Just here to say I hate my gf

>>42177738
autism

>>42177738
hit her

I wish my girlfriend would even show a proxy interest in the gym in suggesting I go. Instead she shows her visible dis-interest in the matter as soon as any topic relating to the gym comes up.

And I like ball busting. She can knee me anytime.

>>42177738
hit her

>>42177738
Slam doors near her.

>>42177738
Go to the gym, you fucking pussy.

Seems like she's the opposite of a gains goblin.

get a gym bunny to give you form "tips," but secretly record it then when you're with her pretend to watch it so she sees it and she gets jealous

>>42177809
YOU sound like a gains goblin

>>42177738
My gf is more consistent with going to the gym than I am, and constantly encourages me to be more consistent with my workouts. She's p. great.

>>42177738
This seems like a good place to post this shit
I just went to my girms house, and I opened her phone to change the show on her chromecast when some guy texted her "Im at work baby," so I pulled down her notifications and she had a dating app installed, and when I asked she wouldn't show me the text conversation, so I grabbed my shit and left, blocked her on everything. Feel like shit but I know I was right.

>>42177840
That's some shit. Good on you for cutting it off.

>>42177840
You did the right thing. Do not stand for that shit.

>>42177738
it's not "sneaky suspicion," it's "sneaking suspicion." looks like someone's butt should be at the brain gym.

>>42177840
Cut all contact with that slut don't even give her a chance to explain

>>42177840
You did the wrong thing. Girls should get a few free passes every month or so. Shame on you for trying to control her.

>>42177840
You did a good job, anon. I love you, buddy.

>>42177795
>Go to the gym, you fucking pussy.

I'm at the gym right now, you cunt. I was doing deadlifts when that smug bitch texted me.

>>42177884
Ew, dude. Too far.

>>42177893
Then why are you bitching? Fuck.

>>42177906
Can't stop me loving you, anon.

I'll never stop.

Never.

>>42177840

lol

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>>42177856
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>>42177884
Thanks guys, you just made something that hurts like a bitch a lot less painful

>>42177840
Only right thing to do. Good on you for not being a cuck.

>>42177914

Because the bitch is calling me a lazy, napping, schedule-skipping faggot, faggot. Which she hates unlrss she's available for fun, at which point I'm expected to drop all my plans - social and otherwise. Fuck that. She's a control freak, just like ALL WOMEN. If she doesn't like.my being committed to my lifts, she can fuck right off and be fat somewhere else.

>>42177840
>>42177995
Wow having a girlfriend sounds awesome

>>42177995
What video games do you like?

>>42177995
>just like ALL WOMEN

Sorry you've had bad luck, m8

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>>42177960
You did good anon

>>42177738
Jesus Op, upgrade ur phone.
>2017 still using ICS

>>42178015
It is until things go sour, which doesn't happen until one of you loses interest
>>42177995
This guy just has issues with being motivated

>>42177995
You're talking about her encroaching on your gym time, but you're mad at her for wanting you to go to the gym. Fuck.

>>42177995
If you think she is a control freak then why haven't you broken up with, or even started the process of breaking up with her. My soon to be ex gf isnt a gains goblin, but in every other aspect of life, she expects me to put her first. She even expects me to put her first for some petty little 3 hour visit to do stuff together even if it costs me my job. If i refuse or prioritize ANYTHING before her she goes bat shit crazy. Only good thing about her is that she is loyal and is easy to trust when it comes to not being cucked. Probably why she tries to take all of my time all day every day.

TL;DR: I'm venting

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>>42177840
son i am proud

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>>42177840

You ended it like a man.

>>42177770
Almost quids of truth

>>42177840
Good fucking job broski

>>42178060

Ditch her, bro. Girls like that eventually go full psycho on you. She'll ruin your life if you're not too careful.

>>42177738
You are a sub-human piece of dogshit. I would take great plasure in stomping you into mush. Kys now faggot.

>tfw girlfriend is perfect. Loyal, Loving, Cute, etc.

>the only thing i dont love is that shes lazy and skinnyfat, literally refuses to work out

>>42178214
LOL suck my johnson faget

>>42178214
Found the virgin

>>42178225
your situation requires murder

>>42178238
but no

>>42178228
Lol, you don't have one you loser cuck

>>42177840
Go and fuck some chicks now

>>42178231
Yea, it's you normie.

>>42178280
whoa back up son, that's enough. don't say something you can't take back.

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>>42177840
You did good pal

>>42177840
was in a similar situation but I got to see the conversation, there was nothing overt but there was definitely some flirty text. she apologized because she was drunk when she sent them. stupidly I stayed with her. a month later I came home to her fucking a guy. I didn't know if it was better or worse that it was a different guy. You avoided that bud, good job.

>>42178225
>perfect
I don't think you know what that means.

>>42178456
here is chocolate and six million dollars

>>42177738
Tell her you hope she's cooking

dont let this cunt push you around or else in a week she'll be doing 360 spins on Tyrone's cock

>>42178456
you fucked up m8 the "I was drunk" is a terrible fucking lie and not even an acceptable excuse anyway.

>>42178561
yeah I know at the time it was reasonable because when I seen the convo she hadn't text him since that night. we were together for a year and my job kinda strained the relationship a bit due to the hours so I guess it was inevitable in the end.

>>42177995
it's a test
bitches love testing dudes to see if they're weak enough to cave in to their demands

These cunts will do any sort of mental gymnastics to not look themselves in the mirror and say "I did something that was wrong".

Maybe I've got trust issues, but if a chick is admitting to kissing a guy then she probably actually fucked him.

I just can't quite wrap my head around how base of a person you have to be to do this to someone you are supposed to care about. Just reading these stories gets me angry, how do you guys not kill someone when this shit happens?

>>42178741
Yeah I feel you bro. I'm a fragile man-baby too and I have tantrums like that all the time.

