How you holding up, /fit/?

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barely

>H-hey, cutie-
*throws up on self*
>I'm sorry! I'm sory!

oh its the daily /fit/ bitch and moan thread!

last week moved into a new place with no parking stall. tryna adjust to the rat race that is street parking. my car got towed 3 times within the span of 2 days and racked up about $500 worth of total fees so yup

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I'm alright.

Asked a girl out yesterday and she cringed and said no. So that bummed me out. I'm 28 and a hand-holdless virgin, so I'm starting to worry That it's too late and I'll go the whole rest of my life alone. But I know I'd be kicking myself if I didn't ask at all.

On the plus side I've been eating better, and I'm on day 13 of a successful no fap/porn streak.

>>40310972
keep up the good work man, you'll make it

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http://vocaroo.com/i/s0s6zTF1yR9L

I just want this. How big/strong do I have to be to get this?

I think there's possibly 3 girls I could easily convince to fugg, but I won't because of both personal rules and I'm still hung up on my crush of the past 18 months.

I get to lift again next week, but I'm going nuts trying to wait for that time.

I've got a large part of my diet figured out, though, and I think it's got me feeling pretty good otherwise. Though I can't help but think I'm fucking something up with it considering how much olive oil I've eaten/drank this week.

>>40310972
Keep building up new contacts and become that beautiful social butterfly. It'll come round eventually anon

>>40310945
Kind of hollow and just existing

I stopped going to the gym for almost two years. Started going back recently and I feel and look disgusting and hate myself for being so gross and weak.

I have two job interviews this Friday, and they'll be the first that I've ever gone into without being a fat ass. If nothing else I am interested in seeing if it makes a difference.

>>40311132
Good luck man.

What kind of jobs are you going for?

>>40311132
Good luck man, if anything you might come off hard working and less lazy.

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>>40310998
>I just want this
>you spend way too much time on that site

not good
>gf leaving me soon
>i downloaded tinder
>nothing good on there
>found an ex from 5 years ago and superliked her
>hoping we match just for shits and giggles
>still madly in love with gf but wont matter in a few days
>dont know how to feel

>>40311077
Good fats bruh

Im trying to get to the gym before I get snowed in, but I am stuck on the toilet taking a pre workout induced shit.

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shitty.

i've finally had my gyno removed on Wednesday, 18 january, but recovery is wearing down on me. i just want to lift and feel good about my body.

so right now my nips are little swollen and clotted with blood, which should be reabsorbed with time.

yet to make matters worse my stitches opened up on my right side so my clotted wound made a huge mess of blood on saturday, i treated myself and hustled to the ER asap.
lol. i was pretty amazed that i got there safely, i didn't pannic or anything. just a little bit dizzy because i was losing blood so fast.

My bleeding stopped by the time the Docs even had his piece of mind on the situation
all they gave me was some antibiotic and bandages and gtfo.

so now it happened again today but this time it was clear fluid. and now i got some more shit to bandage myself to seal that open wound.

so fortunately i'm not infected right there or getting any wild fevers or chills like they warned me about.


well like i said..shit can't heal fast enough, i just want to lift again and attain whatever strength i still had. i feel soft and just anxious about it, it just really sucks. but hey, i dont have bitch tits anymore so i'm still glad about that

>>40311394
I know that. But it's made up close to 40% of my calories this past week. I'm just wondering if it's too much

>>40310945
a lot better now, thanks for asking anon

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I rejected over 100 girls in 2016. I'm on my way to break that record this year.

0 self-confidence and assurance
planning on starting back into getting fit again. bought some protein powder and all that, was really sick and depressed so I lost a lot of wieght and haven't been eating right.

Am a manlet and dicklet and would love to grow but that's a hail mary at this point cause of my age. 22 and a virgin. But I'mma give it a go, before I fall apart.

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>>40310945

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>>40310945
>Pic very related
Everything's going pretty shit desu. But being numb really helps deal with it.

kind of lonely but to lazy to do anything about it
>friends don't have friends to bring when we hang out
>school, gym, work, rinse & repeat

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>>40310998
I-I didn't think I was going to cry tonight.

This will never be me

Social + underground scene shit made me prioritize because now I have social engineers extracting my info and weird phone calls at 3 a.m. and familiar cars driving by my block at night lol.

>>40310998
>that link
i hate the emotion it makes me feel and yet i want more of it

Overall doing alright. Cut is going decently. Downside is Im fairly certain that very few of my friends here (university halfway across the country from where I grew up) don't particularly give a shit about me. Also still shit at talking to girls. Been just over a year since last GF, who I hooked up with over winter break. So its going. Its not going particularly well, but its going.

that did it for me! bye!

My cousin died and my diet and gym routine has been off the past couple days.

>>40310998
Anyone have the vocaroo someone made when that femdom Milana meme was relevant. It had like inspirational workout music and someone who sounded like Milana commanding you to do one more rep.

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hell week at uni, just tryna hang in there rn

>>40311132

I fucking wish I got job interviews

>>40311534
sorry to hear that

>>40310998
>I love you so much.

Fuck, why did this part get me?
I thought I was doing pretty good until now.

>>40311534
Sorry man, sending good feels/vibes your way.

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>>40310998
Fuck you

We talk a lot
We see each other a lot
It's an unsaid agreement we both like each other and that there's tension
Yet we're not together, she just recently broke up with her boyfriend, she wasn't really too sad about it or anything
How much longer do I have to wait?

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>>40311077
>crush for 18 months
I'm having trouble with a couple weeks, how the fuck do you handle a year and a half

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Is being stoic better than being a depressed cunt?
Like I feel like being stoic pushes people away from you a lot more than being a depressed cunt.

I think Im making it. Starting a cut in preparation for a lifeguarding job this summer, have internship interviews out the ass in a month, and lifts arent dropping from 405/315/245. Downside is no gf or even interest as far as I can tell. Fuck it Im ok with being alone

>>40311684
Talk to families who fought in war. It's better to live in reality. Depressed is NOT the answer. Be prepared

Finally got a GF from my workplace
> 2 wonderful months
> found out she was cheating
> comfront her
Literally : yeah sorry
> started cheating me with a fucking nurse
I am already a Doctor
> felt so fucking huniliated
> this was 2 days ago

>>40310998
Damn this bitch is needy. "You should be spending that time on me!" bro if I said this to any woman she'd be like "what's your problem? Why do you have to be so clingy?"

Trust me, women like that get annoying fast.

>Going to the gym again? You could be spending all that time at the gym on me! Silly!

Had something very similar happen, and oooohhhhh boy that relationship did not last long.

2016 was by far the worst year of my life but 2017 is looking to be OK so far

>>40311547
>spring hell week

Is that even a thing?

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Thinking about friends I once had and good times that are gone.

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>>40311780
Iktf senpai.

Its been like 5 years since I finished high school and since then I've lost contact with so many people. All my friends are getting married, having kids, starting new careers and moving away.

They starting their new life w/o me in the picture.

>>40311753
I'm happy about the election, but 2017 is hitting me hard
>long term relationship failed
>dog died
>dad diagnosed with lymphoma
>lost job
>depression
>back injury

It just piles on this year.

>>40311933
are you his only son, his only hope to carry on his name?

>>40311941
Yeah, I'm an only child.

>>40311811
make your own picture, then choose who you want in it :)

>Warning long wall of text coming


>What career did you pick and why /b?
I'm a systems engineer and love this job and I'm actually very good at it
>Do you regret your decision?
Nope, but I do regret some decisions I have made at my current employer and I a looking at leaving this company
>Why?
I made the mistake a lot of mistakes in this field and I feel like shit these days and can't move on in life, I still remember the good days and just can't seem to move on. Basically at one point I was looked at as one of the best engineers at the company. I was also one of the guys who always worked on everything and always had an answer about something, Any question you might have in my dept, or outside of the dept I would be the go to guy. Unfortunately, after a long time of proving myself to my clients and upper management I started to relax and I began to teach and offload some of my work to other engineers, because they really didn't have much to work on as I had a hand in every cookie jar at the time. Wait ended up happening is some engineers would learn a lot from me, and they ended up taking lead roles on certain projects and assighments, and I wasn't even told about what was going on, since I made it an effort to show upper management I wanted to offload work to other engineers sometime late 2016, at this point I am no longer looked at as the lead guy, and I have a very negative attitude on occasion, I believe other people want me to just leave at this point but they won't say it, they just "learn" from me and ended up moving up in this company. I made a serious mistake of relaxing, and not continuing to work over 10 hours a day, and not be paid overtime. The company won't pay me overtime, as they know the work load can increase and they don't want to pay for someone working extra hard... I still feel bad about this, and I can't believe I let them take things right under me, while I was focused on other things

>>40311964
>>Feel like killing myself with alchol, but I will probably just get another job and move on soon

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>>40311955
Live.

