Have you ever had a girl obsessed with you?
Have you ever had a girl stalk you?
What did you do about it?
Did you make her your girlfriend?
My gf did both.
She's way more into me than I'm into her, the power I have in the relationship is palpable.
>>40692618
A little more detail anon?
Yeah, in high school there was this girl who thought I was cute. I got her number to see what she's like. She was clingy as fuck and we werent even dating, she'd text me like 5 times a day every day. I was flattered bur eventually I told her I wasn't interested, that I wasn't suited for a relationship. She begged me to go out with her and told me she'd save me from myself. I was like yeah nah. She continued texting me almost every day for months afterward.
>>40692598
My gf is pretty much like that
Everything i tell her has an affect on her life is pretty gud though cuz i don't tell her to do bad shit
She is bipolar btw
>>40692598
Yes
No
Sometimes
>>40692681
yo this happened to me and im a kissless virign
that shit just isnt attractive, she was saving my snapchats and shit saying sorry im going to show my mom that haha
>>40692598
storytime if y'all are interested
>be me 2nd year college
> meet this qt 3.14 asian girl in the university library
>get her number text & then hook up
>fuck buddies for about 4 months
> fall for each other and start dating
>chick was bad news from day one, drug problems, family problems with strict asian parents, horrible self esteem & body image, excessively materialistic.
>tried to be a nice guy and give her a good relationship as all previous guys were "cheaters and crazy" according to her.
MY GOD THIS WAS A MISTAKE
> date for a year and a half until about 6 months ago she goes off the rails
> excessively raving doing coke, ecstasy & LSD with no time off
>I start distancing myself and hanging around more with the Greek Life.
> psycho gf tries overdosing, threatening to kill herself and starting bullshit fights to keep me on the leash as our relationship falls apart.
> had enough of it
> on one of her normal "im going to kill myself" rants i call the police on her.
>taken to mental hospital for 3 days which was extended into 10 because of her mental state
> calls me everyday 3 times a day checking up on me, to yell at me, to blame me for anything you name it.
> doctors and therapists tell me I need to separate myself from her as she's clearly not getting better and won't be anytime soon.
> stop talking to her
> she shows up at my house, at the gym, followed me to my car on multiple occasions.
> pulled a knife on me and that was the last straw.
>get restraining order against her
> hate myself for letting things get this far
>going from waking up next to someone i thought i loved to being afraid of her and what she became.
>6 months pass
> still stalks me at the gym and tries to make conversation with any guys in my eyesight to make me jealous.
> don't hear much about her going to school anymore
> still hope she's ok but have a deep hatred for such an evil woman.
>confused
probably a dead thread but i'll share my story.
Sadly my bf just left me (or at least for a "break") and I think this is the reason. I didn't nag him anything like 5 times a day! but it's all relative. He doesn't like to talk much and I was texting him too often and asking to hang out too much.
Gawd I hope he'll give me a second chance, he was glorious.
>>40694149
you did the right thing calling the police and getting her put in IP. lesser men would ignore the threat and let her fester in her drama/emotional issues. good luck, life goes on and the hatred will fade.
Yes
Yes
Made her my girlfriend
Yes
>girl I met through a weeb forum obsessed with me
>literally confessed her love for me
>she's a hamplanet
>>40694184
fag?
>>40694149
good shit m8, even tho you regret it you made the right choice
>my ex isl ike that
>met her when we were out with mutual friends
>i drink and start dancing on her
>shes real distant
>eventually get her number
>talk to her some but she had just gotten out of a shitty relationship and wasnt lookign to date
>eventually go out with her after 2 weeks of talking
>start dating
>she switches up
>texts me every hour
>always wondering what im doing
>shes a virgin so she thinks this is true love after like a month
>slowly start distancing myself from her
>we break up after 3 months
>dont talk for a month
>she hits me up every day now just trying to talk like we used to
>tell her im not going to date her. she agrees
>but legitimately wants me to be like a best friend
>keep telling her its not gonna happen and that we can stay acquanitices
>sometimes have to ignore 5 snapchats in a row just so she eventually gets the hint
>>40692598
That's very revolting. Anyone who would pursue me must have serious mental instability.
>>40692598
Yes
No
Ignored her/negged her (unintentionally tho, didn't know what that was back then)
No
>>40694149
haha are you my dad?
wait no he married her and had me and then left 20 years too late.
>>40694297
>virgin
>just gotten out of a shitty relationship
how old are you 16
>>40694439
im 25. shes 22. She is one of those religious types which I didnt find out until after I started dating her. She was just real inexperienced. Major reason it didnt work out.
How do I get a girl obsessed with me?
Ive had many girls obsess over me. I never liked leading on girls when the attraction is one sided so i shut them down.
I went through a pretty bad time in my life a few years ago and i guess I've lost my confidence or whatever it was that attracted these people.
I miss it sometimes
>>40692598
Yeah, it wasn't a mutual feeling so I felt awkward about it because I actually liked her as a friend