Saturday night thread

>>40101412
Ate shitloads of kfc today... haven't lifted in days... feels are bad

>>40101412
lifted 6days this week

thinking of dipping my noodle into some lard
https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3534680/

>>40101513
Why haven't you lifted in days my man?

>tfw

>>40101528
laziness... work a lot

>>40101412
Pic needs work on her core

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Back on a six day a week split. Last day was today, Pull today.

Shrugged 300 for 4x10x8. Feelsgoodman.

Supposed to go out tonight but I kinda burned all my energy so idk may just stay in and watch horror flicks.

Really horny and I know my only chance of fixing that is trying to meet a girl at a bar, which Ive literally never done cause Im 25 and always pulled girls at college house parties. And Ive never used Tinder. Wish I could just hit on the qt3.4s at the gym.

Hoping I hear back from my job next week.
wereallgonnamakeit.jpg

>>40101412
>tfw you fail a set and the rest of the workout is ruined

>>40101885
no pic is 10/10 stfu

>>40105317
The only decent book in that stack is Lolita. The rest is pure garbage.

>>40101412
Playing league, got back lifting after taking a week off. Still pretty weak desu, ive been cutting and afraid to bulk and do actual strength training. Feels are good, found a qt3.14 who likes me for who i am, asked him out a few days ago. missing family, far away bc military but i know theyre proud of their closet homo.

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>>40101902
Eyyy gud gains anon
>mfw happiness

>>40101885
Fag

>>40105317
>>40101412
Is there a photo of her back view? ;_;

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I want to ask a girl out, but she's a friend's sister and I barely know her. How to proceed?

lifted yesterday. took a rest day today, gonna hit the gym tomorrow.

Feels are bad. Slowly awakening to the fact that everyone on this planet has deep emotional issues which in turn causes most of them to be very imperfect people.

Even if you find you a qt she gonna have some deep psychological issues.

I'm too picky and have no reason to be; I'm literally a 6.5/10 at best.

Fighting the fat cravings. The dorm is filled with the scent of fresh pizza, and my roommate invited me to come with her to Taco Bell. It was hard, but I stayed strong and declined.

>>40101412
Fuck buddy just left, thank God now I can play some League

Been making progress lifting.

Started slacking when remodeling my kitchen, ate a large pizza by myself in one sitting, several bottles of wine this week. Undoing my gains.

I'm good. Making good progress on squat and DL, not so much on upper body, but that's okay right now because squatting is my favorite. I really need to eat more, I'm getting there, but my stomach is a tiny piece of shit. I have a date tomorrow, and I'm excited, but haven't been able to get a real relationship over the last few years so my expectations are low.

Feels conflicted with this girl. We like each other and have loads of sex but she wants an open relationship. She wants to be all super close and lovey dovey with me, but i cant get any closer to her if she wants to be fucking around with other dudes, you know.

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>>40105673
Low expectations lead to happy surprises.
>>40105599
I know that feel, except I quit MOBAs.
>>40105619
Switch to whiskey bourbon or vodka my main man. Less carbs and sugars.
>>40105462
Dont get too redpilled there anon. As someone who has been in plenty of relationships, girls may all have flaws like men, but there have been plenty Ive been with who had no deep issues and were super chill. Then my own deep-seeded insanity drove them away.
>>40105387
thanksbruv
>>40105378
Thanks for your service anon

>>40105448
Ask your friend to introduce her to you?

Good lifting day today. I'm so close to benching 1pl8, which is almost my bodyweight.

Feels are ok, though I'm still fighting the urge to hop back on tinder.

Going to spend the next 2 hours or so making teriyaki and rice while reading my classics book

>>40105728
Drop her you cuck. She's already taking dick regardless of what you want to believe.

>>40105758
We've actually met once before and she was into me, but I feel weird asking someone to put me together with their sister or trying to contact a girl I've only met once through facebook

>>40105798
I know but i love her

>>40105836
>we like each other
>shes FWB maybe with other dudes
>JK i love her

M8 be honest, this the first girl youve had loads of good sex with?

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>>40101412
Honestly going through one of the roughest patches of my life. I've been diagnosed with really severe depression and anxiety, and it makes everyday day a struggle.

All that I have left in my control is lifting, it's the only thing that I can own without having to worry about panic attacks or wanting to harm myself. I've been seeing doctors and therapists to help me get through it, and I know I will. I love life, I love lifting and I love you guys and girls, but everyday is a struggle.

