Why is it dumb to lift for pussy ?

because you think you will get this but get this instead.

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yes
a true man lifts for his prince

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>>42170807
I thought about vegeta while getting my last rep on squats today

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>>42170816
he'd be proud of you

>>42170776
very low roi in general and after noob gains diminishing returns kick in hard

if you undesirable by default, you are better off acquiring status and money to attract sloots

if you are lanklent with nice facial features with passable bf%, why are you spending time in the gym instead of getting your dick sucked?

I dunno it's the only reason I'm lifting and I still make gains. I'd honestly prefer to be skinny but I look really young and I'm tired of being alone

I am 6'1 165lbs and i love boning my petite gf 4x a week.

after becoming fit i finally got laid some and had some girlfriends.

Its only worsened the deep hole inside me. I've come to realize that most relationships are not a team, but merely two people trying to manipulate the other person into doing what he/she wants him to do. Whoever is better at this has the pants on in the relationship and makes the decisions. So basically, who is stronger will take what he/she needs and the weaker part will have to look to match.

This deeply saddens me.

All i want is a girlfriend whose first thought is "what is best for him" instead if "how can i get what i want out of him" but it seems to me that relationships simply work because both try to take advantage if the other person.

thanks for listening to my blog, this shit has been buzzing in my head for a long time

Am i just a faggot and should i just dominate my next gf so it works (i know how to do that) or is it worth waiting for a girl that will actually do things to make me happy not because it would be followed by immediate negative sanctions if she didnt?

>>42170871
>4x a week.

ho do you know when a thot is cheat?

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I am lifting for faggots's asses, so no.

>>42170776
Pussy comes and goes, lifting needs to be a regular activity and be maintained for a long time.

>>42170891
Not the same guy but my advice is to just make it clear at the beginning of a relationship that you're not willing to give second chances when it comes to cheating.
If you're paranoid about it and push them all the time about it you're just going to find yourself without a girlfriend or one who cheats on you out of spite. (This happened to a buddy of mine)
You will find out eventually, and when you do don't do the whole "okay let's talk it out" bullshit, just get your things and delete their number.
I've been in relationships where I tried to work things out and it is miserable. Once the aspect of trust is gone from a relationship you're just bailing water with a bottle cap.
I had another girlfriend get drunk and "just kiss" a guy, told her I'd be by the next day to collect my things, didn't say a word to her, deleted her number and I don't think about her at all.
Probably a good thing because my current gf is fantastic and is into the same things I like while also having her own hobbies.
Just watch out for those thots and don't cut them any slack.

>>42170776
Lifting for pussy as an objective is a poor goal IMO.
Lift to better yourself and see the pussy as added benefit along the way.
Also girls can tell if you're lifting to overcompensate for your social anxiety around a vagina, cut that shit out nigger.

>>42170872
You don't need to dominate her, just be indomitable.
Either she's with you or she's not, it's entirely up to her

>>42170872
I think you need to start putting your foot down early on. Most girls who aren't cunts can be dominated in one way or another. Make her know that you are in charge and if she wants her back scratched, she needs to scratch yours first. And when you do reward her, do it so well that she'll want to earn it again as soon as possible.

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Is lifting to kill imaginary multidimensional creatures better than lifting for pssy? what about lifting for traps?

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You want the truth? I'll give it to ya

Because majority of women aren't even turned on by appearance, unlike us men. Look it up.

Not only they are clueless when it comes to fitness but the ones that are into it generally are just using it as an excuse for self validation (while also being clueless about it).

To be quite honest if you are doing something for women there are far better options other than being into fitness. Focus on getting money, fame, social status,and being a good liar if your end game is pussy.

>>42170872
Don't look for relationships in stupid fucking places anon. Girls who are looking for a relationship are looking for something from you. Girl who aren't looking for a relationship are independent and will not manipulate the shit out of you. Join a local soccer league. Join a YMCA/boys and girls club as a coach. Go play in an local orchestra. Go to the library. Volunteer. Find someone who wasn't expecting you.

Because you're lifting for validation. You'll forever feel inadequate because you need someone else to essentially tell you that you did good.

Lift for yourself.

>>42171027
>Because majority of women aren't even turned on by appearance
Do you actually believe this?

>>42171027
>Focus on getting money, fame, social status,and being a good liar if your end game is pussy.
we have a winner, being /fit/ will help but without the rest of it you have nothing.

>>42171381
I never understood the go to a library for girls thing. Go there and what? Interrupt the girl that's just trying to enjoy her book in peace?

>>42171013
>What about lifting for traps?

Well at that point you are just a Schrödinger's faggot. Lift only for yourself.

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>>42170776
Because all the lifting and muscles in the world won't get you any girls if you remain an autistic, awkward Melvin shut in his room playing the vidya gaem all day.

Because girls don't give a fuck about your body as long as you're not fat or skinny. All the mirin stories you read here are fake.

>>42171409
>>42171409
Not only do i believe this, i *KNOW* this. Its not an opinion, its a fact. Good looks helps, ofc, but its a minor thing to girls. By claiming otherwise you're only revealing how inexperienced and uneducated you are in this aspect of life. Social status is pretty much the only thing women respond to, regardless of what they might say. Look up mating preferences in humans, this has been thoroughly studied

>>42171487
>Good looks helps, ofc,
Thanks for contradicting yourself immediately.

