Are there any virgins here /fit/

How can I tell a girl I'm a virgin? Can anyone help on this please?

>>41130406
>Persian
shit, yeah, non whites have it hard, just don't go apeshit and kill anyone.
Hire a call girl or something.

>>41130406
> 6'2"
> 19
> still a bit skely but work to jacked as fuck

> ex-Muslim (disowned)
> never talked to a girl except platonically and thus don't know how to flirt so yeah virgin

>>41130406

>22 yo
>5'11
>Anglo American
>DYEL skinnyfat - literally started stronglifts a month ago

Yeah, still a kissless virgin.

>>41130406
>>41130481
>21
>5'9
>paki mudslime born in America
>7/10
>still managed to get laid by a white girl

You guys can't be that ugly. If I could do it, you can

>>41130481
>ex-muslim

Stay safe fit-bruh.

>>41130556
I'm not ugly I'm just admitting I'm a virgin who didn't tale any opportunity. I get a lot of mires so I think I won't be a virgin for long.

>6'2
>slav
>24yo
>used to be skinnyfat
>now almost builtfat
Most girls talk to me and approach me like a friend or something. Lately since i started lifting i had some girls looking interested but im socially autistic INTP.

I dont think ill get laid before 30tbh

>lost my virginity at 14
>I was 5' 8" ~200lbs fat as fuck
If I could do it then, you can do it now

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>>41130578
Always am

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>>41130406
>26 years old female
>6'
>28%bf
>social anxiety

I'm on my last year of medical school and several people say they're afraid of me. I guess I'm going full sugar mommy next year when I go to the army.

I'm literally fucked.
If by some magical reason I manage to convince someone to have sex with me, I won't know what to do, which is super weird for a 22 yo guy.
There's 90% chance that she will be disappointed by my penis size.
I don't know how to kiss as well so there's bound to be a ton of awkwardness there for sure.

>>41130615
Try being autistic and deprived of human contact family and tell me how I can "do it now"

>>41130406
21 yr 6'4" former 300lb just lost my virginity few months ago. Doesn't really feel any diffrent.

>>41130653
>6'
pls be in NETHERLANDS

Also, cutting fat is super easy so dont be discouraged. Sometimes small cut can make or break the looks.
Like this chick at my workplace im interested in. She has nice face but just a tad bit chubby, kinda want to get her to exercise with me. That would be nice.

>>41130664
I feel you, son. I don't even feel comfortable around people to be honest.

>>41130424
Why would you? Just don't.

>21
>5'7
>Flip
>Fat but normies can probably tell I lift

Still a kv. At first I convinced myself I was focusing on my studies but now I'm getting a little worried.

>>41130406
I'm a virgin at 20. Not really stressing over it. Only thing I'm stressing about is that I have had lots of opportunities but my asperger's and social anxiety has comepletely fucked them for me.

Recently started getting fit and noob gains are showing. Women are getting playful, talkative, and flirtatious and I don't know what to do about it. My mind is getting in the way.

>>41130406
>went to a hooker a few weeks ago but couldn't get it up

Been on nofap since, I'll try again soon.

>>41130425
>non whites have it hard

But Persians are caucasian no?

>>41130741
>Persians
>white

>>41130765
>>41130425
Not op, but you are a legit moron

Guys please stop making a mountain out of a mole hill, it's literally easy peasy, and this is coming from a 6/10 autist, no I didn't drop my standards either, it's a cliche but confidence is key

>>41130590
>being this far in denial
I can see why ur a virgin

>>41130837
>triggered darky
It's fine to not be white mate, it's bad if you insist on being white when you're not though

>>41130846
I've been trying to give less of a fuck and just going after it and feigning confidence. Got any tips to get over the horrible failures and rejections that come with the process? I've been just laughing at it and telling myself it's like failing a rep. Anything else I can do?

>>41130846
>confidence is key
I'm confident all around but an autist when it comes to approaching. I guess it's just a matter of practice.

>>41130406
yes, i made a thread here >>41123004
i have no social skills

To the guys "not stressed about it", "focused on career", etc.
Man up, those are just excuses for being a pussy/having a huge ego and not approaching girls.
Of course you'd like to fuck them right now if you could.
First step is admitting it.
I'm on the same boat btw.

>>41130874
You dont know what I am because i never told you, but you are fucking stupid with your rhetoric. Youll never go far in life

24 here.
Thinking about trying Tinder once my jaw/chin fat goes from this cut. Only problem is I still live with my parents, so yeah.

>>41130406
Being faithful to your religion/culture is actually a valid reason to stay a virgin. Don't worry about it.

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It's my birthday today, three years past wozardhood and counting. I'm a broken man incapable of normal emotional functioning following a major depression many years ago, in addition to extreme fear that got worse and worse as time went by. I'm spending my birthday eating old cake and going through forums for people who order escorts / go to prostitutes, trying to nerve up and make a decision, basically wasting my time instead of doing anything productive or fun.

I'm broken and I'm 100% sure I can't be fixed. This life so far was a goddamn disappointment, and the future is filled with people close to me dying, being alone and empty, and never experiencing love or real warmth from a female.


/fit/, you've been a good place for me so far in the last year I've been coming here, and I just want to say, on the eve of my lonely, miserable birthday that I thank you for the laughs and the time spent looking at thicc/thinn women. I mean it, for someone who has very little reason to live, having comfort in a familiar environment is important. So thanks for that.

>pic unrelated, my cake looks worse

>>41130653
>claims to be woman
>links anime

>>41131746
Dude it's my birthday today too
i'm now 21 years old

>>41130406
>5'10
>21y, Norwegian male
>Strong for normie standards, dyel for /fit/
>Lack definition in my core area in particular
>165lbs

>>41132025
O S L O
S
L
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>>41131746
>>41132024
Happy birthday m80s

>>41131746
Happy birthday anon. i know depression sucks but you should talk to a therapist or something. I'm on antidepressant right now and life aint too bad, and start working out we can all make it.

>>41132058
NEI
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I

>>41131746
i'm here 4 u anon - just don't give up and start liking traps

>>41130601
dw bruh
try digging into philosophy as coping mechanism

>>41132173
>but you should talk to a therapist or something
I'm long, long post psichiatrists, medication and esoteric treatments. What I have is clinically diagnosed as "treatment resistant" - it ain't going away. That how I know I can't be fixed.

>>41132269
What good would that do? Anyway if I could be sexually attracted to men I'd be gay long ago, seems easier than hitting on women.

I'm eating another slice of cake. Fuck my cut, I need sugary reinforcements. I'm also debating ordering a top-notch prostitute to my house tomorrow (I have the money), I'm just 1) dead scared and 2) don't really feel it would help in any way, I just feel like doing something unusual.

thanks m8's. happy birthday to everyone, it's on the house!

