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> do you guys think bullying motivates people?

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> do you guys think bullying motivates people?
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>>40908874
it motivates the people worth motivating
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>>40908874
No, it makes you feel like shit, the last thing you want to do is go to the gym when you feel like the biggest loser in the world, self motivation is the only way
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>>40908874
It motivated me
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>>40908924
Woman/pussy detected
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Not from strangers

But yeah from friends
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>>40908874
It does sometimes but mostly it makes you look like an insecure jackass.
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>>40908999
Trips of truth
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Depends to what level the bullying is.

Dome gentle ribbing may not have a motivational effect on some but does on others. Likewise a complete character assassination may not motivate some but will others.
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>>40908874

I assume we're specifically talking about bullying fat people here.

The reality is: Fat people are a burden on society. They eat too much food while others starve. They raise healthcare costs for all of us. And they are a liability in any situation that might require any sort of physical fitness.

So, ultimately, hopefully, bullying them will accomplish one of two things: Either they will kill themselves, or they will take responsibility and improve themselves. It's important to note that EITHER of these outcomes is an improvement for society as a whole.
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Seen it in the army, you think it wont work but it does.
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>>40908874
It motivates the people who really want to change for the best. The ones that get triggered and act like pussies about it are worthless bags of flesh that society is better off without anyways.
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>>40908874
Bullying motivates conformity, whether good or bad. Nothing more.
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>>40909053
if you think a drill is bullying you are severly mentally handicapped.
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>>40909051
>They eat too much food while others starve
yeah better kill athletes too, they eat way more than an average citizen, better kill them athletes.
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Depends on the tone of the bullying and the personality of the recipient. There's a right way and a wrong way to do it.
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what's with normies fucking up greentext every single time nowadays
did you jump here one week ago straight from facebook or what
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>>40909075
If you think there is no bullying in the army you are severely mentally handicapped
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>>40908874
Bullying in middle school and high school sent me spiraling into a bout of depression. Helped me find lifting as an outlet so I guess yeah.
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>>40909118
Im here <spoilers> uncovering the fit alt right's secrets for the #swole #left #imwithher </spoileralert>
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>>40908874
its motivates people to shoot up a school yea
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>>40909105
When I got bullied in school it was just aimless cruelty and it made me ducking hate myself and the world. When I got bullied in the military it was (mostly) with some sort of purpose beyond amusing the people doing it and they knew when to let off, eventually it helped shape me in a much more productive way
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>>40909168
I found in the military, those who got bullied were those who shit on everyone else. Either through their laziness, their hygiene or generally fucking people over. These kinds of people need to be sorted out and sorted out fast.
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>>40909168
I dont get how people can be bullied and not start lifting weights with the intention of eventually beating the shit out of the bully
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>>40908924
Hate is the best motivation
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Motivated people to want to fucking kill you
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>>40908874
yeah man, if you care about what bullies are telling you is wrong with you then change

if you don't care then you're either a disgusting person or nothing is really wrong with you.
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>>40909133
>>40909075
We all are severely mentally handicapped, anons, all of us
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The studies and research show in 100% doesn't other than a less than marginal exception or two

Being a dick is just being a dick
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>>40909051
Athletes also live a LOT longer than fat people. That gives them time to develop a host of health problems ( like cancer ) that come from just aging, also adding to the healthcare burden.
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>>40909096
Athletes eat enough food, to support their calorie needs. fatties eat way over their calorific needs.
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>>40909403
athletes are more productive and generate more revenue to support their eventual health problems

fat faggots get on welfare and die in hospitals being given "free" room and board.
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>>40909301
This
I started lifting to prove a point. Now that the point is proven I carry on lifting to beat the dead horse
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>>40909051
>The reality is: Fat people are a burden on society.
I always see this ridiculous logic on /fit/

Everyone is a strain on society, that's what society is. Every time you eat food or drink water or take a shit or use electricity you're being a drain on society- we've just established that some things are worth communally dealing with and organising and paying for because we're not cavemen

I don't like fat people as much as the next guy but I'm not going to pretend they're somehow worse than me because they spend more on food
Even the argument that they're a drain on healthcare is retarded because it's accusing the symptom rather than the cause

Fatty logic is as retarded as fitty logic
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>>40908874
I pretty much bullied myself to gym.
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There is absolutely no scientific base for bullying working in the sense of making you develop a healthy self-esteem.

