How you holding up, /fit/?

good but ive never talked to a girl before and i want i even know what i could talk about but it just seems so weird

>>40682245
eh

>>40682245
Alright, my gf broke up with me but I'm already talking to a different girl on tinder. She seems so interested in me that I'm wondering if she's a trap or something cause this is kinda weird.

Feels bad man. Been moody all day due to lack of sleep and weekend binge drinking. Goods news is if this lasts until tomorrow I can pour all of my feels into a new bench PR.

>>40682275
Why did she do it?

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>>40682311
Reasons that are both my fault and hers. I was being needy. Turns out she also had a massive superiority complex (told me I wasn't good enough for her and I'm only average. Also that I'm taking the wrong path for my dreams) and that she didn't communicate with me at all.


Fuck her though. I'll still achieve my dreams. and now I can get my gym crushes number

>>40682340
>tfw your dreams died long ago
>only dream left is to save enough money to to take a week off work for vacation every couple years.
>tfw topped out in salary in my profession

>Engineer here
>Start new job sometime this week
>I noticed the new office I will be working at has a gym
>

I am doing pretty alright, i think. Got some new running shoes today that are really nice, literally already seeing improvement on my HIIT and everything, only paid like $20 for em too.

Met a qt girl at work a couple weeks ago but she was only there for a couple of days, unfortunately, debating whether or not i should shoot her a friend request or not

>>40682390
>debating whether or not i should shoot her a friend request or not
do it or you're gay

pretty close to another suicide attempt, just kidding.

>>40682374
Never give up hope man. Always keep working

Doing all right. Tweaked my back a bit from deadlifting half asleep. Pretty pissed by that.

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>>40682245
I have a massive crush on a guy in my program but I don't know him and he's probably straight

he's so qt what do I do /fit/

>>40682417
>do it or you're gay

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>>40682340
Nice man, that's it. Just continue being awesome and doing what you love regardless of whether a girl's around, people love other people that are focused on their dreams, especially the opposite sex.

>>40682423
>he's so qt what do I do /fit/
nothing
it feels shitty getting flirted at by gays.

>>40682379
That's the dream

>>40682447
Yeah I know, I have no intention of hitting on him. I just want to know that he's not gay so I can push the delusions out of my head

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im trying to find something to live for, i know ill be ok for a fair while because im still young, but everyone reaches a point and theres only two ways to go, hopefully everything works out well enough.

also i hope everyone here going through a rough place finds peace, /fit/ can be a really great place and you're all part of that. you deserve to find happiness, just don't stop trying because you're lucky to get the chance.

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>>40682398
wow i guess that's all it took, thanks

>>40682447
>it feels shitty getting flirted at by gays.
No, it's flattering

>>40682487
>No, it's flattering
if your gay

>>40682486
good.

Was supposed to start a new lifting routine today, but am forcing myself to wait until I figure out what the fuck is going on with my skin.

Been watching Stranger Things on Netflix all weekend trying to not think about her. It's not working

>>40682418
Feels like I just waste my life working to pay my bills and occasionally buy something I want. Shits gay. Gonna have to work till death too

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Just had an arguement with my dad cause I called my cousin a whore which turned into how much I hate girls. He got silent and left.

>>40682245
told some girl online I lived with my parents at 26
>was a neet for 3 years because my friend died
>dropped out of university
>went back to school and got a shitty associates degree
>went to the gym to improve myself. found out later that I have scoliosis and stopped lifting for a year
>graduated and got a good job with my degree and go to the gym because all I do is sit in a desk all day
>meet girl on the internet and somehow make her laugh through text when I just want to die
The girl just gave me her skype name and wants to talk to me on saturday
>havent had sex since 2014 when I saw a prostiute on valentines day.
How do I talk to women on skype fit
I am just trying to make it and it seems I am Jobe for some reason.

Doing alright, had a bender the past few days just been drinking too much in general skipped out on the gym the past week and have Ds in all my classes at midterm.. hopefully things pick up soon in my life

>>40682423
why don't you give him the blowjob eyes, gay guys always give me that look when they talk to me, if it's a qt twink i jerk off to it later (still say no because no homo).

>>40682537
make kids

>>40682560
Fucking hate them and they steal what little shekels I get to spend on myself and homegym shit. Making a bunch of lifestyle changes. It seems to be helping

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dreaming about how i will look

>>40682540
lol who uses skype in 2017 besides scammers? stay safe

>>40682596
>Fucking hate them
good luck with your mental disorder

>>40682509
fingers crossed that i made a good enough first impression that she'll be interested too

>>40682617
I don't hate them just don't want any. They fuck up your shit and dirty and scream and cry and who the fuck wants to deal with that

>2000 word essay due tomorrow
>written 43 words so far

>>40682629
>fingers crossed
you probably did, don't think like a loser

let a few tears out tonight

gotta stick with it though

>>40682554
hes in most of my classes I don't want to be that faggot who's giving guys blowjob eyes

it might be worth a shot though desu

>>40682611
people who don't live in the US?

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>>40682245
Not too bad. I shouldn't speak so soon but my shoulder injury seems to be healing up quickly thanks to so rehab exercises. On a negative note my family tells me I'm so emotionally flat they're worried about me.

>girl I've been seeing for less than two months says she's pregnant
>she wants to keep it
>my life is fucked

Welp, time for sudoku. It was nice knowing you /fit/. Only hope is that it's not mine.

>>40682650
get to it homie

preview your main points, make your main points, make your conclusion the thing you want remembered most

start shitting out words now go

>>40682684
Are you both ready? Has she thought about adoption? Fuck man, I can't imagine being in this situation. If I'm ever sexually active for some reason I think I'm going to freeze some of my sperm and then get snibbety snabbed.

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>>40682245
Feeling lost, stuck, and confused for no reason.

>Just lost my virginity to an escort.
>Years of fapping gave me death grip syndrome.
>Couldn't cum. Not sure if she did or not
>She told me for a virgin I was pretty good.
> I know she's just saying that because I'm paying her.
>I might go see her again.
>Hopefully I'll be able to cum

wage slavery is right around the corner and I feel utterly alone, no gf. got a qt's snapchat from my class on wednesday but after watching her snap stories of going to bars and out to eat with other dudes at midnight I am completely uninterested despite her always laughing at whatever I say and twirling her hair around me. It seems like all that makes me happy is the gym, art, and a few friends that all live in different cities now.

>>40682654
Why the tears, Anon? Want to talk about it?

Hip/knee/ankle mobility is comically bad.

Constantly results in achilles issues.
Rehab that
Now it feels like a peroneal longus Injury.

Fuck tendons forever. I just want to pick things up.

>>40682245

Amazing. Someone gave me a cupcake filled with cream cheese, I refused it, she insisted, I took it, had a tiny spoon and found the whole thing disgusting so I trashed it. Feels good not to miss processed food and other sweets from hell.

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Y'know, I want to tell her I love her and I'm miserable without her but I also don't want to make her feel bad while she's on her vacation with her husband. Those kinda feels.

Bad.Today is her sisters birthday. Watching her grow into a woman was one of the best parts of the 12 year relationship im recovering from.

