Sexual Health

nah you're fucked

Its probably psyching yourself out.

I suffer from ED but physically there's nothing wrong with me. My blood pressure is fine, i eat well, I exercise (not just lifting, I have a healthy amount of cardio in there too), I sleep well.

Its become a psychological problem more than anything. The anxiety from the first failure fuels the second failure, and it continues on.

I was in a relationship with my ex for 5 years and still used to psych myself out occasionally. Some days I could go 11 times, other days I could barely get hard.

Try getting a prescription for viagra. Take a pill before sex. I take 100 mg on occasion, and while thats complete overkill the mental relief from it is insane. Like I almost can't believe I couldn't get an erection afterwards. I believe the mental benefits of the pill are better for my performance than the physical effects.

>>42579892
>the mental relief from it is insane
Fuck me, that's what I need. I've heard it said before that a lot of the time just having the pill in your wallet is enough to give you the confidence for an erection. How old are you and how regularly do you take it, if you don't mind my asking?

>>42580122
I'm 27 and desu i'm having a dry period at the moment. As you say just having it in my wallet has made me more confident in even approaching women; before I had it I would often completely avoid even attempting not necessarily due to awkwardness, but due to "knowing" I wouldn't be able to get it up.

The last time I had sex though, I didn't need to take the pill; I actually forgot about it.

It was easy for me to get a prescription because in the UK we have online doctors as part of pharmacy chains (so I did it via superdrug). I can just order it for delivery to my doorstep, and can order whatever (branded, generic, differing strengths), whenever.

>>42580164
This is reassuring to me... I'm not the guy you were responding to but I have a similar problem.

I'm pretty much always able to get hard and stay hard but then actually cumming is the challenge for me, and it ends up being pretty frustrating so I just go in with the mindset that it probably just won't happen, which I feel is almost insulting to whoever I'm with. Like, they're not good enough to make me cum...

I've thought about it for a while though and I think it's just a problem on my end, psychologically. I really don't like being the center of attention (shitty self-esteem issues that I should be over by now) and so when I'm the focus during sex, I feel like my partner is getting bored or just doing it out of obligation...even though I know that they are enjoying it. So I feel like I should just "hurry up and finish" which obviously makes it almost impossible to finish.

I've never really written any of this out so I'm kinda just putting it all out here. It's a really stupid problem and I hope I get over it soon.

>>42580164
I'm an Amerilard but I'm gonna be in Ireland later this month. It looks like superdrug delivers there too so I'm definitely going to look into it.

>>42580836
We're all gonna make it.

>>42580836
I also sometimes have difficulty cumming with sex (actually a lot more often than not gettig hard). What usually happens is i hold off to keep it going longer and then it just sort of "goes" and even if it feels good I won't cum.

With my ex it was fine, she'd make out with me as i jerked off after or she'd use a Hitachi wand on me. A woman knows you're getting what you want out of it if you basically rape her whenever she bends over for too long. The "denial" actually turned me on a bit in itself.

Last one night stand I had though I didn't cum and she was suoer insecure about it. She didn't cum either and I was more worried because I never usually stop before the woman's finished; guess my ex was just comfortable in herself and could let go easier.

>>42580876
Glad I could help lad.

idk about you brahs but for me sometimes just the though of some of irl women I know just sitting next to me on bed makes me rock hard this is despite all the porn I've watched

>>42581296
Same here. I'm >>42580836 and I'll literally be rock hard the entire time if we're just sitting together watching tv, or sometimes even hanging out in public I'll start to get hard. But then when it comes to the actual act I just can't finish the job. It feels really bad because I've been told stuff like "was I not good enough?" Or "it hurt my ego that you didn't cum" and I feel like such an asshole. I really want to please, so I put my own pleasure in the background...but then that ends up biting me in the ass.

>>42579582
Reading through this thread makes me feel better about the fact that i couldnt get hard 2 times so far while trying to have sex for the first time with my girlfriend. I personally found it funny, because i know im just nervous and overthinking it all and thinking "come on i HAVE to get hard, what if i dont yadda yadda". The biggest issue is that my girlfriend thinks it has something to do with her, which i already explained to her is not the case, since i get hard when we hug standing up or when we cuddle or she just puts her leg over my crotch.
I stopped watching porn and if i decide to rub one out i use my imagination.

Would a bit of alcohol help me loosen up and stop overthinking things?

>>42579582

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>>42581719
It could indeed lad.

To much gives you whiskey dick but i bet you that if you did a couple of shots of something that warms your belly and then go at it a few minutes later you'll be confident and loose. It helps its your actual girlfriend.

My ex once gave me a bottle of vodka and told me to drink and that she was going to shower and then we'd drunk fuck. Bad idea. She came back like 45 minutes later, I had Rihanna blaring out on her laptop, had finished the bottle and was passed out on the bed.

>>42581755
> Rihanna

Truly a man of poor tastes

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>>42582345
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