Can we get a /feels general/ thread going? Good or bad I'll

>8th or 9th time this has happened
>Still get broken up by it

dude
get over it

I've been rejected by more girls then there probably are posting on 4chan. It happens

Sorry but this bullshit just adds to the problem. Stop feeling sorry for yourself, either find another qt or learn to be happy without one.

>>42315986
it's worse BECAUSE its happebed so much which leads me to belive that 99% of girls would find me unattractive

>>42316008
post pic

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>>42315969
Yeah OP you know what? IT WAS ME THE WHOLE DANG TIME! I MADE SURE TO MAKE THAT KISSY EEEXTRA MOIST FOR YOUR VIEWING PLEASURE BUDDY HA HA! I DIDN'T EVEN LIKE THIS CHICK, TO BE HONEST SHE LOOKS LIKE A SHOPPINGCART, BUT MAAAN WHEN I SAW YOU TRYING TO GET IN THERE, I JUST HAD TO PUT MY THING IN THERE YOU KNOW WHAT IM SAYIN HAHAA DINGA LINGUS IN THE COOCHI MY MAN :---DDD ANYWAYS RIGHT NOW IM TAKING HER TO POUND TOWN AS IM WRITING THIS AND MAN I GOTTA TELL YOU MY KISSES AINT THE ONLY THING THAT'S MOIST AHA HAAA! ANYWAYS I GOTTA CHANGE POSITION AND WRAP THIS MESSAGE UP NOW! THE CHAD MEISTER OVER AND OUT, PEACE!

>>42316008
Stop obsessing over it. For fuck's sake.

She was either
A) Not seeing someone when you started flirting in which case you need to be more fucking assertive next time and not pussy foot around

B) She was already dating him before you started chatting her up in which case you never had a shot anyways, get over it.

unless you intended to try and swoop in, break them up and take her for your own. In which case you'd be an asshole and an idiot.

For real though, you need to fucking be more assertive. Even if you don't have self confidence, act like you do. This wimpy attitude of yours is probably why. Stop blaming "Chads" because you don't have the guts to man up faster.

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>>42316008
Then you have nothing to lose. My default state is believing nobody likes me, so I can only be pleasantly surprised

>Average but sweet chink gf dumped me and starts seeing nerdy as fuck skelly the next day posting it all over facebook
>Destroys me
>Spend almost an entire day crying to a friend
>Get a tonne of magic mushrooms and MDMA and just lose my mind for a week
>Start seeing psychologist to try avoid commiting sudoku
>Get put on anti-depressants
>Start lifting, dieting, quit smoking which i've been doing for over a decade, quit all other drugs
>Feel good enough to get on tinder
>Score 10x hotter Jap beauty
>Send ex a message that I was a drug addict through the entire relationship (she had no idea) but i'm not anymore thanks to her
>Send pic of new gf
>Tell her property manager she's subletting on AirBnB (illegal) and give her a link
>Block all contact

Things will be ok bro. I probably wouldn't have gotten over it so easy, if she'd moved onto someone Chadder then me, thankfully it was some gangly emo motherfucker with bangs. But you'll be fine.

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>>42315969
>tfw girls don't care about your shredded abs because youre /uglyface/
>tfw girls don't care about your chest striations because you're /uglyface/
>tfw girls don't care about your 3D delts because youre /uglyface/
>tfw girls don't care about your v taper because you're /uglyface/

hello its me

So real talk, does rejection hurt that bad? I've never asked a girl out and had her say no. I've had a few where it didn't work out after the second or third date but that's really it, and it didn't feel like rejection so much as us just not really feeling it.

>>42316130
Only if you obsess over them by having expectations of them. It's delusional thinking of guys that have usually never been rejected or asked a girl out have. I didn't have the biggest confidence in high school so I would just talk to thicc chicks and before you know it you have a stable of thicc. There's a saying that a lot of man must know at a young age "why get the cow, when you can get the milk for free". It's perfect for doing GOMAD.

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It's long but worth a read

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>>42315969
>It's long but worth a read

>>42316290
t. autistic adhd faggot

Why even come here if you don't want to read shit?

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>Work in boring industry
>Super qt girl joins company
>She laughs at all my retarded jokes but I dont know how to approach her outside of work related situations
>Will probably continually wait for months for the right situation to talk to her until one of us leaves and I never see her again
>Repeat with every girl ever

Should I just sit next to her during the lunch break and try to get to know her? How do you do this?

>>42316386
how have you autists not figured out how to talk to women yet? you literally just ask her.

>hey i think you're cute do you want to hang out after work sometime?
>omg leik where would we go xD?

>>42316449
Do I just abruptly ask for her phone number and stuff?

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>>42316073
>Tell her property manager she's subletting on AirBnB (illegal) and give her a link

>>42316249
fuck yeah craig. what a mad cunt.

>>42316449
Never tell them theyre cute or hot. You pull that card at the right moment. Just ask get coffee

>>42315969
>r9k

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>be me
>13 years old
>going out with a girl for the first time
>just a walk
>nervous though
>it goes well
>come home
>mom, who I had told it about, laughs
>'[My dad's name], our little boy is starting to go out with girls, tee hee!
>mocks me
>such a big moment for me laughed at
>it doesn't work out with that girl
>what I remember is my mom's laugh
>fast forward 16 years
>still bitter about it
>mom still doesn't realize how much she hurt 13 year old me
>me
>29yo handholdless, kissless virgin
>afraid of going out with anyone at this age
>don't know how to start
>girls genuinely like me though, not a chad by any means but I'm likeable
>live with parents
>afraid of their laughter
>afraid of being mocked
>they and the rest of the family stopped asking me about girls
>lifting
>looking better but the pain is still there
>drifting through life, saving money to move out
>alone
>lonely
>mfw

Hold me, /fit/.

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>>42315969
If Chad is spending his time on her, she's probably a real catch. So the real question here is why the hell are you hitting on the hottest girl in the room? Since you're on /fit/ you're probably not top-tier yourself. Shoot within your league bro.

>>42316249
No it wasnt. Give me back 6 minutes you fucking cuck

>>42316503
Ugh. Hold yourself, /twit/.

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>>42316503
dont worry bro. youre gonna make it. we are all gonna make it

>>42316503
go out and kiss people man. u make me sad

>>42316524
ha faggot

>>42316483
obviously fake man
dry your panties

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>>42316076
>not builtfat

not gonna make it

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>>42316076
stop being a fag

10/10 body with 1/10 face is 5/10 overall. You can pull something with being completely mediocre.

What women hate most is self loathing and wailing in pity. ONLY women can do that in relationships. Dont acknowledge your full limitations in front of her and everything will be fine. Just bullshit yourself that you are better, than you really are and she will accept that lie fully.

