How you holding up on this saturday evening /fit/

>>42807619
I'm not.

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>>42807619
ive been better. watching some college football rn.

saw my ex post a pic with another guy and it made me feel weird.

I'm doing well, and I don't really care anymore

If I have kids, they will be in their teens when I'm older and in my 40s, this scares me and I'm not sure but I might be a cuck and will take care of my wifes children...

squat went up
bench went up
3 rep'ed 3 time my max deadlift, 405

Has been a good week

>>42807619
>gym closed since Friday because of hurricane
JUST

>>42807619

I finally hit 3pl8 deadlift yesterday.

Lifted twice today, progressed on my clean. Much better form

>>42807619
leg day today. Now i'm strung out on adderal

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>>42807699

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>>42807619
Repostan from old bread
>Currently dealing with a severe wrist injury
>Scheduled for surgery in a few months.
>However, I might ALSO be looking at Rheumatoid Arthritis - this is where shit really gets bad, basically a step to lymphoma.
>Previously undergone surgery for other issue
>tfw young and body's collapsing. Might be able to lift, but never wrestle (again)
And
>got rejected by a girl.
>Normally I just lift away the feels till someone new comes along, but I can't due to aforementioned injury.
>She's very accomplished and well rounded
>Seeing her do things we would have done together kills me on the inside
>Can't do any other sport to get my mind off her either
>Stuck in a cycle of despair and anger.

I haven't told anyone outside my 3 closest friends about my injury and how I can't cope with the feels anymore. I don't have the heart to tell my lifting buddies about my wrist injury to be frank. They can't understand. I guess I wish I could redo the last 4.5 years of my life, so it doesn't end up so shit (and I would have probably never wasted time with my ex either DESU)

It's my third day of fasting.
I just like how my skin and mind are when I'm fasting, it gets healthy as fuck and I can focus better.

>>42807774
Fucking yes! Congratz man

>>42807796
hang in there. We all go through injuries.

>>42807619
Girl I've been seeing off and on just left me for second time in the last year.

>No friends at uni so I became completely dependent on her for my happiness
>All I do for the last two years since I've been in uni is lift and study
>I don't drink and I could never get into the whole frat bro party every weekend thing
>This girl was my absolute ideal, cute, smart, funny, down to earth.
>First time around, we wanted different things. I wanted a relationship, she wanted to go wild and have the "college experience.
>Literally not a week later she shows up to our lecture with some random guy, they grope each other and make out due on class.
>Tfw depressed as duck after seeing that, but at that moment I starting seriously lifting to deal with my anger
>End of freshman year, finally getting over her, made huge gains and doing great in school at this point.
>Meanwhile she failed some 1st year courses and looks the same if not worse than when we met, feels good.
>Sophmore year starts. She texts me out of the blue saying she's changed and all this bs about how she's ready for something serious.
>I stupidly believe this shit, take her back instantly.
>Date for a couple weeks, everything seems to be going well
>One day she just stops responding to me, later find out she's back with her Chad bf.
>Turns out she was using me to make him jealous.

The pathetic thing is even after all the shit she's put me through I still hold out hope that we'll end up together in the end. She's the only girl I've ever had a legitimate connection with and as beta and cliche as it sounds I really felt like we were meant for each other. Now I'm sitting in my dorm, absolutely furious and depressed at the same time, I know i should move on but it hurts so fucking much. All I want to do right now is lift these feels away bros.

Watching my university play college football, kind of miss being back there. Was a good time except for not having money ever.

Completed my second week of lifting (but been dieting much better and lost 65+ pounds since I started). Finally seeing some abs.

Overall not bad, wish my stocks were doing better but in due time.

>>42807865
Channel the anger into your lifts.
If you ever see her after class or something, confront her and tell her to her face what a shitty person she is for using you. It'll feel like a weight being lifted off your chest. I know it'll be hard but you should try and make friends, go to a frat party every now and then an just try to get to know people. You don't have to drink or anything.

Just got back from lifting, tried doing incline bench for the first time and used the same weight as my regular bench press warm up. Whoops! Luckily some Indian dude saved me from further embarrassment.

About to go to my first frat party in an hour, hopefully I don't throw up

>>42807619
Two tinder dates cancelled last min. Feeling pretty shit.

>moved to a new town across the country 3 weeks ago
>know nobody
>people at work don't want to hang out
>alone in my apartment on a saturday night in the prime of my life
how2meet people
everyone at my gym is a douche and everyone in my muay thai class is 40+ years old

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>>42807950
its ok, just hangout with us anon

>>42807950
Tinder

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>>42807619
The new job is shit, I'm in my late 20s, I'm still DYEL and I'm tired as fuck from working 6 graveyards shifts in a row but I'm looking forward to the next opportunity.