>>41132802
Give me some cake too senpai

>>41130601
Where do you live?

>>41132839
You need to watch your figure bro, I don't. It's my cheat day.

I'm intimidated by and afraid of any woman attractive enough for me to find fuckable.

>>41130406
if you lift and are still a virgin its because you want to

>>41132864
netherlands

doesnt help that i cant speak dutch well
>tfw no blonde amazonian tall dutch gf

>>41131746
Happy birthday mate.

I feel like i'm reading my future. Take the plunge then you have one less thing to worry about

Im embarrassed that a fellow Persian is still hanging on to the backwards religion the arabs put on us centuries ago.

Youre in the west now. Its ok to leave that garbage behind.

>>41133107
>then you have one less thing to worry about
In what sense? Not sure I follow.

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>>41130556
Did it feel like we're going to hell? I'm asking because I'm a Muslim too and I get mired a shit ton. Had girls that liked me and all but I never did anything because of the whole hell fire thing. Tell me how you felt/feel about it bro.

>>41130406
>6'4
>Going for modelling as a side job
>Pretty face, muscular, deep voice(Actually won some radio contests)

>Fucking horrible eyesight, i prolly wont be able to go to army
>Broke up with oneitis
>Kinda bad posture

>>41130424
Don't, women hate men virgins simply becasue they think that if you'll take man's virgnity he's going to become clingy. Never tell a girl you're a virgin but ask a girl if she's one. Roles are reversed when it come sto virgnity. Being virgin as a girl is ok while as a man is not.

>>41130481
Insallah may allah bless you with some halal gains.

>>41130406
What >>41133392 said
Women don't like virgins simply becasue they'll afraid guy will cling to them becasue they took his v card. I didn't tell girl who took my virgnity that i was one since many people (including women in my family) told to never tell anyone im a virgin. But if you're truly /fit/ then DEMAND girl to be a virgin unless you just want to fuck. It's an awesome feeling when some girl starts hitting on you and you ask if she's a virgin. They get fucking dumbfounded.
One girl litteray said this to me
>why do you care if i'm not a virgin?! what difference does this make?!
I went full autistic /pol/ and started telling her about how number of partners co relates with the happines in marriage and likeliness of cheating. I openly tell women i do not look for hook ups but for stable relationship that will end in marriage and if she's not a virgin, i'm not interested.
I've had 2 gfs before i started acting like this now im 24 and looking for a virgin qt to teach her about sex and later marry her so obviously i need to start dating younger girls 18-20. Problem is i don't know how to meet them. I know where to find 18 year old sluts but i want to find 18 year old wife material.
Remember
>non virgin for casual fucking
>virgin for long term relationship and marriage
Or if you don't care fuck whoever you want, just don't admit to being a virgin unless girls also wants you to be one then just lie about it since lmao it's not like men have hymen or some other shit. Unlike women we don't have to make up some bullshit stories about horse riding or gymnastics.

>>41130556
This. Dudes that are awkward just pirate bay bang n day bang by rooshv. Hes a persian dude.
Westernized muzzy that looks good youll be exotic as fuck. Just dgaf like those like migrants in europe

>>41130424
If it's a pump and dump don't tell her.

If you want to stay with her it really depends on how you think she'll react. If you think she'll have a major issue with it maybe you shouldn't stay with her for a long time.

>>41130601
Just talk about gym shit and you'll be fine, that's how I got my wife

>>41131074
Being this butt blasted

>>41130406
21 here, I had sex for 5 minutes once five years ago. I could get laid easily if I wanted to but I wouldn't know what the fuck I'm doing, it would just be awkward. I also don't want to groom my pubes because it itches like fuck when I do. So I just abstain.

>>41130406
darood be shoma

>>41130878

Look at approaching girls like giving out 100 dollar bills, you wouldn't feel bad about being rejected from giving someone money, nor should you feel bad about trying to give a girl a chance at a good time.

>>41133533
>i want to find 18 year old wife material

go to church

>>41130741
Caucasian doesnt mean white

>5'5
>21 fat mexican but look asian
>190
Im still a virgin but Im not stressing on it like I used to. I have a lot of shit I got to work on me and I like to think after losing some of the weight, down 35 lb, helped me come out of my misanthropic self.

Kissless 23 year old virgin here.

I am more afraid of my first kiss then my first sexual experience, penis in vagina seems easy while the act of kissing is completely alien to me, if it ever happens I am convinced I will be doing it 100% manually.
If I never saw it in public/films I doubt I would ever feel the urge to exchange saliva with an another human being.

I lift so I don't have to think about these things.

>>41131746
bruh if I had the money I would buy you a top tier hooker. just know that.

Dont fuck a hooker brehs
You will feel aweful when you realize what you have done

>>41132802
I refuse to believe you can't find happiness. Problem is that you need to believe you can too.

As grill I'm not sure how much a hooker would help. But maybe now that you feel total loss of hope it's time to do something you never have because you have nothing to lose? What about a dating service that isn't tinder? What about finding a local meetup group with similar interests? I don't want you to give up, everyone can find happiness in some way.

I love these threads, like all you have to do is make a tinder or okcupid and just talk to girls... im ugly and sorta skinny-fat despite gym every day for years and im a social pariah yet I still manage to bang 2-3 girls a year.

>>41132802
Sad sack of shit, just be yourself, fake it till you make it, just go out more and talk to that thot bro :^)

>>41135548
Dating pool is slim in fly over land. Am going to road tripping to south carolina and visiting some bars near the beach when I pass through.

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>>41130556
>>41133165

You're going to hell anyway. All have sinned and come short of the glory of God. Christ took the sin of the entire world upon himself and paid for it all with his perfect blood sacrifice; he took your place on the cross and in hell. Therefore, Christ is the only way to heaven. Accept his free gift of eternal life; ask and you shall receive, seek and you shall find, knock and you will be let in.

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>>41135413
Thanks man.
Wrote down my thoughts on paper. I feel like crying but I can't, it's so fucking frustrating imagine knowing what you're supposed/want to feel but you don't feel it. It's like looking at a sexy young woman, knowing that you're supposed to feel sexual attraction and expecting a boner, but it doesn't come up.

>>41135510
>I refuse to believe you can't find happiness. Problem is that you need to believe you can too.
Look, I appreciate the sentiment, but I've been through this shit for a long, long time, and it's not going away. I tried CBT, antidepressants, "fake it until you make it" approach, multiple different psychologists, alcohol, I spent thousands of dollars on treatments (as if anything else is more crucial to spend money on), and nothing worked. I don't feel like dying, but if I don't wake up tomorrow I feel it wouldn't be a huge loss.

