How's your love life, /fit/? Are you happy with it?

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I'm out of excuses for nogf.

I think I just don't like women.

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There's a cute girl in one of my classes that I've been trying to ask out, yet not once have I had the balls to actually do it
Kill me honestly

>>40367061
There's a cute girl I saw in my gym but I pussied out in talking to her. Now 2 weeks later she hasn't showed up at all again at the same hours and I'm going to start going at different hours to try to find her and hope that she didn't stop going.
This is even worse than getting rejected

>>40367136
Man, I know that fucking feel. When that happens to me I always tell myself that it's for the best, that if I talked to her I would just fuck up somehow.

Guess I'll never know.

>>40366967
i haven't been laid in six years, and am about to buy my third vibrator after a year

but i have close friends, my parents are alive, just graduated with a masters degree, and am looking for a job. desu i've given up on men a long time ago, but there are days i kinda miss the dick

>>40367536
I live with a women who had no sex for several years as well. Today she is kinda slutish and loves me.

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>>40366967
>no black swe gf ;___ ;

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>qt in my class
>she starts talking to me at the bus stop
>she keeps talking and flirting with me every time after class
>add her on facebook
>has a bf

>tfw chad face and body but autistic as fuck

I get a lot of female attention but I I'm too autistic to pick it up. I've never asked a girl out before and now that I'm 21 it makes me too anxious. At least it makes things easier for my career. I'm way ahead of most other people my age

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>>40367652
every fucking time

>>40367587
you know, if i do decide to try the man thing again? more than likely i'd end up killing him, so i can see why your lady turned that way

Was about to give up on women but I actually had a nice date today.

I'll see where it goes and after I eventually get heartbroken I'll be back here to post a sad frog

>>40367663
post face and body

>>40367696
Irrelevant to my post

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>>40367718
>chad face and body

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>be in middle school, avoid relationships because i resolve to be above that hormonal crap
>be in high school, avoid relationships because "it doesn't matter anyway" plus even if i notice a girl likes me i don't know how to proceed
>try once, girl kept giving mixed signals until we just stopped talking
>be in college, realize that everyone who told me earlier relationships didn't matter was full of shit
>obviously they wouldn't go anywhere, but they were training for when it mattered
>now in college a k/h/v, and I can't tell if a girl is interested or just being friendly, and I'm afraid that if I end up pursuing something my inexperience will be glaringly obvious and will ruin my chances at progression

We- we're all gonna make it, right /fit/?

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>tfw you realize a girl liked you but you didn't pick up on the signs

>>40366967
I got tired of trying, realised that i have too many problems for a relation. im just too feminine and wont be able to maintain anything. pretty sad to miss out and seeing all my friends getting gfs. but it is what it is, just gonna work on myself and see what happens.

I don't even try anymore.
Have given up looking for love and have tried to make myself happy

My days feel fuller and it doesn't feel like I'm waiting for life to begin. Honestly don't think I will ever find someone to spend the rest of my life with but I'm comin to terms with that

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>>40368075

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>>40366967
Who cares about that shit.

The only thing I want is to love myself more and to find happiness through loneliness, because people's happiness shouldn't depend on others.

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It's been 8 months since my last long-term relationship ended and I couldn't be happier. I'm 33 and spent my 20's in a horrible failed marriage, horrible relationships, BDSM and addiction craziness, no kids thank god, and my last relationship started with a chubby girl and ended with her becoming a whale. I found my way back to god and have a wonderful group of friends now. Also working towards the best shape of my life. I'm tired of fucking people and going into dead-end relationships. I'm looking for marriage material at this point and am on the right path - I'm not settling for anyone not in shape. :)

>>40370302
yeah exactly this

>believed in girl
>girl lets me down
>its been 2 months
>another girl is in love with me but willing to wait
>every time i think about being even remotely like that again with someone i feel dead inside
>im drunk righ tnow
>i just wanna forget about her
>im more annoyed that i haven't moved on than anything else

seriously why do people have to be like this to each other

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>>40366967
I have a loving husband. We've been together over a decade, since highschool, and married for three years this April. Also gay, before it gets asked.