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Life's good mang. Got the coziest gym in town, everyone is bros and it has all the gear I could ask for. 2 platforms, 2 benches, 2 racks, shoulder and incline benches. Even a monolift. Has the whole "lifting in a garage with the bros" feel, can play whatever I want for music and go whenever I please.

Total cutie I met at wedding is crushing hard on me, we're staying up till 3 in the morning talking on the phone, feels like I'm a kid again.

Work is keeping me busy, just got a raise as well.

Lifes good guys, I hope you all feel what I'm feeling

>>42807937
Good advice, thanks man.

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Kind of miss drinking and doing drugs on the weekends, but sacrifices must be made if I want to help turn this country around.

>>42807967
i got laid off tinder last weekend but nothing's happening this weekend

i just wish i had someone to go to bars with, i'm better at talking to people in person than over tinder

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>>42807619
>balding at 20 years of age
what is the point of continuing on

>>42808018
Just cut it short or shave it. My last supervisor was in his late 20s, bald as fuck but pretty fit, he found a QT gf. Don't give up now.

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Began SS from traditional lifting cause I moved to Wichita Falls and thought it would be fun to lift with Rip and the gang.

Only lifting 3 days a week and eating a ton. I just feel like a fat piece of shit.

>>42808018
embrace your baldness bro.
shave it off, give your dome a nice shine.
maybe grow a manly mustache

>>42808027
I'm already ugly and have a stupid head shape, I'm fucked

also I'd fucking kill to bald in my late 20s, literally been balding since 19

Feeling really good, been dating this chick for a while and for the first time in my life I feel like I can just be myself around a female.

>>42808047
Fuck man it can't be that bad, unless you have some hideously deformed feature you have as much chance as the next guy if you can be successful and charismatic.

>>42808047

Finasteride + Minoxidil.

Literally saved my hairline and even caused me to regrow a very slight amount. No side effects thankfully but not sure about the long term.

>>42808018
Listen to

>>42808027
>>42808044

It really isn't that bad. My hair started to go at 22. ive been shaving it since then. It's weird starting off, but you eventually get used to it.

>>42808047
This describes me perfectly. wew.

>>42808086
I don't want to fuck my hormones up but thanks anon

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>all these pansies complaining about losing hair in their 20s
>meanwhile I have arthritic joints in my 20s and have degenerative disk disease
>Hkv at 27

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I'm fucking tired of myself brahs
>Sexually deviant because been addicted to porn for 10+ years
>Isolate myself from everyone. Known as the silent guy at work
>Probably have some kind of personality disorder
>Content in daydreaming instead of taking action
>Have only like 2 friends that i've known since highschool

help me lads

out of town girlfriend is nice and all but theres another girl i met that i have urges to risk it all for

i need some #lad advice

>>42808018
If it's thinning just take a #4 comb and buzz your head

have a cold but still gonna go out with ma boys to get pussy. Not looking forward to it desu.

>>42808198
If your current girlfriend and you are fine then don't throw it away over some pussy. If you think the other girl and you could have a good relationship and your relationship is on the way out then say fuck it and go for it. Alternatively you could try for a threesome.

At a bar drinking vodka seltzer. Too many people here. Ian trying to be more social, but my anxiety is making things worse. Fuck fit, how do I socialize with groups of people?

>>42807699
Stop following your ex bro
I blocked mine on everything months ago and I still struggle and sometimes feel tempted but there is nothing positive to gain from it man
STOP

>>42807901
Update, my team lost a close one. But not gonna drown sorrows in booze. NOT THIS TIME

>>42808198
#lad advice:

Don't do it. If you wanna hook up with someone else, just break up with your gf

>>42808239
drink more. See attractive girl. Go up to her and say some nonsense.

>>42808252
she lives 2 hours away and im wondering if its worth it but shes great in every way and i actually dont wanna hurt her :(

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My balls are empty and my wife is 2 weeks late. Probably got baby #4 on the way.

>>42808156
Try nofap. It helps for people who chronically masturbate.

To keep on topic. I'm doing good. I hit a bench pr today. I am still weak but it's getting better. I would like to make some friends eventually tho. Besides the constant existential thoughts I'm doing okay.

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>>42807619
got a little too drunk and lost my virginity too a 2/10 landwhale last night. /fit/ I feel disgusted with myself.

>>42808255
What kind of nonsense?

>>42808281
Think of it as exp

>>42808282

Ask her what a good shot is and then order 3, give her one and drink 2.

>>42808243
Ya, I know. In any other situation I would've completely cut her out of my life until I was over her. But she wanted to still be friends.

Plus, she's the type of person who would check who I follow/am friends with on social media, and if she saw that I unfollowed her she would flip the fuck out.

Writing that all out tho, you're probably right. I should just cut all contact.

