Feels bad man

>>41179581
>be me, 18 yo kv skinny manlet
>was working out in my home gym built my myself located at my buddy's house since September
>got the flu at least 4 times
>slowed down my progress by at least 3 months
>got gastroenteritis in March
>I weighted 68 kg at the time.
>vomit, diarrhea, AT THE SAME TIME
>literally vomiting in a bowl while shitting myself in the toilet
>I was shitting pee
>39.5 celsius body temperature
>genuinely felt like hell
>pain everywhere
>could not eat
>could not even drink water, if not very slowly with a fucking teaspoon
>at some point I had nothing more to puke so it was like my soul was trying to escape
>when I got tired and started drinking water I puked so much and with such force I painted the doorframes of my house with vomit
>doing so the virus was transmitted to my parents
>I felt so bad for them
>but the worst thing of all, knowing that at the end this all would pass is
>lost FUCKING 5 KG
>take in mind that when I started working out I weighted 62 kg
>after 10 days of this I go back to the routine, but I have to use way lighter weights
>grind my teeth and gain 2.5 kgs (most was water since I was dehydrated
>after 2 weeks, I get diarrhea again
>Lose 3 more kgs
>I still have diarrhead right now, forcing myself to not shit my pants
>It's been like this since 5 days ago
>can't eat almost anything
>I'm sleeping 5 hours every 24 hours at most since I'm always going to the bathroom to shit
I feel like shit bros, I'm not even able to write it down. I look like shit, I have shit strenght, everything fucking sucks and when I shitted myself trying to sleep last night I genuinely started thinking at my life, at my future in the world, at the future of the world, on how there was no hope and I prayed for the world to explode and for me to go quietly in the night

>>41179586
I'm posting from bathroom right now

>Be me, 18 year old 5"6 manlet with gyno
>have had gyno for seven years now and it's pretty bad, only remedy would be surgery
>hormones are also fucked which is why I'm a manlet
>always made fun of my height since ninth grade
>whenever friends would go to beach for pool would make bullshit reason to not go
>"Yea uhh I have to go to Costco with grandma" or some other autistic excuse
>have to wear a chest compression shirt to hide my man titties

I had some blood work done recently which should tell me what is wrong with my hormones

Gyno fucking sucks

>been living with GF for 4 years now
>haven't had sex for 3 weeks
>gf blames it on all kinds of stuff
>stop tryin
>jacks off on toilet alone

>>41179684
this is the part where people call you a retard for not going to Doctors.

>>41180201
your relationship is dying, if you dont correct it then it will end soon

once the sex goes, death comes soon after

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>>41179586
that was a comically horrible account of affairs, OP. Seek medical advice

>>41179586
so this is how those doctors in mexico ended up being butchered by the cartels huh?

how about stop being a fucking thief so they don't have to put you on /b/ in a gore thread

>>41179586
>Had an infected uvula after new years
>couldn't eat
>got some shit from the doc for it
>still took a week to go away
>lost 5kg in a week
>was a skelly before
I've been there OP. Hope you get better soon.

>>41180356
If she can be with you 3 weeks and not want to fuck once it's done, it will never be right again

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>>41179581
>be me 19 yo in uni
>realise halfway through the semester that what I'm studying is completely boring and uninteresting to me
>think of where to switch
>can't switch to economics because it requires a history exam, which I didn't think I'd need in the future
>can't switch to sound technologies because it requires some weird vague entry exam with one of the requirements being "compose a score for a scene from a movie"
>music was my passion my whole life but everything apart from sound technologies in this one university blows ass
>all that's left is to either drop out and find a job and have no time for practicing instrument or keep dragging myself through boring and hard studies being a NEET but having time to practice instrument

>>41180575
bitcoin. its what I did in uni with all that free electricity and internet access and now if I need money I cash them in and use them when I like

most just think I'm a poor neet though meanwhile their jobs keep going to people who will accept lower pay :^)

I recently met a girl on tinder that I really liked. We hit it off really well. Compatable as fuck. Easy to talk to. She was short, fit, gorgeous, talented (dancer) funny etc. She thought I was an oral sex wizard. I made her cum like 10 times in one night and 3 times in 2 minutes on a separate occasion.

Our first date she told me she wasn't from my town and was here for school. Shes a senior and graduates next month. Told me she was going to move to LA to pursue dancing after college. And like a retard, I started falling for her anyway knowing full well it would never work out. I got blackout drunk one night and texted her that I wanted to try something serious and ever since she's wanted nothing to do with me. Feelsbadman. I only knew her for a month before I caught feelings I have no idea what happened to me.

>>41180602
redpill me on bitcoin

Went to the gym today. Not feeling 100% (rain the past couple days kicked up some allergies I think). Tried squatting the bar, felt tight but just thought I needed to stretch. Loaded up warm up weight, tighter than a loli pussy in a doujin. Form was absolute shit and I was feeling pain in numerous places because I've got some DOMS after swimming yesterday. Decided it was too risky with by body acting this poorly so I just went home. Fucking disappointed and pissed off at the same time.

I won't go into my numerous non-/fit/ feels now

>>41180575
Try having this realisation 2 years before finishing your masters

Literally cant sleep
I feel strange crawling sensations in the skin. Doctor always tell me its because I am too nervous all the time. Its been like that for 2 years.

Lately started to have anxiety attacks at night too.

Not cutting weight as fast as I expected.

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>She left me for a skinny fat creepy, looking guy
>our relationship ended much like the last one, the new one starting like ours did
>leaves me with many questions regarding the beginning of our relationship
>Found out she pulled the trigger because her whale roommates didn't like me and couldn't have him, so they pushed her to get with him
>flat fucking broke because I spoiled her the week before, leading up to our anniversary

At least she was fat

>>41179581
I have lost all my friends..
I am lonely and deploited of friendly contact.
I am in college and would like to be invited to a party or something but knowing me, that wont happen.

It is shit.

> Promised myself I would avoid girls and concentrate on me
> 7 whole months as a happy singleton
> Feel myself catching feelings for this girl
> Cannot for the life of me shake them

Just come off a months placement of having to see her everyday. We hit it off so well. But she has this ugly ass boyfriend who's ten years older than me and makes 6 figures plus a year at the very least.

Just fucking kill me.

w-what about good feels?

almost got my degree
currently pushing 115kg on bench
got a few compliments when i went out last night
my mind is eerily quiet and content after meditating

>>41179581
Lost a rep on my 2nd and 3rd sets of pause incline db today, as compared to this same weight 4 weeks ago. feels bad, bu hoping it was a fluke and next week I will be a bigga boi

I can't get my penis erect when im with a girl, its gotten to the point where i avoid trying to further any relationship with girls. Its killing me inside

Have to work as a bouncer again so i can train mma properly.

Fuck

>>41182155
Go see a doctor dude, it'll be embarrassing but they can help you at least

My life is plagued by regrets

I had amazing potential as a kid, was very smart. But I had fuckall motivation or ambition, so I fucked up college, twice.

Now Im stuck with a shit deadend job, I work my ass off every day and Im still broke.

I fucked up friendships that I really cared about, relationships that I really cared about. The last one was the heaviest. GF of 5 years at that time was going to study abroad for a long time. At first I was supposed to come with her, but I got cold feet in the end, I didnt want to leave everything here behind. We got in a huge fight and left me. That was 2 years ago, Ive been thinking about it every single day, even if I do my best to forget it.

Im 27 now and I feel like life is over for me, I had my chances and I fucked them all up. I feel like a burden to my parents, a failure, a fuckup, I sincerely hate myself. I know deep inside its never too late to make a change and I still keep trying to make things better every day. But Im plagued by my past every second of every day, my thoughts and memories just wont leave me alone.

Gym is the only place where I feel serenity

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I've been getting more active lately and starting to feel better as a result, but it's only because I'm afraid of being left alone with my own thoughts. I've been suicidal for as long as I can remember and it's only getting worse, with little things throwing me back into the loop in spite of having things like a girlfriend, and a job. Self hatred isn't going away by lifting like I expected. Not even sure if I'm going to be alive by Christmas.

>>41182155
Sounds like you might be gay?

>>41182237
I'm very attracted to females, I just get anxious and can't relax which ends up causing my dick not to work. I've heard about viagra but never tried it, maybe that will help? Even though i know its not a physical issue.

>>41182155
Stop masturbating and watching porn if you're doing either one now. If not, then go talk to a doctor.

>>41182202
Have you thought about suicide? Seems like a decent solution to your problems.

I have a feeder fetish that makes me pop boners over fat grills in the gym.

I'm never gonna make it bros ;_; I'm too much of a degenerate to get /fit/ and spread healthy values.

>>41182226
>hold fast froggo

>>41182299

No, I would never kill myself, I will never give up no matter how hard things are.

Way to be sympathetic, cunt.

>>41182202
Learn from your mistakes so you don't make them again. That's all you can do about the past. Accept your fuckups and put them behind you as lessons.

>>41182370
It was a genuine suggestion. No need to be so bitter about it. Sounds like you'd be better of dead, why is that such a crazy idea?

>brother abuses me
>i'm bigger than him but am terribly weak and afraid to hurt people
>he beats me up every so often and i do nothing about it
>feel shit, self esteem is gone all my life
>he's 3 years older than me
>i'm 18 he's 21
>he still lives at home
>mother does nothing to help just lets it happen
>can't blame her, she shouldn't have to deal with him
>brother is 100% selfish, lets my mum pay for his rent in our rented council home
>fantasies about killing him
>never hated anyone as much as him
>one day he comes into my room
>says i've been treating him badly
>that i've been a total dick to him for months
>tells me to apologies and treat him better
>"I don't owe you shit"
>he goes in for a punch
>just try and not get fucked as much this time
>just let it happen
>run round the house etc
>one point i let go a little and try to beat him with a baseball bat
>hold back
>just imagine the brother i once knew, used to play vidya with him all the time, halo 2 etc. Good times
>he just beats me harder
>after it dies down i just go back to my room and try to sleep
>break down
>feel pathetic, i had a gf at the time and kept thinking about how someone could do something to her and i couldn't do anything about it
>worthless
>he comes into my room
>i'm just sobbing at this point, 18.
>funnily enough we have a long conversation
>i end up apologising for treating him badly
>figure i should just treat him well and endure his presence until i move out or he does
>next day he's back to normal
>i feel like a waste of a human being
>why do i let this happen
>grades failing in uni
>what'seventhepoint.png
Its almost as I was born into a shit family and have shit things happen to me as some sort of entertainment show for others.
Just might try and end it all boys, lets see if it helps.

