why isn't your gf fit ?

what makes you think I have a choice

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>>41046251
Because she doesn't exist

>>41046251
she have no ambition and no will power

Had a rough year, she's starting to eat right and be active lately tho so we're headed in the direction. Feels breddy gud.

Why would i purposely make my gf hotter for the next guy she's inevitably going to date?

Because she doesn't have enough discipline to work out hard and stop eating cheese and sour cream

My what now?

Im not that subrace

>>41046251
Lack of discipline combined with spinal issues she inherited from her Dad. She hates all of the attention I get from other women and brings junk food in the house to try to get me to eat it.

She's lazy as fuck. Got her in the gym today though. Only women would say "ugh I'm ugly" 20x a day and not do shit about it...

She is lazy and always feel sorry for herself..
She will come around..R-rright f-fit?

>>41046251
She weighs literally 0 lbs. Fit as fuaaaaaark

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>but she is

>>41046251
She is petite and has a pretty face and she knows it
Her mother is 50 with the same body and is still hot.

So basically she is leaving everything to genetics, but im afraid it will fuck her up since she is 23 and its only downhill from here

>>41046298
>Had a rough year
if it really was that rough she would be underweight. Western people don't have an idea what's really rough and what are just excuses.

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>my gf
Hahaha yeah right

>>41046517
no she's not

I tried to get my girlfriend to fast with me for a couple of reasons but she is just refusing without even knowing what that shit is about. she just doesn't believe in it.

don't even know what the fuck to do. she doesn't want to do sports with me which basically amounts to her not doing any sports at all. she doesn't want to eat healthier. she doesn't want to fast with me

I mean her body is great except that she has a bit of a stomach but I don't know how the fuck to explain that I find that unaesthetic without sounding like an asshole. I fucking have a kind of a trauma regarding fat but I just can't talk to her about it properly because she instantly gets mad once I metention something about her body

>>41046386

my exact thought

>tfw gf doesn't let me touch her stomach
>tfw has no intention of slimming down because of whatever the fuck the reason is
>tfw it's 100% because of zero discipline

>>41046523

chill out. people here have no idea what it's like to have no food (you probably don't either)

t. someone who lived in a warzone

She's quite ill, makes want to protect her and our children, trying to make her have a better life though, fitness and all that shit.

>>41046523
Yup, because depression and eating disorders dont exist right anon?

I guess thats one reason why your country's still 3Rd world.

>>41046776
Here's the thing man. You have to communicate honestly. If she can't handle it and doesn't want to change, then it will only get worse as your relationship progresses.

Thanks to the fph thread she started going to the gym, doing squats, and counting calories

Thanks fit

>>41046857

dude, I always communicate it in an honest way but it's this fucking thing that she doesn't do

as much as I want it to happen, I wouldn't want to break up just because of a thing like that. In my eyes, when there's an obstacle, I like to talk about it. I see it the way that I haven't found the right way to make her do it yet

also, she's my gf of 3 years so you may understand why I may not want to bail in an instant

shit is still bothering me though since she knows that I don't want to be in a relationship with her if she gets fat so there goes that

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>>41046517

You fucking made it brah

>>41046809

Dude, the stomach thing is spot on. I dunno brahs. I knew she was THICC when we started dating but if it were me that was fat and she was hot I'd be gone in a week. I work my ass off trying to look as good as possible and then she whines and eats shit.

Because she left me

>>41046809
>>41046824
My grandma knows. My parents know. I barely remember coming from post soviet country. It baffles me how narrow people's perspective is. Rough year, give me a break. You don't stuff your face when you have rough year. You have nothing stuff yourself with.

>>41046998

I remember not having enough to eat back when I lived in a second world shithole. still, fuck me if university stress isn't fucking me hard at the end of every semester

everyone conceives a "rough" year differently so putting a stamp on someone else's hardships isn't really the right method to judge "a rough year" properly

I know what you mean though. people could have it way worse. sometimes I wish people would know what it's like not to have any food because society is turning to shit because people take literally everything as a given

>>41046251
because she is a lazy cunt, she weights 100lbs, i literally ohp her sometimes when we're on the beach for girls nearby to mire me

>>41046251
because she broke up with me eight months ago and I'm still considering suicide while she's probably getting fucked by chad or jamal or giving lesbianism a try

she was an 8/10 pale qt3.14

Sometimes I fantasize of murdering her

Because she grew up in the American deep south and all her family has ever eaten is diabetes-inducing trash slathered in fat and sugar.