Because, for women, facts doesnt matter.

>>42316503
Just move out you fucking retarded piece of shit, how can anyone be this stupid and deluded?

>>42315969


>>>/fit/>>42316581

>>42316016
Lmao

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>>42316650
>what women hate most is self loathing

No, what women hate most is you being ugly

>>42316544
>were all gonna make it
we all deserve and will find happiness.
thank you, anon, you're one of the good ones.

This girl at work started flirting with me since pretty much day 1, which was a real surprise because she's literally the hottest girl there, every single guy there tries to get on her.
Eventually I started flirting back, not thinking much of it, fast forward 2 months and I have the biggest crush on her, but now she's gone cold on me and flirting with other guys instead. It fucking hurts seeing the looks she gives them.

A few of the guys there made jokes about how she's not into me so I should fuck off, even though I never even talk to her unless she talked to me first. Maybe I misinterpreted the whole thing and she was never into me in the first place.

I hate her so much for showing me attention, and I hate myself even more for falling for her.

>>42316686
stop being a pussy ass bitch

>>42316503
you should probably talk to your mom about what she did
i feel your feel

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>be 17
>decide to be gay once I realized men were superior
>come out to orthodox (((jewish))) family
>they practically disown me
>start lifting to cope with bad feels
Fast forward to now, 2nd year in uni
>/fit/ as fuck
>super confident, score so much dick
>get a call from mom 2 months ago
>my fat fuck dad just passed away from heart disease, and she is moving away back to Israel to live with relatives
>mfw

The trick is to start hating women.

They know men desire them. They know they can do right about everything as long as they look somewhat okay (don't be obese, that's it for women). You can work out for years and yet, all your muscles will never have the effect on women that a set of tits and an ass have on men.
Why would they even enter a relationship with you? They can get sex at any time they want, everything else they get from male friends and family.

>tfw no homo
Feels bad man.

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>>42316792
jesus christ my dude

Every missed chance is lost.

3xF asking out and u have a gf.

Simply, reason why many autismos here are tfw no gf cuz they are afraid of rejection.

>>42316823
feels good man

>>42316840
Let's be honest, most guys that are scared of rejection will probably get rejected if they try anything.

>>42316792
Oh well, they were the ones who gave up on you. Fuck 'em.

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>starting med school on Monday after years of trying to get in
>so much calmer and at peace then at 20 years old
>down from 230 lbs to 192 lbs, still 8 more to go
>glorious feels everywhere

>>42316503
Yeah it's time to move out dude, you're 30. Leave. Fuck easy girls for practice.

>>42316792
Don't know why but this made me kek so hard. Good feels, my fudgepacking friend

>>42316465
If I were you I'd lead it off of a good conversation. After having a decent convo say some shit like "hey I really enjoy hanging out with you, wanna hang out sometime?" Or whatever works for you.

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>tfw gf
>tfw she had 3 previous sexual partners
>tfw I am realizing I will cheat on her with the first girl I see that has less partners

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>>42316503
>tfw family thinks you're closet because kissless virigin

>>42316520
Not OP but how do I measure what league I'm in? Some days when I look in the mirror I think I look like a stud and other days I think I look like an ugly cunt.

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>>42316990
Assume every day is your worst day. Then go lower

That's your league

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>>42317019

>>42316990
If you have any female friends you can ask them, but they might be biased, might be unable to be honest to spare your feelings, and a billion other factors.

Personally I had two attractive girls say I'm straight up hot and fight over me at a party, but according to lookism and /soc/ I'm a 3-4/10 and always have trouble getting women anyway so who the fuck knows.

>>42316792
>gay and jewish
classic

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>>42316792

>>42317038
>at a party
Might have thought you were more attractive than you are because drunk.

Even still I'm sure you look fine, anon.

>>42317038
>having female friends
>goes on 4chan

Pick one

>>42317068
4chan

>>42315969
Where do you study, OP?

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>have been putting off looking at my uni results
>had a depressive episode during exams
why am i like this
>scraped through by the skin of my dick
>feeling better about it
>keen to give it my all this semester
>shoulder is feeling better
>planning on getting back in the gym next week

i just might make it brehs

>>42317056
Well one of them had a crush on me for a couple years, the other one won me over the other one and we dated for 2 years, so I'm inclined to believe them.

But who knows.

>>42317105
>actually tries in school and doesn't drop out to become a 24/7 gym rat

not gonna make it

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>be me 19
>skelly all my life
>start lifting for confidence boost
>8 months had passed
>starting to see some muscles growing
>tfw i never had muscles in my life
>mfw

>>42316008
You think being rejected 8 times is " so much"?

>>42316792
Are you a fit bottom? I got something for you

>>42316016
Kek

I'm in kinda rage atm ... Moved some months ago with my wife. She' almost a sperg, doesn't care much for companie/lotsa friends but I'm different. Seen from neutral viewpoint everything is fine; we have a house in a very rural area, both a job, I can lift for fucking cheap and so on. But then ... she's never motivated to empty boxes, when I say let's do this on a saturday - we have almost 30 unemptied moving boxes in this fucking place. We have to do most of the stuff together because setting up must be in a special manner to please madam. I sit here in a house in the fucking countryside with all my friend literally hours away and it looks like a shithole from inside. Was just looking for my fanny pack for biking to place a bottle of water in it. Not-found.exe

I feel like going to the barn to take an axe and destroy everything.

/blog

going in for blood work in an hour
Have blood results by next week
Crossing my fingers my levels have improved

>having troubles with gf
>get into a stupid argument and we break up
>she blocks me in every way
>cant stop thinking of her
>start to use tinder but none of the girls are better than my ex
>start missing her a lot, been a month and i dont even think she remembers me anymore
>So devastated
>the silver lightning being that all my lifts have gone up
>gained around 8 kg since the breakup, needed a few ekstra kg
>chat with new girl, same name as ex so she keeps reminding me of her
>but damn she is cute
>keeps postponing the date
fml

>>42316073
Thatll show her for wanting to date someone else and breaking up before cheating, the whore!!

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>>42317138

>>42316990
>>42317038
this
basically you know by which type of girl shows interest in you. They 7 = you 7.

> be together for 6 months with this 7/10
> she's in no way exceptional, besides the fact that she has the same humour as I do and I never have to explain myself. Chatting with her is like the talks I have with myself in my own mind, except she has wittier comebacks at times
> break up because I had to move 2200 miles for university
> it's been almost a year and she's moved on, probably barely remembers me, but I miss her more every day
> tried having sex with randoms from clubs but it's pointless and not entertaining (I can't fuck the hotties in the UK because every guy looks like a fucking Abercrombie model)
> tried getting a new gf but I'm in engineering. 3 girls out of 200 people in my course.

