/Eternal No Gf/ Feels

how did you get black

how do i care about my grades and college im having a hard time giving a fuck

Get a high paying job and social skills and stop worrying about fitness. Also literally no one cares about your gpa

>>41007434
Easy way?
Up your looks, lower your standards, always hint that you're settling for her or are always looking for a better deal.

That should be a good starter relationship. It will not last very long, I think. But it will help you get used to them.

>>41007457

>stop worrying about fitness

gains goblin pls go

>>41007434
>black
>what the fuck went so horribly wrong

>>41007434
Go for a black chick? I've never heard of any white girl that wants a nerd black boyfriend

>>41007434
>manlet
>acceptable
This is where you fucked up

Reddit

>>41007496

I have. Black chicks hate nerdy black guys even more than white chicks

Should I start acting ghetto? Where do I learn this behavior

>>41007523
Don't.

>>41007523
just go to the hood and ask the meanest looking black you can find where da trap at

>>41007523
Don't sell out. You're struggling the same as other people are man. It happens. Use tinder and bumble if you aren't already.

>>41007523
yes start acting ghetto

>>41007434
can't help but feel like you're lying if you're black and never had a gf

Stop basing your life around having a gf faggot

>>41007434
don't you dare start acting ghetto. ghetto culture encourages tall poppy syndrome and is uncivilised as fuck.

Really can't understand how you guys don't get a gf. A friend of mine is
>a total manlet (sub 175cm)
>fatty (+75kg)
>has glasses so thick it makes his eyes comically oversized
>balding
>has no hobbies, he just studies and isn't even good at that (failed two years)
>really awkward as fuck, his father was and is still overprotective he has next to no experience with the real world (doesn't know how to cook rice for example, doesn't drive and never takes any initiative)
>He's poor
Yet he still managed to have 3 girlfriends
You guys are incredible

>>41008381
>Yet he still managed to have 3 girlfriends

Were his girlfriends as much as a failure in life as he was?

I sure as heck wouldn't date any of the girls who are still in my hometown years after finishing high school.

All the girls I want to be with are 40+ years old.

>>41007434
None of those things require any social interaction op.

2 most important things for making friends and finding a gf.
Good Hygiene
Social Interaction

>>41007434
I feel kinda bad for black guys in your situation

The (((media))) constantly pushes the idea of the alpha black dude. Getting all the white women and generally being the most masculine and desirable man.
Every (((movie, music video and TV show))) has a black man who cucks everyone else. This creates such an unrealistic expectation for blacks to live up to as real life dating data shows over and over that both black men and women are considered the least desirable partners amongst every other race.

>>41008607
They all had their problems but 2 of them have perfectly normal lives now

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>>41007434
>/Eternal No Gf/ Feels
>>>/sp/

>>41007523
Go to black church

>>41007434
nigger. stop posting on our board.

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>>41007523
You're a bit of an idiot if your first idea is to imitate the surface level mannerisms of people you share virtually nothing in common with.

>>41008734
blacks arent alpha, its only as you said (((media))) pushed agenda. Blacks test is pretty much the same as white test, however blacks show higher concentrations of ESTRADIOL. https://academic.oup.com/jcem/article-lookup/doi/10.1210/jc.2007-0028

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>have huge oneitis for this girl in high school
>never talked to her because she was in the year below me, I only ever saw her in the hallways and such
>literally crush on her for 2 years without ever meeting her
>go off to uni
>break out of my shell, get tons of success with women, basically became a completely different person
>forget all about her
>be back in my old city for spring break this week
>be at a party last night
>she was there too, apparently we have a couple mutual friends
>anyways, being a different person now than I was I start talking to her easily
>we actually hit it off pretty good
>all those old oneitis feelings resurface
>am back to crushing so hard
>after talking to her for like 5 minutes this guy comes up
>it's her boyfriend
>he's not even that good looking, i.e. I would easily had a chance
>see kiss and all that several times during the night
>that fucking feeling when she looks genuinely happy as she leaves with him

fucking god damn it

>>41010052
*see them kiss etc.

>>41007434

black CS major with good gpa? fuck man pretty sure you can get a great fucking job because all the tech companies want to hire the BLACKS because DIVERSITY

so they can put you on their pamphlets n shit

embrace it

Is your name CreamSoda by any chance?

How do you look.
I'm also in CS and the few black guys here look pretty nerdy. Cornrows, glasses, into anime and stuff. well even the white kids are into anime and computer games so it's not that weird

>>41007434
>black
>manlet
this went wrong.

>>41007434
Best suicide method is sodium pentobarbital - AKA Nembutal. Google it. It's the gold standard. 100% success rate, pain-free, instantaneous results and easy to use. Just swallow 4 ounces and then you're asleep forever. I have some for when I'm ready to go.

>>41007523
>Should I start acting ghetto? Where do I learn this behavior

Oh God please no.

My black friend is older and he married a white rich VP for a national bank, and she's hot. And he's a black, middle class real estate broker who's 5'8 and skinny. His secret? He's one confident but easy going guy who knows how to listen - I mean really listen - to his girl. And not just her words buy her body language. And he anticipates her needs and surprises her by filling them proactively. In short, just genuinely CARE.

