Sexual health

Every girl i know on BC has had lower libido. One of the girls i dated started it in halfway thru our relationship. Boobs got slightly bigger but she wanted to fuck less. just got more apathetic in general.

>>40470814
post body

>>40470829
That sounds promising!

>>40470830
No, I look like shit.

>>40470814
Similar problem, cock sucking fag here that's sick of being a degen. Halp please.

>>40470814
I have 270 volts of birth control waiting right here.

>>40470814
You should see Dr. Pence, a very famous expert on these topics.

>>40470814
get spayed, that should kill it.

>>40470814
Every time you watch lesbian porn, remember that eating pussy gives you cancer

Quick question since this is the only masturbation thread, if I wank and not ejaculate, will it create mustard gas and ruin me or is it alright?

>>40471177
Your balls explode when you're sleeping

>>40470814
Prayer helps
It helped me

>>40471122
What's that?

>>40470814
why are you taking birth control if you ain't getting any cum in your pussy dumbass.

>>40471332
I'm not? I said I'm thinking of taking it in order to kill my sex drive.

shove a twig up your vagoo and you won't want to touch to ever again senpai

>>40471369
if you are with the vast majority of women then that shit won't kill your sex drive it actually might increase it. as said by http://www.webmd.com/sex/birth-control/features/the-pill-and-desire

>>40471173
?

Have lots of sex?

>>40471391
Ugghh... That doesn't sound too good. Not that I wasn't prepared to be disappointed. Is there really no way over it...

>>40471423
I'm permavirgin autist, so no pussy for me. At this point I've completely given up any hope for a relationship. So not really an option:/

File: 20170130_010211.png (140KB, 387x348px) Image search: [Google]

140KB, 387x348px

ACDC FOR LGBT

>>40471464
just go on some gay dating app
every other homo is also a desperate autist so you should have lots of luck

>>40470814
I Have the same problem as a male.
Posted asking questions about it a few times. And never got any serious answers

If anyone remembers
>I ended up fucking my lawyer
>Also fucked my receptionist and she didn't ruin my life with blackmail.
>Also ended up fucking one of employees older sister

Still haven't found a way to reduce it.

>>40471495
I'm not interested in hookups, and because of my autism I can't even manage a normal friendship. I just want to give up on all human contact and become a cool, wise, asexual hermit witch:/ But because of the sex drive I can't give up properly.

No fap is the only way

>>40470814
Talk to a psychiatrist. It's a common problem.

>>40471677
Does it work with females too? I've tried it before, but after a month I had to give up.

>>40471744
Yes off course.
If it is all about quitting masturbation then you shouldn't do it.

>>40471843
Huh? It's pointless for me after all then!

>>40470814
do you work out anon

>>40470829
Every girl I know on bc is more emotional and moody

>>40471870
I mean you should not do masturbation. Quite poorly worded.
Just quit masturbation

Why don't you just enjoy masturbating instead

>>40470814
Why don't you accept how you are and make the best of it?
If you're so horny make it a habit to work out and then jerk off, you will not feel guilty for doing that after a hard workout.
And if you look better maybe a chick will talk to you, you chicks talk with each other all the time no? I literally cannot imagine a autist female, I've seen one rarely and I don't even know how that is possible unless you have a fucked up face and bad hygiene.

masturbate but stop watching porn, that might help.

>>40471744
Of course not. It doesn't work for males either. Private yourself from masturbation will not decrease your libido, it may even cause strange sexual deviations.
Ask any doctor ever if is there a benefit from doing it. 100% will say "no".

>>40470814
>mentally ill pervert is horny all the time

Wow neat. I've heard bleach curbs sexual appetite OP.

>>40470909
I'm sure you do, dyke.

>>40471876
I do bodyweight exercises at home, but it's still mostly cardio for me. I want to go to the gym, but it's expensive and since I've never properly lifted weights I know I'm going to embarrass myself by not knowing what I should do. I have some coupons now, though, so I guess I should just go regardless of my stupid fears...

>>40471901
It takes so much time and distracts me! On that note, I should quit 4chan too...

>>40470814

Get a good dicking. Once you have enough sex you'll get bored of it.

>>40472044
I already fucking told you. Go to a fucking psychiatrist, that's a common problem.

>>40472024
how long do you do each exercise?

>>40472024
Read SS. You will know more than the PTs.

