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How do you convince girls to get fit?

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My gf is around the OP image in size and I think she'd look great if she was slim instead of flabby as she is now.

How do you approach this subject with women?
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>>40520991
subtle bait
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>>40520991
slowly, walks in the park, cardio shit, then tell her you should lift once in the gym for keks
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>>40520991
very carefully; in a similar situation with g/f

gotta be super positive and enthusiastic about the effort she puts in

gotta treat it like a cooperative activity you can do together for a healthier lifestyle

at no point do you EVER mention physical appearance, instead talk about the benefits of feeling good and what it does for you emotionally and mentally
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>>40521049
>>40521038
Great advice thanks guys

There's a jogging track in the area I can introduce her to and work from there
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>>40521049
Yeah, this. Make it about you wanting to do something active and fun together. You want to share your interest in fitness with her. Never bring up her appearance. However, be prepared to deflect if/when she inevitably prods you and baits you about what your motives are.

That, or just say fuck it, and tell her you think she'd looks hotter if she was fit. She'll probably bitch out, but then you're free to look for a new fit gf.
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>>40521111
>this optimism

normie/average women will always disappoint you in the realms of willpower and consistency.

excuses start rolling in. distractions occur. soon there's nothing, not even a whimper about their fitness/health goals.
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Break up with your fatty and date a college athlete. Best decision I ever made. I gave up some prime chubby pussy and the best set of fake tits you can imagine, but that cute little six pack and the phenomenal ass only years of track and field can develop is way more satisfying.
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>>40521001
>>40521038
>>40521049

Nah, fuck this shit. Tell her straight up shes fat and you would be attracted to her more if she was thin. make sure she sees you interacting/flirting with /fit/ girls. She needs to understand that an alpha male such as yourself being with a girl like her is a privilege, and if she wants to maintain that privilege and beat out the competition, she needs to step her game up.
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>>40520991
Honest response : don't waste your time. May start off alright, but she will quit, or doesn't even care to begin with be a if she did she would do something about it on her own.

It will drive a wedge and cause fights. Been there a million times.

Accept her as she is or find someone new, it's a losing battle
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>>40520991
your girl's fine, you're just a low test fag.
She deserves a BBC.
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>>40520991
Depends how fit you yourself are. If you get fit together there's a slim chance. But it looks like she bought into the thicc meme so it's going to be a blow to her ego. Why did you start dating her if she's too fat for you? Changing others doesn't usually work. Plus her tits will sag more if she loses weight.
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>>40520991
Send her my way, I'll take your hi-test gf off your hands
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>>40521677
thicc is nice but i'd be scared to date one. it wouldn't take but a couple bad months to turn into whale fast
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>>40521815
They just get more n more thicc
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Bro you gotta get girls that are already fit. If she gets thinner she'll get more attention from dudes and then she'll suspect that she can do better than you. If she's already skinny, she'll know from the getgo you're both in the same league
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>>40521848
obese*
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>>40521049
highlighting what it does for YOU emotionally and mentally.
try to steer away from "dont you feel good about this?" and steer towards" wow, I feel great!"

monkey see monkey do bro
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If you get with a girl and she isn't fit, even if she temporarily gets into fitness, it will never ever ever last. Best bet is to get a girl that is already into physical fitness, which most aren't cause they are low test beings.
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>>40522254
>Women are low test
Isn't that the idea
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My wife was once quite heavy, she maxed out at 244 at 5'7". She is now 142.5 as of this morning.

I'm military, and a health study for spouses was being solicited. I showed it to her, and she decided to give it a shot. It's a 2 year study which she will be finishing in 3 months.

If you're curious, it's the Instinct Diet, which puts emphasis on fiber and protein, as well as calorie restriction.

I'm not sure if she stuck to it for the simple fact that she wanted to give accurate data for the study or not, but I'm just happy that she dropped 100 lbs. She is now aspiring to compete in at least one bodybuilding competition, to see if she can make it.

Not sure if this helps you OP, but it worked for my wife, maybe it'll work for your girl.
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>>40521049
my gf broke up with me because i asked her if she was going to join an adult rec soccer team. She worked for the league... she now dates a fat guy
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Bf basically did this with me and what helped was doing fun things/distracting me in the times I would normally be eating. He also showed me the wonderful world of walking to places instead of bussing or driving f you can.
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>>40520991
If she looks like pic related, it's going to take a diet in addition to exercise. Good luck with that.
Next time pick someone with a body you already like.
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>>40521049
This sounds like a bullshit amount of work. If I get a gf I'm telling her early on that if she gets fat I'm out. I don't have the patience to walk on eggshells and treat her like a baby who can't take responsibility for porking up.
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>>40522372
So you've got three months of a skinny wife left?
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>>40520991
>How do you approach this subject with women?
You don't.
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>>40520991
Just dont touch that topic. If you arent happy in a long run: bail.
you cant force people to get healthy and therefore attractive.

the open minded girl, talking about (her own) health and fitness does only exist under a certain weight/body.

girl in the image is "compliment my boobs already, im so sexy tehe."
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If I had your gf OP I would shackle her in a dungeon and have violent hardcore penis sex with her face and tits for hours after work every day.
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>>40520991
You fucking tell them like it is with facts and graphs. Bitches get dumfounded when you use science talk and hit them with the numbers. Makes you out to be some kind of fitness guru to them.
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>>40523594
noice
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Never tried this myself but want to bring it up since it relates to OPs question

What if you tried to make her jealous of you? Bring her to your sessions for whatever false reason and really push yourself while she's watching. Might give her the idea that "Hey, he's getting really big, I'm going to look like a fat fuck next to him, I should do something about my situation before he dumps me"
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>>40523566

this desu
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Call her a fat sack of lard and threaten to dump her if she doesn't buy the Atkins book and do the diet to the letter.

If she doesn't do it, actually leave her.
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>>40522019
This, that's precisely how it works
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>>40521049
>>40521038
lol cucks
>>40521454
amen

Told my 6'2'' gf to lose weight asap. And if she goes over 130 lbs I'd instantly dump her. She has been under 130 lbs for couple of years now.
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>>40524505
>cucks
>6'2" gf

Pick 2.
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ITT: trolls and virgins bait OP into getting dumped
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You gotta Fuck that weight off of her
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>>40524505
>6'2 gf
Something tells me you're no more than 5'4 and bought into the gts meme
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>>40520991

I did cycling for mine. Bought her a cool road/trail hybrid with good rapid fire shifters thats fun to ride for 850 shekels.

Girls associate monetary value with importance, and since she's only used to seeing $90 cheap-o steel frames at Target, she is encouraged to use it even more.

Start off with casual boredom rides, then use it to commute to coffee or lunch nearby, then use it for exercise that's timed or distance-measured.

She went from 170 to 130 with thicc thighs
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>>40525417
130 can never be thicc
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