Seriously, her family eats the most garbage food - fast food, non-stop sweets, ONLY drinks soda or beer because water "has no flavor" etc.

They're almost all overweight except her Mom and Dad because they gym regularly.

It's taken me a while but I managed to get her to start eating healthy and going to the gym regularly. So far she's only been consistently doing it for a couple months, but I'm crossing my fingers that it will work out and she'll lose some weight. She's currently 5'4" 150lbs.

>>41047238
>murica

you see why the rest of the world dislikes you, right?

Because she only does whatever meme routine of the month her YouTubers do and refuses to follow a proper routine

ITT idiots who don't understand relative privation

>>41046284
Same my guy

>>41046517
Pic unrelated

>>41046251
she fell for the running meme

>>41046251
is that a happy trail i see?

paging woodysgamertag...

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because brapppp>fit

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>>41046251


ok,nice thread.

Now how can I get my gf to workout and count calories?

Come on, I know at least half of you have tried at least one...

Share your secrets!

Cuz she's skinny and short

>>41047139
Point taken. Lost a few hair when doing my engineering degree. Still, coping with stress by overeating sounds really dumb to me.

>>41046251
because I fear being cucked so much I stay single

>>41047652
3-5 years of patients and persistance, is what it takes to get women to start eating/working out even remotely close to decent.

>>41047804

4 year here...

thing are going worst...

>>41047297
Believe me, I do. However, I think our obesity epidemic and horrible eating habits are a silly reason to hate us for. There are many, far worse things to hate.

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>>41046284

Wish I had a someone to date who was into working out. Now I'm too obsessed with it that I feel too fat that anyone would even find me attractive much less date me.

>>41047820
Just dump and get a g.f fit if you don't want to put up with shit.

>>41046251
Because she likes food more than being healthy and attractive to me. She's not really into that whole "doing stuff" in general.

>>41047831
It says a lot about your culture and your overall discipline. Most of you are just lazy fucks. You stuff your face 24/7 with fast food and watch tv. My friends joke that Idiocracy is a documentary about modern day America and most of the people I've met generally have a bad opinion about muricans. What your government does to other nations is a complete different story, beyond the control of your average Joe.

My gf is why to anxious to go to a gym and being blonde hair blue eyes she is a target of nigger eyes in public

>>41047876

Dude...

What are you 16?

>>41048103
Not him but he's right

>>41047652
I tried with 3 different ones. Managed to convince just one to work out for about 1 month. She gave up completely shortly after. Keep in mind that it was a 30 minute routine and half of it was cardio on a stationary bike. The rest of the 15 minutes were just some squats and crunches. Current one doesn't even wan't to try trying. It's out of the question completely and while she's not overweight, she's out of breath after a flight of stairs. I think I'm gonna be single for the foreseeable future.

She's skinny and studying mechanical engineering so she really doesn't have much time and motivation.

Recently she did start saying stuff like "Don't eyeball girls in the gym, o-okay?". Any interesting way to use this to make her come with me, or at least to pick up running(she used to train athletics)? I usually reply "I won't have to if you come along" or something alike.

>>41048123

I got a gf that I love and that love me back ,with a phylosophy degree (like i do), goth, into kinky stuff, yunger and of course I will dump her because she put on 4 kg in 4 years...

mmmm let me think about it
joke aside, I would call a girl "whore" if she dumps a friend of mine for not having a 6 pack.

>>41048127

I can totally relate. But why dump her? I guess there will be some deeper reasons

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>>41046251
why isn't your gf white ?

>>41048081
>What your government does to other nations is a complete different story, beyond the control of your average Joe.

I agreed with most of what you said, but this is where you're completely wrong.

Fast food corporations in America have immense wealth and power. How does this effect the average American? The fact that fast food is ubiquitous here obviously has a huge effect on the population. There are McDonalds, KFCs, Taco Bell etc. EVERYWHERE and they are often the cheapest and quickest option for a meal.

That, combined with the fact that most of America has succumbed to urban sprawl - meaning you have to drive everywhere and walking/biking is rarely an option - means that people are more inclined to eat like shit and rarely exercise unless they deliberately choose to.

There is also the fact that fast food has been a part of our food culture for years - families have raised entire generations on having it for dinner (my gf's family is a perfect example). It's not like in Europe where we have an ancient food culture that goes back thousands of years.