>>40471961
The problem is I don't want to be a shitty wanker. I want to spend my time on being productive, or at least doing something I actually enjoy like reading or hiking. But I can't even read when all I can think of is fucking vaginas!
Oh, and I look average I guess, I'm normal weight and my hygiene is okay too, I'm fairly intelligent and able to converse normally, so that's not the problem. I talk to females constantly. But because of my social autism I cannot handle any kind of relationships deeper than "acquaintance". So I just want to give up and abandon it all in order to find enlightenment or something. Why is it so difficult...

>>40471969
I don't even watch porn. I can't get off to that. My own imagination is way better.>>40471977

>>40472146
>>40471977
Didn't mean to quote you. But yeah, that's what I thought and that's how it works for me.

>>40472063
Hetero shit is absolutely disgusting.

>>40472137
>Go to the gym
>Do SS hypertrophy instead of strength
>get gains
>lesbos admiring your physique will take the lead since you're attractive
>???

>>40472070
I guess that's the only way then...

>>40472084
Depends of what exercise I'm doing...

>>40472099
>>40472165
I'll try SS then. Thanks. But I'm exercising only for the sake of my health, and because I don't want other people to think I'm permavirgin because I look disgusting. Someone approaching me would be a problem because I'd just get my hopes up.

>>40470814
Take psychedelics and work through it mentally

>>40472326
Do those actually work?

>>40470814
So you have a shit body and a shit mind, fix it.

Go get fit and reconnect with nature n shit, the mental changes will follow if you avoid degenerate internet porn. Nofap.

>>40472346
I treat them as both recreational and medicinal. If I'm in a good mental/physical state they're recreational. Medicinal if I need to work through some shit. I can't enjoy the trip as much as I would, but the afterglow and weeks to months after are worth it.

>>40472346
they work if you want them to work

if you want to wallow in self pity then dont go near them

>>40472349
I'm doing those already, but I see no change in my sex drive:/

you dont want to kill your sex drive

you will miss it when its gone

File: GettyImages-157876740.jpg (311KB, 1000x664px) Image search: [Google]

311KB, 1000x664px

>>40472379
This. They will amplify the whole spectrum of emotion, so if you're a pity party you're gonna have a bad time.

However, if you let them do their work and don't resist the thoughts that come up you can have an enlightening experience. If you have a close friend to talk to or sit with you during or after it's even better. The capacity for emotional engagement and processes are magnified after a psychedelic trip (or MDMA)

Sidenote: You have less control of your thought process and 'Who you are' the more intense the trip is. There's a direct correlation of reduced brain activity in your 'self identity' regions and the more potent the trip is (Studied in MRI's with psilocybin)

>>40471038
I hear electricity will do the trick

>>40472364
>>40472379
So they might actually reduce sex drive? Are they dangerous? I've never done any drugs. I've used antidepressants, though, with little result on that regard.

>>40472406
So no changes, yet. Keep trying. If you can observe an improvement in spaces between the thoughts or the intensity then you just have to keep going.

A slow upward improvement is better than crashing hard and giving up. Kinda like dieting huh?

>>40472414
Believe me, I wont.

File: crippling_depression.jpg (17KB, 480x360px) Image search: [Google]

17KB, 480x360px

>>40470814
Having a crippling depression is the best solution for your problem

>>40472424
Bad time upcoming then. But I don't have any friends and I don't even know how find a dealer... I'm kinda curious now, but also a bit scared. i mean, there surely are some side effects?

>>40472436
They only allow you to change the way you think if you're open to it.

Psychedelics will affect everything serotonin has an effect on. So pretty much all systems. Pupils dilate, your muscles/fascia/organs will shift slightly throughout in a wavy pattern, you'll urinate at weird intervals, appetite will be suppressed for half of the trip and you might feel weird twitches in your muscles.

That's just the physical. Mentally you disconnect from yourself to some degree giving you the ability to see things from a different perspective. Shit will look weird, the walls might breathe or bend. Fractal or geometric patterns will reveal themselves on your carpet or general decor. You might see faces where there isn't one.

Don't be scared by this, it's all temporary and fear will only bring you anxiety and a bad trip.

Good luck. I recommend shrooms for a first time

>>40472486
I have crippling depression and masturbate because it's the only thing that makes me happy

File: alex2-925x1213.jpg (428KB, 925x1213px) Image search: [Google]

428KB, 925x1213px

>>40472490
This is about as simple as I can put it.

Psychedelics like shrooms and acid will send most bodily systems out of homeostasis. The intensity of this, which is related to the intensity of the trip, is determined by your body, the dose and the setting (Where you are).