What do I even do?

>>42317278
I sometimes get jealous of courses with a good female to male student ratio. So much more chance to get laid when there's actual females in your university social circle

>>42317278
Join some sports teams, make friends, and fuck their friends.

>>42317363
> went to bouldering, literally 2 girls in our entire university team. torn my shoulder blade after one month so probably not going back

> went to krav maga, all the girls dropped after one course, actually stuck with that one for the entire year. Pretty fun but all the punches probably fucked my head up, will take up a different martial art this year

What sport should I join?

>>42317393
I meant you should make friends with the dudes, and then go to parties and shit with them, where you will find girls.

>>42317393
I'm a girl and my pussy smells like pewp.

>Got 110 lb OHP for 10 reps yesterday
>Failed lifting 190 lb deadlift after 2 reps

I'm very happy, yet very angry

>>42316792
fuck em, keep going my man

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>mom passed away last November
>Wife of 10 years passed away 3 weeks ago
>She use to hug me all night as we slept
>Got use to sleeping like that
>Only way I can sleep now is if I tuck blankets under the mattress really tight so it feels tights against my body like the arm of my wife
>Shit sucks bros.

>>42315969
I dont understand, why do you say tge other guy is chad. Instead of saying "shes taken, next girl!" you think "oh chaddiest chad took her away!!!"

Pathetic mentality, you shouldnt ask her out to the piint she rejects you. Patgettic

>>42317441
that shit does suck, keep on trucking bro

>>42315969
Lol why do you go for girls that dont show interest then qq,anyways atleast you tried.Better that than nothing.

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>>42317424
Been lifting for 2 months and my deadlift is at 190 x 6 with OHP at 80 x 5. How is your OHP so dis-proportionally stronger than your diddly?

>>42317451
How drunk are you anon?

>>42317441
Sorry for your loss man. I know I'm just some random guy on an Uzbek goat herding forum, but I hope you're doing alright.

>>42317441
hang in there man

>>42317424
are you in a wheelchair or something? Do you have Cerebral Palsy?

>>42317441
Fuck man, I can't imagine the pain you must be going through. Hope you recover quickly. Remember that they'd want you to be happy.

>>42317472
I've been lifting about the same amount of time. I get the feeling my form on DL is shit. My OHP is nice though, I've always had strong shoulders.
>>42317489
N-no, it feels that way at times... I can squat 150 lbs for 10 reps easy somehow

>>42316686
It's cause you didn't ask her out quickly enough.

t. Chad (kisses virgin)

>>42317514
Post your symmetric strength man.

>>42316073
Wow goes to show how repulsive people really is.You disgust me,you are the reason I hate most of the people

>have average gf because im average and have an addiction
>she breaks with me because life
>do drugs
>breaking point
>get my shit together
>get hot gf
>make my ex losw her job for no reason because fuck her for dumping me

Fuck you,disgusting animal,I swear I would break your legs or hands to show you to be humble and a quality human person

>>42316686
If you flirted with a person for months and they didn't do anything, wouldn't you just move on?

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>>42316503
>The single reason my life is in shambles is because my mom made a joke once
Yeah, no buddy, I'm not buying it.

>>42316073
Kys lad

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>been on a cut since May or so
>1500kcals with lifting 3x and usually 2x 5k
>5'9
>weigh myself this morning
>147
>still no abs

WHEN WILL IT END. I don't want to become anorexic tier for these FUCKING abs.

>>42317441
Yeah yeah, very sorry, much pain
Got any nudes of the wife?
Of the mom?

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>Do goodfeels also count?

Got a gf today anons, I'm so happy. Ieven kissed her briefly, it was her very first kiss and I'm the first guy to date her ever. I feel so happy and special.

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>>42317556
It's funny, my shoulders are light green but I'm still a blue man

>>42316386
Work is a bothersome place, send her a fb message

>>42317184
Why don't you both just put away the fucking boxes

>>42317618
Congrats bro, hopefully she becomes your wife and you will finally have a partner and friend for life. Then you'll leave this place and it will become but a small memory as you become happy with your life and have no need for this place. We're all gonna make it

>>42316073
This is fucking sad man. She has every right to break up with you. I hope the jap chick will realise what kind of a person you are and dump you too you fucking bitch.

>>42317594
what are you doing for abs?

>>42316249
That story made me tear up...

>>42316449
>>42316386
>>42316465
>>42316945
This, don't say they're hot or cute right away she will know you're interested and if you already said that it won't be as good to say it later on. What anon said just when you're talking with her at some point and you're having fun say something like 'Hey I gotta go do this and this now, lets have lunch together later?' Or ask to meet her for a coffee or dinner sometime. Don't be scared anon, you can do it.

>>42317549
>>42317568
I wasn't sure if she was actually flirting or I was just imagining it. I don't fucking know, why didn't she ask me out herself? Or at least give me a hint or an opportunity to ask her out?

>>42316503
Wow this is pathetic you dare blame your mom for everything that is wrong with you and you live with them at fucking 29 you worthless loser? I think you have no-one but yourself to blame honestly.

>>42317713
Women generally don't ask guys out, even with muh feminism. You don't have to ask her out on a "date", just come up with something to do with your friends and invite her along

>>42316840
I have this problem.

t. 25 and have never asked out a grill

>>42316792
Proud of you anon, go be gay and get all the dock you want.

>>42317623
Those are still good stats for 2 or so months lifting dude.

>>42317727
I don't have any friends anymore, everybody moved away or we just lost contact, and all our mutual 'friends' (coworkers) want to get on her too anyway.

>>42317673
Hanging leg raises and stomach vacuums. I feel them, but I still have a small layer of fat covering them up.

>>42317645
Thank you kind anon.

>>42317038
Dont fucking do this. asking a girl in wich league you are?ahahahah

This board must be full of teenagers and faggots,are you a fucking man or a girl?

What man does that?what kind of man.

Ask yourself this question each time you think about some faggot things

>>42317757
i'm at 121 lbs right now, at 5'9 as well. I most likely have WAY less muscle mass than you, but my point is you can probably go even lower than 147 with no problems.