Keep telling yourself that bullying works since it got you to lose weight while you post here about your bicep insecurities, balding and lack of friends.
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Bullying with the excuse that "it's good for them" is just a transparent way of rationalising your own asshole behaviour.
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>>40909431
>athletes are more productive
>Running around a piece of grass is more productive than eating a pie
>Costing the health service more than fat people is fine if you're making money running faster than Kenyans

Top yourself with this nonsense

>fat faggots get on welfare and die in hospitals being given "free" room and board.
Also learn what tax is and stop being 12
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>>40908950
Mate I grew up being bullied, real bullying, like having people show up to your house with guns trying to get you to come outside so they can kill you, I don't need some spoiled ass kid telling me about bullying
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>>40909453
>being human means you will eat an excess of food and become fat
>straining the ecosystem even more than you would have if you had eaten a normal amount
>people not on welfare who contribute to society and don't need excess amounts of help and health care are burdens on society

women blacks and fat people are all burdens on society.

chinks, whites, and non-fat men every other color are in general pretty supportive of society
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>>40909431

Athletes get around, wear and tear a lot more products on and around them.

Fat people sit around fused to their mother's couch and just consume the waste that's created as a by-product from making real food.
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>>40909490
>no i didn't mean tax or healthcare guys honestly i meant the ecosystem and welfare

Also welfare comes from tax.

You're painfully retarded. They say all prejudice is a symptom of ignorance, I never believed it but you're illustrating that really well.
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>>40909514
in a capitalist society as long as you're supporting yourself you're being a supporter of society.
fats don't, With our welfare and health systems, they take out more money than they put in and are therefore burdens on society.
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>>40909514
>>40909535
>bullying thread turns into discussion of the relationship between obesity, capitalism, and society
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>>40909482
I believe that is called a criminal offense, not bullying
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>>40909482
thats not bullying its attempted murder
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>>40909051
Edgy
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>>40909553
it's fine to bully things that are destructive in/to society.
like everyone becoming a blob or acting like a nigger and lighting shit on fire,
constructive things like learning have no place being bullied.
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>>40909535
>in a capitalist society as long as you're supporting yourself you're being a supporter of society.
That's the opposite of being a benefit to a capitalist society

Please stop being 12 on an imageboard, you're making people dumber for having to respond to you

>fats don't, With our welfare and health systems, they take out more money than they put in and are therefore burdens on society.
Going from your nonsense logic fatties actually spend more AND indirectly pay more tax and therefore are better for capitalism

Be less dumb
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>>40909582
Supporting bullying in any form is in itself destructive to society.

So kill yourself.
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>>40908924
Look up mike tyson on bullying
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>>40908874
There's a difference between aggressive motivation and bullying. For one, the former is actually trying to help you.
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>>40909051
>I'm 13 and have no idea how the world works: the post
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>>40909595
>receiving tax money in the form of a welfare check and socialist health care bills means you are actually paying more money
m8 you're fucking stupid.

>>40909608
>Supporting bullying in any form is in itself destructive to society.
that's not true, if people were bullied for rioting and shit less people would riot.
If everyone was bullied for being a disgusting fat piece of shit and allowed no excuse to be fat besides laziness then people would be thin.

social ostracization is crazy powerful.
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>>40909553
you're thinking of a socialist society m8, in a full on capitalist society the government is completely lassaiz faire from the actions of the market. did you even take economics 101bro?
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>>40909644
>that's not true, if people were bullied for rioting and shit less people would riot.
>If people were made unhappier they'd riot less.
>Riots are only done by happy people.

