Girlfriends' friends being flirty

>>40700459
Why would Dylan be sitting on the bench with them?

>not friends of my gf, because I have no gf
>girfriends/wives of my friends/collegues

Stressful as fuck to avoid drama.

>>40700505
Story time

Oldfag here. My wife's maid of honor flirts with me constantly in front of my wife. It's no big deal. If you're with a secure woman it's not gonna be a problem and if you're a man of your word you're never going to act on your temptations. This behavior was going on before we were married. It has less to do with you or your girl and more to do with her friend's insecurities. No woman goes after a taken man if she's secure in herself.

>>40700459
I cant really blame her here. It is her biology, her boyfriend got her ass kicked of course she is going to want the more alpha male

>>40700534
My girlfriend's friend is making it really awkward for me. She's married, but she keeps asking to go hiking with me and whatnot. Whenever she comes over to hang out with my gf, she always tries to schedule a hangout and always includes me.

I always end up just fantasizing about it, but that's it lol.

>>40700527
I don't know what to tell you because like I said I avoid drama.
It is hard to avoid them because a the same time you are avoiding your friends. Sometimes it is small shit nobody notice, sometimes the are really obvious with their behaviour and it is uncomfortable. Especially if the women had a few drinks.

>>40700459
this was written by an old gay dude btw. classic attempt to make women appear fickle and weak, so it turns dudes against them.

>>40700459
time to get into boxing

>>40700653
No it wasn't.

>>40700459
This is why i want to turn to the dark side of the force. Make her so horney that she masturbates and cries afterwards. Without me even talking to her.

>>40700459
>relationships with women

not even once

>>40700585
ask your girlfriend if she would be interested in a threesome with her

>>40700694
It definitely wasn't wrotten by a 23f

>>40700585

Fantasy is fine. Hell, if the girl you're with suggests something, you can make it more than a fantasy. But be loyal to the woman you choose to be with, or don't choose to be with one woman (and that's okay too).

I say go for it. Go for a hike. Go hang out. But don't cheat. If you legitimately never do anything wrong, and your girl has every reason to feel secure in your fidelity, it's not a problem. But don't be sneaky about it. "Hey, _____ mentioned she wanted to go hiking with me. I'd like to go, but would that make you uncomfortable? No? Great. Okay, talk to you later, love you too, bye." Don't go and just assume your girl will be cool with it. If you have no ulterior motive and don't care if she shuts down the idea, you should have no problem mentioning is casually.

>>40700921
That is not how real life works though.

fucking cheat on your gf bro, alpha dudes doesn't care to cheat on their gfs and neither should you, unless you want to marry her, but i doubt anyone under 30 would want

>>40700921
>I'd like to go, but would that make you uncomfortable?
if you are willing to cancel your plans because your girl is insecure i have bad news about your alphaness, also if that happens with your gf, talk to her and tell her that if she doesn't trust you 100% you guys should breakup, because you do (tell her that even if you don't)

>>40700534
It has more to do with your insecurities, don't you think?
You obviously like the flirting just as much as her friend does.

>>40701150
>t. 16 yo teenager

i hike with my gf and her friend all the time, and sometimes just me and her friend.

a lot of women are afraid to hike alone or without a guy they can trust.

nothing sexual ever happens, they are far too tired and filled with bean farts for any sexy time.

it's actually fun tho, girls can be bros.

get the fuck out wannabe Chad faggot

>>40701267
This is exactly what I want. I just want a girl bro.

t. OP

>>40700779
Yes it was

>>40701276
You say they flirt with you and look you intensely into the eyes and you are tempted - and now you say you just want a girl bro.

What?

>>40701267
This is not my experience, there is always one who wants to fuck the other. If it is not you, it is her.

>>40701320
Sometimes this happens to me, but then i think what if its only in my mind and they are not really sendind messages and if i make a move then i am going to be the creep

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I hungout with my ex and his friend last night.
We don't act sexual towards one another anymore so it is usually casual, but after my ex fell asleep his friend tried to cuddle and kiss me and shit. It was too weird. Like he's a nice guy and attractive but I used to date your friend and he's literally asleep in the bed next to you? That's shady

>>40701356
Strange. I thought gays fuck at any chance.

>>40701345
How about you just get male friends like any other sane and normal person?

>>40701320
Yes I get tempted, but that doesn't mean I act upon it. I just enjoy female company sometimes.

>>40700435
no its just usually ugly guys have attractive friends to feel better about themselves, i do this too sometimes.

>>40700459
Source? Seems like bullshit to me.

>>40700459
Kek

>>40701470
reddit is full of cucks who write stories like that to get off.

>>40701328
we all want to fuck each other, it's natural, we are young, fit, they are both cute.

it's called valuing your friendship more than your desire to get laid. Only virgins focus so much on sex, most people also enjoy other aspects to life. You don't go into the woods to get sex, you do it because you love nature and the exercise.