>>40311958
You'll never see the divorces or baby mama drama and headaches. Focus on being comfortable in who you are. Nothing worse than seeing a grown man move from a million dollar apartment in Tribeca to a studio in Mexican land because his wife decided to slut it up and take him to the cleaners. Seeing that hurt my soul more than you know.

Be comfortable with you

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Pretty shitty but I'm trying.

On the bad side, I just found out my rent check bounced, so I might be fucked. I have warrants out for unpaid tickets. My bills are all piling up. It's almost impossible for me to be social without a drink. I'm losing touch with friends. I have a big bachelor party coming up, and I have no clue how I'm going to pay for it. I haven't worked in a couple months. Every job I've had just gives me crippling anxiety, and the process for applying for anything is just so depressing and killing me. I feel so weak, even more so because everyone around thinks I'm golden and happy, and I know how capable I am.

On the good side, I have an incredible nympho girlfriend who is so terribly in love with me. She cooks, she cleans, and leaves me sweet little notes.I really don't deserve her, and pretty much the only reason I'm even trying to find a job is so I can be a better boyfriend. She has no idea how fucked I am. I've been doing some construction gigs here and there for cash, which is keeping me in decent shape, and I feel like I'm actually doing something and learning. And I finally applied for unemployment, which would be a huge help if I'm approved.

>dreaming of ex
>recently started saying terrible things to myself at the end of the day

This is not gonna go good places and I need it to stop.

>>40310945
Things ain't exactly perfect but fuck it.

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>>40312012
>I have an incredible nympho girlfriend

How is that really like? I feel like sex would get kinda boring if I was doing it every single day desu. But hey at least you're getting laid, so good job m8.

I really hope everything works out for you man.

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>>40311933
>I'm happy about the election, but 2017 is hitting me hard
I don't give a shit about the election, I'm not a burger, and I can't even fathom why you would think would be relevant anyway.
My 2016 was like your 2017 basically except spread out.
Stay strong

>>40312039

We always find ways to keep it fun. Her big thing is blowing me, so quickie head in random spots is always fun.

>>40312088
Can you please tell me where to go to meet a nympho gf?

>>40310945
>be me
>been one month since I got a car
>someone crashed into my car when I was watching a movie
>luckily I'm making bank from the insurance claim, but if I pocket the money my bumper looks like shit forever.
>125,000 miles on the car
Wut do?

>>40312108

No idea bud, I got way too lucky with mine. Like I said, I don't deserve her

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I'm not gonna make it bros. eating under daily cals, monitoring everything and weighing all food using programs to track everything, working out with 5x5 gained another pound last week and now back to 340 after losing 15 reeee fuckin go down now up weight I want to be in the 200s already

I'm okay
GF of over 5 years broke up with me last month and I'm slowly getting to my feet.
Chronic masturbation and excessive gym time have helped.
Mostly I miss my friend I think, we had a lot of fun

>>40312088
She swallow?

Have a thing going on with qt nerdy grill, but keep getting nudes from a fit chick that I really want to bang. Life is a cruel mistress.

>>40310969
Amen to that, I came out the other day and had been sideswiped(took my mirror off) I looked for a note and found a ticket for "Unsafe/inoperable motor vehicle)

Like....what the fuck.

>>40312170
you're young, fuck them both

>>40312149

Lol, she loves swallowing. She actually asked me in the shower to come on her face for the first time the other day. She said she liked it, but she would rather taste me. That's the kind of freak she is.

>>40311733
Sorry anon, Just learn.
Never get your honey where you make your money.

>>40310972

You're doing fine, man. Even the best of us get rejected sometimes. Keep working hard and you will make it.

>>40312183
Jesus christ man, that's the best. Good for you

>>40312125

I have scruffs, bumps, and cracks all over my 2008 civic and not a single girl has ever commented on it. And that's a 45k mile car, I would never even in my wildest dreams spend money on cosmetic upgrades for a 125k car.

I don't know if it's legal to drive a car with a torn in half bumper though, so depends maybe on how shit it looks

Girlfriend of years broke up with me about 3 weeks ago. I'm still in love with her and try and talk to her. But she fucks with me by talking to me for a few days, then completely cuts me off for another few days.

>>40311637
I've been hung on the same girl for the past 5 years. Before that it was different girl and that lasted 6.
I just kind of accept that I'll think about them many times throughout the day.
I lift work and study to forget

>>40312146
Going through the same shit man, except it's 4 years, and she broke up with me about 3 weeks ago. Hang in there

>>40311737
>Going to the gym again? You could be spending all that time at the gym on me! Silly!
>Had something very similar happen, and oooohhhhh boy that relationship did not last long.

I had a gf tell me something like this once. She was naturally thin but had a great ass for no reason, so I guess she never saw any reason to exercise herself.

I told her I'd skip the gym if and only if we fucked aggressively for the next half hour. She'd usually agree, then I'd drink a bottle of water and head to the gym while she napped or showered or just laid around in postcoital haze. Women are lazy, man.

Typically if one of them drops something on you like that they just want to know you still want them. Demonstrate, then go about your business.

>>40311637
I convince myself that I shouldn't have love and work to fulfill what I perceived to be my only purpose in life

Today I got a prescription for fin. I'm 23. Feeling good about overcoming the shame of talking to the receptionist, the nurse and finally the doctor about it. Wish me luck.

>>40312222
I could repair it with duct tape really. It's not terrible damage, but the whole bumper would need to be replaced, so I'm get a check upwards of $1,000. It might actually turn out to be a good thing, but who knows

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>25
>have long term gf (over 8 years)
>have degree
>have awesome friends circle
>have the physique i want (liftan clean for over 2 years)
>mentally stable and meditate daily
>supportive family

Yet broke and jobless still living with my parents browsing 4chan most of the day.

Can't help but feel complacent and trapped like I'm wasting some of the best years of my life :/

>>40312012

Ah Christ man, you're talking like a fat person but about life instead of fitness.

Finding a new job is EXACTLY like going to the gym for the first time in years. It sucks, it hurts, you look around at everyone happy and healthy and slinging weights around like they're nothing and it humiliates you.

But just like that first trip back to the gym, you ought to know that if you don't gut through that initial pain things are never going to get better. Nobody, not even the most lighthearted extroverts, actually relishes the thought of having to find new unemployment. It's terribly unpleasant, having to essentially bid yourself off to a bunch of people who couldn't give a goddamned about you or your well-being.

But you have to do it. You have to do it or you'll die. Right now it sounds like your life, as a whole, is about in the same condition as the body of a 450 lb hamplanet who can't get around with a scooter. You've reached that point.

Now you have to decide whether you're up to putting the herculean effort it will require into turning your life around, or if you're ready to give up and go die quietly.

Dying is easier.

But living is a lot more fun.

>>40312139

No one cares what you want, especially your own body. Earn it or go back to being fat. The only response to "I'm not losing weight quickly enough" should be "I need to work harder."

>>40311733
Dude, you're a doctor and you're not dead.

>>40312243
5.5 years for me
Right there with you

>>40311933
I'm sorry about your doggo anon. Get sleep and hit the weights

>>40312183
What are the odds of a random girl you meet being like this? 1/5? 1/10?

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>>40310998

>>40312304
What degree do you have

>Please don't be worthless

Also rate ur gf on a scale from 1-10

>>40310998
I would rather browse fit desu

>>40311964
Go to next company earn more money learn from the guy who's got his hands in every cookie jar and repeat the cycle

>>40312348

I have no idea dude...quit being autistic man, this isn't some dating sim. It's not like a chick would give away any kind of obvious sign she's into weird stuff.

My girl is super sweet and shy, but as soon as we get alone she turns into an animal.

