Sexual health

>>40179328
>he can't contain his sexual energy without needing it to be released

Like a fat person who needs their McDonald's fix, or a smoker who needs his next cigarette

>>40179357
Do you also contain your piss and shit and hold it in for days?

>>40179328
I tried having sex with my gf. My dick would get erect but then get soft really fast. I tried to get it erect again, but my heart started beating really fast, and my dick didn't get hard enough to penetrate her. My dick would bend Everytime I tried to put it in. I told my gf it's probably get fault, maybe because I don't find get healthy enough (she's cute, but she needs to workout on her ass) she's a virgin so she bought it. Now unfortunately I'm really anxious. I'm in top condition m, even do cardio so this makes no sense. I'm trying nofap to increase my hardness, hopefully it works. Other ways to increase libido? Currently taking ZMA and fishoil

>>40179377
You die if you don't piss or shit. You can't die from sexual abstinence.

>>40179394
Watch porn without touching yourself

>>40179394
its just anxiety

get cialis right now

>>40179377
The body actually excrete excess semen when we use the bathroom or dream.

And we don't see a drop in test when it happens.
Your rebuttal?

>>40179394
You're a fag

>>40179394
Try L-theanine bro.

Makes you relax (like alcohol but without the intoxication). It's an ingredient of green thea.

You'll relax, last longer it also temporarily desensitizes your dick slightly (don't know why though).

>>40179357
Why contain it?

is cool

>>40179394
Fuck to cum not 4 her pleasure. Eventually you'll last longer. Just eat her pussy good if you are stressed about pleasing her.

>>40179436
This guy can't stay erect and you advice him to watch porn? As in, one of the greatest contributers to erectile dysfunction?

viper you cant be that stupid

>>40179436
I've started nofap, but edged to porn. Planning to give up porn completely
>>40179462
I don't want to start taking dick pills at an early age
>>40179471
Rude
>>40179472
>>40179497
I don't think you're reading it right. I want my dick to get harder so I can actually put it in her. It doesn't get fully erect. Also my oral game is strong made her come twice.

Side note, when she gives me oral my dick works normal

>>40179466
Actually you do, which is why test peaks on day 7.

>19
>Usually once a day, sometimes up to 3

>>40179514
It still makes you relax, are you low test?

>>40179514
Mate a dick pill won't hurt you. The reason to take one is to cross the mental barrier you've built. Once you have one good shag your penis will learn what it's meant to do.

my libido goes up when I increase my fat

Had weird issues earlier, not horny, no morning wood, painful ejaculation, weird feeling near prostate. Now I'm back to normal somehow, all I did was sleep more, stretch more, and masturbate more.

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Does this shit work? I've been reading around and the general consensus is yes but you have to use it consistently. The price tag is a bit steep though.
Also what size should I get? I'm 7×5 so I'm thinking 30×, but would the hercules size work too?

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How is this?

>>40179328
>29
>Once every week to 10 days

I have no libido anymore unless I'm directly in the presence of a woman I find sexually attractive, and even then sometimes I'd rather go home and sleep than try to fuck them.

>>40179574
I'm not sure. I can workout and put on muscles pretty well, but I'm tired and sleepy all the time.

>>40179514
Are you using a rubber? Might be latex alergy.

>>40179328
>25
>if I don't fap at least once a day, my libido skyrockets and I precum like a fountain
its just a pain to wash those, but I love the sensation that I'm horny.
Can only have sex around once every two weeks so it is kind of exciting.

>>40179623
30yrs, agree 100%, it is exactly like that.

>>40179633
Tried with and without. Same results

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>>40179394
>told her it's her fault
>blaming her for your broken dick

top kek, she's gonna leave you for a better looking guy with a working dick brah

>>40179328
>age
30

>how often do you masturbate
10+ times every day

26

Used to be a once or twice a week guy. Now that roiding and cutting at 1400 calories i jack of every morning looking at my shredded body

thanks /fit/

>>40179706
She still sucked my cock after. You got to keep virgin women conscious about themselves.