I have lived in Europe before. Most people I knew didn't go to the gym - they just weren't fat because they walked or biked as a means of transportation, and fast food, though it exists, is often more expensive than just getting groceries, and it is in no way part of Europe's cultural heritage.

In short, yes, lots of Americans are fat and lazy, but there are lots of factors outside of our control that make being a fat lazy POS waaayyy easier here than in most other countries.

>>41048156
You didn't even say 4 kg in your previous posts you fucking retard. I'm sure you both do well with you 'phylosophy' degrees.

>>41048156
>joke aside, I would call a girl "whore" if she dumps a friend of mine for not having a 6 pack

So? It's only a whore move when girls do it. Men are different.

>>41048156
>phylosophy degree
I'm surprised you can even use a keyboard semi-properly.

>>41048160
Simply because she is unable to basically do anything outdoors, and even sex is pretty standard since she has poor mobility. Also poor eating habits. Fast food for her would be an upgrade honestly. Always complaining that she's not feeling well, tired all the time. I don't like seeing and having to deal with this kind of stuff. I already tried to help but it was shut down instantly.

>>41048186

Yeah I work in finance and she as a recruiter.

You are qick to draw conclusion..
The issue was that she is not training with me, not that she become a wale.
Also "suprise" phylosphy could be quite usefull depends on what kind you choose to study.

>>41046251
Me and my girlfriend travel and do triathalons together. She's not as fast as me and I crushed her at the half iron distance. Also she squats and deadlifts with me and she just did her first pull up! turns out pull ups are hard when youre 5'9" have D's and are an avid traithalete.

>>41048208

That's funny 'cause I can't, i make a tons of mistakes xD

>>41048224


Seems like she drains you down.

I laughed at fast food as an upgrade..sorry man

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She was going to quit smoking join a gym, go for jogs with me and all these other new year/new me bullshit.

Got a house with a pool to do 40x laps a day when not going to gym and she's only been in the fuckin thing three times to float around.

She sits on the couch all day and the only times she gets up is to pump a quick smoke and then wants to go get fast food to sit back and watch Gordie shore/ ex on the beach and tattoo of us or stare at her iPad.

She wears a tummy tuck thing to hide her stomache, leaves the toothpaste lid open, doesn't put new toilet paper on, leaves towels on the floor, doesn't suck dick. Sex once a month.

I'm not mad though because I'm getting juicy an swole and bitches mire me. Just gotta endure this till the lease is up then I'm gone.

>>41048237
>things that never happened

>>41046284
:(

I've tried to make her work out with me for the past two years, She gets frustrated with me when I bring it up at this point. It's starting to wear thin on me
She's incredibly nervous around people and crowds, very self conscious even though I've told her no one even cares she's there

>>41048260
>She wears a tummy tuck thing to hide her stomache, leaves the toothpaste lid open, doesn't put new toilet paper on, leaves towels on the floor, doesn't suck dick. Sex once a month.
Why the fuck are you with her? I'd fucking kick her out of the house.

>>41048261
not him but not everyone is a virgin here. be glad there are people that can actually give out advice whenever some autists comes running here for help with some girl

>last gf was a runner with a big, tight ass and big tits

>>41048177
I will admit that I don't really know about food prices in America but at the same time I'm willing to bet that I can cook cheaper meals than whatever bullshit fast food joint is offering. The only problem here is convenience. It takes time to shop around, look for sales, buy in bulk etc. Also it takes time to cook. All are fair points in favor of fast food. But at the same time it's stupid to keep eating it when you get fatter and sicker.

My personal example is that I last time rode a bike when I was 10 years old and now I use my car to get around. I almost never walk more than 1-2km yet I'm fit. How? I watch what I eat and I train almost daily. I could skip the training altogether, drop 1 meal and still be okay.

>>41048303
Every other girl I've dated poops on the floor. This one rarely poops on the floor. I damn near married her when I saw her cleaning some of her own poop from the floor and saying "sorry I had an accident." An ACCIDENT! Not intentionally pooping on the floor, be still my heart.

>>41048081

>Most of you are just lazy fucks. You stuff your face 24/7 with fast food and watch tv.

You could be talking about literally any first world country brah, at least we haven't started subsidizing domestic terrorism like most of Europe

>>41048339
Stop dating your pets mate.

>>41048156
>can't even lose 4kg for a loved one
KEK!

