act like who you want but once your relationship goes on you realize that not only do you not see a life with your partner, you grow to see him as a weak man. More commonly, a man that just doesn't provide the correct ideal fantasy that's been painted for you since childhood.

Add the bullshit your been fed your whole life to the biological need to find an ideal mate to make children with. What does a man have to lose when mating with the wrong woman vs what a woman has to lose.

The alpha male is surrounded by females because of the power and security he seethes. Women need and want that, if you can't provide it, find a shit tier women or change to alpha. Some are born with it some learn it. You can always change and there will always be more women out there. The loyalty is based off their mates in most cases. If they want you bad enough the loyalty will be there. C
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>>10300220
The issue I see the most is a female just doesn't want to let go. Fall backs are always an option and a good amount of women require them before they move on to a new mate. Majority of women are incentive to men because they"ve been told they have the power due to an extra hole. Watch the power change when she meets an alpha. That's when she wants to be told when to bend over and what to do. Women crave strength and a protector for herself and her offspring. Thousands of species have the same evolutionary mind. Humans are no different when you get down to the basis of life, which is to reproduce. BTW incase you weren't aware that's why we're here. Stop crying, find a new bitch to stuff your cock into and move on.
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First girlfriend breaks up with me and tells me that she just doesnt feel the same for me anymore. Tells me I need to work to get those feelings back even though I had done nothing. Turns out shes been talking to another dude. I act like a bitch for like 2 months after. Start talking to her older, married sister. Trying to get as much info about my ex as I can. Tell her older sister if she can relay messages since me and my ex weren't directly texting anymore. Start to joke with older sister. Jokes become hints. Hints become actual planning to meet up. End up going to her house while her husband was away and had a 6 hour off and on bang session. Shit was amazing. Do this for about 3 months and then I call it off. Was the most amazing sex of my life.
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>>10298828
whos the chick?
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>>10296203
Brilliant post - saved.

The ones who are too far gone will say you are wrong but that is because they fear the truth, it would hurt them too much.
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>>10298703

http://www.xvideos.com/video26736197/glamorous_milf_veronica_avluv_squirts_after_a_hardcore_pussy_and_anal_fucked
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>>10295700
Boy, she found someone else. She just wants you to be in the back burner.
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>>10295661
I've had your girlfriend. She iisn't that good. Your mom is better.
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>>10295661
Hey OP, stop being a faggot.

I used to be 256 pounds (only a 5'8" manlet) with crooked teeth and a distinct problem with mumbling.

Got fed up with my life, decided to fix my shit, found a program for adults in need of dental care, used my neighborhood as my own personal gym/track, down to 12% bodyfat now at 157 pounds, teeth are straight was fuck and white as Finland. Bitches trying to get the D all the time now.

Lesson: Don't be a faggot, change your shitty circumstances. Get mad, get fucking fuming angry. If you're not mad as hell at the cards you've been dealt, than you don't really care.
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>>10295661
>broke up
>feel suicidal

We've all been there at least once.
All who survived could tell you this simple truth :
the bitch ain't worth it
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>>10298366
>trying to be her friend
cuck
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>>10295738
Name of this chick?
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>>10301261
Alli Rae
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>>10301266
ty
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>>10296222
>the blue band on her right arm means shes a paid pro and this is fake
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And here we see how the "Red Pill" works. Find a man who is either permanently, or temporarily emotionally unstable or weak, pretend to be a friend, fill their head with as much of your bitterness and anger as you can, and as quickly as possible, so they stay open and vulnrable to it. They'll forge a fake emotional connection to get the sadboi to come back, eat more pop pysch written by the socially retarded, until that's all they think and say. And there you go. You've made another human being into a failure like you, and that's almost like being a little bit less of a failure, isn't it?
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>>10298951
>are beaten and their children ostracized
only if the occupyers lose later. What you said is true for women in France after World War 2 who got their heads shaved and beaten up but not for women in Germany after World War 2. Women who got themselves a GI stayed with him. In Bavaria we have many people who are partly American and there are women who went to America. And when the original husband came out of Soviet imprisonment 10 years after the war he was like "oh shit no place to go back to anymore"
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>>10295661

Don't. Masturbate. After. A. Breakup.

Masturbation should be a total relaxation place where you get pleasure at its maximum point. When you breakup with someone your emotions, even if the person didn't mean a thing to you, will have some effects in masturbating.

