ANOTHER FRIDAY NIGHT ALONE?!?!?

>>41745310
Yes, how did you know

>>41745310
Why watsitoya

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>>41745310
SHUT UP

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>>41745310
I'm not alone I have you faggots

it counts

>>41745310
I've been alone for a long time, most of my life actually

You young kids don't know how bad it gets and what happens to you after a certain age when you have been alone for such a long time

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>I walk a lonely road, the only road that I have ever kno....

>>41745310
Nah, just got home from a workout and now I'm hanging out with my family. Going to bang my soulmate soon. Have a great night guys

>>41745411
can I gangbang your family?

>>41745417
>Implying you could perform

>>41745386

You have it easy, grandpa. I'm 19.

When you were 19, 'incels' weren't a thing. You were just unlucky. It was circumstantial. You didn't worry about having a girlfriend or losing your virginity because those things were so common that it was bound to happen. Like getting a job, or graduating, it was something that just happened if you tried a little.

Now since 15-16 I have read shit about inceldom, about permavirgins, about guys who were actually nice people and were rejected all the time. By 17 I realized I was one of them autists. And today I know I'll live a damn long time wondering what's it like to be in a relationship. I feel like I'm shitposting from how bad all this is. And it has only started to drag all the rest of my life down as well. Bad grades, drinking (by myself, not the 'good' kind), all that shit.

You faggots with girlfriends and wives and fuckbuddies have it way, way too easy.

>>41745386
Please enlighten me. I'm 26 and have been alone for the past two years, and so far, so good.

>>41745396
holy shit the girl on the left looks way to young for those jugs of massive proportions.

>married
>2 kids

I'm never alone anymore.

>>41745439
I've been a normie until 26 and I have crawled in a whole since than

Basically let me share a minute if I can

>Be me
>Have had girlfriends (short term I'll explain why)
>Have met their parents and they liked me
>Kept dating girls and cheating throughout my early days teens etc..
>Turned 20, didn't have good job since pretty much a piece of shit in high school and didn't study much
>Went to college
>Met a bunch of people and connected with many people
>Going out, parties at hotel rooms with girls/guys I know
>Literally parting through my 20s
>Travel all over California and visit the beach, visit the snow in lake tahoe, visit LA with friends
>People who once cared for me
>Things started to get bad at 24
>All I did was workout, party, and work a shitty job where I might have been stabbed/shot any day now
>Became paranoid and had to get out of that field since life wasn't going anywhere
>Fast forward to 25, lost everything I had worked for and spent my birthday alone with noone since lost/dropped all contact with my friends the year prior
>Started to focus on work and a career instead of friends
>Family getting worried, anon you are not getting married?
>Anon what happened to that one girl?
>25.5 start dating for a short time, girl is successful and has two jobs to live on her own and enjoying life
>She noticed I wasn't serious about life at all and dumped me
>Felt my heart go dead, couldn't sleep, texted her that night why, just tell me why
>Fast forward to 26, found an amazing job, and making bank at this time
>Move half way across the country, living on my own, working and not focusing on anything else
>Stop going to the gym
>gain weight, start over eating/drinking
>Now, turning 30 next year
>Make over 85k, sit at home, work, gained weight
>Depressed a lot, trying to find a reason to live other than work myself to death
>Been having a crisis for a few months now, turning 30 and wondering where my life went

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>>41745443
Its killing me inside, It is rotting my flesh and I want to die at this point

Money, work, success means nothing when you are alone and a workaholic

>I've ruined my life

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>>41745310
If I get strong enough I'll be able to lift these feels. R-right Anon??

Been alone forever anyway. Does it matter? No.
People get used to all kinds of shit.

>>41745310
I realised I like it alone
Its not about company, but about wanting it better than it is now
Its striving for happiness, but one will never achieve that
SO I really like training, reading, hiking through the forest and browsing the internet a little, thats it
It will never be better than it is now

>>41745534
Just too tired to work out?

Ur righy

>>41745656
It's fucked up, but the best time of my life was when I used to workout and had a passion for the gym

These days I still love the game, but I never workout, I can't find the balls to do a 3-4 day split anymore

I'm stuck in my mind daily, I'm stuck in a prison of resent and fearfulness of my past

I could've been married, but fucked everything up and now am on 4chan every day and am workaholic. They say don't bring your work home with you but what I do, my position and my salary I'm putting in 7 days a week like its nothing

I'm living the dream and am miserable at the same time

>Actual work is 5-6 hours mon-fri If I'm lucky, and I make nearly six figures

>>41745534
You sound just like me except I went to a hole bc got heart broken by gf of 10 years and also developed some minor health problems around the same time. You make a bit more money than me. A month after I turned 30 I met my wife. We're building a house now. I just turned 33. Don't give up because life can change really fast if you get out there and make it happen. Try online dating if it's hard to meet people.

>>41745534
Join the army.

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Yup. Probably going to kill myself soon. Somebody please help me.

>>41745695
>Don't give up because life can change really fast if you get out there and make it happen


Thank you


>>41745712
I'm almost at 115k by sometime next year if I stay on the good road and keep my chin up, army won't do anything for me I already haven't done

I'm at 92k right now counting the bonuses, stock options in the company etc.. Currently studying to get that paper, but I'm broken inside since I'm earning money for nothing, or I should change my mindset and start going to the gym. Maybe think of it as a future goal instead of looking for relationships right now If I stay with this company I have a chance to make 150k+ by 35, not a guarantee but with my current track I might make it.

>>41745732
Come play some video games anon. What do you play on?

>>41745735
>150k
>By 35

You are a failure man. There are kids in their 20s making more than that

I've been alone all my life, I'm not sure how people even connect. I don't know anyone.