>>40682245
>>40682245

doing great actually
im losing more weight as days pass.
soon im gonna bulk like crazy
life hasnt been this good in a while

i was a depressed POS before i found exercise

>>40682245
First time in years I feel pretty fucking good. Broke up for good with BPDex gf, after almost 2 years of abuse, 7 months ago. Was pretty emotionally scarred, felt really empty, worthless, depressed and insecure. Shut down offers from girls since I did not want to commit and was afraid of getting with a nutcase again. I didn't trust anyone really and couldn't open up anymore, isolating me from friends. Then 2 months ago I met my current gf. Took me awhile but I started to trust her after I got to know her and her family. 21 yo, 9/10 in law school and was a virgin. Was paranoid at first because this seemed to good to be true but just went for it and really happy I did.
Pretty fucking weird how a person can brainwash someone, they supposedly love, so bad they feel less than garbage and how finding the right person can just make all the shame and insecurities vanish.

>>40682684
Is this really the best time to solve puzzles anon?

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I finally hit a 3 plate bench this week. Did it for 4 and I was so happy for a few minutes. Then I looked in the mirror and realised im still a 230lb fatass who cant eat properly to save his life. I hate myself so much.

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>you will never be a ideal
>you will never be a inspiration
>you will never have top tier genetics
>all your actual problems are encoded in your DNA

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>slowly making gains
>going to college, doing OK
>I burn out easily, because infj
>not studying as much as I should be the past 2 weeks
>lost interest in all my classes
>only thing I really want in life is love
>I have a specific defensive mechanism
>due to certain girls in my past, anyone who shows interest is avoided
>it's a never ending loop
>23 now
>never been on a date, never been intimate before with a girl before
>not sure if I will ever get over it
>some days are better than others
>some days are REALLY bad though
>today I'm alright, but still getting over yesterday because it was a bad day
>going to go to sleep now though
>tomorrow is a new day though and I need to think positive
>goodnight /fit/

>>40682746
I am on my shamanic calling

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BRAAAAAAAAAP

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>>40682245
>visit girlfriend across country at uni
>spend hundreds of dollars
>all going well the first 3 days
>doing all sorts of cute couple shit
>feelsgoodman.jpg
>fastforward last night there
>she says go drink with [my friend who flats in the same town]
>I say na I just wanna hang with out with you
>She basically tells me to go and have a good time since I haven't seen [friend] in fucking ages
>okay i guess
>"say goodbye to me when you go but ill see you in town"
>text her I was leaving, no idea where she is
>"Okay cya"
>seemsgood
>after drinking go back to her room
>shes not there
>okay must still be out
>wake up, flight in a couple hours, shes still not there
>feelsbadman.jpg
>snapchat and text her, seens both
>feelsworseman.jpg
>get home, angry/sad that she isn't replying and wont tell me whats up
>whatever ill go gym and feel better
>after gym text her friend and ask whats up
>shes crying, wont tell her why
>fastforward, apparantly its because I didnt say goodbye even though I thought I was gonna see her later
>she didnt say goodbye for my flight
>didnt sleep with me
>sperg out at her over text tell her its not fair etc
>barely speaking to me atm

I dont know what to do fit. At the moment I'm just leaving it until she cools off but fuck it sucks. I did all this shit for her and the one time I could have done something slightly better she has a meltdown.

>>40682245
Not bad I guess. Had an awesome camping trip with my bros last two days.

>mfw no hot gf to bang in tent, then cuddle and fall asleep together.

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>>40682245
Not holding up good bros.

I'm 35y old virgin, but not the /r9k/ women hating kind.

The grip is slipping, not sure I can hold on.

>>40682245
My depression got worse. I distance myself from my friends and one of my roommates who was in the hospital for three months is pissed at me because I never visited him. He has no idea that I already hate myself for it, it's just that going out of the apartment has become a chore and I get anxious every time I have to. And I feel the same way about seeing people

If I had a car I'd have left without telling anyone but I don't even have that so I almost cry myself to sleep every night instead

But I finally got the motivation to start lifting somehow, maybe to keep some sanity. So there's that. But since I don't go grocery shopping regularly I'm not gonna make it

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>>40682539
Well serves her right for being a whore.

You said what was needed. In the end your Father will have gained respect for you.

God speed, anon.

>>40683149
Seems really sketchy. She was probably hanging with some other dude.

Not great, unfortunately
I've only ever really met one girl who I could say would be worth the time and effort to be in a relationship with but she was clearly out of my league and I ended up getting the response I expected. Still stuck with lifting though and the progress is one of the few things that keeps me going since I always hated how I looked. At least now I can have more confidence in myself. I've had some girls compliment my looks or how I've been getting "bigger" (I'm really not though because Arnoldmode was never my goal) and it's somewhat encouraging but it doesn't help that none of it matters because I still haven't been able to lift my heaviest weight off me: the knowledge she'll never care about me the way I did, and honestly still do, for her. I've never been on a date or really tries to pursue any other girls because even if I did meet a girl that would be "up to my standards" I'd be nervous to mess it up because it's so fun being an introvert with social anxiety and have never been on a date before so I wouldn't know what do to, this continuing this endless cycle of failure and self loathing. I don't know if I'm gonna make it bros.

>>40683290
Na she wasn't doing that. She had plenty of time to fuck other dudes when I wasn't there. She was with her friends all night. There's also a few other reasons I cbf going into but I've basically crossed this one off the list. It was a worry for a while though.

>>40682261
right there with ya

>>40682245
Amazingly. Girlfriend and I dropped the L bomb this weekend and I've been in a state of bliss.

We're all gonna make it, bros.

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>>40683335
Yeah lets fucking hope dog

Life sucks. Was thinking about how nice it would be to slit my wrists today. Failed mandatory courses in college while all of my friends graduated, 1 year ago. Still havent completed it out of sheer apathy and the fear of failing the courses again. Virgin at 25. No friends. Live at home, no driving license, no employement. Basically a NEET.

>>40683004
lmaoo
t. fat chad

>>40682245
Not well.
The better I get in the gym and on the scale, the worse I feel about myself. Kinda want to see if it's valley before the peak, but I also want to throw everything away.
I already burned every bridge with my family (for my sake mentally and emotionally), stopped talking to my fat and unwilling to change friends, all my coworkers are becoming extremely distant and spreading rumors about me having it good with managers (even though I never interact with them), and my two decade-long passion in music composition has been reduced to a smoldering ember. I want to drink away the pain, binge eat to morbid obesity again, and chain smoke cigars like I did before I got shit together.
I have no reason to feel this way which is the worst part. /blogpost

>>40682379
>Perhaps I can make some new friends like this at a new office?
>Fuck, I hope other people workout at this company

>>40683314
>She had plenty of time to fuck other dudes when I wasn't there
>implying she cares

>>40683402
I see where you're coming from, and it's very easy to be cynical about it, but I just don't think that's the case.

Then again I could be blinded by my dick and she's been slamming kids left and right.

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>>40682683
>my family tells me I'm so emotionally flat they're worried about me.
iktf brother

>my professor probably violated some rules about grades for my class
>not sure if anyone else noticed
>going to talk to the university academic people tomorrow
>i just want to pass this class

>tfw thoughts about my childhood keep triggering depression episodes while at the gym or any other time when I'm alone with my own thoughts

I'm trying to get over it. Really what it boils down to is my parents doing a shit job of raising me because they didn't understand I was autistic. Dad in particular was expecting a jock like him. He instead got a fat loser who only wanted to play video games.

I'm a very different person now and I'm trying to develop a better relationship with my parents, but it's difficult.

>>40682245
About to head to work with tons of qts, it's painful because I'm a social autist.