>>40312245
No, I tried this trust me.
"I'm either pumping iron or pumping you, but I'm doing one of them."
"Please don't go to the gym, I don't want to have sex right now but please just stay here with me."
"Look, I'm either going to the gym, or we're having sex. There's no way I'm not doing one of these things in the next 10 minutes."
"OMG why does it always have to be an ultimatum with you why can't you just live day to day and you only want me to sex bla bla bla bla bla"

By then I'd usually be heading for the door to hit the weight. She was an alcoholic and cared literally nothing about her own health, so she couldn't relate. One of those times she went out and cheated while I was at the gym. I left her and kicked her out, she hit rock bottom, last I checked she was sobering up but still hanging around the wrong kinds of people. She'll never fully recover, I don't think.

Same guy as >>40311933 and on the bright side, I did just graduate college.

>>40311345
soon? throw her out now on your own terms, you'll feel a lot better about it

>>40312423
>She was an alcoholic and cared literally nothing about her own health, so she couldn't relate

That's an entirely different league of fucked up than the one I was dealing with. Easiest way to fix this for you would be to stop dating psychopaths, or dump them immediately when you found out they are this sort of unhinged.

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>>40310998

>>40310998
nigga....

I tell myself I don't need a social life and I want to study, but I'm afraid I might not have anything to show for it and I haven't spoken to a living person in about a week.

I'm f-fine, dude. Hell yeah!

>>40312348
All girls for the most part are kinkier than you think.

>>40310998
>http://vocaroo.com/i/s0s6zTF1yR9L
This shit is pretty gay

>>40312364
>Biochemistry minor in Psychology.
>8.5/10 tall blonde

>>40310998
I don't want to feel this.

>>40310945
I have $600 in my bank account, have to pay like 200 to take a test for grad school plus like another 100 for the app fee. And 1300 due for rent. So, shit.

>>40310998
already have hot 19yo cardiobunny gf. but that made me kek

>>40312462
You don't even know. I sent her to the hospital some 30 times in a year, because I took her IDs away so she'd go down to the corner and buy hand sanatizer, then drink that and mouthwash. Gave her IDs back, bam, drinking cheap 4 loco and killing herself.

>>40311633
Go for it before someone else does

I test my maxes next week and was feeling amazing but after a 2RM set on bench yesterday all of my arm tendons were screaming.

Hip flared up after squats on Mon and it all fucking nuked me today doing squats. I felt like shit and could barely do my accessories.

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>>40310945
Contemplating on taking Vyvanse anymore. The high is so great and i'm so productive but the crash is so bad.

>>40310945
I'm about to fucking lose it.

I honestly can't stand other people. I can't remember the last time I saw a man not being cucked by women and the left. Everywhere these days there are only little frail fucking beta guys that can't handle the fact that Donald Trump won the election. Nothing but whining and bleeding their fuxking hearts about muh human rights for refugees. Fuck refugees and everyone that supports taking them in. I'm not even American but I fucking hate American "men" so goddamn much.

Other than that I set a new front squat PR today.

>>40312832
What other meds have you taken? I was written Wellbutin for my depression, but I was too scared to take it.

Also, do you know how long a note will stay active? My doctor wrote me a note for the drug 3 months ago. If I do finally cave in and go for meds, do you think the pharmacy will take it?

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>>40310998
>tfw every girl i've been with always seemed like they'd rather be somewhere else

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>started saying h-hi to sloots on campus
>get responses...
>don't turn around to ask them out

Only doing 50% of the work, regret because it's hard to see that specific girl who seemed interested. one more week until valentines

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How did I do, fellas?

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>>40312939
part 2

Halp /fit/

I'm too scared to even initiate smalltalk with qt3.14 at work.
Seems that she's leaving her group of friends just to hang out nearby, but I'm just too fucking insecure about myself.

Also been getting mires from a coworker even though I'm barely getting into skinnyfat territory from hungry skellingtor mode

It's way too long since I've felt this way guys.

>>40312951
Abort abort. Just set a date and do not text. Your text game is hella cringe. Just meet and fuck before you can mess it up

>>40312977
Nice dubs. Yeah, this girl is a certified thot. I only asked her out cuz I ain't beaten my dick in 6 days, I immediately regretted it after doing it. I have no intention of going on a date with this grill desu.

>>40312887
Considering wellburtin isnt a controlled substance, you should be good.
I take trazodone for depression but it's mainly used for sleep so the Vyvanse combats that. Trazodone works good for me. Wellbutrin also worked good for me for about a year but I got used to it. You shouldn't be scared to take something like welbutrin.

>>40312998
*grill desu

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>>40312951
>Smooth as fuck
>Smooth.
Who you kidding?

>>40313017
* grill t b h

>>40313024
>not seeing the obvious joke

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>>40312939
>>40312951
>smooth

>>40311407
There is a 50% chance you are going to kill yourself

I'm pimping today, I even saw a girl look at me

>>40312998

are you a nigger?

you type and text like a nigger

stop it

Not good, girls got me fucked up. Thought I had something good but she said she doesn't want to continue anything because shes going to be busy the next few months. Not sure if I should wait for her to get freed up or to move on. I've just been hung up on her for the past two days

>lost 90 lb's
>still going, about 30 away from where I will look attractive
>have a herniated disk that's pinching 2 nerves, had it since september 2016, and I need surgery for it in May
>refuse to stop going to the gym because I want to lose more weight and I'm scared i'll gain it back
>Pretty sure I just pinched another nerve in my upper back
>also worried that I'll gain weight from when I have to rest my back after surgery since i won't be able to gym
>also girl I'm in love with just made me her bestfriend and she said nothing will change that

not the way I wanted 2017 to start. at least i'm alive I guess

>>40313176
Pls refrain from using the n word. This is a work safe board, so that work isn't allowed here. Don't say it again or else I will have to report you to moot and I know you don't want that to happen, right?

Thank you for understanding
God bless

>>40313201

confirmed nigger

>>40311121
Story of my fucking life.

>>40313176
nope, just an autist
>>40313201
this aint me

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>was sad because I thought the email I sent to a qt got ignored
>turns out they sent an email to me prior to my own that I didn't get
>they sent it to the wrong email address

It's an odd sort of feel.

As an aside, even if there's a low chance of a relationship happening, should I still try?

>>40313038
>haha let me pee in your but
>haha I totally didn't mean that haha

jw why im so autismal talking to girls who are attracted to me

Not even sad, just geniuinely curious. I mean, I'm the common denominator here right? Did I miss the day in school where they teach this shit?

The bad:
lost weight from not having worked out. I'm already pretty thin (6'0", 150 lbs)
haven't had sex in over a year

the good:
got into 4 MD schools this med application cycle
going back to the gym to start lifting and gaining again

>>40311633
You kiss her yet?

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>>40313325
I'm usually aspie when it comes to talking to attractive women. Even if I just want to ask them a simple question on the class assignment, I just go full retard mode. My voice gets all shaky and I can't seem to make eye contact.

I'm 100% ok when it comes to talking to average/ugly women though.

Doing better
Haven't done half the stuff on the list yet
Have put on a few pounds but I'm looking larger then before.
"Ottermode" is kinda hard to maintain for me and I'm sure I pissed away most of my will power last year.
I put on about 7 pounds and I'm in full maintenance and building mode.

Realized that I'm a major hypocrite, manipulative bastard, bully, and more then a bit rapey.

No fap is going well, no porn is a fail because of people posting NSFW on 4chan. I realized the other day that I was a lot larger while soft(6inches) so I decided to...get hard so that I could measure. Still a bit over nine inches. Curses...lol
I'm also apparently ugly so...yeah.
Oh yeah I'm close to being completely done with any and all sex and sexuality and will soon devote myself too. I dunno.
Programming
Carpentry
Gardening
Meditation
Exercise
Cooking
Yeah, I think that's something that can keep me occupied forever.