This 'chaotic' resetting of bodily systems as I like to put it only lasts during the peak and the next few hours of the trip. Your body and mind return to homeostasis as the drugs are processed, this is GOOD. Homeostasis imbalances are why a lot of us feel like shit.

Nothing physically can go wrong from just taking these drugs. You can only hurt yourself if you intend to. Don't go jumping off roofs.

>>40472440
True. Maybe I'm just being impatient. It's just frustrating that I cannot see any improvement. Or then there's really nothing to be done but to wait for menopause...

>>40472501
Take a note op

>>40472486
Tried this too. Didn't work for me unfortunately.

So there is a female lesbian version of fit as well... just when you thought you knew everything about this board.

>>40472545
I'm 5 years in to my rehab of 24 years of sedentryism after having smashing my teeth on to a brick as a kid. My skull shifted off my neck backwards and no one ever thought to take me to a cranial specialist. I recently got it manipulated back on and the change is amazing.

Your journey may just be beginning, you'll have "Click" moments a long the way

>>40472497
Wow. That sounds amazing. But scary as well. I cannot imagine being able to take shrooms and being calm and collected at the same time, though. I guess I should try it some day. Thanks for the tip!

>>40472538
Yeah, that sounds cool, all right. Maybe I really should try it...

anyone else get unreasonably frustrated at how naive most girls are

File: 1487639132003.jpg (21KB, 412x351px) Image search: [Google]

21KB, 412x351px

>been having chronic testicular aches for almost a year now
>urologist says its probably an enlarged vein in my ballsack
>sexual urges are completely nonexistent
>too poor for returning doctor visits

FUCKING HELP ME SOMEONE FOR FUCKS SAKE I'VE BEEN ASKING FOR MONTHS NOW

>>40472604
Scary is good, new experiences are good. They build adversity, psyches force you to face the shit in your mind that you've been pushing away for who knows how long.

People who shy away from trying psychedelics will shut down the idea without even considering researching the facts. They show they are safe if used in the appropriate setting and dose

>>40472617
Yup. Can you blame them? Most accept the programming from birth to only care about superficial things.

>>40472567
There's always something new to learn, I guess.

>>40472586
Wow. I guess I have no reason to complain. It's great to hear things are looking better for you, though. And you are right. I'll keep on trying different things, and surely something will "click", eventually. And it's not like my libido is threatening my life or anything anyways.

>>40472618
Sorry to hear that. I wish I could trade with you...

>>40472617
?

>>40470814

Nice LARP bro.

File: 1485147251107.gif (761KB, 342x320px) Image search: [Google]

761KB, 342x320px

>>40472163
Get some proper treatment.

File: IMG_4656.jpg (84KB, 680x735px) Image search: [Google]

84KB, 680x735px

>>40472428
You heard correctly

>>40471620
travel to Nepal and meet the monks of the mountains
Train abstinence, purity, patience, and fortitude
Become one with the world

Only then will you be better

File: 1464923527062.png (10KB, 420x420px) Image search: [Google]

10KB, 420x420px

This is why females, just as males should be circumcised, inshallah

>>40472947
I've honestly thought about this. I would probably go if my work wasn't so important for me.

File: 1464925139814.png (196KB, 499x499px) Image search: [Google]

196KB, 499x499px

>>40472137
Women can't be productive, Allah has created you to be empty vessels to carry forth a new generation of his soldiers.

>>40470814
Assuming you're between the ages of 15 and 25 your hormones are probably still fucked up. I jacked it multiple times a day until I was 23.

>>40473020
Oh, I hope this is true! How much do you jack off now? Considerably less?

File: 36f5fe9fe08aa0e34717e54130bfe598.png (2MB, 1920x1080px) Image search: [Google]

2MB, 1920x1080px

>>40471620
just go out and get banged doofus. Human interaction is essential for what we are as human beings and once you feel that sweet sweet pussy from another stranger you got two choices: experience all of the sex maybe take a finger up the ass and if you're bold get railed by some actual dick or realize that getting laid is really not all of what it's cracked out to be because you spend so long fantasizing about it.
How can you claim that crippling autism wont let you be a good person if you dont even take a chance?
>>40472538
>Don't go jumping off roofs.
truer words have never been said, psychedelics are all about changing your perception and only good things can come from these changes...unless you are such a piece of shit that all you can come up with is bad things

>>40472718
It's not funny faggot. I'm becoming infertile at 25

File: butwhy.jpg (25KB, 262x246px) Image search: [Google]

25KB, 262x246px

>>40473042
>horny all the time
>wants to take pills that alters the levels of multiple hormones in your body instead of just fapping

my dong is on red alert 90% of the day and that doesn't stop me from enjoying the shit I love

>>40473123
I don't want sex, though. I mean, I'm horny as hell, but the thought of actually, physically, having sex is just disgusting. If it's me doing it, that is. Other people aren't gross or anything, I am the gross one. I don't even have any expectations, my libido is just way too high. I don't want to be a degenerate slut, I want to stay virgin my whole life.