>>40370508
Monogamous or open relationship? I was bisexual but all the fags here are into open relationships and I'm not down for getting STDs or sharing my mate. Made it impossible to have a gay relationship that fit my needs so I just went back to women.

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>>40370543
Monogamous. Utterly committed to one another, likely from both of us having being cheated on repeatedly in the past, the thought of doing stuff with anyone else is physically sickening to me now. We're also both the straight-gay type, I like working on cars and work as an electrician, he's got a 9-5 in IT software development, and we both fish/hunt/hike/camp/etc. It's a great life.

>>40370582
That is to say, cheated on by other people in past relationships, not by each other. Sorry if that wasn't written well.

>>40370582
Congrats! Seriously, in my city I couldn't find a single gay dude who would even consider monogamy. I understand that some people in open relationships are happy with that, just not for me.

>>40370602
Yeah, I can't imagine. If you want to fuck around, fuck around if you want marriage, commit and enjoy, an open marriage seems nonsensical to me, doesn't compute.

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>met someone I'm probably gonna marry some day
>we do everything together, share almost all of our hobbies
>unconditional love and acceptance

It's pretty fucking great. I highly recommend it.

Started dating a nerdy virgin, literally femanon r9k tier about a month ago. She's hard to interact with sometimes due to her crippling social anxiety, but it's going pretty well, will probably take her v-card in a week or so, it's certainly been a unique experience

>>40370682
Same here, I wish you the best luck friend.

>>40367883
nice envy, I bet you would just criticize him for bullshit... like we haven' been here for our whole life dummy

>>40370682
REEEE

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>>40370776
Thanks man! I wish the best for you and your SO too. Always appreciate what you've got, because I'm sure they're someone special.

>>40370302
unfortunatelly we are biological as fuck, don't lie to yourself

>>40367536
LONDON

>>40370348
your life is still shit

>>40370682
congrats, same, it's fucking amazing

i'm wanted by a fair few girls, this cute girl phones me for sex whenever she's drunk, but i have few female friends and not much time to go out and meet cute girls. however, i've got some legit hot girls in the past during times of me not shitting on myself constantly and they were all crazy into me. i don't have sex often. i'm pretty scared around women most of the time. when i'm feeling confident i'm a slayer but i lack confidence a lot of the time and often wonder why the fuck anyone would bother keeping me around.

my fluctuation in confidence has taught me one thing - confidence is important as fuck. when i feel shit i can't take rejection well so i tend not to try to get laid much.

sadly, the most shredded and big i get, the less confident i get. ain't life shit?

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>it's her birthday
>I'm super excited to see her, we had a really shitty breakup which went back and forth far too long
>get to the party, see her, she's beautiful as always
>talk to her for a bit, start drinking, having fun
>look for her, there she is, wait why the fuck is she grinding that douche?
>and why the fuck is now making out with him?
>fuck it, I'll see the lads at the club
Got shitfaced, woke up, saw this message.

Girlfriend's exhausting. I want to break up. I can't break up with her on Valentine's Day though. That would be too cruel, and I already broke up with my last girlfriend on Valentine's Day.

>be 21
>KV

What do?

>>40370920
you fug

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Sorry for the blog, just gotta get this out of my mind, even if it is to strangers on a Turkish cheese grating forum.

I'm in a weird spot. Been with my bf for 6 months and idk how I feel really. Hes pretty overweight, obese according to bmi but doesn't look it, and keeps saying he wants to lose weight and be more healthy, yet he's hardy lost 10 lbs in the 6 months. I'm giving him all the resources, advice and support I can, and he is technically making progress, but it's so slow and painful I don't think he cares as much as he complains he does. It's getting really frustrating honestly, but I don't want to push him too hard or ask for too much.
When I'm not with him I don't miss him as much as I used to, but when I am I'm the happiest I've ever been. I don't want to break up with him, the though of doing that just depresses me, but I'm not sure if it's because I'd miss him or the relationship. The constant back and forth with my emotions is killing me.

>>40366967
>25
>KHV
>no gf ever

At least I'll be a wizard soon? I just never interact with people. I do work online, I order my groceries online, I have a home gym, I live in the rural South where it takes 30 minutes to get to the closest town, and I don't even have a reason to leave my house.