>>40179669
Is there something wrong with us? I talked to some buddies of mine who are in their 40's and 50's, and they all said I should still be full of libido. There's a girl I'm seeing who turns me into a horny sex beast when I'm around her, but as soon as I leave her place, I just don't care anymore. I only masturbate now because I know it's healthy.

I also do not watch porn.

I just feel like I still have a few years before my dick hangs hit hat.

>>40179394
same here
My physique is very good but my erection goes away way too fast. My gf attracts me but sometimes I just can't get boner I feel tired

I figured it might be due to our low fat, low calories eating. Might have messed up my hormone. I used to be horny all the time when I was fat

Now it feels like my fat content won't be enough to make hormones and my energy won't support my sexual behaviour

>>40179769
Damn I too was cutting then. Are you me?

>>40179328
27.

I usually punch the clown once a day, some times more, despite being married and being able to have sex whenever. I may have an unhealthy obsession with porn. I am trying to stop. I have managed to convince myself that porn is disgusting, but now I'm just getting weird fetishes.

Oh, well. And we struggle on...

>>40179758
Dont really know what is happening man, maybe we are just like that naturally.
I watch porn but only for a short period of time when i finally decide to masturbate.
Hormone wise i did a full blood panel and everything was perfect regarding hormones.
The only period i was super horny all the time and masturbated almost daily was when i jumped on testosterone enanthate for 3 months.

>>40179328

28
Twice a day. 3-4 times if really horny.

>>40179377
are you retarded?

>>40179328
i'm 27 and try to fap once a week. i have a very weak libido, maybe due to using ssri's in the past. it really sucks having a weak libido

>>40179792
It's not a unknown fact that your body doesn't like sex when it's in starving mode
Pretty simple. When you don't eat enough and fat content which is essential for hormone making, the last thing your body wants is to reproduce

My cutting went really fast so I don't think it's considered to be "healthy" by any normie doctor standard. Plus my work drained all my energy out as well

I'm not anxious because I know the causes and this is not severe ED. Trust me you and I will still get strong boner in the morning because we're relaxed well. Then you know the cutting and calories intake play major causes

>>40179328
>18
>at least twice a day, sometimes 4
dick needs a break though, gonna try nofap

>>40179818
>being married and being able to have sex whenever
That's not how marriage works.

>>40179483
You can use sexual energy in other ways, like working out. You ever do no fap and go to the gym with all these Jezebels in their tight ass shorts, pokie nipples, etc. Jesus fuck you go full gorilla in your workout

>found a fwb
>lost virginity to her last month
>didnt bother calling her again cause I don't feel horny
whats wrong with me

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How do you feel about this?

>>40179847
This all started for me about 4 months ago, and it was an instant switch. Prior to October, I wanted to fuck all the time and would spank it 2 or 3 times a week. Then out of nowhere I just quit caring, and that's the part that has me freaked out.

I've never done test or any other sort of enhancer.

I guess best thing I can do is lock down the chick I'm seeing right now because we'll fuck 2 or 3 times in a 12 hour window. Sexually, we drive each other nuts and have a hard time keeping our hands off each other even in public. That's a good thing, right?

>>40179357
If I don't keep the works flowing regularly, my jizz gets all gloopy and yellow. Normally it's white and fairly easy to deal with. Plus, and this might just be me, I swear my dick is smaller and dryer when I don't do it. It makes me think that all the nofap nonsense is a conspiracy.

>>40179394
>>40179769
you guys have performance anxiety. stop fooling yourself, it's not about your low fat diet or fishoil, it's about what's going on in your head.

>>40179945
Yeah man if your libido is top with the girl you want then no prob. My libido started declining when i got back into lifting after 4 yrs break. Not only my libido has declined but my interest in women in general.

>>40180028
How to overcome?

>>40179912
Maybe she wasn't a good fuck

When I'm with someone I have to fuck every day

When I'm single I probably jack off like twice a week

>>40180039
You need someone who fills your mind. If you can think about performance you aren't thinking about the person you're fucking. If you aren't thinking about them then you're going to perform poorly because anxiety probably isn't a turn on for you.

