Sexual Health

>>41301937
First time?

>>41301957
yah

I've also decided to stop watching porn. Could also be a factor

>>41301937
stop fapping

>>41301937
Don't fap and drink a lot of water beforehand without peeing.

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>>41301937
>finally get to fuck gf
Foreplay dude. Don't be so nervous. Tell her to suck on your ween for a bit. If you can't get hard from her bj then just blame it on her.

>>41302003
This will make you cum fast though

>>41302007
She was sucking me off for ages but I could only get a semi

>>41302007
>blame it on her.
This. Women are insecure enough that it will work

>>41302032
eat her pussy. i get a massive hardon from moaning women alone

>>41302076
I also did that lol

>>41301937

no porn no fap and dont be nervous to get hard. Just focus on pleasuring her until the thing gets hard.

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>>41302032
Nigga why? You trying to impress her while she's sucking you off? Don't. Just let her work.

100% it's just performance anxiety.

You could always try edging until you're like 90% of the way to blue balls. So that by the time you guys hang out you'll be ready to cum if she so much as breathes on it. Sext/snapsext before hand so you get really amped up.

Sometimes my fiancee is super horny but I'm just not in the mood, so I fuck with her and get her close to cumming (w/o P in Vagee) until she's begging for it. When she begs my dick is fucking diamonds.

No homo, but what turns you on dude? Find a way to do that. I deny her orgasms until she puts her buttplug in, that always gets me in the mood.

>That feel when you have jacked off so much your penis tip is inflamed
Worried it was a std like the clap when it was burning to pee, realized it was from jacking off or breaking down a kidney stone and it shredding my urethra.

You're nervous, dude. You'll get over it eventually. In the meantime just have fun and focus on pleasuring her.

>>41301968
Give it a few more times, happened to me too.

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>>41301937
How do I get more volume to my cum?

>pic unrelated

>>41302259
ZMA, celery, and soya lecithin.

>>41302243
>>41301937

most people don't ever in their life get an actual real hard-on (by modern definitions like you see in modern porn)

just take a look at some vintage pornos and you will see the guys have semis, at best compared to more recent stuff

only way to have something similar is to be <21 yo, AND fuck a 9/10, OR use an entire arsenal of dick drugs

typically a modern pornstar is on:

high dose mast (or equivalent), test, clomid, HCG, cialis AND viagra (or preferably the "viagra" variant you inject straight into your dick). You also need a bunch of ancillaries (pram/caber), and actually also ibuprofen (to combat some sides), etc

if you want to keep going natty, just jam your semi into her pussy somehow (lube?), then after some fucking you will 100% get a vintage porn style "hard-on" (its pretty mediocre)

don't let her suck you off for more than a minute.. you get used to the sensation and you won't be stimulated enough to keep hard for long

after a few sessions like this you will get a mediocre hard-on pretty much on command, from some light touching or sucking from her (since your brain knows you will fuck and this will lead to cumming). HOWEVER, if you wait too long it will be EXTREMELY hard to keep yourself hard unless you escalate the pleasure by penis in vag, or preferably in her asshole

vanilla sex without dick drugs is pretty bad, desu

>>41301937
It's anxiety, once you've done it once all will be okay. Condoms do not help. Just spend ages making out and teasing her, then she'll get really into it and start grabbing your dick wildly, that should do the trick

>>41301937
>Any tips for getting strong erections?
Try dudes?

>>41302350
>vanilla sex without dick drugs is pretty bad

see a doctor

performance anxiety is one thing, and more common than one might think, but the idea that you need any sort of enhancement drug to have great sex is stupid.

If you always have erection problems, you have a clinical condition. either your head is fucked up, or you have circulatory problems.

MACA ROOT
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also cardio.

>>41302425
kek, m8

what you talking about?

sex without drugs look just like 70s porn (mediocre)

once you have tried/experience the other side, it becomes rather uninteresting

not sure why you typed out that post? nowhere did I mention problems with having sex unenhanced. The post was about the contrast (which you can see for yourself in 5 minutes of comparing porn from 2017 to porn from 1970-1980). Its not really something you can argue against, m8

>>41302481
>>41302350

haha dude you have problems

>>41302599
not so sure about that, m8

let's put it in a simpler way

enhanced you can literally fuck for 1-2 hours with a rock-hard (again literally) dick, making a girl cum TENS of times in a row

unenhanced you can fuck for 30 minutes (if you are in really excellent cardiovascular health) with a decent boner, making the girl cum a few times (typically)


which one is objectively better?

obviously the enhanced version... although I admit its not really feasible to have such long sessions on a daily basis.. but still I don't see how you can not understand what I am saying here

everyone should at least TRY fucking on viagra + caber + ibuprofen

you won't regret it it really is something entirely different

>>41302481
>sex without drugs look just like 70s porn (mediocre)
are you a virgin?

u prob have shit circulation

go vegan man. after 3 weeks you will have no plaque in your arteries and you will be able to get decent erections

Hey guys are there any condoms that are bigger than magnums. They are a bit too tight around the base.

