/feels/ thread

I will never understand the complete lack of willpower that prevents people from eating healthy.

If you even just eat clean and exercise for like two months without quitting, junk food makes you sick.

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google wants me to give them my phone number to make a youtube account

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>>41935638
Submit.

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How the fuck do you make friends? How the fuck do you get a gf?

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>>41935538
Every time i think about her i come close to crying.
Because no matter how hard i try to improve myself, the feelings will never be mutual.

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>>41935638
>implying they don't already have it

>>41935783
>2d will NEVER BE REAL
i just want to fucking end myself to be honest

>23
>NEET
>kissless virign
>no friends
>no life
>nofap is just making me thirsty and realize how hopelss ever getting laid will be

>>41935834
Ask yourself: why would any girl date someone who thinks NoFap is a good idea?

>>41935851
Nigger, why would any girl date someone who has no prospects and lives with his mother? Taking a temporary stand against masturbation is the last of my autism.

>>41935538
>been told im gorgeous
>have girls mire me all the fucking time
>nearly every girl i smile at holds eye contact and smiles back

still dont have a girlfriend, still havent been laid. I've made out with girls and shit have had my dick sucked but its been years since i have even kissed a girl, what the fuck happened to me?

>apartment has slowly but surely turned into a disgusting mess
>too embarrassed to have friends over
>go to store and buy all kinds of cleaning products
>apartment now looks fresh as fuck
>windows open and every breeze makes the place smell like fabuloso and clean linen

It's small, but cleaning up your place is pretty rewarding, feels wise.

>>41935865

I live with my parents and I have a gf, but I also have a job

>>41935865
at least you understand

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>>41935897

>clean house
>feel productive, like I've achieved something
>don't hate being at home
>housemate gets angry at CS:GO
>throws coffee mug at the wall
>hole in wall: coffee stains on 3 walls and ceiling
>doesn't tell me about it for a couple of weeks even though I've seen it
>finally tells me
>have my friend fix it for free: all he has to do is paint it
>he uses my best bedding to cover the carpet while he paints
>bedding ruined, but he puts it back as if nothing happened
>won't admit he did it
>refuse to clean the house
>hate living there again

Fucking hate house sharing but I hate paying lazy landlords rent.

But I hit new PRs that day.

>>41935783
>>41935828
except the girl i am talking about actually exists.

>>41936000
>moved into a sharehouse with a bunch chinese international students
Was disgusting from the beginning, so i knew what i was getting into at least.

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>>41936000
sad pic

>>41935866
You don't have the confidence to go from flirting to fucking, you don't have to be overly confident just enough for a girl give in to you. She may not think you find her attractive either.

I was a nervous wreck when I was getting a girl in the mood for my first fuck, when she started looking at her watch (i.e why is this guy taking so long) I just moved closer and started rubbing her arm which led to kissing then sex. You NEED some sort of physical contact even if it's just touching her arm.

It's not hard if you have it in your head that 99% of men fuck women, you're not any different just not as confident.

>>41936019
living with chinese people is like living with rats

>>41935732
>How the fuck do you make friends?
Find people with the same interests as you, maybe in a social environment? its not hard man, if you dont have any interests then make some

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>>41935803
>>41935721
Kek thanks anons, didn't have these merchants
Have another one

>>41935538
>PR day
>allowing myself to break diet so i can have some carbs before working out
>feel bad about it even though i only do it like a couple days every 6 weeks

>>41935538
Ask a girl out
She says she cant, she is going on vacation, and will call back when she gets back

>She won't

>>41936369
>same thing happens to me
>get her number but then basically get ghosted
>realize i'm still going to improve and be great with or without her
>realize that if they won't give me a chance then it's their loss and nothing that I did wrong

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>>41936180
Here have my most abstract

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>>41935638
How come you don't already have a gmail account? You can use that to create a youtube account that is not associated with your Google+ account in any way.
https://support.google.com/youtube/answer/2897336?hl=en
https://support.google.com/youtube/answer/1646861

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TFW you can beat the living shit out of white fashy manlets

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>been saying my life will get better next year
>still shit

Its been 5 years and no improvements

>had to get stitches on my balls because of a bounce castle incident at my gfs birthday party
>couldn't lift because balls>gym desu senpai
>finally get to go back today

It's a good feel bros, stitches we gone and my sack is healed

>>41936573
>bouncy castle incident

The story isn't nearly as interesting as it sounds, is it

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>>41936545
are you me

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>>41935538
>lost 50 pounds last year
>new netflix movie with keanu reeves about a girl with anorexia
>fat friend tags me in the trailer for it on facebook

FUCK OFF

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>>41936667
Oh God these fucking people have to complain about everything.

Did someone say feels thread?

So I've been improving in every single area of my life.

Went from friendkess khv living at my parents at age 26 to precisely the opposite in just one year.

Yet I'm feeling down.
Why is that, why can't I just be happy achieving something others would take much much longer to accomplish?

Is it because I regret doing it so late? Have I thrown away my potential?

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>>41935834
This is me exactly. Except I am also circumcised. Once you get redpilled about what that is and does to your penis you can't help but get angry and sad about it on some level every time you look down.

>>41936717
i guess some of us are never meant to be happy

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>recently got back with ex fiance
>went out and partied with the boys
>The whole squad was dancing with fine ass girls
>I did too. Legit 9 was basically humping my dick with her ass on the dance floor. I've been single for 6 months and still have trust issues with ex-fiance now girlfriend. Dance with her and get her number.
>Feel guilty as fuck about it. Still keep the number in case shit goes south with ex fiance again. Tell myself it's something Chad would do, but it's more something that a shitbag would do.
>Also breaking it off with best FWB since I got back with my fiance. She's cool as fuck but maybe a 6. She's ignoring me now.


secretly wish I was asexual.

>>41936785
>recently got back with ex fiance
you fucking moron

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>>41935610

>Used to be a complete fatty at 225 lbs
>Was able to eat fast food multiple times a week without breaking a sweat
>Would always go out with friends to have Wendys and hit up a bar
>Began to eat super clean and lift
>Weight dropped to 181 lbs after 15 months
>A small meal at KFC will make my chest hurt due to the insane salt and calories
>No longer able to stomach the majority of fast food
>Friends have steadily distanced themselves from me since they said I'm no longer fun and that it's unhealthy to focus on being healthy so much (this was after they first saw me using MFP)
>Now have no friends

>>41936831
it's better to have no friends than to have shitty friends good job on losing all that weight anon you're gonna make it

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>>41936717
>>41936751
Normies and their lives are devoid of any real meaning and fucking boring. Normies are happy because they don't care about anything, they just live their lives because that's what everyone does. Unless you want go the pepe-route and stop giving a shit, start reading philosophers, start with the obligatory classics and move on to Hitler and Nietsche. Life is an eternal struggle.

>>41936785
Why is she an ex-fiance in the first place?

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rare jew coming through

>>41936830
She begged me to take her back after I completely cut her out of my life. I've never connected with anyone like her.
>>41936876
Careers and long distance took us in different directions. There was no cheating or anything sinister AFAIK.


>>41936852

>>41936901
>She begged me to take her back after I completely cut her out of my life. I've never connected with anyone like her.
why did you break up in the first place i'm really curious?

>>41936852

Thanks.

It's hard though - the loneliness can get pretty overwhelming at times. Vidya, music, and lifting can only do so much.

I'm looking forward to the new semester starting in a few months so maybe I can get a new friend or two.

>>41936913
>>41936901
nvm i'm blind

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>>41936901
>Careers and long distance took us in different directions.
>There was no cheating or anything sinister AFAIK
Anon.. She fucking cheated, but then Chad found a new less used cunt to fuck, and she came crawling back to you. I've seen this pattern play out a gorillion times, she's going to leave you again once she gets a better deal. Once a cheater, always a cheater.

