Another Friday night alone?!?!?

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I'm going to lie in bed and read

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>>41578536
It's still the afternoon

no. im going out with my """friends"""
not much better than being alone

Gf left me tonight to eat a horse

>>41578547
do you have a comfortable reading position in bed anon? asking for a friend

>>41578557
Yeah but for how long?

Was hitting the heavy bag and this gym personell woman with tats walks over to ask me not to hit the heavy bag w/ bare knuckles


>it's okay i hit the wall all the time at home

K

I thought people go out on Saturdays.

>>41578536
I have an exam to revise for....

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>>41578572
like a cupple of hours
plenty of time to plan a fuck around trip with the bros

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>>41578621
>bros

>alone
but I have my weights right here

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>>41578536
>he didnt just come back from gym after deadlift pr

stay fucking weak dyel

>>41578562

I just sit against the headboard with a pillow supporting my back. I also make some Sleepytime tea, that helps me wind down after a long day at work.

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idk if I should watch pirates of the carribean with some pals or work on my youtube channel

>>41578688
what's your channel about?

>>41578656
Mfw i can deadlift 315 for an hour but still no back, just two shoulder blades and spine

>>41578700
rows

>>41578536
There's an anime con in my home town for the weekend.
I'll be having a whole years worth of interaction for the next four days.

>tfw wagecuck night shift in few hours

Oh well, it's not like I have friends to go out with anyway

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>>41578536
well the thing is i do hang out at cafes maybe few times a week and go out a lot but other than that ever since the school ended the guys i knew at school and hobbies sorta disappeared and moved on with their life so its like they´re dead now

How do i get myself back into the social circles in adult age? I´ve had friends like maybe over 20 times before so i know i can do it again but then again i´m just sorta more interested in girls now so should i just go for the pussy or is hanging out with bros still acceptable in adult age.

I miss gaming with guys and just talking shit about whatever and going out to nightclubs together. Then again there´s something really nice and peaceful about alonetime that you just don´t get with dudebros.

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friday night alone but got a pub crawl tomorrow so i win in the end

>>41578696
really shitty gaming content but im hoping my personality will allow people to give me a chance.

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>>41578726
I know about that, but here night life is so boring I'm not missing anything

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>>41578773
I recognize that smug anime grill!

>>41578773
>pub crawl

South London?

>>41578559
I'm still thinking about going out with mine but I am depressed as fuck and would rather just fucking sleep.

>>41578807
they give you no chance in hell

>>41578807
Shitty gaming content is my preference. Link channel bud.

>>41578881
the ultimate in smugness. nice trips
>>41578888
nope. up in the north west. nice quads

>>41578739
Never too old to hang with bros. Me and my coworkers have been really close since our last deployment and we hang out every saturday just about. 6 of us ages 21-28

>>41578536
delet this

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didn't even know it was friday

>>41578536
Not only is it a friday night alone, but it also is my birthday

Might seem really sad or whatever to most here but birthdays are just normal days for me, haven't celebrated my birthdays since I was 12

>>41578536
a friend had a bunch of milfs visiting him (girl trip) but i cant go out and get drunk with them because i already promised my other friend i'd hang out with him and he'd be real sad.

>>41578536
No, came home to work some more on my Master's thesis after a quick glass of wine with some friends.

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>>41578947
>>41578915
https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCaPgKB9qRE-AExSaANzuVkw

well here. my content is trash but at least it makes me happy

>>41579071
that sucks...
i don't know who you are, but happy birthday man

>>41579116
Thanks I guess but like I said, birthdays and similar things don't matter much to me

still had a really nice day, went mountaineering

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>>41578969
sounds like fun, job groups tend to be sorta close if its a good company anyway so i kinda see how you guys went there
IMO gym´s sorta super important when it comes to extra hobbies like the social stuff coz it´ll keep you in shape and when you feel good about yourself its just more comfortable to hang out with people
>>41578905
take vitamins, hydrate & go

>>41579071
that just makes it seem even more sad. Stop being a sad cunt and start meeting people

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>>41579071
Happy birthday dude for whatever its worth

Im alone because i got dumped a month ago and been pretty down since i dont have any real life friends. Trying to figure out what i want to do with my life.