Try to do some stuff, hobbies, get with your friends, family, work, studies, you need to get distracted. If you don't do that, the depression can kick in and your life can end up in you killing yourself, and that's not worth it.

Cheer up anon, remember to keep in mind you are awesome
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>>10295700
She's playing it safe. She knows she could very well still have trouble finding another boyfriend. I say do what anon >>10295717 says. Tell her you still love her then immediately cut off contact. It tears girls up to know that you can live without them.
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Faggots wanting to kill themselfes over a girl, jesus christ get a fucking grip and move on with your life.
You think a girlfreind is the solution to all your problems? If you want to kill yourself over that petty bullshit then just do it, trust there are much harder things in life than being single
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>>10300059
>Why do girls make it impossible for a guy to get over any sort of feelings
it's not them. It is because you are weak. Change yourself and get more confidence. Not because bitches like confidence but because confidence helps you not to feel lonely and insecure. You stop doing things like that. Be honest. Did you love her because she was so great are just bettter than most others and you had kind of a chance with her and with her you could
>finally lose my virginity
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>>10301420
No, it would be a function, some sluts celebrating at a strip club
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>>10300220
don't take all this alpha bulshit serious. It is insecure men who try to find "rules" like a manual for interactions with women filled with social darwinism to make it sound based on science. PUAs have some point about the female behaviour they describe but they blank out that good hearted women exist, everything is just basic biology and evil 3rd wave feminism for them. Good hearted women are rare like not all men are good hearted. I met some already, they were better people than my male "bros". Too bad I couldn't get them because taken.
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>>10295726
I don't understand this. How do you niggers react to this? Do you just sit there and take it, or what?

If I cooked, and she didn't thank for me it, then I'd never do it again.

I'd flip my shit. But I don't think I'd ever be stupid enough to be in that position tho. I'm a pretty good judge of character. She blatantly has no appreciation for your efforts.
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>>10300256
>The issue I see the most is a female just doesn't want to let go
My sister said women who break up with a man but still keep in touch every now and then so that the man doesn't get over her and still thinks about her is that they boost their egos with it and can't stand the fact that they aren't the center in his life anymore. Plus keeping him warm if they don't despise him and he really would be an option plays a role. Still not all women are like that to the same extent. The more validation they need from others, the more they play mind games with their ex boyfriends. And I have seen much worse than described here
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My heart goes out to all the anons. Especially since I can easily see myself down those situations with my girl. Super scary stuff fellas.
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>>10301210
>Don't be a faggot, change your shitty circumstances
truth
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>>10299867
Song salsa my dude please thanks
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>>10301664
>If I cooked, and she didn't thank for me it, then I'd never do it again
He didn't say she wasn't thankful. Most women say thanks. But after a while suddenly they say "You evil fuck manipulated me with food". How do men react to this? Speechless
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>>10301592
he said the opposite dude, and I agree with him.

They get really fucking desperate and you can take gratification in that, there are plenty more fish in the sea bro.
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>>10295700
GTFO. Cut off contact. My Fiancee did that to me after 8 years of relationship. She just wants you to be there for her when she needs you, and will proceed to shit on you when she doesn't. Move on ASAP. At first, it feels like the world is ending, but with time, everything will be okay. I feel a million bucks right now (after~8 months) and know it was the best thing that happened to me, in the end.
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>>10295661
Here you go, OP. You'll thank me later.

https://heartiste.wordpress.com/
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My fellow men, It's best to not TRY to understand girls at all. Just try to look at yourself only. Just keep paying attention to yourself and do all the things YOU want to do, without paying any attention to what other people may think.

Trust me, you'll be a lot happier and more free if you went along with the flow and just be opened up towards all the shit life throws at you, than to try and analyse and understand all the shit.

All bad shit happening, is shit, pay no attention towards it. Do not try to understand it, if a girl isn't sure what to do, fuck her! You know what's up and that's the only thing that counts.

Women tend to be control freaks, it's up to them to analyse everything, it's up to men to do whatever the fuck they want.
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So there was this girl I was seeing for a month or two, at the end of it she said we we're going too fast for her liking. I said I was fine with it and let her go, we stopped talking after that since we weren't together anymore. I said I didn't want to be just friends and she was fine with that too.