I'm losing it, pls help

>>41936901
If there was no cheating then fucking delete the number of that bar slut, what would you think if she did the same thing to you? Btw, she's a fiancée, and not a fiancé, you're not a homosexual.

>>41936503
>that file name
P-post more pls

>>41936943
> you're not a homosexual.
where do you think you are?

>>41936938
It'll be ok, just hold on for now

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>>41935538
>went to "her" house after work.
>Both of us just laying in a mattress on the ground.
>Decide to man up and finally tell her
>"Y-you wanted to know who I liked?"
>"Yeah?"
>"I'm looking at her."
>She's shocked
>"You know how long I've been waiting to hear that?"

>>41937020
nice

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>>41936465
>tfw the only number I've got was from a gay guy because of my huge shoulders and tight jeans

>>41937020
Nice one, I expected this greentext to end really badly.

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>Fat, depressed fuck all through my teenage years
>Socially inept, definition of useless trash in all aspects, can't even go to the store without a panic attack
>Shit, abusive father who left not long after I turned 18
>Slave away at trying to get to a baseline of competence after a total meltdown
>Now, years later
>Social, looking decent, healthy nutrition, good prospects, car, motorbike, job, more confidence than most, respectable field of study, stable
>Actually somehow inspire friends
>Assist in the community
>Still just as fucking miserable as I was before
>Only difference is I know how to get things done while being miserable now
>None of the things I've done bring me any joy, and I don't even like the things that I used to gorge on anymore like video games and junk food
>Can't comprehend the concept of a relationship or how one is meant to exist
>Don't value my friends at all, hate myself for the apathy
>Do anything possible to alleviate the feeling for the briefest times, sometimes succeed for a couple of days before falling right back in
>Can't get off this fucking wild ride

but hey i broke a pr today

Women are FULL of emotions, you have to activate her primal instincts and go for the kill (not straight away until you gain a little confidence).
Most people ITT "just ask her out", that doesn't work if you're very anxious. I will say one thing, try to converse with women, even a little and see how that goes OUTSIDE of your hometown, that way if anything embarrassing happens it won't come back to you.

>>41937158
Learn how to be happy with what you have done?

>>41937197
>just b urself

ty

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>Dyel
>stronger then my dad who worked with his body all his life
I never want to grow old.

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>havent had a job in a year now
>smoked myself to real bad anxiety and social awkwardness (only when high)
>my mental image of myself has become so warped and delusional, its real bad
>DepressionAndAnxietyMeme.inc
>Waiting to be trialed for 6 charges, lawyer says its between 4-12months in jail or if im very lucky i get a ankle bracelet
>Feeling like a real lowlife and dissapointed with myself, reading this im becoming more and more convinced that i am an actual lowlife

but then theres HER
>short, cute, wide hips, biggest eyes and the most beautiful smile you can imagine
>whenever i get this depressed and full of self hate, i think of her, and it completly turns around
>She keeps my motivation up, my spirits high and my self esteem on top, whenever im down she can tell and does everything to try to fix it
>Now im starting a new job this week
>Going back to study in August, studys expected to be done December next year

Thinking of how much I love her, and everything she deserves that i want to give her, i need to get my shit together, and I will

Love is so amazing and powerfull bres, we will all enjoy it someday, till then just spread it and keep that head focused positivly, no matter how dark it may seem now it will get better.

>>41937197
Doesn't work for alot of guys due to being depressed or marginally depressed. If you're not successful you're bound to dwell on negative thoughts which can be very hard to get out of.
It's hard to treat without medication which can lead to some nasty side effects.

>>41937263
The meds leading to side effects I mean

>back in HS
>used to be ex fatty so really insecure my whole life even now
>a 9/10 qt had a crush on me
>ofc i pussied out
>long time passed since then
>22 now she is 20
>found her instagram
>she's gorgeous now
>tons of pics with her boyfriend
>that's her first boyfriend
>it could've been me
it hurts brehs
i don't deserve to be happy

>>41937158
how did you fix the other shit tho ?
im at the first stage atm

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>>41936000

>that pic

>>41937281
I had that but roughly a 7/10, she's happy and married after a few years of no contact. To think I had a chance with her due to her huge amount of interest in me like texting all day about being horny and wanting to get a coffee.

Being a beta with a chance you can take is worse than a beta with no chance.

>>41937255
I hope youll be happy one day anon

>>41937320
>Being a beta with a chance you can take is worse than a beta with no chance.
idk about that i'm still a kissless virgin

>>41935721
>>41936180
I don't understand these pictures..

>>41937320
how about being a beta with a chance and taking it but failing due to being a beta and wishing you werent such a thing ?

>>41937343
that must feel fucking nice right
fuck off it hurts like hell

>>41937255
>broke up with long term gf
>met asian qt3.14
>extremely smart
>always sending mixed messages
>main motivation that got me out of my depression from recent break up
>acted like an idiot because of recent breakup
>still occasionally talk but she's studying abroad now
>will come back at an unspecified date
>afraid that i only rely on her to keep me going


I need to stop having crushes on girls that aren't even around

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Anyone else hate where they live? How do you cope?

Goddamn, I hate living in Georgia so much and there's no way out insight. I don't even care that I don't have friends or a SO. This shithole is what makes me unhappy.

>>41937303
Exaggerated exposure and disregard for personal self. I hated myself at the time, so it made it easier to ignore feelings of anxiety or whatever by reminding myself of how much a fuck up I was. I found it hard to be social, so I read a bunch of books on body language and talking to people, then forced myself into every possible social opportunity I could for years, making a fool of myself constantly, until I learned and figured out how to navigate. I coupled that with working my ass off to afford a vehicle, then found I disliked my confidence levels so I bought a motorcycle and forced myself to get good at riding that because it terrified me initially. I found from that I was more confident, but not enough, so I volunteered with the local volunteer EMT's because that scared the fuck out of me too, but was great because it's hard to be nervous when you know first hand you can deal with a sudden cardiac arrest and death. Shit like that. Fitness is actually the last thing I got around to doing, and have been doing a hard cut for 35kg now as well as doing PPLPPL. I hope it works out better for you man.

>>41937343
I would end up fapping about the girls for months and I would grow attached to certain ones, which became torture when they eventually got a boyfriend.

Seems like I fap more and get very attached when they flirt which wasn't the case when I thought I had no chance.

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>21/yo virgin
>meet girl on tinder
>set her up for sex and to finally lose my virginity come Friday (she lives in nearby town)
>Friday
>"are you still coming?"
>"let me know when you're on your way okay? :)"
>"I'm so excited!"
>she still lives with her parents so I suggest we go up to a nearby jeep trail
>we go, its fun, very pretty.
>eventually things take a sexual turn
>"no... i don't have sex on the first date"
Later I'm dropping her off at a friends place
>"she and I had a competition in high school to see how many guys we could sleep with.. i won."

So yeah, I don't even know what to feel. I did accidentally call it a date so I guess it's my fault. Best case I made myself bf material to a sloot that was missing for 2 weeks last year getting raped in a meth house; It's probably a good thing that I didn't, but it feels so shitty that I couldn't even fuck her. My dick might have fallen off but god dammit at least it would have been something. Absolutely destroyed my confidence.

>>41936000
>roommate is on the uni basketball team
>is obnoxious as fuck
>comes in drunk as fuck all the time at 1am
>leaves dishes all around, his gf will use an entire roll of toilet paper in two days
>once his buddy came by, he made a passing comment on the amoubt of dishes in the sink. Roomie has the audacity to say he cleans them all the time

Fuck him he leaves the lights on all the time. Must be scared of rhe dark

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>>41935538

> LPing to 440x5 deadlift from 420x5
> get 430x6
> stall next week
> and the week after

>>41937421
Never assume you're on a date the first time or she's your girlfriend right away, things are different these days. Never try and fuck a girl the first time you get alone with each other either, alot of women aren't sluts which is bullshit most of them would fuck the first night but it tarnishes their image.

