I thought it was a meme

>>41885016
Avoid alcohol, stop smoking cigarettes. And just stick to the nofap. All else fails stop by a sex shop and grab yourself some pills cause fuck it its your first time and you might as well fuck for 3 hours. Pro tip, drink lots of water, and take some aspirin before hand.

oh boy shes gonna dump you. you have to do no fap for 90 days

>>41885016
I had problems getting it up/keeping it up for chicks when I first started getting laid and here's the two best things that helped
1. Don't overthink it. If you sit there thinking about how badly you NEED to get a boner and worrying about not getting one you're just gonna make psyche yourself out and not be able to get hard. Have fun.
2. Take your time and don't be afraid to do what you need to do to get hard. If you need her to suck your dick to get you rock hard and ready then let her know that. If you need to get some lube and wack yourself off for a second then do that. Do what you gotta do to get the boner, don't expect that you'll just make out for a couple minutes and you're dick will be 100% ready for penetration.

There is literally nothing wrong with giving yourself a few quick strokes to get yourself hard during foreplay/when you're ready to put it in.

>>41885016

How much porn and fapping were you doing before this?

>>41885085
Not OP but I have the same problem. Once it's happened it's just so hard to not think about getting hard.

>>41885016
watch porn to turn you on will still be in nofap and noporn mode. Never tested it but it seem like a great idea. Follow my advice at your own risk OP, cuz i want you fuck her to come back here make a greentext for us. Good luck

>>41885016
Sounds like you're a homosexual

Maybe you're not into girls?

>>41885016
meh
it can be the girl's fault too though

if a girl talks dirty or nibbles my ear my dick is touching the moon in nano seconds

>>41885016
start taking lots of L - Arginine and do nofap

>>41885016
just imagine she's one of your chinese cartoon girl friends who you wank off too. get her to call you onii-chan or something

>>41885159
Ear nibbling god tier.

>>41885159
Opposite with dirty talk. Shit grosses me out.

Also have never had this problem? I'd assume a medical condition honestly.

If the foreplays shit I always find rubbing my limp dick up and down her slit, into the hole usually wakes the ole fella up.

LOL I can't relate desu. Even when I was hammered, smoked ciggies and jerked off every day to porn I had no problems getting hard. Now I only watch porn and have no issues still.

>>41885185
dirty talk has to be done the right way
it has to be subtle.
>>41885178
neck suckling and good kissing too. looking at naked girls is nice, but for some reason I only get hard when I look at girls that I'm not having an affair with. as soon as we start making out or fucking looking at the girl's body doesn't do much for me and the touching, kissing and talk are the things that do it for me

>>41885016
>>no arousal no stiffness
wtf is wrong with you?

>>41885016

It's all mental my man.

I had the same problem.

To fix:

>don't masturbate for like a week
>start again, but don't use porn
>never use porn again until you are successful with the girl

After that your confidence will boost and porn won't be a problem as much.

>>41885016
Mate, nofap and noporn will help a bit. Might help you get hard for a bj or sumfin. But Your body needs to learn what is meant to do for sex. So see a doctor and get some viagra and use that to bang a few times then you can cut down the dosage and won't need any more once your pee pee learns what he is supposed to do. It's actually a really common problem.

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>>41885159

>Ear nibbling

100% agree. Nothing gets me turned on faster than that.

My dick is gtg the whole time but as soon as it's time to fuck I spazz out.

After a few times it's become a self fulfilling prophecy

Bout to go full monk mode

>>41885016
no arousal no stiffness

>>41885159
Man she did all that. Just couldnt get hard.

>>41885115
>watch porn to turn you on
>noporn mode

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>>41885016

>no arousal no stiffness

>>41885016
what...a...fag

>>41885226
Exactly bro, that's because you're not a fag. I hope all you losers that can't get hard for your chicks enjoy being cucked. Now go ahead and tell me it's all ok and normal and how your chicks would never cheat...

>>41885016
Sounds like youre gay or have very low test and no sez drive. Either case youre a faggot

>>41886768
Speak dat truth nigga

>>41885115
DO NOT DO THIS
The point of nofap is to rewire your brain so that it associates arousal with actual girls instead of computer screens. If you need to watch porn to get hard, you are still addicted and you're not making any progress.