>>42317797
You are skinny af

>>42317747
Thanks man, I feel like my upper body is outdoing my lower body in most regards. GSLP has been a fun experience

>>42315969

we reddit or /r9k/ now?

fuck off

mods pls ban OP

>>42315969

> mach speed

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>in the squat rack
>finish my set and rerack weight
>the /bigguy/ of the gym turns to me
>"Hey man everyday I see you here you are crushing legs, why is that?"
"G-guess I just really like doing legs haha"
>"Ah cool, you do you man"
Jesus Christ am I the resident autist of the gym, I didn't think anyone noticed me.
Fuck you rippletits

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>>42317808
indeed i am
pic related from just before i started lifting

>>42315969
>The quality of posts is extremely important to this community. Contributors are encouraged to provide high-quality images and informative comments.
>No spamming or flooding of any kind. No intentionally evading spam or post filters.
>Images and discussion related to dieting, exercise, healthy living, and workout plans is welcome here.
>Relationship, dating advice, and "mental health" threads belong on /adv/.

>>42317611
so edgy dude, back to /b/ with you, you disgusting 16 year old edgelord manlet

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I've given up. No amount of lifting will ever offset my non-existent personality. I can't even have conversations with anyone because I never have anything to say. How am I supposed to find a girlfriend if I've got literally nothing to offer to her, not looks, not companionship, nothing.

>>42316073
Take your own life, the world will be a better place.

>>42316073
the worst part is that you actually thought that you were in the right here

>>42317936
don't be such a pathetic pussy, go pick some heavy shit up and put it down again you fag

>>42316946
OK OK OK OK

>>42317867
Holy fuck spooky,good luck in your journey.

Also you seem to have your right clavicle a bit displaced just like me

>>42315969
Fucking faggot go to some other board with your bitching

>have friend who dated grill
>Grill was crazy and pinned everything on her anxeity
>Latched onto friend
>We had to censor ourselves around her when we hung out
>She would force him away from my friends and I
>He eventually broke it off awhile ago with help of friends and I
>Had dream where she was constantly around me and would hug me , cuddle me, sensation of warmth and calmness throughout the dream
>Was disgusted in dream but I woke up feeling sad for some reason

I would never date her but I feel really conflicted about this dream, what does it mean Bros?

>>42317866
>i'm doing a begginer program that emphasizes legs because squats paired with deadlifts are the geatest CNS stimulators/improve strength/whatever

Or something along the line man,not that hard.

Also lighten up its not that bad man,you are the one overthinking take that into account,no one gives you as much shit as yourself.

Studying a fucking meme degree. Wasting my parents money, my time, and probably not going to make much of myself. Considered taking the express way out more than once. /blog

>>42318150
Your fault,kys or put up bitch

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>>42316503
>my mom said something a little embarrassing when i was 13
Oh fuck off you whiny cunt

>divorced parents
>abusive single mom who tells me pretty much every day she wishes she aborted me, it's not too late to abort me, etc
>emotionally fucked up so no friends and become a shut-in
>eat school lunch at 10:30am
>she worked late so dinner wasnt until ~8pm
>starving and couldn't cook so I would eat snacks
>got fat
>did I mention my dad?
>arrested and went to jail for trying to get nudes from a 15 year old girl
>same name as me so sex offender results show up if you google me
>he wont be off the list until like 2025
>mom arrested for embezzling and used my bank account to launder it (she forged my signature on checks)
>i was deposed but able to escape prosecution
>lost my childhood house and most of our possessions
>mom gets out of jail, but is broke
>im a momma's boy pussy so I let her move in with me
>KHV until 32 but finally lose virginity and get gf last year
>mom starts getting in arguments with my neighbor who has been a tenant here for like 15 years
>emails my landlord saying she hates it here and she's moving out and what a piece of shit the neighbor is, etc etc
>landlord tells me she has to leave
>when she said she is moving out, she meant *we* were moving out without consulting me
>i tell her I'm not moving out as I like it here
>she gets pissed and tells me I'm making her homeless, etc etc
>hides in her room when gf comes over
>one night after gf goes home, mom comes out of her and yells out the front door that she's a whore, cocksucker, etc
>i tell her she needs to stop or leave
>starts trashing the apartment (literally took a can 3/4 full of trash and dumped it on the ground)
>i tell her to stop and leave or I'm calling the police
>she calls my bluff and I call the cops
>cops come and says I'm ruining her life
>finally leaves 2 weeks later and hasn't talked to me in a year+

I'm just now losing weight (45lbs down), but at least I'm a lot happier.

>>42318160
>kys
Will probably do this

>>42318079
>you live in my dream

Too real

>>42316073
Ignore the faggy posters, this is hilarious anon

>>42316008
>leads me to belive that 99% of girls would find me unattractive

You think if we were all attractive we'd be posting on 4chan? Judging my beauty based off the beauty of girl's I dated I'm a 7, maybe even a 6, but whatever. I got to fuck them raw and if I really want to bang hot girls I just go fuck top tier hookers. Could be better but you get what you get

>>42318166
Fuck your mother,mine loves me so much I cant completely appreciate it until I hear and read such things as your story,I cant understand people like your parents,but they are still humans something must have happened to make them do what they did and to think and behave the way they do.

Be strong man looks like you are in the right track.

>>42315969
>"um, I'm sorry anon, I'm kinda talking to someone else rn"
FUCK
>one day see her leaving the gym building and get in a convertible with the Chaddiest Chad I've ever seen

Should've left it alone at:
>"um, I'm sorry anon, I'm kinda talking to someone else rn"

>>42316008
>IT'S WORST!

fucking victim. Get over it.

>>42318175
>taking the easy way
Come the fuck on bitch,you were not supossed to answer that.

Also life is not all about money and studies dumb fuck and by the sound of it you are young as fuck stop complaining and get your shit together

JESUS FUCKING CHRIST MODS DO YOUR FUCKING JOB

TAKE THIS SHIT TO R9K FAGGOTS

SAGE

>walk in gym
>gym worker that scans me in says im looking big
>been making good progress lifts all going up
>been talking to multiple women
> they all say im attractive
>life is good

>>42318239
I'm trying anon. I don't want to feel this way you know. It's just difficult to see things taking a turn for the better.

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Asked a girl out and she accepted. Day of she flakes on me and cuts all contact. Feels pretty bad desu

How do I get my gf to break up with me?

She has a kid, I hate her little bastard child. Broke up with her once, everyone including my parents were mad at me so I got back with her.

I'm in misery. I treat her like shit and she enjoys it. Idk what to do.

>>42316503
It amazes the amount of delusional some people possess. The audacity to push their entire lives' failures onto their parents lol get a fucking grip you loser, you failed because of you, yourself. and not because of that one giggle your mum made like 10 years ago. seriously, the lack of emotional resilience in this generation is sickening.

>>42318264
Alright good luck lad just take in account that everything is a matter of perspective and that change is suffering at the beggining.

>>42318271
>how do I break up with her
Breaking up with her,why would your shit family give you shit for that,fucking monkeys,I fucking hate people,fucking egocentric animals

>>42318309
I haven't had a gf in 2+ years.