>>42171469
>Schrödinger's Faggot
>both gay and not gay until he puts his penis in

>>42170872
>all I want is a girl that puts my needs first because I also put my needs first and it's important to be on the same page with your partner

>>42171512
ADHD fag with zero attention span has little success with women. What a surprise. Please, continue to believe you are at a level where you can actually discuss this with me as an equal

>>42170871
>4x a week
I have fwbs i fuck more often than that lol

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>>42171534
>Please, continue to believe you are at a level where you can actually discuss this with me as an equal

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>>42170947
>girlfriend get drunk and "just kiss" a guy, told her I'd be by the next day to collect my things.
You did good anon

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>>42171487
>By claiming otherwise you're only revealing how inexperienced and uneducated you are in this aspect of life.

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Because I want to have it all for myself.

It's all about mindset. Personality and character can make up a lot between the lower and higher percentage bodyfats. Being shredded can increase your likability because you're more confident, but it's not a guarantee. Lifting doesn't cure autism.

>>42170776
Lifting for cock is sublime

Went from being fat to otter mode then got fat again.
Got lots of attention when ottermode, still get lots of attention now that im fat again.
It's legit all about confidence and the way you present yourself. I do have a good face and don't store much fat there though, and I keep my hair well.

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>>42170947
I caught my last gf texting some guy about cuddling and I broke her phone told her to gtfo and never ever fucking contact me again. Blocked her on everything. 2 years thrown away in an instant

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>>42171560
Prove me wrong then
>You cant

>>42171604
Good, proud of you anon

>>42171615
T-thanks you too

>>42170776

Pussy is not the goal. The goal is to live a rich, fulfilling, and good life. If you do that, the pussy comes to you. Don't worry, you have time still.

Why do all you dumb faggots need a reason to lift? Just have some discipline and fucking lift the damn weight

>>42171487
Classify confidence, looks, money, status and humour please.
Personnally I would say :
Confidence > humour > status > money > looks.
Doesn't mean the looks is not important though. This is from experience and what I saw among my friends.

is it dumb to lift/lose weight for dick? (im a girl-not a trap)

>>42171466
You're missing the point, you don't go to the library to pick up girls. You go to better yourself/enjoy yourself and women just happen to be there and take notice.

>>42171729
>You go to better yourself/enjoy yourself and women just happen to be there and take notice.

Not him, but the women who take notice still aren't going to walk up to you and start a conversation (unless your very handsome/attractive).

You still need to find a way to break the ice and start a conversation with her regardless of where you are, there are no exceptions.

>>42171474
THIS.

but lift anyway. it helps a lot. just not as much as being able to speak.

>>42171706
I dont give a fuck about your ignorant beliefs. You want lots of sluts on your dick? Go climb the socioeconomic ladder. Thats it, everything else is secondary.

Since you're too lazy to do any work yourself here is a (very) simple primer to get you started: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mating_preferences

>>42171726
you could get dick without lifting though, you're a grill.

>>42171604
good job man! thats hard to do! stay strong!

>>42170776
lift for health, pussies like a healthy penis

>>42170776
Because if you get rejected, as it often happens, you will think it was all for nothing and are at risk of giving up easily.

>>42171907
The large number of successful men who can't get pussy says otherwise.

>>42170776
I don't think it is.
Even if your main goal is getting pussy, the hypertrophy gains from that type of training will make strength training so much easier in the future. If you give a bodybuilder a strength training program, they progress like crazy. Like, noob gainz x3 crazy.

>>42171881
You're right, and at that moment when they notice, if they shoot you a smile then there is the opening to go talk to them. The guy I was replying to implied that you should just interrupt a girl reading unwarranted, like the main focus of going to the library, or a supermarket or where ever is to pick up girls and not what you went there to do.

>>42171907
What the fuck are you talking about ? I was defending your point of view about looks doesn't mattering.

>>42172000
literally who

Because it's not enough, at least when you're 25+

it turns you from an invisible man like 80% of guys to visible, but it doesn't stop from you from getting brutally rejected, it isn't a golden ticket. lift for your health, discipline and own enjoyment/satisfaction. whatever pussy you get is just a bonus

>>42171667
this

>>42172058
I said successful men, not famous men.

>>42172113
i still dont believe it

Few reasons.
Biggest one is as soon as you get pussy or continued access to a single pussy lots of people stop lifting.
The second biggest reasons is lifting alone wont get you pussy. You can be a skinny dyel or a fat fuck and still pull bitches.

>>42172126
You don't want to believe it because you've deluded yourself into thinking success will get you women.

>>42170776
because pussy won't lift for you

>>42172150
i believe what i see

>>42172160
You saw nothing you fucking incel, actually go out

>>42172160
You see what you believe.
>2deep4me

>>42170776
For a lot of reasons:
1. Pussy likes social skills If you want pussy, you need to up your ability to deal with girl retardation. If you are an autistic quiet nigger who spends all his time lifting, studying and playing vidya, you aren't gonna get a lot of pussy.
2. Lifting and being fit is good for you in the long term in a lot of ways. Doing it just for pussy is fucking dumb. Pussy comes and goes, strength, health and discipline stays with you for the rest of your life.
3. Pussy likes money too, work on getting a good job.
So yeah, you should lift, but thinking that it automatically gives you pussy is dumb. Having good looks can give you more confidence, but it can also give you a kind of bodybuilding anxiety of you thinking that you are too smol to get pussy. You should just chill out and lift for their health, strength, discipline and satisfaction.
>>42171726
Thicc and muscular legs and ass definititely look pretty damn good. Having a bigger chest will make your tits look slightly bigger. Don't worry, unless you roid your ass off, you will not acquire mans voice, retarded bad looking muscle and clitoris bigger than bbc on viagra. Keep in mind tho, discipline, satisfaction and health gains are more important than anything else, even for girls. Consider the way girls are raised nowadays and all the feminism "progressive" bullcrap going over in freedomland and eurocuckland too, lifting and working on being fit can generally help out sort out mental and physical health issues brought by that degeneracy.