Get some pills if you really want to get that first time out of the way, but honestly no girl is going to dump you over your dick not working a few times. She probably didn't even notice the first few times.

you might wanna try using your other hand for masturbating and only use like two or three fingers, with very little pressure
also don't watch porn, use pictures or your imagination

worked for me, was in the same situation

>>41885016
>full gay
i have bad news for you... you might be gigantic faggot in denial... i got lightly stiff only from reading this...

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Damn youre fucked. I got hard just by imaginating your naked gf sucking my cock.. post pics op.

>>41885226
I fap 2-3 times every 2 days, I get a boner if I even feel a woman's breath.

>>41885016
you are just gay lmao.

Try smoking weed before fucking. It'll cool off the nerves you get when you wanna have an erection but can't

>>41885016
shit i get blood flow if a girl does anything beyond smile at me and i masturbate all the time

>>41885016
Have you tried having sex with guys and/or traps?

100% serious, not even trolling

I got an erection within 10 seconds of reading the first few lines of the OP's green text.

>>41887422

I got a boner as soon i glanced at your post.

>>41885016
Do what others are suggesting, but if u wanna make sure u get hard take some viagra

>>41885016
Porn addiction and/or death grip induced ED.

Don't jerk off as often, try not to use porn when you do, and loosen your grip significantly.

It has nothing to do with porn you're just nervous dude chill out, take it a little slower focus on pleasuring her and it'll happen

Either that or you're gay

>>41885016
I got hard as a rock just thinking about responding to this... you're gay bro. (Yes homo)

>>41885016
As everyone has said it's mental I can masturbate and then fuck my girl an hour later, it's nothing to do with it not working because of fapping.

>>41885016
You're actually a big fat fucking homosexual who craves men. Sorry bro.

>>41885016
Had this with my ex girl last year. tried it for like 2 weeks. she cried a lot because she thought I did not like here because i was not having a rock in my pants.

But is was pure mental. One night I was drunk and just didnt give a fuck and banged the shit out of here. after that day never problem anymore. good luck

>>41885016
wtf dude we balkan niggers supposed to be manly the fuck you doin

>>41885016
iam with you OP and as somebody who did the 90 days of nofap and porn unintentional because of surgery. yes it works with porn induced ed.

i was heavy consumer. fapped 3-8 times daily for years always to hardcore - religiously scanned daily the net for favourite scenes and pornwhores.

after those 90 days when the stitches came of i came just by seeing a tit.

i think all those who lol at nofap/noporn havent been as heavy consumers to begin with.

iam on nofap/noporn again. last night i had an errection that just didnt go away just because i had some fantasies.

porn must be seen in the same way as alcohol. if you had been a true addict you can never have a drink again or it relapses it all

On day 4 here. Feeling no arousal. Guess I'm just so used to needing porn and touching that at the moment I'm not really getting wood. Hopefully I can cut porn for good. I'm not quitting masturbation, but definitely holding off on it for a few weeks and then only allowing myself say one a week as a maximum?

>>41887632
>8 times daily
fuckin hell

>>41887632
>heavy consumer

>>41885016
balkan-bro, try sunbathing your genital area (and whole body ofc) for 20-30 minutes for few days. It makes you superhorny. I hope that this will help you. Good luck!

You're just really nervous bro. Chill out. Same thing happens to me the first time I get with a girl. After that I feel more relaxed and it just happens .

Though my problem happens more with condoms, I can raw dog it any time but that ain't safe .

>>41885016
In order from less serious to serious in terms of likelihood of finding a solution:

>you're too nervous
>you have a blood flow problem
>you're actually gay

If you focus on the girl and not your tiny dick you'll have less of a problem. So it's probably 1 and 2 but hey if it's 3 that is ok too. Good luck OP.

>>41885016
Op is the first person in history to not get it up his first time. Record this in the annals of history

>>41885016
You're just gay m8. Imagine her with a penis.

porn addiction induced ed my ass. if anything, after all that stuff you should fucking blow up to experience it in real life.
youre either overly anxious or have a medical condition. get proper blood test instead of broscience

>managed to land a beatiful 19 yearold godess
>godess

It's ok OP, you are just not into fat chicks.