I cant connect with people on an emotional level, because I have very, very flat affect. I find very little enjoyment in so few things, because I'm anhedonic, so I also don't enjoy other people's company that much. I've been alone for years and years, so much so that it's now hard for me to spend more than a few hours straight with another person. My hobbies are those of a loner - sculpting, reading, playing games, I can play nice but at the end of the day I've met thousands of new people and never managed to create a lasting, honesty-based relationship, if I want someone to stay I have to lie to them - I've learned to laugh convincingly and feign interest and humor. Would YOU be a close friend of someone who fake-laughs at your jokes, can't connect with you emotionally, doesn't find you interesting and will never give you warmth or love? Fuck, I wouldn't.

I really feel this is the end, and not in an edgy kind of way, all my rough edges grew dull over the last decade, I'm old and past that. It truly feels like it's the end; I will die when I have no more inertia left in me.

>>41135670
How old are you? btw not her. also dude Im like you to as well just not that much of a bitch. I know Im empty too but unlike you I have family lmao at your life. But if my mom dies of her leukemia idk what id do. Probably be just as pathetic as you

>>41135670
I'm probably frustrating to you but I still politely disagree. I am not that far behind in age and do spend a lot of my time alone or doing things alone. Which I prefer a lot. But I still think you can find things you'll take pleasure in with time and doing things you haven't before. Also I think you need a pet.

And you said you feign interest in others, okay, but you have hobbies that you enjoy, right? What about others that share those same hobbies? Would it be uninteresting to have conversations with these people?

>>41135316
iktf, I can't even imagine what it would be like

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>>41135742
>I'm probably frustrating to you
You're not.

The problem isn't that I'm alone and therefor don't connect with other people, it's that I can't connect with other people, and therefor have chosen to be alone. My flat affect means people tell funny jokes, or try to open up to me, or try to start an argument with me, and it slids off me like water on an oily surface, it just kinda makes a mental note that I should be feeling something and that's it, I don't laugh, I don't feel fondness of them, I rarely get angry or feel the need to discuss my world view. Under these circumstances, starting and maintaining new friendships or romantic endeavors is nearly impossible without faking it 100%. And I hate faking it when I don't have to, and I hate wasting people's time.

Here, picture this: I go to a meeting, say for people who like board games or something, and there's 6 other guys there and a girl. We talk and I tell them about myself and my work and where I live, and we start playing some game. The game isn't doing it for me, because very little does, but I fake curiosity and interest anyway to not seem like I'm bored. The guys make jokes, one of them is charismatic, but the jokes don't register any emotion in me, I don't feel like laughing, but everyone's laughing so I laugh too. The girl keeps eyeing me, because I'm sorta well-dressed and seem nice and intelligent and seem to have money and maybe she finds me attractive, but I have to shoot her off because I will never connect with her, she doesn't interest me at all, and I know from experience that 1) on a date I would just like to be left alone and stop having to fake my responses to her and 2) she will eventually figure out I'm as emotionally dry as a toast and break it off. So I pretend to not notice her and move on.

What have I gained in this evening? How is this helping me? It's only reinforcing my belief that I shouldn't bother trying to develop relationships and should remain alone.

>>41130406
>6'0
>29 yr old male
>Fat and ugly

>No friends or life experience, haven't had any since middle school
>Now have no idea how to make any friends or even talk to people

>>41135902
Have you, like, not thought about what to do or not self sabotage yourself? You already set yourself for failure by making up stories of timelines that may or may not happen.

>>41135902
I'm fighting 5 o'clock traffic but I have a response to this when I get home.

>>41136072
Crash pls

>>41136059
It was just a hypothetical example. Similar things have happened to me a lot over the last decade.

>>41136072
Don't 4chan and drive m8 it ain't safe.
Also if the response is "haha what a fucking loser" don't bother, I don't care.

>>41136081
>past decade
well no shit, its simply doing it more than a handful of times. Its not easy but your making excuses.

>>41135902
Alright grill is done driving. Also never move to southern California anons.

I get that you've been diagnosed with things and you use terms that I've had to Google (legitimately never heard anhedonic), and maybe it's because I'm only 3 years behind you, but I don't feel like there's no hope left. As another anon pointed you, you're dooming yourself to failure before trying again. Trying AGAIN. Having multiple failed relationships, friendships, general endeavors, etc is a relatively normal and common part of existence. And it makes me sad to think you've essentially tapped out at this point. I realize I don't know you but based on your posts you seem like a fairly intelligent individual, but maybe too much so. Like you need to get out of your own head about life and just exist sometimes. Even the scenario you gave, I would assume from parts of it you're doing fairly well for yourself (clothes, job, etc) and even you recognize that but still assume that everyone else will eventually disregard you based on what you assume will happen and honestly that's not even fair to the other people you've met. (I also doubt it's in the thousands, as you mentioned)

I'm just trying to say that there are a lot of enjoyable things in life worth putting yourself out there for again. Sex, being one of them, as this thread is about, but even beyond that. Hope you consider my words and honestly give YOURSELF the benefit of the doubt and lose the total defeatist mentality. And I think maybe you might even want to, considering you're here and responding to me.

>>41135670

Take 5g of shrooms

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>>41136393
I think you're being unfair and oversimplifying what I said by calling it a "defeatist mentality". This fake scenario was just to give some perspective to the person who thought I just needed to "bee myself" or that I should fake it until I make it or put myself out there, all things I've done many, many times before with no luck.

This isn't a singular event, it's not something I haven't encountered much before and simply decided to never try again, it's not something I completely made up; I've been this way through 3 years of university, 4 workplaces, 6 apartment buildings, I've gone abroad and traveled occasionally, always surrounded by other people my age, so I have experience with people in repeating, social circumstances and I TRIED for many years to make a connection with them. What I'm trying to disprove here is the idea that I'm some teen NEET frogposter reeee-ing from his bedroom that his life is shit, who never tried anything and might not have any real personal issue. I'm 33, not 22, and I've put some mileage behind me, I'm not merely dismissing it just so I can stay in the safety of my bubble.

I've tried everything and it didn't work, for a full decade. Just some months ago I finished throwing away thousands of dollars on a cleanically-proven treatment that did not work either. If after a decade of failure and empty relationships you can still go on trying, I applaud you, but I don't feel like I can anymore. Insult me all you want by calling it defeatist or saying it's unfair to others; maybe you're trying to resolve some cognitive dissonance, "life is fair, these things only happen to people who don't try hard enough, anything can be fixed", I don't know. All I'm saying is that I feel I tried.

>>41131746
I love you man, never surrender. >>41135902

>>41130406
>I'm a Muslim from a religious family and is seriously considering to just get laid by all the mires I'm getting.

But you have an actual excuse though. Just say you're virgin because you're Muslim; burgers won't know any better.

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>>41136588
Still trying my best, thanks man.