Been on fin for a few months now, no libido or impotence signs at all. I may just be lucky (I have yet to check my t levels), but I can literally have back to back orgasms. I ejaculate, and I stay hard and don't go soft until I'm completely done. My erections last really really long. I'm almost 22, there's no way this will last, right?

>>40180084
Wtf is fin

>>40179937
i wanna achieve it? teach me the ways of the orgasm muscle

>>40180093
It's a prostate and hair loss drug.

>>40180110
>Prostate loss drug
Huh?

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>>40180106

>>40180120
>>40180110
finasteride, no?

Masterbating is an addiction. I'm 34 and married and I still try and do it once a day.

It's ruining my life

>>40180120
Separate. It's used for an enlarged prostate, or hair loss.
Your grandpa is probably on it.

>>40180133
Yes.

>>40180145
Then quit trying?

Married guy here.

Have sex at least once a day, sometimes twice

Truth is though is I gotta force myself. can a man truly have sex with the same woman every day for the rest of his life.

>>40180163
That's like asking a smack head to quit trying to to find his next high or a black person to quit trying to rob people

I've been to stressed lately to even get hard

>>40179328
32 everyday
on the weekends i get to dick my gf
sometimes on a single day i do her like 3~4 times, sometimes i want to do it again but muh dick is kill
>tfwdickiskill.ogg
so i squeze it in the base so i get hard to enough to get it inside then idk why its like magic it gets hard, my gf finds this amusing and tells me it feels good feeling how is growing inside her

>23 y/o
>Struggle with maintaining an erection enough for sex
>Haven't had morning wood since when I went nofap/noporn for a month
>Never had a wet dream
>Don't watch conventional "porn", but tricked myself into believing that pictures and gifs/webms don't count

But
>Still making gains in the gym
>Feel really healthy
>Diet is on point
>Workout for 1.5-2 hours, 4x a week. Play divegrass for 1 hour a week, roughly. Sedentary or walking the rest of the time
>Have most of the signs of decent testosterone levels

It frustrates me because it's not something you can control. You can't force an erection. Well, I can't anyway.

I also am seeing a girl who has a body, face, vag, everything like a girl I'd jack off to. Yet when it comes down to sex, I'm elsewhere. The foreplay is great but the actual dicking I'm completely numb to. It's probably mostly mental. Has anyone got over a similar thing? I'd be majorly grateful for some advice. Losing my patience over this shit

>>40179394
Either you´re gay or nervous or both

>>40180196
Are you telling me you're that far gone? Comparing yourself to degenerate crack heads and Africans. Shouldn't you feel a bit proud about yourself.

>>40180237
Definitely no homo. Fags make me puke. Even traps and cute twinks are repulsive

>>40180238
Like I say, it's an addiction and I've been at it for over 20 years. There are not places you can go to get help like crack heads have clinics and rehab

>>40180029
Huh, I hope that's not something I have to look forward to. If I wind up not seeing this chick anymore, I'm just gonna wind up one of them dudes on a Sears catalog front cover with a dog working on a '67 Mustang.

Then again, that sounds legit af.

Cheers, dude.

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greentext all this hot sex you seem to have pls

or a favourite story if you have one

I know /fit/ has to have good content if any board would

>>40180279
>>40180145
If fapping once a day has ruined your life you have bigger problems. Fapping is just your scapegoat.

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>>40180231
same situation for me m8.

though somewhat milder i guess. i get wet dreams and morning wood (not always) and i can get an erection easily enough during sex. condom is just the breaking point for me after a few runs and its pretty much impossible to cum with it

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>>40179328
>no libido for months; busy with work, no time to chase tail
>finally have sex; first time is ok, second time i'm horny as fuck, hard as a rock the entire time and get really into it
>1 week later libido still through the roof, masturbating 3-4 times a day.

I guess it's true then, you either use it or lose it lol.