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>>42177960
You've freed yourself from a shrieking harpee, you should feel great. That's one step towards making it.

>>42179891
Did you post a picture of what you imagine is you and me and you're comforting me and fucking TOUCHING me bro?

>>42177781
>ball busting
like in the literal sense?
doesn't that lead to health consequences?
do girls actually like it? does the rest of the relationship turn weird or were you always the support partner?

>>42179949
yes, you homo

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>>42179949
Don't ruin the moment.

>tfw ex gf was a legit gains goblin
>got mad because I didn't drop everything and ran to her like a dog whenever she commanded
>working out, comes to the gym and throws a bitchfit about basically how I'm not giving her attention
>I was fucking working 2 jobs, then finding some fucking time to workout,then cook and clean the house because this bitch was too busy with her "girls" and her burgerflipper job
>her girls were just like her, basic bitches with no logic
>wasn't cheating but if this went on, she would've
>next time she comes to the gym like always to nag, I give a shit eating grin, tell her we're done
>she cries and stirs up drama
>gym bros politely tell her to GTFO of the gym, they knew about her drama
>live happily ever after

>>42178669
This

>>42177840

Fuck yeah. Similar thing happened to me with my last girlfriend.

She doesn't deserve a second chance, and guess what? It's going to hurt, and you're going to feel like shit. But always remember that you did the right thing. You will miss her, but that doesn't change anything.

>>42177840
You did good. There is only one thing you can do when a bitch disrespects you by flirting/cheating with other guys, and you did it.

If you go back to her coz you get lonely and drunk one saturday night i will personally kick you in the balls

>>42178225
Only means you arent in good enough shape/charming/well dressed to attract other girls.
Once your gf feels the dread of attractive girls wanting you she will beg you to take her to the gym

>>42177738
You think it's bad with gf? Wait till you wife up, it's no lie that wedding cake make women pack on those pounds or something. And always nagging, "you spend to much time at the gym" "you don't tell my I'm pretty anymore" "why you only fuck me with the lights off" "you need to get a real job" "blah blah bla" fuck if a divorce wasn't so expense and that she'd probably take the kids.

>>42177840
I'm feeling this pain right now. Broke up months ago but only lately the lonely feels have been hitting me.

>>42181250
Other girls flirt with me all the time. My Gf just feels secure

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>>42178296
Woah tip top bantz friendo

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>>42179949
Do you know where you are?

>>42178060
By loyal and easy to trust, you mean she is too obsessive and dependent to consider being a complete person without you. Do NOT fall for the trap.

>>42177995
Why would you live a life with all that stress. Forget about her, go to the gym, and home to grind money to live a life where you can do whatever you want.

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>>42177840
Been there myself. I thought she was the one. She was my fiance even.
Loyalty and fidelity still meant something to me back then I suppose.

>tfw I've cheated on every girl I've had since then because fuck women

I actually admitted to my last girlfriend I fucked a prostitute after our first, second and third date and that during our entire relationship I had a fwb. Should've seen her bawl her eyes out, kek

>>42182250
Nothing to be proud of, you've let them turn you into what you hate.

>>42178324
Whoa,whoa,qqbta,whoa,wait a minute. Get the fuck off my board you fucking loser cuck. You are a failure in life and always will be. Cuck

>>42177777
What did Kek say?

>>42182350
No point in doing the right thing when women don't do it themselves. Why would I willingly cuck myself?

>>42177738
>sneaky suspicion
Dump that stupid bitch lol

>>42178060
Now imagine living together or any situation that gives her more leverage. Do you think there's gonna be accusations of abuse or something like that when you break up?

>>42177874
C U C K
U
C
K

>>42182385
There's like eight other words man

>>42177840
You should've kept it to yourself and cheated on her regularly with her close friends. Then you eventually get caught on purpose. It really makes them mad when they know you haven't cared about them for a long time and that them cheating on you doesn't affect you whatsoever.

>>42182980
You shouldn't've posted

>>42182538
>other women were bitches
>therefore i will hurt innocent women

>>42183009
this...

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>>42183009
>innocent women

>>42178456

but she might have "just been drunk" when she was fucking the other guy. you have to let women off when they are drunk.

and dont you dare try to be a domineering control freak and tell her when she can or cannot drink

>>42177960
Yo dude it fucking hurts like a cunt now but it'll all be ogre soon. Look on the bright side: you'll be able to go meet more birds once you're feeling better

>>42177738
You should ask her sometime why she isn't at the gym. Do it in a blase fashion, no emotion just a 1 sentence question.

And either don't reply or care about those texts. If there's one thing I've learnt it's that women's problems and concerns are always petty pathetic things, you could be busting your ass on an oil rig and break your hand and she'll be the one who's crying when she gets a paper cut, it's pathetic and at times you just need to let it be white noise

>>42183009
No one is innocent.

I thought she was honest. I thought she wasn't like other girls. I was a fool to ever think otherwise. Everyone in this world only thinks of themselves, and if they don't, then they will eventually. I got such a reality check and I suppose I should be thankful of that at least.

Life's been so much easier if you don't have to trust or allow yourself to be vulnerable.

>>42183188
Also bro you need to do a self audit if you're a faggot. I know you're gonna straight up say "no" but put it this way: in your group of friends are you considered the leader? And are your friends chumps or are they respected themselves? Have a bit of a think about it. If you come to the conclusion that you're half a faggot or a bit more than that then there's a higher chance she'll bail on you for someone better

>>42177960
I probably would have hurt way more if you keept the relation and knew she's fucking in the side

>>42182250
You let a bitch affect you mentally, good job.

>>42183188
You're a pussy. You got hurt and now you literally just box yourself in and hide from reality. The worst part is you are hurting people who were just like you, only further creating the vicious cycle

>>42183147
B8

My gf:

>"ugh I'm getting fatter I need to do something about it!"
>does nothing about it, gets upset when I tell her straight I can make her look great if she follows my advice.

