Why are the scary looking big bulky guys are usually the most supportive and soft spoken at gyms while the intermediates (guys who have bulk but they are still in development), who usually are downright mean and arrogant?
Also should we fap while lifting or nah?
>>41154218
i usually find everyone in the gym to be very friendly. This isn't high school anymore
Because they know they are strong and look good so they don't have anything to prove.
>>41154232
That's not the case at the gym I recently joined.
>>41154242
Makes sense.
Lifting is in my experience a humbling hobby.
I think many start with a "You VS Me" mentality while more experienced lifters/runners/whatever have a "Me VS Me yesterday" mentality.
Just an observation.
oh and no fap is a meme, no porn is probably good for you in the long run.
>>41154232
this desu
>>41154218
Same basic idea.
this actually applies to a LOT of different things in life.
>>41154266
>oh and no fap is a meme, no porn is probably good for you in the long run.
Thanks for clearing it up mate.
>>41154314
Now that I think about it, it does applies to a lot of different things in life
>>41154218
You can tell a lot about a man by how he interacts in the presence of other men.
>>41154218
because the big dudes made it
when you finally make it you are only in competition with yourself
>>41154218
The biggest and strongest man I have ever met in my life was a black guy who was 6'5, well over 300 pounds, had at least 25 inch arms, and could bench 405 for sets of 10. He was also the nicest guy I've ever met at the gym and even gave me a program to follow back when I was a freshman going to the Y.
Someday I want to be that guy. Huge and just going from gym to gym helping out dyels and setting them on the right track.
>>41154232
this in my experience as well, i myself size up everyone and think myself better than most people but i will help anyone who needs to, i'm friendly and polite, rerack weights let people work in, you get the idea
also nofap is legit, whenever i go for more that a week i start burning fat whilst eating at 3500 calories ( which normally make me gain weight ), get a surge in strength and i have more energy and am alert overall.
otherwise it doesn't feel much different