>dated a girl for the first time in my life at 26 a few months ago
>Only lasted 3 weeks
>Got super attached and loved actually spending time with another human
>Used to not mind being loner
>Ever since I got dumped been craving human interaction and want friends for the first time
>Still too scared to try
>Think Im really depressed now

Fucking
What the fuck is wrong with me.

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>>41745763
That's not really the point, I'm tired of working and making money with nothing to show for it. I could be making 60k and I might be happier with a wife and 2-3 kids. I don't want to be a workaholic anymore ,but I don't know how to change and keep my role

>>41745769
>>Used to not mind being loner
>>Ever since I got dumped been craving human interaction and want friends for the first time
>>Still too scared to try
>>Think Im really depressed now

That was me last summer. The feeling of waking up in the night and seeing another person sleeping beside you is the most amazing thing in the world, and fucking gutting in hindsight. Probably better to just be pure foreveralone than to have had that brief taste of happiness.

>>41745439

I went from nerd up until 14 yr old, accidental Chad until 18, then faux incel/failed normie until 26, then bar whore until 30, and now I'm married at 33.

as far as social interaction it never came naturally. I eventually had to train myself. self pity and fear just get in your way and desu you've got to get over whatever hang ups you've got if you want whatever it is that you call success

Depressed as hell. I matched with an older woman (28) who lives in my neighborhood. We were suppose to go walking today at around 8, but she flaked out on me and hasn't responded to any of my messeges.


I don't fucking understand how the female mind works. Just several hours prior to the meet up she was responding to each text I sent her in seconds, we were exchanging selfies, and talking about what we were going to do once we got together. We also live on the same street, too.

I thought she was the one, lads. Life is suffering without a female companion by your side.

>>41745809
>Probably better to just be pure foreveralone than to have had that brief taste of happiness.

Yes, I wish the whole thing was erased from my mind because I can't stop thinking about it all day. Deep down I obviously knew it wouldn't last long and I was just faking it to make it but god damn does it hurt.

>>41745685

>I'm stuck in my mind daily, I'm stuck in a prison of resent and fearfulness of my past

looks like you have your answers, faggot. I had gained 120 lbs from my prime. don't let it get that far. the answer is the same no matter how far gone, but the road back is just that much longer.

you know what to do, so stop putting it off.

>>41745769
At least your relationship lasted for nearly a month. Mine only lasted for a week and a half.

I've been a loner for most of my life, and after having a taste of the normie life I just want to off myself because I finally realize how terrible my life is. Every single day is a grind that achieves nothing, I do the same unproductive shit day after day.

I'm 22 bra getting to old for the club scene probably just end up plucking some slut on pof for some pussy

>>41745991
Never too old, I've been to a night club where they have some chill spots

I wouldn't sorry about it too much, the thing is you don't have to be yourself at these type of events

>>41745769
>>41745966
one time i dated a straight Stacy for 3 weeks. like 8.5/10 and brilliant. I kept saying to myself "man theres no way this will last" so i wasnt even sad when she broke up with me

a few weeks later I saw her together with her ex boyfriend again, he looked like a 6'4 football astronaut. I felt like all was right with the world.

>>41746015
she saw you were genuinely nice and was trying to save you from her owned perceived emptiness. Chad only wants to crush it so she's not afraid to hurt him down the road as he can't comprehend the existential ennui of her sudden absence

>>41745310
Could have gone out to a show with 4 girls since they asked but I said no and went and did my cardio instead.
I'm gonna go slash my wrists now

>>41745546
If you have money, and hate your job, and your life, quit. Go travel somewhere and stay in hostels. I was desperately alone after I lef tmy hometown and travelling in hostels did so much for my mental health and social skills you have no fucking idea

just do it anon

you can still make it.

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yep, just like the other 5000 fridays.

>>41745310
My girlfriend is busy taking care of her mother who is dying from cancer.

>>41745735
holy shit anon you got money go traveling somewhere dude just bounce around hostels for a few months its fucking amazing for social skills, mental health, etc. I swear to god it game me a reason to live not too long ago, to not just hate the world, its so beautiful anon just say fuck it, make no plans, just get off the plane and start walking

>>41745310
>that thread again
yes i'm a fat nobody who has no friends what of it

>>41746124
>just bounce around hostels for a few months
how do i get social skills from hostels?

>roommates are friends with each other
>roommates have friends in the city they spend their time with
>roommates don't speak english
>girls are always around the chads

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>>41746124
I travel for work sometime so I've already been in a bunch of places in the US. I hate my life but not my job. I love what I do just kind of hate myself

Tfw last thread like this I posted "saw this thread last week and have done literally nothing since I saw it, feels like the same day"

And I have the exact same feeling again, fuck this gay earth

>>41745310
Me and my Jeep tonight.

>>41745769
simple. you woke up. you see the light now. go do some sports and shit and meet people. Scared? good. grow as a person and make some fucking friends.

you cant go back
its the only thing that makes life worth living

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>>41746145
>being capable of loving work
i wish i could understand this

I am coming to grips slowly with the fact that I hate work and working will always be the enemy my entire life...I hate work...I hate the concept of having to do shit. I just want to do what I want to do

I have the thought a lot of time that when my luck finally runs out and I can't just coast anymore, I'll just shotgun my face. why bother? If I made it through like 40+ years of life without working hard, why would I start when i'm fucking old??? lol

>better work hard and not enjoy my life now, so i can go home and hurt and be old!!

lol the idea of trying to live for a long time is fucking stupid

>>41746146
Holy shit lad I was thinking about that comment you posted last week when I first saw this thread. I know that feel.