>>41887632
why do you want the libido of a 13 year old who gets a boner from just seeing a girl in pudgy jeans? thats not even healthy. thats like wanting to get drunk from a glass of beer again. youre not 13 anymore. youve seen enough tits or thought about it enough times to not jizz your pants after a picture. thats completely fucking normal, its called adult male libido.
just stop jerking off all day instead of making a cult of it you fucking autist

>>41885134

THIS

Just buy some penis pills in the meantime. They are insanely easy to get. Just follow the /fraud/sters.

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Last time I was with a girl, making out et.c. I couldn't get hard either, I know that feel anon.
>tfw that would've been me losing my virginity at last
Had I done nofap like now earlier, maybe that could have been prevented.

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>>41885016
At least you have a gf..

>>41885072
Drinking a bit may help against nervousness

>>41885159
This

She's only 19 OP, probably doesn't know what she's doing yet. I lost my v-card to an experienced 23 y/o, then dated an 18 y/o shortly after. The difference in my hardness between the two was definitely noticible, but God damn that untouched pussy was tight...also fun was fuck to stretch out before some Chad inevitably has his way with it

>>41885016
Get checked for ED
I still watch loads of porn and jerk off at least once a day and if anything it's made my sex life better.
I must have used a death grip because now my dick isn't very sensitive but now I don't finish in 20 seconds when I actually have sex

>>41888330
What kind of stuff is safe to take? Seems like so many of them are dodgy/placebos

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Nofap is an unhealthy meme. Noporn is the true redpill. Just use your imagination, and fap 2-3 times a week. If you absolutely must use porn, stick to vanilla shit.

Wouldn't really worry about it bro
I had the same problem with my ex. Things got better when I started to get more relaxed around her.
I also can't piss when someone is in the same bathroom so I think it's related

>>41890382
I think it's valid to do a bit of a reset, full nofap for a few weeks.

But once you've restored yourself a bit, this pretty much. I'm personally aiming for no porn and say one a week.

>>41885016
>starting NoFap
Don't, it only gives you weird fetishes and doesn't help with anything.

literally having this exact same issue
I know its not a physical one since I still get morning wood and can get hard to jerk off

when I'm with my gf too I'll get hard when we play around, but if I stop grinding or being physical for like a second I'll go soft again
even when I put it inside her hard ill end up going soft
she tried to jerk me off and give blowjobs but they don't work either (though she's not great at either)
only way for me to stay hard and cum is for me to jerk myself off

>>41890446
how long did that take?

>>41885115
lmao this is the exact fucking opposite of what most people should do

>>41885159
>>41885178
>>41885320

Men are supposed to be the ones who nibble ears. You guys might be faggots.

>>41890382
This. Just imagine your girl, then when you're with her again your dick will be programmed to activate.

I can jerk off many multiple times a day, with or without porn, and get hard every time
yet when I'm with my gf I just end up going soft if I go a few seconds without stimulation
its like I can't feel anything
stopping to desperately jerk myself in the middle al the time doesn't help

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>>41885016
Good job on recognizing the problem and going on nofap, be consistent with it and
I promise you it will get better.

>>41890815
Nigger, that is such a ridiculously trivial thing to take issue with. Are you really THAT insecure about your sexuality?

>>41890790
I think it was two weeks max. can't really remember

Depends on how chill your relationship is i guess

>>41885016
You're overthinking it 100%
You just need to calm down and remember that sex is about having fun for both of you. You don't need to beat the shit out of her pussy like you see in porn, just do what feels good for you and react to how you see her responding and you'll both enjoy it.

I think some of it has to do with protecting your ego. No one likes to be bad at things or look stupid in front of people so you they shut themselves down to seem "cool." Just have fun with it, knowing it'll be awkward at first but you'll get the hang of it eventually. Learn to laugh at yourself m8 instead of taking yourself so seriously.

>>41885016
This is scaring the shit out of me rn because
>Supposed to meet a grill this weekend to bone
>20yo kv, shes also 20yo kv
Gonna be nervous af i already know it
>I already watch porn daily and fap 2-3 times per day.