>>40683229
Feeling you bro. Only 23 but I can feel myself zooming to the point you're at.

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>>40682477
you too anon.

Fit is my happy place. It often makes me feel sad but still better in the end.

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>>40683559
Just take a chance even if you think you see it man. If you got a good relationship with a couple good friends, make sure you keep it.

I haven't seen any of my close friends in 5 years, friends I had a strong bond with. But thats more to with me and my own insecurities pushing them and family away.

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>>40682423
>feel like a creep for pursuing a potentially straight guy
>at the same time will always have the "what if" thought in my head for not even trying

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still have this hamstring injury that was mpretty minor in the beginning but I reinjured it a few weeks ago and I still can't play soccer. I also think that I reinjured it more today when doing light squats. All this is probably down to my insomnia over ww3 that's been going on for a while.

>>40683678
>insomnia over ww3
wait what?

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>>40682245
I'm 24 and I have no idea on what to do with my life. I went to college for 6 years. I took a bunch of random classes and failed/dropped most of them. I think I'll end up dropping out at the end of this semester. I work in a restaurant as of now and its fucking brutal. We lost a lot of servers, so that means I have to work more. I tips I make are pretty good, but its not enough to where I can make a very good living.

I've been looking for a new job and I have found some. I'm thinking of getting an entry lvl hr/recruiting job. It might be nice, right? Idk guys, I'm just lost. A lot of my old high school buddies are pretty much in the same position, but they don't seem to care.

Also the fact that I've never had a gf is really getting to me now. The loneliness is kill me.

>>40682245
Just told my mom I probably have major depression, something she has suffered with a lot of her life. Gave me some books, one was "ask and you shall receive", its a bunch of mumbo jumbo desu.

I slipped during spring break, new stretch marks and probably gained 5-10 pounds, goodbye last two weeks.

>>40683748
You are literally me, just switch restaurant for Target.
I was thinking of just joining the Peace Corps or doing some volunteer farming..beats this shit I'm doing now.

>>40682423
do it or you're gay

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>was given the run around and basically turned down
>was gonna go out for a walk to clear my head
>it fucking snowed and I didn't realize it

I just wanna die

>>40683689
worst kor3a has nukes and is fiends with the chinks

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Think I'm finally moving on. Just scared I won't find a girl like my ex ever again.

>pale
>short hair
>firm C cups
>firm butt

>>40682245
finally nailed this black girl with H cups. she turned out to have really small nipples, somehow

got that weird post-sex blues. isn't sex supposed to be fun

>>40683748
>>40683752

you guys should join the French Foreign Legion.

Why the fuck not?

>>40683149
dude go to youtube and type corey wayne

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>>40683876
>C cups

im tired. Im working too much. As of this wednesday i will have had one day off in the last 19 days. And i spent that whole day off apartment hunting. And i found a wonderful apartment that i can barely afford and once i start school in June im gonna have to be very careful with my money because i will be working less. So im trying to establish as much savings as possible right now, hence why im working a lot. I also have to buy furniture when i move into said new apartment in May. And school hasnt even started. Im going to be a whole new level of tired then. My workouts are starting to suffer. I went yesterday cuz i knew i had to but i half-assed my leg day. I just didnt have the mental energy to commit to it.

Im trying to be super committed and work hard because ive been slacking the past few years. Ive been absolutely killing it the last few months but im getting burnt out, worn out. I hope its just a lull but idk.

>>40683899
C is pretty good on thin girls.

>>40683890
hey q, move fast?

>>40683942
what?

>>40682245
im ending my junior year of college and havent enjoyed it and havent had a gf i feel like ive wasted it. Feelsbadman

>>40682245
entered a depressive episode

>havent taken clothes from dryer in 3 weeks
>sink hasnt been emptied for a week going on two
>havent been to the gym in the last week and a half
>hardly eating

idk what happened desu

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>>40683962

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>>40682245
pretty bad, she got engaged yesterday. I know for sure it's over now.

>>40683748
Im you but 25 turning 26 this year. Its fucking terrible

>>40682477
>>only two ways to go
What are they?

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>>40683982
get back on the horse, anon. you can do it. we're all gonna make it someday

>>40682245
I'm un love with one of my best friends. She's recently gotten engaged, too. It's a long distence relationship.
I am suffering so much. Don't know if I should tell her how I feel. I don't wanna ruin what I have with her, but it's killing me. We are studying partners and I see her pretty much every day, so it's not like I can just forget about her like I'd do with any other girl.

>>40684112
>I'm un love with one of my best friends. She's recently gotten engaged, too. It's a long distence relationship.
faaaaaaag

>>40684112
what kind of dumbass gets engaged in a LDR

>>40684122
Yeah I know
>>40684134
Didn't mean to say engaged, but she IS in a LDR.
She does travel a lot, so I guess it could work for her

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>>40682245
well im a fat sack of fat trying my best to lose fat and build muscle.... so i suppose fine

>>40684164
>Yeah I know
then stop homo

I hit the town on Saturday and I talked to this girl, but I am pure autism and didn't make a move. I got a hug tho, so I guess you can say things are getting pretty serious

>>40684192
I'm in my early 20s and she's the first real crush I've had. And it's not like I can just cut ties with her.

>>40684237
>And it's not like I can just cut ties with her.
yeah you can you just wont because you're a faggot and want to spend time with her

>>40684246
Of course I do. I am not going to lose a friendship like that just because I like her and can't have her. Female friends are great, and I will have to learn to live with it. Maybe the feels will fade away, maybe they won't.

>>40684313
>female friends are great

>>40684313
>Maybe the feels will fade away,
no, you'll sperg out and ruin it anyway
idiot

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>>40684313
dumb guy

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Not doing good at all, still hung up on this girl whom I told all about my feelings for her face to face, I got a positive response then, but the day after I had to find out through twitter that she wasn't being exactly forthwright with me. I texted her and confronted her about it and that's when I got the whole lay me down gently bullshit , the whole you're a great guy, you were so brave for telling me blah blah blah let's be friends. I still see her every weekend and my heartbeat raises and my pupils dilate like crazy, i always have to take a momemt to compose myself if she catches me off guard, fuuuuck it feels like i'm sick, but there is no iminent cure. Hold me brehs.

>>40682721
Sadly son, you know the reason

>>40684359
>I still see her every weekend
stop, loser.

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>>40684086
Not him but I'm 28 kissless, friendless, virgin that's still a DYEL. My time is running out to fast to get truly back ok track. Like how many chances do I even have with a gf before it's too late? One relationship that ends badly and lasts too long and I'm done for. My first gf that has to magically fly to me within a few months is my last and only chance.

Yay.

>>40683149
>>fastforward, apparantly its because I didnt say goodbye even though I thought I was gonna see her later

she's inventing reasons to get upset at you and to paint you as the bad guy to her friends. She's either going to cheat on you (possibly already has) or going to break up with you but she'll paint it as your fault. Sorry to say dude, but at this point it's pretty much over. I know it's not easy but in the long run I can pretty much guarantee you that the best thing to do is break up with her, go no contact and move on as quickly as possible.