>>41937255
>Everything she deserves that I want to give her
And people wonder why women in 2017 are entitled as fuck

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>>41937460
Normally that's how I'd roll, but she was DTF and that's literally all I wanted. Like I said man, just destroyed my confidence.

>>41937548
why would you have your confidence destroyed by a slut?
just delete her number,forget her and move on

>>41937562
Because I couldn't even bang a total slut, you're right tho.

>>41937592
when a girl brags about how much guys did she fuck you need to bail out of there family

>>41936493
im was already paranoid before the snowden revelations, now its come to the point that there is no trace of myself on the internet in the past 4 years

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>>41937108
hey man, still counts

>tfw drunk and talking about fitness one night with some friends
>posting pics of klokov and similar types, as general examples
>gay friend talking about how hot he thought they were
>i was posting from my "goal bodies" inspo folder

>mfw

>>41937504
Boy she is far from one of those entitled bitches, she really is one of a kind in a good way
You will understand when you find mutual love one day, keep going man <3

>>41937421
it's just last minute resistance, she has to put up a fight so she doesn't feel like a slut

back off for a bit and then escalate again, maybe try telling her some "live for the moment" bullshit

>>41937606
That was at the end of the night at least, but between that and the meth house deal; yeah
>It's probably a good thing that I didn't, but it feels so shitty that I couldn't even

>>41937655
>Having near naked muscular men saved and cataloged on your personal PC

You are definitely prepared to be a fag

>>41937421
don't get caught in the trap of feeling bad for yourself. Yes a lot of people have lost their virginities by now but many haven't. Just be 'normal' until you've lost it and then the rest will be easier. Probably

>>41937548
>D.T.
Donald Trump?

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>>41936638
not really, there was a bounce castle where you run forward with this vest attached to a pulley and it adds resistance so you have to run as forward as you can against the resistance

a carabiner decided it wanted to get better acquainted with my balls and that was that

blood everywhere, shorts ruined, sack torn open

had to drive myself to urgent care, do you know how hard it is to drive, panic, and check that your ball isnt hanging out is? very.

i swear, God just cupped my balls and moved them a little bit so noting got popped (no homo)

>>41937748
>Just be 'normal' until you've lost it and then the rest will be easier. Probably
I've been 'normal', I just want to get out from under the virgin cloud, I know its all in my head but its one more obstacle I need to tackle on my way to making it, I guess I'm just an autist though cause this shit has me confused to high hell. Can't figure out if my game is just that weak or what.
>>41937773
Yep. Main pic is me holding an AR wearing a MAGA hat.

>>41937704
it was for my Ideals pic, senpai

>>41937330
jews

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Got rejected by 2 girls and my oneitis. Going to go monk mode.

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How long has it been since you guys finished high school? Have you guys ever run into someone in your class? How much have they changed and how much have you changed?

Its been 7 yrs since I graduated hs and I've only changed a bit. I do feel like shit thought because everyone I know is now done with their degrees, starting their new careers, getting married, having kids, buying homes, and going on vacation.


And all I'm doing is shitposting on here every night, working a shit job and also trying not to jerk off every fucking weekend.

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>started counting my calories and taking care for my nutrition.
>lost 13 pounds over the span of 2 and a half months
>look at myself in the mirror and feel like I look worse than before.

Send help.

>>41935732
If you want a good workout but also want to meet plenty of new people pick up rock climbing or bjj.

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>Hang out with girl of interest
>She points out how good looking another guy is
>Agree with her
>Mire him even harder

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>>41935538
I'm not trying to be that guy but apparently I'm chad level on looks. Ever since high school girls have told me I'm attractive but I'm so socially autist that whenever a girl makes any kind of sexual advance on me I subconsciously just push them away. I don't know what it is but I'll just start being shitty towards them or avoiding them. Maybe it's because I never had a mom or something idk

>>41937956
been 4-5 years now. I'm in way better shape and most people don't recognize me. The guy who my high school gf dumped me for has put on like 40-50 lbs, and no one else has really done anything notable. Kind of looking forward to the 10 year reunion now

>>41937956
Get your ass to a trade school/apprenticeship. The trades have saved so many NEETs and people in your situation

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>>41936831
I know this feel

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What do I say next? I don't have a Snapchat

>great job
>great coworkers
>great friends
>fitness guru in natty guard unit
>nofap
>gf and I both virgins, saving for marriage
>gf is wonderful
>still feel unaccomplished and empty

Feels bad man.

>>41938097
Ask her if she can use her chin as a bottle opener

>>41938097
you'll never understand my pain

>>41938117
Just because I'm good looking doesn't mean it covers up my autism. In fact, in enhances. Read up on 2d:4d ratios, big dicks and testosterone received at birth.

>>41937255
charge on what grounds?

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>>41938131
you asked me what to say next

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>>41935538
>turn 28 on 4th of july(happy independence day)
>still KHV
only 2 more to go i guess

>>41935538
>Tfw no gf

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>>41936744
W-what's the truth about being circumcised?

I'll never get rid of my stretchmarks no matter how much I improve myself.

>>41938177
This

>>41937421
>"no... i don't have sex on the first date"

failed the shittest m8

>>41938053
>Tfw no one has ever been interested in me
I guess girls just all go for the good looking ones.
Count your blessings anon

>>41938099
How do you even find a virgin girl in this day and age?
Literally every girl I can think of is running around having sex with pricks and then complaining on social media

>>41938257
you know nothing man. Looks dont matter half as much to females as they do to males. Confidence / attitude >>> looks. Looks DO matter though. Just not nearly as much as betas tend to think

>>41938243
Failed it bad jimbo.

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>>41938287
Pretty sure looks are the only thing that matters to females. Why else would they get into relationships with violent abusers criminals and poor people instead of good books slightly less better looking people. They all just go for attractive pricks

>>41938362
youve a lot of learning to go through my man

>>41938169
>>41938131

kek, confirmed autism.

>>41936785
>recently got back with ex fiance
stopped there.

>>41938375
Can you teach me, when does it become too late?

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>>41937330

>>41938177
>>41938202
a certain fellows god feeds off the tortured screams of mutilated infant boys, then they get a pretty penny off selling their body parts to make anti aging cream

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>>41935538
Got back from a gap year in Australia about a month ago. Realized I just wasted a year smoking weed, playing League of legends and getting to know estranged family members that don't really give a fuck about me in the long term. Decide I'm going to become the person I want to be. Started SL my gains actually make me happy physically and mentally. Started getting bored on rest days, join a boxing gym. The pro in-house takes a liking to me and starts working with me every day and comments on my gains every time I come in. I'll never forget the anon that told me to live for myself instead of others, wasted so long trying to be a virtuous helper without realizing I can do that and work for myself. Going to a uni across the country in 2 months but my coach said he'd find me a gym to train in so I can keep up my boxing.

Life's feeling pretty great right now brehs.

>Her asked me if I liked her
>panicked harder than soldiers in WW II
>Finally say yes
>regret hits me harder than an meteor
>tell her to not to pay any attention to it
>She says ok, and sends me a smiley face
>Mfw all of this was on the phone

Felt like complete, utter, elephant shit. Untill I found out...

>She is still friendly to me
>Teases me some times
>Able to talk to her, even hold conversations
>She jokes about it some times.
>My brother doesnt like her much, and, as a jke, she said:

>''That's why I wont say yes anon, beacuse your brother doesnt like me!" and then laughs.