>>41179581
how do I shake feelings for a girl? Shes ruining my fucking life because I dont want to get other pussy as a result

>>41182410

If you think anybody, who is not actively hurting other people and has a healthy functioning body is better off dead, youre more fucked up than I am

I dont want to be lonely

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I KNOW white knights will call me an asshole who deserves to die, but heres my story

>be me, in my early 20s
>have relationship at the same time with 2 women in their 40s
>they don't know about each other
>I'm very bored with one of them, but don't want to break up out of pity
>The other one has anger issues and we fight alot, but don't know if I really want to break up with her since I know she is an honest person with a good soul. Plus we run a business together.

should I just kms?

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>>41179581
1/2
>Had a few short relationships in the past, every one lasting like a month.. Never had fucked, just a few kisses and then i always got fed up after a week or two couldn't stand the girl
>"Am I gay? But i likes girls and nice asses and tits"
>summer 2014 - I met a girl, not very impressed by her, just a regular girl, didn't even like her looks
>we started going out
>fell in love
>fall 2014 - we hit it off and it was perfect
>she had one serious guy before
>lost virginity status with her
>realized she is the hottest girl I've ever seen
>was too low-test, manchild and never trusted her even when there weren't any red flags, I was just beta, she was stronger than me psychically speaking
>date till august 2016
>i felt the break up coming from the start of the summer, no sex attraction from her side
>realized all the "Hollywood movies" promises girls give are total bullshit
>lived day by day, suffering like a fuck, trying to live. It was hell
>started with boxing and lifting to dispose of my feels
>not helping pretty much, but it have rebuilt shattered ego and confidence
>new cut, new clothes, looking pretty slayerino desu
>girls are mirin

>>41182410
>trying this hard to be edgy
Wew lad

>>41182450
Stand up for yourself. Dont kill him for fucks sake but if you see he is about to hit you suckerpunch that fucker

>>41182450

Stand up for yourself man. No worse thing for a man's confidence to get walked all over

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>>41182503
2/2
>i started dating a girl from my class at uni - she was damn hot, ballerina and also very smart and funny
>no sex, she had some pretty serious pain in her belly
>i broke up with her, can't forget my ex
>November 2016 she wished me happy birthday and asked me if I want to go out sometime
>"whynot.jpg"
>we kissed like mad, but nowhere to fuck because Renault Clio
>she admitted that she started fucking her ex from before our relationship after our break up
>shattered me even more and made me realize that all the time i was feeling like a living abomination she was fucking with this prick
>gave her the chance, saying if she will fuck up one more time we are done, because there are lot of pussies waiting for me and i don't have my dick so I can just fap in the bed
>can really feel she changed
>stopped clubbing, supporting me in every way possible, morning heads, she laugh at every single joke
>January 2017 she has been diagnosted with HPV from that guy before
>I have warts too
>ballerina from uni diagnosed with cancer
>mfw

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>Friendless loser for the majority of my life to the point I don't really feel like a person
>At the point where I'm somewhat afraid of people because even if I managed to trick them into befriending me it'd all go to shit when they see I'm not actually a person
>Still living with parents
>Can't even accomplish most mediocre of dreams
>Started becoming more fit and felt better but let that all fall to shit

>>41180103
Agreed, been living with it for about 5 years, maybe getting big will help?

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>>41179586
>at some point I had nothing more to puke so it was like my soul was trying to escape

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>The only thing I have to look forward to every day is lifting and going to bed
>Uni stresses me out to no end
>Everyone here only parties and gets fat, only a few dedicated gym bros
>Very few friends, they never invite me to do things though
>No gf, ever
>Do way too many club athletics, absolutely destroy my body
>Always alone, despondent, and hopeless

What's even the point lads? I try and make friends and it never works out, I get rejected all the time, and the only joy I get is improving my body and mind. I am lost.

>>41181156
Yikes feelsbad, anon

>>41182554
Maybe, but sadly the only way to remove the breast tissue that causes gyno Is through surgery

And the surgery costs around 4,000 bucks in the US

Feelsbadman

>>41182530
>>41182532
I think just deep down I know I still love him. Whenever I try to fight back all my energy just goes because I just honestly don't want to hurt him. Wish he felt the same. I wish I had the strength or will to do it, but i guess i'm just a faggot

>>41182591
>Very few friends, they never invite me to do things though

I know that feel, it's like if I want to be included in something I have to ask and if I have to do that then what's the point?

>>41179581
I started working for my uncle two years ago and I realized hes fucking up big time. Hes an alcoholic and doesnt get off his ass. And the money I saved working for him I eventually gave back (around 1500 dollars), because he said he needed it, and I see him everyday buying 2-3 bottles of wine and cigarretes.

Idk what to do, he raised me so hes basically my dad after all we've been through, but hes also a loser and only now can I see it. And i love him so much, but tbqh, he doesnt give a shit at this point and Im growing tired.

12/2016 father stabbed my brother infront of my son and nephew and later was arrested.
Now I am living with my ex husbands family with my son, his sister, her son, and their mom and dad. When ever I talk to my parents they try to con me to return to a toxic home.
I get upset because I feel unwanted and then skip out on the gym.

>>41182622
Recently I've been more comfortable with my body. Don't try to avoid it anon, I've seen some great looking guys with gyno too, let's just strive to get there and then consider surgery

>>41180654
It's for fedoras and idiots

>>41181156
>2 years before finishing masters
So at your bachelor's graduation then

I was dating this super nice chubby girl, had a couple of boyfriends she wasn't that attractive, worst thing she did during sex was having a guy cum on her face....

I meet another girl while dating her hot great ass, does deadlits, goes to the gym... so I started treating the first girl like shit going nc, not going out that much, then I found out the second girl was a total whore anal, threesomes with another , never had a bf... I was going to keep the first girl, but today she sent me a text saying I wasn't trying and it wasn't working for her( i just replied Fair enough to act like man, she texted me she was waiting for more than 2 words).. I FEEL LIKE SHIT and have cried a little today.

>>41182918
>Not knowing that the hotter a girl is, the bigger a slut she is
O I am laffin

Next time, just hump and dump

>>41179581
My biceps have very big stretch marks on them
makes me sad

>>41182918
>getting into a relationship in 2017

Top Kek

just forget her and move onto the gym slut

>>41181143
We've all been there friend

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>>41180575
>>41181252
>year and a half ago
>be me, skelly looking 5'11" kh virgin in ""prestigious""" french uni equivalent, doing really great, best student, comfy scholarship, basically never attended though (just like in muh anime!!)
>super qt autistic-ish /lit/ girl out of the blue starts talking to me, giving me drawings and little notes, basically acting like she's obsessed with me
>think she's joking at first
>yada yada yada we get together
>great relationship, she keeps telling me how she loves me, how she wants to stay with me forever etc
>life is perfect
>one day get back from week of vacation, as I enter the building I see her dumb fat ugly tumblrina (who for some reason hates me) friend leave with a shit eating grin on her hamplanet face
>gf is acting so fucking weird, starts giving me all the buzzword relationship stuff about how I don't respect/appreciate her and how I'm not invested enough in my own life (had gotten expelled from school because of the not attending thing)
>literally don't recognise that bitch, wonder how hambeast could've brainwashed my sweet loving gf in such a short time
>I tried changing her mind but she kept spouting her bullshit so eventually we break up
>don't know to this day what fat girl told her, pretty sure she convinced her I was cheating or something
>we break up, still fucked her a few times after though cause she loved my fat dick nbd aha
nevertheless
>get depressed, never attend second rate uni I enrolled in, get first semester though (math)
>start lifting which is literally all I have right now, no friends, no gf, no nothing. just eric vids and the will to add pounds to the bar.
>about to fail second semester, lose scolarship and have to pay some of it back
>don't even know what I'd like to study
>apparently student jobs are impossible to find
>mfw 20yo already
>life was perfect, could've done anything because gifted/high IQ
>youth and life are wasted
>no friends
>depressed & nogf
>all because of that fat cunt

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>>41182503
>>41182534
>I have warts too
I was gonna say my situation was similar and give you a little pep talk but Jesus Fucking Christ that is one of my greatest fears.

>>41183093
I think you have an external focus of loci

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>>41179581
TL;DR
>I thought I had something going on with a girl.
>Turns out she had a boyfriend

Unsure if I shall be mad at her for leading me on, or just ignore it. I've read up on stoicism in the last months. No expert on it, but if I look on it through a stoic's eyes I should have prepared myself better for it. People suck (pic related), and I put her too much on a pedestal and got disappointed by her actions.

I kinda feel used by her because I guess she enjoyed my attention. Another part of me feels she had some genuine feelings for me.

The stoic in me wants to move on and take this as experience. I can't really be mad, because I did my best to court her, but it didn't happen, and that's out of my power.
The child in me wants to feel like shit and fucking hate that fucking dumb, vapid whore for being a fucking piece of shit cunt

fuck.

>>41183178
nah I've always been a depressed kunt, felt alone in the world and weak etc. exgf made me feel like a human being. I felt strong as fuark, felt like I could achieve anything. Imagine being certain you've made it only to lose all your gainz and go back to the insecure r9k browsing, bar squatting you were before. that's what it felt like.

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>>41183093
Sort yourself out, my friend.

>>41183290
You thought you made it; only to realize you were a madman in his empire of dust and ashes...everything that goes well can break/end. Especially so if we think it'll last forever intrinsically

Every time I try squatting, I get insane knee pain. I feel like less of a man because of this.

I've always wondered why so many guys are obsessed with girls and being in a romantic relationship. That should only be one aspect of your multifaceted life.
Besides, you can't go out looking for a girlfriend. You just have to wait until you meet the right girl who you want to make your girlfriend, or else it doesn't mean anything.