And believe, me I've tried and taken the chance, with relationships. On the outside I'm normal, so I have no trouble finding friends. But all of those relationships have failed because of me. I have no friends let alone hope left.

>>40473191
There's nothing funny about this. But why?

>>40473217
Fapping might work better for you because you are male, but for females it's different, I guess. Masturbating doesn't make me almost any less horny, unless I've been doing nofap or something, in which case my libido just returns to normal... Which for me, is high.

>>40473270
I don't know, that's why I posted here

>>40473342
You don't know why you're becoming infertile at 25?

>>40473266
You're kind of fucked in the head. Your body is saying "go have sex" and your response is "ew no"? There's really no other solution to your problem, you have an instinct that compels you to breed. Your self image is the problem here, not your perfectly normal and healthy sex drive.

>>40472618
Go to a free clinic. Or get a job.

>>40473430
This is true 100%. However, even the thought of trying to fix my mental image of myself disgusts me so much that I'd much rather get rid of my perfectly normal, just higher than average, libido. But I guess there's no way to do that either...

>>40470814
lesbians dont exist, all girls need dick

get dicked, cum, and youll feel normal.

>>40473557
The good news is that as a woman you can get fucked incredibly easily. Just suck up your disgust, or more likely the cowardice manifesting as disgust, get fucked by whatever gender you deem least objectionable, then one of two things will happen.
1) You enjoy yourself, maybe find a partner, problem solved
2)You hate it, get scared of sex, and the negative association reduces your libido
Seems like a win-win.

File: 4892229-12108836_1651723998425645_9165237578066956920_n.jpg (23KB, 480x312px) Image search: [Google]

23KB, 480x312px

If you think its a mental thing then see a pych.

Ive tried a few different birth controls. I'll list them from worst to best.

>ring or patch
pain in the ass to handle. Patch can get itchy and fall off if you are an active person or shower a lot. Even if it doesn't fall off it get sticker lint and looks weird and gross. Rings feel weird in general and they can fall out. Not the highest %rate of preventing pregnancy. They can also make you moody as fuck and bloat like crazy. No noticeable change in sex drive.

>depo shot
Have to go in every month to every 3 months for a shot. Periods can be unstable for some girls. Makes you gain weight easily. Can get mopey. Can make you break out. Noticeable change in sex drive.

>In arm implant
Fucking great except I bled the entire time I had it. No weight gain, no mood swings, helped with acne. But I was on my period all the time. This doesn't happen to everyone though. Slight change in sex drive.

>ortho tricyclen pills
Have to take daily within 2 hours of schedule or you can feel weird. Can get mopey. Periods slightly shorter. Slight weight gain. If you miss a pill your cycle can fuck up. Noticeable change in sex drive.

>taytulla pill
Best fucking shit I have found so far. No weight gain, no moodiness, no bloat, no breakout. Super short period. Doesn't change sex drive.

I can't tell you anything about in uterine stuff because I wasn't eligible for it. They prefer women who have had kids or women in their mid to late 30's or later to have it.

I hope this helps other femanons pick something.

>>40473370
I don't know how to stop my ball pain

>>40473631

Jesus, I'm glad I was born a male

File: 1478012.png (171KB, 1231x690px) Image search: [Google]

171KB, 1231x690px

for pic related, can (& should) you use sunflower lecithin instead of soy lecithin?

>>40473617
I have absolutely no desire for actual physical contact with an human being. I'd never forgive myself for doing something disgusting like having sex. Yeah, there's a big possibility that actually having sex would result to reducing my libido, as you suggested. However, for me, it's absolutely out of question. I'll rather just keep these problems.

>>40473631
Wow, thank you so much! This is very helpful. Those ortho tricyclen pills sound the best of the bunch. Maintaining a steady schedule will surely be hard, though. I could actually try those. My periods are long and annoying too, so shortening them doesn't sound bad at all.

>>40473680
Have you seen a doctor?

>>40473631
Can I ask why they don't allow you for a copper implant? seems best most logical solution, easiest, and I've heard lowest turnaround time from when you quit to when you can have kids.
Also can I ask, Pls b minneapolis?