Jesus fucking christ.
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>>40909595
You're fucking stupid guy
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>>40909689
>unhappy people are only capable of rioting instead of changing themselves to be better and happier
you're not understanding,
you'd shame them for acting like fucking retards and not getting their life together.
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>>40909644
That's not what I was referring to. Make up your mind on which thing you want to be wrong about or stop changing your argument

Fat people pay more in tax because they eat more according to your nonsense logic in your last post.

You're literally acting like a 12 year old with no idea what you're talking about and everyone is laughing at you
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>>40909482
Uhhh... that's not bullying man. You from South Africa or somewhere in the Middle East?
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>>40909713
food isn't taxed you fucking retard
and if they're on welfare they're paying for it with food stamps
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>>40908874
It always depends who it is coming from and why they are doing it. A person in a place of power that you respect "bullying" you, usually doesn't come off as bullying. It comes off as advice. Think drill instructors, mentors, professors, parents, etc. If the respect only goes one way this dynamic changes but "bullying" can still be advice.

When I say advice I mean a third party observer would say it is bullying but neither the person acting or being acted upon perceive it as such.

If it's 2 random people it serves no purpose on other than the person acting showing everyone they are not functionally a part of society. They are probably mentally ill or severely mentally handicapped.

So you can "bully" someone into change as long as you have a pre-existing relationship and understand boundaries.

As far as to how the person being acted upon takes it that is a lot more complicated because it's essentially a case to base basis. Some react to that sort of stimuli well by confronting it. The average person will likely be turned off completely, however, in which case bullying actually does more harm than good in getting that person to achieve the intended goal.
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>>40909724
> Food isn't taxed.
> All world is MURRICA
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>>40909735
>implying any other shithole matters
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>>40909724
Prepared food is taxed in certain states you fucking retard
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>>40909724
>food isn't taxed you fucking retard

r u srs?
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>>40909710
And do you think that would actually achieve your intended goal? How delusional are you? That has literally never worked in the entirety of human history.
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>>40909760
that doesn't stop these fat fucks from buying 30 2liters of soda in one trip to the supermarket.

>>40909781
It worked back when america wasn't a nigger hole.
the social view was based around religion which is essentially bullying retards into acting like civilized people.
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>>40909803
This guy has to be a /pol/ troll. I'm fine with seeing the usual bro-science of /fit/ but this reaches a whole new level of stupid.
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>>40909803
Do you really think there were either less, or no, problems back then? Have you ever opened a history book? How delusional are you that you think it actually worked?
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>>40909710
There's a bunch of guys here shaming you for being a fucking retard and instead of reflecting on it, you just double down.

If it doesn't work on you, why would it work on others?
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>>40908903
Underrated
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ITT
>Respectable people telling others to be responsible for their actions and saying they deserve it if they fuck up
>Niggers
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>>40908874
Yes.
>be bullied
>snapped and rekt bully
>his bully buddies didn't even rescue him
>became unbullied
>became bros with bully and co.
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>>40909595
>guy makes a point about capitalism
>call him 12 and present no counter argument
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I don't think you really have it in you to do anything if you're discouraged by words.

If it makes you sad or it pisses you off, do something about it. /fit/ motivated me, and I didn't want to be a fat fuck when I got older.
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Three kinds of people in the world

Dicks, pussies, and assholes

Pussies tend not to like dicks because they're often too rough, but at the same time a pussy needs dick