Its an abstract kind of feel. On one hand, Im glad she hasnt gone away and hasnt stoped being friendly to me.

On the other hand, I know she ant gonna be with me. I know this due to myself knowing some stuff about her, and a bro, who is a cousin of a cousin of hers or some shit like that, who is a really good bro, and therefore tells me all I need to know about her.

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>>41938173
May as well hire an escort at this point

>>41938534
ur a fag

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>>41936744
>Be me holding lecture about male circumcision
>Girl in the audience suddenly start sobbing
>Ask her what's the matter
>Turns out she recently circumcised her baby boy
>tfw it's not even the norm in our country
Fucking mudslimes.

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>tfw I came face to face with my vacation photos and realized that I'm the bottom 1% in facial looks
holy fucking shit I want to die

>>41938741
me and you both bud
death can't come soon enough

>>41938177
It takes the vast majority of the feeling in your penis and every year your dickhead gets more numb and cracked.

>>41936000
im very sad now from that pic thanks anon

>>41935538
Not really looking for advice, just need a place to get this off my chest:

Had a new front desk girl start working these past 6 months. I'm pretty much the stereotypical quiet, spill spaghetti, y-you too type. Only work together 2 days a week. 1 day day is just is 2 for 5 hours. She constantly talks to me about different things in her life from college shit, hang outs with friends, etc. 1 day during the 5 hour shift we just start talking back and forth about childhoods, interests and so on. Later we have a night out with the manager, another worker, and us 2. Manager has a crush on her and she is talky with him as well. Immediately figure I'm gonna get cucked die to so many rejections and break ups so I don't even try any more. Still, all 4 of us get drunk and have a good time. She later on says she wants to hang out with me and manager in the future. Fast forward 2 weeks and we have a plan set up. Manager can't make it due to prior plans. Go bar hopping and get drunk again. Gets to a point where we're asking personal questions. Highlights includes when she said she was still a virgin, said that she can hang out with manager a be comfortable but I find understand her, showed me a text message where another worker flirted with her and she shit him down, and asked if I have a crush and I asked vice versa; we both said yes but never said who it was. Walked back to cars where she put my arm around her. That was it. Want to go for it but too scared because of manager and risk of fucking it up and then having to work together.

Again, not looking for advice, just needed to get this off my chest and tell someone do please pardon my autism. Feels a little bit better. Thanks for the thread, OP

>>41938819
they helped the ducklings up after the photo

>broke up with gf a couple of months ago
>was the right thing to do
>have loads of friends but virtually no new females met
>only have one female friend that I see every few months
>had sex with her last time i saw her
>worried its going to ruin my friendship with her
>same thing has happened with every female i have had sex with, feeling arise and it fucks everything up
>feel like i'm setting fire to a bridge with my dick every time
>know i'm going to have sex with her again
>tfw just wished i had a sex-bot to make my life easier

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>>41937386
London here, feel the exact same.
This place is shit

>>41938053
> I'm chad level on looks
Post face

>>41938534 lol>>41938610 this fits nicely

>>41938828 just do it boi,DO IT FOR THE FUTURE.

>>41938888
check't n you should just do your thing and not worry to much. Have the sex if you feel like it.
Do not think too much.

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>>41935866

Same. 27yo.

This has happened twice almost point for point (at 18 & 25 yo);
>They make a move
>Anxiety floods through me and I feel my dick flatline from panic
>I delay them by eating them out for as long as possible, in the hopes that anxiety will pass
>Eventually they seem to orgasm (probably fake) and flip me over after catching their breath a bit, going down on me
>literally the most shriveled up my dick has ever been on both occasions
>I have my hand over my face in shame, they're polite and try to make it work
>They eventually they give up and start smashing their vaginas into my dead noodle, almost like they're trying to kickstart an old bike
>I pull them close and try to hide my face over their shoulder, fighting back tears and apologizing
>after a short time they get up and get dressed
>never speak about it again

Last time it happened I had a year+ long breakdown and developed mild tourettes. Picture related until I die. I'm not going to let anyone fool me into thinking that I can pull off normie relationship shit ever again.

>>41938177
Don't worry. I was circumcised when I was 12 and have a memory of when my penis was normal. I can honestly say circumsiced penis is better because its easier to keep sanitary. It is still fucked up they do it to babies right when they are born.

>>41939239
>. I can honestly say circumsiced penis is better because its easier to keep sanitary.
it requires zero effort to keep your dick sanitary
and I have mild phimosis

>>41938497
Name and name of the anon?

>>41938243
>>41938243
how do you not fail that? i feel like that if id try to alpha up and try to force myself she'd straight up call me rapist

>>41938387
People have to learn by making mistakes.

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>>41935783
>went from huge DYEL to 1/2/3/4 because of her
>my autism cockblocked me again

The most important step, I believe, is when you finally stop comparing yourself to others and only compare yourself with yourself.

It's not about being bigger than the next guy, getting laid more, having more friends or having more money than others. It's about making sure today I'm better than yesterday and it's about doing that every single day even if it's just a small way. Marginal gains over time is the most important aspect. It should be priority number one and all you think about. Improving yourself and only comparing yourself with yourself.

Once you get past that step your whole world opens up and you can start embracing the freedom you had all along. Start building a sense of agency and living your life.

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>tfw banged knee into a car door and can't run 5Ks anymore

>>41939283
Don't have a name, but I was bragging in a thread about some service trips I have done and he called me out for being a faggot and looking for attention online. Had a good dialogue with him and he told me to start working for myself. Those words honestly hit me like a truck. I'm the eldest of three brothers, and I decided I was going to do the things that I want to do for them. So I can be a better role model for them.

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>>41939621
there is no future
there is only the descent from childhood and the exuberance of youth into the degenerate wasteland that is my adult life

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>>41936717
I get that feeling but for pic related reason.

>>41935783

Until 3 days before her 30th birthday.

>>41937158
Fucking hell I know that feel. Went from being a suicidal neet to working 2 jobs, finishing hs, getting promotions, going to the gym, and im going to college in September. Though for all of it I'm just as unhappy as I was 2 years ago. Honestly everything I've done was just to make my mom stop crying for me. I dont enjoy anything anymore and I'm living someone else's idea of how to be happy.
I try new things everyday to see if something can light my fire again but now I'm not sure if I've ever even had one.
I still have hope things will get better though

>>41936917
You'll make it anon this is only a short chapter in the grand book.

>>41937020
This made me smile anon gratz

>>41939675
I went through this stage for like 3 months before I realised what an absolute waste of time thinking this is. The whole "life is suffering and nothing means anything" type of view point is like being born. I mean I don't think any of the best philosophers on nihilism and existentialism would agree with you. Pretty much all of them say you have to define your meaning in the world, and I'd say that's where most people just aren't strong enough at first to deal with. They're being asked to run before they can even crawl.

The freedom to define the meaning in your life (or as you put it to define the period of your life from the descent from childhood to the degenerate wasteland of adult life) is 100% a burden. An incredibly difficult part of your life that requires the utmost attention, care and above all a high amount of strength. To cope with that burden is very hard and should be treated with respect.

I do believe however that it is worth it. To truly reach out and begin to feel what is possible and what life can be, all of a sudden you find living a meaningless existence is just not an option. Being born and acknowledging the void is the start, from there you take your first steps you gain more confidence and eventually begin to run. Your world fills out and your mind takes on new perspectives and you gain an understanding you'd have never have been able to dream of before.

The bottom line is you have a choice. Condemn yourself to a meaningless life, where you never stepped up, took on the burden and defined a meaning for yourself, or you can take your first steps into a world that you can create.