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>>41746171
nobody cares about your fucking blurry cancerous literally 3000x5000 pixel images of a fucking blurry glass

this is literally, actually, really the shit that is killing fucking 4chan. STOP UPLOADING 3MB 3000X5000 PICTURES FROM YOUR FUCKING PHONE. RESIZE THEM OR DON'T POST THEM. YOU POSTED A 60KB IMAGE AT 2.3MB.

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>>41746171
Problem is I drink on business trips and go out to bars with the lads from work.

>>41746141
actually ~80% of the people I met in hostels were travelling solo.

Aside from that, its jsut reaaaaly easy to talk to people in hostels/traveling in general. There are so many questions you can ask that keep them going for at least 1/2 hour.

>where are you from?
>how long have you been traveling?
>how long have you been traveling in *current country/city*?
>where else have you been?
>favorite city
>favorite food
>what do you do back home?

endless.

So fucking easy, even for introverted downies like me. it helped me a lot.

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>>41746193
when i read this i question why i would ever ask anyone any of those questions

why would i care?

i guess i am not an introvert i just don't care about people at all. i've never had an issue talking to them its just like..why? why talk to other people like that

>>41746162
>>being capable of loving work
>i wish i could understand this

It sucks I know, the problem isn't my job though it is me and the way I see things

Working sucks, yea I know but it is life and what we have to do, if you make the choice of no career well good luck with that

Just don't do what I did and focus solely on a career and no family life

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>that constant travel life

>>41746201
>well good luck with that

any stability you think you've built can vanish in an instant

>>41746197
If you're interested in gaining social skills, you gotta talk to people. as many as possible. one important social skill is keeping things going when you dont give a fuck what's coming out of their mouth. you think stacy's story about her friend is going to be INTERESTING? Fuck no but nodding and smiling is an underrated life skill desu

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>out with the lads on a game of golf

>>41746210
better than
>that never left home life

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>>41746182
Is this one better?

>>41746169
thanks bro, next thread I hope I will say I did some stuff that was productive, please wish me luck

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>>41746232
You're not missing much. I'm alone half way across the country away from family and any old friends I've had. I'm nobody

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Yeah

>agree to have a beer with gay friend of mine last night
>1 beer at local bar turns into god knows how many while barhopping all the gay bars in town
>faintly remember drunkenly telling offensive gay jokes to people and saying awful lewd things
>gf calls while im out and wants to see me
>picks me up and wants to go to a not gay bar
>sees im so shitfaced and cant even stand up
>shes pissed and dumps me off at home and goes to bar alone
>wake up still drunk and gf wont roll over to talk to me or kiss me when i leave
>feel like death all day at work
>have to cut important convo with boss short so i can puke
>gf hardly talked to me all day

Now I'm waiting for her to get off work. Pray for me.

>>41745534
>>>41745439
Two spelling errors in your very first line. Yeah not gonna read your post.

>>41745732
Hang in there brother. You can fight through this

>>41746222

I was going to say that looks just like the one near me in Dallas, but then I realized they're probably almost all identical.

>>41746263
Yea the one in Las vegas is one of the best ones though


>>41746260
Yea I didn't proof read at all and didn't notice that


Either way I'm thinking about hitting the gym tonight, might be the time for that 4am rise and grind session

Yes, sadly. Getting tired of it.

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>>41746211
>vanish in an instant

You're right but its much better to focus on the present and changing yourself, writing your own novel than worry about what bad things might happen later on or next week...

>tonight's prom and I'm sitting home alone
God I fucking hate my life so much I've never been to a party haven't made a single freind in high school
Gonna go to a fucking community college because to top off having no social life I'm also fucking stupid
I'm gonna kill myself, I don't know when but I've always known in the back of my head I won't die naturally with people I love around me

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>>41745348
shit

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>>41746473
What I would do to be young again, don't lament on prom but focus on the upcoming future. You have a chance to make it

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>>41745310
>tfw haven't gone out in public in a year

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>>41746544
I feel sad for you

Why would you hold yourself from enjoying life outside? What is troubling you?

>>41746550
I've been going outside a little bit the past week but that's just outside my house. I never ever go in public I can't deal with people. I'm to awkward

O-only because I had to work on my car!

>>41746255
>shes pissed and dumps me off at home and goes to bar alone
is this normal

>>41745638
>It will never BE better
Shit

>>41746572
Women will get very mad if you're not in a decent state when you see them

>>41746561
normies out

>Reeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee

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>>41745310
listen man...I just got off work and the last thing I want to do is go out or be social. I just want to sit on my bed, browse /fit/ and find the smallest glimpse of motivation to hit the gym tomorrow. I don't need these feel right now

>>41746550
I have nothing to do outside.

I've fallen asleep talking to a really pretty girl on MFC literally every night since late December

her name is Valeriya and she tells me when to close my eyes

>>41745732
I know that feel but I just can't, who knows what tomorrow holds? Probably nothing better but you have to see it out.

>>41745769
me last summer first girl ever age 22. Depression almost better. Took a fucking year.

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I flunked out of college someone end my life please. I just can't motivate myself in academics. I'm smart enough but I just can't sit down and do my work and now I screwed myself and have to start all over. Why god why what have I done.

>>41745310
At a party right now.

I love partying with my friends, but I'd rather be in my bed rn desu.

>>41745310
I'm okay with it.

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Nah just came from my friends place. If only her and I were a thing....

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>>41745310

Met this chick on Tinder a little while back. Hung out three times. Made out and stuff the second time, kissed goodbye as well after walking her home. Third time we hung out and I had my arm around her and stuff but she seemed a little bit colder than last time so I didn't even kiss her. Was kinda weird.

Texted for the next two days, asked her to hang out a few more times but it never happened. Felt sort of like she was making excuses not to hang out.