>>41010182

YOU try to scrape by on tinder SKANKS with your FACE HEIGHT and FRAME while JAMAL gets a LOVING LIFELONG RELATIONSHIP by LISTENING CARING and TAKING IT EASY

>>41007434
FORGET WOMEN, PURSUE SCIENCE

>>41007434
>Social skills

>>41007523
Please don't do that. Find an Asian woman or something. They love intelligence and diligence.

>>41010246
>LISTENING CARING and TAKING IT EASY

I'm telling you, man, women are starved of these things.

>>41010324
>Asian woman wanting a black man

He'd have better luck trying to marry a Klanswoman

>>41007434
having a girlfriend is not all its made out to be.
look at this.
I have to throw these pillows on the ground when I sleep.

that's what having a gf will get you

>5'6''
>Only average dick
>Average face
I've had 2 gfs that lasted for over an year, only lifted casually back then

>Decided to focus more on fitness
>Get fit by normie standards
>Sex with 6 different girls in the past year
>Never used tinder

It all comes down to social skills, don't let /fit/ get you down for not winning the genetic lottery.
Your aesthetics are nothing if you have bad social skills and spill your spaghetti. Especially if you're looking for a longer term girlfriend and not just sex.

>>41010329
I did all of that and got cheated on (I wasn't a doormat).
The ones you described are rare.

>>41010182
Seems like a lot of work if you don't get the same amount of effort back from her

>>41007434

>girls were super into me up until around high school
>it was all downhill from there

Hope i'm not intruding here, this is probably my first post on 4chan in nearly a year (i've been on the site constantly since just before the boxxy shit and anontalk spam).

>be fat all my life
>the class joker, everyone likes me but no one really connects with me
>get along with everyone, never been bullied and do well at school without even trying
>video games, anime, shows, movies, i was into everything
>start lifting, make good strength gains but still fat as fuck
>nearing the end of uni

That's when my shit got fucked.


>depressed
>grades in the shitter
>barely come in, always asleep and never studying
>have mental breakdown when the deadline for my thesis is 8 days away and i've not started it
>become genuinely angry at myself
>obtained some modafinil
>used it to scrape the thesis through with a pass
>immediately started cutting out all the shit in my diet
>spent less time playing games and consuming media in general
>always walking through nature while trying to find a job
>start seeing results after a good 2-3 months
>years of low self-esteem and a shattered confidence made me blind to most gains but a good group of friends always made sure to remind me
>fast forward a year into the cut and around 25kg down

>feel like a god because IF gives me immense energy and fat loss
>feel genuinely good about everything
>a fucking girl asked me out for the first time in my life
>things didn't work out, had to leave her but i stuck with my cut and a renewed gym ethic
>not even a month later, another fucking qt gets onto me


And i'm not even at my target weight yet. All i'm just saying is it's fine to ironically wallow in self-pity but don't meme yourself out of the game before you've had the chance to play it properly. I lost all fear of death when i thought about suicide but I'm glad i didn't kill myself (just yet).

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>>41010052
This is the worst kind of feel. The feeling of missed oppurtunity to be happy, is there even recovery from this kind of feeling?

>>41011567
I don't know anon. I don't know. I just use it as motivation for never letting any opportunities slide by me ever again.

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>>41007434
Ignore the trolls OP I'm here to help you.

>>41010324
>find a woman from a race that worships white skin
good idea lel

>>41007442
Pay for it yourself. You'll start caring real quick when you're working 2 minimum wage jobs not be have to drop out.

>>41009955

Not black but is it really that different from all the autists that try and emulate actors like Ryan Gosling?

>>41012289
Nope. That's retarded as well.

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>>41010246

Kek I'm stealing this

>>41007523
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HzVsefpZBtw

>>41007434
Honestly man, It's better to never have a gf, because after breaking up you're gonna feel even more shittier than now.

It is very nice to have someone to talk to but ending a relationship is hell, especially if you have no friends.

whats your tinder profile look like?

you should at least be able to get some girls from tinder! you can take your time and craft a really good text message. so if you are using tinder and its not working, then change it up. tell us what your doing.

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>Get qt 3,14 onetis gf
>Everything iss going great, couldn't find a better girl in the world
>Wanna bang sloots
Should I just cheat brehs?

>>41007434
lower your standards bro, you gotta go for chicks you think are ugly

that's what the guy told me in the other thread anyway

>acceptable
>manlet

WHEN WILL THEY LEARN

>>41010155
Underrated, thanks famalam gonna get some but honestly i want to do it when my parents are dead i dont want to make them feel so bad because of me that would be cruel by me.

>>41007523
I wouldnt go full ghetto, just aim for a little more thug my n-word

I wont take amything less than barbara palvin tier for my first gf.

> tfw khv virgin how do I slay fuck my life im so lonely

>>41007434
Nobody cares about gpa, it'd probably be easiest to date a black girl or fat white woman

>>41007434
Go to sweden for a week long vacation.