I see her in 4 days. Im gonna keep jerking off but cut the porn and only jerk to the nudes she sent me. Will i be alright if i do this? Dont wanna get stage fright

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>>41891170
Brah, you can't just go 4 days without touching yourself?

>>41891297
NAH MAYBE 2 TOPS

>>41891095
I know what to do and how to do it. Comes naturally somehow, but my stupid dick is refusing to get hard in situations like that. I get excited and shjt, i think ill have a stroke every time we start going at it, but dick isnt listening.
Probably has to do with the fact that im so self concious of the fact that im not getting hard when we're doing that shit and how she probably feels that im soft and how she's gonna think she doesnt turn me on, so i keep thinking about my limp dick. Then she tries rubbing it and i keep focusing on that shit and still cant get hard.

WHY IS MY FUCKING MIND PROGRAMMED THIS WAY

>>41885072
>Avoid alcohol, stop smoking cigarettes.
Generations of men have smoked and drunken more than any of us and still got it up. It's the fapping.

you sure you're not just gay bro? not getting hard is one thing but no arousal? Doesn't sound very straight to me

>>41885016

So was there arousal or stiffness? I couldn't quite make that out here.

>>41891825
It's about the quality of the boner. It's not that hard to get a chick preggers, its another thing to be having here scream your name while fireworks go off in her head.

I had this problem the first few times I had sex. Then I came to my senses and realized that the women I was trying to have sex with were below me on a subconscious level and my dick was trying to tell me the whole time.

I responded by finding an actual qt to date and the result was tantric insanity. I haven't gotten any complaints about my performance ever since. Use your frustration as a weapon, and unleash your lust full tilt on the first girl that actually makes you hard. Then you will realize there's really nothing too it, just instinct autopilot.

>>41890382
This. I completely switched to amateur webcam omegle vids or try to get wins on omegle myself. Any other kind of porn is cuck porn.

>actually falling for the ultimate jew trick
>trying to make it

lmao keep beating your meat to jew produced harcore porn while not able to please your girl, you worthless loser

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I think its something with screen time/ porn. of course science is going to have a hard time explaining it because we can't pin point how it ruins people. but

this video is from the 90s at disney world. everyone "has it up". this extends beyond erections, most people can't have normal social reactions anymore for some reason

check out the new Dave Chappelle comedy special and watch the crowd. in 2017 people cant go to a comedy show and laugh, people dont laugh anymore because they have adhd from screen time.

one video is 1987, the other is 2014.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RYbe-35_BaA

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=W8n11y2lxrE

>>41892373
ruh roh. is it the wifi?

>>41891297
>khv
>4 days of not fapping
he will blow after like 2 seconds

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Condoms do not help at all. When I would wear a condom I would have trouble staying hard. I thought there was something wrong with me. First time fucking without a condom, I actually came from just the sex. No foreplay. Do what you will with this information

>>41885016
has nothing to do with fapping or porn. you can't get a boner because you're a social retard autist and are so anxious you're about to cry.

>>41885016
>virgin
That's the problem m8.
Anxiety will make it hard to get up. And once you fail to get it up it makes you more anxious the next time.

Just find a girl to take it slow with.

I jerk off everyday and I get a boner whenever my oneitis pulls her pants up.
Maybe you're just gay?

if shes sympathetic, lay on your back and let her suck on it soft. it will get hard in a minute or so.

t. someone who had to do this to a girl with a stinky pussy.

>>41892542
Truth. Of the girls I've been with, I used a condom with only one of them. That was the most boring sex I've ever had, I could barely stay hard. This is why I'll never pay for sex with an escort. If I have to pay for the sex in the first place, I want my money's worth and that isn't gonna happen with a condom. Of course, without I might just get some nasty shit, so it's lose-lose.

Getting into a relationship with a relatively trustworthy girl attractive enough to do it for you and having sex raw is the best bet this day in age.