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>>40313411
>I just go full retard mode. My voice gets all shaky and I can't seem to make eye contact.
I'm like that, but with everyone

>>40313195
Keep pushing yourself and you'll be out of the gym for a lot longer than what you plan. Think ahead and respect your injuries, Christ. If you can't lift then recover and put effort into your diet

its 8 am and I already finished the calories for the day

>>40312951
please stop saying "lemme"

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>>40310945
>new semester
>Just finished swimming, plan to run in uni gym later
>change into running gear
>change into soffe running shorts for dat dere range of motion
>get to german class 5 minutes late
>f...fuckin elevators a...am i rite?
>teacher giving me a little flak about it
>doing dumb ass introductory questionaires
>didn't get to hear all the questions I had to answer
>everyone obviously mirin' my legs kek
>qt3.14 bangladeshi girl writes down the questions for me on a piece of paper
>later exchange contact info for "homework help*
>Get qt3.14's number
>h...hey, c...can I get your n...number, for h...homework?
>no spaghetti spilled
>next class I see her and talk a bit, let her borrow my marker for dumb name tag things on a three fold sheet of paper facing outward in order for the teacher to learn names.
>She messes up and has to ask for my marker again after I put it away
>did she just spaghetti?
>see another grill classmate who was in my previous german class mirin(?)
>always used to wear my "ranger panties" in my previous german class because I would usually just finish running or swimming or would hit the gym later for dat dere calisthenics
>talk to qt3.14 bangladeshi grill a few days later, find out she was born in Bangladesh and moved to the US when she was 6
>asked if I wanted to study with her this Saturday
>o...of c...course
>another classmate is joining us
>some dyel slav
>hope I can get the myfirstgf achievement
>tfw maybegf

>>40311504
stay safe babe

>>40312012
maybe you should spend less time drinking and being social and more time paying your bills you fuck stick.

>poor people.

>>40310998
All is full of love.

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>>40313619
Samefagging, forgot to mention
>last semester german class asked out qt3.14 Uzbekistanian ruski girl
>tells me she has a bf
>probably lieing because tfw can't bench 2pl8 yet
>start talking to qt3.14 uni gym receptionist
>not going anywhere and not responding or interested
>over the winter break just been feeling a little hollow
>shit weather so couldnt run or swim
>occasionally use homegym
>pain went away after meeting bangladeshi qt3.14
>mfw the feeling might come back
>a...at least I'm swimming better

>>40312304
>Yet broke and jobless still living with my parents browsing 4chan most of the day.
I just got a new job making 115k a year (not an expensive shithole like NYC or LA, but midwest). I'm also in shape.

I'd kill for a cute girl worth being in an LTR with.

Guess we want what we can't get.

4 years ago I was morbidly obese and never even dreamed of looking like I do now yet I feel like I am so far away from my goal body. how do I stop this insecurity

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>>40313442
>soft(6inches) so I decided to...get hard so that I could measure. Still a bit over nine inches. Curses...lol

Nice try dicklet

>>40312276
Are you me?

I tell my self the same thing verbatum and just train to be faster and stronger

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>>40310998

OH MY GOD PLEASE JUST LET IT END

>>40313619
You need to cut that shorter. I'm pissed that you made me do so much reading for so little information. Look at how long it took you to describe the 'nametag things' that were completely irrelevant to your story.

Most people would TLDR. I read, and I regret. Still don't know what your problem is and I think you just spent 500 words telling us you met a cute Bangladeshi girl who probably likes you. That said, I hope it turns out well mate.

>>40313676
Not him. I'm successful with a gf. (Not 100k+ but 21 so give me time).

Why don't you just meet enough people till you find someone great? It's way easier than getting a good job especially if you are already in shape with a good job.

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>curve girls left and right
>they all get serious bfs soon after
>feel regret
who else?

I just don't want to waste anyone's time but also I've been told I'm too picky.

>>40313686
Instead of looking inward insult other people in your head until you don't seem that bad. It's what 60% of /fit/ does 80% of the time.

>>40313739
Curve?

If that means fuck then keep fucking em m8. Enjoy it when you cum.

>>40313740
yeah I guess thats true, I look a lot better than the average man and it will only get better with age. I already see old friends getting fatter and worse looking by the age.

>>40313698
Yeah, you're not tricking me into posting my cock and getting banned.
Besides, there are women and LGBT folks on /fit/ who are on no shlick/fap and posting it would be discourteous.

>>40313756
Yeah that's it. Body dysmorphia is serious shit. Don't spend too much time looking at gorgeous people on TV/movies/ads and focus on the ugly fat depressed unhygeinic fucks in real life. That's your real competition. Keep it up m8. You'll make it.

not good. I can't believe my mom would stoop so low...
>my mom called my doctor and said to him "What's the most accurate measurement for weighing?"
>the doctor said "An underwater weighing test"
>my mom said "Yes. When can my son and my daughter can take it?" and the doc said "Today at 2pm."
>didn't bother taking a shower and so did my sister too, so I had to get into a special swimming suit(tight pants...Ugh).
>my sister said "Can I pull my hair down to a ponytail?"
>doctor says "No."
>so my sister with her long, blonde hair went underwater with 8 seconds and had she must enjoyed it..but I didn't.

>>40313730
>Why don't you just meet enough people till you find someone great? It's way easier than getting a good job especially if you are already in shape with a good job.

Because I'm very average which means most girls aren't interested in me. I'm tall and fit which are + but I'm bald so I have to shave my head which is a big - and while my face is good, the lack of hair makes me end up a 6/10.

The thing is I'm okay dating average girls if they're not fat, but most of them want Chad or had kids.

I do approach girls, mostly get rejected but I get girls to sleep with me, but they're not gf material.

>>40313751
they try to fuck but I go nah cuz I don't really feel them and I've fallen in the trap too many times where I catch fake feelings just from fucking girls.

>>40313763
I believe you. Pretty gutted I am only 8 inches but then I looked at the averages online and was happy as fuck. When you measure do you push right in to the bone or measure from where your skin sits at the base? At what angle do you hold your dick when you measure? Parallel to the ground? Higher? Lower? Do you measure from along the top? I don't know proper form so i hold at parallel and measure the side at the middle.

>>40313739
Nah don't settle for a fatty. I mean curvy girls are great FWB, but not qt gf material.

Have a qt gf which is nice but also broke as fuck and might have to drop out of college because no money and I haven't heard back from the jobs I applied to

>>40313772
Baldness doesn't even matter. I know that's easy for me to say as a fullhead but once you have money + height + fitness you are chad in real world terms. I know dudes making slightly less than you that are absolute pussy magnets, and I also mean the pussy you make friends with. You aren't meeting the right girls at the right places. I bet you go to bars and shit. Join a hiking club or some other physicaly activity club. You may feel awkward about it at first but they are 80% super cool people and 20% unthreatening dweebs. I've met a whole lot of girls who are into hiking enough to join a club. About 40% are decent looking and 10% are gf material by my unrealistic standards.

Hiking clubs, man. Find the girls with only minor daddy issues.

>>40313776
Just decide to not pursue them even if you get feelings.

I think you don't want to fuck because you have some other irrational fear about not performing well enough. Being scared of getting feelings is bs.

>>40313797
What's the degree? I'll tell you if you should drop out.

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I tend to talk to myself a lot. Like sometimes when I'm in the car I will pretend I'm two different people interviewing each other. I will also pretend that I'm in a romantic relationship with some girls in my classes. I will have conversation in my head with her and I will convince myself that I'm the best thing thats ever happened to her. Because of this I end up developing strong feels for the girl. I don't even actually talk to them irl. Just in my head.


What the fuck is wrong with me?!

The fuck is wrong with me?

>>40310945
badly

>>40313849
Ahahahahahag i don't have any advice for your drain bamage but thanks for the chuckle.

>>40313823
I'm actually really great in the sack (mostly cuz I stay hard like forever and love eating pussy) but I've been in therapy and shit and confusing physical attraction and love has been a big problem with me and I'm still working on sorting that out.

>>40313851
Fucking tell us why you cunt don't make us solve a fucking captcha just to ask you about your shitty life fuck you for making me waste my (you).

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>>40313849
the bit with the girl is a tad worrisome but the interviewing is something that i kind of do as well, i feel like if you cant conversate with yourself then youre kind of a boring person, though admittedly i'll often play characters and do little bits cause i think its funny

>>40313855
It's easy to stay hard forever when not in a LTR. I started having dick trouble one year in. Noporn is always the answer btw or just gtfo but that's another story.

Can't you find a girl that meets your standards?

>>40313778
Bone pressed on top while standing and penis at a 90 degree angle. That's the correct no bullshit way to measure that's agreed upon by basically everyone on the net.
I can LIE and say it's over ten inches by doing some creative measuring.