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>21
>kissless virgin
>slightly above avg but still dyel
>social
>go out drinking with friends etc
>continuously attempt to chat/dance/attract the female kind
>zyzzwoudlbedissapoint.jpeg

I'd argue my situation is one of the worst as in all respects I should easily have lost it ages ago yet for some reason despite not being too autistic, being a solid 7/10 and having numerous opportunities I still have no success.

wat do

i tried liften but even after i reached a low-level ottermode it didnt work

>pic semi-related

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>25
>pectus excavitum
>still a wagecuck three years after graduating college
>live in retirement town south of Atlanta
>nothing but niggers and old timers everywhere

At least I'm not a manlet...

>>41136550
Ehh be a bitch then. This is perfect example of not making it.

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>>41133392
If you could only pick one piece of advice from /fit/ to listen to it should be this. I have literally missed out on chances to lose my v-card because I let it slip. I wish someone had told me this 5 years ago.

>>41136625
>pectus excavitum
>not a manlet

bless you senpai

>>41136550
Grill again.

I don't doubt your age or that you've tried many times, I simply read your post and felt compelled to respond. Take it as you will. Also, I apologize I didn't mean to insult you by calling it 'defeatist', it was just the way I tried to phrase what I was seeing it as at the time.

I get that you're tired of seeing the same results. And I get that you've tried different things but... you're still young, and maybe I'm just an eternal optimist. I can't imagine just settling because you're feeling tired. Which is also why I mentioned maybe you DO just need to get out of your own brain about things - you might find you enjoy them more (or at all) that way.

What I do know is that you're not incapable of feeling, based on your responses here, and even yourself mentioning that you do at times feel anger, etc.

I don't think there's a lot more that I can contribute to you and I don't expect you to suddenly agree with me or anything, but I'm going to keep hoping you figure out something that works for you. Whatever that is.

>>41130878
Take my advice with a grain of salt since I'm in the same boat as you brah. At this point, just keep doing what you're doing. I think at some point you'll get used to it and won't be as afraid -> meaning you'll get more comfortable doing it and can adjust your approach accordingly. You're probably fucking up because you're nervous or not totally comfortable. First, you need to be comfortable when approaching and things will probably fall into place after that.

>>41136739
Anon your so nice and we need more people like you, but you need to know you can't help everyone. Especially those who make excuses of ANY kind. I hope for your words to change the course of someone's life and they know that you cared.

>>41136818
Listen to this guy anon. Also try not to use to much liquid courage, it makes you dependent on it.

>>41135902
you should try psychedelics. That shit brings heroin addicts and war vets back to life.. Maybe it will knock what ever gear is stuck in your brain loose.

MAybe, it's worth a shot, you got nothing to lose.

>>41136829
Thanks and I know. I lurk a ton but once in a while I feel compelled to write... I hope it helps someone but ultimately if it doesn't, it's okay that I tried. You're good people too.

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>>41130878
We all get rejected at some point, even you reject people and don't realize it. If you look back and reflect on those horrible failures/rejections, are you glad you did it or do you wish you hadn't done it? Pretty sure you're more glad you did it instead of regretting not trying to make a move at all and missing the opportunity. It might not seem like that at first though, it takes some time to pass for you to realize this. Just know there are people who are afraid of trying so don't try at all. You're trying and you're gaining lots of experience which will yield results if you remain patient and keep trying.

>>41135644
Fuck is you talking about nigga? That's different from what I asked..

>>41130406
>20
>6-7/10
>God tier personality
>Rarely go out
>Out of the few times I do go out I've had countless oppurtunities
>Too drunk and autistic to read signals

>>41131746
i'm going to tell you right now: having meaningless sex with a stranger will not give you happiness of any kind, I know from personal experience. The mere act of sex doesn't feel good enough to warrant it, it's largely a waste of time. You are not missing out on anything.

>>41133117
Actually many Persians observe Sufi traditions and practices. Islam in Iran is practiced much differently than it is in Saudi Arabia. Don't forget about Rumi, Saadi, Hafetz, and the other Persian greats. Arabs may have it backwards but the Sufi viewpoint is actually incredibly loving, peaceful, and admirable.

Maybe they are scared you'll stone them to death if they reveal their ankles

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i put my dick in a fat gross goblin underage girl when i was 17 and was sexually traumatized for years, had a gf my freshman year of college and we never had sex, i couldnt get it up- fucking sad cause she was a babe. never got laid in college, always was petrified my dick wouldnt work so i never tried to get to that stage with girls, despite being pretty outgoing/having a big friend group/regularly going out. It was super damaging to my self esteem and sense of self after years and i ended up with a drinking problem in my later years of college and then a heroin problem after i graduated. I'm now 24 and in recovery, got a gf i really care about and finally had fulfilling sex, obv was pretty reluctant at first but it worked out. Feel a lot better now, trying to get my life back in order.

>>41130406
>persian
that's where you fucked up

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> I'm a Muslim from a religious family

Fuck off terrorist shitskin. Arab goat fuckers like you are not welcome on this board.

/fit/ has and always will be white mudslim scum

>>41130653
Plz b my qt amazon gf

>>41131746
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FTjww638BM8

>5'10"
>26 year old chink male
>Finally got out of DYEL

I won't try tinder, because it's stacked in favor of good looking guys. But I've got nothing and my biggest fear is turning 30 before I lose it. It helps that I'm not one of those typical Asian nerds, as almost all my friends are Chads. But with Chads come the Staceys and I have no shot with any of them.

Are cons my best option?

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>>41136550
>maybe you're trying to resolve some cognitive dissonance, "life is fair, these things only happen to people who don't try hard enough, anything can be fixed"

i hear you man. people who haven't gone through something similar can't really sympathize, the notion that sometimes you're fucked and that's it and life is unfair is hard to get our heads around. sometimes we try and fail and that's that. be strong m80, you're still young, maybe something will come along one day and make it better, hand on there.

keep lifting and coming to /fit/. personally i think this site is cancer and should be destroyed but it's cancer i've learned to love and depend on so who am i to judge.

>>41133392
I don't have a problem with keeping my mouth shut, but what if she asks about it? In a casual hook-up lying wouldn't be a problem, but I would feel bad if it was with a girl I'm serious about.
Also, I don't like the thought of dating someone who would dump me if she knew I'm a virgin, a part of me would rather tell the truth and see what happens, and if she leaves, good riddance; still, I don't want to stay a virgin forever.

>Being virgin as a girl is ok
I've heard of girls who were ashamed of still being virgins at their age (not sure how old they were), so I'm not sure how much that holds true.

>>41140138
Female virgins don't exist

>>41141249
Wait, so anime's been lying to me?

>>41141561
Unfortunately yes anon.