>>41892599
condoms are a tool of white genocide FACT

>>41892607
Memes aside. Your best bet is to get a hot gf who is willing to take birth control so you can hit it raw all the time without worrying. This will be god tier compared to fucking different chicks with a rubber

>>41892607
In my case it helps that I pretty much can't come from sex at all, so all I really need to worry about is STDs.

Without a condom, I'm a sexual tyrannosaurus. With a condom, I might as well be that overweight chainsmoking 45 year old guy working the counter at 7-11.

>>41892661
This. Just make sure you put the brakes on fast if you detect any sign that she might want to use you for a kid.

>>41892661
birth control makes girls extremely moody and completely zaps any sort of sex drive they have. they are only freaks when they are fertile, just pull out and cum on her ass. pull out works fine and has for all of human history, birth control is a meme.

>>41885016
did you have arousal? did you have stiffness?

>>41892692
Not true. I've been fucking a girl for over a year who's been on BC the whole time and she has a higher sex drive than I do.

It really depends on the girl/bc combination IMO.

>>41892692
that is assuming its a gf. my go to now is if you need a condom dont fuck her. had a night where i bare backed a hot 28 year old, 8 years older than me, than panicked the next day thinking i got herpes for no reason due to all the STD propaganda out there.

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How do I convince a girl to touch my penis?

>>41885016
I fap everyday and the only time I couldn't get hard was sophomore year of college. Girl Invited me over, I was nervous as fuck, and the girl was fat and ugly.

>>41892707
every dude i met who has had a relationship fall apart is because the girl got moody as fuck on BC. but i assume it would be like a dude taking test, must effect each individual differently

if shes hornier, good. if she seems less happy and moody make sure she gets off the shit brahs.

>>41892732
With girls a lot of it is psychological. I find if you bang them hard early on and don't hold back, the memory of that will carry them through the moody times and they'll still want your cock in the end.

>>41892707
This. My experience with girls on BC have been the opposite of what >>41892692 said. The only downside was that she got a lot of acne on her face

>>41890815
You sound like a man who's never had a girl lick your ear and beg you to fuck her.

>>41892763
Ah well, there's no free lunch. I'll take something they can cover up with makeup over 18 years of slavery any day.

>>41892753
hmm. maybe it has something to do with external stress they have in there lives being amplified by the extra hormones. but honestly noticed night and day when she would come off it.

also talking to one of my female friends once and said "are you on BC" and she was like "how did you know?" bitch i could tell immediately

>>41885016
you're gay man

First time i was too nervous to get hard. It happens.

Also the first post about buying pills. Might as well lol

>>41885085
>1.
This. chances are, if your as fucked in the head as i am, this is your biggest obstacle. in addition to nofap, i'd recommend meditation and regular cardio exercise.

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>>41885016
>>41885085
>>41885108
Happened to me too a couple of times. Just stick in her mouth and let her work on it to get it stiff, then dip it in her pussy. Worked for me.

>>41893248
lol wtf is that gif from

>>41885016
Dumb frog posters

As others have said by now. Dump the porn. Fap no more than once a day if at all. Shit I wouldn't even fap to a pic of her just to be safe.

It'll probably 2-4 weeks assuming you don't give in to mental damage.

>>41886808
She noticed mate. She noticed.

Girls get programmed by porn to and think that guys should be able to get rock hard after no more than a few kisses and half assed bj at most. After repeated failures she'll start to internalize the problem as being something wrong with her if you're close or you having a broke dick if a 1 night fuck.

>>41890192
Yeah but you'd still have a hard time fucking while drunk

>>41885016
You sound circumcized

>>41891364
UNDERSTANDABLE HAVE A NICE DAY

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>>41885016
What part of the Balkans are you from my lad?

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>tfw don't have to worry about any of this cause i'll never get laid and i'll never find a gf/married

Well, can't say we're in exactly the same boat but I had a similar experience with my first (and only) time.

Was my first real date with this chick that I had know from work and after an evening of successful spaghetti containment we went back to her place and cracked open some wine.

I was rock hard for every bit of foreplay and playful touching and when it came time to put on the condom I had real trouble keeping it up for more than a few minutes at a time.

Frustrated I would grab the bottle and swig back some more, hoping I'd get past that mental block but it only made it worse as the night went on.

