How do I stop cumming within 30 seconds of masturbation or sex?

>>42715549
SSRIs

>1.8 minutes is the average amount of time a man with PE lasts
I fucking wish. Once I was with my gf and I came in like 17 seconds. Now I can last like 90 seconds if I jack off before we have sex. It sucks but she doesn't complain. She says she still enjoys it but I feel horrible.

>>42715602
>It sucks but she doesn't complain. She says she still enjoys it but I feel horrible.
yeah she's going to cheat on you dude. like in all honesty that's going to happen. No woman is going to be fine with a man who can only last 90 seconds. That's nothing for them.

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>>42715549
>can't cum to vaginal intercourse or oral sex
>there are people who want this curse

>>42715556
>go from stopping cumming to stopping being able to get an erection
no thanks

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>>42715623
What a fucking pathetic post. Off yourself bro

>>42715602
have you tried pulling out and squeezing the tip of your dick when you think you're gonna cum? have you tried thinking about gorillas playing baseball? I cum too quick when I'm too involved in the moment and when I've been fantasizing about sex all day. Don't fantasize about it and think about something non-sexy to take you out of the experience a little bit.

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>>42715623
haha yea bro any woman who has a period of unsatisfying sex immediately jumps on the cock carousel to fuck chad. FUCK roasties amirite? red pill af

>>42715549
decontract pelvic musles
never hold your breath
long, deep breath

>>42715633
I have both. it goes back and forth

>>42715556
4 hours personal record

I can cum within a minute if I'm masturbating but so far I've been able to last in the act

Though i don't fuck a lot so i it's not a big test sample

Count yourself lucky. I've fucked a few girls and can never cum inside with a condom. I fuck until I get tired and then have to jerk myself off.

>>42715549
don't have a 4" dick

I can come to vaginal sex but not oral.

Whats the secret to coming from oral?

>>42715549
I don't cum unless there's a trigger word. But sometimes I lose erection because I'm not that aroused. Trigger word and cues arouse me not sex itself.

>>42715549
Try a dude. Might make you last longer if you're straight.

So if I last 4-5 minutes, is that normal?
my first few sex experiencing really sucked and I haven't had sex for years since

I mean the actual experience was good. Stopped myself from cumming in 30 seconds, girls were beautiful, etc. But I was a nervous wreck and almost lost my boner more than once. Basically thinking too much.

I'm debating getting viagra just to get over the sex stigma, maybe pay a hooker or something to get over it for good. What should I do?
Don't want to fuck up sex with someone I actually like.

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>>42715633
>implying this is bad
You feel alpha as fuck compared to cumming in a minute. Oh boohoo can't finish normally, just rip off the condom and wank it to finish.
>there are people who complain about being able to stay hard for long periods of time without cumming/going soft
kill yourself retards

>>42716282
Stop fucking gremlins

Masturbate dry and furiously daily for a few months, worked for me

>>42716385
Fuck you, I wanna finish inside my woman for once

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>>42715549
Gotta learn to find your pace, if you cum quickly always be on top so you have control of the situation. Start making the sex, and when you feel yourself getting close to popping, either pull out entirely or stop humping if you can control it. And transition to some foreplay, start making out, suck on them titties. Sometimes if I've edged myself to much, I pull out and start eating the pussy to give my dick time to reset.

If you are going bareback you can check out, K - Y Duration Spray, doesn't work with a rubber on though...no personal experience just something I've read about it.

>>42716850
This, while it sounds ideal to fuck her until she cums three times straight sometimes what you (and her) want is a fill up

>>42716374
Focus on your hand and mouth skills and then you can do whatever the fuck you want with your dick.

It's been like 6 months for me since I last had sex, this chick i'm dating wants to bang. I keep avoiding it because i'm gonna cum in like 2 pumps. Plz help

>>42715549
fuck more often. Cant fuck? buy a flesh light. fuck that 3 times a day. try to last longer each time. you got to desensitize the tip. thats the only way youll last longer. all that bullshit about thinking about unsexy shit only goes so far. you need to calm the nerves of the cock.

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>>42716983
>Start making the sex

>>42715844
My brother. I usually last an hour but if I get nervous and think about stamina I cum under a minute.