Because only a dick can fuck an asshole

And assholes would shit all over everyone if they could get away with it
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>>40908874
It can motivate some people. There are better ways to motivate people anyway, and bullying is never the first option.
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>>40909835
5 US riots in 1940s
0 US riots in 1950s
27 US riots in 1960s
10 US riots in 1970s
9 US riots in 1980s
10 US riots in 1990s
9 Riots in 2000s
13 US riots in the 201xs so far

for some reason yeah, the 1940s and 1950s were more peaceful.
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>>40910018
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_riots#1940s
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>>40910018
>>40910028
my bad, there was one riot during the 1950s
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>>40908924
I hated myself when i got up to 250 lbs. FPH threads were more motivation to do something about it. If you think you can love your body as you mutilate it, keep living in your delusional PC world.
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>>40910135
good on you m8
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I had a dream that I was getting bullied last night. I ended up strangling the bully to death, so I don't think it would've been good for me to get bullied growing up. Granted, this kind of shit is probably why I never did.
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>>40910135
The whole reason I haven't bloated into obeast territory is because FPH; currently can't go to the gym and not watching what I eat but having that mental coach in the back of my mind saying "don't eat that you fat shit" motivates me to not eat as much
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>>40908874
I was bullied until about highschool. Like pretty much the school freak, everyone hated me, kids would call me a loser and a fatass evertime they saw me and eventually would make things up to get me in trouble

Bullying fucked up my self esteem for a long time, to this day I get anxious around groups of guys. But truth be told, I was weird and out of place, and my hygiene was nonexistent. When it came time for middle school I refused to live that life anymore. I got my hygiene together and started forcing myself to talk to people.

And one day some kid was calling me a fat loser and saying I suck dick in the bathrooms and then tried to actually push me so I took him down and started elbowing the fuck out of his face for a good minute before the fight broke up. After that I stopped getting bullied

I feel like bullying gives you a certain coming of age goal. The day I stood up for myself and got my shut together was like a rite of passage
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>>40910198
way to get your shit together man.
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>>40908874
I don't think bullying works.
I think educating people with solid information and supporting them (not coddling, support - there is a difference) is a much more effective way of helping people.
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>>40909301
+1
Totally right
bullying and beeing a weak faggot made me
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>>40910231
>I think educating people with solid information and supporting them (not coddling, support - there is a difference) is a much more effective way of helping people.
yeah, that's bullying now.
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Not really. Especially if it's someone being bullied while they're actively working hard to improve their situation.
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>>40908874
How the fuck else are we supposed to enforce social norms?

Look at the retardation and degeneracy that comes from one generation of "just be yourself, it's okay to be different, everyone is special" mentality.
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>>40910367
The problem with that is that social norms change. People (especially on this site) are quick to point out the virtues of bullying, but then cry about being bullied themselves for being a straight, white male.
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fph threads have helped me lose 40 pounds in 8 months. The only thing though we shouldn't do though are manlet threads

t.5'4 mental manlet
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>>40910408
The reason they're getting bullied by SJWs is the SJWs weren't bullied enough. That's the point. It's why masculinity is frowned upon and mocked. It's why fatties tease healthy people. By not enforcing the societal norms we've let a weird counter culture start to take over.

Being fit, attractive, hardworking, and rich are all things that are objectively good. We can't let the people who think otherwise take over.

And if you cry about being bullied for being a straight white male you're a pussy.
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>>40910457
Height is something you pretty much absolutely cannot change and is just a roll of the dice. Weight at least, while there are definitely people with lucky and unlucky genetics, is something you can work on.

When people go "haha, I'm tall and you're not" it reads identically to "haha, my oil tycoon daddy bought me a porsche for my first car."
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>>40910594
>Height is something you pretty much absolutely cannot change
just marry tall people and increase the chance that your babies will be tall.
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>>40910135
That's self motivation
You realized you weren't happy with your looks so you motivated yourself to try and look better so YOU would fee happier, not because you wanted to appease a bunch of /fit/ posters
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>>40910650
>telling people they're disgusting won't help them realize they're disgusting
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>>40909720
I grew up in Austin, I was talking shit about some hells angels and they found out and weren't too happy
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>>40910657
Internet bullying isn't the same as real bullying, if someone called you a fat piece of crap irl it would have been different
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>>40908874
I think it does, in a sense where you have to figure out how to prevent yourself from being targeted or you have to learn how to protect yourself; either physically or verbally.