Last time we spoke was two weeks ago, before I was going to be gone from our city for a two weeks. Back in town now and call me crazy, but I'm tempted to text her again.

Is this a horrible idea? Part of me wants to text her and ask why she wasn't interested and try to get some constructive criticism, because somehow this chick got me really in my feelings and I still feel like I have a huge crush on her. We've got the same taste in music and conversation flowed easily & well and have similar hobbies & stuff.

Would it be super weird if I texted her again?

>>41745310
jokes on you I have 2 girls sleeping next to me ;)

>>41745546
just bang whores m8.

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>>41746807
Fuck her dude. Best thing you can do is ignore her

>>41746841
I know. It's hard though...like we haven't said a word to each other in two weeks and for some reason this chick still has me all twisted up? I fuckin' hate it, feel like I'm a god damn highschooler again.

I also don't think I'll ever meet a chick that I'll vibe with like her again.

>21 year virgin

Been real depressed about this lately

>>41746818
Waifu pillows don't count.

>>41746759

get a real job

>>41746473


top lel
edgy

>>>/R9K/ kek

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>>41745396
ITS NOT FAIR

I WANT TO BE A GIRL WITH BIG TITS

>>41745310
I've been alone for pretty much my entire life of 20 years. The concept of going out on Fridays doesn't even seem real to me, because I've never experienced it before. I don't even know what it's like to feel lonely because for me, this is the default state.

>>41746982
I meant my gf and my daughter [spoiler];)[/spoiler]

>>41747035
You mean her daughter or your actual daughter?

Broke up with my long term girlfriend last month, still coming to terms with that. Plus I work every friday night so get off my case would you?

>>41747044
our [spoiler]nonwhite[/spoiler] daughter

>>41747073
Genuinely saddened for you both.

>>41745769
I sorta know that feel. I've always been a loner but I had a gf between the ages of 17-19 (2010-2012). Once she left though it felt really hollow. I never minded always being alone but after it -and still now all these years later- it just feels so lonely. I mean my life is shit as I've would up as a total failure while she's married (I assume she still is at least) and probably out being happy - I actually remembered earlier that today is her birthday. Go figure.

>>41745897
Wouldn't surprise me if she's secretly married or in a relationship and thought about hooking up but then backed out. Or maybe was just getting some attention from someone with no intention of meeting. I get that it feels shitty, but don't think it has much to do with you. Without sounding too /r9k/ here: women are narcissists, no exceptions. You will never be their focal point or viewed as just as important to them; just a chess piece.

>>41747006
What job would you recommend? I'm really into cars and I feel like I could be a good mechanic but I feel like that would be a waste.

>>41745732
No friend. The only acceptable way to commit suicide is to kill yourself with old age.

Do not. Let them win. Ever.

Also vidya with me. Or lift with me if you're in the 905

>>41747076
:(

>>41745783

Fuck you!

You can easily buy lots of fast cookingyummy, heathy , protein rich food instead of all that garbage you buy and the majority of your problems wouldn't even exist and probably non of those you enlisted

>>41746806
>>41746807
Why didn't you try to fuck her?

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/fit/, my bros

Just something I'm dealing with:
I'm going to fly from Los Angeles to Paris soon, and start my 6 week study abroad program (in Lyon, France). I'm just nervous about being in a plane for 10+ hours, I'm nervous about if I freak out for some reason and panic for feeling so far away from home. I'm scared brahs and I feel like such a child since I see people do this all the time

The flight is on Monday. Will I survive the flight? Will I make it? Damn I hate feeling anxious

>>41747196
You'll be awesome. Just put the distance out of your mind. When you're back home afterwards is when you'll really appreciate the experience. I felt the same way every time I took a big trip.

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>>41745310
Does it count if I'm sitting here at home with my roommates just watching anime?

At least my workout was nice.

>>41745783
You have a choice - work, or your life. Which do you truly value more?

nope, got laid. not a virgin anymore. feels good.

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>>41745310
>saturday morning
>11am
>friends posting on whatsapp how hungover they are
>pictures of pizzas
>my morning so far:
>got up
>stretched
>ate a healthy meal
>read 40 pages of a good book
>walked to gym at sunrise
>2 hour back workout
>stretched
>showered
>ate another healthy meal
>now shitposting feeling a-okay

feels good to spend friday nights alone :)

>>41745534
30 is a lot fucking better than 35. Get your ass in shape and find a girl while you still can.

If you don't get going now, you'll regret it and hate yourself for just feeling sorry for yourself when you still had a shot at fixing it.

I gotta say I feel sorry for some of you losers. Feels a lot better spending friday night alone when I have four (4) invites to activities and two (2) people have called me asking what I'm doing tonight. I guess for some of you it's not about choosing to stay home. A new perspective for me.

>>41745411
>Going to bang my soulmate soon
>my soulmate

Not gonna make it.

>>41747556
why would anyone ever wnat to go do anything or go out with other people?

>>41747556
Gonna kek if you become like me though.

>>41747556
genuinely want to know, where did you meet all these people? are they all old friends from school?

>>41747562
I contemplated on the poker night invite, because poker is fun. Playing b-ball and drinking outside sounds fun too. But not as fun as going to bed early and getting a nice workout in the morning.

As far as going to a bar fuck no.

>>41747567
I'm 27 and 90% of my friends are still people I know from grade school or middle school.

>>41747563
A few years back I disappeared off the map for almost 2 years because I got fed up with the modern always connected culture. I had deleted all social media long before that, but I stopped using whatsapp (where 99% of communication takes place in yuroland) and only kept seeing 2 of my closest friends. I guess I have good friends to thank that I was welcomed back with open arms.

>>41747194
Pretty much this. 3 dates and no action, she got cold feet.