Add me on kik if you want serious advice on this, dont have time right now but i PROMISE i got some good tips - 015jake (can text in about 3 h)

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>>42715641
>gorillas playing baseball?
My almonds have been activated.
Thanks anon.

>>42715556
That shit is fucking afwul. Quitted years ago and started to treat the real cause not the symptoms.
I never really got full on impotence but as time went by it got harder and harder to come. Sensitivity decreased but erection stayed. My parter loved it but it was hell. RickandmortyMrNeedful.jpg

Thou it made enough of confident zombie to go out, change my identity, limiting beliefs and have epic 6 hours sex marathons and eventually a relationship with a small celebrity that had a crush on and to pick up 9.5/10 from a bar and fuck her hours and hours without even cumming once. Something i would never even imagined to be possible, being before anxious and having panic attacks with strangers

But still i would choose every fucking time being awkward, to have approach anxiety and to last less than 15 minutes in bed than to escape/supress life with ssri, sugar, alcohol, fast food, nicotine and compulsive gaming/movies , for what that is possible overcome with harder but better ways

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>>42715549
>SUFFERING from premature ejaculation

it's not your fault when the girl you're fucking needs 20 minutes of continuous vibrations from a hitachi, a buttplug in her ass and a 8 inch dildo fucking her cunt to orgasm

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>Can't jizz without having my feet fully extended
>Otherwise can go indefinitely at any pace
Feels good.

Edging, and don't cum at the end of the session

train your dick that stimulation does not equal cumming

warning I now can't come after 40 minutes unless someone sticks a finger up my bum

>>42715549
A lot of it is mental man. I've lost my boner and finished in less than a minute multiple times. I saw a doctor thought I had ED. Viagra was 600$ for full prescription. Dad gave me his which I didn't know he had. Used it once knocked it out of the park that one time and things went back to normal. No losing boners no finishing quickly. You just gotta get over that mental hump

>>42717698

This caused my hip flexors to get tight because I had to flex my legs and hips hard to get off. Now I'm stretching to unfuck my shit up. I mean, it isn't the whole reason my back and hips hurts nowadays, but it sure did help make the problem worse by far.

>>42715623
Can confirm.

if youre straight then fuck a dude, bed you dont PE then faggot

>>42717663
Hi
Ur fucking wrong

I quit my Ssris after thinking you can live life without them. You can't. You become a happy little neet who is incapable of basic motivation and dealing with basic social situations.

The panic attacks come back after a year so if you were employed (not likely) you wouldn't be able to hold a job anyway.

If they put adderal in the water the Gdp would hit 7% growth

>>42717698
wooooooow wait a minute
I do this so hard that my calves cramp up when I masturbate and can't come when having sex
is this the source of the problem?

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>>42716270
Is this truth? me benis is smol (18x15cm) and i suffer from fast cums

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>>42717487
>"and that's how i developed a new fetish"

>>42718719
mine is 25x15 and i don't.
buy a fleshlight and train alone.

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>>42718838
>25x15

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>>42718842
don't scare me anon

CANT CUM AT ALL

ONLY MAYBE FROM LONG HANDJOB

PE + ED is the WORST combination. Years of frequent masturbation + poor diet + depression have ruined my penis.
I will say that I was in an LTR for 4.5 years, and had sex on average 6-7 times per week. Sometimes I would cum in less than 10 seconds, sometimes I made it three minutes.

>>42715549
i always try and nut fast, why do i wanna last longer? to pleasure her?
No thanks

>>42715549
>Can fap on /hc/ for like an hour
>ten seconds of actual sex

>>42717487
>My almonds have been activated.
>Thanks anon.

Actually Pete stopped promoting food in general and is now pushing fasting as superior

>>42716282
Aquire more beautiful woman

>>42715549

>tfw the opposite
>tfw death grip masturbation has left me unable to come during sex
>tfw will never feel the feeling of exploding inside a woman from pumping her
>tfw tired of explaining that it's not her
>tfw blessing and curse

>>42716776
yeah this

the entire population of china and the usa could bounce off my dick and i wouldnt bust a nut

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I find that if I've had a dry spell for a long while, it takes me about a week or two of regular sex again before I'm not nutting super fast. If you're about to cum, pull out and start fingering her.. or just cum, if you don't want her to fuck you any more.
>in b4 le beta male pleasuring a woman meme
women talk about guys they fuck just as much as guys talk about girls, and you can get a reputation as a 1-pump chump faster than you think

>>42715549
Cardio

>>42719092
Lemme guess you still wank every day

Stop it you faggot.