You are probably feeling like shit right now OP, but problems getting it up are as old as time. I'd say get on Nofap and if shes a quality shell keep trying till you get it.

>>41885016
my gf just gives me the succ to get hard

>>41885016
It's performance anxiety. Don't think much about it, just let it happen.

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>>41885159
>nibbles my ear
this shit

also shoulder nibbling for some reason really fuckin' gets me going

>>41885016
OP do you get hard when fapping? Or morning wood?

>>41892523
Should be able to go for round 2 if he's on nofap. Honestly I just keep going, the slootz love it

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>>41893248
>>41893900
It is from the award winning film about love and romance called "Tromeo and Juliet" made by Troma films in 1996.

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kv here, what's more embarassing, failure to get it up or cumming too fast?

Nah i'm a 26 yo virgin that faps to all kinds of shit all the time (2d,3d, vanilla, cuck what have you) and i got hard from looking the girl in the eyes. I'm a neet so that won't go anywhere but at least i get hard easily.

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>>41885085
This guy is 100% correct. Don't be afraid if you can't get it up the first time, or the first couple times. In fact I know a guy who couldn't get it up with a 8/10 hottie three times in a row, and they're dating now.

I know how embarassing and frustrating it can be from the first time it happened to me, but don't worry mate, most women do understand.

Maybe talk about it with her and get comfortable.

one word -cialis

>>41885016
Nothing to worry about OP, happened to me too, just keep up with the NoPorn/NoFap, in a week or two you'll get diamond hard by only breathing

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>>41899966
I'd say it depends on your age, but generally the latter.

I remember the first time around when I got to kiss and smooch with a girl in public (was 22 or something at the time). I was pre-cumming so hard that my pants got soaked.

If you don't get it up immediately, just foreplay long enough and ask her to take it in her mouth to help you out. Personally I get roused by being a bit rough and dominant, like pinning the girl against the wall, throwing and coercing her around a bit and undressing her slowly but a bit forcefully. Actually my dick just got up while writing these words.

>>41900071
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3vbR2X3sJNs

Don't blame your dick for your brain's problems.

And really, erectile dysfunction at 21? I cannot believe that is only the fault of porn. You didn't even stroke it to get it hard. It's fucking automatic.

>>41890964
Yes

>>41885016

I jerk off at least twice a day and I get pussy and I got hard just reading that. You're lowtest and probably gay my dude. Send your girl to a real man like me, she doesn't deserve to be with betaboy like you.

>>41885016
Personally nofap didn't do shit for me, but I don't have problems getting it up. Sounds like you're the nofap target audience. Keep with that shit and I'd you feel nervous during sexy time, a LITTLE booze does help.

>>41885016

Maybe it's because you tried doing all this at 5 in the morning with no. Sleep.

>>41900033
honestly maybe I'm just paranoid about getting her pregnant or something
usually when we have "sex" its just me getting her off then I cum after usually on her from handjob or bj (doesn't have to be that order)

her blow jobs are not great though, it feels like she treats it like a popsicle and is too gentle with it
same with hand jobs since she just jerks it around haphazardly and it feels uncomfortable or painful

>>41885016
Lmao I jerk off to every dark thing under the moon, I do so daily usually, twice even and I get hard if a girl as much as looks at me teasingly, don't blame pollution, air, porn, your hand or porn, you're either gay or you're a fucking low test beta

>>41892720
w2c shirt?

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>>41885016
stop watching porn

I don't get it, Im 26 and not fapping for even a day gets can make me cum if a girl whispers at me.

Try eating more healthy fats/fish.

Hey, nofapers, i havent masturbated in a week, but i still watch porn and edge, never nutting, is it the same things as masturbating?

>>41902272
Yes retard you are just fapping without cumming

>>41885016
if a girl rubbing on you doesn't make you hard you're just gay man.

>>41902222
>Those digits
>Varg
O-oh shit....

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>>41902222
CHECK'D
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>>41885016
You're dumb if you think it's porn-related. Since you can fap normally, it means she either doesn't turn you on physically or you're consumed by stress.
>>41891825
It's not fapping either. I'm sure it's due to some psychological barrier, perhaps the fear of fucking up, which gets more pronounced every time you actually fail.
>>41890192
Alcohol fucks up your dick. Not recommended.