>>42808270
you better be white

>>42808281

Some people are lucky and get a sweet car for their first time, but most people end up being the 14th owner of some beat-up old shit box. Losing your virginity is no different.

>>42808282
literally anything. theres a copypasta on /lit/ about me where i once got super drunk at a party while home for the summer and told my high school oneitis the entire plot to Ulysses by James Joyce while she was holding my arm and saying shit like "lets finish this story upstairs anon" to which i would shush her and say some shit like "no just wait. wait. the next part is great! Bloom goes to a library and proves God exists through calculus!" etc

literally say anything at all anon, just make it something you can speak passionately about and theyll be drooling

this is the reddest pill you will find on this website btw

>>42808291
Gimme a pickup line

>>42808320
"A-are you from Tennessee..?"

"Umm no?"

"H-haha okay..."

then go back to your stool

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>hit 1 pl8 squat after ~2 weeks doing SL 5x5 (I'm a 6'1" lanklet,) just started lifting
>generally excited by gains and looking forward to future
>qt from work was eying me last I saw her, gonna ask her out tomorrow

It's a good feel

>>42808310

Yup, and all my kids have blue eyes. My daughter even has blond hair.


>>42808320

I never used pick-up lines. I just started talking to random girls. Usually I would make a funny comment about something retarded someone is doing. I'm a pretty funny guy.

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I'm sad and alone, and cannot stop protein farting

>>42808290
>>42808314
The idea that it was my first time doesn't bother me too much. I feel ashamed that I let my cock enter such a thing. I feel violated.

>>42808344
did you at least have a good day

>>42808344

Just lower your standards. Just don't lower them enough that you consider dating fat girls. There's plenty of mediocre women with realistic expectations.

>>42807950
Do jiujitsu with gi to make solid friends. Gi keeps the fuckboys away.

>>42808351

I bet your dick felt good about it tho.

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I feel great. This morning me and the gf went on a walk in the 45 degree cold and watched the silent fog move through the mountains (West Virginia). Then I literally read from 10AM to 8PM. It was a good rest day.
Got church in the morning with the family and then I'll probably go for a nice long run.

Hope all my /fit/bros did their best today and are ready for cozy and restful sleeps.

>>42808352
Yeah it wasn't bad, did back this afternoon

>>42808355
I'll try this, but I'm kind of a sperg so it might not work well

>>42808365
I wanted to fucking vomit afterwards

>>42808384

Just get in the habit of thinking before you speak. I'm literally a clinically diagnosed case of severe aspergers. Took me years to learn to think before I spoke. I'm lucky that I have a high intelligence tho so I'm pretty high functioning. Just run what you are about to say through your head and if it sounds retarded think of something not retarded to say.

>>42808386

Clearly your dick wanted to vomit before you fucked her more than you wanted to vomit after you fucked her.

>>42807937
this, a girl once tried to cuck me with another dude. came and said it to her face. no more relationship with her but jesus it feels good that i didnt just stand there and take it.
>>42807989

>>42807619
debating letting some potatoes sprout and go green so i can have the cheat meal that will end my life, but other than that decent.

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>>42807699
>I skipped a chance to go out with the boys because I wanted to stay home and watch the game which we lost terribly and now I'm drunk and depressed.
>couldn't find a spot because no reserved spot and it's game day (university)
>parked a mile away from house at a property I know the owner but not the person living there
>might get towed
>haven't had my car all week and the day I get it back there's a ticket on it for sweeping

fucking end it lads, gym gains ain't shit when you're down for a day. I finished my CCW license training, I can't wait to walk around with confidence soon.

>>42808334
kekkkk

>>42808341
I played awkward jenya with some sloots. Help

>>42808445
Just keep improving yourself, that's all that matters

>>42808339
Don't shit where you eat

>>42808487

Just don't be yourself. Be someone you imagine would be fucking all those sloots at the same time later. Don't be an asshole, but don't be too interested in them. Also don't buy all the rounds. Just be cool. If you go for a piss, go talk to your friends instead of rushing back to them. You don't want it to seem like they are your only option.

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>>42808503
That's the thing bro, I offered to let some people I'm starting to get more familiar with into my place and they commented on how well I have my shit together and if women knew what I had and what I did I would be taken instantly. I guess I just gotta push that autismo border.

>>42808532
Just live where all the females are dumb as shit

>>42808537

So... America?

>>42807619
>22yo
>senior in a college with over 20k students
>physics major so classes are just dudes
>kissless virgin
>sitting in my place alone while my roommates are out
>no friends here
>gym is closed

fuck this. i wasted my 3 years here and am about to waste the 4th. i wish i could do everything over again. i would pledge a frat (most important thing imo) and join a ton of clubs. this looming feeling of having wasted my college years (which i fucking did) is stressing me out and eating away at me.