>>40684313
I don't know what kind of advice you expected from this place.
Do whatever you feel like doing. Just know that the healthier thing to do is to talk to her about it.
>>40684341
Like you'd know

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>>40684359
Furthermore i've been sexting this fat chick who is a complete freak, she's 15 and has the tightest pussy, she started masturbating because of me, she had her first orgasm because of me, she a real sweet girl too, and not terrible looking but just fat, not even the face, just a really plump body. She's told me already just how much she loves me and how much it breaks her down when i tell her i'd die for this other girl that rejected me. She has agreed to us being just friends with benefits but she's really in love with me. And i think i like her too but idk, not drawn to her as i am to the other chick. I make this fat chick suffer alot with my bullshit, but she always comes back for more. The chick that rejected me is really hot btw, tall, long legs, amazing body, beautiful face, beautiful lips, nose, gorgeous black silky hair, she classic latina beauty.

>>40684359
>>40684112
You guys are fucked. I know these feels all too well

>>40684370
lel I know I have to, it's the only way to move on. I'm planning on moving out of state anyways soon. I'll still see her every now and then because she is the niece of my aunt's husband.

>>40683827
also I don't trust putin at all with nukes. It's just an idea that I can't get out of my head

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Im doing alright, sorta. Im getting my diet figured out and im beginning to look aesthetic (at least by normie standards) , but no matter how much I lift I know I'll never win her back.I still dream about her, but she probably doesn't think about me anymore since she's got another bf. And i still hate myself. But at least I have progress in my gains I guess

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>>40684482
Also my only true friends are the ones that I lift with, so I kinda feel like I found where i truly belong. I'd still do anything to be back with /her/ though

>>40684482
>she's got another bf
getting picked nightly while YOU whine about her on the internet

>>40683479
Fucking hell this is me except skinny not fat. My parents wondered why I literally had no friends and played video games all day. Now that I'm an adult I'm a diagnosed ''''major depressive""" and I've got an appointment with my doc where I'm gonna ask like yo do you think I'm an autist?

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>>40684359
Lifting helps with depression massively lads. Would've been a broken mess otherwise. Right now i want to just focus on lifting and drawing, forget about silly girls for a while, maybe fuck around on tinder to not loose game.

>>40684495
>picked
dicked

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>8/10 girl falls in love with me
>fuck it up because i'm a retard
>make her cry
>didn't set a bench PR today i was hoping for

fuck sake

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>>40684432
Fat chick was really into choking lads, I knew right away since i saw just how much she loved chokers. She also liked to wear all black clothing and her hair wild like.

>>40682245
Manlet here. Feeling good as I'm finally only 8-9 lbs away from my abs bring free from fat, but a bit lonely. I have a lot of friends, but I'm going to college next year so I'm a bit scared, too.

I just want to get buff before college so I can focus on my studies and look better.

>>40684517
kys

>>40684527
I might

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>>40682245

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A couple years ago I had some muscle but acted like a total sperg. All the missed opportunities.

Now my I'm more confident but I've let my body go. It could take a year to get back.

I don't know if I have it in me anymore.

went out with a guy from tinder and already sperging out that he doesnt like me , anxiety brehs

Stopped hanging out with all my friends since all we did was drugs and I wanted to clean up my life. 2 years on and all I've got is my gf and one friend.
>TFW 26 and only 1 friend
>Want to cry when I think about all the awkward situations it brings
>Want to propose to my gf but die inside thinking of a wedding where she has 100 family and friends there and my family and one friend will be thinking the whole time I'm a loner

>>40684495
Yeah probably
>picked
What did you mean by this

>>40684507
>>40684571

for anons who might need a little boost

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TfadJj4d5K4

I've always remembered this from when I was younger. Discovered it again right before I graduated from Uni last May

I'd be doing a hell of a lot better if my love handles would go away.

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>>40684495
I mean what else am i supposed to do? I can't talk to anyone else about it because she's in my friend circle and someone would let it slip, and its not like i can just "ayy gurl check out my sweet 1rm please fuckin take me back". Shitposting with you faggots and lifting is all the stress relief i have

>>40682417
>pretty close to another suicide attempt
same

>>40684584
What a coincidence. I rediscovered this vid like a month ago. Too based.

>>40682379
also engineer. graduate school in a few months and have a job lined up. I doubt it has a gym though. I fucking wish

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How do you tell if a girl likes you? I have this coworker and recently she's been really nice to me and follows me around. I liked her initially when she first came but got over it quickly.
>she will find excuses to talk to me
>she's handsy
>she likes to take pictures with me
>she keeps saying how she's never going to get into a good relationship
>she keeps saying how she wants a white male bf (she's asian)

I don't get it, I'm completely autistic in real life and am fat as shit. I make her laugh but most of the time I'm just saying autistic shit or sperging out about random trivia. What do bros? She seems happy in real life but a little distant on texts.

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>>40684622
>she's in my friend circle
>>40684622
>take me back

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>>40682245

Still getting over getting dumped. I've been trying to be more social and I've stoped using the terms "my girl" and "my gf" (even as in my girl left me) because she's not mine anymore. It hurts because after being used to doing everything with her for 3 years, it just makes me think about her whenever I do anything like go to movies with friends or go out to eat.

Lifts are going up at least

>>40684719
>I liked her initially when she first came but got over it quickly.
nothing you're not interested

>forever alone all my life
>not ugly or anything, just generally hate people
>somehow meet hot as fuck girl with no friends
>hang out almost every day
>has my type of humor
>comes to the gym with me
>becomes my gf
>lose vcard to her
>shes my best friend and only friend
>ends up meeting some popular as fuck guy in school
>partys every weekend
>im at home browsing /fit/ and lifting every day
>back to where i started and now 50x more depressed

Fuck

>>40682554
What's a "twink"?


I'm worried I might be one.

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>>40682245
got shot down by my lab partner today. fuck. only fucking 3 more months of awkwardness. we literally have the same hobbies and goals, but she's "not looking for that kind of relationship right now". Hurts a lot more than it should, probably because I felt like I'd finally made some progress before graduation. saved up the cash and confidence to dress semi decent, cut my hair, changed my major so nobody knew who the fuck I was. still havent fixed my fucked up teeth, but i doubt thats what sunk me. probably aimed a bit high with her, kinda out of my league.

fuck guys, its been 5 fucking years since a girl looked at me with any inkling of desire. Senior year was pulling girls from the anime club as an auschwitz mode king of the autists, and now that i'm done with college it feels like ive fucking moved backwards. Every year that goes by I keep wondering "has it been long enough for one of them to decide to settle for me?" fuck. guess I'll really be the stable branch a chick grabs before she hits rock bottom. wonder if i can turn things around before grad school

>>40684738
yeah, but what if I am now? what do bros?

>mid January
>be alcoholic
>drinking 3-5 times per week for 8 months and every day for two months
>liver hurts
>I weigh 65kgs
>the horror is around every corner
>stop drinking completely at Jan 17
>don't even think about booze now
>met the barmen from my favourite bar at a party, she asked where have I gone
>I don't drink anymore smug.jpg
>started doing SS a month ago
>now I'm 69kgs
>very high energy
>feel superiour to my surroundings
>the horror is still there
>I cry sometimes

>>40684839
That's very typical - you met a person that was alone not because she chose to do so but because she was insecure.
See, as a rather introverted person you need to meet someone that also is introverted, not someone that is just too scared to be extroverted for the moment.

You scored a gf once, you'll score another and that next one will be better then the previous one - it's always like that.
Prey that you have some luck and find the right one early enough, that is basically the only critical thing.

>>40684882
You gotta embrace the horror and make it work for you.