>>41579071
thats the same with me, its usually my friends and family that make a big deal about it but I really just want to get drunk

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>>41579071
Happy birthday, here's a custom (you) reaction someone made in response to one of my posts.
It's my most prized possession

>>41579142
Its not like I don't know people or don't meet with them, I just never invite people for my birthday

>>41579093
Get an original icon

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>>41578536

>>41579150
I don't even want to get drunk on birthdays, just do something fun that I don't do very often

Drinking alone is boring as fuck

Going to a friend's bday party tonight, then later go back to the gf's to watch some netflix. No chill tho as she's on her period.

>>41579149
>>41579151
thanks, and yeah getting dumped while not having proper friends is even worse because you don't have anyone to talk to about that stuff

Its similar for me, I have a few people I met abroad who I can talk to about feels, but noone who lives close to me

sucks sometimes

Gonna celebrate my brother's birthday tonight by cooking some protons and drinking beer.

Then I'll go back to feeling lonely

>>41578536
I'm struggling with suicide-inciting depression rn

>mother's dying from terminal illness
>have to leave uni city full of friends
>also leaving gf and uni gym designed for athletes with good gym etiquette (dropping weights is fine, power racks, b/weight area, it's a dream compared to shitty chain gyms)
>only gym I have access to is The Gym
>people don't rerack weights, people squat with pussy pads in the smith machine
>everyone who is not a DYEL is on visible roids
>have to endure this for summertime
>back in shitty hometown full of criminals, shit weather, shit work that I'm gonna have to grind through this summer
>had to haul shit on day of travel, moving stuff into storage and getting on plane back
>brother has also become an alcholic due to grief
>if mom dies I'm gonna end up homeless and familyless (extended family are a shit)

Reading books and watching films rn trying as best as I can to fight off horrible despair. I hope she doesn't die but even if she doesn't, financial difficulties are gonna start coming in come August.

who needs to go out more than 3 times a month?

not me

>>41579336
Goddamn that makes me sad, I don't even want to imagine my parents dying

Stay strong brother, you'll recover from it

>>41579336
It's okay anon.
You just have to make it through the summer.
I believe in you.
WE'RE ALL GONNA MAKE IT
Sorry about your mom though :/

Im gonna help a friend flush his car's cooling system.
Then my cousins are visiting and I have to take them out somewhere in DC

>>41578688
tyrannicon?

>>41578536

i'm playing drums for one band and guitar for another.

my gf and a few of her friends are coming along.

i'm really not looking forward to any of it, and would rather just smoke weed, eat pizza hut, and watch critical role.

>>41579518
it is not saturday, tho

>>41579425
>>41579489

I feel like Valjean in the Bastille. The light at the end of the tunnel is that gf and friends were helping me move stuff and that my mother is genuinely happy to have me around even if I'm not doing much. Hopefully it'll be enough to carry her through, although my brother going on more and more benders and getting himself into reckless situations (got his left tendon lacerated a few weeks ago in a brawl) doesn't help her either.

Hopefully things will work out but even her surviving will bring challenges. She currently rents a flat and we're a poor family. I'm the 1st person to go to University in my entire family. I used to lift to get stronger than my brother now I lift just to destress.

Was not alone. Played at festival with band, now alone on train back to home. As artist I got free food for a weekend, but have finals next week. Now I'm thinking about the solos in I messed up and imagining I will be kicked out of band in the future. Fuk

>>41578905
Always go man, you'll feel better even if you leave early.

>>41578621
fuck around trips are the best

>>41579547
You'll make it. I really hope your mother will make it through, the life of someone you love is worth more than all the money in the world.

English isn't my mother tongue but I hope you got what I mean.

