>played WoW since it came out, JRPGs, ate chinese food every day, at least 3 cans of coca cola every night
>decided enough was enough
>throw away all video games in the dumpster
>throw away all shitty clothing
>thank fuck I was only skinny fat thanks to superior genetics, I should've been a lot fatter
>lose a lot of weight, man tits are gone, get veiny biceps, big chest, blessed genetics blah blah
>finally get fit
>go on tindr
>find girl, she literally posts how she wants me to fuck her in the ass
>next day, I lose my virginity to her. I put it in her shitter, vag, but all those years of heavy fapping desensitized me
>doesn't help I also got drunk for my first time, kek
So should I of jizzed on my first time? Am I fucking gay and should I just fuck twinks or does everyone not jizz when they lose their v-card
>>40450849
stop fapping so much
/fit/ness
>>40450849
>>40450849
it's a comfort thing. I think I fucked about 10 girls before I was comfortable having sex to actually cum. Just try to enjoy it for what is, it'll come.
At least you're not me. A few years ago, I started masturbating by edging for a long time, then jerking really fast at the point of no return.
Now I cum super fast during sex. I'll be happy if I last more than a minute.
Occasionally I get into my old penis and can fuck for a long time, but it's rare now.
where can i find more like that OP?
>>40450849
Yeah bla bla bla sauce me nigga
>>40450953
Edging is bad? I thought it was meant to be good for improving how long you last?
>>40451208
He's larping or his pelvic floor is too tight and he needs to stretch it more
>>40451218
Larping?
>>40451250
pretending, just like the OP post
>>40450849
Nah same thing happened to me.
First its hard to come because you're nervous, then you come too early cause lmao what am i doing, then you git gud and try to please your partner instead of just humping her like a monkey.
I was so fucking nervous my first time I didn't jizz, but yeah, the excess fapping does NOT help.
Don't feel bad, OP. You're on the right path.
>>40450849
little personal experience with this problem
>been there, ended a relationship because of it. >girl thought she wasn't attractive enough when in reality just couldn't cum cause i jerked off too much
>next girl just told her i can't cum unless im wearing a condom.
>fuck rawdog till shes done then fake it in a condom
Like some anons said its mostly a comfortability thing and a jerking off less thing. I come fine now and i can still last really as long as i want. just jerk off less and you'll be fine
>>40450849
You're not gay, dude. I didn't jizz everytime when I was a dyel
>>40451208
Not pretending. Maybe edging implies I'm jerking the whole time, which is not what I meant to say.
I'll just watch porn for hours while lightly touching my shaft. Really getting into it, but not much going on physically besides light sensations. Then when I know I'm about to cum no matter what, I'll jerk it really intensely for like 5 seconds and the orgasm is amazing. As such, my stamina in sex is much lower. I know because sometimes I'll jerk normally and I last longer in sex after like a week of that, but then I fall back into my habits.
>>40450849
>heavy fapping desensitized
This statement sounds ridiculous. Really glad I have a foreskin. Must suck be a burger and have you genitals mutilated at birth.
>>40450849
I was exactly the same as you except I just owned it. lost my v card when I got fit at 19 and fapped like 5 times a day before that.
I just fuck until they cum. I lose interest immediately after. It's an abstract kind of feel.
>>40451015
>>40451131
look up Frank Cho, he's the artist
>>40452236
>inb4 muh 4skin :^)
I'm uncircumcised and I never let random sloots get at the glands. Shit's sacred.
>>40452244
>all those spider-woman covers
My fucking sides
>>40452112
Totally possible with a foreskin as well. If the woman I'm with isn't extremely tight, I need at least 20 minutes to get off - if I get off at all.