I don't know if there are other anons that are going through the same thing, but I want you to know that you're not alone. Every day is a fight to get through, but I don't want to stop fighting. I want to be able to look back 10 years from now and realize that I shouldn't have ever been so depressed and anxious because great things could be right around the corner.

Every day may be a struggle, but I won't stop
going forward. If there's an anon out there who's going through the same thing, just know that you're not alone. Just because your brain chemistry is messed up doesn't mean you're messed up. Have the strength and courage to get help so you can become a better person. I want that for you and everybody on this board. Be strong and lift everyday. It doesn't have to be a full workout, but get in some reps. Don't let your emotions keep you from being the best you can be. If you can't go to the gym, do some some push ups in your room. Do some body squats, just don't stop fighting for a better you.

Keep going and grinding day to day with me, and we'll make it through together.

i make a conscious decision to disregard my emotions, and now people respect me more and i feel more confident.

the other day though i got a rush of anger from doing basically nothing. i took a walk to cool down and i was just freaking out almost crying. idk mayn

>>40105888
I got diagnosed at age 13.
By the time I was 16 I had spent 14 months in a combination of psych ward, wilderness program, and therapeutic boarding school (rehab)

Did lots of drugs and destructive shit.

I still deal with depression, but I quit SSRIs after about 6 years. I truly believe its easier to stay happy with proper and regular exercise and diet, combined with hard mental work, and surrounding yourself with good people even if you prefer to be alone.

A stable relationship with your family and a GF helps, but isnt necessary (at least the GF)

>>40105888
>All that I have left in my control is lifting,
Then you better hold the fuck onto it until you're strong enough to lift yourself out of it.

>>40105923
I hope you're doing well dude. This is something that I've never experienced before and it really is scary to me. But I'm doing my best to try and stay positive and keep in contact with my friends and family. I'm going to keep working to find the best way to cope with this. I wish you the best man, stay strong and keep going.

>>How ya doing
Feel a little weird, talking about maturity with a few of my co-workers, one is a retiree that's working because he is just bored and the other slightly younger than I am. It put things into perspective considering where I am at in Life
>>How's your lifting going
Just started back up after not having lifted since May 2015
>>How are you handling your feels
Trying to figure out if I should fuck and/or date the cashier at work even though I'm in training to become a manger. She seems like a nice woman but I can't bring myself to do it since we both work together and how because of how things worked out after fucking almost all the girls at my last job.

Sometimes I think I'm socially retarded, but then realize I just don't apply myself

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>>40105888
>>40105923
Use that lifting power to lift yourself out this shit man.

>>40105931
You better believe it. I hit a new deadlift PR today, and it was nice to have that moment of pride for myself. If wasn't a lot, only 300lbs, but it was a high point and I'm going to keep trying to find that high point every day.

>>40105970
I'm going to keep going man, and I hope that you get to where you want to be too.

I just want it to be February so I can start cutting. I'm sick of feeling flabby and I'm losing motivation to gym. I need to find a way to motivate myself to go in the morning. Any recommendations?

>>40105970
>>40105979
>>40105985
Keep busting those PRs and enjoying those euphoric moments. Many men go through a rut like this but not all are capable of getting out of it, and you sound fully capable. If/when you have a child, you'll have a story to pass onward.

Sup anon

>How ya doing
Actually really well, just finished some finals and passed all my classes. Also started doing sound for a local church where there's a ton of QT3.14s
>How's your lifting going
Great too, I finally can do a full set of ten of 300lb deadlifts. I'm only 180.
>How are you handling your feels
Pretty well, I met this girl at the church who seems pretty awesome. I think she's into me so we'll see how things go tomorrow. She's the lead singer of the church band and I gotta make sure she sounds good on stage.

Not handling my feels too well, Anon.

GF is out with her friends tonight, and I'm not there because I'm in a city 200 miles away on business until tomorrow. I trust her, but I don't trust the males in the vicinity.

I saw myself in the mirror tonight before I took a shower and almost had an actual breakdown because of how absolutely disgusted I am in my body. The worst part is I'm fit by Borneo standards, but I can't escape the mentality of being absolutely repulsive.

I just want it to be February so I can start a cycle.

>>40106005
Thanks man. I truly do appreciate the encouragement.

I feel like shit. I thought quitting weed would make my life better and have a sense of clarity, but I feel like shit.

>>40101412
Working at my cushy office job. Not really high paying but I'm used to being a minimum wage outdoor janitor so its gold compared to that.

Alright, face is a little ichy lately.

