/friday night feels/

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>tfw going to Spain next week and I'll miss out on two weeks of lifting

>>41755633
Fuck spanish cardiobunnies and get some cardiovascular gains.

>Neighbors are pretty normal people.
>Hung out with them when I first moved in about 5 years ago for a few parties.
>Slowly distanced myself from them for no reason.
>THey still invite me over for a beer or BBQ almost every weekend.
>Pulled up my driveway about 30 minutes ago and they were outside drinking and just chilling out.
>invited me for a beer and I made an excuse I had some remodeling to do in my house which was true but literally took me 15 minutes to do. >Now I"m just sitting on my couch with my window cracked so I can hear them having a good time while I type away on my laptop
why am I like this.

It's Saturday night idiot

>>41755691
I'll be too busy hiking and exploring pilgrimage sites

>>41755708
FUCK
work man

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/Saturday feels/

Sat at my place all day
Nowhere to go, no one to see
Keep telling myself I'll go to the gym in the morning, I never do

>>41755807
Same. I sometimes drive to the """"nice"""" walmart or Target north of town and walk around for a bit, maybe buying something small just so I can say I left the house today. I've been slacking in the gym too. I was on a few strict programs, C6W for a cycle, Sheiko 29/30/32, and finished 1 cycle of Smolov last month.Since then I've hit the weights 4 times? Like one day a week. I think those programs burned me out to be honest. Trying to get back into it with the juggernaut method this week but already skipped deadlift and OHP day yesterday. RIP

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>worked 9am - 9pm today
>sitting home alone now eating pizza thinking of ex

saturdays are my only rest days, looking forward to the gym tomorrow...

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>>41755619
Trying to grow out some facial hair but it's patchy as fuck.
I know there are going to be awkward phases but man my ego is fragile.
Hopefully people stare at my arms or something rather than my face.

>>41755706
because you are depressed.

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>find a really funny, sweet girl
>snapchat/text her for hours on end every day for a couple weeks
>pretty obvious the feelings are mutual, serious flirting etc.
>finally have freetime and on wednesday I ask her out on a date this saturday night(tonight)
>she agrees
>fast forward to tonight
>not responding to any of my texts
>decide to see if she sent any snapchats
>her snapchat story is her hanging out with another guy

why are women such whores

>>41755922
What are you my therapist

>tfw thinking about getting leg lenghtening surgery with my ethereum gains
I want to learn guys

>>41755938
You'll never accept yourself and will continue to feel short

>>41755706
>House
>Job

What do you do for work? How did you buy a house?

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>>41755924
>a whore woman = all women

You just met a wrong woman. There are plenty of fishes in the ocean.

>>41755969
>wrong woman
>implying there is a right one

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>>41755706
Fuck mate, get some beers and join them.

>>41755924
Become a stoic, if you meet the right girl great, if not, oh well. Don't get hung up on women who don't respect you.

>>41755619
Just drank four beers, relaxing and listening to podcasts. Contemplating how I'm going to give my two weeks for my JUST tier job next week. I think I'm going to quit my data analyst job and go be a landscaper, I just can't do the rat race anymore.

>>41755986
There actually might be you are just so fucked up you can't see it

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>>41755969
She didn't seem that way man

The way she held herself... I never would have guessed it. How can they camoflauge themselves like that? I really thought I finally found a sweet down to earth girl.

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>>41755619
Only three people in our group, including me, are at college for the summer. One goes home every weekend, plays Xbox all day after work on weekdays, and I think the other recently got a girlfriend. My girlfriend and I just broke up; she's seeing someone already. I spent Friday on the Chans. Tonight I'm just marathoning How I Met Your Mother. I have 7 months until I turn 21 so I can just go to bars and talk to people on weekends like this. Every weekend over the summer has been like this so far. It's getting pretty lonely after the break up.
I want to get back out there and meet some girls, but I have no idea what to do because it's summer and no one is here at uni. Tinder is working okay; I've got a few matches but I'm not really interested in most of them.

>>41755986
>forgetting average and below average women exist
>implying perfect person exist

Pretty/hot women are often degenerate in my experience.

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>>41756004
Don't judge the book by its cover. It takes the time to get know people. That's why dating exists, I guess.

Going to EDC next week, I'm gonna enjoy my day of doing fuck-all besides lifting. Just bummed around and played space engineers all day.

Anyone else here gonna be at wasteland all weekend?

>>41756004
I'm sorry that happened, anon. I know it sounds cliche, but you'll find someone down the road. She wasn't worth it anyways.

>>41756012
I think you need to get to know someone first. It's difficult, of course, but beautiful, 10/10 faithful women are out there. Just rare. Probably better off with slightly above average or so, honestly.

>>41755957
Went to school for firefighting ended up becoming a fire
safety inspector. Great money and an easy job.

>>41755997
>Become a stoic
This is breddy much what i did until I met current gf. It's weird being open with someone and they just accept it.
me:"Yeah futa is pretty fucking hot."
her:"HAH. Didn't think you would be more kinky than me."

I don't know how to handle this level of nice, guys

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>>41755619
Just found out two of my roommates just started fugging, the girl roommate is what i would consider an ideal gf and has the juiciest ass. Feel devastated and jealous even though i have no reason to. why am i like this......

>>41756123
You're lucky. When she's out you get to sniff her dirty panties.

>>41756123
because you're lonely, and the girl that you have the most contact with is fucking somebody who isn't you.

>>41756123
>two of my roommates just started fugging

Take this as you will but misfortune will follow soon, rarely does something good come out of this situation.

>>41756123
I know that feel bro. I was pretty chapped for a while. Once I moved out and stopped seeing her everyday though I realised that she wasn't really that sick, living in close proximity to grills can do funny things to a man.

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>>41755619
Have been snapchatting a friend for a while and sort of realized I have feelings for her. I've been super depressed for a while, never told her, but I think she can definitely sense it.

I'd ask her out but I feel pathetic, and I don't want to just rely on someone for happiness, or give someone the shittiest version of me, but its sort of eating me away.

I just want to be happy guys.

>>41756074
How good looking are you?

>>41756196
Probably 2/10.

>>41756074
>futa
>kinky

Normies pls leave.

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>>41755619
Studying for my final exam. Soon I will start full time work and I don't want too, i've been living the comfy life shitposting all day for the last 2 years then phoning in my assignments at the last minute. Why does life have to start

>>41756202
Really? Good for you dude, if you're not just being self-deprecating.

>>41756215
>june
>exams
wat

>>41755619
>woke up early
>didn't want to get out of bed
>went to gym
>shit workout
>couldn't even force myself to eat anything
>night rolls around
>2 friends ask to chill
>ended up chilling, smoking, and jamming for like 5 hours
>stoned, sleepy, and in a good mood
awwyiss

>going to turn 21 in one month
>back home living with my parents during the summer while uni is out
>realize nobody I know or hang out with back in town are of age to drink
>will most likely be me going to bars alone
>or just end up doing nothing alone in my room all night

conflicted

>>41756196
I've always thought I was unattractive, but recently I think it's just my (meme)autism and having an abusive parent that led to my low self worth. Maybe 7 or 8?