After a couple of weeks she starts sending me snapchats again and texts and stuff. I ignored her since I was done with her etc etc. But she kept going, after 3 weeks I told her I didn't want to be friend with her again. She got mad and that I should respect that she did want to be friend with me. Ignored her since then.

Did I do the right thing?
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>>10301780
Yes and no.

If she wants to be friends, than sure. Send her some friendly snaps back, but DO not make the first move again. As it is a win/win situation for her to either:

Wait until you straightened out your life more and better for her to join you
or keep you around until she finds something better again

Just be friendly with her, if you meet her drunk at a party and she starts being touchy, just try to score for the night, but keep your feelings towards yourself.
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>>10295661
Highly recommend you bunker down for two weeks. Don't allow any contact with her. Block her ass on facebook and delete her number. Gonna sting like a mother fucker but you gotta do it.

Two weeks to a month and binge watch/listen/read everything THIS man has to say about women. >avoiceformen.com/<

Give yourself the redpilling you fucking deserve.
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>>10296909
trap
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>>10301788
Just to clarify, I didn't make the first move after we 'broke up', and don't want to be friends with her. I like her too much for that
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>>10301891
Sad thing is bro, she knows it.

Best to keep sending her just friendly snaps, but focus on other girls man. Cast her aside as a future lover.
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>>10301880

okay but who is it pls help me
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>>10298503
Stay strong, man. I'm going through the same stuff and on top of it, I'm in a wheelchair.
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>>10301750
Same here, but after 3 months.

Time passes OP, and you'll be fine.
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>>10296258
Holy shit that's my dad.
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>all this advice is geared towards girlfriends
What if it's a boyfriend that breaks up with you, but still wants to stay friends?
I've been with him for almost ten years now, and he went from being obsessed with me to slowly losing interest over time.
He's saying he wants to be totally alone, that it's not just me. He's asocial and just stays home all day. He doesn't even use the computer anymore. Right now we just talk for a few minutes every day and that's it.
I'm almost certain there isn't someone else and that he's not even looking around. He just says he lost his love for me.
Should I just cut him out?
>getting relationship advice from /gif/
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>>10301995
Best of luck man
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This is not a beta thread anymore, but a "gamma fag".
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Find me a single example of where the dumpie didn't come away better off.
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>>10302120

Cut him out definitely.
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>>10302120
Confirmed for faggot
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>>10302120
Get him to a psych and rx some pills.
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>>10302120
lose a couple lbs, fix ur hair, get him testosterone and B12 injections. if this does not help, move on.
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>>10296140
The road to cuckoldry...
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its life. you find people, loose some. Sure it sucks, but it aint the end of the road. Just keep going on, youll for sure find someone else to repeat the whole fucking process.
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>>10302229
But why?
I still very much love him, even if he doesn't feel the same right now.
I can't imagine that he's using me as a safety net, all things considered. I don't really offer any security outside of literally being there.
He's been with me for more than a third of my life. Should I really just walk away from that?
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>>10298290
True dat. We all shitty
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>>10301722
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CIqh9Hj1Z8o

aptly named "jump down"
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>>10295700
You were that kid in high school that gave people money all the time weren't you
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>>10298849
sauce?
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>>10295661
go cry in the shower to sad music and get over it
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>>10302124
thanks bro
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>>10295718
Damn i never knew the reasoning behind cutting all contact, but I learned my lesson that i always should. You just cleared it all up
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>>10298951

>loyalty is genetic
>women are punished for being irresponsible and cheating whores

Bruh....

>The problem isn't they lack loyalty, the problem is they lack someone worthy of it,

Your fundamental premise is that women are rational beings who will be loyal to a man...if only he deserves it. What determines if he's worth it? In your mind, if they're loyal it must be deserved, if not then it's the man's fault. You remove agency from the woman and place the full burden on the man.