I wish you all the best

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Went through a bad break up two weeeks ago

Gonna get drunk tonight and listen to the soundtrack of the movie Philadelphia and then sob

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I have to write a paper due sunday

It's now 11pm and I haven't started yet

>>41579071
Happy birthday anon

>>41580185
actually my birthday is already over, german time..

thank you anyways

>>41579599
wat festival

>>41578547
Hey, good idea.

Good night /fitlit/ I'm going to read a book too.

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>>41578536
over 300 into my overdraft

Was trying not to go into it this month

will have less than £400 after bills for next month

>>41578547
>tfw just finished the only book I didnt have to force myself to pick up in a long time.

Showering, sitting at my desk and reading after a good lifting session is the patrician hermit night

>>41578536
30 years old and going to the gym at 7am tomorrow so I'll be in bed by 9pm.

>>41580413
This is true and i do this any time I have time

My girlfriend broke up with me 2 weeks ago, I dont even want to get out of bed.

>>41578536
Well I'm with my brother so I'm not alone who cares anyway

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Nah, Ima do some vidya with my older bro/friends

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>be me
>meet grill from the past who ignored me
>now fit, all over me
>go to her place 2nd date
>fugg
>shes more chubby then I thought but she has a beautiful face and I don't mind being rejected in the past
>tells me she fucked 13 dudes before me
>tells me she has a kid
>o..ok
>after few more meet ups she wants to be official
> feel like a cuck (thanks fit)
>we were supposed to meet up tomorrow but she canceled plans because she is "sick"
>tell her I can take care of her
>leaves me in read the whole day

yeah ok, typing that out made me feel even more like a cuck... I broke a dryspell of almost 1 year with her and everything feels so good with her, it feels like I know her a long time, we laugh together like old friends and stuff...

jdimsa

Well it's gonna be that way for the rest of my life, might as well not make a big deal out of it.
>tfw 32 wizard
at least those fireballs keep you warm on cold nights, right?

>>41579547
I rarely actually post.
Be with your mother, it's the most important thing right now, far more important than anything else you mentioned - yes, even the gym and gains. Your mother needs you, and these might be her last days, spend them with her, your friends, education and work can and will wait.

I would give up all my gains just to see my mother again. I never got to say goodbye. You have that chance, lad.

>>41581397
christ at that point just get a hooker

>>41581110
have some dignity anon

>>41578536
yup, but my girlfriend normally works friday nights. gives me a chance to play some video games in peace

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>>41581110
you have to kill her

>>41578536
no

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>>41581110
Anon you're better than this, don't be a meme.

The brief period of happiness you felt with this women will go away quickly.

Find a younger and smarter gal, hopefully cleaner and without a kid.

Most importantly find somebody worthy of your caring heart.

Going to the club to hear some dank trance and hardstyle and hang with some dumbass Kandi kids. Gonna be a blast.

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I've been talking to this girl a lot recently.

She's made it very clear she just wants to be friends and I'm cool with that, she actually is a pretty good friend.

She just a plain girl though, she gets drunk on the weekends and is very short sighted. I know we wouldn't be good together.

I don't know why I want her attention so bad but I do, I like seeing her smile talking to her.
I want to work out with her and help her accomplish things. I just know she doesn't think about me that much nor will put in that level of care.

But I can't expect her too, it is just a friendship, I just don't know why I feel so bad.

I'm just bitching in general because it makes me feel like shit. Uni doesn't get back in for a few months so I can't find a girl that would appreciate me/date me. What do?


Also I'm gonna play Mario kart 8 with my friends all night in 30 minutes

I just moved to Charlotte for my new job and I don't know anyone. Well, beyond people at work, but they are all older people with families and the like.

It's a bit lonely, especially on the weekends

>>41578536
I had a party in one hour, it's 8:55 where i live. Any advices?

>tfw was a popular guy up to 8th grade
>realize 8th grade is when boys start going after girls
>elliot Rodger was right when he said girls decide who's happy and who's not
>realize girls are the problem and dedicate my life to lifting and getting physical gains
>might turn myself gay
>go on gay bumble and tinder and I'm a top shelf gay
>5'9 skinny twink with a 7.7 inch cock
>my life has been a downward spiral since 8th grade and now I have bipolar disorder/schizoaffective

It's better than being alone if the guy is good looking.

