So some girl ive been chilling with for a couple of days just straight up asked me out. I of course said yes and think it's fucking great that she didn't send mixed signals and actually asked me out. she's a clean 7.5/10 too (swedish standards) which is what surprises me the most, usually the ugly ones who would do something like that.
Is it beta to get asked out by a girl?
>>42337857
I'd say it's alpha, you're so attractive that they can't contain their desire for you.
>>42337857
Well done OP. You're all good. Get your dick wet.
>girl that you like asks you out
>worry about whether it makes you look cool or not
who fucking cares, just do what makes you not want to die
>>42337857
post pics of her
It is kind of beta, but that's not a bad thing. We all are allowed to be beta sometimes in life, it's called being human. For the first 19 years of my life I depended on women to do the work in relationships and make th happen, it stops once you start looking like a man though, basically once you stop looking like a cute teenager. At least it did for me. I prefer taking initiative now though.
>>42337857
It's beta as fuck to ask 4chan what's beta, you beta fuck.
>>42337898
on 4chan? never.
>>42337857
It's pretty alpha OP. Everyone else saying it's beta are probably 5'1 manlets. The idea that a guy is desirable enough to warrant a woman to ignore years of evolutionary conditioning and take the initiative truly says something.
>>42337857
>that fucking tyler1 picture
OP, good for you man, getting a girlfriend is already a major feat
One that liked you enough to put herself out there no less. dont fuck it up
Congrats mate. Although as a Scandi female I don't see anything weird about that. We are taught to be equal and our guys are shy and reserved and won't just straight up ask us out. If we don't take matters into our own hands, nothing ever happens.
>>42337857
>she's a clean 7.5/10 too (swedish standards)
lucky you
>>42337857
girls who ask guys out are usually mentally ill. seriously, watch out for red flags
I do realise where I am right not but fuck it. what would it take for you guys to notice a girl is interested and ask her out?
>>42340355
now tb
>>42340355
Lots of smiling and that thing where they bite their lower lip
>>42337857
>Is it beta to get asked out by a girl?
No because you can't really help it if a girl asks you out, but a man should really be the one to make a move. If you only rely on girls to make the first move for you then that's submissive and beta.