>select all houses... I picked an apartment complex. Take that skynet.

My gf offered to stop taking birth control so she would have more libido. But I'd have to use a fucking condom. You really can't win in this life.

>>40473720
I have to ask, do you have a history of sexual abuse? How did you develop such incredibly fucked up attitudes to sexual relationships? Is this a recent thing, you raised Catholic? I'm curious.

>>40470814
It's not really sexual health but it's a sexually related topic so hope it fits here.

Is it worth making a move on a girl that's in my extended friendship group? It'll push her out of the group and if she rejects me it'll ruin our current friendship (Been good friends with her for about 1/2 months)

>inb4 i have autism

>>40473799
Twice

>>40473876
No. I've never been abused in any way, I've never even had sex with anyone. It's actually something I decided myself, when I was little. I used to love myself as a kid, but when I hit puberty some stuff (not sexual) happened, and as a result I realized I had been wrong. I was disgusting, and the fact that I had loved myself was even more disgusting. I will never forget that feeling of shame... So, I decided to hate myself and developed severe depression as a result. After years and years of therapy I'm finally over it, but I guess something in me was fucked up beyond repair back then. Oh, and I'm from religious family too, so that surely had some effect too.

>>40473903
And they found nothing?

>>40470814
go to /a/ and imagine the posters there are hitting on you

if that doesnt make your uterus shrivel up and fall out nothing will

>>40473894
I wouldn't do it.

>>40473847
It's like you're complaining about having to choose between icewater or mineral water but sad you can't have both, while I'm in the middle of a desert dying of thirst and all I've had these past few years was old brackish stagnant water (fat chicks) but very seldom.

>>40474025
...But... But, the posters there are all cute little lesbian girls! ...right? That's what they told me!

>>40473894
would do it.
I'm getting older and I look back and regret all the shots I didn't take because I was afraid and making excuses (like you are now).

>>40474069
I wanted to hear this kinda answer cuz i really wanna do it and im basically just looking for a nudge in the right direction

>>40474004
Huh. Well, sounds like you need to talk to your psych about this. "I'm extremely sexually frustrated but can't bring myself to have sex due to self hatred" would be a good start. I mean, clearly this situation is causing you stress and if you think about it rationally attempting to somehow destroy your own libido is simultaneously insane and highly impractical.

>>40474041
My gf is thicc and I like her body but she's just lazy at sex. I mean, I remember once when a skinny girl rode me so much that it hurt the next day because her pubic bone hit me so much.
My gf is planning to go to the gym though, so I expect her libido to increase and a better performance.

>>40473717
bump

>>40474080
I'm being 100% serious. A no won't kill you, you won't regret it, it won't ruin your 2 month friendship.
The very worst case scenario is you feel a little bit bad for a VERY short time and things are a bit awkward, again for a very short time.
Best case you get a qt 22/7 gf.

On the other hand you can have ZERO chance for gf, and regret this shit till your dying fucking days.
When you lay awake in bed it will haunt you. Forever... Unless you become a drunk I guess, but I've lived that one too and I wouldn't reccomend it.

File: 1487640958109.gif (838KB, 400x221px) Image search: [Google]

838KB, 400x221px

>>40474015
Did you even read my OP? I said they said it was an enlarged vein. Their verdict literally was just live with it.

What meds do I eat to stop my nut aches holy fucking shit I've been asking in these threads for 8 months and you worthless meatfuckers won't say shit unless it's crying wah wah bullshit about girlfriends.

Fuck this entire board for real

>>40474175
Thanks mate I'll probably do it within the next couple days. People like you make /fit/ memorable, thanks for trying to help me make it

>>40474220
good luck. You only lose if you don't try.

>>40474124
I did talk about these things back when I was going to therapy, but while my depression was cured, the disgust remained. Maybe because I didn't really want to get rid of it. It just feels so right to be "pure", and it's easier to be alone than to get my hopes of relationship up and then immediately crushed, again and again.

>>40474188
Thats probably because we're not doctors you dumb cunt? We all have experiences with girls so we can help each other out

>>40474188
Calm down dude, buy your ass some topical lidocaine and rub it on. Shit will numb out. You'll probably develop a tolerance if you use it too much, I don't know. Go easy on it. I hesitate to give you this advice because it's not good advice. Good advice is, save up, get a different doctor, and insist on treatment. Sounds like you need surgery, and painkillers won't fix the problem.

>>40470814
Try getting married.

>>40474188
Oh. Yeah, you did say that. Sorry. That sounds awful:(
Unfortunately I have no idea what'd work.