I'm still waiting for my libido to plateau back to my normal, non horny state 1 week on.

>>40180121
>tfw my girl cums in seconds of putting it in her so no way in hell I will be able to try this properly

>>40180345
>mfw when I cum in seconds with a simple onahole

>>40180322
Its only once a day now. For many many years it was 3-4 times a day. It hasn't ruined my life because when youre single it doesnt really effect anything but when you're married it can hinder sexual performance a lot. All the years of self abuse have almost left my dick completely insensitive. I can't cum for my wife. That is the bit where it's ruining my life.

>>40179971
Your goop color is because of your diet. It shrivels up from constantly spanking it

>>40180319
I guess I'll post, since I thought of something immediately

>Met this girl on campus
>She fucking hates me
>Unironically deeply dislikes me. We've argued, I called her a bitch, called her vapid on Facebook and she unfriended me, etc.
>She's a pretty cute pale redhead, but also a religious zealot and incredibly self absorbed most of the time
>We end up going to the same party due to having overlapping groups of friends
>Play a semi-adult board game with rare heavily adult cards, on her turn she basically draws to give oral sex to the person opposite her
>It's me of course, or I wouldn't be saying this
>I go into the bedroom with her, she gives me an amazing blowjob while clearly hating it
>Cum in her mouth without warning, feelsgoodman, she sadly does not swallow
>She still hates me

>>40180568
>>She fucking hates me
>You discover later the girl actually love you
Ha, I had this one.

>>40180594
>doubt

She literally refuses to speak to me, I've tried to mend things

>>40180601
Mine would say aweful things on me on my back, always tried to start shit with me.

One day, she became the literal opposite, always trying to defend me, and to help me in anything.

>>40180601
Yandere?

I only know that word because of this site I swear.

>>40179328
might someone identify this lovely semen demon?

>>40179514
>>40179394
hey look it's this retard again and he didn't take any of the advice posted in the last threads he posted in

>>40180720
Kek this buttmad White Knight returns. None of those comments helped. People in this thread were actually helpful. Please fuck off

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>>40180695
Google search the bitch.

>>40180779
Why did you post this? You're literally asking for faggots to come and post that cancer

>>40180319
>be me
>going to night class
>arrive too early
>stand out in hallway waiting for watercolor instructor
>only one other person there
>freshman girl
>olive skin and huge butt
>we hit it off instantly and supernaturally
>less than ten minutes after meeting her
>we go off to a remote bathroom
>destroy her doggystyle
>creampie her
>slap her butt
>head to class
>later dated a while and she's a nymphomaniac

>>40179622
is this legit?

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>>40180801
What cancer?

>>40180568
Stuff that you make up right in the spot.

>>40180568
>>40180846
daydreaming while riding the bus on the way to your min wage dead end service job

- the post

>>40180779
Whaaaat why would you wear jeans that way. That's just silly.

>tfw I browse YLYL threads along with porn on /gif/ and now associate humor with sex and vice versa.

>>40180231
Attraction is more than physical anon, like oldfag said, if you can't get it up for a girl, your subconscious is telling you shes not right for you

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>>40180319

this happened last year. I don't have a greentext for you but it was p. cool

>>40181082
Story anyways

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>>40179738
>literal virgin thinks he knows what he's talking about

kek
Maybe try to lose your virginity first before talking about this stuff, huh buddy?

>>40180319
>go swimming with two girls when im 15
>one asks me to rub her legs with suncream
>do so, but also cover her ass cheeks and touch her pussy in front of her friend
>she shakes away and turns red and says "not here"
>her friend is closely watching us the whole time
>stand up, take her hand and go to the restrooms with her
>bang her raw (fucking teenagers) and come in her mouth

one of my sweetest childhood memories

>>40179587

i'm not OP but i've had thoughts about this before, but i brushed them off as broscience.

to anyone who has tried viagra or cialis or anything like that: is it true? can you take it once then have long-term positive mental gains? or do you get reliant on it, since i assume a regular boner is nothing compared to a viagra/cialis boner

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>>40181256
>If it was me I would just assume "don't touch me here".