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>>40310945
been lifting for a month with minimum results. Frankly why do i even bother

>>40312751
>>40313367
No I haven't kissed her yet, I'm genuinely comfortable enough with her to just tell her, but I feel like it's too soon after her previous relationship
A mutual friend asked her about me the other week and she said she always thought I was cute and said she got super red and embarrassed, and then asked about me in a relationship way and she said "not at the moment cause I just got out of a relationship"

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Thought about my ex today being with another guy. Got angry. Realized I still dated her after she told me she was with a black guy before (red flag). Got more angry. Thankfully I was doing deadlifts

>>40310998
What a needy bitch.

Started graduate research but I have no fucking clue how to use Linux or even install the software I'm going to use yet. Feel like I'm not getting enough done while also feeling stupid for needing so much help.

There's a chick in my friend group and I think she likes me, but I'm not sure if I should try escalating things for the sake of the group should things go south. My friends say I'm probably overthinking it, but when we're alone together she would sometimes act flustered.

>>40310945
Double overhand

>>40310972
You're doing a good job anon. Keep up the great work and don't worry.

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>>40310998

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>>40310945
Actually feeling good, t-thanks for asking anon

i will sacrifice the next 4-5 months reading entrance examination books for the best school in my country, also will stop using shitty medicine for anxiety and rather face my fears or stay on sick leave than feel like shit 24/7 without any drive

started working out on myself last autumn, lost 10kg of fat, started a new school, made some friends, moved out of my parents

still a long way to go, but i will give it my best try

>>40310951
Kek

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>>40310998

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>>40310998

Tbh...

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>>40314402
W-what am I looking at?

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I'm doing okay, i guess. sticking to my gym schedule and my cutting diet so that's a good feeling, but also:

>get a qt's number from work
>start texting her the other day
>i think things are going alright
>she stops replying out of the blue

it hurts a lil bit, but i know all i can do is just keep working on myself. ultimately it doesn't matter whether or not anything develops between us, the ball is in her court, but it would still be nice, you know

>>40312951
She sounds frigid imo...

It's around 2 weeks after breakup - ex is trying hard to get back.
She said she misses me, says she can't sleep and feels remorse all the time and really wants me back.

It ended because I didn't like that she added more and more guys to her phone, started meeting them more etc.
We discussed it, later she raged at me, said i am just jealous and she doesn't want to ask me for permission and these things.

I told her that the only way we can get back together is if she stops adding guys to her phone etc.

She said she won't, she said she will try hard to change because she realized that I always treated her insanely well etc.

I don't know what to do here boys. I was moving on, I was happy with the idea that she left me no chance but to end it, that I tried my best of keeping it up.
But now I feel sad at the idea of turning her down.
It makes me feel depressive because now I feel kind of responsible.

Damn what a world.

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>>40310945
Not great. Club Penguin is shutting down. The game is shit nowadays anyway, but it just reminds me how fucking old I've gotten. I just want to be a kiddo again...

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>>40310998

>>40314763
Up to you. Make your choice and live with it, you're only answerable to yourself in this situation.

heavily considering doing roids

I'm scared though.

And..I don't even think it will make me physically more attractive, but I'll just finally have a dominant jerk personality, which girls seem to like.

>>40314763
what you need to do is block her, man. Block her number, block her on social media, block her on everything. I'm not even kidding. It might seem harsh at first but if you want to get over her and not feel "responsible" for how she feels then you need to cut her out.

i went through the same thing with my ex, even broke up around a similar time as you (about 3-4 weeks). We split up and she was constantly trying to talk to me and telling me how she was going to change and this and that and everything else, and i just wanted to be done with it. All of the stress that brought the relationship to an end was just continuing even after i had called things off.

You might feel like an asshole, but it's the right thing to do if you want to get over her

>>40314781
I think I have fucked up because I actually started chatting up this other girl.

When she raged hard at me and insulted me in various ways, accused me of this and that during our relationship etc I was just sure that it's finally over and that we won't contact each other again.

So I am talking to this girl over phone now and she is really interested.
A shy girl, chubby (but I don't mind) and really into me.

I fucked up hard here, regardless of having chances to get back with ex or not I should not have chatted someone up that early.

I can't meet up with my ex now. I know we would get back together if I did and I would have to break this other girls heart - I can't do that.

Also my family really wouldn't understand. Me and my ex already has such a shitty back and forth experience.

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I am trying my best not to be depressed, my ''gf'' went into full ignore mod and became super cold,broke her promise to send me photos from her country and we haven't seen each other for over 1 month. I have heard that girl's feelings are not stable, but not to such extent, really..
Give me strenth, bros.

>>40314802
Don't roid because you think it'll change your personality, you dumb fucking retarded. As a juicer who has run everything from tren to halo I can tell you right now that if you're not an aggressive dick head in the first place you won't suddenly become one, and that's an damn good thing.

Roid for a fucking purpose. Don't sacrifice your money, time and health for a stupid faggot pipe dream.

>>40313637
Thanks brah.

>>40314805
It's just that there is this kind of attraction that arises from her trying to get me back, you know?

I don't know, I feel the emotional implications of it - the relationship ended because I disliked the amount of contact she had to other guys.
Which is kind of like her displaying disinterest - in a sort of way.

And now her trying to get back to me is a proof of interest again.

That's the emotional rollercoaster I feel. Not sure if that's understandable somehow.

It's so fucking weird.

But I don't think that she can actually change. I think that after a few weeks or months she would again feel like she really wants to chat up the guys l.
She says she won't, she says the understood what I want but I am not sure if I can believe that.

>>40314950
>But I don't think that she can actually change.

she's telling you over and over that she'll change but look, you're already doubting that she's going to. If thats what caused the relationship to break apart in the first place and lead to this emotional rollercoaster type of feeling, why would you want to put yourself back in that position?

Thats just what eventually did it for me, we /almost/ broke up multiple times, and each time she said she was going to be better, and each time nothing major ever changed for the better. It got to be too much, and i had to break things off for my own health.

>>40312336
Guess I'll hop on the chain. Almost 6 years for me, broke up last month or so. She sits in a lecture hall across from mine on Monday and Wednesdays, and the seat I happen to sit in is perfectly situated to be able to see her through some window. I'm too masochistic to move, I guess

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=bpOSxM0rNPM

>>40314972
It's just so sad, somehow.

All I wanted is for her to display interest in seeing me on the weekends and not add every guy she meets at work to her phone.

Thats all I ever asked for. I accepted all the other shit, never even thought about it.

It really seems to be an impossible task to find a girl that just wants to commit to the relationship.
It's insane.

How are things going for you since your breakup?

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>>40310998
Fuck you slut I'm going to talk to random faggots on the internet about bread and there's nothing you can do to stop me.

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>>40314950

Don't do it bro

If she won't show you the same respect you show her she doesn't deserve you.

You'll be fine breh

Could you date a girl that lives in a dorm full of teenager kids that chat her up all day?
Girl I'm writing literally texts me about how those guys were trying to see if she could blow someone on a char while standing (not actually doing it, but you know, joking about it).

She writes me those things assuming I find them funny.

Am I to find them funny? I don't. I couldn't be in a relationship with a girl that lives in such environment.

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>been able to talk to people much easier since last year
>can go up to a stranger/have one come up to me and initiate small talk pretty well
>still prefer to work out by myself in the gym and just chill by myself at home

It's like no matter how hard I try to be an extrovert, I still prefer being alone.

>>40314950
You have to decide once and for all, it's hard but if you feel better without her end it now. If you're unsure you might just end up in a situation like mine.. on / off constantly for years unable to be with or apart from this person

>>40315035
i understand, man. I felt sad about it too because it really felt like i was like...leaving her behind, giving up on her, so to speak. I thought that if i had just stayed then maybe /this time/ she would actually change, maybe /this time/ would be different. But deep down in my heart i knew that it wasn't going to happen and it would just be the same cycle over and over again

I think you know this too, with your situation.

After we split, i was sad about it for about a week, but i got over it (truth be told i was probably "over it" 2 or 3 months before we actually broke up) and now i'm more dedicated to my gym schedule and my diet than i ever felt like i was when we were together. I'm taking time to be selfish and work on myself and i don't regret any of it

>>40315055
Yeah, I guess I will turn her down. Tell her I won't meet her because I feel like things won't work out.

She will be mad again, telling me how at least she tried and that its me who just gave her up. I will probably be the boo man in her mind.