>>40684853
Try online dating - the chances of meeting a woman through work just is too slim.
You also need the dating experience - go take some good pictures, make a profile in whatever local dating app and put yourself out there.

Apart from that, just try to do things that you enjoy and like with your life. Do something fun with your free time and enjoy yourself. Get your brain off the idea that you need a woman to be happy - it might feel like that sometimes, but that should be the minority of the week.

And fix your teeth lad, it won't become better the longer you drag it out.

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>started a fight with family for no reason
>got disgusted at the idea of someone doing something for me
>got angry at a radio program discussing anxiety just because they were discussing anxiety
I'm broken

>>40684954
It could always be worse. You could have the waking horror of being mistaken for a female to male tranny. That's only one of the nightmares that make up my existence.

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>arranged for a dinner date tomorrow
>messaged her to tonight to reconfirm
>it's been left on "seen" for the past few hours
>she's online too
>tfw I opened with a generic hey hows it going?
w-wat do? do I message her again tomorrow?

Started dating for the first time at 24 and actually met a great qt. Long story short, I've never been physically affectionate before. Like never hugged or anything, outside of family. She hugged and kissed me at the end of a date and made plans for us to go skydiving together. When I got back to my car I had this rush of emotion of being really happy and really sad all at once, due to lack of physical affection. It was a straight up mental bluescreen and I started bawling like a pussy. How do I get over this?

>>40684970
Ask about confirmation asap. Otherwise she'll think you're ok with ignoring

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>>40684979
i can relate. pic related.
>>40684985
>Ask about confirmation asap. Otherwise she'll think you're ok with ignoring
It's like almost 2 am, wouldnt this appear desperate, or overbearing?, was thinking of doing it in the morning

>>40685008
Oh damn I forgot about time zones. I's 11 am where I am. Yeah, ask in the morning.

>>40684970
Have her reconfirm. And remember and consider this behavior.
Ask yourself if you want to build up a relationship with someone that does this.
It's already a great sign of disrespect and lack of empathy.

People need to become a little more picky with women. The fact that she looks good and agreed to go on a date with you doesn't allow her to be shitty.
Don't go into dates with such an imbalanced idea in your head - you are on one level and you should critically consider her character.

>>40682245
Tried the new batch of acid
>does not wear off
g-guys?

>>40685049
Time to listen to some vaporwave.

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>>40685073

>>40684979
You only get over by getting comfortable with physical contact. Start with holding hands.

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>>40685073
school in 90 minutes, gotta drive there

>>40682500
>if your gay
insecure much

>parents selling their home and my sisters and I's childhood home
>sisters want us all to be there to "surprise them"
>parents hate me and only reason I'm going is because I still have a couple buddies in the same city I'd like to see
>sisters give me literally less then two weeks notice and after I tell them I need more then two weeks notice to take vacation days from work they get pissy and tell me I'm a piece of shit for not wanting to go
>say fuck it and ask my boss anyways
>he gets me the days off
>another coworker has to reschedule his vacation around mine but he's super cool about it
>yesterday I get a text from one of my sisters saying she's not going because the sister who literally planned the whole thing said "I can't get the days off" even though she told us she could be down there on the dates she gave us
>get stupid pissed because I just wasted a week of vacation for nothing and I won't be getting the overtime hours I normally get weekly so I'll be getting almost 700 less that week
>group text them saying theyre actual retards for wasting my time
>they get pissy at me for "acting like a dick"
>they ask if I could ask my boss to move my vacation days a week later
>don't want to because my coworker already changed his shit for me and I don't want to be an asshole
>they get pissy again and tell me I'm not trying hard enough

Why can't I just cut contact with these cunts?

>>40685084
Take a cab or call in sick and take a hike

Broke up with my girlfriend of 2 years.

Found out she cheated on me with a girl when we broke up for a few days last fall. There are many more details to justify me leaving her, but they're not important. She cheated so I broke up with her

I love her a lot so my work and gym productivity have been suffering a lot. I've caved and eaten several bad meals too because I haven't been in the mood to cook. I'm happy we broke up because I hadn't been happy with her for a long time and was really just waiting for a reason to leave her. It's still hard, though.

Just trying to stay on track. Currently posting from the gym so wish me luck on making it my dudes. Gonna be moving back home soon so my life's gonna be taking a big turn

>>40685027
>Ask yourself if you want to build up a relationship with someone that does this.
>It's already a great sign of disrespect and lack of empathy.
This has actually been on my mind, is there a "point" where I should just say "fuck it, she's just leading me on"? Because signs point that she's into me, but I have little to no dating experience to make good judgement.

>>40682731
Of course she didn't come you fucking idiot

>>40682245
I feel guilty because I dumped my girlfriend because we are just too different and hardly ever have time for eachother. We have been off and on and she claims I led her on and I never really loved her. I tried to explain that I did really love her but loving someone doesn't always mean you're right for them.

>>40685132
He's talking about himself

>>40685157
>Couldn't cum. Not sure if she did or not
Read further

>>40685104
might fucking call in sick till lunch, fuck this
>shoo shoo getye gone mental golem

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>>40683891
Now this is an idea

>>40682245
pretty good actually, life is going in a good direction now

>>40685127
Go see her and be your own judge.

It's not about wether or not she is into you btw - it's about whether or not her personality sucks.

>>40683891
Spotted a French recruiter
Why not their nation's armies?

I'm getting tired of women treating me like a dildo with legs. I can rarely get a girl to even text me back after sex. What gives? They are chatty as hell before hand, I fuck them, then never hear from them again.

WHY AM I ONLY ATTRACTED TO QT BOYS WHO GIVE ME VAGUE ANSWERS AND DRIVE ME NUTS REEEEEEE

>>40685219
Maybe you're a shit lover?

>>40684841
the small "cute" type of gay guy. Skinny, pretty much no body hair. Like an underdeveloped boy.

>>40685242
they seem to enjoy it well enough

>>40685243
Well shit. I pretty much have the body of a 13 year old boy. Feels weird.

>>40685099
protip: you can

>>40682245

Have not lifted in 3 months cause I have been sick on and off and losing weight, mostly muscle it seems.

Been dealing with low energy, night sweats, aches, low grade fever, and the shits in varying degrees.

My doctors think I may have chron's disease, getting a camera up my ass next week to find out for sure.

Really sucks and the past few months have been hard but I'm going to do whatever it takes to get healthy / manage my illness well enough to accomplish my physical goals.

Don't take your health for granted!

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Mostly shitty but lifting is helping

I've gained 25 pounds since I started and I've almost beat the skeleton. I still want to die whenever I look into a mirror though.

I will beat the skeleton

>>40685243
Is this why people think homosexuals are pedos?

>>40684072
Hang yourself or suck dick

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>>40684313
>Maybe the feels will fade away, maybe they won't.

you know they won't but you're too afraid of the future

>>40685262
it's important to have a midlength lesbian haircut, thick lips and a cute butt. being gay is so normalized in society it doesn't even really register to most people, i'd wager the average college aged guys have had their dicks sucked by a feminine sub at a party in some drunken exchange they'd rather forget.

I know 2 of my gym buddies who are turbo chads and they fuck guys on the side because they can be more rough with them than their gf's and there is more sexual availability. If you're homophobic it must be a pretty fucking apocalyptic world out there, just go to a mall on a weekend, you will see dudes walking around, kissing, holding hands and shit, young guys in their teens doing this.