>>40371309
I'm in a similar situation with my gf, I really feel for you, this shit sucks. Something I feel has been working recently is being adamant about being healthy when we're together even when she doesn't really want to, only eating healthy, always doing something active, etc. My hope is it will give her a better assosciation with it, or at least a little more motivation for when she's on her own. I haven't been at it long enough to notice much of a difference, but it seems to have some potential.

Also, this may be fucking retarded to say on a board about fitness, but physical apperance isn't everything, as long as your happy being with him and attracted to him, maybe it isn't that big of a deal.

>>40367061
there's a cute girl in my biology class. i'm charging right in I have nothing to lose

>>40367645
/pol/ joke

>>40367652
congrats if you play it right you can become the side nigga or the guy who fucks after they break up

>>40366967
Currently with a solid, thicc 6.5/10. It's gonna end when I move in September, but until then it's what I need. Last breakup was pretty rough on me.

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>>40368477
you don't deserve a gf considering your attitude, it's not over until you stop trying

>>40370903

¿Está buena?

>>40367013
>says he's out of excuses
>gives shitty excuse

Grandmaster Shitpost right here

>>40371768
Literally gay.

>>40371637
You think if i didn't rap she would flirt back?

Lets no get delusional here.

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>>40368054
>now in college a k/h/v, and I can't tell if a girl is interested or just being friendly, and I'm afraid that if I end up pursuing something my inexperience will be glaringly obvious and will ruin my chances at progression
Hitting too close too home. Had my first kiss last week, still a virgin though. H-happy Valentines Day anon.

>>40371777
you can't tell me tom brady wasn't skelly as fuck and look how he turned out. there's no reason you can't turn it around

>>40366967

There's a former classmate who is now my coworker in the same school district. I see her maybe once a month. I am pretty fond of her, but she's an introverted weirdo that plays D&D. Hard to get her to do anything.

I'm really busy with classes this semester, but I want a girlfriend again.

I hate and I love. Why do I do this you may ask?
I don't know, but I feel it and it hurts

>>40367013
Me too, except I think the issue instead is that women don't like me. I'm fit, well groomed, have a car and job, can carry a conversation fluently, and so on. But I still keep getting shot down. I'm starting to suspect that just like dogs can smell fear, women can smell the virginity on me. I'll probably give it another 10 or so years of trying to find a gf. If I can't, I'll just accept my fate and lapse into perpetual pornography use.

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>>40370582
>tfw desperate enough for love you'd prefer this to dealing with women despite not being attracted to other men

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I'm 22 and graduating soon

why am I talking to a freshman

she's really cute but shit

I'm 23. Had a girlfriend of 5 years that I really loved. Graduated, moved to the states (from Canada) for a great job and shortly after found out she had been cheating on me for 1.5 years with a mutual 'friend'. Went through some pretty dark/depressive times in the last 6 months but am slowly feeling a bit better, I think.

It's lonely being a new country without knowing many people but I've been trying to join sports teams and such to meet new people. I've gone out with some girls on coffee dates and such but it all feels so foreign to me. I know I'm much better off in the long run without her but I still think about it every day.

Anyway that turned out a little long than I intended but it felt somewhat therapeutic to write. Good luck to all my fellow bros in the relationship world :)

>>40367663
Nice, at least you're doing well. I get a lot of female attention too, but still no girlfriend and still a failure academically.

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>wish I could go back to being a KHV because it was a lot less painful than the first valentines alone after five years

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>>40366967

yeah

dating a really good quality girl for a year and a half

taught her how to be a good fuck
we work out together
we love each other
she's very pretty and very hot

hopefully this relationship turns out well

>>40372136

yes that 4 year age difference really is significant.

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>>40366967
Not so great, I haven't been in a serious relationship for 3 years, haven't been in any relationship at all for two, and my relationship prospects are pretty bad because of my soft, doughy body and my 'tism.