I've never been with a hot girl, I've never even gotten close, and I'll probably never get with one either

I'm 25. I should be over this shit, but I'm not.

Seeing pics of hot fit girls kills me inside.. Just once I'd like fug. That's it. I just want that experience once.

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>>41183093
I'm sorry Pierre, I'm >>41181252 and it's my last semester of uni right now. She dumped me while I was in the middle of my senior project and it's been hurting my will to work on it. Bassically just been going to the gym and posting on /fit/ for the last two weeks. Wish the bitch was just honest with me from the start so I didn't have to spend a week mourning over her like a faggot until I found out the truth.

The hate and desire to fuck a skinnier girl than her has given me will, but I hope it works out for you. We're all gonna make it.

>>41183093
No offense but if someone I was dating flunked out of university I would give them a ton of shit too. Either you have extreme mental issues which is bad or you are just extremely lazy with no career prospects which is even worse. You can be successful without education if you have a good work ethic, you can be successful and educated with a good work ethic, if you don't have a good work ethic or education you're future is not looking bright. And I'm looking at it through the lens of being a man and counting on having an income of my own and not a woman who's going to have to rely on you for income.

Get yourself together anon, for your sake.

How do i get rid of the sense of loneliness. Do i inflict as much pain as i can on myself, do i withdraw myself into private pursuits or do i find solace in another way.

>>41183579
Funny thing is she flunked. I didn't, I was just expelled for not attending. She also flunked /lit/ stuff which I didn't know was possible but obviously when I pointed that out the woman started crying and told me she really tried (and she probably believed it, normies who spout bullshit about commitment tend to confuse putting in time with actually making an effort). but yeah I'm incredibly lazy. always have been because usually I can afford to. except when I lift, gotta shock the muscle bruvv.
>>41183491
sheet tell that to my debt mane. my relatives can literally not pay for my apartment, food etc. Nor do I want them to. But I guess that's az's way of testing us. We have to believe.

>>41183449
I have the same mindset. Life is so much better when I'm not worrying about that kind of thing. Would recommend.

>>41183732
>>41183449
>had always been obsessed with grills, never tried anything thoug
>give up on them one day just stop thinking about them, putting them on a pedestal etc
>one day qt girl talks to me, just treat her like I would a child basically (I'm not nice to children)
>she's all over me
>wtf.jpg
>asks me one day if we can be together
>it's great
>she leaves me
>mfw she ruined years of hard work and self conditioning
>mfw now all I want is to get back to that warm feel of being in a relationship with a beautiful girl who loves you

>>41183731
> I was just expelled for not attending.
That's worse you dumbass, all you had to do was show up

>>41179581
The more Interact with diffrent women the more I am sure than I am going to stay alone.

I'm not a touchy feely person, nor am I smooth or sweet. Women these days are also extremely petty and don't know how to chill.

I just want a qt to love that loves me back, but whenever I start talking to one I always get in this bad mood. Why is that? How can I overcome and get the girls.

I'm a successful beta. Successful in all areas of life other than relationships. I just don't know what to do.

>>41182299
fuck off

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I have a lot to be happy about. I married my high school sweetheart, I have four beautiful kids and weight loss and muscle gains come easy.

My only sorrow is that I am poor. I am working two part time jobs and working on my masters degree, but I struggle to make ends meet. Nothing cuts you apart more than not being able to provide for your loved ones.

>we'll go to disneyworld someday, kids. I promise.

>>41183898
What degree are you pursuing? It sounds like you're on the right track to better providing.

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>be 19 year old dyel skinnyfat turbomanlet
>gyno, dicklet
>off to college to try engineering for funsies
>dont jerk off for three months
>develop intense crush on random shy autistic cross country girl
>can't find her for a long time, shes a shut in, no social media.
>self destruct forba while, pick up lifting in december
>lifts improve for a while, but taper after two months. By march I am stagnant.
>autstically attain a rower qt to date in february.
>take her virginity
>feel a numbness the entire time, still have residual crush on shy shut in that has not been reciprocated at all.
>haven't lifted in two weeks
>told rower we should take a step back over the summer because i won't have time to see her often, shes already upset that we only hangout once a week.
>schools hard
>still think of track girl
Its a dark time brehs.

>>41183929
MBA, focus in information systems. Hopefully I can snag a jobs in a bigger city, the town I grew up in/I'm going to school in feels like it's a dead end.

Tough times don't last, I just needed to vent.

>>41183833
I had just read pasta related
>you get up at 07:00 every day and read books all night thinking it'll get you a good job. CHAD shows up to the tests after a night of drinking and weeks of not attending and STILL gets a better grade than you. you worked hard to get where you are, CHAD just wound up there by accident, it was just that easy for him. CHAD fucks stacys and watches tv shows all day, and he's still smarter than you because of his genetically determined EIDETIC MEMORY and IQ face it, it's either ALPHA BRAIN or BETA CRAMMING
I just thought I was being a bad boy genius CHAD at the time.

>>41183942
fuck ever heard what they say about beggars and choosers?

>>41183331
ahhh YES JBP fuck me baby

>>41183995
>Living life off of a copypasta

Dude now you're sounding like a huge retard. Did you have her blow you too because "shit was so cash"?

Go back to school, get a degree, and make good money you fuckup. Nobody on this board knows what a CHAD does, stop trying to be him and fix your shit.

>>41180490
this. when i was away from my girl she would literally skype call me completely naked.

>started lifting at the beginning of this school year
>started making small, but noticeable gains
> all my friends noticed
>now
>stop lifting and lost all my gains
>On top of that, I've fell out of love with my girlfriend of 1.5 years and fell in love with someone else
>Not looking forward to having to hurt her.

Im feelin the feels in my stomach /fit/
19 year old kissless autist, socially awkward. I just wanna be drunk rn to numb the pain. If a girl even talks to me or hugs me I get feelings for em, is their hope for me?

>>41182549
Hey man, it'll be okay. Life's all about the baby steps. Try and improve day by day, don't try and tackle everything at once or you'll feel overwhelmed.

I set myself up for failure and I won't meet the minimum gpa to keep my entry into my preferred masters program

I want to die

>>41185312
19 year old vigin here, I'm a bit more picky but it's the same deal.

You have to realize that a lot of guys feel this way, not just you and me.

You have to actually try, put in the time and dedication to finding and keeping a girl, and that is as difficult as it sounds. Find somebody whos personality you really like and try, that's all you can do. And never lose confidence that you can't do it, because you can, you just have to find the right girl.

were gonna make it breh

>>41185312
That implies that girls are hugging on you in the first place.
And you're 19, fuck I wish I was 19.
Though I'm sure there's some old fucker out there who wishes he was 30 even if it was as a kissless virgin wizard.

I'm likely going to fail out of university this semester. There's not much I can do about it at this point. All my friends think I have a good GPA. I'm thinking I can just disappear and never answer any of my university friends messages

>I'm the kind of dude that puts other peoples needs before mine no questions asked but those same people call me out when i miss a detail
>girl roommate of three years suddenly started talking down to me and having laughs at my expense when her friends are over
>she's not the kind of person you raise an issue with without her getting mad and giving me silent treatment for days
>started a new job after being unemployed for almost two months, barely making rent, and i can't seem to keep up at it - afraid i'm going to get the boot
>want so bad to talk to someone about how i'm feeling but i'd feel like a burden to anyone if i did
>started eating healthier, exercisingat the gym, doing no fap, riding my bike hoping to get used to being alone again.
>mornings i feel like i can conquer the world but as the day dies out these bad feelings creep up

>>41185420
>mornings feel like I can conquer the world
Same here. Now I'm laying in bed hating myself

>>41182450

Have you considered he could be a sociopath? Im just saying cause I have an older brother who abused the shit out of me all the way through my childhood and adolescence. Im 20 now and hes 23, both still live in the same house but never speak to each other. Whenever there are family gatherings he still makes it clear that he despises me. He's generally extremely selfish (would probably kill all of my family if it meant he would get money to impress his friends) and blames all of my family for his problems.

I now have cripplingly low self esteem and no confidence. Im super emotionless (if i displayed any emotion in front of him as a child he would beat me so i struggle with it now) and now people despise me in social situations because i act like a robot and think im super serious when im not.

Anyway, i empathise with you. You seem to have conflicting feelings; one minute you say you hate him enough to kill him, next you say you love him deep down. I think you need to be honest with yourself and consider whether he really gives one shit about you. Also try not to let it reach the stage it has for me.

Good luck friend

So while I'm here, where does one meet friends and shit? I'm old at this point and missed out on making any friends in Highschool or College, what does one do as an adult?

Fuck bruhss I love you all we can make it through our feels.

>>41183884
I feel the same way about men. I have this image in my mind cuddling, fucking and doing goofy stuff with some likeminded guy. But the reality is that I'm 23yo and I've never even had a boyfriend. Not that I was ugly or fat, but it seems like all the attention I'm getting is just guys wanting to fug. I don't even fuck them, but that just means that they disappear from my life completely.

I'm not sure how should I play my cards. I do sports, I have a nice bod. Education, I support myself. I'm funny, smart and goody and always my authentic weirdo self. But it has never yielded results. The guys I've liked and who has given all the positive signals out there has eventually just flaked on me before we even had sex.

I don't know man. It seems like that no guy ever thinks that I'm the exact kind of a grill he wants. I'm no ones type.

>>41185565
> I'm funny, smart and goody and always my authentic weirdo self

i know it sucks but don't be this. be like 80% yourself and 20% thot.

I can't explain it but it's really uncomfortable when a girl has too much of her own personality.
We like girls stupid because they are, in general, pretty unpredictable and atleast if they're not very switched on, you can see the rapid mood swings or typical bullshit behaviour etc. early on.

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>>41185565
Maybe your just not looking in the right places.

You are the except and not the rule to most people, most girls I assume are too thoughtless to care about this and merely want to gain love using sex.

Sadly even the nicest of men can have dark intentions, and if you really want to find somebody like minded to you your either gonna have to find the male exception to the rule, or find a hardcore religious guy. Keep in mind he won't wanna fuck until marriage tho.