>>40181082

this definitely happened

>>40179328
31
1-3 times daily, but I almost never get random boners if I don't fap

>>40181209
Sure m8, love your projection

>>40181150
reeeeeeee fine
two degenerate rawr xD high school grills invited me over and we had sex then went out for food then had more sex for like a whole night

>>40181346
Are you autistic

>18
>Only twice a week to raise test

>>40181256
Congratulations, you just give me a boner.

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>>40181256
>>40181082

>>40180319
I got a sympathy blowjob from a trap/femboy once. It was mind-shatteringly good, but he told me later that I am too swole for him to actually be interested in me because he likes thinness. So being /fit/ has so far just taken opportunities away from me.

>>40181082
isnt this the one where the guy gets a girl preggers because the girl wanted a kid?

>>40181283

s-someone please

>>40181414
>18
>2x a week

I hope you're having sex as well because otherwise you're probably low T.

>>40181581
>>40181581
It depends on your personal issue.

I had erectile dysfunction anxiety, in that I was so worried about not getting an erection I would not get an erection. Taking a viagra fixed this, then I didn't need another as I was more confident with chicks and lost the fear of erectile dysfunction.

>>40179328
Bout once in a month, don't feel urges to do more often. Am I low test? I'm 20 btw.

>>40179357
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>>40181602

This sounds like a good idea. I have the same issue as you, and sometimes I'll get an erection then go soft quickly and be unable to get it back.

Does the viagra help with stamina too? Sometimes I can barely go two minutes of actual intercourse

>>40181642
what even is this meme lmao

>>40181627
Yep

>>40181283
>>40181581

Yes it is true, and yes you can get reliant on them if you manage it wrong. I've been there and will describe what happened, hoping that you learn from my mistakes.

I'm not an anxious person but I had severe anxiety when about to have sex, obviously resulting in ED. As I'm social and handsome, this happens often enough, so I got disappointed quite a few times.
When I couldn't take anymore I did exactly that - got some viagra (started at 50mg I think), had some AWESOME fucking sessions, to the point that when I had sex without viagra I got very anxious again because it was nothing in comparison. Soon enough the ED was back, and that's what I did wrong. You have to focus on dodging that.
Later I started using 25mg viagra again, but this time I was 100% focused on fixing my issues and breaking that mental barrier - after all I totally knew that when you don't have physical issues, getting it up is a matter of concentration, not being anxious and being immersed in the moment. And this time it worked - after a few times having sex on 25mg viagra I dropped it and now I can fuck normally.

I guess my advice is:
>check if you have physical problems with your erection
>if yes, fix them
>if not, it's all about your mind
>focus on immersion, enjoying yourselves and getting rid of anxiety
>do use dick pills if you feel the need, but for a few times only, and with the right mindset, so you can learn how to "walk on your own"

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>>40179394
You could try putting a plastic bag over your head and waiting for the inevitable to set it.

Not only do you have a low test dead dick, you blame your problems on other people like a moron.

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>>40181574
yes it is, i thought i had the screencap but i guess i forgot to save it

>>40179415
Blue balls is a legitimate medical condition.

>>40181663

so if it's my first time using one should i just break a 50mg tab in half. I hear pornstars just nibble on a tab always and you don't need any more than that. the whole 50 or 100mg is probably for old ass senior citizens i'm assuming

>>40179598
I'm curious as well, how long is each session and how often do you need to do it? And is it risky if done the wrong way like jelqing?

>>40179502
Source on your claim?

Lots of /r9k/ types spend two hours a day fapping to dragon insemination porn

Im sure those guys are just super 'high test'/high libido

>>40181627
Uh huh.

>>40181678
fuck i've been here for too long.

>>40179328
My problem is I don't believe anyone would ever be attracted and want to fuck me, so when they act like they do I have to assume they have some alternate motive. As a result, everyone I ever slept with - and there weren't many - I heavily suspected they just did it out of pity, out of boredom or out of routine.