>>41746807
Why would you NOT text her? Except don't. Call her. You literally have the perfect situation, you just came back to town. You can pretend like you forgot everything bad before the 2 week trip and only remember the good parts.

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>>41746015
I know these feels. Started seeing and sleeping with my version of a 10/10. She'd been single for 8 months so I didn't feel like a rebound. Thought to myself "this can't last" and sure enough the inevitable happened.

We still talk, but I can't help but wonder if she saw something good in me and I fucked up my chances by being so nonchalant about it all.
>tfw she's back on my mind again

Maybe I should just bee a man and try meet up with here again

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>>41747582
>tfw homeschooled through high school

never had a chance

>>41747732
why would anyone do that to their child?

>>41747611
Exactly. If you don't try to fuck a girl on the first date these days she either thinks you're a fag or that they're something wrong with her. Women don't want to be around dudes that make them think something is wrong with them.

>tfw this board will never go back to "Health and Fitness" where we just sit around all day and argue over whether Zyzz, Jeff Seid, or Scooby is the coolest

>>41747715
my post wasn't about "feels" dumbshit it was about knowing your place and moving on

no you did not have a real chance with the "10" you post on fuckin 4chan kid
>muh feels

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>>41745310
Heh! Jokes on you. it's Saturday :)

>>41747753
I don't really blame my parents. We lived in the middle of nowhere. Unreasonable to expect them to give up the farm so their kid can be closer to other kids.

>>41747793
I know, but my point was that I knew it wasn't going to last so I wasn't surprised, much like you. I also know I don't have much to work with, hence why I kind of feel shitty about it.

Good for you for being able to completely shut any feelings out.

>my version of a 10/10
she was a 10 to me, exactly my type, so don't imply she wasn't kiddo

>>41746898
I remember being banned here for this kind of post when I was 17.
Now I am 21, I am still here and it is still the same.

>>41747524
You can't outlift the pain of loneliness

>>41747582
I never lived in one place for more than 3yrs my whole life. I envy the people that could grow up with the same friends they knew since elementary.
Everywhere I go I'm an outcast

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Alone is all I know. I've never not been alone for longer than a few days, and that was a close friend on a trip abroad. If a girl came to me and wanted to spend a few days together I wouldn't know what to do.

I'm in my thirties.

>>41747969
>I wouldn't know what to do
I have my own place and the rare occurrence someone comes round (male or female) I don't know what to do. I kind of just awkwardly shuffle around my place, then end up sitting down and watching tv.

>the fuck am I supposed to do

>>41747982
I know how to host people, but it's a hassle and really I just want them to leave so I can return to being an unorganized slob again and now have to worry about cleanliness and serving them food and drink and being hospitable. I don't know how to be with someone else for long periods of time anymore.

>>41747982
Could some normalfag here give advice on this. I too would like to know what to do in a situation such as this (should it ever arise). Everything I do is alone, and I'm fine to be alone with company (if that makes sense) but I feel like that makes other people uncomfortable.

>>41748018
Do you mean like, when people come over?

>>41748062
Yes.

>>41748173
Depends on the situation. I'll assume several people are coming over and you need to show hospitality.

You need to have a pleasant environment for people to feel comfortable having a conversation and occupying themselves when they're not talking:
- Have a place for everyone to seat. Having a couch with several seats is important; chairs are less comfortable and more formal, and couches force people to sit closer together. A table between everyone is good.
- Play some music. Depending on the situation and/or people different genres are acceptable. Rock&roll is fine if people are young, it gives an upbeat atmosphere. With older people, more formal gatherings or if people are more at ease with each other, I usually put on some jazz.
>But I don't listen to jazz!
You should it's pretty fucking great.
- Have some refreshments on the table. These should be easy to take and use - cakes should be cut or have a knife next to them, bags should be open or poured in advance to containers/plates, fruits should be fresh and ready to just grab and eat. Leave an empty container for pits, wrappers etc..
- Serve drinks. Plastic cups + open bottles of soft drinks on the table. Ask people if they want something alcoholic when they sit down and serve in appropriate glasses if possible. Food and drink allow people to do something when they're not talking or take breaks.
- You can put on the TV in the background but that tends to be distracting. Watching the TV instead of having a conversation is a sign people are not having fun together and would rather do something else.

Take this with a grain of salt. I'm very polite and formal in nature and I really want my guests to feel welcome and not feel that I don't care about their company so I try to be a good host. But it usually works with my friends and family. I have no idea how to adapt this to women you want to sleep with or younger people who like beer and partying, because I never hosted either.

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>>41746008
sanic pls

>>41746162
I have the same problem. Fuck I hate my job it's so boring. Yesterday I sat at my desk and did nothing for 8 hours. My boss won't give me any fucking work. You'd think that means I'm about to get canned but I just recently got a $20k raise because I had another job offer and they wanted to keep me. I just don't understand. Thank fuck it's the weekend.

>>41747886
Pain? If it caused me pain why would I choose it? It gives me pleasure.

>>41745310
Good job anon

>>41745310
I had almost no human contact for three weeks one time. It was really wierd

Just woke up. Plowed my girlfriend yesterday and then took her to the cinema. She's going home now so I can study in peace.

>>41745534
Start a business fuggit. Only betas work for other people. K well that's not true but kind


Btw your pretty much exactly like me w/ regard to life.

>>41745559
There's a lot of bumper plates on there. Those are like 10lbs usually

Naw, went to see Wonder Woman with the bros last night, then Chili's afterwards. How the fuck do people eat on and avoid carbs?

>>41748751
Oh yeah, lemme just ask my dad for a small loan of a million dollars.

How am I supposed to afford a startup if I'm not even making enough to afford a house?