>>41048303
Cause we are going to a mutual work friends wedding, already told him I'm gunna dump her but not gunna make it awkward till then, been trying to get her to pick her game up but nah. She is attractive but there's no point owning a Ferrari if you can't even drive the cunt

>>41048368

Please tell me more about love!

>>41048254
It does. I'm not some health freak or gymrat but I do train frequently and watch what I eat. While I don't want to impose my lifestyle on someone else, it's just disappointing to see your girlfriend setting herself up for failure. She will start to gain weight sooner or later and everything will go to shit.

>>41047652
All I did was start counting my calories and got back into lifting heavy. She saw I was making a positive change in my life and she started too. She tracks her stuff and does her yoga, and I bought some resistance bands and she does her working out with that for now. I think if you tell a girl that after a diet if she puts on a little muscle she can literally eat more than before and it will just lead to muscle and not fat it helps.

>>41048333

Once again, I totally agree. But you are a health-conscious person; you pay attention to what you eat, you work out, you care about having a healthy body.

We are talking about the populations of entire countries. Average people aren't so health conscious. They eat to soothe their hunger, and they exert themselves only when necessary.

It's especially true about Americans that most don't care what we eat, or when. Meals are eaten purely out of necessity, as an afterthought - while driving, on the bus, at your desk while working, or even right before bed. Food is just sustenance for the average American. That's why a lot of us only get 30 minutes for a lunch break.

I compare this with the food culture in the romance language countries (where I lived) - people take the time to sit down around a table to eat a meal that was prepared by hand. It's normal to have multiple courses and smaller portions. This is just a part of the culture; it's ingrained in people's habits from a very young age in the same way that having a fat burger and a liter of coke for dinner in front of the TV is ingrained in some American families.

My point is, a lot of my culture's nasty habits are cultural and simply a matter of course for people who have grown up knowing only that and lived that way their entire lives. Humans are a species of habit; it's no easy task to just change your lifestyle.

I wish we had the food culture of the French or Italians, but it's just not the case. In the US cities tend to be more progressive and eating healthy is becoming more and more trendy over the past 10-15 years. However in the south and other rural parts of the country people still eat almost exclusively garbage. For a lot of Americans healthy eating habits are a novelty, whereas in other countries it's just how things have always been.

>>41048366
>One-third of Americans -- or 78.6 million -- are classified as obese according to a paper published in 2014 in The Journal of the American Medical Association

>The average rate of obesity across Europe is one in six adults, or 17 percent of the population.

Also muricans seem to think Turkey is in Europe so they included this
> Other countries with relatively high obesity rates include Turkey, Andorra, Czech Republic and Malta.
Which fucks the numbers a bit, but still. It's lower than the US.

>>41047297
yeah, i can't defend "water has no flavor." lmao

we're not all that bad

>>41048261
Haha it did happen, whats better is I met here while recovering from brain damage, a year later when I ended cacoon mode(stayed home re-learned how to human) we started to train together, then we became a couple. She was one of my physical therapists (had 9 months of therapy to re learn how to use my mind and body especially my eyes, fucked them reall good, bleed was centered in visual proc area).

>>41048445
The strangest thing is that the foundation was built by colonists and immigrants all of which have their own food culture and all that remained was shitty habits. Companies wanting to sell more and more, making larger portions for the same price and what not. Still, it's just a sad reality.
Now with all the shit that's going on you have fat activists and average weight people are already a minority. The future doesn't look so well for your average american.

>>41046284
spbp

Guise, all we are in life is the choices that we make.
I've been around more than most of you have, I'm around 40. I'm still a visitor to this Chinese obituary forum because of the lulz and it keeps me motivated.

I've dated many chicks, lived with many. Experience has shown that if she is not willing to change now it will only get worse with time. This extends to other lifestyle habits too like smoking and being a downer in general.

I make it known when we date in no uncertain terms that I am not into fat chicks at all. I will ridicule and mock fatties. Makes me an asshole? So be it. I maintain myself, I watch what I eat and I see no reason to be with someone that I find unappealing. The thirst is real but realer is to aspire to better company than yourself. Having high standards is not easy but it's much more satisfying than mediocrity.

I have broken up with girls over not getting fit or letting themselves go. Eventually you get used to the waterworks. And it definitely was for the better, I see them now, 5, 10 years later and they have ballooned. No thank you.

TL;dr: no fat chicks, Dump them

Because for her, running for 20 minutes means she can eat a pint of ice cream and bag of chips.