I'm a small person, but even I understand the urge to kick down someone shorter than you just for laughs. There is no way I can physically defend myself, but recognizing cues when you're being targeted (certain eye contact/facial expressions) and de-escalating situations before they can escalate has prevented many problems and most of all my self-esteem is still in tact
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>>40910607
Great, your kids are now a bit taller.
You're still 5 foot <6 inches, though.
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>>40910878
yeah man, but you're kids are taller than short people.
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>>40910907
Lucky your kids. Assuming they *do* get lucky, and are substantially taller than you at your prime rather than the roughly one or two inches on average at most.

But the point I was making is that you can drop fat and gain muscle, but you can't gain inches.
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>>40908903
This
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>>40910937
>I have to be perfect I can't just try to be the best I can and make my kids better
being short is gay but there's nothing you can do about it so there's no point in bitching about it.
T. 5'9" manlet who wants to breed amazons
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>>40910457
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>>40910457
just breed tall kids and stop being a faggot whose so hung up on height.
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>>40910657
>Telling people the truth won't help them see the truth
Dafuq?
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>>40908874
It depends
Never do it in the gym
I was bullied in the gym when I first started working out and it really fucked me up
It took me months to go back in
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>>40910972
It's less that I'm bitching about being short (also about 5'9", would like to be taller of course but I'm perfectly comfortable anyway, because as you say, I cannot change it) and more that I'm bitching about people gloating about being tall.
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>>40911127
>bragging about being tall
is for people who don't have any other redeeming qualities because there are more important things than being tall.

I've had a literal 300lbs guy brag about being 3 inches taller when I told him I was losing weight.
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>>40909903
fucking seinen manga right here brah
>is your name Ippo?
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>>40911164

Sounds about right.
The most annoying thing is that he could lose that weight, and then be the same but three inches taller. On the other hand, his personality would still be utter trash.
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>>40910650
Who do you think half the shit posters in the FPH threads are? We don't make the fatties click the link to enter the thread in the first place.
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>>40909474
Thats essentially what it is.
Only those who are that fucked in the head that they terrorize weaklings would justify their actions in such a bullshit way.
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>>40908874
Absolutely, but it also makes you unrelentingly angry and for me its not enough for me to just succeed, I need to see others fail. Especially those who thought I was nothing.
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>>40909482
THats not bullying
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>>40909453
they are a burden because they TAKE more than they GIVE they literally are a drain on society and serve no purpose
anything a fat person can do a fit or even an average person can do better
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>>40909397
What? The only coherent statement you made was your thesis.
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>>40908874
Anonymous bullying on 4chan is the best kind of bullying desu. It creates illusory peer pressure, but doesn't actually hurt you.
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>>40909477
>I'm not going to detest your arguement with a factual statement and will resort to name calling and dismissiveness.
Neck yourself, my dude.
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>>40908874
I honestly wish I'd been bullied more as a kid, and learned to be less autistic.

So much HS pussy missed.
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>>40912124
>I honestly wish I'd been bullied more as a kid,
tfw I know this feel and thought I was fine but was a weirdo and am only now at 22 trying to be better.
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>>40912124
>>40912146
Bullying would just have made you more autistic you fucking retards. You should've wished for better parents or a shrink.
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>>40908874
No, it creates resentment within the individual towards society and humanity.
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>>40912168
>made you more autistic you fucking retards

>tfw didn't start losing weight until someone told me I was a gross fatass but someone tells me I would be elliot rogers if someone had called me a fatass in highschool
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>>40912205
>Being called a fatass once
>Being bullied
Pick one
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>>40912232
>implying people resistant to change should just be given up on
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>>40912273
>Implying you're gonna change people to the better by bullying them and just not make them miserable and unable to connect with other people
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>>40908874
Bullying isn't motivating.