Shes lucky she was raised with a small appetite as she is skinny, but very gradually getting a bit more fat on her and its only gonna get worse.

>>42177893

Stats? >>42177906

>>42177840

Well played anon. I'm sure it was hard but moving on was the right choice. Hit the gym and soon enough you'll find yourself a better girl.

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>>42183009
>innocent
>women

Man, I am so happy I've got a gf that will work out with me. She had this crippling autoimmune disease called Achalasia which wouldn't allow her to swallow food or even drink, for that matter. She dropped to about 85 lbs. & that's when I first met her. Was super into her anyway. Then she got the surgery she needed (for free - thanks Canada!) & now she's deadlifting 175. Almost squatting 145 lbs. She even has her favourite lifts - it's great.

With the help of mass gainers & protein, she's jumped 45 lbs. in the past year - & it has pretty much gone straight to her ass, arms & chest. She always credits me with putting her on track to becoming fit & giving her sustainable routines.

Life is pretty good, bruhs.

>>42183464
She sounds like a cunt. I bet her hole stinks.

>>42181275
Being married is basically like having a gf but it only costs more to breakup.

>>42181275
lol fuck your fag kids homo. they're probably fucking each other from the trauma of being molested by you.

>>42177840
You fucking retard, why did you break up with her? Tons of girls get on tinder to just troll pathetic losers like you, she was probably doing the same thing. Hell, I even watch my GF get the hopes of an FA beta up only to crush him. It's hilarious lol.

I dont think I can ever have a relationship ever again.
Its not that Im depressed or w/e but you would be amazed of how many of them fuck around.
I'm fucking a married woman now, shes taking about it with her girlfriends, and they all do the same.
It seems like their husbands are the only ones who doesnt know.

Marrige, kids, whatever...it means nothing to them.

Have your own hobbies. Do whatever the fuck you want, but dont get invested in females.

Its not worth it, not by a long shot.

>>42183802
My pussy smells like a full diaper, sir!

>>42177738
She's encouraging you to workout here you dipshit. And you're still there justifying not doing it on the internet. Waaahhh, a long day of work. Harden the fuck up.

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>>42179949
>Did you post a picture of what you imagine is you and me and you're comforting me and fucking TOUCHING me bro?

>>42183751
>I was just pretending to flirt with other guys lol

>>42179949

there a problem, fag?

>>42183751
you're pathetic lmao she's probably messaging guys when you aren't around

keep thinking she's just messing with guys though and unironically calling them "betas"

iBONER!
iBONER!
iBONER!
iBONER!

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>>42183802
nah, it's just a case of you being a piece of shit who is also drawn to and attracts other pieces of shit. PEBKAC, immature faggot. fuck off and kill yourself.

>>42183282
>It's YOUR job to end this vicious cycle
How about NO you dumb fuck. I do the same. Life isn't your fucking SoL anime , it's a NTR doujin. It is up to you to become the cucker or the cuck.
And while I know it hurts the 1% innocent females, I don't do this to them, just the other 99% "I'm not like other girls" females. And in the end, they aren't upset of me cheating, they're upset that I cheated on them before they cheated on me. it's a fucking game for them, so I decided I'll play too

>>42184124
Wise words.

>>42184124
Yeah you're typing like a sociopath. You have serious trust and possibly mental issues. Seek help.

Being objective, happy relationships where two people don't cheat on each other DO exist. Guess what? You'll never be in one of these relationships.

>>42177738
>Your girl is trying to support you and so you get BUTT FUCKING MAD

You been roiding anon?

>>42184140
Want to suckle on my erect paynus

>>42183751
You're a fag

>>42177874
Stfu cuckboy

"Oh no my gf isn't actively goblining away my gains what do??!?!!!!" Fuck off faggot

>>42177840
Good job man fuck that cunt

>>42177738
please believe this when I say; if i had access to you, I'd smash your head in with a hammer

>>42184338
I'm going to put my penis in your son's cloaca.

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>>42177840
good job man, hope you move on quickly

>>42184338

Fuck you, man. My girl is 15 lbs overweight (and 5'1") and she's always implying I'm a lazy shit if I skip a day while she never works out a day in her life and eats and drinks anything she wants. And she's a hypocrite because although I can't take a day off if I'm too tired, I have to skip gym if she gets off work early, etc. She's insulting, fat, hypocritical and a GAINS GOBLIN. If you can't see that, then fuck you, too. She can wait til I finish my lifts or fuck off. You can just fuck off right now.

>>42184124

You need years of therapy. Many, MANY fucking years of therapy.

>>42184401
so dump her you idiot

>>42184401
>dating a fat demanding dwarf

>>42177995
Yo.

>>42184450

No, I'm going to do what I want and she can wait. I'll fuck her when I'm done my day's tasks. If she doesn't like it, she can shove off. Until then, I'm going to keep her around as my dumpster. I'd love her if she ever stopped being a nag.

>>42182220
>Forget about her, go to the gym, and home to grind money to live a life where you can do whatever you want.

This

a sneaky suspicion?

why would you date an idiot lol.

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>>42183464
fuck off leaf

>>42184493
or you can dump her, not deal with her at all, do what you want, and then beat off for 3 mins when you get home

>>42179949
Can this be a new meme?

>>42183751
You really are retarded

>>42177738
I'm in a different boat here, and I have no idea what I should do.

Girl I was madly (I mean MADLY) in love with - I was gonna wife this chick - recently entered my life again. We broke up before my deployment, years ago.

Now, out of the service, in college, she messaged me completely out of the blue, her old relationship and life completely falling to shit. I still harbor the old feelings I had, but I'm also very, very wary of pursuit.

