Why do average looking or ugly DYEL dudes attempt to talk to girls at the gym, while all the buff dudes or focused DYELs lift weights and get out?
>>42567489
Those who try to talk to girls are there to make it a social event; those who focus on lifting are there to make themselves great.
>>42567517
Pretty much this.
hottest dude at the gym (IMO) that looks like pic related , just lift weights solo and gets out after a hour workout.
meanwhile the ugly dyel dude at my gym tries to talk to the gym girls and the occasional buff dude and takes a while to get his workout done.
there are two types of lifters
those that just lift for physical gains
and those that split their time between physical gains and social gains
>>42567540
social gains wont work at the gym
>>42567540
frat bros at my university split their time between physical gains IN THE GYM and social gains OUTSIDE but never inside the gym like some DYEL weirdos.
>>42567545
says you
I had to leave my last gym due to the post 5pm crowd being 90% social butterflies who just float around the equipment talking to each other and never really lifting much
some place vary of course. my current gym, the only people who talk are those who came in together, the staff talking to members, and that's it. no one talks to anyone they don't already know or have a need to speak to. they get in, lift, and get out.
>>42567558
>frat bros
>not turning their 3-6 sets of 3-8 rep bench only workout into a 1.5-2 hour social event
what kinda weirdo frat bros you talking about?