>>41756153
I'm on the same fucking boat right now. Been living with a qt all year, I know she's not anything special but fuck I'm falling hard for her. I'm moving out in two weeks and I have to make a move now, I don't know what to do since I've had to control myself until now not to shit where I eat. Any advice familia?

>>41756294
Ehh, bars are over-rated. Enjoy spending time with your bros before they get lost to bar culture. I really miss hanging out with my friends from 18-21, there was always a house party to go to. Now, people want to hang out at some shitty hipster bar and pay $5 a drink.

my friends went to a party, didnt even tell me, so im on fit reading about oats,drinking my protein shake

>>41756248
We do 2 semesters a year. I'm in exams for semester 1. Does it not work like that everywhere?

>>41756370
Are you in the US? I've never heard of a system like that. Here we do Fall, Spring, Maymester, Summer I and Summer II.

>>41756370
Australia

>>41756390
4U
>>41756381

My GF broke up with me this morning and then talked about getting married, she came on her period and does this about every month saying shes leaving me but never goes thru with it, only on her period. We dont really argue unless we've both had too much to drink.

Shes asleep right now and im about to watch a movie. She doesn't understand why we aren't married yet but why would i marry into a relationship that is unstable that is just asking for trouble, like married people having kids to stay together no thanks. She doesn't understand that but it's been an interesting night.

>>41756434
Talk with her. If you still don't like the relationship, just end it. At the end of the road, it is better for you guys.

Finally worked out today and restarting again, but I'm just home laying on my couch being a lowlife trying to fuck my ex. 26....

>>41756434
I'm the anon that just broke up with his girlfriend. I don't know how long you've been together, but my gf and I were together for 3 months when she brought up our future together. When she was on her period, she would threaten the relationship, belittle me, and compare me to other guys her friends were seeing even after talking about our future. It pushed me away, honestly. The next day or week she would be happy as can be. It was on and off and very unstable. I'm lonely as shit right now, but I think I'll be happier down the road. It's hard finding someone but it'll happen, I hope.
From my experience, maybe it's best that you break up with her. No sense in staying in a relationship that is rocky and inconsistent.

>>41756434
Just tell her that if she keeps doing it you're leaving. There's no reason to leave right now if you haven't put your foot down yet, just give her one chance to fix her behavior and if she can't then leave her.

>>41755752
don't forget to bring some tupperware for your spaghetti

>>41755924
>pretty obvious

hehe, how long will it take you to sniff reality?
while you were being a little bitch and chatting up a random girl all day like a nancy, homeboy was getting his dick sucked. and now your little oneitis friend is the next victim, soon to be wrapping her lips around his cock.

>>41755619
Going to Vancouver tomorrow for a business trip. Stoked

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>be 21 test levels at their peak
>skinny fat just started lifting
>45 year old beside me takes shirt off and is shredded
>Helmut Strebl.jpg
>8/10 qt comes over dueling
>doesn't even know I'm there
Will I ever compare to 45 year old Chad

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>>41756892
Drooling*

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My eyes betrayed me /fit/.

I know she's a whore, I know she's already fucked a man raw and had to have plan B.

I know I can't have feelings for her, I really did want her to be just a friend. Her having a sexual history akin to that disgusts me, but I know it doesn't matter if we never date.

I was talking to her for a long time, I went to the bathroom and when I was in there my pupils were extremely dilated.

I guess it betrayed my inner feelings even to myself, but I don't want to like her. Why do I hate it so much when that hoe leaves.

We have nothing in common and we're never going to date. Why do I feel this way?

>>41755619
>stress of finally being accepted and going to Uni
>gonna be expensive but it means a lot to me to get a higher education
>trying not to procrastinate this stuff so i dont fuck myself over again

also

>work around a lot of attractive qts
>tfwnogf weighing heavy on my mind

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Ex just dropped this on me. I definitely still have feels for her, we were great together but she ended things because I was always working different schedule than her, and all we did was go to the gym and see each other some nights. The break up was really civil/mutual and we still talked a bit after, But this is sorta out if the blue. What do?

>>41756294

Are you brain dead? Once you turn 21, go to a store and exchange money for alcohol and share it with your friends in a private setting I cannot believe I need to be typing this out in 2017

>>41755619
I'm soo bored and depressed. Started new job as a welder. Don't know if I like it yet because I haven't got my first paycheck and I'm fucking exhausted every night and spent the last two weekends sleeping and being a fucking zombie. I know it's concerning my wife. I have no choice.

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>back in september
>friend invites me out to a bar, says a girl i've been into will be there
>end up getting her number that night, friend gives me an attaboy
>go out on a date
>talking for a couple of months, stupid shit like sending each other dirty jokes at 2 in the morning
>kissing but no sex
>one day when i'm at the gym she sends me a snapchat of her and previously mentioned friend out together at a bar
>she says he's asking if i know karate because it gets him hard, i guess he was asking because i'm part asian
>starts sending me shit like "fuck you" because he tells her I was talking shit about her
>try to ask her what was going on over the next few days, no response from her but every time i would coincidentally get a response from friend saying he doesn't know what i'm talking about
>tells me a few days later he made out with her that night and if i don't want to talk to him anymore he understands
>they're spending holidays together
>they're still together
>haven't talked to that group of friends in 6 months
>no one's asked me what happened or where I've been
>haven't told anyone and can only assume they made up some bullshit about me so that no one's talking to me anymore
>skipping department softball games because I don't want to see those two
>might as well be dead to everyone

>>41756899
As someone who shares the same fate, I was gonna type out a long ass essay on this, but I'm ass at writing so I'll keep this simple.
All you have to do is chill out and apply logic. If you know she's a whore and your relationship wasnt gonna work out anyway, then there's nothing more to it than just focusing on more important things like lifting/career/education. Occupy yourself with other things until she's not such a sore spot in your heart and it's gonna go away eventually.

>>41756958
And that is why I never make friends with anyone I work with.

>>41755845
go to a park or the beach and just walk maybe see some qt3.14s make eye contact and post on mirin thread

better than walking around walmart or target lmao

>>41756918
go smash again, if you can do it without catching feelings. Be on the lookout for another girl to switch to once she moves or it goes sour or whatever. Love with a woman lasts while it lasts, and we don't live forever. Go enjoy her while you can m8

>>41756047
yeah gonna be going to edc next week and drop some lucy and some molly

gonna be my first "rave" never liked electronic music shit but im trying to be more open and go out more

>>41757027
I don't know if I want to smash and pass. I could if I wanted, I probably could even not catch feels. But she was a damn good girlfriend, and she doesn't deserve to get played. If she wants something physical until she leaves I'd be happy to, But it seems like she's acting more on emotion than physical want.