The pendulum swung too far, but that's that.

>>40685293
Homo's are overly represented as pedo's. They make up less than 3% of the population, yet commit almost 40% of sex crimes against children. Look it up.
A child has 16x the chance being molested by a homo versus a straight male.

>>40684622
just bee yourself and flex a 'cep

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>>40682245
Super fucking good.

Just fucked some chick with a fat ass after she was mirin my DYEL bod.

Doesn't make me want to stop lifting, though. I want to get stronger for me and for her.

Feeling Chadmode tbqh

>>40684112
she's obviously not interested dude. you need to make an excuse to get drunk together in isolation, and then you will see, if she comes on to you, or it gets awkward she wants to smash, 99% chance she is just uninterested and a platonic friend. Telling her won't do anything, it has to be a sexual encounter, to bridge the gap.

>>40685322
The only thing that really detracts from the rest of my features is the slight stubble on my face. I have to shave almost every day or it is very noticeable. I don't know if I'd want to be fucked by a guy though. I don't think that's for me.

>>40685073
Acid ruined Macintosh Plus for me. I realized how lazy it was put together and produced.

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>>40682245
>tfw constantly unsure if people dislike/look down on you or if you're just projecting your own self hatred

>>40685357
Yung Lean still makes me laugh. I have the goal of getting him to Skype with me. I want to ask that dude some deep shit.

Plus, I'm kind of able to pull those strings and get it done.

>>40685339
get the hell out of our thread, ya dang hunk

>>40685344
most gay dudes just love giving head and worshiping dick. (hence why so many bi dudes love twinks, because it kinda looks like a girls face doing it)

anal sex with girls takes a lot of preparation on their end, so i can only imagine it's the same with guys. when i drill my gf's asshole she has to be relaxed, freshly showered and pooped, already be very aroused from like 30mins of foreplay around her ass and vagina, the juice is not worth the squeeze most times, nobody wants a shitty dick or anal fissures.

I think there's a misconception about gay sex, yeah some guy out there is dildoing his asshole with a giant latex horse dick, but most probably just eat ass and suck dick, it seems to me very unfulfilling.

Imagine if your fetish was just eating pussy, smelling it, touching it, sucking it. Then when it came to fucking it, you were not really biologically capable of doing anything except maybe rubbing up against it. Must be frustrating as fuck being a lesbian.

when i mentioned gym buddies fucking dudes- they mostly get their dicks sucked, it's a psychological release probably. I wouldn't do it, but with a cute feminine guy it's definitely a fantasy. no homo.

>>40685389
Should I just stick to putting on a little weight and disregard becoming /fit/? I have all the right genetics for twink status. I just have a skinny face. At 5'4" it kind of seems like a given.

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>>40685407
twinks are pretty ripped still, fit calls them ottermode, i think it looks better on short guys than building mass. A lot of girls go for the cute short guy look and all girls love athletic toned bodies.

if you're short, you might as well embrace it and build a body that fits your skeletal structure, nothing is sadder than manlets who get huge and then develop all kinds of health complications from straining their organs.

This guy looks to be around 5'6, that's a respectable goal body for anyone and achievable in 2-4 years of dedicated lifting.

>>40685450
Yeah, hence why I'm a bit torn as to what to do.

>>40685367

Probably the latter, everyone's got their insecurities. Everyone.

>>40685367
early stages of schizophrenia
i got them too, hold tight.

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>>40685114
>Found out she cheated on me with a girl when we broke up for a few days last fall.
>her face when

>>40684385
W-We're all going to make it.

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>>40682245
I'm fine

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>be a docile and friendly guy
>not big at all
>few weeks ago
>friends birthday dinner
>get drunk
>want to use bathroom
>door is closed
>guy is lightly knocking on it, no response
>knock on it really fucking hard (bruised my finger)
>whole dinner halts
>huge bartender walks towards me asks me what the deal is in an intimidating pose
>go up to him ask him how the fuck am I supposed to piss
>never intend to actually hit him, don't think he will either
>another bartender comes to me and explains it's clogged so they closed it
>I calm down
>everyone is surprised I acted like that
>feel bad for throwing a tantrum and apologize sincerely several times to the friend whose birthday it is

I had never acted violently when drunk, I don't see why I would this time either, life is going great:
Lost my virginity last month, gains are very slowly coming along, not much stress in uni.

Is it getting to me /fit/? Am I becoming an asshole? How do I stop it? I don't want this to happen again, but I'd like to get drunk and have fun ;___;

>>40682684
Dude don't worry about it. Hardly the worst thing in the world, plus you get a little bro kidlet to train on squats

>>40682245
I had a kid when I was 18 with a crazy girl who has BPD, we split a while ago, split custody.
Old flame hit me up a while ago, we had sex a few times, first time I had sex in six months. Now she's pregnant. I'm 21

New girl is moving across the country, probably won't know my other kid. Other bitch is on hard drugs now and is homeless.

B...but at least I have my gains...

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>>40682245
Shit is going great actually, well after months of shit.
>dropped out of highschool last year in January
>literally sat in my house from January to September
>in September failed drivers test the second time, no chance for job
>freak out, end up going to a psycheward for 25 days... they wouldn't let me out and it was a "voluntary admission" so I could still buy guns.
>come home after 25 days in psycheward and get kicked out the day I come home from mom
>lived at grandmas for 5 months, just got back
>did some LSD
>feeling better
>going to run some DNP to lose this fat
>make tindr profile of abs
>profit
>start taking a one semester course in phlebotomy, I'll have my own place before 19. Lel.
>Be nasm certified aswell, be making 2,500+ a month
>no plans of a four year degree until I'm atleast 22.
>I have a lot of dreams and so many options in my life.

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>>40686609
Look into zazen meditation. Most effective form, cured all mental problems.

>>40684313
>Female friends are great
Sorry to break this to you my dude, but guys and girls cannot be friends unless one or both of them are gay and some times not even then. You're living proof of this. Move on and find a girl that has no guy friends.

>girlfriend broke up of 4 years broke up with me 2 years ago
>basically over it
>Ate like absolute dogshit and started going out every single weekend, and gained a bit of fat
>been seeing a cute girl, but only talks to me when she sees me on Friday nights, and ignores me the rest of the week

Life could be better, but could be worse.
Gotta start eating clean again, and fuck a few bitches and ill be fine.

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>>40682245
broke an 18 month dry spell this weekend with blonde thicc qt
>how anon got his groove back
I just went to the store walking around all confident catching mires.

>>40682245
playing runescape and just chilling mate

>>40686867
Look into some DNP if you're really fat. I'm 230, I got depressed living at my grandmas. Antidepressants didn't help. I was down to 205 and flopped pretty bad. Run 250mg for a month and you'll lose like 30-45 pounds.

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got my meat succt at a massage parlor an hour ago. Gonna go work then probably sprint later.

I'm doin fuggin great man

>>40684860
kys

>>40686869
Yep you just gotta go where women want to meet people. I've had astoundingly hot women give me looks in bookstores, the gym and other places.
>tfw hot women legitimately flirt with you but you see no good things about your fat virgin body.

>>40684853
>kinda out of my league.
kys loser

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>>40686894
Just got a new job, halfway tempted to do this. I hope they don't mind my yellow DNP jizz.
>mfw if she's swallows it raises her metabolism

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>>40682245
>Got close with some girl at work
>always touching each other
>each time we go out with work people, we end up making out
>when i ask her to hang or go do something she says she's busy or just acts distant
Annoying as fuck desu, especially since the other girls there say she's got the hots for me

>>40686942
Fuck the other one, tell her she led you on too much. NEVER let women lead you on m8, they are psychologically broken and on a weirddddddd power trip.