>>41302645
does the ibuprofen really help?

sides from viagra/cialis normally affect you later after sex

Don't worry bro it gets easier.

Unless you're gay

>>41302980
ibuprofen stops the nasal congestion

>>41301937
Literally the only time nofap has helped me. I stopped jacking off for a week, took some maca and got angry boners, jackhammered some broad and got cum all over her hair. I think she's still angry at me

>>41301937
I would try the jp90 routine beforehand it warms your dick up and gets a bunch of blood in there my erections feel hardest and I have more ejaculation control after I do it.

>>41301937
>meet qt at a bar
>head over to her place, both pretty drunk so we just mess around for a bit and go to sleep
>talk for many hours in the morning, try to have sex
>dick goes flaccid once I start putting the condom on
>meet her again a few days later
>eat her out, she jerks me off
>dick doesn't get fully hard
>meet her many more times, she's on her period so we don't do anything
>yesterday
>she jerks me off, dick gets momentarily hard but goes down after a while
>she seems truly disappointed for the first time
>cuddle and go to sleep
>meeting her tomorrow again
worst part is my dick leaks pre-cum for most of the time I spend with her and I get random semi-boners thinking about her
don't watch too much porn lads

>>41303744
why haven't you bought viagra yet?

>>41303768
because I met her 2 weeks ago and there's been only three attempts at sex, although I did have a similar issue a few months back
and I'm only 22

>>41303821
are you nervous around her? are you getting performance anxiety after your failed attempts? describe your mental state.

Because if it is nerves holding you back then using viagra 1 time could help you get over that situation. If you still have a problem after then it's time to see a doctor

>>41301937
I'd stay away from viagra, that shit is terrible for you. Literally just don't masturbate, and try to focus on being in the moment and pleasuring her. You'll be harder than ever

>>41303889
nah, never been this relaxed around a girl, she gets my odd sense of humour and seems to like me for who I am
we've probably spent as much time around each other wearing clothes as without
it's just my dick refuses to comply
and viagra is a prescription medication where I live and getting to a doctor would take a while unless I pay a fuckton

stop wanking

It is probably related to performance anxiety.
If you watch porn, it may be related to this too.
General masturbation volume may be at play too, but if you crank it to porn definitely cut that out.

>>41303954
you can easily buy generic viagra/cialis cheap on the internet.

>>41304105
any links?

>>41302720
Magnums taper down to the width of a normal condom at the base. Keeps it from slipping off when a guy isn't being honest with himself about his size, or if he has circulation problems that turn the normal variations in hardness during sex into pushing rope. You want lifestyles kyngs. They aren't tapered like that.

CARDIO
F A M

>>41301937
Less masturbation and more cardio.

>>41301937
dont think too hard about it. Learn to relax and get into some foreplay


also stop fapping

>>41305954
>>41305582
Cardio helps ED?

I'm starting this tmro http://ruthkazez.com/swimming/ZeroTo1mile.html

>>41302014
Kegals

Flex when you're about to cum and maybe pause for a second until your body can't take it anymore and just come shooting out everywhere.

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>>41301937

Bros how the fuck do I insert penis in her vagina from missionary? I can never find an angle to do it, like what the fuck. I make out with the girl get hard, then when I put on the condom I get soft within 1 minute if I don't put the dick inside her. I usually fail because I can't find the right angle to stick it in, if she's on her back and I'm on my knees between her, then I can't insert it because my dick is too short (I'm 6 inches). I get soft from stressing and need to jerk myself off to get hard again. It's so stressful for me.

>No fap
>No porn

Your penis will become more sensitive and you will get more stimulated from the image of your girlfriend rather than comparing her to the flawless characters in pornography. Speaking from experience, my ex girlfriend and I are friends with benefits and I've been doing no fap and no porn and sex feels WAY better. Orgasm feels incredible and you can last longer and get harder erections.