>>40472428

Aversion therapy works miracles for bad habits like smoking, but all the trials on getting rid of gay thoughts were failures.

The only people who've ever been "cured of the gay" did so by addressing deep trauma like sexual abuse.

My foreskin is tighter on one side and every advice for stretching is usually about phimosis. How do I stretch it? Just I dunno pull it down on that side and hold for a couple of minutes or what?

>>40474287
Purity is a meme invented by autists or by smart people to prevent inconvenient pregnancies before birth control existed. It doesn't mean anything. It sounds like you're just scared of relationships which is fine but you should recognise the actual problem or you won't be able to fix it. You don't have to do anything if you're happy but it sounds like the situation is causing you problems so you need to think of a realistic solution. I'd suggest dating but it seems like you are too scared to try that, so I'd suggest going back to your psych.

>>40474349
I thought I had to stretch before I had sex but it's fine. Are you a virgin?

>>40474368
Nope and the only problem I have is with regular condoms without big head. But when the skin is retracted it's painful sometimes and sometimes it gets swollen after.

>>40474357
You're on point again. It's true I'm scared of relationships. I cannot properly love or trust anyone, and I hate myself for it. To the point I can't stand it. But I feel like resolving these issues would take so, so, much more work (if it's possible in the first place), that it's just not worth it. Simply being alone is easier. If enduring this lust is the only downside, I'll rather endure after all.

>>40474522
>But I feel like resolving these issues would take so, so, much more work (if it's possible in the first place), that it's just not worth it.
I said these exact words back when I was fat (and right on the verge of HAES).
Sometimes, just the struggle to improve yourself just a little can mean so much.
Was so doughy I couldn't even open a fucking pickle jar.
I'm pretty fucking far from fit still, but my mental state is much improved just from making an effort.
I really hope you can make your effort to self improve.

>>40474522
You might be right but you should at least talk to a professional about it and find out what they think your options are. If you decide not to go through therapy etc then that's a choice you made yourself, there's no point in not getting help and being uninformed.

>>40474578
Wow. Thank you for pointing this out, I never even saw it myself. It's just, getting rid of the... "inhibition" I've set for myself doesn't feel like self improvement to me. On the contrary, I decided on hating myself in order to IMPROVE myself. To become the kind of person I wanted to be... A person i could love. And that person for sure wasn't a disgusting slut thinking about having sex with her innocent friends.

And the thing is my plan was a success after all. I managed to lose my ability to fall in love with people, you see. And I became the kind of pure, sinless person I could love... And I can say honestly that I love myself now. Masturbating to my own imagination is still disgusting and stupid, but not exactly a "sin". I'm just afraid, that if I try to change things now, I'll just end up losing all the good I found, and returning back to those times of my depression... And when I think about that possibility, being alone, but happy for the rest of my life doesn't sound bad at all... I'm really fucked up I guess...

>>40474578
>>40474610
But yeah. In the end therapy would be the way to go, and I know it deep inside. It's just that I cannot believe these problems could be resolved. But at the same time, I didn't believe for a second that my depression could be cured either. And I'm scared that I fuck up and lose the love for myself I managed to find. Even though that love... Might not be quite as healthy as I initially thought it was.

File: 1485838719386.jpg (130KB, 1024x914px) Image search: [Google]

130KB, 1024x914px

>>40472922
Dynamo Mike to the rescue

>>40474522
>>40474773
>>40474860
hey different anon than that other guy,

but i think he's 100% correct. I unknowingly got addicted to porn and developed bad ED from it. The first few times i tried having sex went terribly, like really embarrassing and shit. I just bit the bullet and kept having terrible sex until It got better yk. Don't let any mental shit dissuade you from having sex, its pretty great.

tldr sex isn't a sin, i guarantee you will enjoy it. It's probably the healthiest way for you to confront your weird inhibitions

>>40474773
You aren't a slut for thinking about sex.
Your friends aren't all super innocent and pure.

I hope you are happy, but I'm just getting this sort of vibe like when the fatties say "I'm so happy now" but they don't really mean it.

I don't think it would hurt too much to keep seeing a therapist... I don't think it would hurt too much to date and see if you can find a woman you like, and I don't think it's sinful to live out your god given lust with a partner you love.

Can't say I have your fix, but I have heard therapy can help people... never done it.

Either way, I hope you find something that works for you to be happy.

