>go to gym for 1+ year and get out of dyel mode
>look aesthetic, get compliments and feel good about myself.
>ask girl out i really like, have enough confidence to ask her out
>begin talking to her for a couple of weeks on phone
>go to gym tonight (empty) and read a text from her "i tried but i felt no spark, don't mean to disappoint, we can still be friends"
>feel mixed feeling of anger, sadness, rage and depression at at once multifeels.jpg
>funnel energy into workout and have furious session
>After sesh i see this qte i been meaning to approach for awhile and decided fuck it, im at rock bottom now i'll introduce myself to her
>decide to approach her from side where she can't see me and say hello as she stretch
>she gets spooked but she smiles after we chit chat a bit
>then she says something (didn't understand) and quickly packs her shit up and leaves smiling at me without finishing her gym sesh
>i full must've spooked her out
>rejected by two girls i approached ( this after being dumped many months ago
>rockbottomselfesteem.jpg
I thought being fit would make me happy but all it does was build me up for dissapointment. is it time yet?
quit being a pussy, and learn to accept rejection
>>41424142
>go to gym for 1+ year and get out of dyel mode
Here is where you are wrong
learn from your mistakes
>>41424142
well i've never got past
>ask girl out i really like
so no i don't know that feel
>>41424180
also this
>>41424142
should've responded to first grill via text saying that you felt the same way too
If I've learnt one thing over the last few years about girls, it's that you can always reach a deeper level of rock-bottom
Dumb whores are dumb whores dude they aren't people like you and me
Dont go out looking for women like you are because you are just asking for this to happen, its rough I know but fuck it, wait, especially if you have friends, neither of them are waif material to begin with if they are going about looking for guys to use, she used you dude, bitch is a whore, make gains and dont look back and you will make it, been there, done that
Stop basing your self esteem on what dumb sluts do/think.
You felt good about yourself, right? That's great!
You've been at it for a bit and made some real progress, that's more than most people who start going to the gym can say.
If you get down on yourself every time a grill rejects you, you'll never get anywhere.
Pick yourself up, keep at it.
You won't find happiness between the legs of some skank. Trust me.
>>41424237
>she didn't have sex with me, what a whore!
>>41424252
He wasn't looking for sex he was looking for a waif silly
Thanks for the advice guys... i'll retreat into the gym more at quiet hours and lift the pain away untill i don't care about her and feel good because i look more aesthetic and get mires... this self improvement train will not stop.
I have no real friends irl that i can talk to about this shit, so ty /fit/, love you guys.
Post pics of yourself so we can judge
4 billions grills in this world and you crying like a beta bitch over TWO (2)
lmao
just keep lifting, approach more grills and you gonna make it anon
>>41424514
not OP but
>tfw 30 year old kissless virgin
how do i get one of these 4 billion grills to go out with me?
>approach more grills
who do i even approach? the only place i see girls is walking on the street on my way to work
>>41424502
Lmao, this.
If you really want to know what rock-bottom feels like.
>>41424142
How tall are you op?
>>41424142
>approaching girls at the gym meme
oh shit son
It's the mindset
>me permabulk mode
>have a gf, struggling to stand with her pros and cons
>still miss my ex, after year and a half of breakup
You can't have everything in life but at least you've got your personal achievements breh and that's what matter sthe most
>>41424609
>30 year old virgin
i'm in the same boat
we're fucked, m9
>>41424142
>>ask girl out i really like, have enough confidence to ask her out
never a good idea..
>>41424180
Some people actually put effort into it even if you cant believe it
>>41424301
I need a Sakura in my life