Totally your call. But these days I see nihilists as weak. With more motivation to define life as meaningless, to take the burden off themselves than do something about. It's bullshit and should never, ever be encouraged.

>>41939979
I'm not a nihilist and I don't think life is meaningless, I just know my own worth

>>41936717
I think you just assumed being a khv neet was the disease itself when I'm reality it was just a symptom of something larger.

>>41936717
I was a virgin out of high school. No real friends and no girlfriend.
>tfw
Then I went to college and almost immediately everything's changed.
A girl from high school chatted me up for a while and we eventually started dating. Lost my virginity to her and fell in love with her.
Met a good group of friends, pledged a fraternity, generally enjoying myself.

By the end of the second semester all of that had changed. My girlfriend broke up with me, dropped the fraternity because of hazing, and shut myself in my dorm and didnt leave unless to get food, going to class, or going to the gym.

I still have hope that my sophomore year will start good and hopefully stay that way.
My only problem is that I'm terrified of initiating interactions with people and I don't know how to fix it.
I'm too insecure and always think people I meet are judging me poorly.
Might try to get a prescription for xanax or something so maybe I just won't care.

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>>41935610
It's not a lack of willpower that prevents people from eating healthily. You only need an ounce of willpower to get yourself started; to look up a couple of recipes and learn a thing or two about the micros and macros. After the first week or two, it's all a routine already.

What stops people from eating healthily, is that they don't see the problem. It's like the frog that gets boiled alive, because the water in the kettle was cool at the start. Their lifestyle is partly something they've learned from their parents, and in part reinforced by their friends -- who are exactly like them, because no one likes a friend who calls you out on your crap habits -- and ultimately the change is inhibited by the human characteristic resistance to change.

Just think, how many of us have come to the /fit/ lifestyle through original thought? Not many. Most of us have lived absolutely pathological lives, either socially or in terms of physical fitness, and that life has predictably crumbled from underneath us: deserted by friends and family, weighed down under a mountain of fat, or simply found something ugly in the mirror. It's precisely that moment of shock, when we've been forced to do some serious thinking about the way we live. Most people live a long time going on autopilot, because they never have to think. But once you start to think, you'll never stop.

TL;DR: It's the basic idea of Plato's cave: Getting out of the cave is a pain, but once you're in the light, you'll never go back into the darkness.

>>41937281
I feel you anon, had a 7/10 blue eyed piece of heaven qt confess she had fallen in love with me at a classmate's birthday party. I ignored her, out of pure shock, no one had ever said anything like that before so I didn't even know how to respond, plus I was wasted. Suffice to say any subtle attempt I tried to make afterwards to make a move she ignored completely.

The only time a girl has ever confessed to me, an I fuck it up. We are the idiots and autists out there anon, we gotta be tough.

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>>41937320
so thats what girls say when they are interested in you

>tfw no girl ever has

>>41940034
>i'm not willing to accept change is possible
>this is a deflecting mechanism so I don't have to question and challenge myself into being something better

k.

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>>41937999
This is why you should be strict in photographing ur progress

>>41937432
Get jacked so you can start making demands

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> 2014
> I'm single cause I just got out of a nasty relationship and want to enjoy life
> 2015
> I'm single because my life isn't together right now. Once I find an apartment, I'll start dating
> 2016
> I'm single because I'm just too busy to deal with a relationship and I'm trying to save money
> 2017
> I'm single because I'm on a path of self discovery, I'll start dating once I'm good with myself
> checks phone
> have talked to 3 girls over the past 3 years
> don't know why I keep lying to myself
> mfw

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>tfw balding at 21
what else is there to say?

>>41937386
Mississippi reporting in. I don't even know how to fucking escape this hellhole.

>>41938177
Literally nothing. People that get pissy over circumcision are the definition of numale and are clearly insecure and looking for something to blame for their social failure

>tfw relapsed on porn

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>>41940701
I know a kid that's been balding since he was 16. He had break downs about it all the time throughout high school but you just shave your head and grow a beard and kinda deal with it.

I'm about to turn 24 and have the confidence and self esteem of a child.

I'm 6'3 and have been lifting 5 years. It makes it even more laughable and people see that I'm an autist and laugh at me.

That's what happens when you're raised by an over protective single mother.

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>>41936667
lmao, I laughed so fucking hard when I saw that Netflix show trailer. It's about people being way too skinny. 30% of America is obese as fuck. These Jews must be stopped.
pic related is way too skinny she needs to beat anorexia. Anyone have the picture of the dude who is like 500 pounds wearing a shirt that says " I beat Anorexia"? would love to save it

Did everyone leave? 24 now feels like most have gone

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>>41935538
>tfw keep waking up at 4:00am
FUCK THIS IS RUINING MY GAINS REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE

>tfw the amerisharts meme got to me
>no, it really got to me not trolling not kidding or anything
>every time I do deads or squat I think I'm going to shart
>half the time I'm at the gym my belly is rumbling
>every time I'm in public I try to either check in a mirror or flee to a bathroom to check
>I just don't understand how a human being can accidentally shit themselves and not notice
>maybe it will happen to me on day
>so I check all the time

This meme has honestly started to ruin my life.

>>41936573
>>41937845
Had to google bounce castle and found some obscure archaic usage of it. It's called a moon leap you troglodyte.

>>41936000
That pic is depressing as fuck. I feel sad now

>>41939979
I'm going through this now, but I really don't see a point to finding meaning in anything. No matter what you do in life, your net suffering is going to be greater than your net joy.

"Finding meaning" is just getting your brain to release good chemicals, whether that's via lifting, children, a wife, climbing mount everest, whatever. To do those things you have to endure the suffering associated with each (and they each have a minimum amount of suffering that can and often does increase e.g. wife is great then she cheats, kid is born with a defect, risk of a trip to snap city via lifting avenue).

>Condemn yourself to a meaningless life, where you never stepped up, took on the burden
All life is meaningless though (and I'm not saying that just to be an edgy faggot). You believe it has meaning, but that's just your brain feeding you endorphins (even the Zen Buddhist gets a rush when he thinks he's made progress). Why would you take on the burden if the burden is just constant misery except you get occasional biscuits?

>Spend two years being a shut in during Community College
>Studying social sciences because I have no idea what I want to do with my life
>Was skinny fat and had little to no contact with the outside world
>Read the sticky and decide to get /fit/
>Sign up for the Naval Reserves a few weeks later
>Spend a year working with them and now on track to becoming an inventory clerk for the Forces
>Now have a dream to someday become an officer or join the military police
>Finally have confidence in myself

Either get busy living or get busy dying

>>41936000
DELET THIS PIC RIGHT NOW FUCK DAMN IT

>looked at childhood photos in our family photo album
>90% of the pictures is my dad having fun with my elder bro, amusement parks, fishing, legos, traveling
>only pictures of me are from the time when i didn't know how to speak
>dad was home 0-2 days a week when i was a kid
>never heard him say "i love you" or "i'm proud of you"
>most father and son activities i did with friends' dads

never cried like that before, seeing what I didn't have was painful

>went for a jog a few days ago
>decided to do the wooded hill path
>barely anyone goes up there due to the coyotes and the often times very angry elk even though there is a nice view
>get to the viewpoint and decide to take a break
>couple minutes later some women in their early 20's walked by complaining about the heat
>they went maybe 15-20 yards away and start changing their clothes
>I'm such a non entity sexually that women feel completely comfortable disrobing in front of me without any fear

I was hoping someone would run out of the woods with a camera saying "YO YOU JUST GOT PRANKED MY DUDE HAHA WASN'T THAT CRAZY???" but alas, i'm just a piece of scenery. I'm not even human.