>>41581668
You don't want to be friends with her, you want to be with her

Don't be friends with her as a consolation that will just fuck with your head

If you're confident enough be like hey, I like you but I don't think we can be friends because I don't see you like that

Otherwise just ghost her and move on

GL mate

>>41581668
>so I can't find a girl that would appreciate me/date me

Why the fuck not?

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>>41578536
I'm actually about to go to my first and last high school party.
>tfw you're the most ripped guy there
Despite this I'm still khv. Can any brehs give me some tips?

>>41581110
Maybe she was feeling so ill that she couldn't respond to you

>>41581782
Don't dance if you can't dance. It's shit test to see if you're good in bed. Don't dance and you'll seem mysterious.

how do you make friends if you spent your HS and college years keeping inside the same bubble of friends that is starting to burst. Like shit, if these guys decided to move or leave, I would be left with no one. And we're not even that great of friends to begin with.

hate that feeling of being judged by everyone whenever I'm on campus. Cant shake the feeling that I'm just a big ol loser. feels

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I'm just going to be on here till I fall asleep.

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>>41578536
sacrificing some of today's gains to numb the pain of loneliness through alcohol

how do you guys have intensity during your workouts when you're severely depressed?

i never felt depression at the gym before, but last night during all my sets i wanted to leave and the whole time kept thinking about how nice it would be to be dead

usually the gym is my only escape from those thoughts but now i have no escape

>>41578547
Where is it snowing at this time of year?

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>>41581697
>M'Rodge
>Right about anything
This is the man who wrote a 135 page manifesto detailing every time he felt wronged since kindergarten, and why the Chad Conspiracy was the root of all his problems.

DELET
Considering going to the bar (college town)
If digits I'm going

>>41582113
>Tfw no digits...
W-well. I guess Im staying. I don't need the beer carbs anyways.

>>41582113
rolling

>>41581960
Facebook
>>41582073
I have those days a lot
Caffeine can help because it gives you energy whether you like it or not

>>41582113
rolling, if get I will walk to gas station and buy alcohol

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>>41582155
FUARK
OK, let's say I go to the bar... What do I do? Just drink a beer at the stool bar? I've done this multiple times and don't know what to do. I just sit there with my phone or looking at people play pool

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>>41581110
>getting reject by a slut (not even a high standard honorable woman)
>bitch made you taste 13 different dicks in her dick socket (lets be cereal, the real number is at least 3x as much she admitted)
>My wife son
Just be pic related

>>41578905
im planning on not going out for a few months and spending the time on self-improving and hobbies i can do alone
hope you get better anon, been there

>>41581960
At least you have friends, nigger. I'm an autistic sperglord who hasnt had any friends since middle school. Being lonely sucks famm, but being autistic is even worse.

I'm out of dyel mode now, but unfortunately lifting doesn't cure autism.

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>>41578536
Reee, you had to remind me. Outside of work I only talk to cashiers, possibly why I get take out so much.

>>41582340
>haven't had friends since middle school
Iktfb

>>41582340
>>41582472


I know this exact feel my man, like literally exactly.

Currently 25 years old, haven't had friends since middle school, kissless virgin (duh). Lack of friends in high school meant I didn't learn how to socialize, continues into college, continues post college. Also an autistic sperglord, never even asked a girl on a date or been desired by a girl.

At this point being alone is all I know, and I don't even feel lonely. But to be completely honest, I'm actually scared about thinking about meeting people. Like you know, most people who don't have friends instantly want to go to parties, clubs, meetups, etc to meet people, but it literally scares me to think about what it would be like to actually have people who want to do things with me and how i know i would fuck it up since i have zero social development.