Which makes me mad a little, thinking about it. I wasn't the one that chatted up girls and shit. I was at every point truly commited to the relationship and looking to maintain it.

But now I am the bad guy.
Fucked up world.

Suffering from some pretty bad sleep deprivation.

Slept 5 hours 2 nights in a row, went to work for 10 hours today.

Just went to the gym but I'm feeling so fucked I was only able to do 3 sets of overhead press before I had to leave.

Wish this pounding headache will go away. Probably going to be another sleepless night tonight and work again tomorrow.

>>40315075
have you told her that these things make you uncomfortable? does she seem like the kind of person who would put a stop to these kind of situations if you pursued a serious relationship?

>>40315135
>Wish this pounding headache will go away
are you breathing correctly when you lift this used be a source of great pain for me

>>40315153
That's a good question.

I haven't told her that, no. But I feel like someone that I want to be with would have a level of empathy and awareness that would make them figure that out themselves.

I mean, what is this? We are making plans to meet and shit and discuss various relationship topics with and she then just casually mentions crap like that.
If I was in a relationship with her at this point and she told me this "funny story" I would legit be mad.

Do adult people still do this? I'm 22, I don't talk to girls like that anymore. As a teenager I did, it surely was funny to make some sexual comments and shit.

But at this age it feels completely inappropriate and stupid.

>>40315110
So what was the problem in your relationship?
Why where you fighting, why did you break up?

>>40315113
Guilty girls will always try to force the blame onto the guy. It's a way for them to justify in their own mind that they didn't ruin it or hurt you. You're not the bad guy and don't let her make you think that. As a human, and a man, your happiness comes first in your life.

> t. Been cheated on multiple times by multiple girls

>>40315177
Well, she might just feel comfortable enough to share this stuff with you, like if she didn't tell you she would feel like she was hiding it from you or something, or she's trying to find some humor between you two, since she's not acting on any of these statements, it could kind of be anything

If you feel confident having a kind of serious talk about it, i would mention to her that it makes you feel uncomfortable/weird and see what she says about it then.

>>40315203
she dealt with a lot of mental health issues before and during our relationship, and they started to just become more and more strenuous on our relationship. when things were good they were really good, but when they were bad it was just hellish. It started to feel like the good times only came around because she felt bad about her mental health.

I never felt like i could get upset about any of that stuff because i convinced myself that "it wasn't her, it was her anxiety/depression" so i bottled up a lot of my emotions and ended up just kind of feeling like a punching bag. She would apologize and we'd make-up and she'd promise she would be better about it, but it never happened.

At the time we split up, she was going into serious treatment for the issues she had, but it was too late for me and i just felt like i was some emotionless robot just going through the motions of what i imagined a "relationship" should be

> deadlift day
> first set, good
> second set, start loosing grip in left hand on # 5 & 6 though I still complete set without loosing hold of the bar
> third set, almost loose bar completely on last rep (# 6)
> reset and try to perform x2 more to make up for failed last rep
> left hand can't keep hold of bar and I end up not completing the x2 reps

I'm really pissed with myself right now

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I want it to be summer already, I don't like the cold.

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Not good I have had flu for the past two days and was in bed for the modt part yesterday. Could feel myself wasting away and joints were aching. In the haze of falling in and out of sleep i dreamed about my oneitis and all the scenarios were running through my head. Today im feeling better so i can atleast lift to get my head back on track on whats important for self improvement.

>>40315223
Damn, sounds rough.

All the best to you anon, maybe the next girl be a sweetie.

>>40315205
I mean, I can tell her that I would be pissed if she didn't manage such situations properly during a relationship.

But I already have the impression that she is the type of girl that enjoys such attention by other men, you know? And then has a hard time pulling out of these situations.

>>40315293
yeah i am definitely going to play my cards a little differently the next time around. i kind of jumped into that relationship a little too quickly, in hindsight, because i had been single for almost 5 years previous and, in the beginning, things were really nice

>>40315304
if thats how you feel she is, it's completely up to you how to proceed. If you think/she says that she would put an end to this kind of stuff if she was in a relationship then by all means give it a chance, but if you have doubts that she would, be wary

Moved to new place for work few months ago. Hate the culture here and the isolation I find myself in, but the money is good. Kind of feel like I'm getting dicked around at work, but excelling at the tasks I'm assigned.

Lifts are improving. Get compliments from lots of people on my physique (bros and sluts). However, my coworkers think I'm a meathead. Which I find more funny than anything.

Been talking to a girl for awhile now. We would flirt a lot she would comment on my physique. Planned on visiting her soon she would always act so excited basically begged me to come down for a visit. I told her that she would be receiving a Valentine's Day gift early due to the estimated deliver date being way off. Upon hearing this she feels the need to tell me she's been talking to someone. Feelskindofbadman.jpg but I understand with the distance and tell her I pretty much expected she'd be seeing people (which I did). Text her that I do have feelings for her but don't have any expectations anything would happen and that we both should be seeing other people (again true I'd love if something happened between us but the situation is not ideal). Been two days no reply.

I just want a reply I understand she may not reciprocate my feelings, but fuck man at least reply. Thinking about deleting her number.

TL/DR: Moved to new place I hate, people be miring, doing good at work, bitches still making me feel like shit.

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>Go on first date with qt3.14
>It goes pretty well
>For the first time I still really like a girl after the first date
>Tell her I had a good time and want to set up a second date
>The feeling seems mutual
>The next day send her a text to try and set up a second date
>No reply
>"It's cool she's probably pretty busy"
>Couple of hours later still no reply
>"Okay maybe she's left her phone somewhere"
>Next day still no reply
>"Oh God is she ghosting me!"
>Send "???" text just in case she didn't see the first one
>Couple of hours later still no reply
>My soul is shattered and life is over
>Suddenly she texts me back!
>Apologies for being so bad with replies and sets up a second date
>Faith in humanity restored and heart grows 3 sizes
>Literally fist pumping

This experience made me realize how much it sucks to be on the receiving side of being ghosted. I've done it so many time to girls that I totally deserve to have it done to me though. I'm never gonna ghost anyone ever again, just tell them straight up that I don't want to date them.

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>>40310998
STOP, MAKE IT STOP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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>>40310998
I didn't ask for this...

started working out so i can stop being a noodleboi (6'1 145 pounds).
past couple of months have been a depressive sink hole, cant seem to stop thinking about everything i hate about myself and my social anxiety has gone off the charts.
being a kissless virgin at 20 also just makes me feel pathetic and everytime a woman looks at me i feel like thats exactly what they think. i know its all in my head but its a maze ive built for myself and i cant get out.
just seem to feel more empty every day.

>>40315516
she'll flake on you though :/

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job sucks and no gf. working another 10 hour today. if i didn't have lifting i'd probably kill myself

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worst I've ever been is how I'm doing;

>take year off before starting college because I didn't feel ready
>lift for a year and a bit, get a decent job, buy first car etc but still live at home
>start college in summer
>best I've ever felt, happy, confident and social, learnt a lot about life in the past year
>do all my work
>make loads of friends
>3 weeks in get involved with this girl
>tell her in a beta way I like her
>she reciprocates
>ignore every single red flag she throws at me (list is too long)
>catch the feels

worth pointing out I'm basically playing catch up at this point and inexperienced as shit (never had a gf just stupid flings that never get anywhere), doesn't really bother me much though

>get really close with her for about three months, don't really make any new friends
>don't get exclusive because I'm a beta bitch who doesn't want to ruin anything, even though it did actually bother me and she did ask
>get stupid insecure and ruin it with her (or so i think)
>get informed through friends she's been fucking a dude she got with during freshman week
>all because i didn't move fast enough for her or some shit
>all going on whilst we were spending time together
>gym has been utterly neglected at this point, put on 10kg and getting thicc
>have a massive fight with her
>get super sad and have a massive bout of anxiety and depression
>miss most of my classes and fuck up all my mid-term exams
>two months later I'm still an absolute wreck and the worst my mental state has ever been
>doctor wants me to go on antidepressants
>anxiety is through the roof and I can barely speak to people
>just want to go back to how I was in summer; the first time in my life I've been confident
>the me who she was attracted to is now dead

thought I was gonna make it brahs, I'm considering dropping out at this point. I have failed you all

I want to start gym again but it sucks here and I'm a complete wreck at the moment

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>>40312312
>Dying is easier.
>But living is a lot more fun.