>>42172177
success comes with maturity and confidence. why you think all these girls in their 20s go like "i actually like older men, because they seem more mature tee-hee"
focusing on body only is good when youre like 14, after 20 you gonna compete with people who work good jobs, have a good salary, travel the world, do shit on their own. being /fit/ is good but no one is gonna get impressed with your autistic muscle mass when you cant say a word and still live at home playing league of legends

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>>42170776
Everyone lifts for pussy. Anyone who says "i lift for myself" is like a women who say "i put on makeup and short dresses for myself". They say that so it appears that they're not trying. Everyone wants to appear inherently, effortlessly attractive. Being a try hard implies that there is something wrong with you that you have to compensate for. So we all participate in this big mutual lie with each other, en masse. But deep down we all know. We all know why we do the things we do, because we all do the things we do for the same exact reason - to bang the baddest looking people we can as often as we can.

>>42172208
Allright, can't wait to see your wife when you'll be travelling for your epic business life my man

>>42170776
You're letting someone else be the focus of your self-improvement. Note the "self". It's like reading books just to look smart.

>>42172212
you would literally have to pay for me to spend 5 minutes with these annoying teenage thots

>>42172237
Nah I'm kidding you're right. Don't become shallow though my dude. Wish you the best

>>42171522
He means he wants a:
>what is best for him
>what is best for her
Type of relationship. Where both partners think of each other before making decisions.

Instead he has a
>how can I get X to do Y
>how can I get Y to do X
Type of relationship. Where both partners think of their own needs before their partners. This is typical for most shallow relationships.

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>>42172212
Pussy is merely a positive side-effect to lifting. Imagine drinking more water purely to make your piss smell less.

>>42170907
Are you that one fag with the mask?

>>42170872
Wierd my exbf told me the exact opposite. That he isnt worth it because he cant provide for me and i asked do i look like im looking for someone to provide me. I told him i only cared for him that i did not care if he didnt have much money or didnt go to school. But still left lol also did not like that i did not tell him what to do. I told him hes a human being not my dog. I do not order people around.

>>42172260
Faggot.

Only payment is need is getting all up in those asses.

>>42172212
When I first started I went on for 2 years for myself. Then I got a gf and I do it for her now desu. Kinda shit because when we fight I lose all motivation to do anything in life and it's been rough between us for a while now. Constant "I don't know about this" talks and "change" conversations that are just too frequent at the moment... don't know if it'll get better or if i'm just delusional. My problem is I used to be such a great person but now I have low self-worth and hate everything around me.. she's sticking by me but I don't know, I'm making her life miserable because of my own autism and it hurts. Give me advice ;_;

How do you go about getting a FWB situation?

>>42170871
Only 4x a week? Lol she's cheating on you with Chad

>>42172309

So basically getting a GF has stripped you of the need to improve yourself for yourself, AND you're making her miserable.

>lifting for girls

>>42170776
Objectivity. If you achieve your goal, you'll most likely stop lifting. Rather, lifting should be a lifestyle choice. Having a goal that's attainable and realistic will make maintaining a lifting schedule easier.

Lifting for something in which results are not consistent or may yield no results at all will eventually lead to you becoming discouraged, and giving up altogether.

Lift for you, not some other person who is not you.

>>42172338
It's not that I go to the gym with "oga boga i'm lifting to defend/impress her" mentality, she doesn't care about looks one bit, I was a facelet when we got together a year ago, have improved beyond belief since then and she still likes me the same way. I just don't know how to get out of this "phase" because I feel it'll take ending the relationship to get back there on my own. I don't know why I've linked my entire life to her and FUCK anon, fuck is it painful not knowing what to do.

If your only goal is to sleep with hot girls you have nothing in common with, it would probably be more efficient to just buy hookers
Lift for you

>>42171908
Um but I want quality dick, like future husband dick

>>42170872

most successful relationships are a mutually beneficial exchange that depend on open communication and some measure of risk acceptance.

that being said, don't be afraid to get what you want in life, including your relationships with other people. to do otherwise indicates a naive or ultimately subservient attitude. it's not necessarily pathological or wrong to get what you want out of your relationships. it's called having a spine.

finally, most relationships will have their primary leader. true partnerships are rare. it's up to you to lead, or be lead.

>>42172365
while you get other dick at the same time without him knowing?

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>i lift for muh self
>meanwhile he posts on mire threads

>>42172212
how long have you lifted for?

once you lift for 5+ years, stop making significant gains, realize it's only a small part of what makes a man & keep doing it anyway, you'll understand that it was never all about pussy.

another way to think of it- do old people who aren't on the sexual marketplace give up their hobbies? or do they keep striving toward mastery because it's enjoyable in itself?

Going to the GYM, lifting weights, dieting, doing cardio, are all unpleasasing things
They take you away time, money, energy, especially if you work/study.
Thinking that some men do all those sacrifice for a piece of meat make my blood boil wtf, do it for yourself, I know women are beautiful creatures but come on, have some self respect

>>42172528
>lifting weights
>unpleasasing

hand over your mancard

>>42172293
would rather jerk off mate. but honestly, i cant stand annoying girls

>>42170776
90% of the girls dont deserve investment.

Because girls literally DO NOT CARE about your body.

Lift for whatever you want without judgment but girls who care about your being ripped and shit are about as large a group as men into extreme bbws.

>>42172212
I lift to feel manlier around other men. Virgins and sad chads lift for pussy.

>>42172590
This, this so much.