Fuck the heart. All it does is fuck with me lately.
>captcha
>click the forks
>now click the cars
>now click the parachute
>now click the street signs
Fucking son of a BITCH this shit is annoying.

>>42177995
HAHAHAHA better to have a 6.67/10 under your control than live in 9/10 pussy pedestal hell.

>>42184410
>>42184150
>you need therapy because you have issues
Is that a fact ? Or maybe just some emotional ramblings of someone who hasn't experienced the shit females pull ? Trust me, I've seen them all. I've seen the innocent homely average girl go full tumblr loving dyke in 1 year. All while I was with her like a cuckboy. I've seen the christian "saving herself for marriage" girl sucking off 2 people at a rave. And I've also seen the cute manic pixie shooting up drugs while getting railed by big tyrone. "Mutual Love" is the biggest fucking MEME to ever grace this earth and you are delusional to even believe it. 99% of marriages would fall apart if divorce wasn't so fucking expensive and complicated, and while it might seem a little disgusting, most females aren't happy with their partners.It's not their fault, and males do this too. It's just that there are virtually no repercussions of cheating so everyone is bound to cheat. Why can't I be cautious about it ? Saves you a heartache. If she's a god girl, I'd know and not cheat. But that's never happened.
As I said before, the system of dating is rigged(in female's favour,no less), and they consider this merely a game. I'm just playing along.
And don't give me the "I have a gf and she's nothing like this", because you were more than likely nothing but a free meal ticket/rebound to her before she deemed yourself relationship material, and there is literally nothing stopping her from demoting you to free meal ticket once again. If she's not like that, and genuinely loves you, well lucky you, man.

>>42184720
seek help.

I've been through shit too. You're not the only one who has a rough life you fucking faggot. I've seen men torn apart by women, but I've also seen vice versa, and I've also seen happy marriages.

I've been cheated on in the past. I was angsty and brooding like you until i grew up a little bit. Now I'm in a happy marriage of 8 years and we've both been faithful thus far. In your twisted mind , one of us HAS to cheat or end up cheating because then you can avoid responsibility that YOU were just a cuck that got cheated on. That's why you try to cuck all your girlfriends. Just because you're a little scared bitch.

>>42184925
I don't try. I do cuck them.
>I-It's your fault that you get cucked
yeah nah
Why LARP anon ? I know you are not /fit/, let alone married. Cease your delusions mate, you can't change my mindset and you sure as hell can't make me go to some phony by repeating "seek help sociopath". Might as well admit you're from reddit now, I'm expecting you to use terms like "toxic", "vitriol" in your next post

>>42185001
>I know you are not /fit/, let alone married. Cease your delusions mate,

Man you don't know shit. I'm not the anon you're addressing but even I (and everyone else in this thread) can see that you've got serious head damage and are a cancer in society.

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>>42178079
>>>42177840 (You)
>son i am proud
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>>42183251
Anonymous replies from random people on a Japanese image board may not seem like much, but it means a lot to me

>>42185019
Oh thank you anon, you finally made me realise what a faggot I am. Might as well kill myself now right ?
Writhe in impotent rage retard, I'm gonna enjoy this lifestyle until I'm 28, then I'm gonna settle down and marry some actually innocent girl.
And here's the kicker, you can't do shit about it.
Wonderful how some faggots are raging over some anonymous person's life. you can't get a thinner skin than this.
>"b-but think of the innocent qt 3.14 grills ree"
LMAO, don't go posting your sorry ass on /r9k/ when you get cucked by tyrone and co., and don't go "women are evil ree", we already have enough of those losers

>>42185130
>Wonderful how some faggots are raging over some anonymous person's life. you can't get a thinner skin than this.

No one here is raging. We're just saying that you're the one who is really off the deep end and are filled with fear and hate. It's a pretty fucked up way to roll through life, but hey, it's your life to waste. And if anyone belongs on /r9k, it's you. You sound like their patron saint.

>>42185212
Not the guy your talking to but, i have rage for you and every faggot on this board. YOU are all cancer and YOU should all be wiped off the earth. Kys now you fucking faggot.

>>42185254

I haven't even staked out my own position. How can you rage against me? Or do you just rage reflexively against anyone who isn't emotionally deranged and venomous towards women?

>>42185212
>seek help ! !
>You're a cancer !!
>Sociopath ! !
>Head damage ! !
>Need therapy ! !
If this isn't salt, I do not know what is. You seem awfully..bothered by my life choices, I reckon, are clearly touchy about the subject of being cucked. You need to think, am I the one insecure about getting cheated on , or is it you faggots ?
It seems that in a way, I have cucked you too.

>>42185321

B-but anon you are a sociopath. That's uncontroversial and clinically assessable. And sociopaths need help. Therapy would seem to be in order, if not something even more intense. Virtually everyone would regards you as emotionally damaged, so head damage is exactly what you suffer from. Again, boringly uncontroversial as an observation. I hope one day you lose the hate and get the help you need. Try not to feel so jilted by life.

>>42185399
>Hate
What are you talking about man, If I was full of hate, I wouldn't get gfs in the first place, let alone cheat on them. I love my life, have a steady job, i just cheat on my gfs. how exactly is that being full of hate ? Is the society these days so fucked that a male doing some shit which females pull all the time is considered sociopathic ?
Offence is the best defence and all that. And yes, all women I cheat on do admit in a fit of rage and hysteria that they actually had backup plan orbiters they were inevitably gonna cuck me with. Stop acting like I genocided 6 shekellion females, or made them single mothers, or left them after marrying them.I am just abusing the dating system and the whole "love emotions" crap, like women do.

>>42185399

You should stop responding to that guy. If you can't tell by the way he's posting, he's clearly mentally perturbed.

Some guys will have their views of women permanently fucked up by bad relationships, I guess.

>>42177995
>lifting for wimmen

>>42177738
>getting this upset over a girl giving you a small tease
Jfc you must be an insufferable faggot. She's being playful you idiot.