>Broke up with my gf two weeks ago
>Suddenly three girls I consider my friends and talk to or Hang out with from time to time start messaging me way more often.
>Feelsgoodman.jpg
Not that I wanna get with any of them but it feels nice that girls show interest in you and I can have a lot of fun hanging out and talking to them. I don't talk about my feelings to guys or at least never in depth, but with girls I feel more comfortable and understood.

>>40701572
Well, then you can go alone as well.

>>40701596
Why'd you break up? And were those girls mutual friends with your ex?

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>>40700459
>mfw i am dylan

>>40700765
by go dark side do you mean juice?

>>40701769
I was with her for 4 years, but eventually realised we are too different and we weren't heading towards the life I'd like to live in the future. She was very materialistic, not very ambitious and didn't like exercise. I am the opposite.
My ex knew them, she got along okay with 1, tolerated 1 and disliked another.

>>40700435
Its most likely a comfort thing. Girls internalize a lot of fear of men for good reasons (the average guy could do whatever he wants to the average girl just because of size differences) and bad reasons (on some level, culture encourages suspicion towards men).

If youre a nice, good boyfriend to your gf, her friends probably envy that. Especially if you're good looking. Try to capitalize on it for threesomes, thats what I usually do.

>>40701803
So they were not my ex's friends obviously. I knew them before I knew her.

>>40700459
This was written by a fat fuck who has a cuck fetish lmao

>>40700459
I wonder what this Dylan guy looks like.

>>40700585
My friends GF has done this to me too. Started asking me about the gym, where I workout, what routines I do, mentioned she needs/should be going to the gym like all in the same breath or sentence. Clearly trying to bait an invite out of me.
>My friend refuses to workout himself
>She is a short haired sjw hillshill
>I have a thicc booty gym girl GF
>Never gonna happen bitch.
My friends girl has been a lot colder towards me since I brushed this notion off a few times. Idk why. I also don't know how to tell my friend his GF is garbage...

>>40701596
Holy, was your gfs name Mark?

>>40700435
Yes

I think the theory is that girls like guys who have been validated by other women. If you're valuable then you're a desired product. When I was dating a cute girl her friends also showed sexual interest in me. Now that we broke up they no longer speak to me and avoid me all together in social situations. I think you shouldn't sleep with your gfs friend. That is just kind of a jerk move and you should be better than that despite how tempting it is.

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>purposely cock blocked my male friends from fucking girls I liked

I feel bad about it and should have let them do it but I couldn't take the heartache. I didn't want to be cucked so hard by my friends

Bros, what do when gf cheats on you? Happened to me last week and I'm not sure how to proceed. She says it'll never happen again but obviously that's hard to believe

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>>40702103
Cuck.

>>40702103
You've got to dump her. Sorry man she doesn't respect you enough to only see you.

>>40702103
Dump her and move along, no questions asked anon.
Will take some weeks to feel better and then you are over it.

>>40702103
Big boy cuck.

Fucking leave her already is this even a question?!

Boytoy.

>>40702103
Sorry, but you're a retard.

>>40702103
dump her and find someone else better who won't cheat on you, don't be a cuck and buy in to the false promise of "it'll never happen again"

>>40702103
Find the guy she cheated on you with and fuck him in the ass while she watches.
Alternatively, dump her/

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>>40702103

>>40702103
Believe me. It will happen again

>>40702103
>even having to ask this question
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Have definitely noticed this as I leave DYEL territory, has put me in some uncomfortable situations already tbqh.

Also rolling for push-ups hehe

>>40702103
You still call her your girlfiriend?

If you don't go through with it, it's fine, and as long as it's safe flirting, it's just play.
If it gets too touchy or personal then that's a bit weird.

I recommend not doing it. It fucks your social circle and you lose more than you gain.

I'm saying this as someone who has:
1. fucked an ex's best friend
2. fucked a friend's ex

>>40702184
True.
>>40702103
Cut her off completely, or hang the guilt over her head and use it to manipulate her, but she is now a side chick for your stable. No authentic relationship may be had with her. Now feelings should be felt for a hoe. You cannot make her a housewife.

>>40700459
DYLAN plays BASKETBALL while YOU get your ASS-KICKED and have your QTGF fantasizing about HIM

>>40702119
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>>40702169

so her claiming she was blacked out and doesn't remember is not a valid excuse?

>>40702103
Let her peg you before she runs off with him.

>>40702221
cuckbaiting

>>40702103
Break up. Don't ask questions and tell her you're not interested in hearing any excuse or talk.
It's over, move on. Giving her a chance will only set the precedent that it's ok for this to happen.

>>40702221
it will eat at you regardless

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>>40702221
Then it's all ok.

>>40702233

i'm really not baiting. I mean, i'm inclined not to believe her either, and this is really something I never thought she'd do. But yeah I guess she just doesn't respect me

(I already broke up with her just having second thoughts)

>>40702255
Literally a cuck.

>>40702103

Any other course of action than breaking up with her will be wrong in my opinion.