Typical trad-con shit.
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>>10300351
You're a real piece of shit.
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>Years ago, be friends with this cute, nerdy couple.
>When they move out into their own place, they invite me to room with them.
>OK
>Things are great for a while. All smiles and happiness.
>Then drama
>Dude has been cheating on his girl for the past couple of months with someone at work.
>Things get overly emotional and he eventually dumps his girlfriend for this new chick.
>All three of us still live in this place together so things get weird
>A couple of months go by
>Chilling with girl roommate, just shooting the shit.
>She comments about how the worst part about being single is how fucking horny she is now.
>Offer to help her out with that. Hey, he dumped her so she's free game.
>End up fucking bareback all day and leave her wrecked, I feel her cunt clenching on my cock whenever she cums
>drain my balls in her pussy and down her throat all day
>While we're fucking in the shower, she comments how much better a fuck that I am than her ex.
>...We get into some rather filthy discussion on how me and her ex compare while fucking.
>She ends up clawing at the tiles of the shower before tapping out.
>I cum balls deep in her pussy again, I get out, having done my part.
>See that the light is on in the room right next to the bathroom: Male roommate's room.
>He's sitting on his bed, head down.
>He looks up at me.
>He heard EVERYTHING.
>Well... Can't take it back now.
>Find out later that he went out and got wasted drunk with is friends in an attempt to cope with that night.

meh
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>>10298290

We hear about men doing wrong all the time.

Any time someone wants to talk about women's innate evils, there's always someone to pop up...even in a fucking thread on an image board in a corner of the internet...to say "b-b-but men too!!! MEN TOOO!!!!"

Give it a fuckin break.
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>>10302479
bros before hoes you heartless cunt
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>>10301880
but who is she?
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>>10301456

Not an argument.

There are many men out there who buy into the Disneyfied bullshit about women. Sugar, spice, etc.

There is nothing wrong, and everything right, about acknowledging the truth that women are nothing special and are not morally superior to men or more virtuous, and admitting that, like many people, they are only as "good" as you make them be.
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>>10302520
just roommates. bros means friends not every goddamn male you know. people who think like that are borderline gay desu
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>>10302544
should've specified this. "Be friends" implies something deeper than roommates.
>>
>Ask girl I like out
>she says she's sorry but she'd only just been asked out a few days ago
>ah shit, bad luck for me, but whatever
>few months pass, we're still friends, she's still going out with that guy
>group is out one night
>we're all pretty fucking drunk
>she randomly says "OH I HAVE A UTI BTW"
>"hahaha okay whatever"
>"YEAH ITS BECAUSE I HAVE TOO MUCH SEX"
>"Yah huh. Don't really care, to be honest"
>"WHAT DON'T YOU LIKE PICTURING ME NAKED?"
>(like I said, REALLY drunk, but everyone's laughing, including me)
>"Only if you were in my bedroom when you were"
>"What about the hotel room my mum got me for tonight?"
>all her friends are silent now
>"That could work."
>we ditch the group and have sex in her hotel room, I take her anal virginity
>Wake up the next morning hungover
>Realise the boyfriend was in the group we ditched
>laugh my fucking ass off on the train ride home
>2 years later they're still together
>have had sex with her dozens of times, at least twice every time we meet, never use condom, never pull out, nut down her throat, in her pussy and in her ass
>she says she's never taken him without a condom, not even head
>this makes the sex even better

There is nothing better than fucking a taken woman. Nothing.
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>>10302075
Now son,

before you go all spergy we need to have a little chat about what '''''went down'''' that night. I mean, you know what your mom is like most days , and insufferable cunt that never lets me ever be a man. This is what im really like and if you cant support your dear ol dad then im not giving you any more money for those blasted video games you seem to play non-stop!! And no more ponies either!
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>>10302536
thats not the red pill though. thats just understanding that people are people.
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>>10296946
>>10297222
>>10298111
>>10301947
Agatha Lira
xhamster com / movies / 6484999 / agatha_lira_-_sucking_big_dick_part1 . html
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>>10302554
fair. everyone involved is a shitty person.
>>
>getting into a relationship with a woman

Honestly you're just asking for it. You should know by now that women are sluts and will drop you in a second for the thickest cock in sight. It's just how women are programmed and there's nothing you can do about it. Make the best of your situation by fucking married women, ruining their relationships and then dropping them.