>>42185538
Yeah, not the women's fault ever though !
Fucking "men", emotionally broken by innocent women and then seeking for shit to fix the heartache, fucking faggots !
Relationships aren't bad, people are.It's okay to admit that some men get emotionally fucked and dead inside after bad WOMEN fucking their shit up.

>>42185659
Wrong thread

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>spend years becoming /fit/ as fuck
>meet a pretty cool chick
>she's in an open relationship
>she's already told me she wants the D
>she's trying to organise it for this friday

do i do it brehs?
anybody offer any insight into what this open relationship bullshit is?

>>42185743
Don't. Open relationships are pretty much the pinnacle of cuckoldry besides actual cucking.

>>42185578
(You)

>>42185802
I'm not the guy in the relationship

she just wants some of my D

is this acceptable?

>>42185743

Have some self worth man, you don't want do bang some degenerate and let her reap the rewards of your hard work.

Just keep lifting and looking around for the right woman, when you know it's right your body will be all for her.

You'll make it friend, don't worry

>>42185827

If you care about not being a degenerate then don't.

If degeneracy means nothing to you because you aren't an autist, then smash as much as you can in a short space of time then get the fuck out before you get caught in the crazy.

>>42185743
it means you can fuck that pussy without consequences. don't expect more than that tho

>>42185674
M8, do you not read what you are writing?

You're letting a single woman break your spirit completely. Nobody ever said its never a woman's fault. That doesn't change that you openly admit to happily hurting women.

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>5'1"
>30 HIIT at the kickboxing gym 2-3 x week
>1-3 mile jog every 1-2 weeks
>Weighs somewhere in the 120s
>21 years
>meal preps and understands nutrition

>eats tons of sweets
M&Ms or ice cream every day

I think she looks great and I tell her all the time, but how much change would there be if she cut the sugar? She talks about wanting to lose weight

Also how do I get her interested in big 4 weightlifting instead of chick lifting with low weight and weird movements

>>42185827
It'll probably make you just disappointed and feel empty inside afterwards if you do it. Though, if not, then whatever

>>42178060
The easy to trust thing is hard to find, but freedom to be an individual is also important. Sometimes you have to sacrifice shit to make a relationship work.

>>42185875
Just cut them anyway. It's for the best

>>42181275
Maybe you should learn how to control your bitch, you nagging pony

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>>42182166
Damn, so true it hurts.

>>42182587
Hopefully not. Never laid a finger on her. Im not a insecure beta cuck who beats woman. Most ive ever done was forcefully grab her wrists as she was trying to throw my glasses out the window during a verbal fight.
(Did i mention she refuses to suck dick but expects to be eaten out every time we fuck)
Today is the day guys. Time to move on.

>>42183188
You're just as much fucking scum as her, you dumb faggot. Maybe your shit personality is attracting cheating whores? There are women out there who will not cheat on you, you sperg

>>42184629

Block her and delete all of her contact info.

>>42177738
>a sneaky suspicion

dump her bro

>>42185130
You make out these anons to be pussy faggots, but you're the whiny bitch. Maybe tell your ego to fuck off and move on. Have better judgment and find a woman who won't cheat on you

>>42185674
What are you, a woman? Jesus christ

>>42184629
I mean, nagging is just something wives and mothers do simply because they're worried for you. No reason not to get back together as long as she hasn't cheated on you with anyone

>>42185870
I am not this guy. But yeah,I admit to hurt MOST women who are inevitably gonna cheat on me, and in turn, hurt me. I am merely looking for the perfect innocent woman, I do not hate all women, if you get that impression. I have mentioned marrying one IF I ever find one, until then, fuck ,cuck and chuck it is. I am just saying that 99% of women are whores and I am not gonna make myself vulnerable to them.
>>42186072
He isn't wrong. If you think your girl is happy with you , you are in some rude fucking awakening man. Don't get me wrong. In my ideal world, loyalty and fidelity is supreme, and nobody cheats. But sadly it is just a dream, and there is always one guy better than you just waiting to get noticed by your girl. this isn't a fairy tale you dumb fuck, women get bored.
>>42186128
That's what I am doing. I'm just cheating on the ones who would cheat on me. That is my whole fucking point.

>>42185399

Think about what you are trying to accomplish here. Now think about what you are actually accomplishing. Now think about this guy's reactions to your posts

Stop replying to the idiot, you shitbird

>>42185499
>I love my life, have a steady job, i just cheat on my gfs. how exactly is that being full of hate ? Is the society these days so fucked that a male doing some shit which females pull all the time is considered sociopathic ?

Nutcase confirmed. You have a really shitty social circle, mate.

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>>42185674

>All these replies
>Thinks he's not being controlled by women

>>42177825
YOU sound like a gains goblin

>>42186175
>That's what I am doing. I'm just cheating on the ones who would cheat on me
How dysfunctional can you be? You complain about cheating bitches, and then you tell me you PURPOSELY seek out women who will cheat, and then you cheat on them before they get the chance (Though, how you determine whether or not the woman will potentially cheat is probably fucked up and biased as all hell) How about having a loving relationship with someone who won't cheat on you, you spas?

You're fucked in the head, m8.

>>42177738
Shes telling you to hit the gym, that's the opposite of a gains goblin. Stop being a shitter and go to the gym.

>>42185499

Generally speaking, the actions of other individuals are not an excuse for equally immature behavior. That is the thinking of a child.

>>42186175
>if you think your girl is happy with you, you are in some rude fucking awakening man

I legitimately pity you. I hope for your sake and your future romantic partner's sake, you get the help you need.