I'm a very lonely person.

>>40181687
it doesn't work
unless you're like 3 inches, stop being insecure about your dick

I'm 26 going on 27 and I'm in pretty good shape, my typical daily routine is this
>come home and masturbate
>workout
>masturbate again when I get home
>eat and get everything ready for the next day
>go to bed and masturbate

I get laid pretty frequently to

>>40180231
Not normal for 23.

Go see your doctor.

Maybe you are getting out too much of your enegry and frustration at the gym, and when you are with her you are in your post lift haze, not really horny anymore, etc....

I tried taking some zinc every second day. Makes you really horny and gives you massive loads.

>>40181699
Are you implying libido is connected to being or not being a loser?

>>40181694
Porn desensitizes you to "real women" and instead leads you to only get aroused by hyper sexual porn stars. plus most dudes jack off with a death grip that's far tighter and rougher than any vag/mouth, so if/when they do get with a woman irl, their dick is not able to satisfied by what she has to offer

>>40181659
Fug

>>40181832

i've been no porn, no fap, not even touching my dick except for when i shower and clean it for a few weeks now. hoping to go noporn for the rest of my life, trying to not even look at sexual pictures or anything. definitely deathgripped and watched too much perfect pawg porn for years and it fucked my shit up, now i want to reverse it

28 and I've seen a noticeable drop in my libido in the last few years. Only have sex two or three times a week now.

>>40181686
Well, the effect on 50mg is CLEARLY much stronger than on 25mg. Viagra makes your dick hard, reduces refractory period (awesome), and makes you last longer (through a mechanism that I only figured out recently and you can mimic it when not on viagra).
But, as you said
>>40181646
>sometimes I'll get an erection then go soft quickly and be unable to get it back
>Does the viagra help with stamina too? Sometimes I can barely go two minutes of actual intercourse
I assume you can have some sex, but poorly enough that makes you very uncomfortable, so yeah, 25mg (half a tab) should be good to get it going. I'd only recommend 50mg if you couldn't even pump 1ml of blood to your dick because of severe anxiety, like what I experienced at first.

But do know some things:

>dick pills CAN make you even more anxious
Know it beforehand so you can get in a relaxed mood and truly believe you will have an awesome time, letting your body AND the pill work
>the first time you have sex when you stop using them can make you anxious
It's some weight you will have to carry on your first steps on the road to awesome sex
>never forget focusing on having a good time, enjoying your woman and yourself, being aroused by the situation
That level of immersion is what makes you get rid of anxiety and not need pills anymore, like me now
>do cardio
Yes, do cardio, some HIIT days plus one or two long duration days a week to improve your conditioning. It makes everything so much better, and once you build up some conditioning you just have to mantain it.

>>40181525
desperation

>>40179598
>>40181687
https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/25809129
https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/18990153

Not the product you linked I guess but "penis pumps" seem to work a bit.

26
1-4 times a day

>>40179328
>18
>Used to do it like once or twice a week, ever since lifting I have been needing to do it 1-2 times a day.
Its sad, I used to be able to do it and not want to have a gf anymore, now its not enough..

>>40181908
>(through a mechanism that I only figured out recently and you can mimic it when not on viagra).

what did you mean by this. thanks for the advice btw

>>40181832
this

Stopped using a death grip and am trying to get the mental idea out of my head that every sex session needs to be super hyper fucking like a rabbit in fucked up positions

>>40179593
This

>>40181060

I can't get it up for any girl, bar one prostitute. She's great (her, not the hooker)

>>40181765

Yeah am probably gonna bite the bullet and see my doctor. What you said could be right, I'm used to working in construction doing manual labour all day, so I thought I'd have enough energy for a lot of volume. Might up my zma intake. Cheers bro

20

I get the urge to beat off several times a day unless im busy literally all day. I dont get morning wood but i can get a boner extremely easily in the morning and it lasts for hours

>>40179629
Sound like sugar abuse.