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I have anxiety (in general) with food/cooking; always worrying Im under or over cooking.

Ended up throwing out about a pound and a half of chicken after cooking it for over an hour...it just seemed 'off' and not cooked properly. So Im now sitting here stewing over the wasted food (I hate wasting food) and the wasted 5 bucks (I hate wasting money.)

My Saturday is ruined.

>>42808239
this vid may help you out in the future. it had a pretty big impact on me
https://youtu.be/b-a1jXgAsQI

>>42808543
Go to bar
Become a regular
Just talk to her; say hello
Baby steps bro

>>42808543
do this >>42808281

>>42808543
jesus fuck this me

>>42808281
sex in the dark?

did you get it in?

you didn't eat her out did you

>>42808351
Everyone ends up banging some broad they dont feel that great about.

Just move past it.

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>oneitis sealed my fate tonight

>>42808585
That sucked it was just be a male and have money. Motivation like that does not work irl

>>42808596
i'd just rather stay a virgin than fuck a landwhale desu

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>>42808543
>math major in 4th year too
I feel like I wasted my first 3 years, girl-wise and lifting-wise. Now that I'm much less socially retarded and better looking, I really want to talk to grills, but I keep making up excuses to not to. I probably shouldn't even focus on girls at all since I'm in the process of applying to Masters programs, but I feel like thats another excuse. I have that looming feeling too bro

>>42808629
but it wasn't at all? take another look when your alone and sober

>>42808643
it's honestly starting to make me feel really depressed. it's just getting worse. i used to be chill about everything and just took things as they come. nothing really bothered me. but now i have no motivation to do anything. the only things i really do anymore are watch netflix, go to the gym, and do my homework/study. i get really frustrated and angry at the smallest things too. i also stopped feeling empathy sometime during my years here. i realized that people don't care about me, so why should i care about them?

>>42808691
Because they care about you even a tiny amount patrick

>>42807699
>tfw just got dumped but ex still likes posts on Instagram.
Feels weird man

i fuckin just did my first conditioning class in school after summer and i lost all my gains and im pretty fucking sad.

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at a bday party bored as fuck, no cute sloots, only dyels. fuck my chest day in half for this bd.

>>42808721
*cut my chest day in half for this bs

>>42808315
/r/ing this pasta

>just had sex
>she had to leave afterward bc she needs to wake up early in the morning
>now I'm on /fit/
I know I'm more alpha than like 80% of the kiddos here because I'm not incel but seriously why the fuck am I on here what are people supposed to do after sex

>emaciated holocaust twig
>refereed 5 soccer games today in 90 degree weather on turf because im an autistic shut in and this is how i spend my saturdays in fall
>bought a few sandwiches to bring to gam,e but they had no condiments and were too dry to eat
>basically subsisted on water, gatorade, almonds and some beef jerky
>check step counter, couldnt have been that much
>13 miles

wew lads ill never make it

>>42807865
Slaughter your lifts and school, use it man.

>>42807984
Suck dude, happy for you

>>42808066
Know that feel, I just act like myself, a complete neurotic autist, with girl I'm seeing and she actually digs it. Says I'm a "good weird". It's nice to be on a similar level of communication

>>42808972
>Know that feel, I just act like myself, a complete neurotic autist,

i know that feel

>girl I'm seeing and she actually digs it. Says I'm a "good weird".

i dont know that feel

>>42809011
She's an odd one too, we get along well. It's good feels, I recommend.

>>42808156
Literally me minus the chronic masturbation

I'm at the point where I feel weird asking someone for their number, I have no idea how normal people text, I'm got so used to talking to the same group of friends

>>42807619

/fat/ here.

Leg day and shitload of cardio. 3 weeks ago i was 85kg, today i'm 82kg.

Feels good man.

also; i'm spending this night playing Rainbow Six Siege and OSRS.

>>42807984
Glad to hear, anon. Genuinely made me feel good.

Terrible day, fucking sucked.....cheer me up anons

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I can't wait for death.

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>been talking to this qt in my French class, we're even practice partners
>saw her at the uni cafeteria at brunch and chatted a little and finally asked for her snap
>"I don't really use snap but sure"
>add her through QR code, don't think to check if she added me back so I don't realize she didn't until after I got back
I'm gonna give her the benefit of the doubt that she just forgot/didn't know. Fuck, I started doing this snapchat shit pretty recently and I had a friend's request sitting for a few days until they pointed out that I didn't actually add them. I'll probably bring it up Monday during class, but should I just try and get her number instead? I'm really not sure what I'm going to say. I don't really have any ideas for a date yet and I'm a little socially crippled by not having a car.

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>>42809268

>terrible day

boo-fucking-hoo

suck my dick nigga, try having a terrible life.