I wish you the best of luck, you have taken the hardest path for a girl in this modern age, to not be a complete slut.

I'm gonna disagree with other anon. You have your goals and you know what you want, now you just have to find 'him' and you might never find him. But hold true to yourself and keep looking, maybe you will truly get lucky. Best of luck anon.

and since this is 4chan, >grill

>>41179581
Im ugly so I can only sleep with girls who are 6 or below. My last gf was about a 7 though. I just wanna sleep with a hot young 9 or 10 bros

>>41185645
no shit you're gonna disagree you just told this bitch to 'find' a hardcore religious guy, foh you spastic.

anyone else worried shit might happen with russia/ north korea or is it just me?

>>41183976
You seem like a genuine person, anon. Have a great night and sleep well.

>>41185551
breh
we gunna make it
r-r...r-ight?

>>41185846
North Korea can't do shit. Literally. Every time they try to launch a missile it explodes right after leaving the launch pad. And right now a U.S. air carrier and two Japanese destroyers are heading to their backdoor.

As for Russia, while more capable than N. Korea certainly, they are still all bark and no bite. Putin tries anything then the rest of Europe and the U.S. will curb stomp them too.

>>41182534
My first gf in highschool ended up murdering her dad out of nowhere and disappearing

>>41182748
You have someone who depends on you

Really, want to be less than 200lb by next summer
Don't think I can do it efficiently, and I just keep failing losing the same 10lb and gaining it back after a month

I need to go into full on cut mode, but don't know what to do

If I lose 75lbs, It puts me right at 199lbs, and this would be fucking awesome

>soon to be 23
>won't graduate until December, assuming I can pass all my classes
>I never study or have any real hobbies, just lift and fuck around on /fit/ or watch some TV.
>socially retarded, have 0 friends at school
>I know it could be worse but I hate living and feel stuck.

>>41183449
So true, relationships are meant to be broken up unless its real love.

>>41183731
>I was just expelled for not attending

Do you not hear yourself?
You are autistic in a bad way.

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>>41182623
My brother used to treat me this way. He was a heroin addict and would steal my parent shit and lie all the time. One day I got sick of my mom crying so I gave him some boxing gloves and fought him. I held back a bit but still unleashed some rage on him and he quit everything after that.

Mfw he is 3 years sober after I beat the piss out him

>>41183898
>Mfw just trying to get my life together so I can ""maybe"" become dad mode

>>41183942
>I'm fucking this chick
>But it's not the chick I want to be fucking

>Its a dark time brehs

>>41186057
Oh look, its me. Except I'm graduating in less than a month :/

Every now and then I feel lonely, but whenever I'm out with anyone I immediately dislike being around them or around people in general and just want to be by myself again. I feel like I'm broken.

>>41185342
Saaame bruh. It gets better though. I was able two take extra classes as a "non-degree seeking" masters classes so they would ignore my shitty GPA and let me in.

There is hope you too friend.

>>41185565
Where you from grill?

For science of course

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Right.

>>41183804
U got mommy issues. Men will never be loved by a woman unconditionally if it isn't their mother. It's not our lot in life.

Get a life worth writing a book about and women will come, but by that time if you haven't realized you don't need them the cycle will repeat.

Welcome to the real world anon, it isn't pretty

>>41186278
Or a daughter.

All other women cum and go and are completely replaceable.

That is man's lot in life.

>>41183157
It's not such such a terrible disease. I mean there are many more worse STDs. This HPV type is not connected with cancer fortunately, but some are.. She has treatment and it's going away slowly, but it's pretty hard to get rid of it. I have visited 2 urologists ever since and these idiots just waved their hands saying "aah these are just hair follicles". In my head: "are you a fucking idiot, they are clearly warts, who gave you a certificate you dipshit". We talked with girl and she said she has the same things down there, so there's no doubt.. The medicaments go with prescription from oncology or immunoallergology.. None of which i can visit, because of no recommendation paper from urologists.. Going to dermatologist this week, wish me luck brahs
Meanwhile :
>mfw can't have sex, fapping feels disgusting
>mfw can't jelq because I would damage the warts
>mfw I won't have summer bulge

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I want to lose more weight...

>tfw 27yo virgin

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I'm trying to be nicer to women but I'm super scared of being taken advantage of. i wish i could make something work

>>41186429
>super scared of being taken advantage of
Why? Do you think all these green texts actually represents a large portion of the population?

People taking advantage of others in that way are really rare unless you go for druggies or jobless burn outs with children

>>41186442
yea i did actually i feel so stupid about it and can't believe i viewed women that poorly

>>41186367
you look like a chill guy to play vidya and drugs with

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>message girl (that I've actually talked to more than once!) from my class on Facebook
>"hey do you want to go get coffee after finals and see if we like each other?"
>sent at like 8, she had been active after that and didn't respond

oh well it was worth a shot. also my ex doesn't want anything to do with me although i did want to apologize to her for being kind of a jerk before. also a girl who tried to see other guys and me at the same time I totally blocked because i didnt want the temptation of getting super attached to her if she doesn't respect me.

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>>41183942
you have no fucking idea what tough times are like kiddo

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>>41179586
C I P R O F L O X A C I N

I've been sorta flaked by a girl, asked her out and she didn't answered in a few hours, she's kinda spergy so maybe there's a chance) :
At least my new routine really helps my arms to grow

I basically can't think of any 'endgoal' in life and this makes me feel like I am drifting aimlessly while life passes me by.

I also never had a gf(and I'm 20) and I feel like the older I get, the more inadequate I'd feel in a romantic relationship.

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>>41179581
>got an fwb last week
>she's 4 years younger than me
>kind of dumb, but smoking hot
>messaging each other naughty stuff yesterday night between my sets
>jokingly tell her she's hot, but not hot enough to make me desperately horny
>end workout
>she writes me that she's gonna make me horny like no other before this friday
>tell her that she's too sure of herself and she's gonna fail because I've got some dignity (not really, but y'know)
>tell her that I'm gonna jump under the shower
>she writes me goodnight
>don't write her back because don't care after workout
>jump into shower
>end shower
>look into full-length mirror
>still pumped after the workout, would honestly turn gay for myself
>get a stupid idea
>grab my phone
>barely cover my junk with a towel
>send her a snap of my body
>displayed over an hour ago
>still hasn't replied

Well, gonna see if friday is still in her plans.

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>>41186595
she creamed herself to death, brah

>>41179581
2 here
>Be me
>19 year old lanklet dyel
>have lifting girlfriend
>she beats me in wrestling

>Be me
>coach young sports
>kids don't give a fuck and i could be working
>yell at kids for being little shits
>they say "I don't care" and continue being little shits
>can't leave because head coach was there

>>41179581

>27 virgin still at home
>Lift and go to school and work my job
>literally the outward appearance of nice catholic boy
>Feel like its all just a pretense that I put up
>after all, I go to this website
>but I can't abandon my morals or upbringing, so I never have sex or really interact with the opposite sex in any meaningful way
>loneliness and angst eat away at me constantly
>went to a bar for a beer, feeling down on myself
>told my parents I was at school studying
>a cute woman sits next to me and asks me to buy her a drink, but she's probably looking to fuck
>I just wanted to be left alone to enjoy my beer
>I looked at her
>"A strong independent, sexually liberated woman such as yourself is more than capable of paying for her own damn drink."
>She looked downcast and walked away
>Bartender looked at me and shook his head
>leave feeling worse than before

Its another missed opportunity, but at the end of the day, I don't regret it.

>>41179581
/fit/ I need your infinite wisdom about something completely autistic.

>Do I tell my friends that I am into bigger girls
>bigger than what you are currently thinking of.
>I don't actively go for any girl atm
>Not attracted to thin girls and too ashamed of bigger
>Which keeps single while they get girls but they keep pestering me when we go out to bars and the cycle continues like an infinite loop.
>Not attracted to thin girls and too ashamed of bigger

Do I just suck it up and embrace what I like and more than likely receive massive shit from my friends or try to kill this niche of a fetish of mine.


>Not a joke, actually looking anyone thoughts b/c its getting annoying.

>>41186497
Same thing happened to me yesterday, kinda hurts to get rejected but I'm also proud of myself for trying, really strange feeling... Better luck next time m8.

>>41182291
You just need to find girl you really like and take things slowly, don't rush into bed. When you DO get to the point of intimacy, just explain the situation modestly and say you wanna get into things bit by bit. Start with touching/manual then on to oral etc. If she's the right girl, she'll understand and be patient. If she's rude about it, then clearly there's no point anyway. Godspeed anon, you'll get there

>>41186755
Get a thin woman.
Your family life is going to be fucking disgusting with a whale.

>>41179581
>Warning! Luxury Problem.
Have a LTR with a qt
Face 9/10
Ass 9/10
Boobs 5/10
On Top supreme wife material (loyal, housewife and shit).
I cheat wih every fucking opportunity. Im driving to Greek next week and there is awaiting me another qt, believing she is the one... I flirt every fucking time im going to the gym. Last week i fucked 2 qts, thursday, Friday and Saturday was LTR wife material on the run...
I feel kind of bad, she wants and deserves only love... but im cheating on every possible opportunity.
I can not and even want to control myself. When i see grills mire me, i can't but flirt with them...
How the fuck can i turn magical to a loyal motherfucker??
Next week im going to Greece...Beach bunnies, horny female students, olf fuck buddies....
Can i Keep that going forever...

>>41180356
Words of truth here.

Once one of you, doesn't want sex anymore... relationships death is coming!

Way to save that! Be attractive again!
If you dont know how, go to a pick up Forum and learn!

>>41183093
I hate this fat cunt too.

Wish you luck Anon

>>41185565
Something tells me that you are simply denying everyone that isn't highly visually attractive to you and literally just date "chads".

The people that have built a personality are usually the ones that look average and not beautiful, consider that.