>>42719106
Taking your dick out and fingering actually is a beta move, Anon.

>>42715549
>jizz
>wait
>go again
Second boners are way harder than first ones, its some sort of blood magic.

>>42715549
I hadn't had sex in three weeks but the other day I got a bj and chummed in literally 30 seconds, felt so fucking good tho after all that time

>>42718858
There are lots of different treatment options for ED, PE and depression. You should see some doctors and find a treatment that works for you. It could make your life a lot better

>>42717145
Just get drunk

>>42719106
Travel safe pupper

>>42715549
Cardio, Paxil, Whiskey.

Pick 2.

>>42717125
>reddit sex advice

>>42719127
Not for me. My dick is painful and sore

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>cum in 30 seconds jerking off
>cant cum inside vagina

once I defeat the urge to cum early (by slowing down/taking it out/flexing prostate or whatever), I can go on for quite long, sometimes I get almost unable to cum

>>42719106

Travel safe pupper

>>42717487
>>42715641
My fucking sides

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Never been able to bust fat Nutts while having sex.
I dunno it just doesn't happen. When I want though I control it 100%, I guess women don't dislike me being able to hold for so long. It does feel kinda awkward though when you've been going at it for 2+ hours and you just start getting bored...

>>42720515
Wank not want you illiterate fuck

>>42718719
18cm? That's 7 inches. The average is like 5.5

>>42715556
this desu senpai.

>>42720031
death grip desu

>>42720542
"Want" still makes sense in a separate context you illiterate fuck

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>>42715633
Are you me?

I blow in like 30s if I control the tempo, if my gf is doing it then it takes much longer.

>>42715549
How do i start cumming withing 30 seconds of masturbation or sex?

Shit man. My gfs sore by the time it starts to tingle, and even then it still takes another 20min. And I've all but given up on jacking off as it takes forever.

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>>42715602
Cardio.

Kegels (30s full lock, and quick pulses).

>>42721867
>>42715602
>>42572399
Stretching..

>wondering what sex is like with full splits training

>Takes me at least 20 minutes to cum
>has been getting harder to keep an erection
I need to /nofap/

>>42721354
Cool man, doesn't really answer the question.

>>42718645
Nutrition.

>>42721225

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>>42715633
>She cums several times
>Ends up exhausted
>She sits down and opens her mouth ready to receive your load because she is too tired to keep receiving the dick
>You cum a whole lot of creamy white paste
>She enjoys every bit of it, thinking that you are her man and the best at le sexy time

OH MAN THE CURSE

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>>42717710
This.
>Tfw too ashamed to ask for a prescription for Viagra

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>>42715549
>Girl I been seeing begs me to nut in her
>Takes like me 25 minutes of raw pounding her pussy
>she cums in like 15 minutes but let's me thrust away
>"please cum inside me, cum inside me baby please"
>let it rip


Anyone else know this glorious feel? Where are my don juans at?

>>42715655
>>42715639
shes not going to leave just because of that unless she's a total bitch, but it will contribute to overall dissatisfaction in a "veil has lifted" sort of way unless you bring in some toys to help

>>42719106
travel safe pupper

>>42722484
She doesn't beg for it but she has came from the feeling from me cumming in her.

She's bled a few times, she's 5'1 and I'm 6'1. Feels good knowing she still likes it though even though I'm close to breaking her

>>42723711
sounds like a whore.

>>42719106
>guys talk about girls
Do we really? I never brag about my sex life to a guy friend, it seems kinda cuckish? But girls do all the time anyway.

>>42723760
>But girls do all the time anyway.

can you explain what you mean byt this

>>42723779
Meant that girls talk about their sex life all the time.

>>42723742
How so?

>>42722304
But anon, you are tired as well. Cardio kill gains.