>>42317205
>breaking up before cheating
sure she didnt cheat

>>42318271
>How do I get my gf to break up with me?
Fall in love with her.

>>42318166
You tried to help her and couldn't. Her issues are deep seated clearly and have nothing to do with you. Stay strong anon

>>42315969
Stop crying faggots

>>42316016
HAHAHAH, fuck you OP you loser.

>>42316016
based chad

>>42317611
Wow edgy man
Seriously though, I hate it when newfags think 4chan is all about being Le edgy memer, and then they try to be edgy and they fail pathetically

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>>42315969
I don't really have women problems for the first time ever. I'm seeing a few but I'm really work and gym focused.
What i need are bros.
I moved to this city 2 months ago and left everyone behind and I still havent connected with any dudes that I can be myself around and really let my guard down as friends. I never realized how critical that was for me until I left college.

>>42318275
Never give anything for free, especially sound advice. If it wasn't asked for it'll simply breeze through their tiny little heads,

>>42318441
Oh shut up you pussy, these threads shouldn't even exist on /fit

>>42317441
How old are you anon?
The only woman I ever loved used to hold me the same way at night before she died in a car accident when were both 25. I still have trouble with it 10 years later

>>42317441
You doing okay anon? You want my steam?

>>42317867
show yout tween peen

>>42317866
Oh hey there faggot

You go on /fit/ too?

>>42318458
It was very tryhardy, so shut up underage.

>>42317472
I can guarantee your form is shit on both those lifts

>>42316911
Fuckin nice congrats
What was your gpa and mcat and clinical experience

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>>42315969
>Hard working father, never finished high school but busted his ass so his kids could have a better childhood than he did
>My Chad older brother asks for all kinds of expensive shit, whatever the popular kids have
>I don't ask for much, I know it's tough to raise 7 kids.
>Dad and older bro are close they both speak Chad. My Dad was a sports star when he was young
>older brother attempts to be a drug dealer, a deal goes bad he gets shot
>Cops are on his case, he flies the country to stay with family overseas
>I join the military to pay for college
>Get a call from Mom saying my brother is in the hospital
>Older bro started hanging with the wrong crowd overseas
>Flashing all the shit my Dad sent him
>His foreign """""friends""""" push him off a balcony and steal his stuff
>He dies
>My Dad is broken, his first born son is dead, they used to talk almost everyday
>He tries to call me more often, I'm not my brother, the bond isn't the same
>He tells me I'm a stranger, that I don't love him because I don't call often
>Every time I talk to my Mom she tells me to call him

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>>42316130

25 years old. Haven't had friends since middle school, also an ugly as fuck kissless permavirgin who has never even asked a girl out.

I've realized that I just completely dislike people. I can only be around people for a short time before I start getting really annoyed and, honestly, pissed off at the shit they talk about and do. Even though I haven't had friends for a decade and no sex at all, I never sit here and cry about not having a girlfriend or friends, and I don't even put an effort in to get either, because I know that if I did get one I would just leave it all. I'm more or less a shut-in, do everything alone, and don't care one bit

I know it's complete autism, and you guys will say that the reason I dislike people is because of the social isolation, and that it's a coping mechanism. That the reason I dislike them is because I am jealous of them and angry that everyone else except me is normal. While this is surely true, I just don't know how to overcome it. And this isn't to say that I'm this guy who everyone likes and I just act aloof and blow off invitations and all that. All I do is crack jokes and they eventually turn from funny to mean/angry as I get more pissed off being around people. I know I'm and asshole and I basically sabotage any possible relationships I can have with random people, coworkers, classmates (when I was in school) from a combination of avoiding social situations and getting so annoyed and pissed off from the start

Hell, I've even been a youth sports referee for the past decade because I literally get paid to piss people off and laugh about it afterwards.

I think it's over for me fit.

>>42318585
I'm actually 30 faggot

>>42318763
even more embarrassing

>>42318777
Not gonna lie, I feel ashamed every time I browse 4chan

>>42316823
>jesus christ
no, it is moses.

>>42318763
Explains a lot

>>42318763
damn dude how did you get to level 30? i'm only a level 7 faggot and i suck strange penis every day.

>>42316524
Never gonna make it

>>42318835
By the time you're 30 and still here, something inside you has died. I'm happy, but there's always this strange feeling that I've seen so much depraved shit that someday I will just fuck my shit up

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>>42317246
>they 7 = you 7
Fuck really? The only girls that hit on me are like <6/10. Oh boy

>>42318266
bitches flake all the time. At least you had the nuts the ask her out and she said yes that's whats going to help you in the future, fuck these hoes man.

>>42315969
>cheapest gym closed down which was 12 eur/mo
>now cheapest gym in 100 km radius is 75 eur/mo
>don't have money to afford that kind of monthly price

i think i'm done with lifting

>>42319015
See that's true in my case too, but I had a few 7-8s and even a 9 show interest in me, so who the fuck knows.

I like to think of it this way, even if I'm ugly, I never hit on an ugly girl, so even if ugly girls hit on you it means you're at least somewhat attractive. I could probably be wrong though.

>>42316073
It's not the drugs you just have some demons bro

>>42318722
I completely dislike people too anon, but I'm the opposite. From the outside I look like I have a large group of caring friends, a gf, and love people and interacting with them. To be honest I dislike most of the people I associate with, and every time I meet someone I usually hate them after a few minutes of talking, despite that I will still talk to them for long periods of time, or continue to have conversations with them well after. With the exception of a few years of being a shut in during high school, I have always been social, friendly etc.

I just can't stand people anymore, but I continue to do it for some reason.

If you are okay with being alone because a dislike of people, accept it. It is no better to be around people when you secretly get annoyed and hate almost all of them.

To be honest I think I only do it so when I am lonely, I have people who like me who I can go out and have occasional really good, and fun moments with, or to give me a confidence boost maybe. The gf is hot so she is basically just for sex and physical contact.

godspeed anon, theres not much you can do from my experience, except either play the game and feel unfulfilled, or be lonely and be unfulfilled.

>>42317246
>be 16
>literal 10/10 interested in me (looked like a model)
>made out many times over course of months
>never fucked because I'm an idiot
Looking back, all signs were there that she would have fucked me if I just tried to escalate.

>be 21 (around 2 years ago)
>18 year old qt hitting on me (7ish/10, 8/10 on her best days)
>sperg out and don't manage to fuck her
Still hate myself for this one... I really fucked up. All I would have had to do was escalate a bit but I was a bitch (and virgin). She invited me over to watch movies and brought us both a glass of wine.... I'm retarded.