As far as stopping fapping I've had success with impulses from "mindfullness meditation" You pretty much sit for 10-30 mins and practice just focusing on your breath.
You may have thoughts come up but you just acknowledge it, and go back to focusing on breathing. This is like muscle building but for will.
It really helped me with "I feel a hungry impulse now I eat" to "I feel hungry... I acknowledge it... I know ignoring it won't kill me, I ignore it"
doing something else that occupies your mind right away will help with this.

>>40471977
>(((doctor)))

>>40472718
The problem is in your lumbar/sacral area, not balls. NERVES

>>40471252
what they do to pets, you know spay/neuter your cat or dog

>>40470814
west coast !!!! DYEL ????

>>40474885
I'm 100% sure all I could think during sex is how disgusting I am. And how disgusting it was that I was "forcing" someone to have sex with ME. And then I'd realize that it all would show on my face, and my partner would possibly feel hurt - and hurting someone emotionally, that is "The ultimate sin". The one that I won't be able to forgive... And the guilt would end up destroying both my relationship with that person and my love for myself, too. So, absolutely out of question.

Yeah. This really sounds fucked up now that I'm writing it down. And I know it's all in my head. I feel like I'm truly happy, but at the same time I'm just so crushingly lonely sometimes... I guess it's just that compared to a few years back when I suffered from depression, the change is so overwhelming. Maybe I'm just half way up, and since I've never actually seen the surface I don't know what I'm missing. I don't know what being "functioning human being" feels like.

I talked about these things while in therapy too, but I didn't manage to improve one bit. Judging from that, it'll be at least ten to twenty years I guess... But I've had some social problems as long as I can remember, so I guess the roots of the issue could be even deeper than that...

And I'll try the meditation for sure anyway;) Thanks for the tip!

>>40471209
i tired that no pussy in years :(

>>40472137
Are you me?
I don't spend my time masturbating though, mostly playing vidya, studying or reading, anything that doesn't involve social interaction.
And I feel you, most of the time I only think of boobs and how I would like to have a girlfriend just so I can grab and bite her boobs.

>>40475214
Yeah. It's hard to see sexual desire as anything more than hindrance to productivity. All of those hours spend on fucking wanking...

>>40475103
>I'm 100% sure all I could think during sex is how disgusting I am. And how disgusting it was that I was "forcing" someone to have sex with ME.
Work on your esteem. Your being half way sounds right. Keep going.
Don't let fear of how long it will take, or fear of stumbling along the way stop you from trying.
It's just like lifting. The best time to start was years ago. The second best time to start is TODAY.
Why is it so easy to see my flaws and the solutions in other people, but so hard to see them and solve them in myself I wonder?
Now just gotta stop the drinkin and the gains will really come.

>>40472163
Bullshit. Every lesbo needs some cock every once in awhile.

File: 1484038109078.jpg (69KB, 750x878px) Image search: [Google]

69KB, 750x878px

>>40471464

How does a permavirgin deduce that they are a lesbian? You're more than likely asexual, and as you admitted... ugly. And yea get on the pill and get off porn, try make erotic novels a hobby or something. I'd say the chore of riling yourself up for a paragraph will be enough to reduce and regulate masturbation

>>40475279
The difference is that with lifting or dieting you can be that sure you get results eventually, that you want those results, and you know exactly what you are working for: better health and looks. But what is the result for me if I try to resolve my issues? The grass here looks plenty green to me, if I make it to the other side, will it really be greener? Or pitch black, perhaps? The risk of it all going horribly wrong and the possibility of just getting my hopes up and being disappointed is just so scary...

>>40475278
Yeah I hated myself for having those urges, but I realized that it happens when I have a lot of free time on my hands.
Try lifting weights, it worked for me. Having to go to bed feeling sore and tired helped me a lot.
Do you go to uni? Work? Any other activity that you have to do on a daily basis?

File: 1486070686464.gif (4MB, 500x500px) Image search: [Google]

4MB, 500x500px

>>40472163

You are the worst kind of (maybe) lesbian, with the sexual maturity and experience of a high-schooler, likely mental health issues and just an overall detrimental view on sexuality snd intimacy.

The best kind of lesbian is the one that finds all forms of intimacy beautiful, with that special penchant for the beauty of the female form. Also with the mental balance of someone closer to the middle of the gender identity spectrum.

Seek therapy, remove snowflake status and then become a better lesbian/person. Then maybe you'll stop being a virgin sex-addict (lel)

>>40475322
By being attracted to women? Female bodies, faces, voices, are hot. Male bodies are not. Did you find out your sexuality by having sex? Did you have to try both men and women to find out? You know, most people don't have to.

