Conversation Tips Thread

>>40423239
just be yourself man

>>40423239

stop analyzing everything so autistically might be a start. Ask if you're interested or don't. what the fuck

>>40423340
I know this is a meme, but seriously op, just relax and don't overthink it

>>40423239
ask about what that person do not like and why. Sometimes it gives room to other topics.

don't overthink it too much, brah.

>>40423239
Easiest way is to just be honest. If a girl says "I like cooking", and you actually care about cooking, then there will be something you can say. I myself like cooking, and so I would ask her what she cooks, favorite ingredients, favorite food memory, does she like sweet or savory, does she own any cookbooks, if so whose? That kind of stuff.

If you don't share her interests then just laugh it off. For example you could make a joke: " I'd probably burn water, haha, what else do you like doing?".

If you don't have anything in common then realize that and figure out what you want. If you wanted a relationship, then run away, if you wanted her pussy just because she looks hot, then be forward, make innuendos at first, but be very clear in a non creepy autistic way, if she agrees, then cool, if not then rape.

Done. Honesty is always the best policy.

>>40423340
>>40423415
That only works for normies who've honed their conversational skills over their entire lifetime to the point were it's second nature

It's like telling someone who can't read to just "look at the words dude it's not hard"

>>40423239
Ok, here's what you do.

1) Always try to make the conversation about the person you're talking to.

2) Give complements and ALWAYS be positive, avoid words like "hate".

3) live an interesting life. This might be the most important thing. This allows you to always have an anecdote or at least something interesting to say about most topics.

4) eye contact and body language. Make sure you look interested and are really listening.
Say the girl likes to cook, as per your example.
Ask her "What do you like to cook?"
She might say something like "Pizza"
Then you have a lot of follow ups: What kind of pizza?, have you been to this pizza place?, or I like to cook ___.


Godspeed OP

>>40423239
I do this for a living. There are three rules I follow in basic communications:

Groundswell Rule:
Break ground with a topic that can easily be molded to fit any viewpoint. Use safety topics like food, setting or media.

Contention Rule:
Do not be overly agreeable or a "perfect" match. Have differing viewpoints and opinions even if they are slight.

Active Listening:
Engage in the basic rule of paying attention to what they are saying. Most people wait for their turn to talk so that they can talk about themselves; do not do this. Instead redirect back at them with a small anecdote.

These three rules will get you through the first conversation you have with someone. The assumption is made that you actually have opinions of your own and are not a media regurgitator.

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>>40423596
m8, there really is no easy way. You just have to bite the bullet and accept it won't go your way every time