>>42809304
Do nothing, wait. If she's as normie basic as most college girls, she probably just hasn't thought to add you back.
Or she's not interested. But I'd vote its more likely the former.

>>42808251
I can generally keep my diet in order, but alcohol really fucks up my weight loss plans. This year I'm trying to cut down to maybe drinking only once or twice a month.

>>42809304
just add her on facebook and send her memes ?

like a cute dog meme and this made me think of your face during practice ?

and then how are you ?

and if she responds and acts keen and keeps talking then shes game and you ask her to movies or fuck or whatever your power level is.

dont get hung up on people. they have seperate and distinct lives from your bubble of reality.

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>>42809341
>added her on snap from class
>jump immediately to tagging her in cute shit on facebook

Son. No

>>42809323
idk, she doesn't seem to be a party girl, which is something good in my eyes.
>>42809341
Thanks for the advice, idk about sending her memes though. But the real hitch is that I don't have a facebook, and so far it seems like neither does she.


I'm absolutely trying not to get too anxious about it and keep my cool. Haven't been on a date in over a year, lel. Should probably keep trying to meet new girls to keep myself preoccupied.

I have a job interview for a retail position in a big sports company tomorrow. This is my first ever job interview and I don't wanna fuck it up lads. Can /fit/ shower me with some advice? The position is literally just retail shit, and I have no experience with that.

>>42809381
Just act as though you will never fuck her, as if she were an impossibility. This tends to work actually

cheated on my gf last night after drinking for the first time in a few weeks.

>drink a bunch of sake at a karaoke bar
>blackout
>our waitress slips me her number on my receipt
>wake up in the morning and my gf left a note on my phone saying "YOU HAVE A LOT TO REMEMBER/EXPLAIN" before she left for work
>don't know if I fugged the waitress or what, but I vaguely remember being in her car
>look through my texts and find our conversation
>she says we only made out
>feel like biggest pos ever still

Just remember bros, you can make gains, get gf, and fuck it all up if you drink too much alcohol, the biggest gains goblin of them all. don't fall for the social meme

Bleeding from my fucking ass. Had pilonidal cyst excision surgery a few weeks ago, just had stitches removed earlier this week. Started working out again, did cardio the night before, woke up this morning with my sheets covered in blood. Like wtf, the wound was supposed to be closed. So I skipped squats today cuz I didn't wanna aggravate it more. FML

>>42808972
i know this feel, feels good ey

>>42809388
Honestly, try not to care very much. If you don't care you'll think more clearly and come up with better answers. 99% of retail is just knowing how not to be an idiot with customers.

>>42808972
>"good weird"
then you must be pretty good looking.
t. I know this feel

woke up at 4 pm today had a argument with my gf about not telling her how many girls ive slept with. she says she cant feel close to me and says she knows nothing about me unless i tell her and she says im being weird about not telling her, i just think that nobody needs to know and im not asking her how many cocks shes sucked

wat do, fit

>>42809400

The memory loss is a really bad sign. I don't mean just that it shows a problem with alcohol, if you're blacked out and still doing things you're basically totally out of control

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Got rid of my cold, set up a date for next friday with a thicc nordic business student, dropped a crazy chick. Life is good

>>42808920
try to sleep while avoiding the wet patch

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>>42808150

>a week has passed since she broke up with me
>didn't get to tell her that i loved her
>been blocked out of the blue
>can't fathom how easily she ended it given the past 2 years

i literally can not wrap my head around this break up
plus i believe somehow she lied to me one way or another since 2 weeks ago she said everything was fine

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Well I peed my pants in the car at the age of 24 because I couldn't get to a gas station in time, so that's new. Maybe it's a sign I should get my anxiety and prostate checked out.

>>42809586
She's asking because she's insecure that her number is too high.

>>42808252
>posts pussy advice

>>42808198
real #lad advice: unless you're like 29 don't consider settling down yet just have fun with both girls.
Make sure to turn off messenger's "Show most recent message on lock screen" thing and your golden.

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>>42810707
When I was like 10 I needed a piss so bad and the teacher wouldnt let me go, i didnt have the guts just to get up and ignore her and pissed myself in the class right there, it was fucking traumatising, i didnt get any shit for it by anyone else at all, which is a fucking relief, i think the teacher was extremely guilty and anxious cause it was kinda her fault and probably told the class when i left that theyd all get molested if they talked about it

>>42810704
it sucks man but it gets better, just don't go all self destructive and you'll get out of it okay. Also be aware of the two month mark, that's when it goes down again, but you'll be alright, a better girl will take her place bro

>>42810771
2 month mark?
the break up happened so fast and really makes me think that the reasons she gave me were not the real reason behind all of this

>>42808198
risk it if you want there to be a person in the world that could totally ruin your relationship at any time if she wanted to for whatever reason :)))

>>42810779
yeah that's how it works, they give you some version of "its not you its me" and you're left sitting there thinking you didnt even learn anything of why. Bottom line though, she left abruptly after 2 years bro, she clearly has some mental stuff going on, just be happy she didnt hide her true colors longer and you ended up married to her. You'll get a better one

>>42811130
>You'll get a better one
i hate having to tell myself that over and over again
she wasn't perfect by all means, but i loved and wanted to be with her even after all the shit she gave me

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I have begun wallowing in self pity and sadness for a few months now, things go up and down with me and one day I'm happy to be alive and the next I'm worried about 10 different things.