Unless the girl is 13 or 14 she's not a virgin. They all lose it in early high school

>>41141711
you know this from personal experience right, not anecdotal evidence from the intranet right.

>>41136393

Some people cannot get out of their heads.

If you go to a concert or party and you see all the excited people throwing their hands in the air and screaming and dancing and you look around, you will see at least a couple of poor fuckers there who are just sitting in their seat watching. Those people aren't just being party poopers for kicks and shits. They are physically incapable of turning off the analytical aspect of the mind and engaging purely in the emotional or sensory input.

Those are also the people that get fucked over by shitty women, false friends, etc. because nobody understands that they are doing the best they can to engage, but will never truly connect with anyone or anything the way a 'normal' person does.

>>41141769
Just my observations from when I was in school. Could be different if you live outside burgerland though.

28, virgin (basically)

Pretty twisted up inside. Don't care at all about sex, I just want to be wanted. The longer time runs, the more loathsome and repulsive I feel, because nobody will even look at me twice. Last time I tried to get a woman's attention it went to shit and now I just want to hurt women as much as she hurt me. That feeling is making me increasingly irritable, too, since it keeps me in constant conflict with myself.

Just get a hooker losers lmao

>>41142077

You can jerk it for free. Sex for the lonely is a matter of intimacy at best, validation at worst.

>>41142496
somebody never got their dick sucked

>>41130406
Dude just blow yourself up at the local mall. Your family will be proud of you and you'll get those fabled 72 virgins in heaven.

>>41131074
What is going far in life? We all meet the same inevitable death. Is it money? Social status? Seeking pleasure? Some combination of the three?

Why do you bother getting butt blasted by a stranger saying mean things on a Japanese fingerpainting forum?

>>41142590
>getting you dick sucked with a condom
or
>letting a hooker suck your dick without one

Both are unacceptable

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How to convince fwb to give up anal virginity?
>She said no
>Told her i'd be gentle, stop if it's painful
>how hot it'd be to have been in every hole
>She says lets do you first
>Responded i'll take one for the team
>tfw don't want her in my booty
how do i maneuver this, pls help, plaese respond

>>41130406
>Persian

Nice try, Mehmet, you're one step above a pajeet and not in a good way, stick to animals

>>41143602
You'll like it more than she does.

>>41130653
I'll be your dependapotamous but I'm not a woman, fat, or ugly. And I already come from a military family

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>>41130837
Found the nigger.

>>41136739
Even if your words didn't help the anon you were talking to, they helped me. Thank you

>>41131746
Sounds like you need a change of scenery, I get down if I've been stuck inside and not done anything.

Not sure if it's as bad as your experience, but take a day to go out and see the beauty of nature. It helps me and it might help you too.

Also, look into taking St John's wort, I've heard it can help with depression.

Have a happy birthday magic man.

>>41144606
Who is top chick?

All women are beautiful btw.

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>lose virgin at 16
>have had sex hundreds of times
>different women
>mostly 8/10s
>have done acts like anal and such
>still think it was all trick to make a fool out of me
>don't understand how they saw me attractive
>think I'm a retard and awkward
>hate being in front of mirrors
>don't like my photo being taken

You KHV might have it hard but you'll enjoy it when you get some. Some of us never will and will be waiting for the punch line

>>41144885
>waiting for the punch line
Death is the punchline. Don't wait for it, keep on living this joke life. "Well life's a piece of shit / when you look at it / life's a laugh and death's a joke, it's true / you'll see it's all a show, keep them laughing as you go / just remember that the last laugh is on you".

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>>41143792
Yes prostate stimulation and all, but that's not what I'm seeking.

>>41130406
>5'11
>18 yr old Muslim
>Aesthetic build

I'm still saving my virgnity, girls on campus are very flirty and slutty, help me akhi. Do you regret not breaking it earlier, I just feel like it's one of those sins you just don't commit.

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>>41145271
Muslim brothers, look into what a muttha is. Traditionally it's seen as a shia only thing, however it's actually written in the quran with instructions on how to have halal sex with a woman with out marriage. It's the try before you buy deal. Keep me in your prayers

>>41145445
I know what mutah is and my مرجع allows it, but I hear there a lot of circumstances that you need in place in order for it to be legitimite. Also can't really explain that to white girls without them thinking I'm sacrificing them or something

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>>41145500
White girls think it's exotic. Pay her in starbucks, get your dick wet

>>41140138
>I don't have a problem with keeping my mouth shut, but what if she asks about it? In a casual hook-up lying wouldn't be a problem, but I would feel bad if it was with a girl I'm serious about.
>Also, I don't like the thought of dating someone who would dump me if she knew I'm a virgin, a part of me would rather tell the truth and see what happens, and if she leaves, good riddance; still, I don't want to stay a virgin forever.

lie to her
if the relationship with her works out, you can come clean to her about it later. telling her "you were my first" after you've been dating for months or years won't be a huge deal, since by then you have already proven to her that you're not a total weirdo. she'll probably be somewhat understanding that you lied to save face.

on the other hand, if you tell a new girl "hey btw im a virgin" she'll immediately assume you're a creep and a weirdo, and probably bounce.

>>41142645
>What is going far in life? We all meet the same inevitable death. Is it money? Social status? Seeking pleasure? Some combination of the three?

settling down with a faithful and loyal wife, growing old together, having many children, and providing them with the best life you can.
that's going far in life. most other things are meaningless distractions and hedonism.

I'm a 25 year old virgin, at this point I don't see why anyone would be interested in me. I barely talk to other people either.

>>41130874
>caucasian = white
Buddy you're retarded

>all these poo skins on my /fit/

ew

>>41130406
Op
You fuckin retard
If you're persian, your prolly also a shia muslim
And if you didnt get the memo, you CAN get laid and it won't even be haram
Its called mutaa', it's basically a temporary marriage, and as long as she's not a virgin you can do it without asking her dad
How can you be 26 and not know about this?

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>>41145752
Haha, muzzies and their crazy rules

>>41145752
Oh and sunnies can't do this, so dont ask a sunny brother on how this works

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>>41143602
He's got a nice watch.

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>>41130406
>6'2"
>23yr old slav male
>big chest and arms, small lower legs.

I could have lost my virginity at about 13 years old to some crazy fat chick of the same age but I autismed out of it.
I feel like a curse was put on me that day.
I'll defeat you soon witch.

>>41145752
One last thing
Its not a marriage in the traditional sense
No witnesses needed, no financial responsibilities and no sheikh needed
All you need to do is take her verbal conscent and make her reciet something (there's conditions on who you can and cannot bang too)
Also one thing to keep in mind is, although this is 100% halal, a lot of shias won't do it because of cultural bs.