Spent the whole day eating food my ex used to love, we broke up like one month ago. Could be better, I guess.

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>>41756976

I haven't missed a workout yet. It's summer so I can't dive into grades.

But I have started investing [spoiler]in crypto[/spoiler], dressing and smelling better (cologne), reading, and I'm going to learn how to draw soon.

I'm doing everything I can to run, when semester starts up again I'm going to try and find other girls I can maybe date, and hope it works.

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>reached a 335 lb deadlift 1RM PR tonight

Good feels.

>>41757050
Godspeed senpai, I'm glad you're not letting it keep you down. Just dont lose the track now.

Why are dates so difficult /fit/

>Meet girl at party
>flirt hard with her all week, snapchatting etc etc
>i tell her i'm taking her to this club downtown over the weekend (she's new to NYC)
>she agrees on Monday
>keep some contact all week, says she's "excited af" last night, i think it's a sure thing
>even talked to bouncer friend to get cover charge waived for us
>fast forward to earlier today
>she texts me saying "she promised her friend she would go to her family gathering" and can't go out
>it's a clear cop out
>asked her what changed her mind, she hasn't replied in two hours

Is it over brehs?

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>>41756764
kek

>>41757079
My 2 cents:

Didn't have to be, but you beta'd out asking her changed. Now its over. When whores pull shit like that you can't show them it affects you. Now she looks at you as weak.

>>41757042
I'm really trying to say that if you can both be good for each other, even just for a while, then why not? Both of you can go into it with your eyes open and with clear expectations, knowing it's gonna end. If you think that's worth it, and that it won't ultimately hurt you, then go for it.

>>41757104
bullshit

you can ask a ho why she being a bitch it dont make you no beta retard

>>41757115
I think your right. I'm not worried about getting hurt, but I think it's going to make us both happy for a bit to at least pursue it. Low risk/high reward scenario.

>>41757118

Openly admitting a woman's actions affected your emotional state is not conducive to fucking that chick.

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>>41757078

We're gonna make it, nothing good in life comes easy.

>>41756185
Same

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>stuck between hobbies with nothing seeming interesting
>guilt from a rest day though i need it
>lose interest chatting to qts even if they're keen
>just had one text asking if everything was ok because its been days since we talked
>constantly feel like i'm sabotaging myself just so i have some struggle
>don't even know what i want, just that i need to keep moving forward

>>41757142
What would you have said then

This reeks of r/seduction

>>41756958
Man... that's terrible

>>41757142
what part of "what changed your mind?" means "this affected my emotional state"

it's not like he said "what changed your mind and made me sad wah wah"

>>41755619
who is this image based off of. the mechanics of this squat are horrible.

>>41757166
correct response is likely no response unless and until she texts you again. Other ways around this sort of crap are to double book dates; on the off chance neither one flakes you can pull the same crap she just did.

>>41757079
>party
>NYC
>snapchatting

>millennial teenagers living on their parents dime

>>41755619
>94 posts
>ctrl+f "girl", 16 matches
>ctrl+f "qt", 5 matches
>ctrl:f "gf" and 'girlfriend", 10 matches

this board is pathetically obsessed with women, jesus christ.

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Cheating on my gf with her best friend
Worried that I'm not feeling as bad as I thought I would

>>41757222
Women are a huge part of what makes men feel emotions, stop the presses.

>>41757222
>goes into a thread with /feels/ in the title
>somehow, beyond all manner of comprehension expects women not to be brought up in spite of the fact that relationships are a large part of what make people feel like shit at times

k

>>41755619
>almost 3 years ago @18 years old
>take blood test for Testosterone
>300 ng/dl
>about half of the normal value for 50 year olds
>looked throughout the web about benefits/negatives of trt
>negatives outweighed benefits, but not by much
>fast forward to today
>have big chest and lats
>but not much else
>thinking about what I'd be like if I just took trt
>maybe I'd be happy
>maybe I would actually have >14" biceps
>maybe i would have lifted 4 plates by now
>maybe i wouldn't be a sadcunt anymore
I'm going to the doctor soon. I'm going to do what I should have done 3 years ago

>>41757231
Why are you dating someone if you just wanna play around with other angus, also she has a shitty friend, both of you. lol

>>41757294
We were going to try a threesome with the friend after she finishes exams but I started meeting up with the friend alone and we fucked.

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>>41757479

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>>41757484

>>41757484
Damn that's heartbreaking..

>got hit on for the first time
>she was a 5/10 at best
at least women approach me now

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>>41757487

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>>41757493

Girl I've had interest in for a month now has told me that she doesn't like me but my brother when I asked her out.

>>41755905
If it doesn't grow in evenly after a month or two then just shave it. Trust me, I know firsthand that it sucks but it will look way better. If any of it grows in evenly, you can try styling based around that. The clean mustache + goatee combo is what works for me, I can't grow a full beard and everywhere else looks awful with more than stubble.

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>Put 100% effort and emotion into a relationship
>She fucked me over and I fell behind in uni and will fail one or two of my courses this semester

Protect yourself brahs, never give a sloot 100%

>>41756918
tfw secretly hoping my ex sends me this.
saw her this weekend in town.
she looked pretty sad....

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>>41757497

>>41757222
>fit is almost entirely male
>men getting feels about relationships with women
who knew

>>41755969
Not him and that kind of shit has happened to me, without exaggeration, every time I've tried to go out with a girl in the past three years.
>match on tinder or whatever
>"want to grab drinks or a coffee or something?" "Yeah sure sounds good"
>cancels on the day we agreed to meet up
>never responds again
Literally every time. I am beyond bitter. Women are so cruel, why couldn't I be gay

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>>41757519

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>>41757027
>love lasts while it lasts, and we don't live forever
I like that phrase a lot

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>>41757526

>>41756892
Your test peaks around 40, pal.

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>>41757532

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Debating on using Tinder but I'm worried it's 99% sex. I just want to meet someone, not do fuck-and-dumps.

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>>41757543

>>41757545
You could use okcupid or some other online dating thing and just tick one of the looking for friends options

>>41757545
Don't do it
At best you will get laid, at worst you will get no matches and fall into an endless cycle of questioning your self worth
OKCupid is alright

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>>41757548

>>41757502
I'm only 2.5 weeks in so I still have a lot of growing to do but there is a gap in my mustache that drives me crazy.
I know it will fill in eventually but it would have been much better if I just wasn't born with patchy facial hair genetics like my brother.

>>41756958
Man fuck that kid!

Tell that girl everything, don't expect a response but she should know.

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>>41757558

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>>41757577

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>>41757584

>>41757212
Lol who the fuck do you think you are?

Kill yourself faggot. That was random as fuck. Your mind is full of toxic shit.

>>41757235
Fuck that man. If you think you can see her again and it's what you want, and your not setting yourself up to get hurt, message her first. Don't wait on something you want to happen to happen.