I'm alone, I'm really alone

I have lived for the past year on 4chan, and it is sad that this is my only escape. I stopped hanging out with people and stopped having hobbies

I don't even workout anymore, and I believe that is contributing to my depression in very bad ways

>>42808721
source on this..?

>>42810707

You didn't have an empty cup or bottle to piss in?

>>42807619
not great

my squats been at an all time low
ive been bawwing my eyes out over this girl who suddenly started giving not a single fuck about me after 2 years together
literally blocked me without saying good bye

Well, it's been a shit time, I broke my hand, then fucked my back and then tore a ligament in my shoulder. So lifting has been all gone for quite a while. Finally I getting back to it, but seriously it's like starting again. It sucks ass. Can I still make it guys?

>>42807619
it's sunday you lazy neet

>>42809586
>how many girls ive slept with
what is the right answer to this question?

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>>42807619

Not good. I haven't been working out or eating right for the past few weeks. I'm also hating life right now. I just feel like I will never leave my shit retail job. I've been in school for so many years and I'm still a fucking Junior. I'm not even sure if I want to continue studying accounting. I'm not that great with math, and I feel like I will just want to kill myself if I actually worked in the field. The only reason why I picked accounting is because its a stable job and it pays well. I've already switched majors a few times. I went from a business admin major to a marketing major and now an accounting major.

I do want to still work in a office setting though. I just don't know which area of office I want to work in. I'm 24 and I just feel stuck. All my coworkers are college drop outs who are in their late 20's to early 30s. They seem to be fine with working in retail forever, but I'm not fine. My current job makes me want to kill myself.

>>42811443
I study Finance and although haven't failed, had marks so shit that my chances of getting a decent job are non-existent, as a mature age student (26 yrs old) I share some of your feels in that I'm sort of getting left behind and yet have a "stuck" feeling

Get off the computer, get some sun, drink more water, lift heavier, go on more bushwalks. They all help, I find that if I really just study then I get into a rhythm and genuinely enjoy things and do better. Also if you can financially get an internship even if it's unpaid as oppose to the retail shit.

Best of luck anon, I hope we both make it

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>>42807619
last saturday/sunday it was the wedding of a childhood friend, this saturday was the wedding of my cousin. I'm 28, single, hairy, manlet (173cm/5'8), 5/10 face at best, fat (98kg~216lbs/probably between 25-28%bf), so yeah nah i'm not feeling great watching all thoses couple well dressed, happy etc
i feel lonely.

i'll get back to the gym soon, at least, but that will be a very tough challenge to change physically.

>>42811652

Sounds like you need to save up and go on a sex tourism holiday in Thailand or Philippines. Just don't fall in love with a hooker, or a ladyboy...

>>42808003
based

>>42811624
Thank you, Anon.
I hope we both make it too.


Yeah I've applied to a few place, but I never got a response back. I couldn't even get a simple office desk job that only requires a HS diploma. Its just really discouraging.

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>>42809221
pls delet

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Alright, stressing about finances a bit, been spending too much on supplements with this shit job that I only get shifts for when the weathers good. Cunts on ebay complaining about things I sent them and forcing me to refund their money despite already spending it. Otherwise still find myself thinking about the bitch that made me want to start this transformation, evne though I'm seeing someone else. Just gonna eat a bunch of shrooms and watch some happy anime. Should help.

>give really cute girl my number at party while hammered, girl A.
>talking to another girl since months ago at the same time, girl B. Feel a connection with her
>cute girl sends me message the next day
>decide to not pursue cute girl to go after B.
>end up really busy and can't ask her on a date for a while, still talk all day every day.
>She begins to lose interest, looking like things aren't going to work out
>she doesn't seem to want to meet up at all anymore, despite having seen her for coffee in the past
>has become a lot colder than she was

tl;dr: fucked up two almost certain cuties by being a undecisive faggot.

Learn from my mistakes brothers.

My plan is to give B one more try, I'll ask her to something legitimate, like drinks or dinner. If she says no I'll stop trying. Maybe message girl A, although it has been 4 weeks.

Any advice?

>>42811667
yeah that or find the motivation to at least change physically and be a hairy jacked manlet, that'll still be better, i guess.