Will you be comfortable when she hangs out with his friends? Will you know for a fact that she won't cheat?

You probably wont. I couldn't stand that. Even more so if I'm loyal.

>>40702270

it's weird though because she is more or less a beta female..aside from this

>>40700435
You answered your own question
>after getting fit they're attracted
How stupid are you to answer your own question and then ask if it's because something else that's irrelevant

>>40702221
Ask her if she is willing to file a police report against the guy who fucked her while she was blacked out.

If she was blacked out it was obviously rape right?

And she should feel worse about being raped rather than having cheated.

Her story doesn't add up mate.

>>40702276
she cheated because she thinks you're a bf who she can cheat

prove her wrong and more importantly prove to yourself that you aren't

>>40702170
Fionn sounds a lot like Justin Timberlake's character in The Social Network.

>>40702103
She says it will never happen again (it will)

>>40702103
Fuck her good one more time and then dump her

>>40702255
if she really was "blacked out and didn't remember" than she pretty much got raped but i'm guessing she didn't tell you that she got raped. she actually was drinking looking for CHAD and TYRONE to fill her holes and once you found out she had to pull the i was blacked out and didn't do nuffin card

>>40700585
>Girl tries to be nice
>they obviously want to fick
>there's no other reason a girl would be nice other than to fuck
And this is where guys fail and why so many girls feel they need to be bitches 24/7; studies have also shown this - guys stop mistaking someone being nice fot "omg I need dick". It's desperate pathetic and creepy

>>40702299

well, I already basically asked her that, but she said no.

>>40702255
>>40702300
No, just no.
You know the tale of sailors having to tie themselves so they wouldn't jump into the sea at the call of mermaids?

You'll have to do the same.
Block her from your social media, ask your friends to never bring her name again, don't mingle in the same circles again, and so on.
Avoid it like the plague.

She cheated, she fucked another guy, she's making excuses, she's manipulating you.
You're a complete person by yourself, you may not be the best but sure as hell don't need to accept being a cuck.
She things she can get away with this.

Beta girls are more prone to cheating. Their insecurities makes them more likely to buy all the shit that any other guy is willing to tell her and also to view their partners as even more betas too (women date down, men date up).

>>40702329
Nah, then she'll pull the rape card bro.

>>40702341

so you think if she legitimately blacked out and has no recollection of going back to this dudes house and having him fuck her, she would focus on saying she was sexually assaulted, and not that she somehow messed up?

>>40702359
I meant that he should dump her, obviously

>>40702354
How are you this dumb

>>40700435
Yes they are, "if he's good enough for betty then he has to be amazing."

>>40702380
Sorry I quoted one anon wrong, meant to quote him here >>40702276

>>40701061
I discuss things like that with my nd, it very much can be real life of you're a responsible adult
>>40701150
Cancel or not, discussing issues like that openly are a must in any strong relationship.
>If she doesn't trust you 100%
Youre a Goddamned fool to trust anyone 100%. Nothing in this world is 100%- especially not relationship. You sound like an idiot

>>40702103
I would totally let my girlfriend and future wife have unprotected vaginal sex with other men.

>>40702103
you gotta teach her a lesson. break up now. The most important part in a relationship is trust in each other, she destroyed whatever trust you had, its over.

>>40702377
yes. anyways you two will never be the same if you decide to try to get back together with her no matter how hard you try. i don't know the whole story but i don't think she was sexually assaulted or taken advantage of if you think the same than you shouldn't feel guilty. you deserve better

>>40700459
It's like reading the Penthouse stories when I was a teenager.

>>40702449
No, the way to teach her a lesson is to punch her in the face.

>>40702464

yeah. but breaking up with a girl bc she was raped would be pretty fucked up...right

>>40703532
if she got blacked out drunk in the company of other men she's not suitable to be a gf anyway.

>>40703532
>breaking up with a girl bc she was raped would be pretty fucked up
Yeah, but she wasn't so it's a moot point.

>>40701150
>>40701250
desu anon has a point, as a man you're not supposed to get permission for what you want to do. A better thing would be "I'm going hiking with anonete, wanna come?"

>>40702354
you bastard fucking cunt, go end your life you pathetic retard, i can't believe there are people like you in 2017, unless you're 15-16

>>40701231
This was my thought. The fact your wife lets it happen is beyond me.

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>tried to cuck myself
>even that didn't work

What went wrong?

>>40705791
>No one has been

I think you already a cuck m8

>>40705881
She's a FWB, not my girlfriend. I'm also her most recent

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>>40702255
>(I already broke up with her just having second thoughts)
Hope is kindled

>>40702255
how did you find out?

>>40702170
thanks for giving me some grade A rage

im on fucking clen m8, this rage aint helping my heart rate levels

>>40706229

well she was making out with some dude at my work and went home with him from there. a coworker told me (i wasn't working)

>>40706810
In front of all your co-workers... And there's a shred of doubt you want her back...

>>40706887

Yeah. Guess you're right

>>40700459
holy shit kek