>>41179581
Bros I got oneitis for this girl, she was really into me, and feel like I fucked it up. Maybe I was too needy I'm not sure- tell me the straight truth on how to interpret this or whether it's salvageable:

Me: basically ask her whats going on/ is she no longer interested because shes been weird
Her: Sorry! I probably should have talked to you about it, but I was kinda worried about how things were going to transition into the summer. I guess I was trying to keep things casual, but I didn't really communicate that. And we both have a ton of stuff going on, and I've been focusing on friend and school stuff a lot the past couple of weeks. Sorry if that came off as mean or weird or that I was blowing you off. I'm kinda confused and not super great at this kind of thing.
Me: Tell her I was down to keep it casual, she didnt need to be sorry, thought she was pissed at me, tell her if she wants to stop hooking up lets not be awkward because shes one of my only actual female friends here
Her: No, I actually feel so bad you though I was mad. It's 100% not that at all. I wasn't really sure what i was thinking, so I didn't know what to tell you. You're one of my best friends so I didn't wanna fuck that up. Idk I feel like that might be the best thing for now (in reference to stopping hooking up)

what do senpai also should I switch my workouts to the AM? Heard it may be better to workout in the morning.

>>41186838
Wasn't thinking long term, more of the hit it and quit it variety

>>41186972
Do what makes you happy, who gives a fuck

>>41186969
What is it that you want to hear? Move on, there is nothing to get from that girl.

She doesn't really sound like gf material anyway.
A lot of dishonest vibe coming through as well as the claim that one has literally no time for weeks always sounds nothing but taking oneself too serious.

>>41179684
literally bro, GAPS diet
fix your gut flora, you can do this
http://www.gapsdiet.com/gaps-introduction-diet.html

>19 years old
>350lb fat fuck, literal off the charts BMI since I was in elementary school, obese since I was 5 years old
>depressed to shit, no friends, hate myself, substance abuse problems
>somethings gotta change
>i know
>i'll lose weight, surely that'll fix everything
>now
>22 years old
>200lb fat fuck, still 30lbs before I'm no longer obese
>depressed to shit, no friends, hate myself, substance abuse problems, fucked up back from being fat fuck my whole life then starving away 150lbs, fucked up shoulder from being fat fuck my whole life then starving away 150lbs, fucked up hips from being fat fuck my whole life then starving away 150lbs, fucked up posture from being fat fuck my whole life then starving away 150lbs, hate my body, no self confidence, >tfw no gf

Well, fuck.

That didn't help.

>>41187048
Shes not saying she has no time, and she definitely is gf material or maybe Im clouded by oneitis. What I want to hear is did I fuck it up/ how badly/ how can I fix it/ what is she really saying.

But you did a pretty good job ansering that desu

>>41187083
Dude you lost 150 pounds, you gotta give yourself some credit. You're not to where you gotta be yet, but once you get there you'll feel amazing. Never quit

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>>41185968
Yeah anon, just keep going.

>>41187106
What do you think you did that could have fucked it up?

See, you haven't even started dating and you are already playing your mind/emotional games.
You yourself suggests to "stop dating and just keep being friends".
But you know as good as I do that you only said this hoping that she would turn that suggestion down. That she would tell you that she wants to keep dating, etc.

What cancer this society is if you can't even show interest in a potential partner without that person being driven away. Where you have to bend your mind and feels in order to make up ridiclious strategies, trying to keep that person interested by putting on an act.

I wouldn't want to date someone like that.

>>41187083
I don't get how you have fucked up shoulders/back/hips, posture. your situation is pretty close to mine, maybe your form hasn't been good while working out.

>>41179581
https://youtu.be/j-JDZB-rHFU

So, I rarely drink. But I've decided to on this occasion. Partly because I just ruined a thing with probably the first girl who was so into me that It blew my mind and the fact that I feel like I'm running on a treadmill with my career. (working fast food.) (I'm also a virgin.)

Recently, within the last year or so, I turned to Christianity. Firstly because I could no longer deal with my nihilism. I need an absolutist morality, or else I can find no meaning in the world, and i become severely depressed.

It seemed pretty superficial until tonight. Like I only believed in God to justify the suffering I enjoyed and to give life meaning, not that the Will of God was meaning.

Onto the story. I ruined it with this girl by opening up to much and seeming like a beta. Basically, I exposed myself as being too emotionally unstable which is true. I am emotionally unstable. It really upset me as we had the same goals of marriage and kids and while she is a severely damaged girl, she hadn't gone completely crazy and seemed salvageable.

I'm getting pretty drunk and the song at the top comes on through my youtube playlist. I suddenly break down and start sobbing. Cursing and asking God why he has forsaken me. I do what he asks to the best of my ability, and yet he can't even provide for me what I want. Even if it's the smallest thing. During this drunken prayer/sobbing, either God has spoken to me for the first time, or I came to the sudden realization and complete understanding of bearing your own cross. Accepting responsibility. I've heard of this before but only now does it make complete sense.

https://youtu.be/XP0J2eDPIjU

It is my cross to bear, my responsibility, that I be the emotional rock for the woman that I will marry and whom will bear my children. It sounds so simple, yet so profound to me. Off all the responsibilities I could have, this one is so light, so insignificant. It's a wonder I hadn't realized it before.

>>41187151
I've been hooking up with other girls and she's heard about it, one went particularly badly and I know she heard about it so I think maybe that made her lose respect/ attraction. Also I was going through a very rough time and relied on her heavily during that, she's not a fan of weakness. I only suggested that because I didn't really know what else to say and I do value her as a friend so it was sort of true, what I really wanted to avoid was the awkwardness that could've ensued whenever I see her. It's not all that complicated she just gets scared off/ bored easily the right guy is able to handle that without a problem which is why I'm frustrated, I've locked down girls like this before.

>>41186972
Then just hook up without your friends knowing you hooked up?

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>>41187197
Combination of weak genetics, a low-activity lifestyle for years, being a fat fuck for my entire life and literally learning to walk as a fat person does instead of as a regular person, and falling on my bicycle (in the case of my shoulder).

I'm working on it. I'm getting better, slowly. Doing stretches and shit, seeing a doctor/physical therapist.

>>41187139
I hope so, breh.

Im just so tired of being a lonely friendless virgin. It wouldn't be so bad if not for my fucked up body fucking with my QoL even more. Both those things compound to make me a sad worthless sack of shit.

J-just 30 more lbs until someone loves me, h-haha r-right

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>>41179581

>Have friend who I speak with every day about everything
>We are so similar that our minds start to work the same way
>Think the same way, approach things the same way, people even say we talk the same way
>Big dreams
>My boy is always by my side when I visualise my life
>We both have the same plan
>Move in with my friends family, which means I left motherland and I'm now in UK to work
>Away from my family just so I can get enough money to pursue said dream
>Months later I did my part of the plan, my friend didn't do shit
>Stays at home playing vidya and watching movies while I work my ass off in 12 hour shifts
>Sometimes we don't even speak now
>Start to wonder if I will have to leave him behind to achieve something
>If it was anyone else I would already moved on with my life
>Deep down already know the answer

Sometimes it keeps me woke up at night lads

>>41187223
Dating a girl you have such a loaded past with can probably only end in such a shit storm.

I don't understand half of the social dynamics going on between the two of you because I don't know your story.
You're like half way into dating, but then you are also apparently dating others, and then you are suddendly in a low emotional state where you depend on her and that drives her away. Then again you said she was all over you, which kind of contradicts your precious suspicion.
And so on. Just a huge shit show.

Still no idea why you want to lock down a woman that "doesn't like weakness". Sounds like a shit person.

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help lads
if a girl starts flirting with me/takes an interest in me just pretend shes not there and look down

you guys got any tips on helping me with that

also anyone have any good excercises that target the lumbar/lower back or a way to isolate it on deadlifts

>>41187262
What are you talking about? Women are, for the most part, emotionally unstable, and want a man to be their emotional rock. Being an emotional wreck of a man is a huge turn off to most, if not all, women.

If I'm correct in assuming that by weakness, he means emotional weakness.

>>41187262
She was into me in the past. At some point I believe she started losing attraction but I'm not sure why. We liked each other, but were not exclusive. I don't think she has hooked up with any other guys since we started fucking though. And I can understand your confusion bro she is just attracted to mental strength- it is sort of hard to explain but I think she is really worth it overall.

>>41187265
Lower back: Hip extensions and hyper extensions in my limited experience.

As for the girl issue, just don't come off as needy. Know that you have options outside of her, though it doesn't mean you have to act upon it.

>>41187276
That is what I mean. Since we are in more agreement you should look at my first post and give me your take on what she said.

>>41187276
>want a man to be their emotional rock
I dont pretend my experience is in any way rule but i found the opposite
Exgf left me because i wasnt talking about my feelings and sharing emotional crap, this was also her main concern during our relationship
She would get angry because i didnt cry during emotional scenes in films etc and im not playing tough, i was just being myself.

Furthermore a friend of mine gets laid a ton more than i do despite being...id say equal to me although he doesnt lift and is balding lets just say for simplicity that he is equal.
He goes up to girls and talks about how he is depressed and wants to kill himself, he is currently on leave from work for his depression and somehow girls eat this shit up

>inb4 he is good looking and tall
average lookíng face, same height as me (6'1'')

I think it depends alot on the girl, some girls want a needy guy who is inferior to them that they can take care of and nurture. Its a project
Some are emotionally retarded and want an athority figure in lieu of the dad who wasnt around

>>41187288
Oh yeah. It seems we completely agree.

Recently I realized that it's much easier to build a relationship upon shared goals than a relationship for the sake of a relationship. So if you have that in mind, and so does the girl you're talking to, it's much easier to go off that than to play all the mind games.

Girls do love mind games though, so you're not going to be devoid of them if you find a girl that agrees with you on your goals. You just have to be the emotional rock for her to grasp onto and lead the ship through the storm.

>>41182502
you problems sound pathetic, i dont know on what you are stuck desu.

Just dump the boring one if you must

>>41187276
What a retarded and stupid way of seeing relationships.
Get a little sense of life and psychology before you spit out and random crap you have made up in your mind.

I really hope you are not the retard that converted to religion becaus he is a virgin and is now drunk posting on here thinking Jesus spoke to him, telling him he has to be an "emotional rock" for the so emotionally unstable female gender.