Sadness just hit me like a euro truck of peace.
> try to spend day outside to save on power bill since it's hot as fuck
> go to the beach by myself
> literally the only person that came alone, everybody else came with friends
> went to a shopping center to eat and kill more time
> couples and groups of friends all around my lonely self
> only words that escape my mouth all day was my food order
> got noone to call, nobody who'd ask what my day was like
> I could die today and my uni "friends" wouldn't know for weeks or even months
> radio keeps playing v-day ads
Not a day goes by where I don't wish for a race war or some other society destroying event so that I could find some sort of meaning to my life. If I can't live a normal life with friends and girlfriends at least let me remove some kebab before they capture and behead me on camera.

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there's a cute girl at my gym who usually works out alone

does cario on a treadmill then works out abs with excercise ball. really want to ask her but don't know of a way that isn't creepy. help me fit

>>40316117
I feel you bro you gotta find meaning in your own life take up hobbies that's how you meet people and make friends be it fishing,surfing,biking anything

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Not good.

Have been feeling constant pain on my chest and upper back for around a year. Breathing deeply makes my chest snap like i'm cracking my knuckles, but internally. I am going crazy, as I used to meditate and have always used deep breaths to relax, which I cannot do comfortably anymore.

Back around mid-2016 I had reached at least proficient on all of my body parts at symmetricstrength and was feeling absolutely pumped about my gains. The pain wasn't so bad at that point. I took a month of rest and the pain just got worse. Did MRIs, X-rays, CT Scans...all clean.

I am so fucking scared of having Ankylosing Spondylitis. My symptoms are basically spot on, thought rheumatologists just say "well we can't be sure!". My fucking spine might become completely fucked up, and there's nothing I can do about it. Being /fit/ was basically the only thing I was truly enjoying, I always told my friends I would be around 70 still rocking those deadlifts, and now at 22 I'm scared I might never lift pain-free again. It has been 6 months since I last lifted. I just want to go back.

>meet girl online, kinds cute, super smart
>she loys texts me every day, sends snaps, usually initiating
>ask to meet in person, she says yes and is super friendly and playful. Hugs, punches, etc.
>After this day she becomes busy, texts and snaps slow to once a day, can't meet up anymore.
I guess I'm forever fucked. The one enjoyable thing that was going well in my life burned out quickly.

>>40316938
girls are a dime a dozen my man, find happiness in something that isnt so fleeting

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>>40310998
pls stop

>>40317000
You're right, I just needed a break in my shitty life. I used to be addicted to pc games, and since I quit in September to lift I've had a hard time finding joy in anything.

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I just want to study

I used to enjoy programming so much, but now it's like the thought of studying anything is overwhelming, the comparison between what I know and the amount of things I should already know is so daunting that I can't even start.

I used to just revel in knowing that I was learning, no matter how little
But it's like I can't do anything that doesn't produce instant results anymore

The only barely productive thing left in my life is lifting, and I'm only able to do it because it requires zero effort and I just go on autopilot during workouts

I'm in no way old at 23, but I feel like I'm 5 way behind everyone else, having wasted 4 years of university doing absolutely nothing

>>40310972
nice senpai, talking to girls and asking them out is the best way to build exp and confidence to nab a qt down the road

>>40310945
I wanted to marry here, she was perfect, even a virgin.... she was 21 and I 28. I will never meet another like her.

>>40312508
hey man be brave and try to be happy by yourself i learned it the hard way but being alone is far better than begging for social interactions.
i used to be the funny guy but not any more try and find a sport like martial art or collective sport (whatever just enjoy it and prepare to be good at it) and then people will have interactions with you even more if you're the quiet and efficient guy in the team

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Thought I was doing alright, until I found out my ex has been making moves on my best mate.

Ah well. At least new gf is far better than she ever was

>>40311077

In this last month's I've found out 3 hot girls want to screw me, but I can't do much to make it happen because they are all my friends ex-girl friends, one of which I live with and cant risk bringing any back and him finding out.

>>40311633
Dont wait to long, you WILL have to make the first move or you WILL end up in the friend zone. It's happened to me enough times to know ir.

>>40317516

>sumo dl
Sasuga shit-ogre

Groudon would lift that with a real deadlift
scratch that
He'd OHP that shit

>>40311933
holy shit dude

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>>40310998
>>I love you so much.
It's been a long time since i heard these words.
Too long.

>>40317615
Please get out more senpai

>>40317615
>>40317711

As the poster of the WEBM I fully support anon's passion for pokemon

Doing alright all things considered. Hard to find a job, but that's not really surprising around here. Stalling on my lifts though, which sucks.

>>40311964
now this is a feel.

Now you know what life is like anon, try not to fuck it up next time. But remember that you were lead eng at that co for a long time, you should not look at your time as a failure but as a success. Don't stop trying and fuck off with
>>40311973
bullshit. We need more hard working anons to fix the world so stick around and help out.

>>40312012
dude, get the fuck off 4chan and get your fukken poop in a group before you're homeless. Seriously man!

>>40315516
>Pity date

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>>40310998

nothing going well, life feels like cansir

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>have a big fight with gf
>she comes back and begs me for hours to take her back, saying she loves me and how she'll spend the whole night begging
>goes as far to say she'll tell our mutual group of friends all of this was her fault and gave me her fucking SOCIAL SECURITY NUMBER to show me how much she trusts me
>act cold because we've been having a rollercoaster ride of a relationship for months, partly my fault, but I take her back and tell her I love her too.
>start acting beta a few days later telling her how much she means to me and kind of get sidelined
>for the past few weeks our conversations have been slow and uninteresting despite me putting in a lot of effort to make amends and have a relationship akin to how it first started, where we would talk to each other for literally 6 hours a day about nothing.
>feel like she's losing interest in me

I can't think about anything else in my life now, it's debilitating. I can't lift, can't eat, can't sleep and my mental state throughout the day is that of extreme anxiety because I can't get her out of my head and I keep analyzing every conversation we've had in the past few days.

Am I over analyzing? Am I trying to hard expecting us to have 6-8 hour long conversations everyday like we used to have? What's wrong with me.

She said she fucking loved me above anybody else, and it was sincere. It's time for me to completely detach and start working on my own hobbies and job. I think I'm just using her to fill a void in my life since I literally have nothing but her, 4chan, and videogames.

>>40310945
One of my labs yesterday has a new random partner each week. I was hoping to get assigned a girl this week but I got a dude again. Feels bad

Other than that holding up pretty well.

>>40310998
The person who did this clearly has no idea of healthy relationship. The cringe in this is strong

>>40318136
leave her and get on roids

Went fom weighing 105lbs at 5'10 to weighing 165lbs, still feel like I'm auschwitz mode yet I get called fatboy a lot by mates

Starting to wonder if I'll ever not hate myself, lifting doesn't seem to have cured it, but I'm still weak as fuck so I can hardly say I'm 'lifting'

It's pretty crushing to push yourself towards a goal to make you hate yourself less, then when you start arriving at the destination you realise the horrible voice in your head is still there

>>40318330
How long did it take you to get that big? I was around 112lbs and now that I started to lift and eat more I am at 130. I'm still a skelly, so if you have any tips on what to eat that would be great.

>>40312304
>25
>never had a gf
>no degree
>no friends
>shit genetics so my body looks like shit even after getting fit
>severe anxiety and depression
>family constantly threatens to kick me out for being worthless

Broke, jobless, literally in the negatives in the bank, 20k in debt from failing out of college, living with parents that are mentally abusive.

Life is a waste.

>>40318514
I started making a difference about 2 years ago, but I've been at my weight for a good few months now and I didn't know what I was doing desu, so it could be done a lot faster

I just upped my carbs by a lot, started eating large portions of pasta / potatoes and whatever with my meals

Weight gainer definitely helped, I had a shake a day and the ones I was using was about 1500 calories if you mix it with whole milk. You can add oats too.

I didn't really count my calories - I did at first, but once I'd been doing it a while I could make a decent estimate as to how much calories I was eating so I just played it by eye from then on.

There's a few little things like peanut butter on bagels etc that I ate as a calorie boost in case I was a few hundred short of my daily req and I wasn't very hungry. That was the hardest part - forcing myself to eat when I wasn't hungry.