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>>42186175


>all this projection

>>42186175
>women get bored.
Maybe it's you who is boring. Maybe consider that you are the problem here, since it seems to be following you

>>42177738
You guys are all autstics why aren't you seeing /fit/ girls.
If you have no /fit/ girl just kill yourself

>>42185743

kek

its all fun and games until the actual boyfriend gets jealous and reaches for his glock

>>42186175
You lack creativity. If your only way of dealing with girls that you believe will cheat on you is by cheating on them, then its time to step your game up. How about you date a chick until they ACTUALLY cheat.
>if they actually cheat on you, you insecure fuck

Once you find out then devise a plan for maximum pain.

Example:
>get old shoe box
>take unwashed boxers after gym and place them in the box
>write "witty breakup phrase" make sure to incude that its because she cheated
>wrap the box up as a gift
>call her "hey gf i got you a surprise for when you get home"
>block her in everything
>get all of the shit you own and leave

Give or take the sweaty underwear. If the bitch cheats in you shes not even worth the 60 cent on that one pair of boxers.

>>42186340
>>42186282
>>42186270
>>42186214
>>42186262
>>42186201
The (you) farming is good today. Joke's on you, I never had a single gf, it was all an elaborate bait. I was merely pretending to be a mentally deranged asshole chad. Do you really think I'd cheat on some gf , let alone get one ?
LOL jokes on you my dear friends, for you've been taken on a ruse cruise by yours truly. I actually respect women and people in general and merely like to enjoy the emotions I stir up in anonymous people on internet imageboards, really is amusing, albeit a bit sad because I am lonely and just need a tomboy to gently stroke my hair and tell me everything is gonna be fine. I am sorry for wasting your time and swindling you out of your (you)s. I hope you forgive me, but if you don't I'll go lift and come back and obviously you'd have forgotten it was me. Again, I am sorry for baiting, just wanted to poke a little fun at the thought process of anons in 2017.

>>42186431

Because they're not /fit/ themselves. The also lack the sense of self worth that comes with the discipline of maintaining fitness. They latch on to the first cunt that strolls along showing interest without realizing that they can afford to wait and get the girl that they'll want.

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>>42186494

>>42186494
You should make use of paragraphs, Anon. Your posts are awful to read in the format you use

>>42186494
Fuck you. Haven't seen bait of this quality in a while. I really though you were an asshole who didnt understand cheating on a cheater doesnt solve shit.

>>42186494
>haha i was le epic bait

meh. Tons of people on here think the way you do.

>>42186494

>making shit up just for replies on a Peruvian fish bathing forum

sorry pal, it's still autism

>>42186530
Oh, I'll be sure to keep that in mind, english isn't my first language so I still struggle with formatting among other stuff.
>>42186539
Thank you for appreciating my bait, it was definitely one of the longer running baits I ever did. I attend drama classes in my free time so I really got in this "broken demented asshole" character, it helped me mature, in a way. Emotions are fickle, I hope I never get to that point. Just gotta keep carrying on
>>42186550
yet you still keep giving me (you)s. tell me, was getting baited part of your plan ?

>>42186767

>yet you still keep giving me (you)s

Can you explain how this is a negative action?

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>>42186494
Trolled and loled

>>42186785
Don't get me wrong. It isn't, it is merely an indicator of the fact that my posts intrigued you, or affected you in some way to warrant a reply. it is in no way a negative action, but a signal for me that my "bait", or intelligently crafted lie affected you enough that you started responding to my posts, in hopes of deterring, or discouraging, or insulting this negative , sociopath persona I portray through my posts.
If my bait was about some girl having trouble with deadlifts and my abusive boyfriend who I have to live with because I am not very rich, I'd have gotten (you)s, but for different reasons. I like to observe what personas I can portray, and what kind of emotions can I invoke in people.

>>42185743
Do it

Fuck her and have fun

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>>42186494
>I am lonely and just need a tomboy to gently stroke my hair and tell me everything is gonna be fine.
Don't we all

>>42186856

Ok, but you phrased your statement in a way that implied he shouldn't be replying to you. What is he losing that you value so much in taking?

>>42185743
why not just fuck her? seems like there's no real downside

>>42186893
Nothing tangible. If a switch is flipped to turn a lightbulb on/off, what's the switch losing that the lightbulb values so much in taking ?
Furthermore,"keep giving me (you)s" is basically me expressing that anon is still replying to me about my bait, which in turn implies that my bait must be good, so in a way I was tooting my own horn, or acknowledging the fact that I did create a beautiful and intricate lie today.

>>42179949
Oh fuck my sides

>>42186993


Obviously it's nothing tangible, we're replying to each other on an internet forum. You have placed a value on the reply you received, a reply that came after you revealed your post was bait. Your light bulb analogy falls flat because it is an inanimate object, while you are consciously choosing to present a stimulus in order to garner a response.

As I stated in my previous post, you implied that he shouldn't be responding to you. What does he lose and what do you gain with this action?

>>42184560
I'm saving it for future feels threads

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>>42177738
This is how I encourage my bf to do good though.
"Hey lazy fuck, go lift or I'll fuck Chad again"
"Wow, 2 scoops of ice cream? Who do you think you are?"
It's just bantz, I don't see the issue.

>>42183657
No not true, when you're married you get to have s*x

>>42182250
kekekekeke, I knew my ex was "talking" to her ex so I cheated on her with 4 girls. I even fucked them before or after she took my cock. This went on for a month. I told her everything last Christmas. She called me an asshole.

>>42184150
suck dick cuck. If you have a gf, you're probably all into the image of her you have in your head. And unaware of the reality

>>42177840
Well done lad. I've been there and did the same.

>>42182538
Cool, so you act like a histrionic woman. You really showed the woman that hurt you.

>>42185130
Im with you.

>>42184124
>And in the end, they aren't upset of me cheating, they're upset that I cheated on them before they cheated on me.

Or they actually are mad you cheated on them in general. You say life isn't an anime, but you sound like an edgy anime character. Still waiting for the
>nothing personel, kid.