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Guys, I managed to get some girls number. I want to text her today but should I just straight ask her to go out with me or should I first try some small talk? I know she had a game yesterday, she is coaching some kids, should i ask about that?

>>41187313
Well, each girl is different. If you're in a relationship, then obviously she needs some beta to reaffirm that you'll be a provider, so you would need to step down from the rock some times to show her that you're on her level and not above her, but she won't want it all the time from what I understand.

As for your friend, there could be a ton of reasons that happens. Perhaps he's emotionally manipulating the girls into having sex with him. Perhaps he's playing a numbers game, and the girls he's sleeping with are connecting with him on some level. Really, without asking him, it's impossible to tell how he's successful.

>>41187328
Ask her out for a coffee and ask her about her game in person.

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>27 yo k/v
>start dating and talking to girls more
>expect massive spaghetti due to inexperience
>complete opposite
>relaxed and casual, able to banter and flirt
>get more interest than i've had in my entire life
>only problem is i'm a sociopath
>feel nothing, completely apathetic, aloof because i just don't care
>getting bored and verging on withdrawing completely again
I don't know how to deal with this

>>41187325
Wow, you can deduce my entire world view from a couple sentences. Teach me more please.

>>41187336
>show her that you're on her level and not above her
I did this, i cared for her and supported her in the way i know how. I treated her as an equal and listened to her and it works.
But you are right in that acting like youre better and suppressing your emotions isnt good for the relation but my problem was i dont have the need to cry, bitch or moan and she didnt want this.


>Really, without asking him
I did ask him and he doesnt know either, that or he doesnt want to share his secrets but he does admit to it being manipulative (no surprise there, most ways of getting a woman to fuck are manipulative) and most girls end up hating him or disregarding him after awhile

Still from my perspective id rather have a long string of one night stands than be in the situation where ive now been looking for a girl to date more long term and finding nothing

>>41187359
No, you just use the exact same terms and advocate the same ideas as this guy
>>41187220

>>41187364
>i dont have the need to cry, bitch or moan and she didnt want this.

Yeah some girls can't do that. They're as fickle as men when it comes to the amount of crying, bitching, and moaning that they can put up with or want. If she couldn't get over this, then it wouldn't have worked out in the long run anyway.

>>41187328
dont small talk her, this is what a beta would do.
You are an attractive man that wants to fuck her, so you dont small talk, you ask her out and dont lose too much time, cause you have a full live and other thinks to do.

>>41187314
So you think I can get her back?

>>41180201
U can't really correct her fuckin another dude
Sorry bro

>>41186969
>>41187388
If I assume this is the same person, It seems like she doesn't know what she wants. Do you know what you want? Does she? If you don't, then it seems like you're both going to be stuck playing games trying to figure out what you want.

If you both agree with what you want and your goals then it would be much easier to work with, but It seems you both just want a relationship for the sake of a relationship.

>>41187380
>then it wouldn't have worked out in the long run anyway.
We were together for five and a half years, granted i now regret it deeply because i wasted by early 20s in a relationship thinking building a family was more important than education and fucking random sluts

Now i know that fucking random sluts and getting a good career would have been MUCH better

A girl can just stay in a relation and when its over she can easily replace her bf with a new one, her market value (despite the wall memes) doesnt change much as she gets 25-30
As a guy however unless you are educated, financially successful and have external manifestations of this success you are fucked in your late 20s

>>41187408
So, no, from what I know, I don't think it's salvageable beyond you two playing the games you're already playing.

>>41187408
She definitely does not want a relationship right now, I don't think she knows what she wants. I just want her, that's all.

>>41182466
Force yourself to get other pussy if that's an option

>>41187413
Damn aight well thanks for the input mayne

>>41187412
>A girl can just stay in a relation and when its over she can easily replace her bf with a new one, her market value (despite the wall memes) doesnt change much as she gets 25-30
As a guy however unless you are educated, financially successful and have external manifestations of this success you are fucked in your late 20s

Very true. This is another lesson that you shouldn't put a woman above your career. It's not bad to want a family, though many will say you're an idiot, but when you put family over career then you'll run into problems.

>>41187421
>>41187426
Seems like you're just in lust and seeing what you want to see. You need to take a step back. I've always found writing down my feelings for a girl to be very therapeutic and allows me to distance myself from her and understand how I feel about her without emotions getting in the way.

>>41187412
I dunno senpai, a grill's market value is already noticeably lower when she's 25-30 compared to what it was when she was a teenager, the SMV really sinks like a stone after 30 tho

>>41179581
Girl problems the thread. How can you not be rude if everyone is a beta faggot crying for relationship tips to get out of his current beta situation

>>41187439
While that's true, there's plenty of betas that will still try to lock her down due to their undying need for pussy. There will always be these betas and so while her potential mate quality may go down, it doesn't mean she can't get a mate.

>>41187428
>when you put family over career then you'll run into problems.
Oh yeah tell me about it
I thought a working/middle class job would suffice and when i wanted to better myself though and uni education my gf left because she wants the final product and not be there for the struggle

I deeply regret it all, ive basically set myself back 5+ years and now need to play catchup, my dating options have shrunk down to nothing

I look good, i am tall, fit, smart and socially competent. Ive been approached by women before but now i struggle like a motherfucker simply because im still in education. Its such a massive handicap

tl:dr
guys, never ever EVER go for relationships at a young age, you will end up being replaced first chance she gets and you will struggle as standards have risen as you aged and was out of the market

>>41187439
Damn, i was writing as you posted this

I can agree with you that her SMV (even though i hate that term) is lower in the 25-30 age its not significantly lower.
She might not be getting chased and approached randomly on the street but to say she struggles in dating is just plain wrong

However many girls in the 25-30+ say they struggle but its not because there is an actual struggle, they are just too picky.
Some guy said its like when you open your recently stocked fridge and think there is nothing to eat, girls have this exact problem in dating.

>>41182450
Make him your bitch don't hold back this fuckers will learn to kiss the dirt off your shoes , don't kill him though.

>>41187477
basically this anon. The only sure fire way to end bullying is to let them know you won't put up with it.

>>41187472
>>41187439
My mother is 60 this year, but she can still find 5-6 different men to date in the matter of a few weeks.

Successful business men with a solid careers even.
It's crazy.

>>41182468
Strange that nobobdy even gives you a (you), i feel you so much....
Take that (you) and feel there are people just like you out there. :)

>No friends
>Tons of hobbies to not think about my life
>Literally hate studying what i am studying
>Cant forget and love this girl, she was literally perfect.
>Want to feel like i feel when im asleep all the time

Holy shit i hate myself....

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>>41182814
Glad someone else caught this.

>>41187350
>>41187387

Usually when I go straight for asking her out, I don't get reply or they are busy. I don't get it why they even give me their phone number.

I'm dealing with my dad constantly trying to tell me what to do n threatening me with the last thing he pays for which is car insurance. I even paid him for the month. Stupid shit I wish he'd grow up, don't even live with him anymore. I don't care but shit still stresses.

Ex is on my mind sometimes but I got no idea why. She wasn't attractive but when I hear her stupid voice my dick goes up and I just wanna fuck her. She's been the worst girl for me, never asked the bitch out to begin with. Shes power hungry an I'm sick of falling for that shit. Been two months since we spoke.

Got this bad little girl, digging in my pants like a fuckin squirrel. Not too much of an issue it's just been on my mind. She's starting to like me and last time we got drunk she said she loved me. She just ain't that attractive.

Couple others. Had to ditch the benz and get a prius, kinda sucks. The benz was my home when I didn't have a place to go. Gnna miss it. Money's too tight n I gotta get my own place. Income streams on my mind. Bouta turn 21 on the 30th, not close enough to my goals... Ima stop here.

>>41182591
Same situation.
It hurts like hell and im really not ugly....
And im not socially retarded wtf is wrong?

Starting to want to kms...

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I'm lost. It has been 8 months since I've broken up with my ex; last week she came back crawling and crying that she was depressed and missing "the way I treated her". She started smoking weed, dyed her hair and fucked 4 different guys. Of course I'm not coming back. It left me bitter and sad, she was such a good girl, why did she ruin herself.

I feel like wasting time in university, I dont like what I'm studying and I don't like the people there. I'm heavily considering enlisting into military. I feel like I need it. But I have severe myopia and one year before I can have an ee surgery. I don't know what to do before that. My days are composed of lifting and trying to not think about her. Have a good day /fit/.

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>>41183995
Idk about you Anons but I kind of like being not a chad. I like the idea that I didn't roll out of bed with a high gpa and bear mode aesthetics. I like looking back and thinking that everything I have in life is a result of me working hard as fuck day in day out rather than just landing here via chance.

>>41187494
>It's crazy.
Indeed it is, i think its because guys know its a numbers game and this leads women to up their standards. If you dont like the current batch of 10 guys hitting on you, wait and a new batch will come soon

I mean ive dated several 20-24 year olds and im 29, feels kind of bad to "steal" them from guys in their own age bracket but girls who are single when they are 25+ are single by choice

its not a picnic either, youre competing against guys who are 20-35 for girls in a very short span and this exacerbates the problem

Perfect example of prisoners dilemma

>>41187522
you dont Need to understand it, nor do i. They just want to look polite or nice.
Next time, try to go to an instant date and dont ask for the number.
If you ask for the number, get it, but they do than busy... well you saved time. Dont think about it, dont try to understand it, just go straight for the next one.

>>41185565
You are looking for the wrong persons, its easy as that.
Also, you say you are sporty, try to go out there without makeup and completely natural, dont accentuate your body try to hide it because then automatically the thirsty nibbas wont come to you because they cant say "nice ass" and will have to think about other things than you naked. :)

Also, look for the introvert shy guys they are mostly very kind persons but unfortunately they wont approach you so you have the decision to make and be the one to approach someone you like or get approached by thirsty degenerates.

Good luck fixing this issue and maybe you will find someone.

I can assure you there are loving and kind persons out there, they are rare but they exist, dont loose hope.