>be 22
>go to party
>two girls fighting over who wants to go home with me
>go home with one of them and lose v-card and fuck her on and off for 6 months

>just recently
>8.5/10 very interested in me, constantly blowing up my phone
>fucked her
>seems like she wants more than just fwb
>I'm not interested in relationships so I left it at a fling

>have uggos interested in me all the time
>not interested so I don't persue, even though I know I could go somewhere with them

>been told by guys and girls (not just friends/family) that I'm attractive

This would place me, according to you, at around 8.5/10.

I doubt this..

>>42318493
I'm 28 we started going out when we were 14

>>42318146
I feel like that makes you out to be even a bigger autist

>Go to gym.
>Find out they've moved the Oly platform to the centre of the main floor.
>Can no longer stay in my hidden corner with the best power cage.
>Have to venture out amongst the other gym goers.
>Get warned for dropping my weights.
>Bumper plates, on the Oly platform.
Fucking end me.

>>42317486
I'm trying buddy

>>42319112
>claims to dislike people
>talks with people he "hates" for long periods of time
>is always social and friendly, always has tons of friends, always has a girlfriend (who of course is hot like all guys gfs on fit), etc

is this entire post a joke?

>>42316008

90% of women hate you
10% would date you
Of that 10%, only 1% will love you.

So no shit bro, of course you will face a lot of rejection. That's the whole point.

>>42319015
>>42319073

Idiots, people always want someone hotter than them. 5/10 girls will hit on guys who are 6-7/10, the same way 5/10 guys hit on anything above them.

To be honest, odds are both of you are about 5/10 anyways, because thats exactly what the average is, and most of the girls you do get will be within one or two levels of you, because things like personality, dress, style, make you more or less attractive to certain people.

>even a 9 show interest in me
that doesn't make you a 9/10 just cause you had one show interest
even fucking one wouldn't suddenly make you a 9/10, it means you got lucky and fucked a 9/10.

>>42319142
Fuck.

>>42317441
Fuck man, I don't know how I could go on in your place.
For what it's worth, keep living your life, she wouldn't want yours to end.

>>42319185
I'm fine with being a 5/10 that can get 6-7/10 desu. I just said some hot girls showed interest to point out that even though I'm probably not on their level, I still had a chance with them.

>emotional fuck
>ugly break up with a girl that I thought I would marry and grow old with
>a year and a half later
>feel fine but still get depressed every now and then
>best friend who knows the story and calls my ex a slut
>ex messages best friend saying how sorry she is to him
>friend add her on social media
>get pretty pissed and just fall into sadness

I don't know why I act like this. I love my friend but it just bothers me that he added her and it really pissed me off that my ex said sorry to my friend and not to me. Idk what to do /fit/... should I just grow up?

>>42315969
The only reasonable thing to do is getting revenge OP. If you can't have her, make sure no one else can.

>>42319285
your friend is going to cuck you

>>42319147
Don't be a bitch and slowly lower your weights without making a fuckton of noise, that makes people wonder if the retarded curl bro is ok.

I honestly see more dyels doing it than semi jacked dudes.

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>>42319287

>>42319314
I'm doing powercleans.
I'm not dropping deadlifts from my waist.

>>42319285
>ugly break up
she is gonna fuck him, just to get back at you one more time.

>>42319285
You're right to be mad, she probably wants something with your friend. If he's a good man, he'll ignore her. If they suddenly start being friends, I'm sorry buddy but that's not good.

>>42319319
Hey Elliot, you sexy beast.

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i'm so lonely bros

>>42318275
Not that I dont fully agree with you that the guy needs to man the fuck up, but
>the lack of emotional resilience in this generation is sickening.
goes right back to his parents rising him wrong. It kind of is his parent's fault, not for the little jokes, but for rising him like a pussy.

>>42318687
Similar feels here.
>Middle child.
>Dad is really close with older brother.
>Mum is very close with younger sister, genuinely hates men with a passion.
>Overheard her saying some disgusting shit about me behind my back, can't trust a word she says.
>Dad is basically mute autist in terms of emotions, except around my brother, they do everything together, sports, camping, hanging out.
>I was never invited.
>To this day my dad doesn't call me unless he nerds a hand with something mechanical/technological.
>I genuinely try to get to to hang out and build a bond with him.
>He basically cold shoulders me.
>His favourite son is the literal alcoholic cuckold.

>>42319400
I wish you were a girl near me. I'd gladly take advantage of your daddy issues.

>>42319429
Fuck man, if I wasn't married it'd probably work, but only if you have nice delts and traps.

>>42316650
>What women hate most is self loathing and wailing in pity. ONLY women can do that in relationships.
>Because, for women, facts doesnt matter.
I bet they just LOVE you

>>42317184
Just empty them yourself you fucking animal

>>42317623
>150lbs ohp
>vs
>200lbs squat, 215lbs diddly
Nice imaginary stats anon

I´m a 20, soon 21 year old and currently losing my grip on reality.
It´s hard to follow any conversatios because their words get mingled with my thoughs and I fail keeping them apart.
I already emit that psychopathic aura, only women and dogs can smell.

>>42319373
iktf
>look around
>see 16 year old couples kissing and hugging literally everywhere

is it even possible for a girl to have never been in a relationship at 18 years old

>>42319501
not that anon but
>bench 205x8
>ohp 125x6
>squat 225x8
>deadlift 315x6
I got a poverty squat because of knee problems

Jesus christ you guys are the biggest pussies ever.

We need a war to harden young men up again.

>>42319577
Good stats, but you can see clearly that his stats are off. How does someone have a 70kg (!) and a fucking 90kg squat?

>>42316016
>shopping cart
>poundtown
Fucking lol well done

>>42319609
70kg ohp*

>>42319577
Take your time brah. Do lunges and knee extensions on that weaker leg

>>42319234
Too make matters worse a very good friend of mine just got diagnosed with stage three lung cancer that traveled to or is in his lymph nodes he said he has likes a year left. But you're right these people would want me to carry on

>>42319643
Again, hold in there man, everyone here who's not a sadcunt is here for you.

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>>42318441
>>42317884
this isnt your safespace niggers. its anonymous website, of course people are gonna post random and stupid shit

>>42316016
You have a gift.

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My dog had a litter of 7 puppers, I'm keeping one, and the one that I liked the most that always wanted to cuddle me died a few days ago. The others haven't done anything except cry and look for their sister since she died.