>>42810745
source on the image? that looks like the coziest thing ever.

Fooled around naked on bed with a girl and got her to stroke my cock while eating her pussy.

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>>42811697
>waited too long to make a move on this girl
>now think she has lost interest
I think our only solution is to stop being a cuck

>>42811746
Why didn't you fuck?

>>42811712

If you aren't your own motivation, you can never count on not losing your motivation. The only thing you will ever have and can never lose until the day you die is yourself. As long as everything you do is for yourself, you will always have a reason to do it. You don't need to do it for others, because they will get the same benefits anyway. You can never count on always having someone else in your life. Do it for yourself.

>>42811762
I wish it was that simple, Anon, but we're humans, i don't do it exactly for the others, but i'd be lying if i told you that others opinion or look etc doesnt matter, it's what make you feel bad in the first place.
I want to change myself because i know it's the only thing that will bring me something positive in my life (in term of relationship i mean), getting more confidence is just indispensable, i'm nowhere near a shut down or a shy guy but still, i'm terrible with womens because i don't believe in me, but even if i'd think i'm the most handsome guy in the world, i don't think i'd do THAT much better...

Anyway, thanks bro, i'll do my best to see my abs for the first time asap.

>>42811752
Christian girl. Wanted to save for marriage.

>>42809559
Yeah, desu that's probably why.

>>42811819

Fake it 'til you make it. How do you think I got where I am? How most of us got to a good point in our lives. Shit sucks, and about the only thing you can do while trying to make it better is act like you're already happy and content with what you have. I know it's hard to put the effort in when you're fucking miserable, but putting in that effort is the only thing that can make it better. The longer you wait, the longer life will suck. Time is limited, and you can't get it back.

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2015/2016 was some of the best times of my life
My friends all moved away back home in late 2016 and I haven't seen them ever since

2017, has been one of the loneliest years of my life and I am afraid I am getting closer to death everyday. I have nobody anymore, and nothing to do with my free time.

Oh, god how I miss having friends

>>42812420
>Fake it 'til you make it

Not him, but won't people be able to sense you're fake?

>>42813043

It's not about other people. It's about getting an idea of how life will feel after you achieve your goals, and realizing the effort is worth it.

>>42807619
I only got to workout twice last week. Getting ready for school has got me too busy to consistently lift. Im also worried about my cut causing too much muscle loss.

>>42807619
>tfw sunday evening now
just kill me please and end my suffering

>>42813136
You autistic? It's not even 11 am

>>42813151
wow, it's almost as if there are places in the world other than america

>>42813165
What? Who cares about that

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>>42813165
The clock on your computer might be wrong

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Haven't been to the gym in a week because I've been sick.

How the fuck do you uni lads keep up on your eating? Our cafeteria is fucking shit and i just can't stand going there 3 times a day. I cant wait until next year when i can get my own apartment.

>>42812420
Im honestly not THAT miserable, just lonely senpai
Thanks for your words bro

>>42814131

When I was in uni I lied about having food allergies and had plain clean meals made for me. Baked chicken or fish and steamed veggies. Nice and simple.

Been back to the gym for the first time in 11 days after getting sick. Will need to invest the entire next week to get back into the shape I was in before the illness, but that's fine.

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>started lifting like 10 months ago, still dyel
>commute by bike and ride it to gym
>lost 12 kg over last 6 months and made some gains
>finally made scruff and grindr account a few days ago
>posted typical bathroom sefie with face clearly visible
>lots of Woofs and Taps, guys messaging me

>still lvl 33 rainbow wizard(khv) too scared to respond to anyone

>>42814646
Idiot, those apps are for fag/gays you should use tinder ir bumblebee

>tfw started randomly thinking non stop about this qt girl I was in lab with months ago

>she is little bit thiccer but her face is so good and not sure if she is out of my league

>to make things even worse I have been seeing her on uni many times and we never said hy or smthin

>now want to approach her but it would be really awkward after all this time

>she is 90% of the time with her female friend

What do I do? I had my chance to smooth talk her, now my only chance is cold turkey approach and if she rejects me I'l have to keep seeing her and her friend years from now on.

I'm lonely, I don't have any friends at uni and won't see my actual friends until Thanksgiving. I regret doing this, I don't even like what I'm studying and was making decent money beforehand.

Going to make some tea and continue my Twin Peaks rewatch.

>>42815931
Just go for it, even if it goes badly she'll forget in a week.

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FUCKING MATH HOMEWORK

REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE

how do I increase my Algebra gains guys?

>>42817817
depends on the kind of algebra anon

>>42817817
/mathguy/ here, what are you struggling with?