It's not. Cutting atm.

My four-year relationship ended two weeks ago.
Feels swinging between loneliness and emotional numbness.
Makes my cut easier, feeling less hungry since.
Its messing up my sleep so I might buy a melatonin supplement after my shift ends.

>>40106062
borneo?

>>40106111
What?

Also nice trips

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Hit my first weight loss goal this week, 80 pounds gone. 50 more to go.

>>40106075
Your brain is just rewiring itself man, it was used to THC, but it's not getting it anymore. Just keep that mental discipline going and don't cave. You can do it dude, you're stronger than your cravings.

>>40106147
>>40106111
Never mind. Went back and re read. It should say "by normie" but autocorrect fucked me again.

>>40105970
>135 lbs

Yeah mega manlet or DYEL as fuck.

I CANT HAVE SEX BECAUSE I HAVE A FAULTY DICK FUCK THIS SHIT WHAT'S THE POINT IF I CANT EVEN HAVE SEX

>>40105888
Keep working hard. You're gonna make it.

>>40105339
>Coetzee
>garbage
kys my man

>>40105857
Yup

>>40106152
Dump fycking pig

>>40106860

I'm a fireman. But hey, whatever.

>>40106883
Oh. Accept my apologu oleas

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>squat form is still garbage and I actually toppled over today because I can't go too deep

Nothing defeats my spirits like leg day

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Hey, /Fit/izens

The guy who takes care of his elderly parents here.

I have a *potential* meeting with investors on Thursday. My little agriculture concern might get investors soon!

I hope you're all well and I hope M*** sees this.

Still hitting my local gym 5 days a week but I've been insanely busy trying to make a few dollars everyday to afford to print my business plan and go to conferences to get this little biz off the ground, so I haven't been posting much lately (and I can't afford Internet at home, so I need to use my gym's Internet or the local McDonald's Internet to post).

Be well, everyone.

>>40101412
>Sup anon
hey
>How ya doing
awful
>How's your lifting going
its ight
>How are you handling your feels
catastrophically

>>40107043
:(

>>40105836
what a cucked bitch

Have you ever been some girls 2nd choice with her telling you she doesn't want you to be that?

>>40107413

Yeah. She's lying. She just doesn't want to be the 'bad guy'

>>40107431
Hm she has proven to me and more importantly to herself that some of her words have some truth to them also she's called me in the middle of the night talking to me for hours dunno man

>>40105836
Can I axe you a question? How my cum taste in her mouth when she kisses you?

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>>40101412
>proudly showing off a stack of books an average freshman in highschool would read

awful

>>40101412
I'm weirdly OK. Work sucks, but today it sucked a little less. Had exams yesterday, and I think I failed them again. I'm actually really upset about them, since they threw us a few curveballs that we were led to believe wouldnt be on the test, or were just outright not in the course. Trying not to think about it.


I had to pause lifting for a week for them, but tomorrow I'm going back. i'm trying our the 20rep squat thingie, and making decent progress. Really fun. Plus I'm making chainmaille as a fun project, and I'm finally getting somewhere with that.

>>40107437
>she's called me in the middle of the night talking to me for hours
If she does this but isn't willing to try a relationship then she's just stringing you along as a backup plan. Move on.

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>Last night my housemate had his gf over
>I could smell her perfume
>I realized that I recognized it
>I had hooked up with a girl who wore that perfume
>But I couldn't remember which one

>I have been with many many girls over the past year and a half of being single
>I realized that my relationships with girls is actually very unhealthy
>I have a reputation for being a man-slut

>I'm currently talking to a girl outside all my social circles
>She is special
>I want to do right by her
>But I'm worried that she'll find out what I'm actually like
>Or worse, that I'll hurt her because of my nature

>>40107437
Things like talking on the phone mean nothing to females. My current gf currently leads on about 5 other dudes and does this all the time to keep them hopeful of a relationship, so they continue to buy her (and me) stuff we need around the house.

>>40109670
you're gettin cucked breh

Life is horrible
>24 years old
>student at uni
>totally broke
>gf and me broke up two weeks ago
>found out I have an autoimmune disease this thursday
Life is shit

I dropped molly for the first time and jesus this is amazing, I suddenly understand
It's like being drunk minus the mindlag

>>40109704
>having regular sex
>paid my phone bill and car insurance with another dude's money the past 4 months
>havent paid for my own groceries in that time either

I don't even care, to be honest. From an economic standpoint it is well worth it.