>>42172616
Disregard all the studies and anectodes that say otherwise, right? They are attracted to muscles on a primal level. They can do nothing about it. Not the disgusting muscles sported by bodybuilders but ottermode. That being said, I'm not even memeing here but the FACE makes or breaks everything. They care a lot about the face.

>>42170776
It's not dumb because a lot of beginners truthfully start lifting for it but you all will change, within a year's time it won't be just for the pussy.

>>42170789

> le epic "lifting doesn't get u girls" meme

I don't understand whomst says this.

Lifting improved my luck with this ladies a million times over. I use to never get much attention at all from ladies (or maybe i didn't have the confidence to pick up on it) until i lifted. Now women come on to me all the time. I can approach any random female without nervousness.

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>>42172309
>When I first started I went on for 2 years for myself.
No you didn't.
>Then I got a gf
>I do it for her now
See.

If you have low self-worth she will break up with you soon don't worry. Unless her self-worth is somehow even lower than yours.
>hate everything around me
There's your solution, focus on things you love which make you happy. Make each day about discovering something fun or doing something you love. If you're unhappy around her or she tries to prevent you doing the things that you enjoy it's time to move on before you both die miserably.

>>42172155
The only real answer in this thread

>>42172663
>pic.
>ywn.
JUST KILL ME.

I know that no amount of body will make up for my face. I lift because it's a fun hobby to have, especially when you don't have any others.

>>42172663
absolutely disgusting

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>>42172726
Don't be like this, you'd be surprised what a good haircut, appropriate facial hair and some eyebrow up keep can do to a face.

>>42170891
>>42171539
>>42172333
Do you have reasoning behind this?

>>42170776
Because tying happiness and satisfaction to external factors only serves to increase unhappiness when you realize that said external factor isn't as good as you idealized.

>>42172663
>If you have low self-worth she will break up with you soon don't worry. Unless her self-worth is somehow even lower than yours.

When we first met she was in utter shit and I stayed with her till I found her a job that she enjoys and her life is back on track and I don't know what got into me, it's just that I've been in the dumps for like a month now and it hurts to be this person.

>focus on things you love which make you happy. Make each day about discovering something fun or doing something you love.

Okay.. I'll try doing that, thanks, I appreciate it.

>>42172765
he looks fucking great on both, i dont really get your point

>>42172658
were you fat before or skinny? cause if you were fat it was simple face gains

I don't care what you lift for. But I have no illusions about my prospects with women even if I make it. I know I'm still a turbo autist.

>>42172212
I legitimately only lift for myself so I can look better to myself -- and maybe others -- but not with the intention of scoring.

However, I also have severe self-esteem issues and avoid looking at mirrors as much as possible.

>>42172863
>avoid looking at mirrors

Hey anon, you know how I know you don't lift?

>>42172888
Gyms have them.

>>42170827
6'2" and photo model esque face here

depression and social anxiety

>>42172274
I-I did this
I like when its clear

My boyfriend lifts for me, but I'm a boy :D I'm small and he's big and we're like opposites so it's a great dynamic. When he texts me I put the phone on my belly and it tickles lol

>>42171706
Eh status definitely helps. I went from the fringes of my social group and barely getting any female attention to the center of it and now I get women fawning over me all the time. It's not even real status that you need just perceived status and an air of confidence and power.

>>42171552
Damn, Jesus is beefy

>>42170947
>get drunk and "just kiss" a guy, told her I'd be by the next day to collect my things, didn't say a word to her, deleted her number and I don't think about her at all.
Good job, I'm proud of you. Really.

>>42170776
It Will make you depressed

>>42172644

As long as you're not a literal twig, 99% of the girls out there simply do not care.

It's literally, literally ALL about the face and height, frame on a lesser degree.

>>42172212
>everyone lifts for pussy

spotted the kid who started lifting two years ago

>>42173419
5'2"

>height
Fragile lanklets will never know how easy it is to take someone down with an ankle shot.

>>42170776
cuz pussy aint shit

>>42173419
That is what I said though, right? I know it is a lot about the face. But the body definitely helps.

who else /liftingfornarcissism/ here?
I really liked looking at myself in the mirror even when I was a DYEL, but after I started lifting it's evolved to full-blown narcissism
I cant stop lifting or I'll lose this body and that would be really sad

>>42173620
I was already full-blown narcissistic before lifting. Its declined since, largely thanks to lifting because it showed me just how weak I was and how unjustified my pride was.

>>42170776
Doing anything with the desired result of getting pussy is going to be way less effective for getting pussy than just doing it because you're a man and you want to do something.

As a man you should just do what you want and the women will follow.

>>42171604
I caught my ex of 2+ years getting into a hotel with a coworker

A year later I could deadlift 3pl8s

>>42172177
do you also like to run like Naruto?

>>42172279
He was weird. You sound like a cool gf

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I lift for my waifu

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>>42172663
Only a pig would eat off someones feet.

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>>42172762

>>42173620
Ayyyyyy

I'm unironically lifting for the upcoming race war. 1488.

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>>42173620
I love watching myself in the mirror and seeing my physique getting aesthetic as fuck by the day.

I guess it has advantages being a narcissist, as you truly are lifting for yourself.

Image very related.

>>42172361
I'm with you anon. I feel like having a gf is way too restricting but at the same time I don't think that I can get out.
I was making huge gains right up until I got a gf and it's all been downhill from there.

>>42173620
I guess you can be either your best friend or your worst enemy then.

>>42172155
underrated

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>>42170776
@ashleypamela201

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>>42173723
Why can't they not be cheating whores

>>42171487
"In humans, when choosing a mate of the opposite sex, females place high preference for a mate that is physically attractive." This is the first sentence on Wikipedia page of female mate preferences...