I don't even encourage her anymore because the reward eating more than counteracts any benefit.

>>41048653
good post anon. i was dating a chick for 2 years and she always was more on the light side. we ended breaking up because i was an asshole and i was devasted for days, until i remember how bad of a diet and sleep cycles she had and how enormous her parents where. it sure helped to forget her

She runs long distance, would probably benefit from calisthenics tbqh, no ass and tiny arms (can very almost reach around her bicep with thumb and index finger)

She a qt though

>>41046251
She likes eating tasty stuff. She's reasonably fit though, just not very lean

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>>41046251
Because I plan on trading her in for this other girl I've been talking to.

Do you install new shocks on a car you plan on trading in?

>>41047594
that looks like my ex gf but plus 50lbs

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>>41048339
haha kek

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>>41046251

>>41046284

>>41046284

Because his mom fed him twinkies and chicken fried steak, and he started dropping the weight in HS once he finally had more control over his diet. He's not fat anymore, but he is definitely skinnyfat. Now that he's in college and can actually have almost total control over what goes in his body he's been able to eat better. I offer to take him to the gym but he doesn't sound interested and I'm not going to force something upon him that he doesn't like.

>>41048081
>My friends joke that Idiocracy is a documentary about modern day America
Congratulations, you made the joke that every fucking middle schooler in the country has posted on twitter. Your sense of superiority is unfounded, Eurotrash.

>>41046251
I'm a small girl and fairly active, I enjoy taking care of myself. Not the best looking, probably a 6.5, but my fiance has gained 70 pounds in a year. He's all gut. I bought him a gym membership and he never even goes. He sits on the couch and eats cookies and chips all day. I hate this.

>>41046251
>that happy trail on a woman

lol niggers, looks like the seam on my ballsack and just as attractive

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>>41046251
>gf
mfw

>>41053230
I'll treat you right bby

>>41046251
She is though.

She is also super saiyan lvl 9000 and can raise the dead with just a word.

God damn imaginary gf so hot!

>>41046284

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>>41046284
delet

>>41046251
she's pregnant and she's my wife. we still go to the gym but all she does now is the row machine for 30 minutes and then some light free weights.

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>>41046296
Fucking this
>Have to manually coax her to come to the gym every week
>Immediately eats junk food afterwards

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>>41046284
fuck off

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>>41046251
>

>>41054444
How do you manually coax someone?

>>41054689
well do you have an automatic coaxing machine?

But my left hand is pretty fit, anon.

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>tfw i met someone perfect but i was too autistic to open up and talk and now i wont ever see her again
ive ruined my chances and she seemed interested in me

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>>41046284

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>>41046251

My wife is and we train together.

>>41046284

>tfw 27
>never had a gf
>still /fit/ tho

I get attention from women but I have no idea how to deal with it and I think I may actually be autistic.

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My gf is though...

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>>41046284
T-T

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>>41054786


Welcome to hell.

>>41046251
>ho needa put sum lershun on dem knees

>>41046517
fuck brah thats nice

Because I haven't put in the effort to find one that isn't lazy

>>41048242
Low quality bait

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>>41055014
That's sweet.

>>41055045
u lucky

i broke up with my gf because she wasn't spending enough time with me

i havent had sex (with her) in like a month

she was prolly cheating on me

are we just going to forget that OP pic is a nigger?

wow, 4chan has changed... fucking radical leftist have completely ruined you

fuck single mothers

>>41055898
....
The fuck is with you people today? It's been shitty political and racist hot topic bullshit all day.
The fuck are you selling?

Bc my gf is lazy and has zero interest or ambition for anything. I mean she's barely even a person at this point. She comes home from work and plants her ass on the couch to watch tv and eat ice cream and chips and shit. She went to the gym for about a month but dropped that. She went for a jog with me once, but started complaining after like ten minutes and went back home.
The worst part is the complaining, she whines about not being happy with herself and being lazy and shit but shes not willing to put in any effort to make a change. Its fucking infuriating to listen to.
Also the justifications for eating crap are disgusting, "I had a hard day at work so I bought two bags of chips and a box of chocolate to relax", "I'm just trying this recipe I found online" *its candy and ice cream mixed in a blender*, etc.
She isnt fat yet, but I'm pretty sure she will be soon. I'm an ex-fatty who got fit so its hard to watch that shit.