>>41182155
Cardio 3x week, If you don't see improvements after a month >>41182196

>>41182450
If you're bigger and can take him in a fight, beat the shit out of him when he tries being funny like that.
Or better yet, start boxing/ BJJ before you do so.

>>41187562
Well in the case of my 60 year old mom it is probably because she is a very successfull doc that is well known in this city.
And also looks really good for her age, maintained physically active her entire life and knew what to supplement when and how.

>>41187436
Nah man not in lust, I'll lay it out for you a little better. This was a girl I sat behind in class every day for an entire semester, always wanted her but was too nervous to ever make a move. Then next semester we randomly made out one night I happened to see her after a couple weeks in, I was like over the moon. Then we started having sex regularly but she made it known that she wasn't looking for anything serious, theoretically neither was I but she is the only girl I've felt the need to improve myself for. She is really special. Over the course of this night as I have written my feelings just on here alone I've found that it has been therapeutic and that even if I can't get her back that's alright. I'm just frustrated because I can't see myself finding another girl that ticks all the boxes the way she does.

>>41182450
It's like a 21st century version of Kes.

>>41183093
Bro I hate to break it to you, but you are in denial. Stop rationalizing and blaming the phat chick and face the fact that the only reason you're in deep shit is because you yourself were irresponsible, short-sighted and downright autistic for getting expelled and not thinking about what you're doing.

>>41185565
Gj on not being a whore

Keep it up you'll find someone, just be social and meet people.

>>41183942
>Its a dark time brehs.
Lol nigga you have it easy

I have always been depressed for no reason and have a tendency to let people down because of how little l care so l force myself to avoid relationships

What a sad way to live

>>41186742
Alpha as fuck

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>>41185551
we're all gonna make it breh

>>41179581
I am a great wizard and come her to give ALL OF YOU advice.

inb4 lozer
> I have a healthy body, gf, friends, a place to live and will never really have to worry about anything.

DO NOT
I repeat
!! DO NOT !!
read sad story treads.
Actually don't read anything negative, sad, sick, disgusting, vile, ever.
You might think, what's wrong with reading a litlle sad story?.

I will tell you faggots what is fucking wrong.
While you read the story it gets inserted in your memory. If you want to be a succesful human you don't want sad and unsuccessful shit in your memory okay. It's very unproductive. Even if the story isn't about you or you are just laughing about that sad fuck and feeling great because you aren't such a loser, it still affects you in ways you can not comprehend. I mean literally, cause you're conscious mind is actually only a really small part of yourself.

You might think but, oh anon I'll forget about the story soon and it's not going to matter anymore.

SORRY BOI BUT YOU ARE WRONG.

You might not consciously remember it but the information you take into yourself is forever present within you and will keep affecting you for as long as you live. K bois.

take care.
Do not read degen shit.
Do not read sad story shit.

Trust me, I'm a wizard.

(PS after I wrote this text I drew the Magician )
WTF Q!!!!!

>>41179586
It's you diet,dude... You are what you eat, believe it. First cut out Dairy for 1 week (mark it on your calendar for 7 days out), and see how you feel. Second, cut out Gluten (though, consumption of good carbs are a must: Oats, whole Grains). Third, moderate alcohol consumption (no more than 1 drink a day). Diet is the key...

>>41187353
I'm a retard. Can someone tell me what k/v means?

>>41186742
On one hand, I get your frustrations and why you would say that, being /fit/ and all, and with that context it sounded alpha af bruh

On the other hand, a normie guy (Chad) would consider it stupid since buying a girl a drink is just a gateway to fucking the girl, rather than something that gives the girl power over you.

Which is why I think the bartender shook his head, in his eyes you weren't an alpha for BTFO-ing a hot girl, you were a dumbass for not using the obvious opportunity to fuck her.

>>41179581
>finally manage to get a gf
>she has a cute face, is a bit nerdy
>building a career as a doctor
>I like her and she likes me


>she's kinda fat

How do I get her to lose weight, bros?

>>41188565
Decapitate her

>>41186972
why not just fuck your friends

>>41179581
>be me
>23
>2 more years in uni, have okay part-time job, still live with parents, even though im confident, the future seems bleaker and bleaker
>this is partly in fact due to the fact that my ex left me
>somehow, i know i deserve it, since i cheated on her behind her back, but she left me because i was being jealous about her co-workers, which i agree i was, and no girl ever wants anyone that's jealous
>I have a new qt 3.14 asian gf, but she's as dumb as a rock
>meanwhile, my ex went back to her ex. originally, she cheated on her ex with me, an probably cheated on me with her ex near the end, you know women
>its just me being a sore loser
All i have to live for are my gains

Both my dad and godfather (closest uncle) have terminal liver cancer. It's been tough, have had horrible nightmares for months.

>>41189215
>no girl ever wants anyone that's jealous
Some jealousy is normal, and most of the women I've been with have been fine with it as long as I haven't been controlling. My wife says it makes her feel important to me.

>>41180654
You cant mine it anymore
Its kore volatile than most stocks
Its not easy money

>>41182450
lol you're a fucking weak pathetic piece of shit jesus christ,please say hi to your transgender "girlfriends" adopted son and let him ejaculate in your mouth constantly

>>41180480
Thanks senpai and thanks to everyone in thia thread

>>41182155
. Have fun!

>>41182450
he will rape your girl and you cant do shit.
fucking cuck.
stand up by yourself nobody can fucking help you.
even your mom dont give a fuck then why do you , fuck them , move out .

>>41182299
>I want to remind you that this board once used to be good. Let's not be so rude
>tells anon to kill himself

Are you illiterate or just that dedicated to being a cunt?

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>>41182450
Im 3.5 years older than my brother. Im 23, he'll be 20 tomorrow. Growing up we'd fight all the time, but after i went away to college at age 17 i realized i took out my own insecurities and lashed out on him unjustly. I picked him up from his night shift (i was 20, him 16) and apologized for everything i did to him from the beatings to being a straight up dick to him. He calmed down, and now we're super tight, no more anger, just love. Like you, we'd play a lot of vidya as kids together, mostly dragon ball. From an older brothers perspective he loves you, he just doesn't realize his mistakes in life. This is extremely common with brothers that have 4 or less years apart because the older one is figuring out what it means to develop as a man and be a role model to the younger one. There will always be fighting but once you both mature a bit and look past the faults made, you'll forgive and move on. Good luck brah, sincerely from the bottom of my heart

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Got a job by day and study at night and barely find any time to lift anymore.
I'm losing gains and getting fat by the minute

>Might actually have breast cancer
It's a weird feeling, im not really sad or frustrated or anything. Fuck

>>41188416
kissless virgin

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>>41186595
that happens with my fwb too, the snap and not respond for a while. Don't mind it too much, it's on her mind and she needs to process it, or maybe she got busy with school/work/senpai/shopping/tv and forgot about it. Even if you were in a committed relationship, step back and breathe instead of riding her nuts

>>41180201
Hey I broke up 2.5 weeks ago, still hurts like a mofo. I'm still grieving man, all those songs, all those movies, all those fucking memories, those moments, gone. But that's the tragedy of life, and these situations are why art exists. Break up with her, and suffer for a few months, embrace anxiety, understand, that without anxiety there's no happiness, there's no white without the black. Everything's gonna be okay.

>>41185312
I didn't get my first kiss until 19, anon. Now I'm 20 with a qt 5/10 girlfriend that I fuck nearly every day. Hang in there champ. I know how you feel.

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>>41187235
Yea bro, know the feel.
>Have childhood friend known him since before I could talk.
>Met him because we were both sent to the same child psychiatrist.
>Get into schoolyard fights together
>Get sweet 1st grade mental ward gf's together
>Get the same shitty grades together
>We were basically clones
>Teachers would confuse us all the time
>Knew each other so well we would be accused of cheating at games because we knew what the other was doing without speaking
>His mom and dad divorce
>goes to live with his mom away from us
>Years pass
>Get better grades, start being right in the head, lift at a decent level
>Got a not too bright future ahead of me but still something
>Meet him only to find he's been sectioned
>Has no motivation
>Just wants to smoke weed and sleep
>tfw we were supposed to make it together

>>41179586
It´s always the fucking teens, i even doubt there are people over 20y old left on /fit/.

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>>41179581
I'm so tired of my type 1 diabetes.

I'm tired of managing and levering carbs just to feel normal.

I'm tired of waking up at 3am because my blood sugar crashed and now i have to binge on juice to go back to sleep.

I'm tired of feeling like i'm gonna pass out or like my body is going to dry heave all my creatine because my blood sugar is whack.

I'm tired of having to wait to eat food because i fucked up giving insulin and now have to chug water to bring my blood sugar down

I'm tired of giving myself injections every day or putting these electronic devices on parts of my skin. And i'm tired of the scars they create that make me look like a junkie.

I'm just tired of type 1 diabetes bros, i didn't ask for this and i've dealt with it for 20 years, hearing i was gonna get a cure that never comes.

Fuck this.

>>41180201
She might be pregnant

Why does the idea of my girlfriend liking guys before me bothers me so much?

>>41187235
Fuck, sorry man.

I was on the other side of that story. My best friend and I were identical even in thought. He went on to be successful, I went on to be a loser. Eventually I joined the military and he went off to college and we stopped talking.

How do you overcome the fact that you're just not as smart as regular people?

I have trouble learning new stuff and it really brings me down.

>>41179581
There is something wrong with the cruciate ligaments in my right knee. I started swimming earlier this year - breaststrokes three times a week. Fucked up my knee. Went to the doctor a couple of weeks ago, she said I should just rest and talk to a physioterapist if it stuck around. It got better, but I went out dancing this weekend and now it's back: pain, weakness and feeling swollen below the patella.

I did this to myself and feel shit. I just wanted to get fit, be able to concentrate on my studies and get rid of being depressed. And it worked, until I had to stop. Don't know how long I should wait before seeing the physiotherapist. Don't want to have fucked up my knee at age 25, before I even got to experience being /fit/.

>>41182202
We share a wide background, it's hard but it will end, one day you just stop caring about it the same way and learn about what the timing in life is.

