>Anon, have you cleaned your room yet ?

Yes, and I've sorted myself out

I'm immune to postmodernist shills and have seen the fnords

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Do I wait until I'm sorted to ask her out? Or do I ask her out to help with the sorting?

I feel so much farther along but I still have no idea how to deal with grills.

>>41569027
Facing and eventually overcoming rejection is part of sorting.

Ask her out.
If she says no, regroup, then ask another girl out.

>>41568965
No :(

I wanted to do it today, but I did not.. and here I am again, festering in my own filth, wasting time, fapping to porn, wasting life

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>>41569044
Man, the only dragon I can't face is the one with tits.

Gotta start somewhere I guess.

This is just my thinking but I don't think you ever truly "sort yourself out" or "make it" but that doesn't stop myself from pursuing those ideas and bettering myself to be the best person I can be.

>>41569102
The point of 'sorting yourself out' is confronting all the negative parts of your being and keeping them from completely destroying you when something does eventually go wrong.

Yes First Sargeant, now please allow me to live a normal life in barracks

>>41568965
Who here /sorted/

>Proper home
>clean
>good job
>responsible
>support others
>make gains

I've saved my father

>>41568965
Yes and i got 50 good boy points for it :)

>>41569102
Face incrementally larger dragons.
Cleaning your room, cleaning your house, repairing your relationships with your family, ask 10 girls for their number, go to 10 establishments and ask for a job if you don't have one, volunteer for one of your city's volunteer programs, and so on

>>41569102
I think there is point where you start sorting out the world around you. But you yourself must also become ever more sorted as the burden of sorting tries to unsort you

>>41569097
Good luck.

Come back and post it as a green text if you fuck it up.

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>>41569462

I've been texting her for a couple minutes. I don't know how to bantz without saying nigger or calling people fags, so it's slow going.

>>41569766
Dude just cut to the chase and ask her out already.

>>41569797
I started out that way. Now I'm trying to close it out before I say something dumb but it keeps going.

>>41569027
If she's some sl00t you're practicing on, she might help you sort yourself in some ways but she can't do it for you.
If she's not a butt slut but a wife material grill you actually care about and like a lot, don't get with her hoping that will sort you out. That's like couples in a failing repationship having a kid to try to save their relationship. It doesn't work and you will probably expend the person you care about to sort yourself.

Sort yourself to a high enough degree that entering a relationship with someone you care about won't destroy your friendship/relationship.

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>>41569044
Emphasis is on the regroup

Learn from your mistakes. Try to figure out what when wrong sometimes it has nothing to do you with but something about the timing and where the girl is in her life

>tfw he'll never be your father-in- law

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>injuries healing
>going to school to study mechanical engineering in Sept.
>have the confidence / self-esteem to approach attractive women
>list of things needed to get done before I'm sorted is dwindling, not growing
>making good progress towards goals I believe in daily

am I gettin sorted, bros?

>>41568965
my computer's filesystem is a better externalization of my mind and I have cleaned that

>>41569812
Make sure to report back to us

>>41569797
This makes you look desperate you need to find a balance

>>41570138
final step is to leave 4chan

>>41569350
this

the entire point of the "clean your room" talk is not that you will get some sort of personal fulfillment out of living in a tidy environment. The point is that you should tackle competetence at the lowest resolution and work up from there, Cleaning your room is only an analogy for the lowest resolution