>>41935834
This is good you were living a comforting lie and sinking deeper into oblivion. You can see clearly now the porn has gone

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>12 months ago
>met a girl who was great, sort of fit since she played futsal, cute face, great personality
>she really liked me for some reason so we start dating
>I was fat, had low self-esteem
>6 months in the relationship I broke up with her because of my self-esteem issues since I felt like she deserved better
>she cried the same way my mother cried in my grandma's funeral, very intense
>I decided to lose weight and get fit
>she had to see me almost everyday since we broke up, for 6 months, due to our parallel routines (which is how we've met)
>every time she saw me her eyes watered up
>every time I saw her almost crying because I broke up with her only gave me more motivation to improve myself to her
>she suffered for six straight months for me
>I got fit
>solved my self-esteem issues
>now after six months she changed her routine, now she takes another bus that is way out from her home but drops her off in the same place just so she won't have to see me every day again
>only know this because I had to take this way out bus one time and saw her and made sure she didn't see me to not upset her
>she's finally moving on now, though she still has that sad look on her face and lost eyes
>she's finally moving on just as I fixed myself and was going to talk to her again

Dunno if tomorrow I should "just" take the other bus and talk to her or if I should indeed let her go.

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>>41937330

Abstract happy merchants

>>41940814
>, your net suffering is going to be greater than your net joy
Youre doing life wrong dude. Quit being a bitch and make meaning. Your in a hole complaining that if you got out of the hole you would just wind up in another one, so why even bother. You sound like a child. Try St. Johns wort. 900mg daily. In about 2 weeks you will start to mentally feel better. And read some Jesus. Thats the meaning you are seeking.

>>41940978
>decide to go for a jog in the woods even though I have extreme anxiety that manifests itself in the form of pants shitting diarrhea
>think it'll be fine, if I have a panic attack I can just go off the trail a bit and shit
>start jogging and sure enough the extreme stomach pain I get from leaving the house for more than an hour or two happens
>go off the trail a bit and drop my pants
>spray shit all over a tree
>wipe it off with some big leaves
>the trail actually wrapped around and I wasn't off the trail at all
>family of 5 and some mid 20s girls saw the whole thing
>sprint to my car crying while shit drops down my legs

That was 5 months ago, haven't left my house since. H-home gym master race.

>>41941127
wouldn't xanax actually be beneficial at that point

>>41941127


KEK

>>41940771
yea i have a similar case of autism as well
>doing crunches in a park
>a few people around me
>fart while doing crunches
>make TSHHH breathing noises louder each time i fart and hope they don't notice
i don't know man

>>41941074
If this is true you better go there on your knees asap
6 months is a lot, dont let this go, explain it fully to her

>>41938831
yeah but now I'm thinking about all the times that that happened but no-one was around

>>41941164
My insurance doesn't cover mental health, I have a $127 appointment in a month to see a therapist for 30 minutes that I have to talk to before I can see the psychiatrist in 2 months. I have to put the bill on my credit card so I can afford it while also paying my $280 a month student loan bill. I'd apply for welfare, but my parents said they'd disown me if I got government assistance.

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>meditating between sets
>doing thai chi at home
>stopped drinking coffee and eat strictly clean
I'm gonna make it

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>>41938117
What do I say next? You fuckers are blowing it.

>>41941212
>but my parents said they'd disown me if I got government assistance
you're a grown man living alone, fuck what they think. do you niggah

>>41941223
"The pain of tfw no gf"

>>41941223
"GOTTA EAT BIG TO GET BIG COME ON"
With your best pianoman pic.

>>41941223
>i'm a khv
or
>i have a large bone to examine

>that comfy feel when cuddling up with now gf
>tfw i had a stomach virus and she insisted i spend the day at her place as she cared for me
have i made it /fit/?

>>41941338
it won't, it's just useless calories

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>>41936000

feels are for faggots

>>41941357
Thanks, even though I posted in the wrong thread and deleted.

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>>41935538
>Go to Paradiso music festival
>Take molly and LSD with a couple bumps of ketamine here and there
>sitting on the hillside watching tiesto play his set while rolling
>cute petite latina girl comes up to me and starts talking to me
>we're both clearly on mdma but everything at the moment feels blissful and euphoric
>end up cuddling and feeling each other up
>feel like we have a genuine connection together
>nothing in this world can make me happier

>paradiso ends the next day
>see girl again
>the molly come down makes me feel nothing but sad when I see her
>she also looks at me with sadness
>realize the only way I can ever feel completely happy with being alive is if I take drugs to do so

I might as well destroy my body and mind with drugs and die young, because I sure don't want to grow old and sad alone

>>41940742
No, that's what happens when you blame your shitty demeanor on your overprotective single mother.

>>41941223
"The pain of not being with you ;-)"

It's faggy, but the only thing that makes sense at this point

I totally bombed a third date with almost guaranteed sex from a Michigan State grad. She had a great tan and killer body. I ended up driving her home 20 minutes not a word said, I wanted to laugh several times. She had asked me to push into a relationship after meeting her on a Tuesday on a Friday night. I said no.

>>41939205
good lord you need nofap+noporn in your life my friend.

>>41936785

I was in a similar position. It's not going to end well for you anon.

I wish there was a way to do arranged marriages, I feel like it's the only way someone like me could get married.

>>41940659
its futile. just stop wasting your time now before its gone forever

>>41941212
>America
Oh say can....

>>41938276
Sounds like the girl is really religious, and I guess it depends on the country. You always can go for younger girls too, before you become like 26 and it becomes creepy.

>>41941511
How do I ask for her what her height is without sounding awkward? I'm 5'9, I don't want to find out that she's taller than me on our first date.

>>41936831

Im glad im not the only one. People think im a weirdo when i say i cant stomach fast food anymore. They'll never understand.

>>41938534
Fuck off with the beta bullshit and gf her.

how come everyday feels boring? no matter what I do

the only enjoyment comes when my friends meet and we either go out or make a bbq which is pretty cool, eating and chatting.
Problem is we all live away from each other and it's hard to get together since here gas money costs A LOT and you're limited in stuff like drinking

seriously, if it wasnt for that 2-3 times a month i'd go crazy

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>>41935538
>DYEL
>only recently started lifting
>finish my set this morning and take a protein shake
>one scoop, 8oz of milk
>have had diarrhea all day
Is this normal or am I just retarded

>>41942076
>>41942076
it's a mix of being bored and sad at the same time
had a 5 day holiday with my uncle, aunt and cousin since my parents work 24/7 and it was really nice, cleared my head but it all came back quickly and then my gf of 4y kissed some other dude and regrets it and wants to come back

>>41942078
Happened to me once when i first started lifting

>>41942078
Eat ur greens anon and shit logs.

>>41940381
You have a point anon. I think I'll try to be more conscious of my own choices in the future, to avoid getting stuck in another kind of cave.

>>41941534
Nigger, you did the right thing.

Relationship? Fuck that shit.

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>>41940701
Bald guys with beards look really cool in my opinion, so if you can grow a nice beard, you should go for that. Also, look up elon musk when he was young and now. There is a kind of money that buys you hair.

>>41941534
A girl rushing into a relationship that fast has issues.

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>>41935538

I have an odd feel. Girl at work has been really friendly, going out of her way to talk to me, laughing at my most spergalicious jokes and touching me. Does this means she likes me? I think so but my friend said "signs" from girls don't mean shit and I'm just not used to talking to people so I blow things out of proportion in my head. I like her, but I just can't imagine any girl liking me and I keep thinking she's just outgoing and I'm getting muddled due to the ol' tism.

Man I wish I didn't have the emotional and social maturity of a 14 year old.