>>40686894
Hey, it's my favorite stand.

Murder Monarch

>>40686914
yeah bro it all sounds like such a cliché but unless you're really ugly and/or really fat it's really amazing what some self-confidence can do. I guess I was giving off this desperate vibe wondering why I couldn't get laid. Now that I have basically proven myself I can slay some, I don't care anymore resulting in dem mires.

>>40686959
Too many guys are overly controlling over conversations and shit. I've had a lot more luck being laid back than trying to be interesting. Let her lead the conversation and shit, really like the more mature social skills I've been getting.

I've been seeing all these girls, but as soon as I show some vulnerabilities they leave.

I don't really care about sex, I would just like someone to care about me.

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Past 5 years of my life have been the same day over and over but finally, in 2 months, I'm moving out.

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>>40686953
I think i'll give it one more go, since i've only asked her out once, and if it's a no go then i'll focus else where
Shame if it doesn't pan out though since the girl and me click well

>>40687022
She might be insecure and believe that if she is too "easy" you will lose interest.

>>40686995
HAHAHAHA
>genuinely caring about men
>even genuinely talking to guys outside of trying to arouse them
I'm going to be honest anon, I've never found a woman in my life who is real with me. I don't think women know how to be genuine.
You find some outliers but most normie girls are amazingly shallow. Like they strive to be bland kek

>>40687036
No she probably wants him but doesn't REALLY want him, I mean we don't know but that's usually how that shit goes. It's hard to get away from a women's predisposition of you. Sometimes that's a good thing, sometimes it isn't.

Not good at all.

I am currently facing pretty hard decisions. I am studying accounting at the moment which has pretty promising career path in my country. My grades are good because I am pretty autistic in a sense that I am happy to spend my day just studying and lifting. So future is looking kinda bright, eh?

My dream is to be part of some special unit (leo or mil). I have some years under my belt in military and I liked it very much. It gave me a whole different level of fulfillment than this accounting bullshit. The bad thing is that only really interesting career path for me in my countrys military is going sf, which I am preparing for. I am also considering transferring over to leo so I could try out into a swat team. That kind of a life has much more meaning to me.

The problem is that I have to decide whether I:
>just continue accounting and supress my broken dreams by alcohol and materia

or
>chase my dreams and possibly fail and end up as lower paygrade worker in leo

tl;dr: should you chase your dreams or just settle for an okayish life?

And yeah, I know my dreams are pretty childish.

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>>40686939
I would. It was my first time going, didn't wanna whack one out and I just got my financial aid. Figured why not. Worth every penny.

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>>40687036
Odd if true, i'm pretty sure i've mentioned the interest
Though one of the girl i regularly hang with did say i'm too chill about this

>>40687068
>No she probably wants him but doesn't REALLY want him
This is a thing?

>>40687084
I mean it's not something to live your life by but I've noticed the behavior a lot. Some girls just want to text and send nudes (like my last "gf"... fuck her..)
Some want to just peep you in the gym for fun.
Some want to fuck
Some want a long term relationship
Some states are more liquid than others but girls can souly want you for sex and not a real relationship. Women are pretty twisted I've realized. Like women that lead you on, I always get the fuck outta dodge. They are emotional vampires that lure you in with love/romance but then are cold as fuck.
> "like yeah I'd fuck you but not all time"
>oh wow if you stab his heart he bleeds, who would've thought

>>40687084
Some girls in highschool for example go into a relationship souly to sit at lunch and maybe go see movies but with the predisposition to never fuck. That behavior carries on into adulthood.

>Hottest grill(8/10 face, 7/10 body, mentally fucked though) on a non-hookup app, gets at least 5 messages a day, has countless orbiters, both irl and online
>treat her like absolute shit, she falls for the bait
>call her one night(grills get wet at the sound of my voice)
>end up having phone sex, she sends nudes after a week of talking
>week passes with phone sex a couple nights
>drives 50 minutes just to fuck
>only slightly taller than her without shoes
>manlet.jpeg
>show her my music
>wet
>fuck her for 2 hours
>ignore her afterwards
>sends me more nudes
>"maybe i'm actually half decent at sex"
>probs gonna fuck her again

lanklets btfo'd

Well, I had fun in here. Be back some time later. Bye normies.

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>>40687133
>>40687147
Damn that shit sucks
Well all i can do is give it a go and see what happens

>Will have to break off a 1.5 LTR with my blonde qt soon.

Sucks.

Also >having normie problems on /fit/

>>40687206
It's not so bad, if a woman wants you there is a hormone that goes off in their brain to make them loyal. It's called vasopressin. Mammals that are meant to be monogamous have much higher levels of this hormone. If you make her release a lot of oxytocin and dopamine when you're around she will associate you with happiness while also increasing levels of vasopressin.
That's why MDMA in couples therapies have been so damn effective in couples therapies studies with psychedelic drugs by MAPS.

>>40687206
Forgot link about vasopressin
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Vasopressin

>>40687300
Just don't give a fuck and remember this is a numbers game. Don't put her on pedestal, no single woman is that hot dude.

>>40687318
i have to see her at my job

what the fuck then

>>40687058
Man, it really is a male fantasy to be romantic.

>>40685097
Gay much

>>40687325
Find someone else quickly as possible. That will fix things up real quick, shitty as it sounds.

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>>40687291
>>40687298
That's...pretty interesting actually
Thanks anon

>>40687325
Same as me mate, the desire dies soon enough - just make sure to point out flaws mentally when you see her to lessen your autism

>>40686995
Look for friends rather than love. I have many caring friends, male and female... It is just that none are going to my college. Hell, I haven't seen one since Jr. High but we still talk

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>>40687337
>>40687338
I DONT WANT TO LET GO

>>40687340
Yeah, I am coming to realise that a relationship can't replace what I haven't got in my friends.

I need to find more caring friends, too bad when I get along really well with a girl I start to make it sexual.

>>40687429
It's fine to make it sexual if you flirt well and are confident. If you're good, even if you fail it could add another avenue of humor--Salty relationship advice

I won a fencing competition on Saturday. Pretty big deal to me.

I got my unemployment benefits cut today and still no sign of work. I'm so fucked.

>>40687477
Which weapon? Foil?

Sabrefags need not apply

>>40682487
this tbqh

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>>40682477
take the Peterson-pill and /sort yourself out/
we're all gonna make it

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>>40687548
Longsword actually. It was a HEMA competition.

I'm an old Epee man if I'm honest. Love Foil too though.

>>40687475
Yeah, I'm dogshit at flirting but I am getting better. I can sense the air really well so I often kiss them which is appreciated in the moment but when we meet again it is stilted.

How do I become a more interesting conversationalist?

>>40683037
ayahuasca?

>>40687684
don't talk about the weather.

don't talk about things you don't enjoy

listen

speak with conviction.

>>40687684
Listen and be interested in other people.
Do and think about interesting things.

For me I have to attempt to be more present, I could talk forever about general topics such as philosophy, music or goals in life but to me that gets boring because it is so detached to what you are doing right now.

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>>40687684
You are as interesting as you are interested.