>>41010052
this is too real

Cx this meme is good

>mfw 6'2"
>8 inch wang
>Near perfect genetics and body proportions
>Lean and fit my whole life no matter what I eat
>Engineering major

None of this shit matters if you are a homicidal maniac autist that ignores and pushes away ever girl that ever talks to him. I can't really be making excuses or be complaining about women because when they approach me I DONT TALK AND LOOK AWAY then they say "Okay wow" or "Wow asshole" and walk away. HELP ME PLEASE I AM SO FUCKING AUTISTIC BUT COULD HAVE SO MUCH GAME IF I WASN'T EMOTIONALLY SCARRED FROM MY EXTREMELY ROUGH CHILDHOOD.

>>41011892

thanks :)

>>41007434
I don't understand the point of a realtionship or how to get one?

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>>41015998
>homicidal maniac

>>41010503
John?

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>21
>CS major

Get a job retard. It should be easy as fuark. I'm you but a year ahead and white. Once you are rolling in EZ cs money, bitches will flock to you.

>>41017046
Fuck off Greg

>>41007523
>white chicks hating nerdy black guys
I am black too OP and recently just met a girl a few months ago who was specifically into nerdy muscular black dudes. Tbh I didn't believe it at first either but they're out there. Don't bill yourself on nerdom alone though, be an all around cool dude who happens to have nerdy interests.

>>41017107
Not Greg. Soz bro

>>41007523
>niggers are this pathetic
>le BBC meme

>>41017069
WHY WOULD YOU WANT THIS
>fake rape claims
>gold-digging
>cheating on you because you're a beta
>being swarmed by single mothers and raising some deadbeat's child while he's out making more
y'all motherfuckers need to be redpilled. it will not work out for you for long

>>41007434
I didn't even get laid until was 25. We're all gonna make it, brah.

>>41007434
>tfw used to feel like this until found traps and now can't stop busting nuts in tight boipucci

help

>5'5"
>Pencil dick
>average face
>skinnyfat gyno, acne ridden wristlet

Still have fucked three girls and taken my current 5'9 gfs virginity within a year of being on /fit/. Despite lackluster results currently from improper diet and sleep patterns, /fit/ has been nothing but good.

I did it by forcing my autismal energy into sheer confidence, or at least thats how it is percieved.

just take some white girls to see get out. or see if they already have. theyll want to fuck you then

>>41009840
Could I get a quick rundown on her?

>>41010182
JUST BE YOURSELVE

LOL this is basically the same shit

>>41010401
fuck you iam good looking but im a shut in autiste so no gf despite looking atleast decent

>>41007523
>Should I start acting ghetto? Where do I learn this behavior
Absolutely. Here's a short list:
>join a gang
>ditch the white-man speak. Start speaking ebonics.
>constantly remind everyone that u wuz kangs in Africa
>wear nigger clothes (Nike Airs is a must)
>buy a Hi-Point C9
>make a mix tape. Your occupation is an aspiring rapper now.
>blame whitey x5
>join BLM on the weekends (or weekdays since you've quit your job by now)
>blast "fuck da police" from your boombox 24/7
>if the wite wimmins won't take your BBC, remind them that they're racist and you need dem reparation fo dat slavery
>get shot x5
>deal drugs
>become a felon (resisting arrest is a must because fuck da police)

Tomorow I'll be going one last time to an university class because I will be done with my degree
I should be happy that it's over but I'm feeling like shit and I don't understand why

>>41017666
also I have no job lined up, no gf and no real occupation except sports and playing video games

>>41017673
DUDE i'm in the exact position as you and feel the same way. For me I think it's because I have no real direction right now and I can't just say "I'm in school whatever"

Things should work out... r-right?

>>41012368
>wus up vanilla face

DEAD.

>>41017701
I dont know man I'm still trying to figure out where those 3 years have gone
I can see myself walking to my first uni class like it was yesterday and tomorow Ill be done forever

> I think it's because I have no real direction right now and I can't just say "I'm in school whatever"

this is exactly how im feeling too, the fact that I had something to work on (my degree) gave me a false sense of having a goal in life, but now that im graduating Im feeling more lost than ever before

>>41007434
GPA?

lol not even companies care about GPA.

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>out with girl I used to go to school with
>I see her once every few months
>contact gets stuck in her eye
>she's tearing up as it's scratching her eye
>help to get it out
>hands on her face
>just staring into her eyes
>see an endless void
>eventually get torn contact out
>feel nothing

I hate myself.

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>>41010503
quality post

>>41008798
>now
So they were shit at the time.

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>>41007434
can someone please help me out.

I'm wondering how to deal with a girl that really really wants a bf and wants your cock.

How do you turn them into FWB? Because i can't stand having gf's i'm way too busy for that shit. I don't even like texting more than a few texts a day.

if someone solves this issue for me ill post the first nudes i get in the next feels thread

>>41007434
Maybe if you stop thinking of yourself as so isolated and inferior girls would be more attractes to you. If you reek of desparation or inferiority it will not help you.

>>41007434
Anon, if you have autism this won't be as easy as you think.