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I'm a good Christian saving myself for marriage. (I'm not a degenerate who abuses loopholes for get his dick wet like certain individuals)

>>41145854

She has to be monotheistic as well

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>>41145792
>>41145445
Don't say that, sunnis can follow the qurans instructions with out having to worry about sunni-shia differences

>>41130425
5'8 half-Persian manlet archduke here, have never had troubles with women

most think I'm Italian or Greek but that might be my white half

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>>41145907
This is insulting to Italians and Greeks

>>41145875
Enjoy you're used up """ christian""" wife senpai. It's OK though Jesus forgives her for her slutty years.

>>41145884
Of course they can, mutaah was halal at the prophets time, but the thing is that the one who banned it was the second caliph omar (not the prophet)
And you know how our sunny brothers like omar

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>>41145445
>>41145752
This is why you Shias are filthy scum, no wonder the Prophet (PBUH) will distance himself from you on the Judgement day insha'Allah.

t. pure Sunni brother.

When you guys say "talk to girls", that's obviously the correct way to go about it.
But if I don't go to many social gatherings, would you just talk to random girls on the street or what?

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>>41146115
Breh my parents are sunni, therefor i'm sunni.
I believe in practicing the 5 pillars, being a good person and reading the quran. It's written there, Islam wants us to live life. Pls keep me in your prayers

>>41146175
Its alright you didn't mean anything bad, peace and blessings.

>>41143602
How to get fwb in the first place?

>>41135316
turned 23 yesterday and can relate. Penor in bagina seems to be an easy thing to do. But even thinking of the kissing part scares the shit out of me. How does it even feel? Do you close eyes or keep them open? I have pretty big nose and I think it will get in a way. Should I kiss with my dry mouth or force some saliva down her throat?

Sometimes I wonder if I live in the same reality as everyone else

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>>41146243
if you don't have any cute girls that are into you, date down and tell her you want things casual. She gets sex with a handsome guy (for her), you get regular sex (4 u). Honesty about your intentions go a far way

>>41146115
>what is ridaa al kabir (breastfeeding an adult so he becomes a mahram, of course your scholars claim aisha used to do it)
>What is jihad al nikah (basically war prostitution is ok)
>Abu hurayra (one of your guys main hadith references) has been around the prophet for at most 2 years, and has over 30,000 hadith (that means 42 hadith a day, mashallah
>Women can't inherit their fathers in sunny islam
>Yazid (drunk retard) became the ((caliph)) only like 40 years after the prophets death because of the previous caliphs hypocrisy

mutaah literally has the same conditions as a normal marriage, the difference is that the "divorce" date is per-agreed upon
pure my ass, a lot of sunnies end up committing adultery instead of perfectly halal mutaa"

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>>41130406
>6'1
>purely celtic/nordic ancestry
>20 y/o
>7.5" penor
>goal physique
>nice face
>good personality (only when around right people - like a wall around unknowns)

>sad fuck - low self esteem and major depressive, probably obsessive compulsive and paranoid
>kiss-less, handhold-less virgin
>hate people, hate self
>never meet girls
>no friends, only person I can talk with is my Dad
>nothing good has happened in my life, no achievements or anything to be proud of
>i have never truly been happy

>>41131746
At least you share birthdays with the Fuhrer.

>>41130406
>persian
>muslim

didnt people consider them selves both of these things

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>>41130406
>all these 6'+ virgins

I don't understand. I'm 5'5". I've seen the way girls look at me and I've seen the way they look at my 6'2" friend. It's noticeably different.

How the fuck have I gotten laid but y'all haven't? Just go out to a damn bar and drink a bit, jeeze.

>>41130406
>5'10"
>18
>Like mix of colonial powers with a small bit of Burmese from pillaging.

>>41148674
No need to lie like that to impress us little fella it's ok we won't judge you.

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>DYEL-ish from britbongistan
>intense inferiority complex
>had a 6/10 gf in the past but fucked it up
>resolved to kill myself if I don't lose my virginity before I turn 19
>settled for a 4/10 gf
>not fat, but she kind of disgusts me
>having serious philosophical debates with myself about the ethics of fucking her just to get it over with it

From a purely utilitarian standpoint, it makes sense. She gets the boyfriend experience, I get to not die. It still feels wrong, and I'll probably still feel like shit afterwards because its not like I'm suddenly on par with chad. I can't just abandon my 19th birthday timeline, its been around for years. I just don't know. Yes, I'm aware that I'm a bad person. I'm probably autistic or something, not sure.

>>41151176
Just lose your virginity so that you realize it really doesn't fucking matter.

>>41151211
>>41151176
yeah i lost my virginity to like a 2/10 jewish girl with a huge honkin nose and one A cup titty with one C cup titty

>>41131746
Happy Birthday
I recommend you go to Thailand for 3 weeks

>>41130424
Open your mouth and exhale air through your vocal cords.

>>41133392
lmao I told a chick I'd never had sex before, she was a massive slut and wanted to take mine (Though I have HFF, I'm just uninterested when it comes to sex/pursuing women so that could be part of it). I couldn't be fucked either way afterwards, but jesus fucking christ did she get clingy. It's almost been a full year and she's still fucking stalking me

>>41130406
>muslim
I know of a way you can pick up 72 girls to lose your virginity with

>>41146175
>reading the quran
God that sounds boring, at least my religion is easy, i have 9 nobel virtues to remember and thats it

>1. Strength is better than weakness
>2. Courage is better than cowardice
>3. Joy is better than guilt
>4. Honour is better than dishonour
>5. Freedom is better than slavery
>6. Kinship is better than alienation
>7. Realism is better than dogmatism
>8. Vigor is better than lifelessness
>9. Ancestry is better than rootlessness

And if im unsure about what any of them truely means, i just pick up the the saga that explains the core of each

>>41151391
If he dies a virgin, he becomes one of the virgins for other martyrs to obtain

>>41151414
If you die when your still a virgin, you become a ghost, doomed to walk the earth and watch Chad fuck Stacy for eternity

>>41131111
Same breh.
I'm just used to it at this point and don't really care.
On one hand I crave the companionship, but like my alone time and feel like i would eventually get annoyed with being in a relationship. On the other hand I have a really hard time feeling okay with random hookups and one-night-stands.

All I want is to naturally make a friend and then turn into fwb. is that too much to ask?

>>41151398
What religion be that boyo?

>>41151726
Its called "Ásatrúarfélagið" in my language

What American whites bastardise as Aasatru, its not really a religion but a set of timeless ideals to live by taken from the sagas of old, basicly its like Odinism/Paganism without actually beliving in odin or retarded crap hippie`s added

Its a set of rules to live by taken from the accumulated experience of my ancestors

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>>41130424
>6 months ago
>19 yo k/v
>go to frat party
>find cute girl
>start dancing
>asks for my number
>go on date a week later
>go back to my room
>she sees I have N64 and wants to play
>she wants to watch a movie
>get hot and heavy
>take off her shirt
>start feeling her up
>"anon, aren't you supposed to kiss me first?
>"I've never kissed a girl before and I'm a virgin"
>asks me to drive her home

I still think about how awkward and terrible that night was. Luckily, I actually know what to do now after having a girlfriend since then.