>>42319669
Pretty sure a place for random and stupid shit exist your bedroom and /b/

>On diet as a recovering fat fuck.
>90kg down from 106kg.
>10kg to go.
>Wife has autoimmune disorder that attacks her digestive tract.
>She can't eat a lot of food so she eats a lot of calorie dense food.
>Still can't stay past 50kg.
>Don't miss anything, not even the cheesecakes that used to be one weakness.
>Just miss cooking and eating the same meal together.
>She wants Chinese tonight.
>I can't say no to her.
>End up having wonton soup, steamed chilli chicken and steamed brown rice.
I know I went WAY over my carb allowance, but it was a really good occasion, being able to sit down and enjoy each other's company like that.

>>42317191
lost a gf of 3 years over a phone call, then she blocked me I didnt even do anything >.< i feels with you anon

>>42319722
this whole thread is /b tier

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I removed myself from a toxic relationship yesterday and am spending today bettering myself.

>>42316073
damn man you're a fucking loser lol

>>42317623
le edgy 4chan post XDD

>>42319732
Oh no, you lived a little!

>>42316337
>t.
stop this shit faggot

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>No.42316073

You know you want to.

Just one last time, bro.

>>42319974
>>No.42316073

I honestly hate my girlfriends kid. I hate my girlfriend for having a little bastard child. I wish he was aborted.

I hate my girlfriend for having him. Stupid bitch should have aborted the little fuck instead of being a moralfag.

Im not here to fox another mans mistakes. That's all the kid will ever be, a mistake.

Can curl my qt3.14 ezpz
105lb barbell curl 4 reps, I know it isn't anything to brag about, but it's a good feeling.

>>42319961
I'm sorry, but getting my shit in order is my entire life right now.

Overloading on carbs means I either miss my protein goal or eat too many calories.
Every day I'm not working 100% towards my goal is another step backwards.

>>42316073
>>42319990
>>42319974

WELL SHIT

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>>42317441
I know that feel man. My fiancé passed away last November and nothing is feeling the void. This album helped me

>>42320051
How'd it happen man.

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How long has it been since you guys had a hug from a girl?

(family doesn't count)

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>>42315969

NOT FIT RELATED NOW FUCK OFF

>all these personality disorders
Like building muscle personality changes takes work. You have to try try and try again until you get the result you want.

I am a sarcastic douche. I know it. Every time I say some sarcastic douche thing I think to myself "idiot why did you do that". And oh so slowly iv been changing that, and as a result been more successful in having people tolerate me. Its no instant gane changing event, just like you can go from 50 to 400 lifts you cant go from unliked to liked in a day, but you can change it

Make personality gains anons

>>42320096
2 months

>>42320096
1 week?

>>42318142
subconsciously you wish you had a clingy insane qt3.14 yourself?

>>42320096
like 2 hours ago

>>42317191
>silver lightning
It's silver lining anon 10/10 made me reply

>>42320096
2 years

>>42320266
Thank you friend

>>42316961
I can relate. Everybody thinks that I'm in the closet because I don't date or anything.

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>>42318398
>Fall in love with her.
Ouch, so fucking true.

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>>42315969

I am alone, but not in the way most people think.

>>42320536
Explain?

Saturday feels are coming out, trying to clean up the house but I'm just alone, nobody here at all

>>42320551

When people think of loneliness, they think of not having any friends or family. When I think of loneliness, it is a figurative isolation. I regret that I am about to sound like I'm a "special snowflake" but I have very specific problems and experiences that only I can relate to but it wasn't always that way, as if I were suddenly stranded on a remote island in the south pacific but instead of it being a paradise it has been a living hell over several years. I won't go into specifics but it really does not make for a good story. Regardless, it has shaped me more than anything else in my life.

>>42320080
car accident, she hydroplaned

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>>42320692
start writing novels, 4realz

>>42320692
I think I know what you mean. I'm not a social guy but I have some friends, some family, a gf, but I can't really talk to any of them about the things that are actually bothering me.

Still, better than when I was completely alone. Honestly, if it wasn't for 4chan, as shitty as it is, I probably would have killed myself or went full alcoholism by now.

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>working out, slowly gaining confidence
>have more friends than before
>stable job
>start talking to qt at work
>finally sum up courage to ask her to coffee
>she gives me her number
>go home, text her
>doesn't respond to my message

I feel like shit

>>42320705
Fuck man, shit happens too easily and too often.

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>>42320741
>I can't really talk to any of them about the things that are actually bothering me.

Yeah, that's rings a bell with me. In fact, I've tried that and I feel it only made things worse in the long run. If I had kept things to myself instead of trying to "reach out" for help and being a weak bitch, I would be in a drastically different situation right now. I have a lot of regrets, you can probably tell...

Have a problem, try to fix problem, "solution" makes problem much worse, get over original problem but now have an even bigger problem as a consequence of trying to fix the aforementioned first. The more I struggle, the worse it gets. If this wasn't my life I would be amused.

This is why I envy the usual feelposter here because they really don't know how bad it can get. I know I didn't...

>>42320777
no worries pete I believe in you

>>42320097
Hey I remember you, haven't seen this post in like 6 months.

>>42320051
Was her name alexandra by any chance?

>>42315969
Lmao at your life. You are a neckbeard with muscles.

>>42319338
I can see that. She's petty as fuck.
>>42319308
>>42319348
I know him and he tells me stories of him fucking girls that had boyfriends. Even though we broke up, he knows how I feel about her and I would be pissed if he did. I guess only time would tell...

>>42319050
Join the home gym master race

>>42316073

Racemixer and a prick, kys.

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>>42315969
>match with girl I went to highschool with on Tinder last weekend
>hit it off immediately, get her # and snapchat
>exchange pics, she's gushing about my body, says I'm hella cute
>ask if she's dtf, she says yes
>hit her up a few days later when my parents aren't home
>no response, figure she was probably busy
>messaged her again 2 days ago to let her know that my parents would be gone almost all of Saturday
>radio silence

Do women get a kick out of leading on guys and then ghosting them? Why are they so cruel

>>42320692
how about you explain what you mean?? we sound the same, are you rich/business fag with no life?

>>42321372
>are you rich/business fag with no life?

No, I'm poverty-tier with no life and deeply-rooted neuroticism to prevent that from changing.

>>42320867
It does get bad. You need to let go of control, let happen whatever may. Maybe it'll get worse, maybe better, but it won't matter to you either way.

>>42320007
kys anon. The child didn't have a choice on how he came into the world. You're more of a degenerate than that kid will ever be

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>>42316792
Lost

>>42321397
>You need to let go of control, let happen whatever may.

That is what I keep saying to myself over and over and over ad nauseam but it just doesn't "stick". I obsessively think back to that *slight* thing that pushed me over the edge and how if things had happened just a *hair-width* differently, I would be totally okay today, if not fantastic. Now as it has been since, things have been the very opposite of that hypothetical outcome. I have a very hard time letting go specifically because of the nature of it. Not only directly, but all the countless ways it has effected me indirectly. Countless. It's a burden I've had to carry with me over many years now and I just can't seem to find a way to finally shed it once and for all.