>>41755969
a 5/10 girl doesn't look below 8/10

>>41757568
nah, i figure if she was that quick to drop me then she's not worth it. they'll have their problems down the line. i just can't believe anyone else i know would condone that shit.

>>41757589
this one made me hurt the most. I miss my dog.
goddamn you anon.

>>41755619
Hanging out with my ex, don't know how I feel about it

Me and my gf are on a break.
She messaged me earlier yeaterday asking what I was doing, being all friendly and shit. I reply 10 minutes later and then don't get a reply. I know she was out clubbing tonight because her friend got a video of her drinking on my towns instagram story thing.

I have just been sat up all night, maybe got about half an hours sleep worrying, playing out every fucking situation in my head.

How the fuck do I stop doing this shit?

I'm aware the relationship is dead in the water but I just want to not fucking care, it's killing me.

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>>41757619

>>41757577
What a wasted sacrifice. There is no "war" that threatens us today.

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>>41757626

>>41757616
it stops when you start fucking someone else.

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>>41757640

>take qt I met on okcupid out on date
>she is Asian, just here for a year
>its her first date ever, so figure I should take her to a decent restaurant and not just for pizza like I originally planned,
>its like 40 euros for a dinner per person and I'm poor af student but figure I should just go for it
>she's actually really hot in person(just avg qt3.14 on pictures)
>date went okay, but the food was a disaster
>3 course menu, can already tell she doesn't really like any of the menu items cause they're all so posh.
> eats a few bites from the first course
> eats half of the second course, says she's stuffed.
> just tell the waiter we won't be eating desert
>go for a walk in the park talk about how just getting pizza would have been a lot better
> oh well... at least it seems she still had a good time and there will be a date nr 2

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>>41757663

>match with qt on tinder
>talk to each other about depression and suicide attempts n sheit
>she asks if I want to meet up at some kind of shave ice place
>say sure
>day of, she tells me she can't make it because she feels like shit
>try to brush it off, feels bad man
>she says she'll make it up to me
>never replies to me again
tfw even broken girls don't want you
Wouldn't wish these feels on anyone

Can you guys stop thinking about girls for a second? Or at least pretend? Even girls themselves dont care or think about guys that much, you faggots are fucking pathetic

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>>41757670

>>41757677
t.pussy who cant accept emotions

>>41757682
Accepting emotions is not the same as bitching about them.

>have girlfriend I really love and want to marry at some point
>she leaves town for a week to be with family
>I do some edibles for the first time
>got insanely horny and made a craigslist ad with my nude to find some women
>got dozens of replies (mostly bots, 2 real)
>start progressing with these women, about to exchange numbers
>gf texts me saying she misses and loves me
>feel like a piece of shit
>delete everything related to the ad, all emails to make sure I can't reach back to the randoms
I feel like such a shitty guy right now. Sorry for blogshit but I needed that off my chest

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>>41755619

>match with qt3.14 on Tinder
>she's actually talkative (rather than a 1-liner and never talking again)
>we agree to meet up/hang out
>visit museum
>coffee
>go for dinner
>go for a drink in a beer garden
>walk her back to train station
>night ends with a hug & kiss
>we both enjoyed ourselves and agree to meet up again on Friday night

Think I'm gonna make it lads

>>41757696
what is a feels thread for if not talking about how you feel

>>41757709

fuck you if I can't have a good friday night, no one can

>>41757531
Damn, Chloe Moretz looks like *that*??

>>41757631
My moms first pregnancy was a miscarriage. After that she had my older brother then me. It's weird to think I probably wouldn't have been born if she didn't miscarriage on the first one

>>41757709
Basing you're arbitrary sense of making "it" on a woman will always end in disaster, you'll learn soon enough. Not to say you shouldn't aspire to fulfilling relationships, just don't depend on them fully.

>>41757616
she is playin with your mind just leave her ass be a fuckin man

>>41757712
Yeah, but almost everyone here feels are girls related. Are girls really your biggest concern?

>>41757616
>I'm aware the relationship is dead in the water but I just want to not fucking care, it's killing me.

Listen to some Tom leykis reruns on youtube. He'll set you straight lad.

>>41756123
you should probably get ready for some heavy ass drama and changes in that appartment.

someone will move out soon.

opiates and benzos

im living life on autopilot
the feels clouds have cleared and im cruising comfortably

>>41756918
>i left you cuz i thought incould find someone better
>rode the cock carrousell a bit
>count find anyone better
>takemeback.exe

>>41757700
Glad you stopped before it was too late.
In my last relationship (LDR at that point in time) one night I got so drunk and high and was horny as shit and this girl at the party just started making out with me.. I didn't initiate but at that moment I really enjoyed it and reciprocated cause I was so intoxicated.
I always felt regret after, didn't tell my gf.
Eventually we broke up cause of other reasons but I still consider it the scummiest thing I've done..

>>41758205
Hope you can forgive yourself for making a mistake brah. I'm sure you've learnt to never do that kind of shit again if you still feel bad about it

>>41758223
Yeah I've come to terms with it now, but it definitely thaught me a lesson.

>>41755633
>there are no gyms in spain

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>>41755619

>be me
>move to another country
>mfw i have no friends here and the only people i know are some aunts and cousins
>miss my parents and brothers, more than i thought i would
>start to browse /fit/ all the time
>only good thing i have going on is i started going to the gym 6 days a week

fml at the moment.

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>>41755924
Stop being a faggot, go to /a/ and waifu up like a real man

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>>41756059
>>41756004
>>41755969
>>41755924
>expecting emotional, mindless, manipulative creatures to not act in their nature
Scorpion and the Frog, my friend.

>>41755619
>06/11/17(Sun)

I don't think there's a place where it's friday now is there?

>>41755857
Don't you have any friends lol

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how did you lads motivate yourselves to start
i'm intensely jealous of people my age who are /fit/ but i have some sort of mental block that makes me feel embarrassed trying to better myself

>>41757532
whoever made that pic needs to be shot

>>41755619
Lifting a lot, good gains, got compliment from a 8/10 cutie. go to a party, make out, make it to a bed room at the house. Start undressing, she sucks my dick a little. Someone walks into the room. Girl who hosts the party gets mad and tells us to leave.

we go to another party and chill. she starts talking to a 6'4 nigger and then ditches me


feels bad man, being this cucked.

>>41757631
Unprofessional

>>41759731
Quit being a little bitch

>>41757654
...But not forgotten

>>41756323
This,This,This.
The Bar Jew got them.

>>41757657

Roasting for a roastie? Cuck

>>41757712
Feel more interesting things, normie

>>41759731
I'm not going to give you advice as I don't want anyone to succeed. Have fun dying alone and fat loser lmaoooo

have my first gf as an adult (20) after dropping a ton of weight and now getting fit

I want to be happy but also know she's gonna go back to school, I know this is a summer thing. I can't just be happy because all I keep thinking is that it's only going to go down from here. This shit sucks, I think I broke myself the last 4 years just being a faggot neet with no life

>>41759857
So listen to what you're saying. Youre in a good physical state, you got a girl. Shit you'll be able to get new girls.