>>40475467
I have my work. But since it's the creative kind, It's hard to focus on that when my mind is filled with something else. Also, primary reason why I want to get rid off my libido. I just want to work 24/7 without interruptions.

>>40475486
And become like you? No thanks. I can smell the cum dripping off your (boy)pussy from here, you dirty little slut.

if a girl who I don't know smiles at me on two separate occasions does she want me?

>>40475531
I see, and I understand how frustrating this whole situation is for you. I don't know what else I could say, I already told you what worked for me.
I know that you feel insecure about going to the gym but you can meet good people there willing to help you with proper form, don't be afraid to try and who knows maybe that'll help you too and also you're going to improve your physique, you have nothing to lose.
Give it a shot and I really hope it all gets better for you :)

>>40475486
shut the fuck up for a second, I am seriously about to nut to that gif

>>40475464
>you know exactly what you are working for: the ability to have healthy relationships
>The risk of it all going horribly wrong and (going to snap city) the possibility of just getting my hopes up (about losing weight) and being disappointed is just so scary...
In fitness I'd tell you to read a lot on the subject, learn, get a PT (not really tho, at my gym they mostly only know how to get in my fucking way not lift) in this case a psych, who can help you to notice bad form (bad thoughts) and to try.
Gotta get to bed for them sleep gains, but I really do hope whatever you choose you do well, but I'll end with this.
Things are not ideal now they could be better and you know it.
They also could be worse.
I think it's a bit like a person who tried to start a business.
You can try and succeed and in ten years have a lot.
You can try, but fail, in ten years you may not be living your perfect exact dream life, but it won't have killed you.
But 30 years later, I think the only version of you with any regrets isn't the success, nor the failure, but the one who never tried.

Don't listen to me too much tho, I'm old and rambling, you know you much better than I do, and if you and a therapist both think this could make you go backwards don't.
Good luck

>>40475605
I'll definitely go to the gym at least. I'm going to embarrass myself anyways, so might as well go all out and ask for help.
Thank you for your advice:) I'm sure it'll work out in the end.

>>40470814
This entire thread is literally a handful of trolls and two people talking to each other for nearly 150 posts isn't it?

>>40475663
Welcome to /fit/

>>40475633
Thank you for listening to my problems. Thanks to you I've managed to see my issues from a different perspective. And you are right, there's nothing to lose in at least consulting a therapist for their opinion. I should do that much, at least...
Thank you again for your time and advice! It really means a lot to me that I could talk to you:) Sleep well and get those gains, dear anon!

>>40470814
Is a lesbian still a lesbian if she occasionally fucks a man. It's just because he's got a large dick, is good with his mouth and fucks well..I assume.
Is she still gay? She has a girlfriend and gets distant if he says something about hanging out.

>>40475765
Bisexual.

>>40470814
Get female circumcised.
Very harem.

>>40473576
unironically this, assuming OP isn't LARPing then she's literally just dick starved because she thinks she is lesbian.

>>40475486
and cater to hetero bullshit where men just want lesbians to have threesomes with them or some misguided bullshit where everything revolves around your sad dick?

nahhhhhh

>>40476060
If the possibility of fucking a lesbian's brains out, threesomes, the fantasy of the "hot lesbian" and dicked straight/bisexual didn't exist...do you know how bad it would be for the average gay chick?

Real talk. They'd be treated the same way a straight guy would treat another straight guy when it comes to social situations and work situation. Even worse, they'd be totally invisible.

>>40473819
My doctor just said that for younger women he doesn't like giving such long term birth control. It can make your periods really awful. And that it is more comfortable for older women or women who have had children. He only gives it to younger women if they are going into the service, but recommends the hormonal ones over the copper ones for menstrual reasons.

He went on to say that its the step below getting your tubes tied. Because you can still remove it. And he is also worried about the complications on younger women than older women. Because something like 3 in 1,000 women have to get it surgically removed from their stomach if it goes through their uterus.

>>40471177
It won't do anything, it might give you a slightly higher chance of a wet dream.

>>40476214
And severe prostate trouble later on.

File: Starfighter.jpg (69KB, 915x610px) Image search: [Google]

69KB, 915x610px

I have almost no grills in my social circle. How do I meet more, preferably the kind actually worth having a meaningful relationship with?

>>40476279
If you're in uni, go on an exchange

Its a god damn fuckfest

>>40476387
I don't go to uni and I'm not interested in just fucking sluts

socal OC semi autist here, where are the spots where all the sexually open females are

How do I solve premature ejaculation?
Already on Kenergon, which is good but not enough.