>>41130406
Where do you think you are?

>26yo virgin
>never seen a girl outside my family naked before
>never kissed a girl except family as a greeting
>never been on a date
>never held a girls hand in a lewd way
>mother had C-section, so have in fact never been in contact with a vagina in my life.

I did grab a classmates tit once at university when I was drunk though.

>>41151938
im guessing thats Icelandic? because only they can butcher the alphabet like that.

>>41131746
Hate to say this but...Find God.

>>41152378
>im guessing thats Icelandic?
yep
>because only they can butcher the alphabet like that
Svo er tungumál álfa

>>41130406
>>41130556
I got laid often enough from highschool until gradschool, then I met the girl of my dreams, a nice clean honest virgin muslim girl and the fucking guilt is eating at me, don't do it brahs, it aint worth it, just don't wait too long to find that special lady, that's my experience at least.

>28
>white
>5'5"

Don't fall for the "work on yourself and you'll find someone eventually" meme. It's only true for women. Finished school, got a good job, been working for 5 years, bought a property with my brother and sold it for profit, bought my own place and moving in a few weeks.

>>41145271
dude don't, just look for the right girl, put an effort into it, and don't do what I did by doing it before I found her merely because I was weak and frustrated, the guilt has been tearing me up ever since. it's absolutely not worth it.

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>18
>boxer

I literally don't give a fuck at all I just wanna become a really good boxer.

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>>41130406
I've had sex before but I've had a long break due to some depression and confidence issues
>be at a bar
>meet qt
>head to her place
>both pretty drunk, fool around for a while and just go to sleep
>can't really sleep, lay awake while qt sleeps
>qt wakes up, talk for a while
>start fooling around again
>dick hard, grab condom
>start putting it on
>dick decides to go semi-flaccid
>can't get condom on
>laughter on both sides
>end up eating her out, she enjoys it
>leave with blue balls, right testicle in great physical pain
>meeting her again next week, hoping everything goes well
fucking hell lads, how do I fix this?
this is the second time this has happened to me, pretty pissed at my dick

>>41152059
Isn't this copypasta...? I swear I've seen this somewhere before.

>>41154629
>Eating qt3.14 out and not diamonds already
Do something that arouses you?

>>41154629
Tell her to get a broom, but it on her back and squat down, then when as she gets back up push the squat plug out. Your dick will be hard before the plug hits the floor.

>>41154684
It's kind of my fetish, it's just my dick doesn't do anything when I'm actually doing it
guess I'll try nofap and noporn until I meet her again, still a bit nervous

>>41154749
Good idea, although bewarned it has a chance to backfire.

I think you shouldn't be nervous; it might be the cause of your deflation. What reason do you have to be nervous about anyway?

>>41154629
Do it without a condom at start. You're not going to make her pregnant if you peed and didn't masturbate before sex. The dick is going flaccid because you are overthinking it while putting on the condom. Slide it in spotaneously.

I'm told I'm not bad looking/cute and just have shit confidence and inexperienced. I'm 19 getting pretty aesthetic and a virgin. I've only ever had two chances to lose it and I failed.

I have no idea how to oral properly or when it's too soon so I kinda avoided it.

The chances when I was about to lose it, I was anxious, she put the condom on and my dick just died as she tried to put it in. It's the most embarrassing moment in my life. Because of this, my confidence is even lower than before.

I find myself not even wanting women because I'm scared if it happens again and my inexperience.

Downward spiral from here

>>41154783
I think it's a cycle of anxiety, my dick didn't work the first time so now nervousness about being able to put the condom on is causing my dick to not work properly
>>41154790
good one, I'm sure she's appreciate it

>>41154856
>>41154868
same feels

>>41154868
Break the cycle, anon.

Every time you put on a condom you're linked back to the time you fucked up, you need to break that link in order to function or history will repeat itself.
Don't worry about underperforming, it's the source of your issue. If you focus on her and not your dick, you'll be absolutely fine.

>>41154856
You gotta break a few eggs to make an omelette, anon. Who cares if/how bad you fuck up, you can always learn and try again.

>>41130425
Kek

>>41130406
> muslim
You seem nice, so ill just politely say gtfo. I know great iranians, there are no great muslims.

>>41152059
What a bitch

>>41131746
33 is not the end of the world and sex isnt some revelation unless its with a loved one. Just pay for a hooker as degenerate as it is because it will get you over that hump and you can start your life.

>>41130425
Persian-Jap here
Grills aren't that into me, lol

>>41155243
His problem isn't being a virgin from that post, his problem is long term depression. I doubt having sex with anyone or anything will give him pleasure, desu.

>>41131746
Here are some serious tips: 1 before you get a hooker get some viagra, being caught up on it will give you awful psychological ED. 2 before any of this buy yourself some MDMA. I was depressed for years then did some research and tried it, it made me form connections, open up and get stuff off my chest and have sex for the first time.

>>41155201
3edgy5me

>>41155282
No but depression always involves wallowing, making objective steps to clear out the mental clutter keeping him down will be good until he eventually just notices things have actually been alright for a while. Worked for me and i was near suicidal and isolated for a good 8 years.

>>41143602
what's that watch? where can i get it? or at least what brand is it? i'm serious

To anyone in the same position as OP, read through this thread and find the common thread in all the virgin posts. It's pretty easy to spot once you see it.

>>41155309
Are you actually this childish that you think criticizing the most violent cult responsible for the majority of the world's suffering is edgy? Jesus.

>>41155326
Manlets

>>41155345
not quite

>>41155326
lack of confidence
anxiety
flaccid weenies
manlet

>>41155511
nope

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>>41145752
>yfw some hairy persian guy approaches you at starbucks and starts talking about how you should temporarily marry him so he can fuck you and introduce you to his very muslim parents

>>41155541
Wat then

>>41155667

It's the Elliot Rogers complex

Over-inflated sense of self-worth (muh facial aesthetics, muh physique) combined with the idea that sex is purely an accomplishment of some sort. It's clear that these virgins have no actual interest in women, only sex. To them, sex is something that women 'owe' them if they do everything right, like workout, shave, and be personable. The other person in the equation doesn't matter to them.

>>41155329
>getting this triggered over a meme

>>41155740
Malets have an over-inflated sense of self-height. Prove me wrong in under 6 words.

>>41130406

>muslim
>possible physically fit, combat requires a lot of power endurance/cardio over maximal strength
>feels ashamed for being a virgin

He will probably join ISIS.