Your hate for the ones bullying is.
Hate is a powerful motivator in general.
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It strongly depends on the character of the person, the circumstances of the person and the relationship of the people involved. In some cases, an honest strongly worded statement about the thing they need to change helps. Negative reinforcement is more effective for the general populace than positive one, because that's how most of the western kids get raised. The most cases of actual bullying only do damage, though. Especially in prolonged time frames it mostly locks people in the paradigm of never being able to change and screws them up for a life time.
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>>40908874
It depends on the individual. Some people will get stronger from it, others will just give up and kill themselves
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>>40910667
Definitely not Austin now. Full of pussies and hipsters from California
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>>40909482
>real bullying, like having people show up to your house with guns trying to get you to come outside so they can kill you

Gang violence != Bullying
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>>40908874
I never mustered enough courage to punch the guy who bullied me even when he was standing inches away from me, lecturing me about how much of an asshole I am.

So, I guess not.
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>>40913644
In both cases; society wins
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>>40912443
>Implying that bullying doesn't cause brief moments of introspection and realization that manifests into action
You're getting bullied wrong
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>>40910018
>1940s and 1950s were more peaceful
during and immediately after a massive world military conflict the US was more peaceful? think it could have been the ~400000 dead young men? i'd think pulling 400k adult males would significantly drop any countries chance of random violence taking place. especially if the time period after is a fondly remembered economic boom.
it wasn't bullying, idiot. it was society's position at large compounded by the economic powers that be
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>>40908874
It motivates some people, but not others. can actually shut down some people.

I think overall it motivates only a few.
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>>40909514
>taxes
>welfare

That's the same thing, wtf are you on about? Do libshits actually think welfare falls from the sky and we can just increase it forever and give it to everyone and then everyone will be rich?
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>>40908874
It depends on the person as not everyone takes it the same way.
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>>40909051
agreed
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>>40908924
Wrong. Shaming helps.
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>>40909397
Hm, no, studies say it helps. And my personal experience says it helps.

Only Jew shit studies say it doesn't help and they're retarded and based on surveys asking 50 year old fatties if they like it when people are mean to them (old fatties who gave up on becoming fit anyway).

http://www.dishlab.org/pubs/Callahan%20(2012)%20Obesity.pdf

Now kill yourself for spreading bullshit, please. Back to NeoFAG.
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>>40908874
When I was just starting lifting, a girl took my phone, and unbeknownst to me did something that would change my outlook on success, and it could be classified as bullying, but I don't see it like that.

She took my phone, and changed my autocorrect. She changed the word "beat" to autocorrect to "beta". And every time I texted someone admitting defeat, every time that failed and let the other person beat me, I couldn't type the sentence. It would just keep correcting to "beta". Every time I wanted to give up, and let someone beat me, "beta" "beta" "beta" "beta". Every single time reminding me that accepting defeat was me being a fucking pussy. Until I started neglecting defeat. And I would hold that defeat inside me until I overcame it. Because losing is a mindset, not an outcome.

And maybe you can call that bullying, maybe you can say she played my insecurities to fuck with me. But ask yourself, do you want to accept defeat? Do you want someone else to beat you? Fuck. No.
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I was bullied in middle school/hs pretty badly. I was bullied on everything form looks/genetic health problems to hobby (math olympic).

I went cocoon mode. I am 25yo khv neet.

>Just act like you do not care and they will stop
is shitty advice

you have to fight back
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>>40915349
I've never seen a post so simultaneously filled with autism and bullshit
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>>40908874
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>>40915375
>>40915349
It's the kind of thing you'd expect to see someone over 60 post on facebook.
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>>40915531
Perfect
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From my anecdotal sample size of one, no. An old friend of mine has been bullied by enemies, shamed by women, gently ribbed by friends and pleadingly reminded that his lifestyle is destroying him by loved ones. But he'd rather be heavy and feel sad than lift heavy and feel hunger.
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>>40908874
It depends on what you mean by bullying. I think being honest can be motivating if the person you're being honest to isn't in terrible denial and knows how to handle critique.

when my boyfriend and I first started dating i was nearing being overweight and didnt take great care of myself, and dressed like an autist. we stopped fucking and eventually he finally just said he wasn't attracted to me anymore, so I got in good shape, ate better, and learned how to dress well.
Now we fuck all the time, my confidence is through the roof, he's proud to have me as a girlfriend, and I'm proud that he's proud, so everyone wins.