>>41885085
but i miss being a teenager when i could just hug a girl and get a boner, that was the shit

If you don't know what to do you get nervous.

If you get nervous you lose your boner.

It's simple.

You should try again, it will eventually get better. If you didn't have a girl expecting you to fuck her I would suggest to buy a fleshlight or something and stop masturbating or watching porn for a while, only getting sexual release by fucking that.

hhaHAHA jel' me jebes

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>>41902222
R A R E
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>>41902222
Q U A D S
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>>41885016
ahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahhahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahhahahahahahahahahhahahahahahhahahahahhahahhahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahhahhaahahahaahhahahhahahahaahhahhahha
faggot get off my board, this is about fitness. Also pretty pathetic man.

>>41885016
Porn and fap have nothing in common with your problem. I've been fapping for 16 years now and can get a boner just from thinking about something. Blame genetics

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>>41902222
PACK UP BOIS. THE MESSAGE IS CLEAR HERE.

>>41892373
Wow watching those two videos back to back is freaky..

>>41894122
I get rock hard just sitting next to a girl and jerk off to porn almost every day. What is this rewire your brain meme?

>>41885016
Can't be bothered reading the thread, but I assume this has been said.

NoFap makes no difference. Some guys just can't perform when needed. Look at other potential physical issues that cause ED, but it's most likely psychosomatic.

I fap to porn at least once a day, and I can still fuck a girl just fine. Sometimes I still get the opposite effect. Nailed a girl I work with just yesterday and blew a load in her face after about 40 seconds during foreplay. Embarrassing, but fortunately I can "recharge" pretty quickly.

Whether you don't believe me, or think that's too much information, the point stands - there are people out there who can whack off to porn like the Internet is about to get shut down, and still have no issues when it comes to the real thing.

NoFap is bullshit, and if you have ED issues, see a doctor.

>>41905716
A shorthand way to explain how changing expectations through repeated experiences can have lasting changes.

Last I checked there is no hard scientific proof backing that nofap works. Porn has made enough of a splash to draw some studies but nothing concrete.

If you can do all that and still get it inside a woman then good job anon. You can probably smoke a pack a day and never get cancer too.

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>>41902222
Witnessed.

>>41886808
The problem with this is that my memory is very imagistic. I can perfectly conjure certain porn that I've seen just by closing my eyes.

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>>41902222

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>>41902222
I cannot deny this request

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>>41902222

>>41885085
This guy fucks

>>41885016
>Porn and masturbation fucking ruined me
you're just a low-test chump. I've been jacking off to weird porn for the last 18 years and I'm now walking around with a constant boner and leaking pre-cum every time I go outside, just because it's warm and girls started showing cleavage and wearing sandals or flip flops

>>41894122
>After repeated failures she'll start to internalize the problem as being something wrong with her
is this supposed to be a bad thing?

>>41905913
>If you can do all that and still get it inside a woman then good job anon. You can probably smoke a pack a day and never get cancer too.
Considering that the age-adjusted death rate for lung cancer is 0.0517% and heavily smoking men are 23 more likely to develop lung cancer than non-smokers, he wouldn't have gotten it 98 times out of 100 anyway

All that and cant get hard. Nothing to do with watching porn. Just your penis and mental state.

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>>41885016
Help me out /fit/ pls

I have been currently cutting and while everything is coming along nicely, definition is just barely setting in.

I downloaded the whisper app and ended up chatting with a barely legal (18) latina that just graduated hs. During the convo she said she has only ever kissed a guy and I got her snap and snapped her a few pics of my' cep and me flexing my dick up and down (but teasing and not showing my dick).

Convo got steamy and shes down to fugg all summer.

The problem is I am a virgin at 21 but Im not entirely inexperienced. The other problem is the selfie she sent is good but I fear she may be chubby or fat?

What do I do /fit/?

pls help

>>41885134
100% this, it's your body telling you what your mind may be refusing to believe, what young straight male couldn't even get a boner over a real woman?

