>When did you figure it out that having children and living

Family is gains goblin. Go back to /pol

>>41514862

I don't want kids. Have absolutely no desire for them, every kid i've taken care of has been a royal, needy pain in my ass. And the only benefit from making a kid is carrying on my DNA.

IF I were to have a kid, i'd adopt. And that's a big if.

I see next to no fucking benefit from it, no enjoyment because my autistic ass can't handle the stupidity of a small child, nor the selfishness of a grown one. They're just a needy sponge that takes my money and time with little to no returned benefit other than "MUH GENES!"

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>>41516463
I was right there with you. Now I have a son who's 2 ( and strong as fuck gg childlet scrubs ). Second best thing that ever happened to me following my wife.
But when I was right there with you I was shooting heroin six times a day, now I'm a straight A collegiate /fitizen/. Idk man its actually fun and I look forward to hanging with him all the time. Tbh it's all how you treat them, monkey see monkey do sorta thing. Don't write it off forever.

>>41516658
You know a lot of people live fullfilling lives and don't need heroin 6x a day to feel alive.

I really do want kids, but I also want to carry on traveling and doing all the fun shit I enjoy.

But I feel like its a bit unfair to have kids after 30-35max so I need to decide pretty soon.

>>41516295
fpbp

>>41516658
>strong as fuck gg childlet scrubs

Should have stayed on the heroin.

I just want an AI waifu and child

>>41514862
nigger i'm 22. it would be irresponsibility in the highest order to start a family knowing damn well i still have debt to pay and a job that doesn't pay enough to support a family. i'm living with my parents still (so i can pay student loans off faster) and can barely cook. hell, i haven't even gotten around to learning how to fix a car or do my taxes on my own.

i used to think one day i would want kids, but now the thought it is offputting.
If i could father a son and live my own life without being labelled a bad father etc i would do it, But i value my freedom and the ability to do as i please, and not be responsible for another person.

>>41514862
Probably around 20 after one too many heartbreaks.

>>41517396
pro tip: you can still do all of that shit when you have a family

>>41514862
>live life to the fullest
>having children
pick one