Someone could say him saying I wasn't attractive was mean, but I am extremely happy he was honest with me and made me work on myself rather than let me turn into a fat unattractive pig with no self confidence while he fucked girls he actually wanted to fuck on the side.
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Was very into fitness for about 3 months ;always watching what i eat and counting macros (not always but planned out meals with them),
family decides to go to Gold Coast, eat allot and relax and lose all motivation to better myself,
now i look worse after 3 months after coming back and haven't gone to gym since the trip.
What initially drove me to fitness is wisdom of others and the drive for success, now i seem to have lost most of it and trying to regain it, but it feels like a 90 year old trying to get a hard-on, in vein
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>>40908897
>>40908903
first posts best posts
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>>40909482
>the people who tried to kill me and raped and stabbed my sister were nothing but low down BULLIES!
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>>40908874
Yeah. Kid I used to bully, make fun of, and beat up got motivated and now he's much better for it. He literally told me.

I mean. he's still unemployed and shit but he learned to talk to others, stop being so weird. He even bought a motorcycle.
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Maybe not true face to face bullying only because Ive never experienced that but the face of someone who looks down on you and is not outwardly hateful to you is the worst imo. You constantly have this sense of inferiority because to them youre not even worth getting mad over. Its like theyre taunting you, patronizing you. Theyre letting it eat away at the fabric of your own dignity; this motivates the fuck out of me.
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>tfw hit dumbbell bench press PR this morning with gymbro
>tfw go to gym tonight with girl im interested in
>nice shoulder workout, i show her some lifts and offer some advice on technique
>she gets a good burn, can tell she loves it
>afterwards I ask her out to dinner next week
>she says yes, but with the caveat that she doesnt want to play games and wants both of us to be upfront
>agree
>drive home, shower
>come out to message saying shes thought about it and doesnt 'feel it' and maybe we shouldnt go out

welp, looks like I'll be hitting a DL PR tomorrow too boys
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>>40908874
I dont care, it's fun to me
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>>40909482
t. William B Billington the cattle rustler
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For some people, yes

For most, it just drives them down further into a hole.
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>>40909453
>implying everything is free
lmao what dream world are u living in commiecuck ur not being a drain on society if u are consuming through capital u earned by provided a service to the society in question. is this ur first attempt at critical thinking? i almost laugh so hard i fall out chair. its nothing personal, kid
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>>40909389
Rbdjd jdjdh
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>16 hour thread
>nobody posted that story of a guy who bullied his friend into being skinny
http://metro.co.uk/2015/01/28/chef-lost-21-stone-after-friend-text-him-fat-f-every-day-for-six-weeks-5040205/
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no but some bantz is always good for motivation.
i'm not about giving somebody a gold star for showing up, wtf do something worthwhile.
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>>40909397
>(picture of man reading, then upon realising the text is illegibly retarded, squints and fixates his attention to the piece of text harder)
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>>40909974
>movie quotes
Fuck off you child
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>>40909161
>le funny /pol/tard maymays
Yet again you idiots fuck up on using 4chan.
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>>40915792
is this what people actually mean by "bullying" in this thread?
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>>40908874
>dat soft belly
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>>40914719
They are not the same thing, they are related.

You cannot replace the word taxes with the word welfare, therefore it is not the same.

Very few people are rich right now.(inb4 some I'm lawyer and I make 3000000 a year and drive a lambo story)

No one thinks welfare comes from nowhere, but if getting my broken leg fixed and feeding the poor costs Mr. Sheklestien one thousandth of his 45 billion dollars so be it
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>>40917804
it fits
its a reference, and people have been making those since long before you were born
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