>>41745732
anon, whats your steam or skype?
Let's talk

>>41748751
Start a business

I've seen how much stress there is in running a business and how much it changes you, it isn't for me. Not a good CEO just an excellent engineer

I'm in a situation where if I continue on this path I'll be set soon. Just gotta keep going and if things don't work out I can go to other companies and work anywhere

Big tech is hiring like crazy in the US since industries are changing so much and that type of work is here to stay for some time

>>41748637
Make your own work, if you are just sitting around waiting for someone to give you a project you're wasting time and could be doing other things. What field are you in?

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>>41745386
I haven't had any friends in 5 years

>>41747547
That's why I have a new goal, I didn't see it this way for some time but since I'm 30 next year I'm setting some goals by next June

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>>41747213
Life of course, and its okay if I would take a lower paying job just to enjoy life a little more, that isn't an issue. I'll always love what I do regardless of the company or salary/benefits. The thing I'm struggling with is loving yourself and moving on with life

I cant live with this feeling. If she doesnt want me around, then ill give her exactly what she wants. If i can make her happy one more time, then it will be worth it. I dont want to feel this way anymore.

>>41746141
who gives a shit? Go see some cool stuff, soak in new places, be friendly with people, exercise compassion towards others, and amazing things will just happen.

You can't just choose to become a 100% pimp party guy bro, but you can ALWAYS choose be a nice, friendly and genuine person.

You're traveling for you. Not your ego.

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>>41745534

>>41746183
It's not a problem just enjoy yourself.

>>41749230
Just be yourself

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>>41745534
That's what you get for cheating!

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>>41749922
I got laid easily when I was young but mostly because younger girls are stupid as fuck

The cheating was also a few times with same person, I just wanted to see what happens. Also I provably deserve to be alone, I was never a really nice guy and that explains why I'm alone these days. I'm a dick and trying to learn how to change and be nicer to people

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>the entirety of my social circle are people I've met in college (7 years ago)
>was an autist back then, but gradually got more social in the last couple of years
>start to regularly go out with them
>happy that I have someone to hang out and celebrate birthdays with

>the more I go out with them, the more I notice how the process of hanging out with them stagnates and their interests differ from mine a lot
>every night it's the same boring shit with the ultimate goal of getting drunk or meeting new girls
>not sure if I should feel like an asshole or if it's okay to move on to meeting new, more educated / cultured people with interests closer to mine
I'm not even some kind of snobbish fuck, but none of them read books or watch TV shows or even know english at a decent level (I'm slav). The peak of our common stuff only includes having watched new Marvel movies and some video games

>>41748298
Thanks for the reply. I had fallen asleep before your post arrived, but I guess I'm seeing it later rather than never. That said, that all seems so tiring and I don't think that I care about other people enough to do all of that. I think I'll just remain alone. It's not that bad even though I'm quite lonely. Just by the time that I got to the jazz part I felt tired of the hypothetical situation.

>>41750796
>I think I'll just remain alone
You're not choosing, you're running away. Maybe you're just telling yourself that don't care about other people so you can keep to your isolation and what you know.

It's really not that complex, I just broke it down.

- have place for enough people to sit down
- have table
- put on some low-volume music
- put drinks and some basic snack(s) on table
- talk

It's as simple as that.

>>41747982
>>41748017
>>41748018

So here's a question

People are coming over, is it acceptable to have snacks in case I grab something and they are there? I've been in some friends place from last year they don't offer anything. Kind of funny since when they were at my place I have at least sandwich making food where they can make their own food,

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>>41747611
>>41747194
I did...the second date when we were making out & stuff. Had her shirt off then she said she had to go because she had to work the next day. As I said the next and final time we hung out she didn't seem as into it or something so I didn't try to kiss her and dipped kinda early.

>>41747619
because it'd feel weird, like I'm letting her know I've been thinking about her for two weeks while I probably haven't even crossed her mind. Man I'm such a sperg.

this was the last conversation we had, as you can see she wants nothing to do with me

man i'm autistic

>>41745712
good goy

>>41745732
Livestream it.

>>41751330
you already know what you need to do

drop all contact and move on. For me, even if I'm in good standing with a girl, if I know she's not interested but I have feelings, I drop all social media contact. If you continually see stuff on facebook/insta/snapchat it will just keep digging at your heart. Drop all that shit right now

>>41751443
I mean thankfully I didn't add her on any social media shit, lmao. In retrospect it might've been a bad move not to because I've actually been going out with friends & shit and having an active social life but she doesn't see it

man I really fucked up with this one didn't I

>>41751330
What a fucking cunt. Call me autistic, I don't fucking care - I banged over 30 women across 4 different continents (I'm military) - but I would text this cunt, verbatum:

Listen, if you don't feel me, that's fine. Billions of other women out there. I'll forget your name and probably your face eventually. What I want you to remember is this: Learn to be a fucking adult and communicate instead of constantly lying just to placate my feelings. It's disingenuine and kinda pathetic. Not telling me how I fucked up steals away any opportunity I could have had to identify an issue about myself that needs fixed, and now I might fuck up with the next woman over the same thing because you could just be honest. I might even die sad and alone, all because no one would be real. Honesty is rarely punished and usually welcomed. You probably think I'm an asshole but I hope everythig good happens to you. Take care.

Don't give a shit what you all think of me, for all I know this universe is all my dream.

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>>41751514
Not gonna lie it would definitely feel nice & therapeutic to send something like that, but we live in a relatively small town. If it ever got back to someone I knew that I sent something like that I'd be fuckin' mortified.

>getting life back together after 6 years with a girl that broke off engagement by cheating
>got two fwb afterwards to fill void
>both caught the feefees and wanna be exclusive even after I've said no
>emotionally manipulating me to hang out more and I'm an idiot and feel bad
>neither know about one another

I can feel this is going to get very bad soon.