Honestly, not good. I can say without uncertainty that it is all my fault though. I have not actively been pursuing women. I know that a change needs to be made, but quite honestly, at the university I attend it seems like most girls are too promiscuous for a long term commitment. I'll just play the single life happily for now (21 atm).
>inb4 virgin, i've had sex with 14 girls and had one long term gf before

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>>40372267

It is, but damn. I've about had it with girls my age. I've talked to and had bad experiences with a few now, they're so confused emotionally, getting out of long term relationships, mindset ruined by college, playing endless games.

I'm about to say fuck it and go for a girl that actually thinks the world of me and isn't afraid to fully show it due to scarring or bitterness or whatever

the age difference would hardly register down the line, even if it's odd now, idk

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>>40366967

2016
>Met girl at a dance thing last March
>Dated for a bit, then she ghosted me in May

>Went on two dates with qt I met at a party in December
>Get along pretty well
>She asks me to be in a polyamorous relationship with her
>Say no, wish her a happy life, and walk out

I don't meet many girls that I'd consider dating (I need at least a 7/10 to be attracted to) and find it difficult to will myself into hitting on random girls. I don't mind rejection too much, but talking and inevitably realizing we have nothing in common sucks.

How do I into 7/10 monogamous horror/gore movie loving gf?

>>40372316
>ghosting
Nothing pisses me off more. Why the fuck can a girl not respond. Personally, I would rather have a girl say "Fuck off, you are an awful person and I never want to hear from you again" than fucking ghost me. It's such a petty, non-confrontational thing to do and it makes me rage.

>>40372327
Got ghosted about twice in 2015 for the first time. I was kind of pissed at first, but I've come to accept its just a natural part of dating these days. Its sucky, and I kind of wanted to know what, if anything, I did "wrong," but meh. Not worth giving them the validation.

2017 isn't looking good bros. Haven't so much as flirted with anybody yet. Wish me luck. We're all gonna make it.

>>40367645

Holy fuck black women are so gross

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>>40373272
right?

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>>40374741

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>>40374769

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>>40374773

I'm basically a recluse. Maybe I'll get one of those waifu pillows.

>>40374820
why

Nonexistant.

I'm semi-autismo, usually I date other semi-autismo girls: engineers, scientists, programmers.

But I'm somehow dating a mostly normie girl who works in marketing. She's fun, but her friends are nice, but boring. We can't really communicate well. It's going to end poorly.

>>40371478
>joke

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>>40366967

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>>40366967
Im empty.

After I had my oneitis no girl is able to satisfy me. I just try to fuck a girl from time to time so my balls wont explode but if It was possible I would like to have absolutely no sex drive.

BTW, I went from being a highschool loser to losing v card at 18 and then pulling shit like two girls in one day. Its doable anons, just dont wallow in self pity; train, exercise and better yourself.

>>40366967
a bit sore but i don't complain

>>40368075
Worst feel
I feel completely autistic after this, when it is painfully obvious is even worse

>>40374841
It seems I can't connect with people so it's very difficult to get to know them. A pillow would be better than nothing maybe.

>>40370919
Wait a week then

>>40375079
Yeah it's what I'll have to do. I'll just wait for an argument to happen and then say I'm done.

I hate it from the moment I wake up until I fall asleep.

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>>40367652

Kek story of my life.

Every drunk girl i meet at the club i end up fucking or have the most enjoyable time with turns out to have a BF.

It's like they just use me as a fucktoy when they're bored of their own BF's because i look pretty hot but don't want to engage in anything real though because i'm autistic as fug.

>>40372375

How does ghosting work if a girl texts you non-stop but doesn't want to hang out anymore, it's fucking annoying too.

>>40371810
Ask her if you can come play D&D? Say you want to get into it but don't know anyone else who plays?

Could get a nerdy hobby out of it if nothing else

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I'm a faggot, so fine
So glad I don't have to deal with women

>>40372298
that was sarcasm, dumbass. 4 years is nothing... wtf is wrong with you americans?!

>>40375465
fuck off 4 years is a huge gap considering it is between 18 and 22

>qt3.14 girl I like
>she has a boyfriend
>recent, like 2 weeks since they started dating, but still a thing
>didn't pay much mind, hit on her anyway
>she leaves him to be with me
>great panic takes me and I run from the situation
>hop on Tinder because ???
>My ex is there
>swipe right because I'm not over us
>she matches
>great panic
Most of this happened yesterday. I met the qt a bit more than a week ago. I crave intimacy but my fear of it is significantly stronger.