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I'm 18 years old, thank god not kissless but virgin. I have never actually wanted a gf so I've turned down every girl who has been into me to the point where everyone probably thinks I'm gay. No one ever asks if I am but now and then someone jokes about it but you can hear from the tone of the voice that s/he is wondering and thinking about it for real. I live my life like I dont give a fuck about others' opinions, focusing on stuff that makes me smile but when I accidentally hear someone talk behind my back it hits hard. Today I heard someone say that maybe I'm just so immature that I haven't developed a sexual orientation yet and I started having some mini-anxiety attacks contracting my glutes and hammies, sitting on a bench considering an hero. I just never worry my head with girls, dont want a gf but fwb would be great, dont think that my face is enough to actually try to get one though so I just live my life doing my thing not stressing about it until it's brought up. Everyone seems to like me though because I'm so genuine and honest and my sense of humour is unique. I am so different than others that I don't feel like I belong anywhere.

TL;DR
I'm the "cute" guy who everyone likes but not that way, seeming happy having an emotional rollercoaster on the inside.

>>41191190
Nirvana is when you can be happy no matter what life throws at you

>>41189232
Sorry anon.

>>41180201
Rape your gf

I'm dead serious

>>41179581
im still too scared to talk to me crush, even tho i have made some sick gains in the last few years
and i think she might even have a crush on me

feels fucking bad man

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it's getting harder to ignore the loneliness

>>41191362
You have us, anon.

>>41191415
Oh come on, do you want him to kill himself?

>19yo, out of shape fat fuck pretty much my whole life
>living in sweet ignorance for years, relatively happy
>one day something inside me clicks
>rethink my life
>start exercising
>cut out all the crap food, start eating healthier and in smaller portions
>physically feeling better than I have since forever, have more energy and shit
>yet mentally I'm completely fucked, depressed, lonely and overall feeling terrible
>hate myself for what I've been doing to myself for all the years
>have to convince myself to even eat something, would rather just starve myself but that'd probably make things even worse
>constant fear that even if I manage to lose the weight I'll probably have a lot of loose skin and look malformed and even more disgusting

>>41182155
I tried to sleep with a guy like you recently. He came in his pants when I was grinding on him.

Honestly I didn't think anything was wrong with him, I thought I fucked something up. So really you're putting a bunch of pressure on yourself when, from the girls pov, she's thinking she did something wrong.

>>41187220
man, you are such a pretentious douche

you really make christians look bad tbqh

>>41191362
>Cooped up alone at home
>Feel lonely
>Go out in public
>Fell lonelier
All it seems to do is provide contrast that I have no friends and can't talk to people

>>41182155
>be premature ejaculator
>avoid getting with girls for years because of it
>get gf
>she actually didn't mind about it, very supportive
>it still undermines every bit of confidence I have
>break up with her for mostly unrelated reasons
>get matches on tinder but can never send messages because I just start thinking about sex and how awful of an experience it is every time

Pretty much decided to be celibate

>>41182155
Used to be the same for me, did no-fap for a couple months and it fixed itself.

Ignore the /r/nofap cult who think it gives you superpowers and makes you irresistible to girls, that's bullshit. However chronic masturbation can have serious consequences for your sexual health

>>41186742
Regrets are for those without resolve, anon

>>41179581
I don't know what I'm doing or want to do with my life. I was popular in middle and the start of high school until my first long-term gf and I split, then I went recluse mode and lost just about all of my friends; along with my ambitions. 21 now and I still just don't know, at least I have friends again so I must be doing something right but I still feel lost

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>be me
>20 yr old at uni
>start talking to 10/10 ex gf again
>hanging out all the time
>she does my workouts with me 3 times a week
>so fucking hot in gym clothes, christ
>she seems into me again
>we literally wrestle and "play" box each other in the punching bag room
>"wew L A D"
>bruddy flirty
>literally texts me first everyday
>eventually tell her we should get back together
>puts me in weird friendzone-boyfriend grey area
>stick around cuz beta and no other girls in my life so might as well so I can make a move when the time is right
>ff a bit
>Saturday night
>hey anon, let's go to a party
>k lol
>no parties
>I ask if she wants to just hang instead
>she texts me she didnt want to because there's this other chad's dick she wanted to chug
>"sorry, nature calls"
>fucking devastated
>veru angery
>told her to stop talking and hanging out with me
>it's been a few weeks and i miss her like heck but I'm done with that cuck shit
>made me realize that I need to be more alpha

Feels bad losing a qtpa2ti swole mate though

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>>41192308
it's a vicious cycle

>>41179581
I can't start the gym yet because I have no money, despite having the motivation I don't have the dough and every passing day I just feel worse about myself.

>>41192416
Edgy m8

Think my life is my own
Realize its literally ran by Satanic fuckheads
Realize these are the same people who killed Jesus

On the bright side, at least I wasn't dumb enough to pledge my soul to them but they'll probably try to suicide me and call me a faggot like what happened to Aaron Hernandez because I don't wanna follow Satan

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>>41193872
mfw an anime character literally will have a better fate than me as long as I'm alive because I had a brain to use critical thinking and reasoning

>>41179581
> be me, 18 yo fatty that lifted heavy in HS
> went to college and learned to diet properly
> lost 70lbs in 1st year revealing good aesthetics
> got to obsessed with BF% while doing drugs 2nd year
> Starved myself to skelly mode lost aesthetics and strength, screwed up body
> Drugs left me paranoid about a lot one thing being gaining weight as I didn't want to be fatty again
> Lost testicle due to health issues driving test down and had no motivation
> Couldn't get test supplements because to young
> 1 year later finally started lifting religiously again and actually fueling my body properly
> got in severe car accident earning head trauma/memory issues and screwed up back/spine/legs/knees
> started developing other medical concerns from multiple sources
> tried to get into working out again and started getting into good habit
> caught severe pneumonia due to suppressed immune system
> finally got back to acceptable health to start working out again
> being haunted by previous mistakes and still dealing with irreversible damage to back/spine/legs/knees/ etc screwing with form, progress. and overall health.
> Doing the some of the best I can with given circumstances

>>41194092
> Not sure if should go fraud or not. I don't like the idea of it, but the desire to increases at a creeping rate

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mfw they want me to go insane like this because that's what they would do

>>41182450
Go to the gym for the sole purpose of getting the strength to beat the everloving shit out of him.

>>41179581


Became really good friends with a new co worker. Worked at the place for seven months and I've worked here for four years and I've already gotten to know her better than most of the people I've known for four years. She's gorgeous and amazing in pretty much every way. Not afraid to speak up. Not a beta bitch that doesn't know what to do. In addition to being great at her job and helpful, she's easy to talk to and this is why we've become such good friends.

Now she's leaving because she's gotten a better job at another place and the only person I've really connected with is gonna be gone come 30th of june. It's not like I could keep in touch either because she's already got a boyfriend and she's about six years older than me and stuff. She's 10/10 gf material, but I've never been attracted to her in that regard because I knew nothing would happen regadless. Still sucks that she's leaving and I'm gonna miss her because I'm losing a good friend and collegue.


Why do good things always come to an end?

>>41182591
Do you go to uni in upstate NY? You sound like someone I know.

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>>41194142
Welp Jesus someones gotta fight for ya right.

God Bless America

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>>41180639
Sucks, man. It's a shit feeling when you're on the so-called "clingy" side of a relationship and she doesn't see you like you see her.
But now that it's over, you have to make sure you don't hold on to that regret, or it'll become a case of oneitis that will interfere with your love life in the future.
Time spent imagining what could've been is time not spent making things happen.

>>41194142
Underage b&

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>>41180639
You were gonna put your mouth down there after the amount of penis shes probably taken?

>>41194286
Lets just ignore the fact that he met her on Tinder. I'm sure she was just a complete God fearing perfect mother to bear his children anon

>>41185565
Pics

>>41181886
I've been there bro. Last week I spent a couple days feeling dejected and very suicidal, and I realized loneliness was my biggest issue.

How'd you lose all your friends?

>>41186497
>see if we like each other
Cmon dude...

>>41194340
Not every girl on tinder is a vapid slut, just ~70-80%
I agree tinder isn't the place to go looking for love, but Anon wasn't looking for love on tinder, he just caught feelings after hitting it off with her. it happens to the best of us.

It is my second year in university now, in a different cith and living alone. I am not going to classes because i was going to enter the exam for university again and go to the biggest city in my country and the school where to of my best friends are in. For some dumb reasons i forgot to apply for the exam and now i am stuck here, alone. It is worse because i was surely going to switch schools and lied to my mother and she is thinking i am going to classes.

And because i am home all day for 2 years, i am FAT, like over 250 pounds i think(american weight scale is dumb), i am 5 11

I sit home all day, sugar overdose and maybe once a month i clean the house and cook a proper meal. I don't shower more than a week because i don't need to but my hair is fucked up. 2 years ago i wouldn't leave the house without a shower. What is worse i don't brush my teeth either. I don't fucking care.

My skin is stretching so bad. For 2 years i was living like this waiting for the exam. I am a fat fuck who doesn't take care of himself and lies to his family. I want to be fit but %99 of the time I DON'T FUCKING CARE ABOUT ANYTHING

That's what's bothering me.

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>>41194471
I half expected you to start autistically yelling out nigger...ive gotten that the last 15 threads.

Nice to see another normal person

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>>41194509
Just wait until the people you had the best memories of your lives with start forgetting the happiest years of your lives coinciding with the time they started making more than 400K a year

You're really gonna be bother soon assuming you had friends to begin with

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>>41194509
You can be better. You can change, and you can care. It's still possible.

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>>41194516
Depression Owl just take them all over.
I like the birds more anyway. These people don't appreciate life. Why should they be allowed to continue

Feed you guys and youre our friends forever

>>41185996

AND the winner with the most fucked up story goes to .... THIS GUY

>oneitis hates me
>have other girls chasing me but can't get mind off oneitis
>I haven't seen her in almost two years
>haven't talked to her in almost a year
I thought cutting contact and focusing on self improvement would let me move on.

>>41190605
>>41186620
False flag, lads. She's just on her period, and she's going nuts because of it.
Thank God she's only an fwb, wouldn't handle that shit otherwise.