>>42187575

See

>>42186494

You lazy cunt

>>42187575
Here's your "nothing personnel,kid" >>42186494
you newfag
>2017
>not knowing bait-kun

>>42185674
>Yeah, not the women's fault ever though !
There isn't a woman on here bragging about it. You're out in the open, claiming crazy shit and then complaining no one is faulting the girl.

>>42179949
you know you need it

>>42177840
you did the good thing anon

>>42179949
holy shit i havent laughed this hard in a while. thanks man

>>42177738
Tell the bitch everytime you go she has to go too

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>>42177809
This. Very jelly.

>>42177874
Look at all of these (you)'s these fags are posting on a sarcastic post

>>42177840
Ya did good, son

>>42183147
shit b8 man, you're not even trying

>>42184510
kys you mentally ill faggot

>>42177770
lmao

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>>42177840
You did the right thing anon

>>42187837

What is the value of these "(you)'s"?

>>42185743
Stop enabling slut behavior, you're contributing to the problem.

>>42183001

Eh, he's right you know

>>42186472
>If the bitch cheats in you shes not even worth the 60 cent on that one pair of boxers.
nigga where u live that boxers cost 60 cent? the fuck man

>>42177995
Tell her to stop...?

>>42178060
man after reading all your guys problems, im sure glad my girl isnt controlling

>>>42177777

testing

>>42177770
one day anon

>>42177840
>falling for the vaginal jew in the first place
at least you came to your senses

>>42177995
Maybe you should take this problem up with her instead of posting about it passively aggressively on 4chan?

>also
>women
>good for anything

>>42186470
>cucks
>owning guns
pick one

>>42186058
>can't control and dominate women, is afraid to lay a finger on them and put them in their place
>insecure beta cuck
you?

>>42177738
chicks huh?

>>42178015
Agreed.

Lots of lonely guys want to not be alone.
Well, the other side kinda sucks and, in my humble opinion os completely not worth it.

date a physical therapist so she can nurse you through injuries

>>42186494
Knew it
You aren't very good at this

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>>42183464
Sounds like the dream buddy

>>42187575
>Or they actually are mad you cheated on them in general.
That includes:
>>And in the end, they aren't upset of me cheating, they're upset that I cheated on them before they cheated on me.
Plus perceived loss of control on her side.
Plus the realization that her motives are no secret.

So you're not wrong, but he isn't wrong either.

>>42177738

I'm a tall white guy and my gf is Asian and always drags me to this predominantly Asian gym because she wants to piss off the "Asian men" there. It's extremely weird and it feels like she is just using me to work through some weird sexual-racial personal issues. But the sex is really good and she gives me foot massages all the time so who cares.

>>42188720

It's the closest thing these losers have to a social life. They'll take what they can get.

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>>42193436
that's brutal

>>42177738
My girlfriend just started lifting and says she likes my muscles and that I'm the most masculine guy she's ever liked. She even actually takes interests in my /fit/ and /o/ related hobbies. I like this one, the last one was a snobby, impossible bitch. Just go find a good one.

>>42183802
Stop fucking a married woman and try to find some other company. In other words try to find evidence to the contrary. Come on,bro, go on and win!

>>42193497
thats just hive mind the first one said no so all of them have to also say no of fear of being outcast, how dumb are you?

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>>42177840
Only correct course of action, fuckin' a.
Had similar situation, did the same, no regrets.

>>42184645
facts

>>42185743
don't overthink it bro. Just went on a tinder date last night with a poly tatted t h i c c girl and we had wine, saw music, had good convo and some fun sex. What's the worst case scenario?

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>>42180276
Nice mate
Be sure to buy your gym bros a scoop or two for having your back and slaying that gains goblin.

>>42185743
Had a similar opportunity come up once with this nice looking bitch on tinder, she told me she was married but that they had an open marriage so she was down to fuck, I wasn't entirely sure if she was being for real or if she just didn't want to admit to be cheating, either way I regret not going through with it, just like you will if you don't fuck at least once

>>42177840
been there but didn't handle it nearly as well, didn't actually manage to cut off contact for another month or so, so well done!
Took me roughly a year to get over her. Maybe would have been less if I had started lifting sooner.
Good luck man!

>>42177840
it's 100% the right thing to do. If you miss her and think contacting her again is the right thing to do; DON'T. It won't work and you'll regret it.

>>42177738
>falling for such an obvious shit test

Never gonna make it

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>>42177874

>>42177995
ALL OF THEM
>REEEEEEEEEE

>>42177770
kek

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>>42179949
oh god thanks for making my day

>>42193436
dude im in a similar boat. we don't go to a gym with lots of asians but she frequently makes fun of them when they look at us and get visibly butthurt

>>42182350
Not hate.

Understand.
The world sucks.
It is what it is.

>>42177792
lmao

>>42182538
Not that guy, but for me It's more a not giving a fuck, rather than doing it to women.
I don't think I would have told her tho, just to see her cry is a bit psychopathic, but infidelity I do understand.

>>42183001
He is very right.

>>42179891
>>42179949
you know what, put me in the screencap

>>42187519
Aaaaaaaand this.

>>42177837
Sounds like me, but my bf is a DYEL twink and will never be consistent

I remember when my last ex didn't want to go to the gym with me one Saturday night and said she wanted to visit an old male friend to chat.
That was also the time where she added a couple of guys from her work to her phone and texted with them all day, showed up 4 hours later than planned because she was "out with the guys from work" doing some "drifting" shit (literally just driving through a snowy parking place).

I'm 100% sure that girl didn't cheat, but I got the fuck out of there.
Once this weird process begins where you are kind of begging to have doubts the whole thing is over for me.

The problem is that it's normal for people to have friends of the opposing gender, to chat with them and to even meet up with them.
It's hard to draw a line.