>>40101412
>How ya doing
Shit

>How's your lifting going
Shambles

>How are you handling your feels
I had to sit down and reevaluate my life over the past couple of weeks. I already work about 50h a week (this is including the overtime) and I will be going for my professional certifications so lifting will be going on the backburner.

Couple that with the fact that I have a pretty crappy social life and I can't get myself to do Sheiko or anything apart from 3 days per week, 1h most. I will fix up my career for the next two years along with my social life. When I am content with them, I will see what I will do with lifting.

Sorry for the incoherent writing, I am feeling very shitty today.

>>40109794
You dropped molly and you feel drunk? Its either just barely started to come on, and you're in for the real spectacle very shortly, or you've been had and were sold something else.

>>40109819
I'm coming down now, the mid rush was great
If this shit didn't poke holes in my brain, I'd take it almost every weekend

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>love lifting
>remember im a 25yo virgin
>want to kys
what do

>>40101412
Always see this same pic and always wondered who is the chick in op pic?

Wife and I are divorcing. I am all alone in this world. But at least I am getting my gains.

We are all going to make it bros.

>>40110126
Buy a prostitute if sex is important to you but autism is stronger. Get the primal needs for contact met without all the hassle.

>>40110215
It's just scary mane.
I was dating this cute girl last september, and she clearly told me she wanted to have sex with me, and i said no because i was just too scared to be really bad at it.
Naturally she dumped me and went insane.
Endless circle.

>>40110262
A prostitute doesn't care if you're bad it. Many will guide you through it even if you're that clueless. Make sure though that you are clean, not a pos and most of all pay well. Otherwise it will suck.

>>40110262
Mate, sex is easy as fuck. In out in out. If you cum quick just say its cos yr rly pretty gurl

>>40110144
Yeah been lurking this board forever and always wondered who the girl in the pic is, because I always see it.

>>40105734
You're awesome.

>tfw finished first week
>tfw lost a pound

Feels good. The lifestyle changes are hard, but sustainable.

>>40110481
Congratulations, now never stop.

>>40110679
I won't. I'm in it for the long haul. It feels really good to not be shitting as much. I think that's my favorite part of this whole ordeal.

>>40101412
>tfw this pic kinda reminds me of you
>tfw i want to text with you
you're fucking me up inside somehow

>go to gym with friend
>see him shirtless and ask him why he's so small
>"have you heard of a thing called genetics? i eat 3 meals a day and cant gain weight"
fucking dyel

>>40110937
Bruh who the girl in the pic though is the question?

>>40105339

>1984
>garbage

Negro please it's the perfect depiction of totalitarism oppression and the struggles of individual resistance

Kys

Hey i got a question. Ive been lifting for a couple of months and started prolonging my sessions once i saw results. But now it feels acidy in my muscles. Is this normal or should a take a day or two brake?

>>40101412
Shit.
Shit.
Shit.

Stalled on progress after 10 months of fullbody.
switched to PHUL, my back hurts.

Life is shit, dropped out of uni, got a shitty part time job, still a kissless virgin with no hope of ever not being one

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>>40105888
Tomorrow is my birthday and this year has been my worst yet, like any year was before it.
never been diagnosed, but after one meeting with a mental coach for a sport I was doing (it was the "hip" thing to do) I was promptly urged to see a real phychologist.
I'm sure I've suffered from it for as long as I can remember, being a semi autistic kid didnt help as well

You are alone, you will die alone and everything that happens to you is a result of atoms colliding a certain way in space, something good might happen but more than likely it wont, if your life has been shit until now dont expect anything better

Can anyone tell me how to get over the feeling of jealousy?

Somewhere along the lines my gf began writing with more and more guys - people her age she met at work and so on.
Nowadays she is on her phone a LOT. Probably every 5 minutes, chatting with these fellas.
She also meets them every now and then - lately she wanted to meet "an old friend" while she was at my place and we planned on hitting the gym.

I know its normal for people to have friends and wanting to see them, wanting to chat with them through text and so on.
I don't suspect her to cheat on me at all, i am almost certain she doesn't. But it still bothers me, i hate the idea that she messages with guys all day and i can also feel the impact of it (less quality text, generally distracted by phone and overall less mentally there).

But I think it's me that is retarded here. I shouldn't feel jealousy or anything bad about these kind of things.
But how do i fix it ??

>>40106152
thanks for your service
congratulations

>>40111097
Where do you see 1984? I agree with the anon you're replying to but I'd put The Bell Jar on that list as well. The rest is neo-lit book club garbage.