>go to work first day at warehouse
>putting packages to go out in shipping
>ask "where do I put this?"
>40-50 year old woman says "wherever you want to"
>on my way out another middle aged woman says goodbye to me
>woman in her 40-50 who talked to me earlier smiles at me on her way out

Is it /fit/ approved to bang old ladies?

I have bipolar disorder and on meds but I'd probably bang anything at this point in my life.

>>41941074
don't let go man, talk to her

>>41942229
>Is it /fit/ approved to bang old ladies?
Banging literally anyone is /fit/-approved since the board is full of former /r9k/'ers
However, there's quite a good greentext story about the horrors of banging a milf that I didn't save
But you have been warned

>>41942268
I remember reading one quite a few months ago, It was quite a long story and involved the guy having sex with the mom and something about the kid, hilarious shit

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I've followed you this far, now what /fit/?

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>ask out my oneitis
>we hang out multiple times over a 3 month period
>She gets her hot friend to come on to me and test me
>Say I've only got eyes for oneitis
>go for a night out with her and get too drunk
>she puts her earbud in my ear and plays this
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iArXv64tCJA
>starts it deliberately at the line "would you go out with someone like me"
>is pissed off when I don't get the implied message
>go home like a drunken idiot
>see her at house party some months later
>she grabs me in the hallway, says "oh, come on then" sighing like she's frustrated with me
>we go to bed
>eat her out
>can't get hard because whiskey dick
>wake up next morning
>hard as a rock
>literally at the point of penetration
>Mentally ill girl that has been in love with me for the last 4 years starts banging the door screaming for me
>we get up
>my oneitis leaves

Neither my extended circle of friends, nor I have even seen her since. She could literally be dead and I don't even know.

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>had a chance to date a cute girl that actually liked me
>didn't go through bc awkward and shit
>lived life since, accomplished stuff
>contemplate about talking to her again
>really wanna but have no idea how to talk to her again
how do i go about this /fit/?

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>>41941186
Haha you're the guy who does that? Posting on /fit/ that's absurd bro. Come to the park tomorrow, I'll be wearing a backwards baseball hat, I'll give you a hard mire and a nod. Then you come over and we'll be friends.

>>41942292
Try: What are you doing Thursday? Let's go to bar X

>>41942353
She could be taller than me though. I'm 5'9. How do I ask without turning her off.

>>41935834
>>41935865

bro, life is like fitness, you just have take it one day at the time and don't look at the end result - you will get there. Just focus on improving your life. You don't need to have all your problems solved by tomorrow, just make sure you do spend tomorrow doing stuff that will improve your life. Start eating well for example. Send job applications. Go and meet someone new. Learn how to cook something. Get into some sports. Join some sort of education, even if it is a language course or something. Small steps every day will take you far.
It is like going to the gym, It is not about getting shredded in a week, is about making the effort everyday and the journey to your goals. Every bit you improve your life tomorrow will help you improve the other parts. If you eventually get a job, it will help you get a gf. If you learn something it will help you get a job. If you meet people you will be more sociable. If you read a book it will make you more interesting. So just make sure you do something and keep doing something without looking to the end and you will get there.

>>41942370
are you a beta manlet? the cutoff for manlethood is 5-9 and 10 precisely because that's where women start being called tall

don't be a fag and suggest dancing to force non-heel footwear

>>41935610
>>41940381

I'm living with my uncle in pseudo-NEETdom (just graduated but doing freelance web dev work) and I just eat what he's having because I'm broke as fuck. Sometimes it's just a matter of your circumstances. Good thing I just finished cutting.

>>41942535
I suck at dancing when I lift. I get really tight in my legs.

I been living so empty, with no ambition to live life. Brain is racing 24/7, gathering information i don't know how to put to use. Anxiety. Loneliness. Hate only towards myself. Don't know why im like this. Find out about Jordan Peterson.
Dig to the roots of my problems. Known why the entire time but i always shrugged it off. Now that I pulled out the problems from only being mindless thoughts to reality im too scared to face them. But i knew already that i be scared of them which now makes sense why i shrugged them off. To make this make sense, I been ignoring what my unconsciousness feels the need to fix or want. The thoughts that come in saying "you should of done this". Shunned family and friends knowing thats also part of the problem. Haven't realized how far down this fucking pit im in. Can't cry. Don't want to open to ppl and feel vulnerable. Fuck.

Haven't been on this site for some months but had to vent.

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>decide to turn my life around
>quit smoking weed and binge drinking
>best friend becomes distant, still smoking tons of weed and partying all the time
>our friend group is all drinking all the time
>they are actually just boring as fuck if they are sober
>all I have now is online friends and /fit/

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>>41940759

>>41936667
Fucking savage.

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>>41940978
I wish I was a piece of scenery...

>>41942677
>Can't cry. Don't want to open to ppl and feel vulnerable.
This. If I ever opened up to anyone, I would immediately regret it and feel embarrassed.

>>41939205
try a relationship, and take things slow. make sure it's based on honesty and openness. take your sweet time progressing to having sex, and most importantly make sure you are COMFORTABLE and RELAXED.
it's the same way with girls that have trouble climaxing. you have to relax, and get all soft and lovey-dovey but that's what allows you to keep the bad feelings at bay. trust me on this one.
it's also way better than just fucking.
The memories that I have of being cute and cuddly with a hint of sexy with an ex, and just taking things slow and feeling the rhythm and "making love" are so much stronger and more pleasurable that all of times we fucked, even when it was to the point that we were unable to stand afterwords

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>>41942292
You're throwing cringe lines at her and she still wants you, ask her out somewhere. REEEE.

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>>41936545
CLEAN YOUR ROOM!

>>41937020
You're an inspiration to us all, bro.

>>41935538
>tfw I just want to get back to working again
>have something to do for 10 hours a day
>get drastically less calories in without trying
>bring prepared meals to work
>impress people a few times a year with baked goods and snacks
>be 100% independent

I applied for my dream job last week and things are going smoothly so far. Scored well on my skills test and am being forwarded to the department for interviews. So close.....

>>41942677
Need to work on it.
I have chronic depersonalization and derealization and the other day a friend told me he was jealous I was a robot.
I'm not autistic acting to others, he just can tell I can't really feel emotion in the moment anymore.
We both need to work on the shit our brain screams out to defy.

I'm worried me and my gf are drifting apart.

>long term relationship with gf through college
>on last year but she has moved home already since she finished earlier
>for about a year, she's lived at home whilst I'm study. Long distance relationship but only 3 hours away from each other
>stops texting me daily, barely bothers to text me
>choosing to work more hours than come visit me
>planned on her moving down to me whilst she did another year of study
>no considering doing it from home instead. Doesn't want to get a plan together yet
>she has a history of depression before me, worried she's depressed or bored


I'm concerned this is a run to the end. Everything feels off, I did think at one point she maybe cheated on me but I felt I was being paranoid. I feel I'm being paranoid now.

>>41937255
I dated a girl just like your description anon... She went to my uni and we went on a few dates, fugged once and then she had to do exams and it kind of broke down. Lasted about 10 weeks in total and its been over a month since she ended it. I think about her constantly and I genuinely don't want to date anyone else (cancelled a date twice on the day and almost definitely pissed a nice girl off). I go to uni in my home city and I start my PhD next year so all my uni friends are going home and I'm a completely different person to who I was at school so my friends that live here aren't the kind of people I enjoy spending time with. So i'm expecting to be pretty lonely.
I don't blame her for ending it, I was planning on meeting her once or twice more after her exams and try to end it on my own terms I've just never really had feelings before. I'm getting better every day and I've started texting someone but fuck am I transitioning from robot to normie??

Should I tell my parents and family that I'm a dyke?

I'm 24 and I've never been in a relationship but my parents now that I've dated guys in the past. However for the past 9 months I've dated a female.