>>40318580
Damn man.
I've been trying to count my calories too. I feel like I am slowly looking a lot bigger so I'm kinda happy. I was told that most peoples metabolism slows down once they're around 25, so maybe it will be easier to put on weight once I'm older.

>>40318539
At what age did your life start to go down?

>>40313769
Wait what?
Etc, etc...

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I haven't seen that oneitis on campus again, I shoulda asked her out the one time I ran into her. Ruined. So I asked someone else today, but she said no.

Need poon before v-day

>>40318751
21. I got into Pharmacy School but decided I hated it, after that it has been nothing but failure.

>>40318802
Damn man. Have you thought about trying to find an entry lvl job? I'm studying accounting right now and I fucking hate it. I'm also failing a few classes and I'm already behind on graduating. I thought about finding a job in HR. I've heard its a lot easier and I've seen some entry lvl ones around my city. I'm hoping that I will like it because I'm getting tired of being a retail cuck.

>>40312139

all those monitoring apps give you estimates, they can't exactly calculate your intake and caloric expenses.

If you still gain weight you should adjust your diet and increase cardio.

Also you shouldn't ignore the fact that your weight doesn't tell the whole story.
You might have lost a bunch of fat while gaining muscle, weight wise those might cancel each other out to some degree.

>>40310998
>sad boner

>>40318846
My area has a lot of casinos, so I'll probably try to get some work there soon. My parents are all for forcing me through school though, even though I'm so fucking tired of school. Even after failing 5-6 classes I still have a 3.4 GPA, but I'm just so tired of it.

>>40318539
Fuck mate, stay strong.

http://vocaroo.com/i/s08oV7bWXquc

I just want this. How big/strong do I have to be to get this?

>posted pic in /cbt/ for the first time the other day and didn't get insulted by a bunch of anons
:)))

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>>40310998
this type of shit is only appealing to people who've never had a gf. Trust me, after a month or two of this shit, the cuteness wears off and you just want some space. There's a time and a place for acting like that, but if it's all the time it makes you wanna put a bullet in your temporal lobe

>>40319584
lol why did I laugh so hard?

>>40313676
Hang in there anon I'm sure one will come your way soon enough. Enjoy the rich bachelor life while you can.

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>>40319654
I always think of this.

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>>40317673
>tfw despite having multiple gfs, never heard them say those words

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>>40319860
>never heard them say those words

Breh

>>40317673
This really made me think... It's been about 10 years.

I got a crush on a gym QT now for the first time in years and I'm trying to figure out her program so I can run into her again. Only saw her one time and so I think she'd normally go at different hours than me

Tomorrow after 375 days will be the day I hit 2pl8 bench.

Then there are upcoming exams next week.

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>>40310945
>go on omegle becausec boredom
>get a group of qt girls
>"ew no"
>get nexted

>>40320143
Dont sweat it bro, on omegle I've had that happen to me and I've also had groups of girls show tits and ass. it's so fickle

>>40313849
Shit is relatively normal senpai. Everyone has internal dialogues it only becomes a problem when you start giving the other voice attributes and developing it into something more than passing thoughts.

>>40317563
I just have a couple somewhat strict rules anyway.

>no freshmen
>nobody im currently in class with
>nobody im currently working with
>no more sex without dating

All 3 of these girls violate that that in more than one way

>>40311345

Dump her now. Dont wait for her to break up with you. It will be easier.

>>40312228

Thats toxic. Cut her out fully man. Its over. Block her from facebook and your phone. Time to move on. Girls like seeing that they can have you back and that you are suffering without them. Dont give her that satisfaction. Rip the plaster off the wound; dont keep reapplying it and ripping it off slowly for gods sake!

broke up with my gf recently

things were very good on paper, but in actuality, it seemed like i didn't feel about her the same way she felt about me. like i didn't love her enough, and it showed in my behavior. too little kisses, too little hugs, too little affectionate behavior. she'd constantly be heartbroken and sad about it

problem is, i couldn't actually see anything wrong with how i behaved, everything seemed normal to me, even though things weren't right. so i thought, if i'm acting like this subconsciously, then it's obvious that i don't feel enough for her, so why waste her time? and so i broke it off

we tried to be civil about it, and still keep in touch, but every other day when we text or whatever, she doesn't forget to remind me how i fucked things up for her and how she doesn't want to be in a relationship ever again.

it's so burdening. why should i be responsible for her life and the way she feels? we were in a relationship for a year, a point came where things didn't feel right for me, so i broke it off. what was i supposed to do, stay in it and pretend that i feel fine?

so seeing that every time we chat she would start feeling like shit, i said that it's probably better if we actually stop keeping in touch, to which she answered with "so you took that decision yourself as well, have a nice life asshole"

i think this is exactly something a girl with daddy issues would say but anyway, am i a bad human being /fit/?

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I've been horribly depressed and struggled with anxiety and bipolar disorder for about 5 years now. I'm almost 23 years old and up until about a month ago I was a hand hold, kissless virgin who never had a gf. Things happened so unexpectedly with a girl I've known for a while and I'm none of those things anymore.
>I just don't feel different
I knew that things wouldn't magically be beautiful and amazing, but I don't even feel anything special. I had real heavy feelings for her in the past but not as much anymore. I don't feel undeniable chemistry like we're supposed to be together. She lives 2 1/2 hours away and is super busy with school which doesn't help. I just dived in cause "fuck it" I didn't think it would happen and I need to gain experience. Idk everyone just made me feel like I'm supposed to be euphoric and everything is supposed to be sunshine and rainbows but I can't help but still feel hollow inside. I consider myself lucky compared to some dudes but I still know the pain those 22 years brought me

>>40320374
Lmao what a loser.

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>>40311504
>the onset of schizophrenia

>>40321520
Come at me. The rules are there to keep bad shit from happening again.

I'm pretty good right now.

I trained arms really hard without it clicking that it'll be my first arms session since I've been back in the gym and the soreness is really annoying because it's really intense. It doesn't help that I fell asleep for an hour or two and now the soreness is even worse.

My ex sent me a Snapchat video out of the blue? Something about the music that was in the background being good. Me and her share similar tastes in music so for a millisecond I was going to reply. I don't like her so I left it all day before opening it because I knew I wouldn't reply. Fuck her, man. Plus I know it'll get under her skin because I've always been too polite not to reply.

Gonna listen to some music tonight.

>>40311933
>>40311933
Damn man that sounded just like my 2015.

I lost my job in late 2013 and had fallen back into my depression but I eventually nutted up and decided to go back to uni and start lifting properly in 2015 knowing I was making a better change and I had an awesome woman by my side.

then

>gf dumped me
>depression hits back harder than it ever has
>dad diagnosed with stomach cancer
>had to put down 18 year old dog (had him since I was 7)
>back injury

But 2017 is looking good so far.
Dad is healthy and still in the clear. I have 2 jobs with flexible hours so I'll be making about 650 per week while studying full time so I will likely move out (again) in the next month.
Have money saved up for a motorbike (something I've wanted for about 5 years). Haven't failed any uni subjects yet and I'm halfway through and the gains are still going pretty good.

Back injury is still niggling me though and no gf/dates/sex since the 2015 breakup so I'm still kinda lonely but this year is the first in about 10 that actually feels promising.

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Went on a date with this amazing girl. After a lot of dating, I mean like, I'm 27 and have only ever dated girls before, not had a girlfriend, so I dated a lot. And it felt like this new girl is who I've been waiting for. I fell head over heels for her. So much that I was nervous during the date even. But I didn't manage to create a spark, and she said in the end "now you have a new friend :) " ........ and now she has some other guy as a boyfriend.

Can't stop thinking about her. I started dating someone else, but even when fucking her I sometimes think about the other girl.... It's been 6 months.

What do I do? Become what you want to attract? So I jumped into music. I'm learning an instrument and I'm learning to sing. I tried an acting class but didn't like it. I do hand crafting. And I do volunteer work. Will she notice me some day? Dump her boyfriend for me?

>>40321015
I don't really see what you did wrong if anything. Did you treat her more lovingly in the beginning? If in the end you saw no future with her and you broke if off then it was a good decision. She's just heart broken, angry with you, as she wanted to continue in a relationship where you would have showed some more love. If you didn't love her enough for that then it's decided already.

what do you think of my situation >>40322488 ? ... It's not that I don't like the girl I date at the moment. I just like the first one better.....