So I found this on Reddit about kegels and it talks about to perform the exercise you should squeeze the muscle what feels like it's contracting your anus and if all stops the flow of pee.
Now I've always squeezed these muscles during sex or madturbation.
I have always found it ridiculously hard to cum.From sex and it can still take me 20-30mons from masterbatipn at times.
I used to think it was from over masterbating and the vagina just not feeling as yogurt espicaly when the girls soaking wet.
But I actually experienced my first time coming from supper slow sex a few weeks ago.
The girl was on top and she lifter her self so just the first inch of my peniss was in her and I gave the slowest strokes ever and came,I was amazed.
But still the girl was hot and we had sex about 20x over two weeks and I only came 5x and twice was basically from me helping my self with my hand.
I have a side chick who's coming back home in 5 weeks.Im
Going to abstain from women until then but when she cums I actually want to cum quicker,I want to be able to do it in 10mims like a normal person.
What can I do to help.
>TLDR
>I take ages to cum is it because I secretly do kegles
> maybe because porn/self loving
>Is there a cure.5 week deadline
??
When you cum your kegels alternate between tightening and relaxing. I've tried cumming with my kegels tightened but it is a real test of willpower and eventually the cum gets redirected into your bladder or something, but you still orgasm.
Your kegels must be fucking strong if you can keep them tightened throughout 20 mins of sex. I guess you can try to focus on relaxing them as you stroke your guy next time. Take it slowly, take deep breaths, relax.
Well the way I have always played with my self is by constantly tensing my penis and by tensing is what seems to make it actually feel good but like I said during sex I rarely cum and surprise to you all it becomes embrassing months into the relationship because the girls think there may be something wrong with them selves.
I really wish I was capeable of just having. Them 5 min quickies as well.sometimes Girls don't want to have sex with me say in the morning or something because they k ow it's going to last half hour.
>>40012516
mr olympia, movie star, governor and a fucking sex expert. is arnold GOAT?
So any tips on how I can cum faster besides stop fucking my hand and stop watching porn which is kind of hard.
Really it's just not normal the experience I had the other week sex constantly with a hot girl,I was getting hardons just looking st her clothes,feeling so horny fucking a girl who was just so into sex..yet I barely reached orgasim and yet she was getting 2-4 each time we fucked
>>40014552
Literally stop masturbating I was you, I stopped masturbating and eventually I even came prematurely once or twice when I was backed up. Was with my gf who knew what I was like so she took it as a compliment thank fuck.
it takes me a long time to cum also
do girls not enjoy long sex?
I fucked this girl for like 2 hours straight and came inside her
>>40012406
HOW THE FUCK IS THIS /FIT/ RELATED WHY ARE YOU ALL SO OBSESSED WITH YOUR OWN FUCKING PENISES?
Just admit you're gay, go suck some dick, and get back to lifting.
>>40014743
They love it but when someone loves you and you can not cum at all by ficking them then they obvs think isn't he attracted to me is there something wrong with me how do I please him etc etc
And ok I'll stop the porn..I just tried for 14 days but then woke up mid morning horny and had to break the cycle,that was Thursday I've done it 6x since then
>>40014758
Sexual fitness is pretty important to people who actually have sex.
holy shit I do this too and have the exact same problem wtf