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how do i not make my loneliness turn into bitterness?

>>41745396

Fuxking booblets. Not even once. Might as well fuck a dude desu.

>>41751729
hey anon how old are you because i am a young fellow, 19, and would like to know the answer to this as well

>>41751865
21
no friends, never had a gf

>>41751729
>tfw 25
>kissless permaivrgin
>been alone most of life, both friends and girls
>just get annoyed by everyone and everything
>still make people laugh but people at work call me grumpy
>life over

good luck friend

>>41751914
same here man, same here, hopefully someone would answer our question.

>>41751729
Meditation and calculated risks

>>41751933
i've gotten rejected by every single girl I've asked out, even when they ask me out first. And every time I make friends they end up moving or I end up moving.
at this point I'm certain there is no hope

>>41751995
>calculated risks
what do you mean by this, as in be careful with crazy bitches? compare and contrast every girl i meet?

>>41752055
come on man i am young fellow and kind of looking up to y'all and what you are saying is starting to take away the little hope i have of being "normal"

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>>41752112
Maybe things will be different for you, but stats are showing more men are living lives of isolation. Loneliness is a growing trend in our generation, I think as a bi-product of technology (internet, texting, snapchat, etc) that inhibits people from learning how to socialize and deal with the awkwardness it entails.
I try my best to talk to people, be friendly to everyone, and maybe ask out a girl that I like and it's never gotten me anywhere.

>>41750053
>or watch TV shows
everyone watches TV shows. Its entertainment and we live in 21st century

>>41751967
>>41751933 here

i hate to break it to you guys but if you guys don't get people you will likely get bitter.

a person can only take so much. there's only so much faking you can do for people until they see behind it.

and then the annoyance you get when you hear normal people complaining about their infinitesimal problems like they are life or death while you sit there horribly depressed and isolated makes you lash out a bit too

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>>41752177
Nigga why would just my emotions raw
>Mfw there is no hope

>>41752055
How the fuck do you get rejected evenif you are asked out first? Not trying to act like a cunt but I cannot understand how the fuck this could happen, unless you mean just being asked out to go for a drink or something.

>>41751729
Getting my first gf at 26 when I wasn't really feeling that great about the state of my life helped a lot. Made me think that I can actually be a non-bitter emotionally dead piece of shit.
Broke up with me a year later over some bullshit reason, it's been three months now and I still feel like shit about the whole thing. And I think it even made me more bitter than I was before. Fuck.

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>>41752403
There is a chance that tye chick that ask anon out just regretted even approaching them after spending some time with him, it happen to me a couple of times

>>41752432
>tfw person at work told me that i should get a girlfriend because maybe i wouldnt be so grumpy if i had someone like that in my life
>

Shit fuck

>>41745534
Jesus you sound like you have given up and you are not even 30 yet, get it together cock sucker
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KYvKCD2FSAk

>>41745966
Are you literally me? I was 27 and had given up on ever having a relationship so I was somewhat content with being alone. I've also had no friends since high school.

I had my first kiss, held hands, cuddled, hung out for days at a time and lost my virginity all within that week and a half. Everything was so surreal and blissful until they just cut me off with no warning and wouldn't give me a reason why.

My state of mind is so fucked now. I crave companionship, but feel like I would have a hard time trusting another person again. Also I'm a fucking loser with a shit job no one wants anyways. At least I'm making mad social skill gains (I used to be a a severely socially anxious shut-in) at my new server job though and have lots of time to work out now since it's only part time.

The pain is starting to fade, but the numbness that is replacing it is making me feel like a sociopath.

>>41752432
Humans are social animals, we are not designed to be alone for long periods of time. I'm certain that I just need human contact to help me. But part of me knows that being isolated throughout the most important times of my life will permanently fuck me up

>>41752831
Well shit I know how you feel. In addition to that for most of my life, every kind of social interaction always turns out the same

>make friends with someone
>everything's good, go out, have fun, mutual activities, whatever
>fast forward a year or so tops
>they find someone who's apparently more interesting/better/whatever
>get ghosted/dropped
>only get angry responses after I want to know what the fuck is going on even if I try to remedy whatever issue might be had

Honestly I am getting really fucking tired of this whole friends -> happy -> dropped cycle.

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>>41752866
same here, all we can do is keep going

Hey fellas /drinkingalone/ tonight, any good ideas for what alcohol to buy?
Was thinking to just grab some nice IPA beers but also open to mixed drink ideas if I hear any good ones

>>41753230
Bro you're on /fit/

At least try to make a change and don't drink tonight

>>41753289
I usually let myself drink one night every two weeks. Its not the best habit but i dont think its that bad

>>41745310
Here now it is Saturday night 23:45.
I just come home from some barbecue and I have to say it is preferable to have intelligent conversation with you fags.

At least you don't talk about how pre-shipped electronic samples are not as real as making your own samples by recording instruments, in particular percussion, or that there are youtube videos of people doing smoke ring stunts with their e-cigarette, or asking how a kindle works.

Maybe I just need different friends and these are remnants but it may be true that smart people are less gregarious.

>>41753230
Don't drink beer it will sedate you. Go for some nice gin tonic or absinthe.

>>41753230
I like to grab a good tequila or whiskey and drink it on the rocks

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>>41745310
to be honest, today I have chosen to be alone. Even after "making it" (meaning that Im much less of a depressive loser) I need lots of alone time. You cant cheat your anon past, I guess.

>>41753230
get a good brand gin and tonic. Less calories, more manly and will last you for some time.