>>40370682
>we do everything together, share almost all of our hobbies
Gross. I need some shit in my life that she is not part of. The girl I'm with now doesn't give a shit about video games, and doesn't come to the gym with me. Likewise I don't do her art/craft shit with her and don't mess with her dance stuff. It's best this way.

>>40370682
>>unconditional love and acceptance
>>>unconditional
disgusting

>dating first bf
>he cheated on me last summer
>we took a break after
>wanted to get back together but he wanted open relationship for two months
>figure fine, if that's what he really wants, but it hurts me
>drags on for 5 months, though neither of us really act on it
>meet guy on vacation and end up making out
>didn't realize kissing could feel this good
>holy shit this is what I've been missing out on?!
>boyfriend gets really upset about it
>a little while later decides he wants to end open relationship and talks of marriage and children
>I now want to break up but don't know how to do it because I don't want to hurt him

Sucks man

>>40375300

She plays exclusively with her entire siblings and their partners. They have an entire story, characters, soundtracks of themes composed etc.,

>tfw no D&D party

>>40375750
>>he cheated on me last summer
>>>>>wanted to get back together

what kind of retarded shit eating faggot are you?

>>40375651
Hey you're lucky! My girlfriend had her own interests, was always busy. I thought "Great" and then gradually as we dated, she stopped hanging out with her friends more than once a week or two, stopped pursuing her hobbies, stopped working on her business plan. I feel deceived.

>>40375762
Well then your only recourse is to walk up to her, place your dick on her desk and say (with a sky look on your face) "interested?"

Also, I don't think I'm made for relationships. I have a few people interested in me from time to time and whenever personal shit comes up I just think, god why are people so emotional?

>>40375767
Yeah, I know. I'm retarded but I loved him a lot and at least he was honest about it.

had two girlfriends (not recommended actually) for half a year simultaneously, then broke up with one and dated the other. still fucked 4 other girls that year. we broke up recently and now its time to fuck around. as far as my love life goes, im good

>>40370861
You're gay, just accept it

>>40375597
its not as big as you think it is. a guy I know is 52 and his gf is a 6/10 23year old. He does look like mid 30s though. He cheats on her as well

>>40375817
>but I loved him
you're a stupid whore.

>>40372275
You can fix the body stuff, why the hell else would you be on /sips/?

The autism/aspbergers shit is harder to resolve. Just work on getting your body into better shape and advancing yourself in other parts of life. Do you work or go to school? Have any talents or hobbies (not netflix or vidya games) you are passionate about?

>>40370582
Literally my dream. Fuck you. I wish I were gay. I've had two of my best friends come out to me and tell me they wish I were gay.

Fuck this life.

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>>40366967
>love life

>>40366967
>start talking to someone
>eventually talk a lot
>eventually spend entire evenings like this
>feelings, talk about feelings a lot
>see this person for who they really are
>we get fucked by an outside party
>things get painful, things get messy
>I try to take a step ahead, I misstep
>it's not gonna happen, this person can't see them for who they really are
>they'd rather stay alone as they've been
>we spend five hours saying what amounts to "goodbye"
Man, I feel like I'm a pussy.
I probably am, ain't I?

>>40375878
I've been working in the body stuff for a while and shit sucks.

Yes, I am going to school, I have a job, and I play music and read. I'm still too spergy to get a gf tho

>>40375971
you sound fucking retarded, especially when you try to describe something with as little description as possible.

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>>40372297
You are in an awesome place. You've fucked enough people to realize that you want more than a physical relationship and college people tend to not be the commitment type. Don't worry about pursuing anyone for now - get your education shit done, get into a career you enjoy, and get into a friend group after school to meet new people. If you have trouble with this, use Meetup to find exercise and running groups to make new friends. Take your time, 21 is young

>>40372085
You are setting your standards too high or in the wrong direction. If you are all the things you say you are you have to be going after people who are unreachable. Use an online dating site and find people who dont care you are a virgin or who want a person who is not experienced. There are plenty of people online who don't want someone who has had a bunch of sexual partners. A good amount of these may be for religious reasons, but there are other reasons too (no chance the person has a kid or STDs).