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>>41055898
you realize pol was the containment board for people like you who have shit views. the reason you come to places like 4chan is for the fact that you can't share your view in public for fear of being shamed because they are terribly out dated and unfounded racist ideologies. Do your family line a favor and chop off your balls.

>>41046776
fasting doesn't get that same hormone boost and fatburning effect on women as it does on men. There's been some few studies on it along with various comments from female athletes saying there wasn't a change.

And I'm a girl and tried a couple IF routines and didn't notice any difference than regular calorie cut in diet.

Which is a damn shame cause I like IF so I still kinda do it but it does fuck up my shit if I'm not careful.

>>41046251
she's ripped you pudgy faggot

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>>41046251
I'm the gf (he posts here)
>taught me to lift last year
>lift together now

Used to be thicker but with no ass thinking of winter Bulking but I like abs..bulk for slender curves?

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>>41046251
She decently is. Getting better everyday. Lots of climbing, yoga and we're both pretty into hiking and mountain biking. Btw having a gf that can cook healthily and deliciously is the ultimate way to make gainz

>>41055975
You should look up lyle mcdonalds talks on women and weight loss. You can find a couple of podcasts where he talks about it on youtube.
It's really good.

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>>41046284

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>>41046284
delet dis

She was legit anorexic and barely skirted a visit to the psych ward as a teen. As an adult she's gotten overweight and would like to support herself out but she's afraid she'll go way overboard again. I wanna help her, but I don't know how to help her walk that line.

She's also got some hangups over the fact that she isn't near as athletic as she was when she was a teen so she's got some shame issues tied up in the prospect of sucking at the gym.

Any bros got some advice you can throw my way?

>>41056498

sort herself out**

>>41046309
kekd irl thx

>>41046517
would gently make love to if you allowed

>>41046251
>black people's hairlines and knees

gross

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>>41046251
how can our gfs be /fit/ if our gfs aren't real

>>41056498
Make her lift.

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>>41046284
she does in my heart, fucking normie

>>41047725
Overeating is a legit thing when stressed. When my grandparents died my mom ate more and gained 10lbs because she was stressed and upset with dealing with all the paper work and feeling alone and abandoned. Food releases endorphins so it makes you feel better. Lot of those fat people on 600 lb life were molested as kids and the food felt good as they ate. So food becomes a coping mechanism like a drug but its different for everyone. Granted food coping is probably a western thing as we have enough money and food to do it.

>>41055999
You look great. You can't go wrong either way. I mean, you have a lot of room to increase your body fat and still look great.

>>41046284
DELETE THIS

>>41054689
with your hands

>>41046251
why isn't your gf a bro from the 'ch0n?

>>41055898
>I'm on /fit/ because I've already looked throigh/pol/, /b/, and /v/ catalogs

>>41056498
Tell her to stop thinking everyone cares about what you're doing, you are not that interesting.

>>41058921
this.

>>41055898
fuck off back to where you came from

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>>41046284
this

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>>41046251
Because girls have 5 - 10% of the testosterone that men naturally produce. It's hard for them to build muscle.

>>41059075
delete this

>>41056285
Sounds like you're living the dream, congrats man.
That said that route looks easy as shit, get her going on some V6's asap.

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>>41046284

>>41055999
>That physique
>On a woman
>1 year

Doubt. But if true great job, that's a near-perfect athletic body for a woman imo

>>41046251
Because I don't want to bring gf to gym. She will want to be "the couple at the gym"
She does want to go with me, every girl I've dated has wanted to go with me, I just hate the idea of it. If she wants to get in shape and try to lift heavy things, that's fine and I'll help her reach her goals, I just don't want to have to try to be cute or anything about it. I go to the gym to lift, shower and leave.

>>41048146
If you wanna come I can eyeball you at the gym

Or something like that

Saying you have to or won't have to has some weird implications, but I don't think most people think about words like that enough

>>41059383
Or just ask her if she wants to come, which is a pretty direct straightforward and honest way to ask without waiting on her to say some line like that

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>>41046251
Choices.

>work a physical job at a warehouse few days a week
>decent pay
>gf on neetbucks
>stays home but does all the shopping, housekeeping, bills etc.
>independent, prefers to be alone at her computer
>proper meal waiting when I get back from work
>she's a great cook
>she doesn't drink but buys me beer every friday
>gives massages after a hard day
>amazing sex
>doesn't want children to fuck the system up
>tfw dating a mom that isn't a mom and who I can dick

Don't give a shit if she's not fit so long as she doesn't go full lardass.