>>41759869
hopefully you're right, but I still know there will be some heavy feelings when she goes. Life goes on but that's what I hate about it

>>41757548
I didn't know this was YLYL

>>41757558
That cunt is on his laptop

>>41759857
Congrats on getting a girl as an adult. I wouldn't know what to do if I manage to get someone who could enjoy my boring ass lol

>>41756434
Don't be a sorry and talk to her anon. Communication is key if you want that relationship to work. If she just blows off all attempts to talk about how bipolar she is then dump her.

>>41755924
>>41756123
Bet you both $20 that if you post a pic of her we see that she is a blatant THOT

>>41759731
They probably have a strong father figure to help them out.If they were fit before 21 they had to be in sports or something usually.But the longer it was before you were fit the better it will feel when you are fit like if you were in a wheel chair and now can walk.Dont fall for the genetics meme and accept it will take a year or maybe a few before you will see results but think of everyday that you were able to get fit but didnt try to as a waste.

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its almost 1am and im tired senpai, gf is sleeping on the bed beind me but i got 7 drafting pages to get done before tomorrow. I've bulked 2kg of fat from no gym and uber eats too. feelsbadman
any fellow unibros know this feel? final projects suck.

>>41758189
This. Exactly what my ex did, "boohoo I love you more than anything pls take me back".

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>>41755619
Life's honestly getting better

>gf broke up with me a few months ago
>said a lot of really nasty things to me before she went
>pretty sure but not 100% there was another guy too.
>think about life and love a lot after wards
>stuff like what I want to do in life, how am I going to achieve my dreams.
>kind of come to the conclusion that most of the things me ex said to me were wrong, there's no "right path" to achieve your dreams and be happy+successful
>also decide that I'll likely join the military aftwr uni since it's something I always wanted to do and the best way of acheuving my dream ( I want to run for political office and dont have the grades for law school)
>lifts have gone up a lot since breakup
>cut out most social media except Snapchat
>passed all classes with decent grades
>started to get into stoic philosophy to tame my anxiety

all of this combined with the fact that I'm pretty sure I know what I want to with my life has really got me feeling better and more confident about myself. I feel like I know who I am, my faults and strengths, my limits, and what I need to do to be the best I can be.


We're all going to make it anons

>>41760213
I'm sorry for all the typos by the way. Posting on my phone is a bitch

>>41757159
>tfw have never had anyone I know ask me if everything was ok

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>>41755924
wtf anon

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Half a year has passed since my cheating girlfriend left me while I was in the army. Still haven't gotten over her even a bit.

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Fueling my lifts with breakup feels.

I work in a nursing home, and one of the residents I was really close with has been in a hospital for the past two months, I don't think he's going to make it. Was a submariner in ww2, lifetime of song and poetry, always smiling, went to the same high school as I did.

Being the wretch I was, the day after the breakup I messaged my ex. The day she did it I was told by my doctor my kidneys may have been damaged by my poor bloodsugars, partly a result from work and school stress. I brought that up, I said my job made me upset, that all my friends there kept dying.

>some people can't handle that line of work anon
>it's over

The resident I'm close with, when he met her he told her I was a real catch, a stallion and embraced her so warmly. I love you Jerry, you are like family to me and I pray for you every night.

It's been months, and at the end of the day I was punching below my weight with that sow, but Jesus christ, 3 years and thrown away.

>feel like shit
>want to die
>exam tomorrow, haven't studied at all
>gonna go to the gym for a few hours, then eat and go to bed
fkuc

>>41755924
>hot girls have guys interested in them
Abloo bloo bloo

Get more girls.

>>41755619
>holiday next month 1 sweet week
>having sex or jerking off hurts, there is a tumor-like something at the base of dick

At least I look the best I have ever looked.

>>41755706
Dude, either you accept yourself as you are, or go out and have a beer with them. No hurt in a beer and some light convo.

>>41755816
You are doing it for your betterment, remember what you lose if you do not start man!

>>41755924
Do not worry friend, do not be perplexed. What other people do does not need to concern you, or hurt you if you choose so. She made a choice, you can make a choice of not giving her more of your time, as in your life in your mind.

>>41755938
>>41755951
This guy is right. My uncle is a super fit guy who is 5'6". I have never seen anyone beat him in a fight (professional fighters).

Also is highly educated. Work on what you are good at man.

>>41756434
My man, if she is arguing with you on her period, chance is there are underlying problems. She is testing you. If I were you, I would break up to be honest.

>>41756958
Man, I'm so sorry, your "friend" was but a snake. He lied to you, and to the girl as well, kicking your out of the relationship.

Fuck them both, the guy was a dick, the girl an idiot.

You can do better I'm sure.


>>41757159
Come on my man, you have to find a purpose to live for. Make finding that purpose the first thing in your life. I was like you for years, and came out of this after I came over my nihilism and depression.

Good luck brother.
>>41757663
It is alright, we will all be forgotten in one way or another. However far or close it might be into the future, at one point no one will remember us. But, that does not matter at all, for we cannot control it.


Have a good week guys, give it your all. Even if no one asks you, how are you, you are always there to get yourself back on track. Good luck.

>>41760213
In a similar position but I just graduated. You are on the right path, fuck these evil little slags, leave them and their filth behind.

>>41760664
No offense but I don't blame her.

>>41755857
>this image
>my feels

>>41760823
I don't know who you are anon, but you are going to make it

>>41757532
She wasn't left at the altar, she's just really drunk. You can find the story really easy

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>>41757484
I'm gonna go hug my brothers

>>41759785
Fuck off back to /r9k/ you pathetic faggot.

>>41760213
At least you have some kind of dreams. I honestly can't see a single positive aspect in my life in the next year or two. I am already struggling to find any kind of motivation to do anything and it's fleeting as fuck.
Fuck, I hate being like this but I have no idea what the fuck I can do to fix it. I'm completely alone in this shit and just tired of being continuously dropped by fucking everyone right when I feel content about something.

>>41759731

The people who have replied to you are fucking stupid and you should ignore them.

Heres some actual tips on getting started:
>Go to boot camp, and pay for it. No really. Look it up, you don't have to enlist you can just do it and it will change your life.
>Go with a friend you can trust and depend on. You will rely on them to go to the gym. And they will rely on you. This fact will keep you both going and encourage you both to make it.
>No friends? See if you can't go with your family. Even if you don't like them, hell, even if you hate them. Trust me on this one anon.
>Just can't walk through the door? Makes sense. It's changing and making huge life habits. It isn't easy, no matter what ANYBODY might tell you, if they do, its just their way of encouraging you. Try buying some simple barbell sets and do presses at home. Build the routine. You'll want to go to the gym when you see the gains go down. Because machines are expensive and you need to isolate for further improvement. On this point you can count on, once you begin, the initial progress will be a huge boost to your motivation.