>>41753557
hmm been drinking for 5 years and have never had a gin and tonic. This is a good idea, also calorie efficient

>>41753579
>>41753557
suggestions for a good gin? gonna grab a fifth willing to spend up to 30$ if its worth it to spring for a more expensive bottle.
Not sure if good gin is meant to be complex like scotch or if its just pure like vodka

>>41753586
Yeah it's supposed to be a girl's drink but now that you're home alone noone will think you're gay.

>>41753609
I like Beefeater gin, Bombay is also good. I think the tonic is maybe even more important. Fever tree is good.

>>41753648
what do you mean the tonic is important? isnt it just carbonated water?

>>41753648
>girl drink
just go 50-50 gin/tonic and tell me how you feel after two glasses

>>41753662
nope. Good tonic has quinine in it. It gives it a distinct bitter taste. Dont buy a tonic without quinine! Schweppes is good for example

about brands - in my country the best ones easily avalaible are gordons and seagrams, with seagram being better.

>>41753679
This. Gin and tonic is so simple yet so good. I use >Tanqueray but it's fine. I don't have the money for higher quality gin

>>41753679
ok thanks for the heads up i will be sure to look out for quinine

>>41753609

Gin is more like vodka than scotch. You can definitely tell better quality, but it's not complex like scotch.

Sipsmith or Tanqueray are nice, if you're made of money.

Bombay or Gordons are fine, for less money. good tonic makes it though. Not too much. 50-50 is about right. And a slice of cucumber if you're feeling fancy.

>>41753586

Double of gin and diet tonic is ~100 calories. That or Jack and diet coke are my go-tos to get fucked up without loads of calories

>>41753760
yeah I ended up getting a fifth of bombay saphire only ran me 20 bucks.
For the tonic I got seagrams and I made sure it has quinine in it. They had a bunch of "fancy" looking tonic in glass bottles but I figured there would be no difference in the tonic, isnt it just soda?

>have no friends
>go out to social events and have a pretty good time with strangers
>laughing with them almost like old friends
>go home, never to see them again

It's a bit of a sobering feeling to realize that you're past the point of being able to develop "lifelong" friends with a stable social network, but at the same time, most friendships seem to have been based just on being in the same place at the same time

>>41745310
Nah it was pretty good. I've been working out and playing football/frisbee with my bro. He's a competitive gymnast and we're taking protein shakes. I'm gonna start hitting the gym with a buddy too.

>strong buzz off gin and tonic
>brothers friends here
>group of DUDE WEED LMAOs
>they dont know I am a failure
>"bro this party is gonna be lit we got a handle"
>every time I have tagged along with them its 100% dudes at the """parties"""
Hard to tell if it is sadder to tag along with them or just get drunk alone.

>>41752768
I think you are me after all, senpai. My ex gf stopped responding to my messeges, and cut off all contact with me. I don't understand woman.

>>41745534
do roids?

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i wish there was zero calorie alcohol so bad

i just want the loneliness numbed towards the end of the night

>>41755004
>gin & soda
>vodka & soda

there you go

>Half way through the year
>Have had plans with friends 4x since it started
>Have not gotten a single text message in over 2 weeks
>It's been this way for the past 8 years

>>41755004
try GBL or other drugs

>>41755004
X A N A X
A
N
A
X

>>41755145
what's it like? my dealer sells it before i've never had it/don't know much about it

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>>41745534
>Thanks for being there /fit/

>>41755124
At least you have friends. I haven't hung out with another human that wasn't friends with my girlfriend or a family member. I don't have bros and probably never will at this rate.

>>41745897
... same but not like that

>>41745966
Same dude its sad for me

>>41745769
>>41752768
>me
>25 years old
>havent had friends since i started high school, so at least 10 years, even after attending college
>kissless virgin, have never even asked a girl out or had one interested in me
>have spent so much of my life alone that i honestly could not imagine anyone, let alone a girl, wanting to be around me (none probably ever will)
>know that if i ever did miraculously get a girl to date, no matter how much i tell myself i wouldnt, id probably get super clingy and jealous and anything would end after a week
>literally afraid to even try to meet people due to the friendlessness because it would become apparent what an autistic shut-in i am so i literally just avoid talking seriously to any people at all

>>41757289
It happens m8, one fell into my lap at 27 for whatever reason. This was at a time I stopped telling myself how shitty I am though, so that may have been a contributing factor.
Her breaking up with me a year later didn't really help though. Back to depression, loneliness and mistrust, I guess.

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>>41752078
no this anon but I try to put everything in perspective. Sure I have complexes and I long for some meaningful relations with others, so when I see anybody else attractive living boldly I get jealous. That being said, I know my situation, I know not to push myself on hard or too light, I try to not to hold against it other people my negative feelings and most importantly focus on those small things in my life I feel good about.

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cant win lads. if i go out, i get a taste of what im missing out from. its like a drug.
if i dont go out, im lonely.

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>>41757289
Change your perspective. Women aren't the cure all miracle drug that will bring you happiness. They are humans with individualistic needs and desires. You said it yourself you are not emotionally ready for a relationship. So don't make that your goal for the time being atleast.

How are your finances? How is your health? What about your hygiene? Focus on these things. Don't waste your life sulking about not having a gf

>>41746807
text her
got nothing to lose

>>41751330
You probably didnt make a move on her when she was dropping hints and it made her lose attraction OR she matched with another guy who she was more into. Either way bro just move on. She never messaged you back and that last text seems awfully similar to a farewell

>>41750053
Same here my friends are vapid and dull. Luckily I've been able to get my gym buddy into some cool shows we both enjoy. Try hanging out with the ones you can tolerate the most and give them cool interests.

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>>41746699
Don't do it. Online relationships are extremely toxic and detrimental to your mental health.