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she's /feminine/

>>41046517
>fit
What?

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She is by my standards, and loves going to the gym with me

>>41053230
tell him to get /fit/ or cease putting out

>>41053230
what flavor cookies and chippies?

>>41056285

That pyramid has an ear!

>>41047652
Start flirting with thinner girls to encourage her competitive spirit.

She's undergoing chemo and is too sick to eat

>>41059530
She does nothing man, the least she can do is the housework and sucking your dick.

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>>41046251
but she is....

>>41046517
I'm jelly/10

Good speed you lucky bastard

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>>41046284

>>41047804
Don't generalise this to all women, it only took me a week to decide I was going to lose weight and two years to see full results.

Also, don't allow yourself to think women have any less capability in controlling their fucking intake of food, women that are like what you're saying that need someone to be patience and persistent for years to get them to lose weight are fucking weak willed and pathetic. If you're doing well for yourself, find yourself someone better who can independently choose to be healthy in a relationship with you where you're also making the same choice.

>>41047652
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JUo42zx2PIQ

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>not training you kid to be fit in the womb

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>>41061506

*clenching legs together*

because neither am I

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no gf

>>41046251
>imying I have a gf

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Because I fucked up, cheated on her, emotionally abused her and now she quit her studies.

>>41046251
She's disabled

>>41059530
Fuck man, where do you find girls like these?

>>41047221
Riding that same roller-coaster of emotions in the same boat on the sea of feels bro.

We're gonna make it.

>>41046251
Because getting a gf has nothing to do with either of you being fit. Exercising is simply good for your mental health as well.

>>41046251
Because she no longer cares what i think of her, at least sexually

Should've jumped ship a long time ago. Now i feel stuck.

>>41046251

My wife has run 19:09 for a 5k and 3:23:01 for a marathon. Is there anyone on /fit/ right now other than me who is faster than my wife?

>>41046517

Good job making it bro.

>>41046517
>literally no ass, no thighs, chub on the stomach

LOL, where's the fit portion?

>>41047594

Good lord, what a waste of a face, hair, tits, and willingness to wear truly skimpy bikini tops.

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>>41046251
but she is

>>41053230

Dump him, convince him, or quit complaining.

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>>41046284

>>41055999

Nice trips, and nice work. Do a winter bulk. Take fenugreek to make sure the fat goes where it belongs. Thank me later.

>>41048156
>Philosophy degree
I thought it was difficult to get one? You write like a retard dude.

>>41046510
Underrated kek

>>41062667
this might as well be trap

>>41063915
>tfw no trap gf to pound into the mattress every night
>tfw no trap gf to get dicked by as he attempts to pound you into the mattress, but can't due to your superior muscle mass
>tfw you will never be the smaller spoon as compensation

>date shy nerdy neet gf
>she was bullied pretty badly as a kid
>grew up in an abusive single-parent home
>she's afraid to go outside most of the time
>overweight, depressed, clingy, suicidal
>does nothing except play vidya and watch anime
>few years later
>she starts getting sick of her useless self
>tells me that I've been sticking with her way too long and that I deserve better
>asks me to leave her
>I stay because of autism, and because she's the closest I've ever been with anyone
>she's happy and grateful
>is tired of being a massive pussy and wants to become strong enough to support us
>starts doing housework and learning different skills, urges me to pursue my interests
>helps me get accepted into a university, follows the year after
>sucks me off every day
>tries to overcome her fear of people, has managed to get a few uni buddies
>starts going to the gym, gets me to come with her
>has been applying for jobs
>still shy and nerdy, but way more brave, determined, emotionally stable, expressive, and supportive with 80% less whining

It's been two years since then. She's mostly focused on cardio so far, but started moving on to lifting recently. Though she has become stronger, lost weight and built some stamina, she's still in no way fit. I'm still proud of the changes she's made so far and glad I stayed with her. My only regret is that I was too much of an autistic sperg to push her into changing years ago. I still am, and now I'm afraid I won't be able to keep up and she ends up leaving me.

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>>41062648
>>41059591
>>41046570

All that hate, you all sound like fucking miserable cunts

>>41059320
Yeah last Feb, been doing some aerials, acrobatics and contortion for a while but never picked up weights before.
>6 day bro split

>>41062691
is this in regards to breast enlargement? is this even proven?