>>41885085
This a million times sometimes when I'm too self conscious and not confident I can't fucking take a piss when people are around me. The moment they walk out it's niagara falls, I fucking hate this shit. I don't even give two shits about people or at least I thought so, it must be subconscious.

>>41910261
Just fugg the thicc latina all summer mate, she also is inexperienced so it wont matter

>>41910261
Smash so hard she'll be lean by the end of summer

Why would you fall for the No Fap / No Porn meme when there's scientific evidence disproving the theory?

>Those who reported viewing more VSS in their own life reported higher sexual arousal to films in the laboratory.
>Self-reported erectile functioning with a partner was not related to the hours of VSS viewed weekly.
>Finally, those who viewed VSS more also reported higher desire for both partnered sexual behaviors and solo sexual behaviors. This pattern suggests that those who view more VSS likely have a higher sexual drive and experience a stronger sexual response to standardized VSS than those who view less VSS.
>Sexual arousal responsivity may not be impaired by viewing more VSS at home, as it actually was related to stronger desire and sexual arousal in two of the three relationships tested.


http://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/10.1002/sm2.58/full

How does one not cum within 30 seconds?
I feel like I would have to constantly start/stop. I try thinking about things buy I struggle due to moans/nails in back/my penis in a warm hole

>>41885016
could be you're not used to pussy
could be too much porn
could be a mental thing, you're not into her shes just attractive

>>41885016
This is the only time when "stop watching porn" and "stop fapping" is a valid strategy. You need to retrain your dick to be aroused by something that isnt a screen and your hand.

The girl should be able to work with you on this but you will need to communicate with her. You cant just keep having these experiences where you don't get hard and then leave. Tell her what's happening to you, give her oral until she climaxes, then ask her to give you oral. Take it slow, don't overthink it, you will get there. But you have to stop fapping.

>>41911897
I used to be able to think of a steaming pile of roadkill on a hot summer day that would keep me from cumming. Unfortunately i eventually became accustomed to it and now i could shoot a load if there was a dead raccoon next to me in bed.

Try thinking of something that really grosses you out. Also dont be afraid to pull out for a second and let your dick restart.

>>41911720

>2 of 3 relationships
>generalizing with THIS SMALL OF A SAMPLE SIZE

study interpretation should be mandatory part of public education

>>41889880
I too, know this feel.

>>41912325
>Specifically, these studies included 280 men who reported the average number of hours they consumed VSS per week
so they mean 186 of the 280, not sure why they worded it that way

Same thing happened to me once when i lined up a fuck with Tory Lane. I was so excited i absolutely fucking rinsed it out to her porno the night before then the day of i was nervous as fuck and wasn't feeling any fucking thing in my dick or balls at all. eventually she helped out and i got a 7/10 boner and did the deed but, man it was nerve-racking there for a while.

>>41885016
So how is this /fit/ related?

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>>41904219
fuck that noise. Finally some peace and quiet.

>>41903662
>browsing porn for hours and edging continuously to tons of different girls
>being with one woman in real life

those two are not the same.

>>41885016
>was out at local club if you can even call it that, more like a dive bar with a dance floort
>Went with my one friend and two girls
>one girl I think is interested but she starts talking to my friend and I get jealous and start looking for plan B
>Dancing beside my buddy
>notice some blonde woman looking at me
>walk up, we start dancing
>I'm a creep so we're basically fucking on the dance floor by the end of it
>it's like 2am, the lights are on
>she says she's going to her friends place for the night and invites me to go with her
>I am a 24 year old virgin
>was in similar situation before and couldn't get a boner because nerves and it was mad embarassing
>I just go "nah I'm good"
>She was confused and had a bruised ego
>I'm pondering whether I made the right choice.

Probably not, any decision made out of fear usually isn't a good one. Cause I had a boner the entire time I was dancing with her but I could feel it in me bones the nerves coming up.

>>41892753
femanon here. thats bullshit. put her on the pill anytime you want to kill the grill and thank me later. that stuff is pure cancer for 99% women.

>>41887439
i got a boner as soon as i saw the 8's in your post number

Had the same problem + couldn't cum, i only came recently after having sex over 100 times

My problem was condoms apparently.