Hell even just today a coworker asked me if i had a girlfriend and said that maybe if i got one i wouldnt be so grumpy all the time

I honestly try to avoid talking to people on a real level (like besides just cracking jokes) because my worst fear is for my shut-in friendless permavirginity to get exposed. I mean I'm sure everyone already knows I am, but for me to sit there and show people that i do nothing and know nobody, it would be so humiliating

yeah but today was leg day and I feel great

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>>41582073
hey man try not watching porn everyday if you do and trying to sleep around eight hours a day. I hope it all gets better my friend!

>>41582440
that picture was very emotionally charging for me

>>41582073
Have you looked into ssris my guy?

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>>41582578
you have to kill your coworker

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>>41579650
>go out with "friends" the 3 times per year i can convince myself to do it
>within 15 minutes i'm bored and want to go back home and be alone

>>41582695
It reminds me of when I was 20 years old and poor as fuck. Part of me is still that young man.

Spending the night alone. I'm a 23 year old kissless virgin. I've had plenty of chances to get laid, hook up, and date, but I'm just autistic and want it to be with the right person. I don't think I'll ever meet the right person.

>>41582800
I remember being 23, change while you can my bro. I'm 26 now and it seemed like I was your age just yesterday, shit gets real when you hit your later 20s. I don't mean to scare you but I wish someone did the same for me.

>>41582937
>I'm 26 now and it seemed like I was your age just yesterday, shit gets real when you hit your later 20s. I don't mean to scare you but I wish someone did the same for me
.
can you explain this? im 25.5 now. shit gets real?

all i know is i feel mentally like a 16 year old because of what a shut in sperg i am

FITNESS

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>>41582980
I don't know how to explain it but something has clicked in my brain that time is running out. It's different, I've always been conscious of my age and mortality but things seem to have kicked into overdrive. The pressure to succeed and meet the right girl is insufferable. All my friends are moving on with their lives yet I'm still single, living with room mates and make 40k a year. Sometimes I wish I had a just cause to throw my life away for, living has become that hollow. I too feel no different than I was when I was 17.

I still have hope that I can turn my life around and mentor other young men who are in my situation but time appears to be running out for me.

>>41578632
I'll be your bro anon.

>>41583048

I'm 19 and it pains me to see you guys in this situation. It's funny because /adv/ tells us that 'it gets better with time', that 'you'll meet someone eventually', all that bullshit.

Sometimes I question why I even bother. Why lift, why eat right, why even live. Some people are just born bad it seems.

>>41583085
Dude don't get blackpilled, I didn't start lifting until I was 24. If you're starting now, lifting, looking for success and have the right attitude you have a huge advantage.

I'm the guy you're replying to and I really fucked myself over. I was a male feminist SJW until 23 and didn't start lifting until 24. I also pursued government work, lowering my skill set, I've been working on reversing this for past two years. I dug my own grave and accept responsibility for my bad decisions.

You have a really good prognosis if you're starting now, things likely will get better if you get a plan and stick to it. I would kill to be 19 again and know what I know now.

>>41578536
>no friends
>desperately want them
>no matter how fit i get, i just stay in my room accepting friend requests from black girls on facebook
>have no idea how to gain friends
>was extremely popular in senior year of highschool and freshman year of college and just fell off

>>41581110
c u c k

>>41581697
Just go for ugly girls. You don't even like that cock in your mouth.

>>41578547
Found the well rounded citizen

>>41584788

I read a book called story genius, it's about how to write a story that captivates readers and isn't just one scene after the other. I like it, it's insightful

>>41578562
get a good phone (big qHD screen) and read on that, doesn't get easier

>>41579336
Is your hometown Bristol?

>last time I had friends to go out with has been 6 years ago

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>>41588958
same
how can you make friends when no one has time for you?

>>41580856
You sound miserable

>>41589083
I'm in my early 30s also and let me tell you, I actually look forward to go to bed on time. Unlike in my teens.

>>41583212
I doubt you're still in this thread, but if you come back, how old are you?

Sounds like mid-to-late twenties, you just need to get out more.

>>41579093
I wanna watch you play that friday game. seems fun

>>41581110
If you like her see where it goes, if she starts/keeps messing you around drop her. You're better than that my man