>>40112774
My gf does the same but I trust her.

>>40112911
What about you? How many girls do you chat with? How many do you actively have in your phone?
If you meet a girl/woman at work/university/wherever, do you usually get her number to chat with her as friend?

>>40112911
>>40112774

You're both idiots. She's sucking their dicks at the minimum and giving up the puss at the max.

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>Decided to start a routine after Christmas
>Start feeling strong, decide to feel for my limits
>Begin setting up a routine
>Immediately get sick and can't do the routine

I just want to try to better myself

>>40112932
I chat with very few to none other than her. I have some who message me because i bartend and sometimes gjrls try to find me and add me on facebook so thats about it and my gf knows that. She thinks of her guy friends as brothers, doing anything with them is completely off the table.

And no i don´t need to get somebody´s number

>>40109802
what? so you're OK with the fact that you're whoring your GF out?
different strokes for different folks I guess, if you're a cuck then it's a WIN-WIN I suppose my man

>>40112977
I just don't understand why it mainly has to be guys. She chats / hangs out with more guys than girls.

I don't know, i just wish it wouldn't bother me, but it does.
People say "work on your self esteem" but i can't really find anything that i am unhappy with in life right now to fix.

Gotta get checked out by my doc. My gerd is acting up again and its killing my appetite. Ive lost 8 lbs this month but my lifts are still the same. Im struggling to eat even under maintenance but im hoping my doc can help me get the gains train back on track. Gonna try to make an appointment this week.

>>40112815

It's directly under Lolita, it's red

Also
>no To Kill a Mockingbird
>no Kafka

Breh

>>40101412

>How ya doing
OK I suppose
>How's your lifting going
Lifts are up but so is my weight, I want to loose a few lbs
>How are you handling your feels
Confused feels, recently got broken up with. I started fucking my ex's friend. My ex is now upset. I still have feelings for the ex...

>>40113046
Most women don't want to be friends with other women. They recognize that they're all basically out to get each other.
Instead of finding good close female friends they instead take the easy route and use men for companionship. Honestly that's a huge red flag for me. I wouldn't try to make her not talk to her male friends, but instead help her gain good female ones and slowly she'll faze them out. If that doesn't work I'd dump the bitch desu.

>>40113629
So you would not like you girlfriend to chat up guys all day too, or what?

You see, I just find the idea of my girlfriend laying it bed, ready to sleep, but chatting actively with some dude before actually doing so, really weird.
By actively chatting I mean like 20-30 minutes of back and forth texts.

Again, I don't expect anything sexual or whatsoever, but it still is awkward to me.

>>40113745
>You see, I just find the idea of my girlfriend laying it bed, ready to sleep, but chatting actively with some dude before actually doing so, really weird.
Because it is. Does she hide the screen from you?

>>40101412
>be 5 minutes ago
>be bored
>my two good friends moved away, not too far, still a pain in the ass to drive to and from in an evening
>ex gf lives like 5 minutes away
>called her to see if she wanted to hang out
>she seemed totally disinterested
>remember that she's a bitch
>still feel

>>40106075
are you me?

>>40106231
If you just have erectile dysfunction you can complain to your doctor and there's a chance he'll prescribe you test injections. I'm not on any gear myself but if I had an easy option for legit test from a professional I'd be sorely tempted.

Not good anon. Idk what to do with my life, I have no direction. My lifts are failing because I hardly workout that much anymore because of my shit job and depression. I think that answers how I'm handling my feels. Consider becoming an hero daily

>>40106941
Work on mobility brah. Mostly in hips and ankels. Do it before every workout for like 4 weeks and your gonna have that deep ass squat and feel it in all the right places.

>>40113789
Is it though?
I could hear hundreds of people screaming "lol its just a friend, its a good talk and he is fun and let her do it and you should work on your confidence if it bothers you", etc.

She doesn't hide the screen, no. It's mostly some banter, some talk about work, some talk about work, jokes, bla.
I don't even know, I actually never actively try reading it.

In person she has a very outgoing way of talking to these guys. It's always very laugh-intensive, very much banter, etc.
It's always borderline flirting in my eyes, i learned to flirt that way back in elementary school and if i wanted to flirt with a girl right now i would probably do it the same way.

But realistically, how else would you talk to friends?

Dude I'm all right.

Think I've hit the gym every day this week. Glutes sore as fuck, hammies a little sore, abs sore, we're half way there.