>>41155740
>Elliot Rogers
Lol, I always thought he had assburgers.
But you're right, I've never thought of it that way before. People who think like this flock to /r9k/, don't they? I've always thought that it's toxic to view sex as reciprocate or reward for positive social behaviour.

Also I just had to do like 6 captchas before I could post am I retarded or are they getting worse at matching correct boxes with the image?

>>41155836
If anything i'd imagine being built would limit the explosive blast force reducing his combat effectiveness.

>>41155870

Hahahaha. Nice.

>>41155329

No one criticized American Nationalism though...

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>>41155897

>>41155801
it has nothing to do with being a manlet, I've had manlet friends that get a ton of girls

the question comes down to...are you a narcissistic self-absorbed asshole? Most older virgins I've met are completely insufferable for this reason alone.

>>41155866

It's telling that in this entire thread none of these virgins have once mentioned what type of woman he is looking for so that maybe (MAYBE) they could actually have a connection and a shot at getting laid. My guess is 1) they don't know or 2) they don't care. Option 1 is usually the result of option 2. Girls can sense if you don't care about them and most of them (even the sluttiest of the bunch) won't sleep with you if they sense this

>>41155924
I'm not a virgin, im just saying manletism is the primary cause of virginity.

>>41130406
>persian

you meant to write iranian

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>>41130406
>Be skelly virgin fuck. 6'1 and 147 lbs.
>Start hitting the gym and eating like a human at 26.
>Gain 33 lbs in two years (now 10lbs more), be fit, start receiving mires. Lose virginity at 28.
>Date/hookup with qts and average girls (a few ugly ones too).
>Fuck 16 girls in 6 years. Nothing exceptional, but great for an autismo ex-skelly with low self-esteem like me.
>Believe that lifting gave me attitude and killed my autismo. Self-esteem, not muscles, turned me into a "womanizer" (normal person).
>A couple of weeks ago be looking for some stuff when I find some old pictures from age 18 to 24.
>Skelly as fuck, ugly bony face af, stupid haircut, so skelly my eyes looked sunken. Not even at my lowest did I ever realised I looked so bad. Weight gain didn't only improve my body, but also my face (+better haircut).
>No wonder I didn't get laid, I'm just surprised I didn't get punched in the face every day because of my disgusting body and ugly face.
>Realise it wasn't my personality, but my appereance.

>>41155740
>Over-inflated sense of self-worth (muh facial aesthetics, muh physique) combined with the idea that sex is purely an accomplishment of some sort. It's clear that these virgins have no actual interest in women, only sex. To them, sex is something that women 'owe' them if they do everything right, like workout, shave, and be personable. The other person in the equation doesn't matter to them.

i'm the exact opposite of this
i just want a nice gf to chill and cuddle and hold in my arms
basically i just want somone i like to like me back. does that make me a misogynist autist serial killer tier psycho?

>>41156726
>i just want a nice gf to chill and cuddle and hold in my arms

so basically you just want a gf for the physical benefits

this is no different than wanting a girl for sex, it's just somehow even more cringeworthy

>>41156777
If you read his post, he wants a gf for the mental benefits of having someone who enjoys his presence.

Virgin at 30, the impending thought of wizardhood never really bothered me but now that I'm actually trying to hook up I'm wishing it did so I tried harder

If tinder was a thing when I was in my 20s...wew lad.

>>41154657
Unfortunately it's not.

>>41130653
BRISBANE

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>>41131746
Happy Birthday Anon

>>41146115
The prophet is going to distance himself from those who embraced his family?

>>41157997
Thanks, Anon. Didn't end up ordering a hooker or doing anything self destructive, which I feared I'd do (not like killing myself, more like breaking my old sculptures to see if I'd care or ruining a relationship over the phone out of boredom). Just ate lots of cake.

It's gonna be ok So long as I function life can continue.

>>41158327
At least you had some cake.

Why don't you take a trip to some place with a Red light district or something along those lines if you wanted sex.or is it less about sex and more about a connection with another person. Just curious. youdontneedtoreplyifyoudontwantto

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>>41158403
I have money and live alone and I'm ok with the concept prostitution, I don't need to go to a foreign country for a hooker.

It was more of an urge to do something new that I'm unfamiliar with, to see if it triggers some response. Felt like throwing caution to the wind and hoping for something unexpected to happen, maybe I was just deluding myself that it would help me. I did the same with alcohol and found out that I dislike both the taste and the mental effect, I was kinda expecting it to make me happier or more euphoric (not the fedora kind), but that didn't happen so I stopped.

After taking psych meds for a decade, occasionally missing a day's dose and feeling cognitive side effects that the human race lacks the vocabulary to describe, things like being drunk don't really impress me all that much.

>>41158327
>So long as I function life can continue

you sound like a fucking robot what the fuck.

>>41157915
Qld?

>tfw 19 years old

>focusing first on vidya, now school and gym

>had 3 girls in hs rejected when they openly asked me to date due to social anxiety

>now i sometimes in uni catch gir glances but always avoiding eye contact

>doing no fap

>i am so sexually frustrated that I cannot wait till finals pass so I get back in class and ask a qt on date

>>41156777

>lol you're not supposed to get anything out of a relationship, you're there for her benefit.

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>>41144885
>lose virgin at 16
>have had sex hundreds of times
teach me anon

>>41158537
I've got that song stuck in my head now.

Also samegrill here, been stalking this wondering if you'd be back. I'm glad you didn't do anything self destructive. And if I can make one more suggestion, don't throw caution to the wind HOPING for something unexpected to happen, you should just go do it. And I mean like going somewhere, drinking alone sucks. Trust me.

>>41133392
THIS

NEVER TELL THEM YOU'RE A VIRGIN.

it happened to me i actually got clingy.

>>41130878
I started treating it as a game. I would go to a club or a party and literally see how many times I could get rejected.
I would walk up to girls and say the most autistic bullshit, talk about my own poop, about yugioh cards, and just had a laugh when i got rejected.

I eventually got good at making jokes and bringing those topics up in casual manner. And then I wouldnt get rejected.

This process was from 16-21 it took a long time because im fucking autistic. Right now im 24 and in the best relationship i have ever had.

Keep trying bro, youre gonna make it.

>>41156777
Found the faggy NuMale cuck

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>>41130406
Why wouldn't a girl like being with a virgin? Like, yeah, I get that the guy is not experienced so that makes for a less time and eh, there's a chance for clinginess but isn't there some kind of gratification in knowing that his dick hasn't been stuffed inside some other cunt but it'll be in hers?

>>41161411
Women don't care about that.

Men are explorers. Women are sightseers.

>>41161411
I'd take a virgin over some guy who's fucked a million pussies any day tbqhf