>>42316792

Good post. It's a nice change of pace seeing the jew jew the jew for once.

>>42318142
Dreams are random bullshit when your body is on autopilot. Just a compilation of random bullshit strung together.

>>42316016
Kek

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>>42316792
> when the jew gets GOYIM'd

>>42321497
Regret is your mind's futile attempt to change the past. Try realize that no matter how hard you regret something, or feel sad about it, it's not going to change anything.

I've had situations where I can think back to, where if I'd done something so small differently my life today would be so different and better, but I only know that now, and anything similar that happens in the future, I will only know after the event.

Watching Fight Club as a young teenager taught me a few things about letting go.I still struggle, but at least I have some idea of what to do.

I know you're probably in a miserable pit right now, I hope you find whatever answer you're looking for.

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>>42319669
I don't know what it is about Varg memes that make them so comfy

>>42318142
It means your subconscious mind at least entertained the idea of dating her. You might not like her because you know what she's like, but you might also want the warmth that she can give you, without realizing it.

If you dislike her, that means there's some emotion there, so your mind will pick up on her as significant in some way. Combine that with bypassing the filters that make her unattractive to you, and you have your dream.

Or I could be full of shit who knows.

Sometimes I reminisce about high school and all the girls that I could have had a chance with, a lot of it is cringey
>2011
>265 pound fat fuck but sorta funny as the class clown
>one of the hottest girls comes up to me, i'm talking a 9/10
>she asks me to prom
>I say no out of nervousness because a hot girl like that has never been that upfront with me before
>still think about it to this day
Hold me brehs

>>42321678

You basically summed up what I've known but could not express in words nor accept whole-heartedly. Very insightful, my sincerest thank you.

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>>42318398

>>42321727
I was in the exact same situation, except I was a skeleton class clown, and in 2012. I know your pain bro.

>>42321727

She was setting you up to humiliate you.

>>42321767
No joke had that happen to me before like two times in high school. Made me paranpid about chasing girls but now I don't give a fuck about that. Someone making fun about a guy asking a hot girl out screams insecurity
>hey check this out this guy asked a hot girl out! What a fag

>>42318398
Delete this right now please.

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> got a gf but it feels bittersweet because pic related
I just don't know how to handle being close to someone it's weird

>>42321297
It's just easy for people to ghost. I wouldn't worry about it, it happens a lot especially with tinder.

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>>42318398
DELET

>>42317441
You will make me value my fiancee hugging me tonight. even now your life brings value to the world in this way

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>>42317558
"Legs or hands" why not both my dude, you're obviously upset.

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>>42315969
Went out with some friends last night and I got checked out hard when I was getting my food. I'm not working out for girls... But it was nice. I'm in college but my mom called this morning and I told her about it. Pretty pumped.

>>42315969
>>42316008
Then why are you banging your head against the wall over and over again? You know you can just be like fuck it and focus on other stuff. The memory of being rejected will eventually fade if you don't feed it by getting rejected again and again.

You don't need that shit. let it go. Focus on other things in life. Don't pity yourself and feel bad about your "muh loneliness!!!" Trust me it's better than going through divorce, breakup, getting cheated on and such which is the natural outcome of relationships.

Just stop dating and dreaming about unicorns anon.

>>42316130
>hey do you wanna come to X Y Z with me?
>>no sorry, i'm busy
>ok
then move on

>>42315969

that's why the first fucking time you flirt with a chick you ask her out/solicit her. you don't wait 3 weeks. at least you tried

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>tried gaining weight a few times over the years
>could never go from eating barely anything to eating a lot to gain weight
>have to move in with parents over summer because my uni's accommodation only lasts september-june
>decide to try and work my way up to a proper weight gaining diet over the summer
>start eating a little more throughout the day, an extra sandwich or bigger portions
>not much progress in terms of weight of course, but definitely finding it easier to eat more
>gained a few pounds, but not getting huge in a hurry
>go to grandparents house a couple of weeks ago
>"anon you've gained a bit of weight, it looks healthy on you."
>tfw my grandparents already noticed my efforts
>tfw complimented on my body for the first time

>>42321297

do not ever double text anon, you played yourself

now she probably knows you're thirsty

>>42316792
>a Jewish family becomes a victim of their own gay agenda
LUL

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I can't even begin to start typing how shit my life is/was.
I'm not even sure what's causing it anymore, i think i may just be tired of living without someone who truly cares about me.
>father alcoholic
>parents divorce at 3
>mom works or sleeps
>grow up without any emotional anything
>all my friends were players from online games
>probably emotionally retarded at this point
>mom dies at 16
fucking hate myself for this
>get news in the morning before school
>decide i can sleep and have an alibi that i was sad so i skip school
>i wasn't
i'm now 20 and i don't think i feel any normie emotions, sure i got quite good at imitating expressions that i care or something but in reality i fucking hate people, they're a bunch of retarded whiners.
I don't even know what's wrong but i'm sad.

>>42319183
>1% will love you

we got an optimist over here

>>42316073
Beta af tbqhf

>>42318271
Treat her like she is the most important thing to you, be always there for her.
The key to lose a woman is to surrender to her so she realizes she has you for granted.
Don't forget to tell her that you love her.

Trust me, every woman I told I was in love with her dumped me.

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>>42318398
stop it

>>42318166
You're a pathetic fuck yourself for allowing your mom to move in to your place after GETTING OUR OF PRISON
You should have cut all contact with her already a decade ago.

>>42319314
You are fucking retarded and dont know what you are talking about. You are supposed to drop the weights in weightlifting, you can't fucking slowly put down 90% of your 1RM after you just picked it up off the ground and pushed it above your head. You'll snap your shit up if you don't drop it.

>>42318668
So keep in mind that I am balls old, and did not get in on the first try.
>B.S. +B.A. 3.499 GPA, shitty state school. 30 MCAT, 200 hours clinical volunteering
>apply and fail
>further 100 hours clinical volunteering and shadowing, M.S. Microbio from good state school 3.45 GPA, 31 MCAT
>apply and fail
>become certified EMT, move to new state
>three years of clinical full time experience, take additional courses in A&P at local college, teach myself to read EKG (god bless Dubin), 515 MCAT (~34 on old system), letters written by the department heads at the hospitals that I work at, applied to 25 schools that were chosen by my likelihood of getting in
>got accepted into two, waitlisted at third

It's not the greatest school of all time, but goddamnit I got in. So excited.

We're all gonna make it.