The end goal is to remove motivation completely of course. To turn motivation into discipline and make your body a well oiled machine with the express purpose of exercising is the first step to making it. It happens rather fast actually, you'll come to find I'm sure.

You're gonna make it man. Even in a shithole like this, there'll always be people like me who want you to make it, and I do, really. The /fit/ life feels amazing and I wish for everyone to experience it.
>

>>41755924
she has literally no obligation to see only you, you haven't even been on a date; it's only natural to keep her options open, especially if you aren't worth oneitis

why are you so beta; if she were your gf it'd absolutely be whorish, but as it is obviously you weren't worth her time after all and either you step up your game or decide she's too much to deal with

>>41757519
>Do not resuscitate bracelet

fug thats awful

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>>41757670
this hits real close

>>41756011
use meetup.com - you'll have a reason to socialize and things to talk about with grilz

>>41762520
thanks man, I needed this right now

friday night feels on a sunday

>guys guys guys

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>>41764286
I had a date planned with her that night.

I wouldn't be upset seeing her hanging out with a different guy if I hadn't already made plans to see her that same night. She ignored me the whole day.

>>41760117
she's actually pretty plain. I'd say 4/10. and the guy she was with is a lot less attractive than me.

>>41762244
I'm trying to move on man, but she keeps texting me and snapchatting me. I haven't responded to the texts or even opened any of the snaps yet and I don't think im going to reply to her at all.

>>41762244
>>having sex or jerking off hurts, there is a tumor-like something at the base of dick
See. A. Fucking. Doctor

>>41756059
>, but beautiful, 10/10 faithful women are out there. Just rare.
and what are they going to be doing with you (us)??

>>41765255
I don't know. Weirder shit has happened.

Well, /fit/, this is it. After a long time of not saying anything, let me ramble to the only people who ever gave half a shit about my problems - anonymous strangers on the internet. This is my ode, to all the people here who loved hard.

Love yourself, is the most urgent line of advice I can give you. As a child, I adored all the people you would expect to adore - father, godfather, grandfather, girlfriend. As I stumbled through life, my admiration of love and marriage rotted. My grandmother (after 50 years of marriage), as it turns out, secretly and purposefully withheld symptom reducing Alzheimer medication to my grandfather, for no other reason than she was too fucking lazy to give it to him, and had gotten bored after all this time. My mother calls me in the day whilst I'm at work, to update me on the latest bit of financial or emotional abuse my father has put her through, and then tearfully begs me not to challenge him. My godfather, the coolest man in the world, is pure scum, through to the core, who cheated on his wife the whole way through, and now gets drunk in front of heir kids so he can tell them all about what awful children they are. My girlfriend now wants to get back together after 7 months of slutting herself out.

I got a job, as a medfag. I am constantly exposed to and ethically obliged to keep the secrets of spouses who are carrying the children of another man. Who have contracted sexually transmitted diseases from their "moments of weakness" in Thailand. Families screwing each other out of money whilst their parents bodies are still warm. Young men and women cut down in the prime of their lives due to drunk drivers, suicide and literal 100,000/1 diagnosis.

I fucked up. I've failed myself as a man and a son. But please, love yourself, because I promise you that nobody else truly will, and you have no idea how long you have left.

>>41759671
pls delete this

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>>41755619

>it's another "normalfags with normalfag "problems" episode

this ain't no feels thread fuck outta here

>friend's mom sends me home with half a pan of brownies last night
on that permabulk amirite

>>41757535
Test levels are at their highest while in your 20s and start to lower after 30.

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>>41757636

dat ass tho

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>>41755924
Don't get too down on yourself lad. She's a huge cunt for ignoring your messages but don't let that get to you. Now you know she's a dumb bitch, on to the next girl.

>turned 27 last Wednesday
>another year alone
I am ready to die but not ready to kill myself. Most my significant dreams in life revolve around losing my first kiss before I dissipate. Woe, what a miserable curse existence is.

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>didn't start lifting seriously until I was 25

jfmsuf

>>41766403
>I am ready to die but not ready to kill myself.

If you haven't been feeling this since you are at least 18 then you are a normie.

>>41766428
>normie
An hero, newfag filth.

Just moved to a new city to start my first job after graduating college. Knew I would have to make it a priority to go out and make friends otherwise I'd end up a shut-in.

>meet group of girls my age, 19-22 at my apartment
>say they're having a birthday party for one of them who is turning 20
>invited to party, exchange numbers
>ask for time and address
>"starts at 10 text you address in a sec"
>nothing

>make plans with closest friend I've made at work so far to go for a hike Sunday morning with some of his buddies
>talk to him Friday to make sure we're still on
>green lights
>ff Saturday afternoon
>paragraph long explanation of how I and "other people" he invited are now uninvited

It's like i'm a fucking leper or something. I wish I knew what was wrong with me that made people do this so fucking consistently.

>>41766454

>using decade old /b/ memes like their still fresh

telltale sign of a summerfag

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>>41766411
Iktf

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20 y/o, no money, good future that I'm not looking forward to, 1 and a half years lifting. just broke my hand but I can't go to hospital because I can't afford it. family doesnt give a shit about me or is dead. friends are oblivious. go through girlfriends like socks because they never really give a shit about how I feel. been staring at the shotgun in my closet for fifteen minutes

is there one good reason to still be alive? and it's not even fucking Friday, fuck this thread

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>this thread

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>27
>never had a gf
How do I get a girlfriend? Where do you get them? how do you get one? What are the techniques ? what activities?

>>41755619
Felt good after exercise and having dinner, now I don't know what to do with myself. Another dose of Halo + learning japanese + job-hunting, I suppose.

>>41756958
>that image

Fuck, right in the feels

>>41766233
(you)

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>friend invites me out to drink with her and her friends 1guy 1 girl
>get there girl is cute, guy is a bro nerd
>eventually my friend leaves and the guy leaves and the girl wants to go to another bar
>shes complimenting me and puts her hands on me multiple times
>go to leave and get in her car she turns around and pulls me in for a kiss
>as we are making out she pulls away and say "no we cant I have a boyfriend"
>get in her car drive back to me. she keeps putting her hand on mine and taking it off. interlacing our fingers and letting go
>get back to car and just drive home
>on the way her bf calls and she gives some shitty excuse and hangs up on him
>sends me a messege today "wow im so sorry i got so drunk i dont remember anything"
lol women

>>41766668
fuck :(not like this bro

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>>41766671

I'm 27 and in the same situation.

At this point I've given up on women and dedicate my existence to getting as big as possible.

>>41755619
>Used to be a little tubby boy in elementary school
>Good amount of friends but always picked last for sports
>Always failed the fitness gram
>Go to middle school
>Still tubby, lose almost all my friends, still unfit
>Walking home from school one day, some teens shout "hey piggy"
>Enter high school
>Fail fitness gram again
>Make a fool of myself in fitness class
And that was when I decided to unironically become Captain America.
>Started going to the gym every day
>Started to dress better
>Changed my attitude and word choice
>People started to want to be my friends and invite me out
>Turn them down to focus on myself and family
I graduated high school as probably one of the top 5 fittest guys in our class and am currently the fittest person I know. Also the only one who graduated with a job to support myself (except for one other guy from class who is actually my coworker now).