>>42174403
Let him be. He believes he can get over his 2/10 looks by Confideenseee XDDD.

>>42174473
no one said that though

>>42174494
It is usually the ugliest guys who peddle around the whole "women don't care about looks" bullshit. Literally everything we know goes against it though.

>>42174512
because youre autistic and cant argue without using hyperboles. only 5'4 guys with deformed face and 6'4 supermodels exist in your world

>>42174403
>In humans, when choosing a mate of the opposite sex, females place high preference for a mate that is physically attractive.[2] This ties in with the idea that women discriminate between men on hypothesized fitness cues. The more physically attractive a man is, the higher his fitness, and the better his genes will be. Women are attracted to more masculine traits (e.g. strong jawline, a more muscular body). Indeed, men who are more masculine tend to have a higher number of sexual partners.[3]

For those curious.

>>42170776
It's not, it's a healthy lifestyle change, but if you think lifting will improve your ability to talk to them then you're poorly mistaken.

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>>42171487
>look up mating prefrences in humans, this has been thoroughly studied

Take notes lads, women avoid these types of people

>>42172412
No. I want one quality guy.

Seeking gratification for others, or working hard for the appreciation of others is vain, empty, fleeting.

>>42171487
>Social status is pretty much the only thing women respond to

Nope. I used to hang out with a group of friends and my friend who was overweight (and a head taller than me; I'm 6ft) had WAY more social status than me, he was basically the 'group leader'.

According to you, he should have gotten all the puss. Well guess what, I had two girls in that group who wanted to jump my bones and I fucked one of them. Then a new girl came into the group who also wanted to fuck me. At one point I got kicked out of the group because I fucked like 70% of the girls and they started talking about me and how much of an asshole I am.

How much action do you think he got? Fucking ZERO.

Social status helps, but it's not everything. I had fucking zero social status in that group and still was slaying pussy.

>>42174734
You must have had a great body and face though.

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>>42173620
This girl I was seeing had a mirror in her room and every time we'd fuck id see my vascularity and muscles more defined. Sex became a game for me seeing if I could outdo myself and perfect my stroke game. It was like racing against yourself in gran turismo and you'd have to battle your ghost to improve your time on each lap. I weirdly became slightly sexually attracted to myself in a way. It got to a point where I would purposely time my gym sessions to be right before i saw her so that I could pump & dump while still on my pump.
>pic very related

>>42174754
Back then I was lifting half-heatedly so not completely dyel but nothing special either just broad shoulders and small-ish waist, had nowhere near the body I do now, though. Yeah, I do get told that I'm attractive, but I honestly don't see my face being all that attractive.

>>42170776
Because you will be disapointed. Lift to better yourself. If everything else in your life turns to shit, then lifting will keep you sane and in good spirits.

>>42172155
dubs of truth

>>42172528
lifting weights is fun. Maybe you do some shitty machine routine.
What kind of cardio do you do? There're a shitload of options, so you will probably find something you enjoy. Did you try mma, boxing, climbing, rugby or tennis?

>>42172212
not really
if you were the last man on earth would you still lift? i definitely would
this is the question you need to ask yourself to find out whether lifting is worth your time
i doubt girls would put on makeup

lifting for girls is so pathetic

>>42172528
>he doesn't enjoy lifting

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>>42170807
Someday
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ee7cNkQrcgI&list=LLeyMbaO93TDQJTwzaFhdoKw&index=1

>>42175172
Lifting sucks for me but whatever u do it anyway because sometimes it's just good to overcome things you hate if they are beneficial for you. I'll never like exercising but it won't stop me.

>>42170776
WARNING ALERT ALTERT

If/When you get gf she's gonna constantly bitch and fight about your gym routine and diet and act like she doesn't want you to go. Dont listen to her it's a trick.

>>42170872
>Am i just a faggot and should i just dominate my next gf so it works (i know how to do that)
no you don't. you dominate in bed. otherwise you should just act like a well-adjusted assertive, masculine man.

>>42170776
I lift because I'm a nihilist and nothing has any inherent meaning. Lifting and not lifting have the same value so might as well do the one that releases endorphins.

>>42170947
>I had another girlfriend get drunk and "just kiss" a guy, told her I'd be by the next day to collect my things, didn't say a word to her, deleted her number and I don't think about her at all.
You sound like an asshole. She was drunk and did some stupid shit that she clearly didn't meant to do and wouldnt normaly do, you could've given her another chance but instead you just left. Anyway, I'd say good for her, at least she won't be with such an ignorant person as you anymore

>>42171027
>Because majority of women aren't even turned on by appearance, unlike us men.

Get out of the basement one time

>>42172365
Wear a green hat the next time you go to the gym and if we cross paths I'll introduce myself.

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if you think about it, men worship the pussy, and working out for pussy is just that they are doing it FOR the pussy, and if you op my friend do the same you will end up in a prison you may not be able to see.

>>42175558
fuck off cheating cunt

>>42175673
giving 1 kiss to a guy when you're drunk = cheating? Okay... No wonder you are a loser virgin

>>42174822
Funny, I don't remember posting this.

>>42175558
Girl or cuck?

>>42175558
Alcohol makes people more of who they are, not less.