I realized women are like this when I was 21 and the whore cheated on me with a buddy of mine after being in the relationship for 2 years. You fuck me over and I'm going to fuck everyone over that I possibly can. Now I just fuck married women and women in relationships. I'm currently seeing this slut who's married and has 3 kids, she's nothing special looking but the fact that I can ruin her marriage and relationship with her kids at anytime is a good feeling.
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>>10302588
lmao you sound miserable and borderline retarded. good luck with life.
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>>10302582
that's actually really hot. Slut A is watching so fucking intently and then when Slut B finally works up the nerve to eat that creampie, Slut A just beams that smile and asks how it tastes. She was into that.
>>
>>10302594

I'm the one laughing now and really that's all that matters.
>>
>>10300059
>Heroin

Cut your loses.
That bitch is fucked. She'll only ever hurt people from now on.
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>>10302605
kk hope you dont kill yourself
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>>10302556
call me from the old stamp, but you are no better than a whore.
Piece of shit
>>
>>10302588
>a person was cruel to me so now I have the right to be cruel to other people
how's being 12 treating you?
>>
>>10302582
shiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiit
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>>10302621

Are you upset, bud? Don't take it out on me.
>>
>>10295661
I saw this thread yesterday, It happened to me today... Again...
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>>10302630
oh the irony
>>
>>10302637

lmfao
>>
>>10296203
now that was a beautifully written, thought out perspective
10/10
>>
>>10295661
She left because you're too much of a pussy to do it
>>
How does it feel to know your girl is riding another mans cock while you're at work trying to support your family? How does it feel to know she doesn't give a fuck about your feelings and never did? How does it feel to know while you're whining like a fucking pussy on the internet she's getting her box destroyed by the same guy she was cheating on you with?

How does it feel? Because I tell ya hwat it feels good for her every night she's not with you.
>>
>>10297123
man you're pretty dim

having your sister know that your girlfriend is fucking other guys on the side and laughing about it and doesn't tell you is some of the darkest shit you can do to a brother
you have to be a real scumfuck human being to do that to anyone you are close to
>>
>>10295990
>have found that some females act in complete selfishness during break ups,
8 years relationship here, can confirm this is the case. Strung me along for a while, said she wanted to be my friend then gave me a fuck you. Turned in another person out of the fucking blue.
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>>10295726
Manipulative people always try to blame the other person and say "you don't take responsibility/you manipulate". It's messy.
>>
>>10302725
That's why you don't ever get too invested in a woman. Always keep them slightly at a distance and just use them for companionship and fucktoys.
>>
>>10295700
My ex said the same shit to me.
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>>10295767
Why niggas like you gotta be so damn mean
>>
>>10295990
>I wish there was some kind of manual for all men out there on female psychology
lel you're gonna need thousands pages for that one
>>
>>10302544

is there salsa on this?
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>>10302639
Lmao
>>
>>10302273
this is all on you my man and you can't approach relationships in the present with a tally on how long you've been together in the past
people break up after 30 years of marriage and kids all of the time because it's just not working anymore
you have to ask yourself if you're satisfied with this being a one-way loving relationship and also take into consideration if you love the other person enough to let them go if they aren't happy being with you
it's a hard decision to make so i wish you luck
>>
>>10296909
Maxmoefoe?
>>
>>10296203

wow that's revolting. i'm sorry for whatever happened to you that made you such a raging hater. such nostalgia for bullshit.... you yearn for the ideal woman that'll birth all your babies and take a punch without complaining, or ideally so obedient that you wouldn't need to resort to that, and i'm sure there's a girl out there that wants to just be your little sub, but its not all bad out there. stronger women means stronger relationships and real, actual love, instead of the fuckdoll housemaid virgin mom that you wanna marry.
>>
>>10297370
that was the opposite for my family growing up, mom didn't do drugs, sell drugs, be a hooker/striper, or cheat until she was 30
>>
I don't really expect you to read this; I'm mostly writing to get it out of my head.

There was this chick who I thought was cute and became friends with ,but didn't date because i was in a relationship at the time. Long story short, that relationship ended and I fell into a depression, and she helped me out of it. We started dating, but after about 3 months I kind of realized she wasn't "the one", and I fell out of love with her. But I could never end it because the timing was always off. First it was her birthday, then her grandmother died, then she got diagnosed with depression and was nearly fired, then we planned to take a vacation together. At the vacation, I basically broke it to her that I was just staying to help her feel better, and that I had fallen out of love with her a long time ago. She didn't take it well, but she asked I stick around to help her get her life back in order. I obliged. Two days later, she messages me saying I can go now, because she's fallen for some other guy.

On one hand, I'm happy and glad to finally be free. On the other, I feel melancholic because she really was a good, sweet girl that did nothing wrong, and I just pushed her away into the arms of another. It feels bad, man.

Oh well. She had small tits anyway, and her blow jobs were terrible.
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>>10305338
Alpha emerging...
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