Feels good. I can't wait to get into the military and become a real Captain. Then I will have fully realized my goal.

Its was my second tie seriously squatting after finally rejoining the gym in 4 years and today i did lmao3pl8s which is a far cry from my previous 4pl8 squats
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>gf came to me last night and admitted that she talked dirty with some dude online, sent a few nudes, and attempted to cheat this past week so she had an excuse to break up, but she ended up not being able to follow through with hooking up with anyone and that she realized she was being a dumb bitch and not facing the root of her issues that led to these feelings of wanting to escape
>said that it made her realize how much she loved me and that she didn't want to do anything to jeopardize her relationship with me ever again and that she felt disgusted with herself
>she blocked the dude she was chatting with
>this was the first time she'd ever done anything like this, in any relationship she'd ever been in
>basically she has deep seated anxiety issues and still struggles with bulemia (even had to go to a treatment center for it a year or two ago, now goes to therapy and takes medication to help)
>her mother is also legit fucking insane and was on a mean streak this week with verbal and physical abuse, which probably contributed to her desire to just run away from everything (she lives at home while finishing her last year of school and summer classes because she's graduating a year late)
>had a long ass talk into the night about it with her
>decided not to dump her ass and give her a second chance

I'm not a 19 year old kid anymore and relationships for people in my age group (mid 20's) tend to be a bit more substantial and with a larger end goal in mind. I didn't want to throw this away so quickly, because I'm in fuckin love with her and it seemed to hurt her to admit and talk about it as much as it hurt me to hear about it. Shit fucking sucks. I guess I gotta work at not completely losing my self confidence and security now, right? I was pretty clear that if something like this ever happened again, I was going to leave without a second thought. Has anyone else dealt with this before, and worked through it? Please bros, I need to know that there's hope

>>41757616
Bro ghost the chick right now please. I know this hurts but she can't take away your dignity, only you can do that. Letting her fuck around for a while and then have you back is you putting your dick in a guillotine. Please heed this advice bro its not worth it. youll find someone who actually cares about you.

>Lifts going up
>got a 3.7 this semester
>I have a best friend who checks up on me every day
>fucked 4 new girls in the past 6 months
>I've gotten into meditation and reading and managed to cut down on video games and masturbation
>just graduated Ambulance school so I can get a pretty sweet side job while I'm going to college

Things are looking up boys

>>41767133
Do what you want, women are powerfuly attrative creatures. But when this comes up an bites you in the ass anyone can say "I told you so".
imo shes going to do it again. and this time go farther. You need to work on yourself

>>41757616
never should of responded, women love attention from men. She wants to fuck other guys but still likes the attention from you, don't give it to her. MOVE ON

>>41767133
damn that's rough anon. Thinking of my gf doing that would make me want to leave her on the spot but I suppose it's not that black and white and she didn't take it too far.. guess it depends on if you see a future with her or not. It would probably be hard to full trust her after something like that.

Every-time she goes out, it'd eat at me if she is cheating on me with other people if she intended to do it once.

>>41767133
>buying all this bullshit
>dating a whore
JUST KEK MY SHIT UP SENPAI

>>41767133

cuck

>>41766233
:(

>>41755924
Things in life are out of our control. The only thing we can control is ourselves. Move heavy objects to gain muscle and acquire bitches.

>>41756129
My man

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>>41766808
I really want a gf,bad. I'm done being single,It's old. I want someone to talk to, shit a friend will be nice. I can't stand being alone anymore,too many years have gone by being isolated. I'm sick of it, i need some fucking friends I need a gf, i need to talk to people. I need to fuck god damn being alone is fuckign up my head

>>41756272
good shit

>>41767133
mentally downgrade her permanent status: A gf
------------>to a fuck buddy

she's not LTR material

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>have to cancel my gym sub for financial reasons
>start swim classes tomorrow morning at local cc

too many feels going on at once rn

>>41757497
>the feels
>those doggos
this one always gets me, dunno why

>>41767403
>wants love
>companionship
>affection
>best friend
Get a dog.

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>Be me
>finishing pre-med
>lookin for good volunteering and shadowing
>go to gym 6 days a week, 2 hours a day
>family says I waste time at the gym
>"anon, who the hell will hire you for volunteering? Look at your chest and shoulders, you are too big, you look like a stupid brute with those traps"
>"If i catch you going to the gym I will kick you out"
>"you can't workout as a student, you have no time"

REEEEEEE I LIVE WITH A BUNCH OF GAINS GOBLINS THAT FUCKING MADE FUN OF ME FOR BEING FIT. I GET PERFECT SCORES ON EVERYTHING AND I WORKOUT A LOT, AND ITS STILL NOT FUCKING GOOD ENOUGH.

I have been lifting from 14yo to 23 yo, and I will now have to start sneaking to the fucking gym. God damn it. I WON'T LET GAINS GOBLINS STEAL MY HARD EARNED GAINS!

Sometimes I feel conflicted as to if I feel bad for my parents for how I turned out.

On the one hand, of course I feel horrible for them. 24 years old, I'm their only child and I'm a kissless permavirgin, no friends since high school, pretty much been a shut in for years, bad relationship with them, just a complete loser all around, basically anything you can imagine in a loser, I'm that. No child ever wants to be this much of a loser to their own parents.

But on the other hand, besides a lot of financial support (vacations, nice house and schools, paying for my college, etc) they really haven't been all that great of parents. Never really taught me any skills, never instilled any values in me, our home life has always just been fighting and anger even during our vacations. My parents have lived in the same house for almost 20 years and don't even talk to or know their neighbors who they've been next to that entire time. My father is by far the worst in this regard, he basically doesn't even talk to anyone outside of work besides me and my mom. Seems like they are pretty big social losers, passed their horrible traits down to me, and now I'm suffering the same fate.

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>>41755619
Just moved to a brand new city. Roommates are two girls while my actual apartment is being renovated for the next few months
>one is a hardcore health nut, works for a startup organic protein shake company
>always has boxes of free supplements and organic food, says I can have as much as I like
>is an absolute bro, we chill after work and watch mad men together, she calls me out if I'm slacking in diet or workouts
>no sexual chemistry but is an awesome wingwoman
>other roommate is an insane bisexual party girl who works at a high end fitness club
>currently "trying out monogamy" with her new girlfriend
>zero boundaries, showed me nudes of her on the first day I lived with her to "diffuse the tension" because she doesn't want it to be weird if she's changing or just wants to be naked
>I certainly don't mind
>she's already set me up with several of her party girl friends by telling them I have a big dick and just turning them loose
>I certainly don't mind
>she also gives fucking crazy deep tissue massages. She's like 100lbs but she get in there with her elbows and shit
>I've only lived here 2 weeks and I've gotten laid 4 times thanks to my roommates
Only real downsides are that they both shed hair everywhere like animals and the party girl has a yappy little yorky. And I'm spending shitload of money going out with them so often.