Increasingly as you get older the divide between people who are willing to start conversations and those who are not becomes wider and wider.

If you can't live a full and exciting life and have long list of anecdotes to share have a long list of questions to ask instead.

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>>40682245
>tfw still chubbyfat, as i gained 22 lbs, but half of it fat.
>tfw having turned wizard 3 months ago
>tfw wanting to restart martial arts, but its over 1 hour drive
>tfw none of my dreams came true
>tfw i lost a little of my ability to feel emotions to cope with the lonlyness of being a wizard

Meh, could be better.

Technically not a virgin but might as well be
>party in college every weekend
>not autist just shy
>need exactly the right amount of alcohol to talk to a girl, but not be too drunk
>also have really specific taste in women
>rarely do I drink the right amount of alcohol, find the right girl, talk to her and get her to like me, and bring her back
>I've had sex with 3 girls in my life

Help bros

>>40682245
Got a sick haircut, feeling great man ;)

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>>40687737
>Hold an open pose... stand with your legs apart, hands on your hips and shoulders back while doing this [...] You are in charge

Holy shit literally baneposting in interviews.

>>40687782
try it m8

>you seem like a responsible guy we'd love you to be a part of our team

>for you

>>40687764
If you just want to have more sex:

Talk to girls at parties and make your intentions very clear, it is up to them to reject you.

Example last weekend
>sit down next to two girls saying that I want to talk to strangers
>talk about anything to be more comfortable
>start making awful sex jokes talking about masturbation and hot dogs being like penises
>start talking about age and the half your age plus seven rule implying that "hey we can have sex"
>start making contact with knees and shoulders
>put your hand on their leg when they are into it
>start making out when her friend buys more drinks
The rest is history, if she wasn't into it she could have pulled back at any time, but she was into it.

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>thought I was over with my oneitis, confessed to her etc
>she starts dating a close friend
>realize It'll never work out for me
>dreading the end of my holidays and having to leave my home country again to be lonely.
fuck /fit/, this is some gay shit, but I felt like I could hold on and be lonely all this time because I felt like If I could hold on that it'll eventually work out. Now I can't stand being lonely or in solitude anymore.

>>40682245
pretty good honestly. way ahead in my classes (also an A in each class) and now enjoying spring break. going to the beach on Saturday with my brother and nephews and just have my normal work (programmer intern) this week.

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> Be me
> Be lifting for 6+ years
> still be skinnyfat dyel closeted homo

Today it finally hit me; i was lying to myself thinking the only reason i wasnt successful until now is because i didnt take it seriously enough.

In reality i'm just a pathetic loser who does nothing except lift and play video games and who is awful at both. I should have done society a favor and ended it years ago

>met a new co-worker
>Don't think of her much
>Talk to her and realize we have a lot in common
>Like a girl for the first time in 8 years
>She keeps telling me she likes Hispanic men
>We spend the entire day talking at work but only because there is nothing to do
I won't even ask her out or anything because I don't want her to give her the satisfaction.

>>40688513
Probably should build on that relationship

>>40682261
How old are you

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>>40687070
not everyone can hunker down and study. seems like you're the type that can. that's valuable.

your dream ain't childish. in fact, it's realistic. don't discount your dream as dumb cuz any dream only truly matters to the dreamer.

btw, what would you miss by pursuing your dream? pushing back your entry into the workforce by a year or two? can you wrap up your accounting degree then push forward on your dreams? from what i've seen, even if you halt school, most schools will recognize your credits for 5~10years afterards. you'll still be able to go back to finish school even if you "fail".

but it sounds like you've got the aptitude and drive to fulfill your dreams. i'm just an anonymous guy on the internet, but i'd say go for it. it'd be one less regret later in life.

>>40682245
>be fat shit
>depressed
>unemployed
>continue for two years
>try to check out early
>didnt go as planned
>start on meds
>get doggo
>start walks
>apply for grad school
>get in
>make friends
>start lifting and watching my calorie intake
>Do well in assessments
>start therapy last week
>people are commenting on weight loss
>arms are feeling harder

I still have bad days where I want to end it all, but they're getting less frequent.
I think I'm gonna make it.

still looking for a job. sent out hundreds of applications and have received so few responses and the few that I get are mostly rejections.

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The initial high I got from beginning to work out is gone now and the girl I've started talking to because of my increased confidence that came from the workout high is beginning to show signs of "mike fuck off pls" to me so it looks like I'll be sinking into my old depressive spells in a week or two.

At least I'm not a super fatass anymore just a regular fatass

>>40688828
similar story here

when the bad days happen, i treat them as if I got sick. Just some shitty thing that happens and I wait for it to end, and don't overthink it.

we will make it

>>40682973
Just go on a cut bro. Lift while cutting. You're already stronger than most guys you'll meet and by the summer you'll look better than them too.

Is she into me?

>be uni student
>go to chill in lounge while waiting for friend
>2 other people there, including qt3.14
>sit down
>both of us look at each other and say "you look real familiar"
>asks her name, and she asks mine
>talk when we've met at one party
>just continue to chat it up
>she asks "what's your last name"
>sends a friend request on fb after 10 minutes of meeting
>just talk a little more
>she insists that she feels like we've met before that one party
>says we met at some other party, that I never went to, but I played along with it
>smiles and says that was a good party
>get to doing some of my problem set
>notices her looking at me at one point
>she leaves to go to some invite-only frat thing

what do you think /fit/?
should i be feelsgoodman.jpg rn?

Is it normal to dread squatting ?

I weight 80 kg and now I reached 70 kg plates squats ( not sure how much the bar weights , not less than 10 kg for sure ) and I had to change the programme to 3x5 to stop failing at squats.

No matter how much I do them, I still have to gather my will before entering a set.

Funny thing is, when I stop doing SL and try a bro split, I am left very unsatisfied :
As if I have not lifted really, so I go back to SL.

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>>40684432
>fucking a 15yo
stop right fucking now. You'll completely ruin her image of men, love and sex. Don't fucking do this

>>40689115
>but I played along with it
faggot

>I wasn't at that party but you're pretty damn cute.

queue flirting

>>40689140
>You'll completely ruin her image of men
>implying he already hasn't

>>40682245
I've been dating this girl for about 3 months, we click perfectly personality wise and get along great but she's kind of fat (thicc but no ass/curves) and I've been noticing myself looking at other girls a lot. If she lost the weight and got /fit/ she'd be a 10, however it would take at least year of exercise for her to reach that physique. Should I go for it and hope she gets in shape or dump her now so I don't potentially waste my time?

>>40689171
whatever man

Trying to stay positive... Herniated a disc (L5/S1) about a month ago, and the disc material is pressing on my S1 nerve and causing near-constant pain on my right side from my ass to my calf. Shit is excruciating, and it has kept me out of the gym since the injury. Worst part is that it happened right in the first few weeks of my bulk, after a LONG cut that got me down to 9% BF. Was really looking forward to putting on some mass, and now I'm completely stalled out. Feels like my gains are slipping away right in front of my eyes and there's nothing I can do about it. Just wish this pain would finally stop so I could get back to the weights.

>>40684584
>>40684584
This video sucks and you should feel bad for wasting my time

>>40689171
Slowly make comments on how things turn you on.
Start with just harder skin
then move onto muscly
then say you like being picked up
Then how you're into pegging
And then finally come out as the faggot you are.

>>40688311
Just deadlift the pain away u bluepilled cuck