I don't give a fuck about a girl, about my life, about anything. I'm just fucking lifting weights and shit. I made it.

Friday was my birthday, only 2 of my friends remembered. I cried myself to sleep.

>>40113850
>Consider becoming an hero daily

Don't do it anon. I love you.

You have to find something to be passionate about. Writing, the environment, hamster breeding, or restoring old bicycles. Something you feel deep in your heart that also fires excitement in your brain. It will really help.

I just turned 38 and it took me all these years to find what I'm passionate for. I'll soon be doing it full time for a living. The money isn't great, but I don't care because I LOVE the idea of what I'm doing and what it will do for others.

You only have one life to live, don't fucking turn off the game before the next level.

>>40101412

>How ya doing

Stressed out and paranoid about things I shouldn't be stressed out or paranoid about.

I stood up a shitty job working for a psychopath of a boss and quit on spot when they tried to jerk me around with more unreasonable demands. They needed me more than I needed them and it felt so good to tell that bitch how I really felt.

>How's your lifting going

Not bad tbqh, was lifting with no real schedule but recently completed first week of SL 5x5. Feel prety good even though the weight is still quite low compared to what I would normally lift. Need to focus better on nutrition

>How are you handling your feels

Meh, i've been better but I have been a lot worse as well. The last month or two have been a bit rough but we're all going to make it brah

>>40113850
Tbh, set yourself a date to an hero. Mine is my 26.5 th age point, no reason it is that particular point. But I should note it is still a few years away.
It gives me comfort to feel I have the complete control. Meanwhile I try to perfect myself to leave at top condition and if I decide I could do more to be more perfect or life is worth living in the perfect condition I can still not go through with it

>>40109802
I dated a stripper for a while and had a similar situation going on. Felt fucking great to be the one cucking betas at first but then I realized the only reason I was in that position was my car, house, and looks. It was fun at first but a relationship with a vapid slut makes you feel like you're just using each other instead of actually caring about each other.

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>>40106231
same anon - feels pathetic desu men

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>>40101412
>How ya doing
Today I got a first offer for a PhD, yay. Hopefully, I will get some more in forthcoming weeks.

>How's your lifting going
P good, I started lifting 3 months ago and did not miss a single training so far.

>How are you handling your feels
In this year I started smalltalking to as many people as I can. It is getting easier and easier. The obvious thing that I've noticed only recently is that the most of conversations are based on a stack of anecdotes, and people are ok with them as long as they are well told. This is a kind of turning point for me, since I was always afraid of bothering people with my shit.
On the other hand it is already two months after a breakup and I keep thinking about my ex.

>>40112774
Had the same problem with my ex. Maybe even worse, since she friendzoned one of guys she has met on tinder and other one that some friend of her tried to match with her some time ago (both before we've started relationship), and was meeting them here and there and texting a lot. I didn't do anything about it besides lessening them in a subtle way when she was mentioning them and being condescending when we've met all together. Now I see that maybe I should've helped her make female friends and say her in a straight that she should cut these friendships (I was afraid back then that it'd mean for her that I have a low self-esteem, and in turn she'd cuck me). I don't know the details of your relationship but either do this or dump her, since if you have the same mindset as I did, then for sure you won't get over it.

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>>40101412
>all those normie books

Anyway, I've quit snus and it might be placebo, but I feel like I have a lot more energy now. Was a regular user for almost a year, also had tons of spare time which made me use more and more. That also kind of made my workouts pretty dull and I kept on doing the same exercises, with hardly any progress.

Also made some decent monetary gains over the past 4 months and getting my shit together in that regard.
Thats about it with the positive feels, though.

Met up with some friends on Saturday, who may or may not have tried their hands at matchmaking. At least it makes one wonder when you get invited to hang out at what seems dubiously like a double date with a woman, you've met before and everyone knows you took a liking to.

So I just ended up drinking as usual in any social situation, taking it all as one big joke. I'm also pretty sure I'm just being my typical selfish paranoid autistic self and overthinking it.

Still, overall I think I'm actually somewhat content. Things may be looking up, all thanks a relatively minor change.

>>40114553
The thing is - aren't like 99.9% of the girls that way?
What use of dumping her if literally everyone else acts and thinks the same way.

In these times everyone just is extremly extrovert, chatting up as many people as they can, being on their phones texting people all day and shit.

>>40114607
Idk anon, my previous gfs have had mostly female friends with some exceptions for a very long male friendships (like from highschool) that boiled down basically to writing each other nice comments on fb and ig, not writing to each other daily and before a sleep.