>>42172309
if you're having talks about "change" the relationship ended months ago. stop fucking dragging it out because you don't want to be alone fucking christ

>>42172279
What a weird guy. I'd kill for a gf like what you described. Been with this ball of mess of a gf for the past year and it's getting harder by the week. She doesn't seem to grasp how I want us to be both equal in what we offer and what we put into the relationship. She's always bailing on plans or activities i set up or cancels last minute whatever she proposed we do. Sucks to be you for having that bf, anyway someone like you is bound to end up doing well or alone and still doing well, so good on him for dragging himself out. I'm sure it wasn't easy for uim feeling that way with your constant siccessful cheerful presence.

>>42175558
ive been drunk many times. Ive been blackout drunk once. Of all the times i have been drunk, i knew exactly what i was doing. The time i got blackout drunk, i was on the floor.

>>42175814
Also just so you know, I got out of a relationship once for the same reason from probably the most understanding girl i ever was with. She was destroyed when i met her but eventually I started decaying and she started growing. The entire time no matter what she did i had this constant feeling that she could do better, and she never turned off that feeling from me. She used to constantly tell me about people in her life but for a good 6 weeks she didn't say a single good word to me other than when I would initiate the break up talk. It was weird but I just couldn't feel good about myself and so I left.

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>>42175558
>>42175740

>>42175740
>giving 1 kiss to a guy when you're drunk = cheating?
yes. now fuck off

>>42175809
>stop fucking dragging it out because you don't want to be alone

I'm not. My life was way better when I was alone and didn't have her on my mind. I even promised myself I'll keep it just friends but she eventually dragged the feelings out of me and I exploded. I do miss my alone life, but I really love her man :\ do you think there's absolutely no hope?

>>42175740
>gets even drunker and fucks a guy
Now you've wasted even more of your life with a whore

>>42175834
Good for you then, im not saying it's a great thing to do but its not the end of the world either. It's a stupid reason to completly end relationship with a girl just because she kissed someone while drunk

>>42170776
Its not.
The best thing ive ever done for getting better at checking up girls is getting muscle. Its insane how effective it is. Especially when youre past 20.

>>42176180
Any stories for motivation

>>42170776
Lift for yourself first. But being more physically attractive will increase your chance of finding getting females. For some people it's a win-win. Being fit alone won't give you a perfect life with a perfect gf, that's why the mentality is frowned upon.

>>42176151
its not about the kiss. its a sign that she is a skank. same with girls who put height requirements in bio. i met them, but i still left swipe because its a sign of someone who doesnt have realistic expectations when it comes to a relationship

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>>42175740
If in a committed relationship, yes.

If she'd kiss a guy, then she'd also fuck him.

Also, image related but I don't care.

>>42172765
He needs to get those eyes fixed. He is wall eyed.

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>>42170776
>Lifting for 3D women

>>42170776
its dumb to do anything for pussy
just hit and quit it, anything more is a waste of effort/resources

It's not, only liars and faggots will tell you they don't lift for women, then you'll see them shitting up mire threads with "grills never notice muh muscles", it's typically ugly dudes as well who are on a perma bulk that'll say they're not doing it for women.

>>42170776
its dumb not to go after what you want in life

>>42174136
You doing some kind of strongman/powerlifting routine, some sprints, and a fighting sport on the side then? Maybe a bit of weapons training, especially if you're American?

>>42175436
You sound more like an absurdist. Check out the myth of Sisyphus by Albert Camus if you haven't already read it

>>42170776
I got laid both before and after lifting. You're basing your entire purpose of lifting on someone else's "validation" of you through sex. It's weak and it takes the control out of your hands. Lift because you want to.

>>42172663
>That pic

You're a man of fine taste

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its better to lift so you can incite fear and respect from others with one look at you

>>42176356

Man, i wish Lotte was real

I'd go about attempting to fill her good every-day, every-nite'

>>42170776

Because getting /fit/ doesn't mean you're going to get pussy.

Do you know how many men who barely go to the gym if at all have qt gfs? Millions. Being /fit/ is obviously a bonus for women, but they are not going to suddenly swoon for you just because you have big muscles.

Think of all the hours that you're wasting at the gym to get pussy. You could've spent that time learning how to actually talk to women, which would actually result in you getting pussy.

>>42171027
It's the way you make them feel %80 of the time. Other %20 is money and appearance. It's sucks having to put your foot down all the time instead of when needed, cause most women have been brainwashed by feminism. If you have to put your foot down all the time and stand the your grown, she's not worth it. You don't have to be with someone that is a CUNT. Honestly most woman are actually pretty cool once they know their place and have little to no ego.

>>42171604
>broke her phone
retard
Good for you though

>>42173723
I caught my ex of 2 years sucking some fat faggot's dick. The fat faggot was me but that's not the point.

>>42170776
the only pussy I lift for is myself

>>42177333
like she would care about your sorry ass

>>42171027
>Because majority of women aren't even turned on by appearance, unlike us men.
i would say opinion discarded, but this is so wrong im just going to discard your life.

>>42170947
good job. I made that fucking mistake. wasted 3 more years of my life. never again. sluts are sluts and there's no fixing them

>>42170776
Because pussy is fleeting.

Europe is forever.

>>42170776
Because she is dangerously likely to let the piece of shit with a fat wallet have a go riding her to market.
Sure if you achieve /fit/-physique, you'll be able to slay a bunch of sloots. But that isn't something to brag about.

You lift for you. To be the best you.

Pussy is perhaps a tertiary bonus that you get for being in better shape than everyone else. It should never be the primary motivation. She'll smell how desperate you are anyway, and deny you.

>>42177930
What if I don't want to be me. What if I'd rather be your cunt mother?

>>42170776
It's not. Lift for pussy of that's what you want

>>42177684
why retard?

>>42170872
You've been with the wrong girls then bud. Cheer up you'll find someone

>>42174659
Then it's fine.