I barely never see my parents since we live on the other side of the country, but when I do, everyone is naturally curious about my dating life. I'm just wondering should I tell that I'm seeing a woman or just shut up and let my parents think that I'm single cause I haven't found a nice guy yet.

I'm also worried that they wouldn't believe me and would say that since I've briefly dated dudes before this can't be a real thing etc etc and that it's just a phase or some kind of a trendy thing I'm doing. As said I'm 24 and I'm not some mentally unstable SJW type.

FUCK WOMEN
FUCK NON WHITES
FUCK JEWS
AND FUCK YOU

piana was right.

>>41943030

mein neger

>>41936785
Why are humans so terrible. Stories like this make me so scared to ever be in a relationship. It seems like LITERALLY everyone fucking cheats nowadays.

I hope god is real so this degenerate society can be wiped out already.

>>41943016
Even though I'm not gay I've thought about this scenario because I have a lot of free time on my hands. I came to the conclusion that I would write them a long email explaining things. But then again I'm kind of a beta and avoid direct, heavy truth bombs.

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>>41941326
People like you are so happy, with your little gf, and your little belly virus. FUCK YOU

I resent you, and I hate you. I hate your gf. I hate your belly virus. Everything you possess, i DESERVE!!!!! REEEEEEEEEEEE!!!

A man can only take so much rejection

You either die with a gf. Or live long enough to see yourself become elliot rodgers.

>>41943085
Yeah. I'm slightly worried that my parents wouldn't accept it though. I don't think that they'd disown me, but they'd possibly brush it off and tell me that I'm not really into women, that they know me and I'm just going through some personal crisis. Which isn't true, they don't really even know me or anything about my life but they have always tried to mold me into this person and persona they want me to be. Yeah I just don't know if it's their business to even know really. At the same time I'm happier than I've ever been and I don't feel like hiding my relationship.

>>41942000
My fellow manlet, no one gives a fuck. Just bang the amazonian.

>>41943145
Your a disappointment. I know if I had a child and they were gay I'd be very very dissipointed.

Just conceal your flaming disgusting homosexuality for the sake of your parents and every decent person in america. Sheesh

>>41941074
that's a movie situation there bro. you just have to make it end like one.
If you've sorted yourself out sufficiently, then its time to re-engage. which is probably the ultimate test of if you've actually sorted yourself out.
Have you bettered yourself to the point that you're going to chase after your desire and let nothing stand in your way? will you overcome any obstacle in your path?
Wasn't that the goal of your training and self improvement? to journey through hell and come to better understand the true nature of life and emerge strengthened and with conviction?
It's the archetypal story. Your training is done, now you must go slay the dragon, rescue the princess, and return triumphant like the great myths of history.
I believe in you

>This is just to say hello
>And to let you know
>I think of you from time to time

>I know I never really knew you, but somehow I miss you
>And wish that you'd stayed in my life

>Making contact gets harder as the silence grows longer
>And isn't it only me

>Who'd like us to see each other?
>How I would hate to be a bother
>The way we left it was you'd ring

>I'm under no illusion
>As to what I meant to you
>But you made an impression
>And sometimes I still feel the bruise

>>41942849
We're gonna have to sooner or later, anon.
>>41942949
Sounds like me lol, only difference is i do what others do and put a character so they don't notice. I don't know who i am but im only 20 so maybe im going thru what I should of gone thru when I was in highschool since that was the time I started putting an act instead of expressing who I was, seeking validation from my peers maybe? Who fucking knows...

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>25
>no money and no job experience ever
>friendless since middle school and a KHHV
>over a decade of lost opportunities that could've potentially changed my life entirely for the better if I just had that *tiny* amount of knowledge
>been here since I was 19-going-on-20 and I still haven't made it because kept fucking it up by not getting my routine and diet down just right and taking too many hiatuses (although something snapped and I'm not struggling with that now)

/liftthepainaway/ WW@?

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my life is going incredibly well right now

this thread is also for good /feels/ right?

>>41943145
>they don't really even know me or anything about my life but they have always tried to mold me into this person and persona they want me to be.

Yikes, that hits home.

>Yeah I just don't know if it's their business to even know really.

Honestly, depending on your relationship with them, it may in fact not be their business. Maybe just don't hide it and let them find out? You can always deal with the fallout later, if they can't accept you, that's 100% on them.

>>41943181
Gas yourself.

>>41942200
Ask her out, in a romantic way. If she declines, then in a while y'all will still be friends after the awkwardness ends.
If she says yes, you could get a crash course in emotional maturity

>>41943270

no, bugger off normie this is sad nigga hours

>>41943270
Im happy you're happy(but gtfo)

>>41942970
I've had a long distance relationship with a depressed person. Don't worry, if she wanted to die she'd tell you because she believes you are a life line.

She's most likely trying to get her life in order. Life after college is hectic, man, calm down.

Send her a love letter/card saying how you miss her and can't wait to kiss her and all the things you want. Make it personalized and decorated.

Give her something to hug, too. Like a stuffed toy.

Don't fuck up like I did with my Depressed ex.

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>>41937020
you made it anon

I'm really afraid of greatness and being amazing at my job

I look for excuses to make myself wrong but truth is I'm good at what I do and I don't want to study anymore

I feel being great takes other areas of your life away....

>>41943348
Take the risk anon, better than regretting something you never did

>>41943250
There's still time to improve anon. I'm 25 and just started college last year. Most schools you get a membership to their gym included in tuition. You can do it anon.

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>>41943391

I'm a year away from graduating, it's the gettin' swole part I am worried about at this age...

>>41935783
This hit me hard, anon. Going through the same thing, isn't it. It's a unique form of torture. What do you think they do in their spare time? We think about them non-stop, 24/7, would lay down our lives and marry them... meanwhile, they are probably posting on their smartphone, instagram, and having caramel mocha fuckachinos with their "girlfriends".

Fuck women, I swear. I just watched that episode of South Park in my garage while working out when Stan's parents divorce and he thinks everything is shit. When he says, "Fuck you, Kyle, you're shitty!... but, I love you... but, you're fucking shitty!... I love you."

Man, hit me hard becuase that's how I feel right now. So much despair, hate towards her, etc... but at the same time I love her. I hate her for making me feel like I loved her and wanted to be with her, just to get thrown aside... fuck, man. Welp, back to deadlifting. Good luck, anon.

For the people feeling stuck in life, here's a bit of advice that has helped me out.

Either you make a decision for yourself or you have a decision made for you by circumstance.

You have to stop letting decisions happen and start making decisions for yourself. That's the first step to getting control.

>>41943450
This.

>>41943450

That would've really helped me 10 or so years ago. Too little too late now. Sure, I can improve, but enough to make a big difference?

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>>41937020

>"her"

>>41941488
this.

you have to stop blaming other people. thats an important step in life.

>>41943482
>That would've really helped me 10 or so years ago

And it won't help you now? You're just gonna drift on for a few more decades at a time? Start taking control now. Your future self 10 years down the line will thank you.

>>41943482
It doesn't matter when you start anon. Just don't give in. It's one of those things you can't see the reward out of until you do it.

>>41941488
>>41943506

>he thinks we all live in a vacuum and free will exists

Not saying he should keep dwelling on his parent's shortcomings but come on fuck off with this bullshit already.

>>41941074
Take the bus, anon. Don't live the rest of your life wishing you had.

>>41943528
>>41943531

I haven't given up but the damage has already been done. You'd never know it unless you've been through it.

>>41935610
it's hard to undo literal years of mental programming and pleasures. I still have nights where I just binge and feel no satisfaction from it and think "wow that was unsatisfying" but a few nights later I get the craving again.

I lived my whole life as a fatty, now I'm trying to unravel that ball of string and it's tough.