Porn and sexuality

Have you tried not using pornography

it's called NoPorn and it requires discipline

>>42569970
NoFap, you degenerate. Fapping will still lower your test and overall sex drive.

>>42569963
Yes. Just makes me really asexual cause there's nothing arousing around. After a while of pent up cum (1-2 weeks) I find a girl, fuck her once, lose interest once I spill my seed.

The only thing that keeps me going is harder and harder porn.

>>42569970
For how long? Are there empirical results to noporn alone? I didn't fap for over half a year once. Was constantly a bit horny but as soon as I unloaded it disappeared.

>>42569976
>fapping without porn

>>42569982
Tried it for a month. Your hand hurts from the difficulty to ejaculate. Didn't see any major revert to softcore porn.

>>42569979
>I find a girl, fuck her once, lose interest once I spill my seed.
>The only thing that keeps me going is harder and harder porn.
this sounds like just one symptome of a big mental health problem, maybe even npd (fucking yourself is better than fucking a girl, even if you use your body just for masturbation). there is usually no cure for stuff like this but you can always improve your life

>>42570017
*use her body...

>>42569995
personally I just don't get horny enough without porn to cum more than 2-3x per week. I don't see how nofap is better than fapping once a week without porn

>>42569958
I know this is really weird and nobody used to believe when I told them but, since I was 12 to around 21 I only fapped to porn like 3 times. I just didn't like it.
I haven't found anyone in my life that didn't fap to porn. Am I alone here?

My idea so far:
>week #1
Fap to regular degeneracy but trick myself into thinking it's just for the pretty girls. Emphasize girls mentally when fapping. Try to 'rewire' why my brain thinks I like it.

>week #2
Desensitization by exposing the non-pretty girl parts of degenerate porn all the time in exclusively non-sexual settings (desktop pic and so on). I believe one thing that ruined just lewd softcore girls was that I got used to them not being sexual since lewd girls were spammed all over the internet when you were just reading news eating cereal. Hence it went from "this is something I only see when I cum" to "this is something I see all the time for no reason". Meanwhile avoid ALL non-sexual exposure to softcore girls.

>week #3
Start with degeneracy, but only bust nuts to vanilla softcore girls. Keep going otherwise.

>week #4
Stop fapping to degeneracy, but keep exposing myself to it when not aroused or fapping. ONLY expose myself to pretty girls when fapping and already a bit aroused.

>week #5
Stop fapping. Only cum when with real life girls and only when horny.

>week #??
Never expose myself to softcore in non-sexual settings again to avoid desensitizing.

>>42570017
Except I used to like girls a lot before I started watching more and more degenerate hardcore porn.

>>42570038
But fapping like once a week makes you sexually dead no?

>>42570047
Hows your sexdrive?

Did thread died?

>>42569979
>empirical results

Are you fuckin' joking? Of course not. It's entirely anecdotal.

>>42570227
So how the fuck do you fix it? Why is porn even legal for children. Porn and vidya can harm an autistic child more than cigarettes and alcohol combined.

>>42569958
Take a tolerance break from porn. Seriously.

>>42570281
Doesn't really work though I have tried for months. I'm just a bit more turned on but to the same extreme stuff.

>>42570072
>Hows your sexdrive?
It's normal, In fact even with no porn (12-21) I still fapped 2 to 3 times a day, sometimes 5.
Right now I fap once or twice a day (22 years old), sometimes three.

>>42570390
I can fap like 8 times a day on a porn binge but struggle to bust a single nut once every two days without. I wish I never started.

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>>42570048
Jesus Christ

I am just starting a 90 day hardmode NoFap (no porn, no masturbation, only orgasms with women)

I tried just doing a NoPorn but I would fap once and then fap with porn. I have since realised that I don't even have an urge to masturbate, I just have an urge to wank to porn. Hopefully 90 days will fully reset me. I don't want to look at femdom porn ever again.

>>42570048
... Are you retarded? You take a fucking entire month to get used to not fapping to extremely hardcore porn? That's fucking retarded. You're retarded.

Better tip, get something to DO. DO stuff. You won't have time to fap if you have stuff to DO man. If your entire day is free every day like summer vacation, of course it's harder to not fap to degenerate shit.

Wanna know how I quit porn for 2 weeks? I fapped ONLY without porn. Think about it like this, if you legitimately, and unironically CANNOT get it up without porn, lie down in bed, attempt to fap without porn, and realize, holy fuck, my dick is actually not working. It's broken.

Your body PHYSICALLY tells you that your dick is broke, and that you shouldn't fap. "horny" is what NORMAL people get when they see a hot girl, or a chick does something sexy to them. "Horny" means you've got an erection, you're sweating without touching yourself at all. But you, you don't get "horny", you get WITHDRAWAL symptoms. You THINK you're horny, when in reality you're just addicted. Tell me how many times you were hard BEFORE looking the porn up. That's right, none.

The cure I did for myself was to lay there and try to fap while tossing my phone in another room. You'll see, first hand how fucked up your dick is. ANd when you wanna look at porn, don't, instead, run and try to fap only to find your dick is limp yet again. That gave me motivation, knowing that I PHYSICALLY CANNOT get off without porn was a big wakeup call, and I suggest you try it.

An addict is never aroused. An addict is addicted TO arousal, which they can only get by looking up fucked up shit.

Tldr? Fill up your day with activities so you have stuff to do other than fap

If horny, DO NOT look up degeneracy, instead, try fapping your limp dick until you realize it doesn't work without porn, and then quit. Don't look anything up.

Get a super good sleep schedule, and get out of bed INSTANTLY after you wake up

>>42570038
Just keep jacking it man. If shit takes too long read a book or do your dishes in the meantime.

>>42569958
Maybe you just like bdsm? That's alright you know. Find the scene in your city and go explore your shit. As long as it's not child shit and you don't actually rape people it's fine.

Seriously, you have one life to do whatever you want, don't wait until your midlife crisis to figure out you sold yourself short

>>42570884
I can stop fapping easily that's not the issue. I just want to get turned on by making out with a girl and not strangling the shit out of her while making her puke milk all over my cock. Or worse. I want to cum 8 times a day from normie sex and not just fail to push past three orgasms with a girl a day and only cum 8 times from really sick depraved porn.

So far when I've just stopped fapping, I get really horny from girls after a week or two, and then one bust in said girl and it's back to square one. It's like once changed, your sexuality can't change back.

>>42571887
True in a way. But I'm kind of slipping away from BDSM dom (which I used to really love) to BDSM sub (or more like femdom). And that just aint me. It's just that it's 'novel' and forbidden and shit. I just want to like girls normally man. I wanna look at a nice girl and get a chub like I used to. I don't want to mentally have to imagine the girl getting raped to get some sparks on a date.

Fuck porn.

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I still enjoy just pictures of hot girls, or my imagination, along with some pretty weird shit. I think you need a break from porn and a more optimistic overall outlook on life.