If you ride the cock carousel, you won't get a husbando - you'll end up with someone else's trash.

>>42174659

That's a tall order. Any guy worth having will have many options other than you.

>>42175740
Yes
It's cheating.

Take a good look at this person guys, if your girlfriend talks like this, she's untrustworthy.

>>42170776
Once you get pussy, why lift ?
Lift for your well-being, OP.

>>42170872
Find someone who would be your best friend if they were dudes. That's it really.

My pussy doesn't smell THAT bad.

IT SMELLS WORSE.

how can i be so depressed about veronica when i haven't interacted with her in over 4 years

>>42179236
this

>>42172765
are his eyebrows naturally like that?

>>42170776
She looks like this girl I met this weekend at this crazy fucking party.

She flashed me, it was one of the hottest things that ever happened in my life.

>>42170872
You've been dating the wrong girls then..

>>42179668
Is your pussy?

>>42170872
Read Radical Honesty, senpai. It's how you should live your life.

Not many people are ready to live like that though.

>>42177802
You're one cold son of a bitch.

>>42179883
that's a little dramatic for a couple of limp-wristed manchildren being bitchy to each other anonymously on the internet

>>42170776
Nothing is wrong with it in the least. The people who say otherwise wants men and certain who'll want to stick around and continue to spend money long after they reach that goal.
Others are women who don't want men that are out of their league.


To be honest, I got and try to maintain my fitiness to be active, relatively healthy, look good in the mirror, and because looking like I do without a shirt along with the giant cock ensures that I can pull women who want to hang around for a few hours.
Because god knows I have no idea how to interact with women when it's not filthy dirty sex of some kind or it's passive courteous greetings.

That and I'm basically incapable of holding a conversation with anyone for long periods or evne short periods, go out of my way to sabotage any potential close interactions, and am generally autistic as fuck.

any faggot whose penis smells like pussy probably got his faggot penis stuffed up a pussy like a fucking faggot

>>42170776
It's Not dumb to lift for pussy.

It's dumb as fuck to think that lifting is all that matters to get pussy.

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>>42172975
Get out of here you gross trap.

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>>42173546
Nice Cope Manlet.

/liftingfornarcissism/ is fucking real, i'd rather mire myself in the mirror, than having a generictinderslut fucking touching muh gainz.

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>>42175558
Ask me how I know you belong on an Arbys menu?

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>>42176818
Men, too, secrete the inhuman
At certain moments of lucidity, the mechanical aspect of their gestures, their meaningless pantomime makes silly everything that surrounds them. A man is talking on the telephone behind a glass partition; you cannot hear him, but you see his incomprehensible dumb show:
>you wonder why he is alive.

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>>42170807

>>42171487
>Good looks helps, ofc, but its a minor thing to girls
Are you retarded?

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>>42170908
bitches come and go, bro, but u kno i stay

>>42171001
>>42170989

How2do? Any tips?

Failed miserably at this in my last relationship and it definitely led to all kinds of hell for me.

>>42175558
Hi! Few things to start off with =] 1. Yes I'm writing because you're a female anon, 'tis an awesome thing to see! 2. I'm Brian. 3. Don't be intimidated, but I'm not a stereotypical guy. If anything, I'll be the one in the kitchen =D.

>>42170776
it's only dumb if you're ugly cause at the end of the day you'll still be ugly and still will never get a qt3.14 to sleep with. If you're average or attractive then it's perfectly fine because it actually has some benefit.

t.ugly guy

>>42178792
Probably didn't need to break the phone, but of course heat of passion/emotion will make you do some silly things.

Unless of course it was to also destroy any data he didn't want her to keep.

>>42175558
Reads like bait so I'll bite, but he did already prefaced the scene that he made it clear that cheating was a zero tolerance.

And being drunk and doing something stupid should give you a free pass when rules are laid? Doesn't work like that. If she wasn't forecoming (/rimshot) about being flirty or whatnot and he didn't sign up for that, then she was lying to him to begin with, or would eventually make the move that ends their relationship a year or two later and waste more of their time and energy and make it more of a hassle.

He also made it sound like a pretty civil breakup, all things considered.

>>42181375

Stop sending your representative in the first few months, but understand that she still will.

It's common for everyone to put their best foot forward early on. Guys pretend to like cutsie gay stuff and we'll overlook stupid or selfish things they do because of rose colored glasses. Women do the same.

Work towards being 100% you straight out of the gate. Good bad and ugly. That way you're coming from a position of power. Likewise, you're giving her the opportunity to see your real face and decide if she likes it or not.

When you do this then you give yourself the position of honesty and self awareness.

Furthermore, don't let your relationship to her define you. If the thought of her leaving breaks you then you've already lost.

I've been lifting for 6 years.

Original started because I wanted to get a GF and thought being /fit/ would help.

The motivation to lift for a GF stopped after like 2 or 3 months, been lifting ever since because I'm autistic and have an addictive personality.

>>42172212
You don't want to be able to lift heavy shit? I started because I thought Goku was cool, now I lift for my waifu. I know I'll never get laid, I'm used to the idea.

>>42171539
Yea i dont live in a dorm room timmy. When dad stops paying your bills you will learn.

self mires>bro mires>>>>>>girl mires
women come and go, but we're all here to stay for each other and ourselves.

>>42172804
None. They stay on here and further warp their perceptions of reality. I would put a paycheck on at least 2 of them being actual virgins.

>>42171604
thats how its done, better then to be pussy slave, as we call it here in serbia.

>>42180698
Thanks doc

>>42172663
I fucking gagged at this. Footniggers are subhuman scum.

>>42170776
Because pussy would never lift for you.