>>40101412
What's the fucking point of that image.

First she has shit literary taste, and secondly where the fuck is her ass, finally why is her feet so ugly

>>40114679
Nabokov, Carroll, Martel, Piath, Larsson, Coetzee are pretty solid authors famalam. I mean, I'd perfectly happy with a gf that is reading such a stack, rather than young adult pulp.

Been better.

Still a dyel but I managed to cut a decent amount of fat over the last few weeks. Never been serious about lifting or my health until very recently. It's nice seeing measurable progress for once in my life.

Dealing with some depression and anxiety as usual. Gf left me two months ago so been rougher than usual. Bitch keeps trying to contact me so its been annoying to deal with. I just want to move on and focus on myself. Lifting and this board has felt like a saving grace for me.

>>40109893
M8, it doesnt poke holes in your brain...thats a huge myth

It can fuck with your dopamine and seratonin

I'm finally getting back into lifting after being a degenerate alcoholic all last year.
>I have actually been an alcoholic for the last 3 years, but at least I lifted for the first 2

Also gonna try naltexone for reducing alcoholic urges and that other media that makes you sick if you drink. I am completely aware that I can't control myself anymore
>longest sober period in last 3 years was 3 days

>>40115527
I keep my fingers crossed for you anon.

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>bench 135
>squat 140

THIS SHOULD LITERALLY NOT BE POSSIBLE

WHAT IS WRONG WITH ME

>>40105888

Keep on it, man. Wish my roomie had your mindset. He's going through some shit and bad feels, but he takes no steps to get better.

I want to help him, but I don't know how when he doesn't try on his own.

I've been doing great, but I fucked up
>lost full ride scholarship (until fall sem) bc fucking lazy
>just trying to look for a job at the moment so I can save up money to travel in 2018
>still DYEL as fuck
That's about it

>>40117363
Traveling is a meme. All it's good for is wasting money and getting pictures to put on your instagram. Spend your money on something worthwhile, there's nothing out there worth seeing

>>40117380
>traveling is a meme
t. someone who has never traveled

>>40106152
>fireman
>burned the fat off
meme potential

>>40106941
Your femurs are probably too long. I have to sumo squat because mine are just as long as my torso.

>>40117380

Please tell me you don't actually believe this

>>40116998
>bench 225x5
>squat 215x5

Thank god my legs still look huge, I get more compliments on them than anything else.

Finally recovered from illness, back injury, got sleep schedule back on track, eating healthy, bursting with energy, so fitness is great. On the other hand, I have 0 hobbies since I stopped playing games. I read and workout, then go nuts for the rest of the day. At least school is starting up soon. Loneliness destroying me slowly, no idea how to gf. Only dated one girl for 1.5 months.

>>40117380
Piss off. My dream in life is to fly to Helsinki in 2019, visit family and my dead Uncle's war grave (talvisota), then sail a party boat to Tallinn to witness laulupidu first hand.

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>talking to girl from tinder
>i know, tinder blah blah but she seems pretty trad and she respects her parents and she doesn't seem degenerate at all
>talking for a couple weeks, everything going great
>start snapchatting
>her face looks a little chubbier than her tinder pics
>look at her FB profile
>she only looks good in pics from 2 years ago, no good pics now
>she wants to meet in a couple days

Brehs... I know I should have known, but what am I supposed to do now? Just drop all communication completely? Politely tell her to lose 20 lbs and come back? Go on the date and see what happens?

I don't wanna break her heart brehs but I don't wanna break the suspension in my truck either.

>>40117719
If you like her and want to date her and she looked good before then obviously she can look good again if she loses weight. I'd say go for it but do a lot of active shit together, get her in the gym, hike, eat well, etc. If she's in to all that then even better! Be the man you want to be, and lead by influence. If she is right she will follow suit.

Sick as shit for the third or fourth day now, I think it might be strep or tonsillitis or something, so my feels are bad because I can't lift when I'm sick so I'm pretty depressed

>>40117783
Get tested for strep at a minute clinic if you have insurance m8

if you don't, just ride it out. Get comfy as possible, eat soup, relax, play vidya.

>>40117821

That's what I'm doing, idk what getting tested would do though other than maybe antibiotics? Wish I had weed tho

I'm a 25 year old kissless virgin and I don't care about my virginity or not having a girlfriend at all.