>>40182095

and a follow up question, does it just dull the sensation while you're on viagra or what

why do I ejaculate at night if I don't spank it for a week? How can I stop this?

>>40182595

it's natural dude. if you go long enough without touching your dick you're gonna at least prcum while you sleep, maybe straight up cum. i've never came like a full load though otherwise my underwear would be a mess. it's usually just a little bit. and i dunno why you'd wanna stop it. it's not like it counts against nofap or noporn or something. you're not actively trying to cum

>>40182595
natural. It's just wet dream.

>>40182595
nocturnal ejaculation and "wet dreams" are your bodies way of disposing of dead semen. it needs to come out and so if the autist isn't willing to masturbate like nature prescribes then your body will force it out.

i haven't had sex in 6 years

>>40182647
just fuck an uggo.

>>40182662

i have too much pride for that, but also too much time has been lost, my youth wasted, just gonna off myself

>>40182627
>autist isn't willing to masturbate like nature prescribes
Quality bait

>everyone complaining about desensitized dicks from porn and not being able to stay hard

ok you guys am I fucked up? I am constantly struggling to last long enough. like, once I start having sex, I'm usually cumming in like 2 minutes and then I have to take a 5 minute break before I can even continue, and then cum in 3 minutes the second time.

if I stop watching porn, I get REALLY on edge and will cum in my gf in like 20 seconds.

she is hot but not "porn star hot" so I don't get it. I've actively tried to desensitize myself using death grip, only fapping to really sexy porn etc, but it doesn't work. it only made me desensitized to porn.

what do I do? I'm not worried about pleasing my gf bc eating her out is easy enough. but its kind of disappointing when I just want to bang her so bad but its over so fast and I feel like it was nothing

>>40182818

don't be dumb. go no porn for life, this includes anything that turns you on including pics. go no fap too. fuck your gf as much as possible, that's your training. you'll get over the hump and get better at it

>>40181682
not the way you think it is.

When you are healthy the liquid seaman in your prostate recycles it densest just build until you explode.

pain from"blue balls" is rare and uncommon.

>>40182575
No, it does not
But the longer you fuck, the less you feel, be it on viagra or not

>>40182903

so the danger is cumming at the beginning of the sex, and if you get past that you're still hard but it;s more difficult to cum?

sounds kind of unenjoyable but i guess it's better than going soft quickly or not cumming or something

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half year ago fap 2 times in a day

now
18
1 in week

feels better. now trying delete fap from my life forever

>>40182697
It's not bait you brainwashed autist

>>40182982
Now that I see you I have to agree and wish your parents just followed your advice.

>>40183020
Haha

>>40182818

Slow down. Don't squeeze your glutes. Breathe.

Find a good position that lets you control things better (ie. doggy and rather than thrust, pull her).

>>40183052
>Don't squeeze your glutes

what's the layman's explanation behind this. in certain positions i unconsciously do it, maybe all positions.

how does not squeezing your glutes help you last longer

>>40181855
im just getting on the nofap train, or atleast not as often and not nearly as tight of a grip. stopped watching hardcore porn too, so that's nice to not be thinking about.

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>>40180871
*~BBBRAAAAAAAAAAAAAAP~**

>>40182697
Nature prescribes fapping once a week with only your hand. Anything more is bad for you

>>40183099
she needs to do some squats thers no glute development in that sack of fatt not mirin

also fapping is even worse and truly unnatural if you're cut. it's kinda natural if you're uncut. if you're cut you either need lube or you have to deathgrip to get any fapping movement going

if you're cut, my suggestion is immediately go nofap, no porn, no anything. don't look at anything sexual, don't touch your dick. the only think you can do is fuck/have girls touch it

>>40179570
Are you me?

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No it's fucked.
>Very rare morning wood
>Very rare wet dreams
>fucking bitch ass gyno appeared in one nipple few months ago

>Used to fap 1-6 times a day from ages 13 to 18, nasty fetish porn
>Now 19 and fapping twice a week, noporn

>tho get random boners
>be pretty dominative in bed
>Want to fuck almost everyone, even some guys

I've always been worried about the morning erections and wet dreams, might get my test checked.