>>42183661
My pussy lifts grapes off the floor. You want one, fuccsucc?

>>42183887
Why does the thought of a high-suctioning vagina turn me on?

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>>42183266
>not fapping to feet
you gay, son?

>>42181772

Thanks man

>>42171027
I always assumed "lifting for women" meant "lifting for better self confidence and aesthetics which will aid in finding a woman".

Do people actually think if they lift they'll be like this rich instagram chads that have sluts licking their abs in clubs?

Because those sorts of women will literally eat shit for money. The fact the guy looks good is just a bonus.

Lift for your health, not for them. If lifting solely for the pussy, you are doing it wrong since you can just as easily earn a couple hundred dollardidaroos and hire multiple women to be your live in girlfriend and have your own harem.

>>42172949
>meme and meme
You're a spineless moron. Being good-looking as a dude is pretty much the best thing there is. All the advantages of being a hot chick with none of the drawbacks.

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>>42175558
nice b8

I just like lifting because it's a good hobby to have....

It made me more confident in myself and helped my loose my virginity.

T-thanks /fit/

>>42175346
underrated advice


The secret is to be fair and by all means not hypocritical. If you can make it clear to her that you could have another girl that is potentially better than her (read: she thinks is better than her) and you won't hesitate to take that girl if she leaves you her aim will be to keep you by any means

>>42175558
>She was drunk
If you can't control yourself while being drunk, don't drink. If you do something stupid while you are drunk, don't expect me to forgive you.

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only dicks get pussies
a man gets the woman

>>42170776
I lift for the mires

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>>42188607

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>>42189758
>sexual fantasies aren't Scooby and zyzz
Wasted opportunity anon

>>42170776
Lifting didn't help me at all with girls, but cutting to a low body fat % did

>>42170816
this is the definition of making it, good job buddy

>then break up with her

Nope. She could be sucking dick a minute after you broke up, but it ain't cheating anymore.

>>42189990
No you idiot. Once you have broken up she is free to fuck whoever she wants. So are you.

Also emotional abuse isn't a thing. It's just modern oversensibility

>>42188572
so to keep the woman i want to spend the rest of my live with interested in making me happy, i should make her believe i will leave her if she doesnt?

That is just what makes me so sad, in order to make the relationship work i would have to manipulate her into believing there would be immediate sanctions if i weren't happy with the relationship.

That is not what in a woman. I dont want ever her to be ever cautious in how far she can go with not living up to my needs.

I want a girl that wants to please me just because she wants to see me happy.

And i want to be able to do nice things to her that she enjoys without her thinking what she could have me do the next time, without her calculating how much she can demand now that i have started giving.

But i guess that just isnt realistic and you guys will be more successful than me

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>>42170872
jesus this hits home too hard..

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I lift because I hate myself

>>42190123
These wojak pics sure get weird

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its dumb to do anything for cunts.

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>>42190502
>50% said their partner was aware of the backup man

Goddammit, that made me angry. Why are so many modern males such pussies

>>42180698
thanks

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>>42170871
>6'1 165lbs and i love boning my petite gf

Nigga you are a petite gf with those stats

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>>42171027
>majority of women aren't even turned on by appearance, unlike us men

>>42179049
which is why he needs to lift and have everything together so that he can be the premier option

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>>42190502
Is it honestly a good idea to get a serious relationship/gf nowadays when most girls do this shit ?

Where should you go and what do you need to do to meet the good ones ?

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>>42192840
find a girl who doesn't like attention. the less social media she uses the better

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>>42192525
>mfw I read this and I'm 6'2 162lbs
gained 30 pounds over the last two years lol

>>42170776
You lift because millions of years of evolution gave you body capable of amazing things. If you don't lift and push yourself physically you are disrespecting mother nature itself. Just because we invented desks and couches doesn't mean you get a pass.

Just kidding, I lift for pussy too

>>42172212
I started out lifting for women, I continued to do it when friends including girls were saying I was getting too big, I don't give a fuck what bitches want, bitches don't even know what they want. I lift because it's a rush to be able to take out my anger on weights, and getting bigger and stronger for it. If I didn't lift I'd have a very short fuse for anyone that's a slight annoyance.

>>42190502
Probably made by the same guy who made the picture saying that only a penis long enough to slam a woman's cervix is desirable.

>>42193037
i doubt lifting is making your tiny fuse any longer, sweetie.

>>42193073
>sweetie
That's cute, I'd say I'm more salty than sweet ;^)

>>42170776
true happiness can only come from within yourself. for me, happiness is not being an unfit fat fuck like 70% of the people around me

>>42175558
fuck off thot. I know a girl who would occasionally sleep with random people she encountered (even with me, we just didn't get into relationship). I always thought that she was a massive whore etc. but once she made a bf, she NEVER let a man touch her EVEN at blackout drunk times. I knew her since childhood so she tells me even darkest secrets. She just subconsciously put in her mind that she won't touch anyone else when she has someone to be committed to. That's it. Cheating is a cheap whore habit who will find millions of bullshit reasons to do so. I really respected this girl afterwards.

>>42171469
>Schrödinger's faggot
fuck im using this from now on

>>42175802
nice redpill

>>42170776
honestly this is the average sort of girl i wish i had been having one night stands with in college

nothing really noteworthy about her but it would be a good night of feeling like you're normal. i'd almost rather bang her than someone objectively prettier because at that point you're like "ok you're banging me but you're out of my league, what's your angle"

with this girl you're like "ok shes just horny like me, we're both average. cool"

anyway whats this thread about?

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>>42174659
>she want one quality guy
>implying women know what they want