>>40372243
Use this as a day of reflection on what went wrong in the past relationships. Figure out anything you did to contribute to it and resolve to not do it again in your next relationship. It takes time and experience to finally get it right.

>>40372316
Good for you to tell her to fuck off with that poly bullshit. If you want that 7/10 mono. get yourself in shape physically, get yourself some passions and hobbies (NOT VIDEO GAMES), get online and find one. Look for women who love those types of movies and stuff :p

>>40374820
Stop worrying about a relationship and find people to hang out with who have similar passions.

>>40375233
Stop fucking bar whores and getting mad when you are being used as a fuck toy. You allow them to do this and you realize how pointless this shit is.

>>40375377
I talked about this in another thread. I used to be bisexual but was so turned off by the open relationships all the fags here required that I went back to dating women exclusively.

>>40375971
its important to experience this, anon. At the end of the day, its only your reality and everyone else just vanished as quickly as they appeared.
Be grateful that you experienced it, but dont dwell on the past and start looking forward.

as cliché as it sounds, you are young and there is no point in wasting your time and energy things that are over or out of your control

>>40366967
Non existent. Had girlfriends in the past, but always felt like besides sex it wasn't a lot of fun. Not a lot in common, not a lot to talk about, and generally not really compatible.

I am a pretty solitary person anyway, and it genuinely doesn't bother me. If I find someone I really like if course I will persue her but as it stands I don't know anyone like that and I am happy with my quiet life the way it is.

>>40367536

Pls be in Virginia

>>40366967
NOT FIT RELATED
MODS

>>40368054
>>now in college a k/h/v, and I can't tell if a girl is interested or just being friendly, and I'm afraid that if I end up pursuing something my inexperience will be glaringly obvious and will ruin my chances at progression
Shit man, that is accurate. I never had girlfriends in school and now I am in college I can't tell if girls even talking to me are interested or just being normal people. I have genuinely no idea how to move from chatting as friends to dating, and even then I don't know how to progress things. I don't know how to flirt with girls in bars or anything.

I realised that I have started to view women very differently to men, the idea of a female friend is totally alien. I always think when I am talking to a girl she will automatically think I am hitting on her even if I am not. Plus I have no idea what to talk to them about, all the ones in my year seem to be obsessed with facebook and twitter and thats it.

Fucked it lads.

>>40371360

Don't you get bored at home all day?

>>40367536
that's hot, 4 years dry male here

wanna make babies?

>>40376011
I don't want to expose anything, I feel bad about it.

>>40376025
You're right.
Still can't help but think I could've done better.
Maybe I'll just have to do better later.

>>40376106
>I feel bad about it.
you should, because you're a pussy and a faggot retard.

>>40366967
Since i started lifting, stopped drinking, and truly took control of my life? I dont really have time. Getting enough alone time between work/sleep/gym/errands is hard enough. This guy recently expressed interest in me and after hanging out once i realized i honestly didn't have time for it. And i dont even start school til may. So yeah, love life is empty but thats great cuz theres no room in my life right now

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>>40376140
I don't mind you insulting me, anon.

I don't regret my own stupid feelings because of mean things someone would say.

That said you're right, I'm a pussy.

>>40376160
>describing someone accurately is now insulting them

>>40376169
Well, yes it is. Even if it really is their nature it's still an insult. There's nothing wrong with it, you can do it to your hearts content can't you?

>>40371434

I don't care all that much about appearance really (though it would be nice for him to try to look good for me, as I do for him), its more of a clash of life styles. He's content with watching TV all day and his idea of going out is to get food, and it really stresses me out. Also, he's 27 and already having heart problems. I wish he took his health more seriously.
Thanks for the kind words anon, I hope it all goes well with your gf too.

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>tfw your husbando will never be real

>>40375876
>being a whore for wanting to stick with one guy my whole life

Okay anon whatever you say

>>40376671
>wanting to stick with some whore my whole life
you're a whore enabler, which is even worse.

>>40376688
I'll give you that. That shit was dumb.