>>42184720
>"Mutual Love" is the biggest fucking MEME
while you really do sound bitter as fuck, even though you try to convince us otherwise, i have to agree with the above.
it's all about who's invested more. there's no "mutual love". one person always loves the other person more.
when you are 28 and find your innocent girl, just make sure she loves you more than you love her.

>>42184401
I feel like we're not getting the whole story did you tell her that you wanted to workout and you had goals because otherwise shes being helpful and your being a fucking faggot

>>42193497
Holy fucking kek!

>>42193497
The question was so stupid and obvious that they just laughed? Or what?

>>42196709
>The question was so stupid and obvious that they just laughed? Or what?

You don't find the question laughable and the answer self-evident? Asian men are the least desirable of any race / gender combo out there.

>>42196729
I think indian men are probably even less desirable than actual asians.

>>42177840
You will come far in life.

>>42196653
The biggest question in life to me right now: how can you be less invested in a partner? How do you care less? How little should you care?

It seems that I value my partner way too much.
I don't talk to other girls or flirt with them while in a relationship.
I don't add women I meet on work or wherever to my phone.
Not because I feel like I have to, but because I just have no interest in them when I am in a commited relationship.

It's alienating to be with a partner that is more normal in that regard and does do all these things.
But that's just because i care too much, I guess.

>>42196729
Is it THAT bad?

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>>42185074
>>42177960
>>42177840
you did good lad, hope you feel better.

repress the anger and release it when lifting to make good gains

>>42193497
That reaction is fucking brutal man. I don't think I'm gonna make it, lads.

>>42196744
that's not normal. That just means what your "normal" has been has historically been shitty people. Don't commit to acually BE in a relationship until you know they WONT do those things.

>>42193497
top kek

>>42186494
>all these salty anons reply for half an hour then tell you how shit your b8 was after

>>42196809
Idk man, there are so many things I see differently than people on /adv/ for example.
Many would tell you wanting to text your partner throughout the day is weird - expecting your partner to reply at all during work is obsessive and oppressing, because you force them to risk their job or some shit.

I remember how the shit-show started with my last ex.
She picked up a job where she was driving a rescue car - so during work there was no communication, which is probably understandable.
She always had guys her age with her, on weekends she told me how super fun it is and how they make these jokes about each other and tease each other.
And show now has them in her phone and texts them throughout the day and she wants to party with them on weekends etc.
That coupled with the fact that we saw each other 1 in 14 days because she kept wanting to go to some parties just pushed me into this state where I had no choice but to end it.

What a shitshow relationships are, I have so many thoughts to this topic and I can't express them properly.

>>42196945
how old are you mate?

I'm guessing around 20?

I don't want to sound condescending, but this is a SUPER easy piece of advice that will help you forever.

if a girl is in a situation where

1) her profession is dominated by men
2) a lot of her friends are men
or
3) She goes to a lot of parties

just bail immediately. Don't bother. You went with a woman who had red flags all over and committed like a goof.

Just get with a fucking nurse or an ECE where they're surrounded by women and do their job because of morals.

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>>42177770
>>42177777
Close

>>42197017
22, yeah.

The thing is, both long term cases I dated to far both did not party much and did not have much contact to other males at the beginning.
Both drifted into it at around a 1 year mark.

At this state I am allergic to this process now.
Everytime I will witness this process in a relationship in the future I will litterally abort.
When there are too many factors coming together that imply that the process is happening (like I described in my last post) my gut feeling literally makes me sick and I just have to move on.

I want to draw a conclusion out of this experience to badly, however the only one I found so far is that I never went to date an insecure woman again.
I thought that makes them more like me, mentally, introvert as smaller social circle.
But most of them aren't like that by choice, like I am, but more because of their issues. And once you help them get over their issues a little by comforting them and giving them validation and affection, it turns on you, since the change.
Suddendly more outgoing, suddenly they have to have friends and guy friends, etc.

>>42197144
sounds like you got really unlucky man.

I got lucky and my 3rd GF was the keeper. Third times the charm!

>>42197178
How often do you see each other? How long have you been together?

>>42197203
about twice a week. We had a little bit of a mini seperation because I just needed to be alone when my dad died from cancer, but its been about 4 1/2 years now.

We're at the point where we're just sorting out the details before getting married and what not.

>>42197242
Whew, two times a week consistently would be a little dissatisfying to me.
But I guess as long as you both like it that way you are golden.
Any concerns about how living together and seeing each other every day will change things?

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>>42179949
>tfw you can't cure autism

>>42197289
We're both super introverted so we just kind of do our own thing, even when she's here. I know for most people that causes issues but I think we'll handle moving in together really easily due to the fact that we just kind of like knowing the other person is nearby, we aren't really attached at the hip like most couples are.

the only thing I really worry about is dealing with how messy our place will be.

> tfw the longest relationship you've had ended because she used your father dying as an excuse to cheat on you

>>42177790
>>42177792
fucking kek
>>42177840
Of course you were right.

>>42197428
I'm sorry anon :(

how old were you? I can't relate to the cheating, but I can relate to the dad part. I lost mine when I was 18.

>>42177792
but thats physical abuse!! he could get in trouble with the law

>>42177814
OP something along these lines would be the best. then she will choose to turn up

>>42177874
(you)

>>42177906
I love you.

>>42183001
so so right

>>42183751
>>42183751
cuck

>>42183828
hes doing it, hes just complaining about her double standard

>>42185130
please do kill yourself. but live stream it somewhere and post links

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>>42185321
>If this isn't salt, I do not know what is
he said we weren't raging. way to change the goalposts there. the fact you need to kinda shows how emotional and stupid your argument is

>>42197979
>>42197949
KYS my newfriend >>42186494
now go on and tell me how his bait was weak and you knew it was bait all along and just replied anyways

>>42186893
he gets what he wants. the other guy keeps giving him this while trying to tell him he is shit at getting it. you must be fucking new here