>Be shut in NEET for years
>Get fit and get a job
>Always having women interested in me now
>Years of no social contact have made me into a grade A sperg
>Missed out on all the cool experiences I should have had so I literally have nothing to talk about
>Absolutely no social circle

I was happier fat, at least then I knew I couldn't ever get a girl. Now it's just my retarded personality holding me back.

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I still feel so empty without her. It's been so, so long since we've broken up. If she can move on so easy, why can't I? Is it unhealthy to be friends with her when I still feel this way about her?

Also I got a sick pump on my bi's and tri's today lmao

>>41767770
fuck them dude. do your thing
theyre all just jealous.

>>41767910
Cut off contact. If she's not gonna buy the house, You can't let her crash on the couch. You keep the friendship because you havent let go of your feelings, and you're refusing to. Once you rip that bandaid off, you can start to move on.
It'll still take time. And you'll still get a twinge in your chest when you see her around, or if she posts a picture with some guy. And that'll fade more with time and maybe another relationship or two. Theres always a corner of your heart that the really important girls keep though. Gotta learn to embrace that and just focus on why it ended and what you learned about yourself from the whole process.

>>41767906
thats what i alwata feel like if i ever did magically have people want to be my friend/girls want me

the years of no social contact with no experience and nothing to talk about besides observational humor meaning i will always lose anyomne i get

>>41767770
You could probably beat up your whole family and take over their house. Just a thought.

>last person in my college town, work here so here for a few more years
>girl with whom I've had an on and off thing for four years told me she wants to stay friends
>after a week of hanging out, holding hands, cuddling, and screwing around
>finally gitting gud at mma
>new guy my height and weight joins and smacks me around no problem

>>41767856
well then fucking do something different, jesus. go learn those skills on your own. stop wallowing in it and do something about it

>>41767993
i dont really wallow in self-pity about it. its just something i think about sometimes when i think about people talking about their big happy families and that kinda thing and how from the outside out family might look normal but inside it's almost like my parents are strangers from me

>>41763788
You can't just pay to go to boot camp you faggot
And no, it will not change your life
t. enlisted personnel

>>41756918
go get her :)

>>41763563
Think and research anon. What has interested you in life. What do you like to do? What topics interest you? Or maybe you have a particuar ideology.

>>41768042
He probably means like a normie loser one. not an actual military one

Can't do more than 50 pushups without getting winded and arms hurting. Is this what coma victims in physical therapy feel like?
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>>41768187
>I can't do an endurance exercise without getting tired
???

>>41767910
You should take her eyes, anon.

>tfw depressed
>Low test because of depression
>No gains because of low test
>Depressed because of no gains
>Tfw no face

End my life familia

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>>41755924
>snapchat/text for hours on end everyday for weeks

That's where you fucked up. Never give a woman that much if your time and attention, it shows them that you are totally focused on them and that they have you in their snare, which kills any attraction they may have and turns you into a beta orbiter. Only text women to set up a time to hang out in person. Only snapchat them to get nudes. Ignore everything else. When you do hang out in person make things physical as quickly as possible. When you beat around the bush and pretend to be her friend and do fu fu lame shit like texting all the time they get turned off.

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>>41755924
honestly? because there's no repercussion for being an inconsiderate bitch.

she should totally be allowed to change her plans and see another guy if she wants, but SHE SHOULD HAVE TOLD YOU

just cut her out of your mind and life. if she messages you in a few days, just tell her "Sorry, I don't keep inconsiderate people in my life. I'm not mad you wanted to go out with someone else, but you should have told me so I could've made plans with someone else. I was nice to you. I deserved that."

then never, EVER, send her a message again no matter how desperate you are for her sweet sweet pussy. just jack off and concentrate on yourself.

it might get through to her.

hell, if we can push this philosophy, it might make people straighten the fuck up in general.

either way though, YOU'LL be the one ending things. this will burn her up, even if she is riding Chad right now.

it'll make you feel powerful.

BUT YOU CAN !!!NOT!!! EVER!!!! TALK TO HER AFTER YOU DO IT OR IT WON'T WORK.

btw, you can do this with all kinds of people for various offenses. don't go apeshit with it, but inconsiderate people in your life will only stress you out.

>>41755706
Apathy

I'd say you're looking too far into the future when making decisions, seeing that in the long run hanging out with your neighbors and many other things is largely meaningless and therefor you forgo the pleasure of the journey itself. You're forgetting that you need to live in the moment from time to time and forget about the long term. That's where the magic happens.

Go and watch the movie 'Yes Man'

You need to become a Yes Man for awhile, it'll open you up to a whole new world you didn't know existed.

>cleaned my room
>serviced my bike
>ate okay for the weekend
>now relaxing with a glass of whiskey

feels good man

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Question bros; haven't slept it's 3:11 am, getting tired. Go to sleep or go to the gym?

>>41767133
>because I'm in fuckin love with her
you're getting played son, if she loved you she won't have done that. It's not like she drunkenly madeout with a guy at a bar, she was probably talking to this guy for weeks at least, and then she sent nudes all behind your back. And plus remember the reason she said "excuse to breakup". Don't let her play you with that "I'm unstable" bullshit, get away now

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>>41766668

>>41769504
mfw st peaches boyfriend is ugly manlet asian

>hope

>>41769552
Lol thanks for posting sauce, never knew who it was.

>>41757448
I have 0 respect for you would call you out on your bullshit irl.

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>>41755633

>tfw going to Bulgaria for two weeks
>To do nothing but lift twice a day and eat lots of food while being coached by an olympic medalist

>>41760823
i feel your feel anon. just keep going

>>41766613
don't shoot yourself anon you'll regret it

just go to an urgent care for your hand or a clinic and let them bill you, fuck it. if you let it heal wrong you'll be fucked for life

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>>41769552
a rich, ugly manlet asian

>>41769733
How is he rich. Did he used to be a twitch viewer. Then why does she still stream.

>>41768906
shoo shoo be gone back to the dark webz you freako

>>41755633
fuck off we are full

>>41766668
I'm going to be killing myself in a few years anyway, so this isn't that much feels

Try waiting a few years for your death, and you know it will be at your hands and nobody will exist so your family will not know

>>41755924
fuck her dad,bro

>>41767910
how long anon?

>>41756215
Australia? you sound like a mate of mine

>>41755924
>become a woman's texting friend
>are somehow wowed when she sees you as a friend

>>41756434
if any woman your with doesn't just want to fuck the shit out of you on her period then she doesn't like you. women get horny as fuck on their period.

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>>41757497
>NIG
kek

>>41769563
Nobody lies in the internet mate

>>41756073
that sounds interesting. what do I need to do for a job like that? I live in Texas if that matters.