>Go Vegan
Yes, this might surprise you, but going vegan can increase your libido due to the fact that your arteries won't be clogged but with athleroscerotic plaque hence improving bloodflow.

>http://www.pcrm.org/nbBlog/index.php/diet-away-erectile-dysfunction

>>41306075

Also the only think that makes me hard is making out and kissing her neck. Her sucking me off is okay too. As soon as I start fingering her or going down on her I go soft. What the fuck?

>>41306077
*Won't be clogged up with

>>41305543
Never knew that lol. Thanks for the info

>>41306075
you're at a fine length bro, the vagina's alot lower than you think it is

think base of your balls

>>41306075
Your first question...dude what? Have you been planking on women? Get on your knees and have her put her legs back...it's not rocket science.

>>41306443

thanks bro, i know where it is because i went down on her a lot and fingered her. it's almost near the anus. the thing is when we're in missionary lying chest to chest i can't seem to find the angle to put it inside. i need to put my hips back but then i can't guide my cock with the hand to the pussy because her thighs are in the way. if i try it from kneeling position then i'm too short to put it in because vagina is too law. hope you understand what i mean. i get so stressed out that i lose erection and fucking condoms don't help either. always get semi when i'm putting them on.

>>41306468
>>41306471

you're actually right kek, i've been planking on her

see this. i explain my problems. thanks for any advice bro.

I'm into femdom. Just sexually though. I'm dominant outside the bedroom. Can this mess me up if I keep at it? I don't overly fap. I don't want to be made into a sissy in my day to day life.

Don't think I can be bothered with dating/ sex anymore.
>best case scenario a hot guy who's good at cunnilingus, still not as good as a vibrator and then I have the tedium of penetration/ sucking him off
>realistically more like a little inexpert fumbling and awkward sex
>plus condoms= UTI city

>>41302350
Issues

>>41302350
>most people don't ever in their life get an actual real hard-on

You need to lay off the porn, son. Or at least stop jacking it 2 or 3 times a day.

When I go a couple days without cumming, I can get diamonds from fantasies or softcore.

>>41302350
You're a bizarre and sad man

>>41305990
ED is usually a circulation issue (Viagra came from an attempt to treat poor bloodflow to the heart), so yes, cardio will help.

>>41306487
no problem senpai we're all gonna make it one day

:^)

Just when I thought life was getting better and then ED fucks me up. Another reason why killing myself would be advantageous. God I hate my fucking life

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>>41301937

I got a two hour boner just from kissing a girl and I've never even put it in yet

If I get that far I can only imagine

>>41304126
google

Three cloves raw garlic + 1500 mg vitamin C

Rock hard boners + helps your heart health

>>41303447
Is that from the viagra or caber? Anytime I've tried viagra alone I never got congested.

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>>41303744
>meet her many more times, she's on her period so we don't do anything

Why do people do this? Once I've been with a girl long enough period sex is just license to bang with no condom and cum inside.

>waaah waaah blood on my penor
Shut the fuck up and wash it off, or do you not purify yourself after sex? Fucking degenerate.

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>>41308498
>period sex is just license to bang with no condom and cum inside.
I get your logic, and I've never had an issue with period sex. But I hope you realize it's still possible to get a girl pregnant even if she's on her period.

Unless she's tracking her cycle (there are apps for this), I wouldn't take the chance.

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>>41308728
>it's still possible to get a girl pregnant
I get that, but its much lower then it would normally be. Thats never what I hear from guys though, even with a condom they get all squemish. The one thing I will say is kind of gross about it is the blood and offal getting in my pubes, also I won't go down on her like that.

>>41306830
I insert raw garlic covered in coconut oil in my anus

>>41302350
This guy is SOMEWHAT correct from what I read, which was definitely not all of it
You're not 100% hard all the time during sex unless you're taking some kind of stimulant. As for not getting hard the first time, it happened to me too at first but I got over it within 10 minutes. Just keep trying until you're comfortable with the other person

>>41301937
relax

>>41308498
m8 I literally met her 2 weeks ago

>>41302054
kek, this is true. I couldn't get it up with my ex and she cried because she thought she was ugly
/spoiler/ I wasn't sexually attracted to her /spoiler/

>>41308498
>>41308796

I've never understood this either. My brother gets all "eww" when the topic of sex during menstruation comes up. Meanwhile the only thing stopping me from going down on my gf during that time of the month is the fact that she finds it disgusting. I guess I'm just desentized to blood.