>>40183124
Fapping like I do is normal for most healthy lads our age. Don't be fooled by these NoFap weirdos; remember who we share this site with. Some of these people haven't even kissed a girl before 18, let alone had sex.

>>40183073

Honestly, I have no idea. I think maybe it affects your pc muscle (doesn't engage it or something). Too much tension in your pc muscle can be bad (which is why reverse kegels are also recommended).

You're probably unconsciously squeezing them pretty hard when you cum too.

Try figuring out better leg positioning and developing awareness of it.

>>40179394
Textbook performance anxiety.
Just get cialis

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Haven't had an orgasm since christmas. Was gonna do nofap through January, but I am starting to decide that I don't deserve an orgasm unless i can find a girl. 21 years old and virgin. Above average facial asthetics, 6'2 king of manlets and pretty /fit/ by normie standards, but man, autism is one hell of a drug.

23
10-16

19 erryday

>>40183044
What haha, it's your shitty advice in practice.

> 20
> haven't fapped in over a week because no privacy
Might have to go to a massage parlor at this rate because no gf.

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>>40180319
>Using Tinder like the good little sexually frustrated millennial I am
>Come across what appears to be a bot account >She's extremely hot so I swipe right anyway
>'It's a match'
>Sick bot gains achieved
>Few days go by
>'Bot' messages me
>She is obviously turned on that I'm in medical school
>Hmmm this doesn't seem like a bot
>She asks to get together sometime
>I agree, we end up going to get dinner
>Think I'm about to be robbed or doxxed or some shit
>She actually exists, and is incredible
>Literal 9.999/10
>Few dates go by, end up fucking her
>First time blow my load in max 10 pumps
>Feel like a massive chump
>Start jerking off before she comes over
>Smash her into the next dimension from here on out whenever we bang
>Feel like a stud for a while
>She eventually leaves me for another duder
>Was pretty cool while it lasted

What a self esteem boost that was. She was a fucking model from NYC, I don't know if I'll be able to top that.

>>40179394
Holy fuck dude you're an asshole. Fucking leave your gf or own up to your fucking shit and see a sex councillor and stop fucking wanking every hour.

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23

Like i do it once or twice a day, but i try to avoid whacking it in the mornings, it just makes me too relaxed to do anything. so night's are better.
or i make into a rotation, one day i do it and the next day i don't

now it's to the point which i can't have a good night's sleep without masturbating. if i really put my heart into it then i sleep like normal without having to fap it just takes effort now.

I also have to mention that i've had a mastectomy last week to finally rid the gynecomastia from my body for good.
the doc told me to keep off lifting for 4 weeks.

it's only been a week now and i've been so bored out of my mind. lifting was my remedy above all else from fapping and from flat out boredom.

>>40183410
>Haven't had an orgasm since christmas
I guess the stories people tell about Santa are true

>>40183410
it's not autism, you just suck at socializing.

quit playing the fucking victim and get a grip

>>40181344
He's not the one who can't fuck his gf tho

I masturbate maybe once a week. I'm not doing NoFap or anything like that, I just have no desire to masturbate anymore. Is there something wrong with me?

>>40183893
Suppose you're right. How do i do it? Feel lika a fatty knowingly eating himself to death, only socially.

What's a safe and comfortable condom brand? Never bought 'em and I need to.

>>40184459
get one that fits, all the common brands are tested and should be ok. But it's really important that it fits well. You can find out your size by measuring and looking online

>>40180961

Hol Up

>Smacks lips

Yoo, so u be sayin'

>claps loudly for 10 mins straight

so hol up nigga

>robs a walmart

so u be sayin

>fucks 10 white women out of marriages

dat we' all NUFFFIN IN LYFE!?

>shoots up the block, cops involved, hundreds die

damn niggga.........

>douses himself in malt liqa' and burns to crisp chicken

dat is summ' woke ahs' shieet ma niggaaaaa