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I don't get it
>Girl who I know at one point wanted to fuck me, and vice versa randomly sends me a snap selfie yesterday
>Reply back with a funny snap about how she's hot
>She laughs
>Ask her what she's doing tomorrow (now today)
>Nothing, why :)
>We should go out
>Okay, I have some homework to do, why don't we go to starbucks and study and talk?
>Okay when are you free
>5
>Cool, text you tomorrow
>Today comes, ask her what starbucks she wants to go to
>Over an hour ago, hasn't read it, she posted a story of her out with another guy
What is the point, why even humor me, just tell me no or that you're not interested. Don't send me some fucking selfie like you're trying to get me interested then just not even give a damn, what is the fucking point?

>>42808624
How so?

>>42817890
that would make my blood boil, sorry bro

>>42817856
Anything involving graphing, my grade tanked when I started learning about y-intercepts and slopes, I'm hoping to pick it up now that we're learning about exponents but I dipped below 70 average

>>42817890
Roasties gonna roast bruh
Don't even talk at her.
Don't even look at her snapchats.
She's just fishing for attention, she got it, now she thinks you are her bitch.
Next time you initiate on the qts.

>6' 160lbs
>borderline skinnyfat
>scared of gym
>dont know how to eat enough protein and calories
>dont think i can afford groceries because poor college student
>terrified to step foot in the free university gym because i dont understand gym etiquette
>no room in tiny apartment for home gym

not gonna make it

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>>42817890
This was before I started to get /fit/
>ask former coworker who quit to go out to dinner on valentines day
>we are texting quite a bit
>she starts sending shorter replies coming up to valentines, though it's still multiple sentences
>confirm time and restaurant, she says ye ye cant wait all that shit
>ignores me on valentines
>coworker said she posted a snap saying "alone with my cat on valentines"
Nigger fucking why didn't you just say no you cunt

>in an autistic rage ask another girl that I knew through a friend out, she said she would have if I asked earlier, but she was with her mom on a cute little parent date thing
>we go out next week, don't really go anywhere that date but turn into fuck buddies over the next couple of months
>this was last year and we are still good friends that fuck every now and then

I really don't know if I should be happy or mad about girl #1 since it led to getting a pretty good friend.

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>>42817890
>>42818631
>>42818655
on a less pessimistic note: maybe she's nervous, anon. just focus on putting the best you out to the public. If you keep doing that, youll find another gril

>>42818681
Well at least some good came of that
>>42818710
She's nervous so she decides to ignore me and hang out with someone else?

>>42817890
>Okay, I have some homework to do, why don't we go to starbucks and study and talk?
>Okay when are you free

Wrong response.

>Nah come over here, we'll study until we're bored then eat and maybe watch a movie.

Sex can't happen at starcucks

>>42812615
Make more memories anon, that is the key to life. Make more memories

>>42817890
>What is the point, why even humor me, just tell me no or that you're not interested. Don't send me some fucking selfie like you're trying to get me interested then just not even give a damn, what is the fucking point?

She's testing your strength, and if you let her get away with this shit behavior she will continue walking all over you. You must immediately STOP putting any effort into this girl. Focus on other chicks and do not ask her out again. If she texts you pictures do not respond. If she tries to engage in text conversation ignore it and be busy with other shit. Do not see overly available as it communicates low value.

She fucked up here and needs to wonder about you, which requires disengagement. She needs time to realize she fucked up and to chase you. Next time she wants to meet or hang out under no circumstances do you go anywhere past your front door to let her in... no starbucks, no study hall, etc...

She might just be shit and not worth it. Do not let her play games with you.

Well I was depressed all day and haven't been to the gym in 4 days. Then I did some lifting and feel better now :)


For now
(eks Dee edgy)

>>42808150
Duel?

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>deadlifted 2pl8 and OHP'd 105 lbs for the first time
I'm still a dyel skinnyfat pussy but I'm halfway to 1/2/3/4, so feelsgoodman

>>42807796
>but it's weird to see your role model reduced to a blithering moron
iktf when my mom turned into a massive christcuck, she went from anon, science is important to LMAO SPACE FAIRY. It's such an awful feel.

>>42809400
actually that's nice dread game. Own it like a man and she'll fuck you even harder. Nothing gets a woman more attached than the thought of losing a guy who can get other girls.

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>>42807619
>gf has a past (4 people)
>a sweet girl, who listens to daddy
>going to break up with her over it because it bugs be that much
>going tot be single forever because no woman is worth my time in the west

ama

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So I've got whey, gainer, multivitamin and potassium

What else is essential?

This is /o/ here by the way

>>42821021
4 people is nothing nowadays you insecure fuck

>>42808939
Just eat a lot of shit when you get home. As long as your calories for the day are above maintenance, you're golden. Meal timing really isn't *that* important.

>>42821066
Vitamin D3, more important than even the multivitamin desu

>>42808198
If you get married, chances are she will probably take you for half anyway. Just break it up now, Fuck and move on.