I know how completely pathetic it is to be a virgin at my age. I understand that having a relationship has the whole "another person who loves you, companionship, etc" thing. But I feel like I should be one of the people constantly crying "tfw no gf" and hating women, but I don't. All i ever see about relationships from a guy's perspective, besides sex, is pain. the guy having to take initiative, do everything, pay for everything, getting upset at girls' mind games and jealousy, having to reject their friends to hang out with the girl, and how after a breakup the guy is usually pretty upset (crying about it to his family/friends/online/etc, following her on social media and seeing new guys she is dating and comparing himself to them, seeing her happiness and feeling bad, etc) for a while. meanwhile, the girl is usually onto the next guy within a week or two and doesnt give a shit about the guy.

I feel worse for seeing the guys who come on here to cry about their gf breaking up, or not having one, because it pains me to see my fellow guys in that position, being all messed up over a fucking girl. It's not worth getting upset over.

I even feel kinda bad if I happen to meander onto Reddit's gonewild board where hot ass girls post nude photos of themselves, and I see comment sections full of guys showering the girls with compliments and feel bad for them because it's like, why do you give these girls so much validation and boost their egos even more than they already are? it's not like they would ever give you a second look in real life

And i'm not trying to act like that whole "MGTOW" or "redpill" crap where women come to me and I refuse them all intentionally. No women approach me because I'm ugly as fuck, and I don't approach them.

Something is seriously wrong with me

>>40101885
um no.... no she doesn't

>>40101878
Stop making excuses, get in the gym

>>40117858
is this pasta? i think i've read this exact post before. either way i relate to this.

>>40113814
uh, i think they would give him viagra before needles and testosterone. and it would work better.

>>40117858
how come all the kissless virgins are 25? is it just one guy who spams every board all day or is that the magical age where people suddenly can't shut the fuck up about it?

jesus christ, go have sex you sperg. just get it over with. if you are seriously incapable of mating, you should just kill yourself. your genes were never destined to propagate anyway. you are a failure at being a human.

>>40101412
I can't lose weight and I'm going to die alone

I graduated from PF to a real gym today. Used an actual bench press instead of a smith machine. it's a bit scary and you have a big audience so i dont want to fuck up.

first week in a new apt after leaving my gf of ten years. not sure how i feel about that, but it's not bad.

been fucking this qt for a month now. on friday i had her lay on her back on a hotel bed with her head hanging off the edge while i stood on the floor, held her head, and throat fucked her. felt pretty good desu. then i emptied 8 days worth of /nofap/ right in her mouth. she loves that shit. i wish i was more excited about it tho.

>>40118532
im on a cut and when i moved my scale to another location, it calibrated ten pounds heavier than before.
> JUST
> don't buy a withings bluetooth. stupid crap.

>>40101412
I have jury duty this week so I'm anxious as fuck

>>40101412
I'm doing alright, i guess. Just got back from spending the weekend with friends which was a much needed break

Lifts are going well and im actually sticking to my gym schedule

Feels are kind of all over the place, broke up with my gf of two years a couple weeks ago because i lost feeling for her over the course of a few months and im not even entirely sure why, i've been trying to figure out why it's so hard for me to love, as corny as that sounds

>>40115192
do tell more

>>40117719
Change your plans with her from whatever they were into a hike or some other out doorsy activity you enjoy. If she can hack it, just keep doing it and she'll join you in the realm of the fit. If not, then you can point to being unable to share that interest as a reason instead of beating around the fatty bush.

>>40101412
I'd eat shit right as it was coming out from her asshole

>>40101885
She needs to work on her taste desu

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Last week I was out on a date someone and I just realized how fucked up it was. He was clearly trying to get me drunk, he lead me to some shady place and we started making out. I was into the whole thing and he wasn't forcing me or anything, but when I stated that I wanna go home, he didn't let me go right away, pulled me back many times and now I actually have bruises on both of my wrists. I was too drunk to freak out, but he actually did hurt me.

And he has kept pressuring me to sleep with him since. I'm not saying that he's some potential rapist or anything, but I just realized that I was dumb and too drunk and I should have taken better care of myself and never even got into that situation. He didn't actually do anything but I still feel a bit used and worthless at the moment. I also feel so stupid for not first even realizing that there was something wrong about the way he treated me in the first place.

I simply need to surround from dating life because I have met a lot of men who are pressuring me to sleep with them. I don't know man, maybe they can smell the weakness in me or something. And I guess that I'm a book example of someone with daddy issues and I don't even know how to fix it. So I guess I'll just focus on lifting, education and my friends and get a puppy or something.